So I was best friends with this guy for a year and then we started dating for a few months (I found out he had a crush on me for a long time) (I strongly regret dating him). He broke up with me because he "didnt like me anymore" and said he hadnt for 2 weeks, but 2 weeks before he got drunk and told me he loved me and that i was his everything (he normally isnt romantic at all) and the next morning he said he meant it. We never kissed, but we did hold hands and hug- so it was kind of pointless and stupid. He tried to talk it out with me but I ignored him for a while because I was mad and very confused- finally I did talk it out with him but I was still pissed. I guess I may have unconsciously flirted with him when we were hanging out the last time and it made him uncomfortable??? idk. So I let some of my friends send him annoying texts (I guess one of my friends made it seem very stalkerish...lol) and he thought they were all from me.. Apparently he was going through a bad place with his dads business not getting that great of business... and I thought he had cheated.... So I tried to call him a few months later of not talking to him and everything seemed fine and he had to go and said he would call me back... The next day i was in the E.R. and my mom was texting his mom about it. He never called me back. I found out my mom had texted him something suggesting I still liked him as more than a friend and his dad said that I annoyed my ex friend bc I had called him at 2am??? Which i never did... So now he thinks im stalkerish... Its been a couple of months and Ive been trying to get over it but I really miss him as my best friend because he was the only person i had ever fully opened myself up to and he was the best friend id ever had... I cant talk to him face to face bc he lives 45 mins away and we dont go to the same school anymore... We made a pact a long time ago we would stay friends if we broke up but obvi that didnt do anything... I just dont know what to do He was like a brother to me~ We just had a lot of miscommunication but I dont want to bother him/annoy the cr*p out of him anymore

I remember about 4 years ago when i was like 13 or so I would prank call sometimes and one day I recieved a call from a number I didnt know it wasnt from the area code I live in but I asnwered and they asked if i (Myname) was there I got scared so I said No and she said okay call me back when shes there i hung up and changed my number maybe it was the police?. :( It still bothers me till this day! I am so scared of owning a cell phone now because creepy stuff happens! Just recently someone texted me saying Ariah i said who is this and they said oh just a boy from your school and so i said ok who? and they wouldnt tell me! so i changed my number I dont give my number out to nobody now. I am seriously scared :'( Do you think I should calm down? I dont know I rather live with no phone now. I also want to change my name I feel uncomfortable I regret prank calling I was immature and stupid! I was young I swear thats something I regret soo much! Because someone called me private 4 years ago saying " ***** i know u were tlking **** i know you live in houston tx" So I know pissed someone off and after that I learned my lesson. :( I cnt live in peace now I swear i am such a nice shy girl but i am also paranoid and cant seem to move on. Yes this was in the past but it stillhaunts me should I just move on?

Why are people surprised when their relationship starts out as an affair then eventually once the newness wears off their spouse ends up cheating on them?

Trying to find out about this place, and found NOTHING, except they are included in several lists of free things to do. NO reviews, NO youtube videos showing where someone went there, nothing. Do they even exist? I don t want to waste my time once there on something non-existent. (I once went to a Russel Stover chocolate tour in Florida. Oh man, it was a waste of theirs and our time. I wonder if this is just like that???)

I would like to connect with you about your uncles, hoping we can exchange some information.

I am a married woman. I never felt feelings for another girl before but once while out at a club dancing with some girls (my husband was with me but is not much of a dancer so usually just watches). I dance with girls because I feel its wrong to dance with other men whether my husband Is with me or not and I wouldn't want to give a guy the wrong idea. I guess being heterosexual, I just assumed a girl would somehow know. Clearly I was naive because that night one did and attempted to make out with me. I backed off said "sorry I can't" and walked over to my husband who saw the whole thing. He had a smile on his face and said "why didn't you kiss her...you can if you want to. I think it's hot". He has made several hints since then about me being with another girl but I'm pretty sure he wants to be able to watch, and I'm not comfortable with that. Since then, I have been fantasizing about experimenting with girls a lot. Then Not long ago I met a girl who was a friend of a friend and we really hit it off. But lately we have been flirting a bit and dropping some subtle hints to eachother that we should hook up. I wouldn't want my husband to know if we did because A) It would feel too awkward with him watching. And B) he would assume everytime we hang out we'd be hooking up. Which wouldn't be the case. I 100% would never cheat with another man and wouldn't consider it at all with a woman if he didn't express interest about it to begin with. I feel really confused. Thoughts??

I've noticed something about people. We all have different strengths and weaknesses in life. Some we are simply born with, others we learn and work on. But whatever strength people have it's never quite enough. Take a regular girl for instance. To everyone she is gorgeous. But she will most likely never think she is pretty enough. Or my boyfriend for instance. He is without a doubt the most intelligent person I have ever met. He finished engineering when he was 19. Yes he is one of those brainiacs. He has traveled, backpacked all over the world and had an amazing life. Recently he got this great job at a mining company. Companies all over the world were fighting for him. You have any idea how brilliant you have to be for companies to fight over you, in this economy? He had 2-3 months of training and then his mentor at the company dies. He had to step up but he is not superman. He makes mistakes, he hasn't learned everything and he feels stupid, inadequate. He comes home sometimes and generally feels like an idiot. He, who finished engineering at a prestigious university at 19 feels like an idiot. That just baffles me. Why are people like this? Whatever strength they have it's never enough?

Back in 2013 I received a strange private call with a sad rap love song playing. I was not in a relationship at the time and haven't been even til now in 2015. These private calls persisted (w/o music) throughout 2014 but not as constant as early 2015 This year I would get a pattern of calls daily and all private. Then the funniest thing happened. I began having basic thoughts about someone I used to be close friends with. And now in mid 2015 I find myself constantly thinking of this person that I haven't spoken too and rarely seen in over 7 years. I can't get them out of my head like as crazy as it sounds buts its kinda killing me. Could it be that this person is thinking of me as well or what I'm lost I'd like to hear a variety of opinions I'm open minded so speak your mind. Thanks

My fiancé has primary custody of his 3 daughters, that I love as my own. I have always wanted to have or adopt a child. If his ex-wife wasn't in the picture, I think I could have easily just adopted the girls. I am a mother figure to them, but they won't call me mom. I don't get to take them to doctors visits, or to kindergarten on their first day of school. I do homework, but the ex-wife will get the parent teacher conferences. She'll get the mommy and me bonding time. My fiancés reasoning for not wanting a baby, is because he doesn't think he'll be able to have enough love for another baby. I think that reason sucks, and I don't know what to do. Ideas? Advice?

ok I've only had my butt eaten once by my ex boyfriend for like 5 seconds it was a accident he was eating me out but went too far down lol anyways my new boyfriend actually wants to bend me over and lick my bootyhole i was just wondering WHATS THE BEST WAY TO TOTALLY CLEAN IT??? (should i use body wash and a wash cloth or just baby wipes) AND IF HE KISSES ME AFTER WOULD I GET E COLI ????

He's 23 & I'm 38 & I feel very physically attracted to him. He's tall, broad shouldered & just has a handsome face and i can't help but fantasize. Girls around openly gawk at him. But don't have the confidence to talk to him. I feel the attraction might be mutual I've caught him checking out & staring at my Butt a few times and it turns me on when he specifically does it. I can tell he's a butt guy based on how he stares. Sadly I'm married & have two children. & I believe he may have a girlfriend I assume. I haven't told anyone, not even fellow girl friends because I feel ashamed about it. I wish I were a young girl again.

I seriously love my sister. We get along so well and never get in fights. But she's a bit....louder or more arrogant than me? When I tell her about people who seemed to be attracted to me, she starts saying stuff like "oh but you're so good at drawing, he's just your fan!" or "everyone feels good about helping the weak" (she doesn't say it that straight forwardly though) and she just denies anyone could be attracted to me. When I talk to her that I want cosmetic surgery, she acts all like yeah, maybe it could make you happier. We are non identical twins but still look a lot like each other, I just happen to be a bit unluckier than her or so she makes me feel. she can look just as ugly as I can in my opinion though. I consider others' feelings a little more than her I think... but yeah. I want to become more confident and she definitely isn't helping but she doesn't know how she's affecting my confidence!! I don't know how to bring this up without hurting her feelings ;(

Someone who's narrow-minded can't tolerate opinions of others, but what someone who can't tolerate someone having the right to do something? Such as their own choices. I can already think of a few words for it, but what's a word that specifically means that?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, we've spoken about having sex a few times and he doesn't seem ready. I want to have sex, but I don't want to pressure him. Is 3 years aong enough wait?

Se Exitan? O Que .. Porque Lo Hacen ? K Q Sienten ??

It's too late for any of my dreams to come true and my future is just a black hole of broken dreams and misery. Why shouldn't I just kill myself? The man that God meant for me to be with is married to the whore that stole him from me. I dream that he'll leave her but I know he won't. I dreamed of playing in a band, but I'm 34 now. So I'm too old. I love music so much, and the pain won't go away. I dreamed of a loving relationship but I lost my only chance at happiness. I don't think my ex bf will leave his wife and there aren't any decent men out there. I dreamed of having a career and I went to college and everything else, but here I am working as a supermarket checker. I don't have anything that makes my heart jump, or anything to believe in or look forward to. I've held out hope that a new hobby or person or career or town will come into my life but NOTHING is ever going to change! I would give anything to have something to get excited about and make my life worth living. For my friend, it's dancing. For my dad, it's surfing. For my ex bf, it's his career and marriage and the outdoors. I have nothing but a future as a bitter cashier. Why shouldn't I just kill myself? I can't handle being bored as a supermarket cashier. I am so bored at my job I'm on the verge of a breakdown. I want to do something cool and have something that makes life exciting. @shelovesdablues... excuse be but I think you a nerve to tell ME I'm immature. You have no idea what I've been through and you're probably not strong enough to deal with it. Or do you think you can talk down to me because you're married?

I had a rough childhood because I was constantly bullied, didn't it in and was never accepted by other kids because I was "weird" and "different." I can't pinpoint it, but I'm different from other people. In spite of all this I had hopes and dreams for the future that all the assholes and bullies would get their comeuppance and I would come out on top. The one thing that made me happy was music, and I got into a band and things finally started to come together. I had this dream that I would either be famous in a band, or I would wind up as a vet or a commercial artist, with an ordinary but rewarding life. I'm in despair because I'm 34 now and I've failed at life while all my peers have lovely homes, careers and families. I feel like I'm just destined to be a loser and that I'm powerless to control my success or failure. I'm the queen of the losers! I try and try to change my luck but nothing works. My last "relationship" was a guy who used me, and that was four years ago, now I'm no longer dateable because of my age. I live in a dead end town, barely any friends, and stuck in a dead end job as a supermarket checker. I went to college, learned Spanish and did all the "right" things. I apply and apply for better jobs and try to meet guys but doors just slam in my nose. I feel like I'm trapped in a nightmare... I have a future as a bitter checkout girl with no hopes of getting married or escaping this nightmare. The thing that's pushing me to a breakdown is that all the assholes who picked on me are the ones that went on to succeed in life. Am I just a loser? Sometimes I feel suicidal because I don't think I have the power to change, and that there's something wrong with me that will always keep me down. In spite of that, I am so scared to end my life. It would be so sad if I killed myself and then everything got better the day I was buried. What's wrong with me? Am I just stuck in a future as a bitter supermarket checkout girl? Am I powerless to make a change and be happy in life? I'm so sick of not getting anywhere with this adversity crap. A job that doesn't pay enough to live and is putting me in an early grave. I'd rather be homeless than work there

I came to Korea after marrying a korean man. I have 5 year old son and he is with his dad coz we are divorced... I quited my job and planned to go back to my country with my bf- he is from another country but we are too different. .. so we have just broke up. Now i am in foreign country -korea, 31 y.o , homeless, famililess, unemployed. ... Im too tired and hurt. Is it worth to live?

I'm 29yo,stuck in the bad job and really worried about my future.She is 26,has college degree and she's doing nothing to find a job,but always say she needs it.We are not very rich,and we can't even start our life together,or live properly without both of us getting a job.I am trying to improve myself,to find another job,work on my body,cause I let myself go..But I can't do a thing cause she is so depressed,she just wanna lay down,sleep entire day,not do a thing.I know she loves me very much,and I love her too,we come together a long time,passed a lot of difficulties,but she is not helping me,she's not helping herself. I'm worried for her, but I'm,as selfish as it may be,worried sick about myself.She says she wants best for me, trying to be as supportive, but I can't do a thing when she is just laying around and I'm bringing her food to bed.She has problems at home and she can't be so much there so she is almost all the time at my house.Time is passing by,I don't want to be a bad guy,but she is just slowing me down,and I love her very much,but she just don't listen to me.We always argue bout that,I'm trying to motivate her to make her move,do something...But I can't even get her to go for a walk without BIG TALK. I tried everything, motivation talk,million hugs,fight(verbal),but she just..Gave up..Even in this moment she is sleeping behind me,and I love to see her rest,those dreamy eyes,everything,but she is killing me.. slowly, killing us.. For too long.

How do you open your heart when you were not being loved by significant other and had no succes but series of disappointements? I would love to hear how YOU opened your heart after disapointements and how it ended and how did you do that

I'm 16, my mom & her bestfriends (elana & Dona) do Zumba everyday for about a year, there instructors. I'm very close with both of them, we have a family bond. I'm really close with Dona, she's always supported me & celebrated my birthday with me & home coming, she supports me through my setback of going blind & gaining my vision back. I love her a lot, she's always so sweet & loving to me, me, Dona, my mom & elana hangout everyday. Recently Dona got frustrated because she couldn't get the dance moves as quick enough like mom & elana; so she got mad at elana, Dona feels she doesn't deserve to be on stage. She hasn't come to Zumba in 3 weeks, she's mad. It's been sad, because she's overexagerating everything, we love her so much & have tried everything for her to come back but she's not. She hasn't been acting herself for a while & no one knows why.. 4 days ago I texted her "just wanted to say I love & miss you so much Dona! Been thinking about you lately, I hope your doing great!" She put "aw I love you & miss you too!😘😘😘" (I know she's serious when she says that because she's a very serious, reserved lady who RARLEY shows emotion) today she wasn't on my Facebook anymore, turns out she blocked me & my mom & Elena. Why'd she block me??? She even got her son to block mud & it hurt me so much.. I cried to my mom about it, I miss her so much & I want her to go back to herself, mom said she's probably going through something. Why would she block me?? I didn't do anything :(

I gonna lose it jus thanking bout it day after day night after night her husband is a dick so that another plus for me she gorgeous I told her that already they're was 1 night I was jus starring at her *** and she caught me lookin she laughed and I said my bad looks so good it's look like a mirror she said aww and startd blushing I've seen her **** and her *** to the **** are perfect and the *** is as well, hell I dnt thank her old mann treats her right either always runin the roads and when he comes back it ain't five minutes n he gone again, she jus dnt deserve that by no means.....l

So, My name is Gabe, and I have a little brother by the name of Ryan. I am a freshly minted 19 year old and my lil bro is 14 and a half, but gettin' tall! Okay, so I know the normal thing for brothers is being at times macho and ****, but our family has never been normal. Nor do we really care for 'normal' society standards, but I'm still curious for opinion. So, the other day Ryan had a bad day with our dad for getting an F in Math when he was supposed to be getting better for it. Apparently he hadn't studying like he was supposed to, and that upset our dad as well as Ryan. After being scolded he came to me in my bedroom and closed the door. I thought it weird until he explained he needed a hug like old times, and of course I said yes. We ended up cuddling for a bit, him tucked into my side with his head on my shoulder, just listening to the T.V I had on for background. Ryan and I have always gotten along pretty well, all things considered for the average siblings in the world. Sure, we'd fight but we're smart, we make up after talking it out reasonably and stuff. But I told my dad and mom this, but they said even though they don't mind it at all, they did warn me that people will think it REAL weird if I told them my bro and I still cuddle. So, I'm wondering, is it? I've been told before that what me and my brother have is familial/platonic love for each other and it was okay so long as we knew boundries. Is it weird for brothers to show some affection to eachother?

My bf and I started dating 6 month ago, after 1,5 month I looked at his phone while he was in the shower( I know it s not so good) he had added a lot of girls on Facebook and I saw that he had a tinder. He wrote to a couple of girls but it seemed very innocent and I assumed it was because we weren t so serious at that time. He moved to another country for a couple of month but we waited for each other and we re pretty serious now. He just got back to the country I live in but he started to seem a bit sad around me. He s really sweet and always tell me I m perfect and beautiful but I couldn t forget the tinder thing. Last night I couldn t find my phone so I called it by using his and I went to his messenger which isn t so good but I felt unsure. He s been writing a lot of girls but it s not sexual stuff but I think it s the same girls as the one on his tinder thing. He used a lot of emoji and seemed really excited when he talks to them he s not like that when he talks to me and usually only answers me with one word. I got hurt by it but I also feel bad for looking at his phone. When he was away he didn t really talk to me and he didn t answer me very well. Should I talk to him about it or ignore it?

It happen a couple months back when me and gf spilt up I jus needed someone to talk to and she was there she help me threw it...well few days passed by and she called me cryin n I notice her old man car wasn't there and he works 3rd to so I went down there..she told me her old man called her a worthless peace of **** slut skank probably already been with ever body in town n you got to be a sick person to do this but then she told me he basically jus rape her I got up gave her a hug I ain't never felt so bad in my life so I conforted her waited til she was asleep n left I caught her given me hints like when she was sweeping she bent down showed me her tittys she jus continued sweeping they was nice then like ten minutes after that we was wantin to play skip bo and she always wearing short shorts all of a suntin she stops I take a step back she bends over and all i could see was the lower part of her *** cheeks she smiled been talkin for a month then she jus stopped. Idk what I dne but yesterday I called her went down there and I left early cause they was somethin wrong with her I jus wonder if it was me..give me advice please idk what else to do..

I know I might sound like I've overacting but I'm nervous, scared, and sad to leave my parents for 1 week for vacation. I'm already 20 years old but I've never been separated from them for a week! I have a SUPER close relationship with them so I'm having a separation anxiety right now. I'm scared something not good might happen to them or to me. This vacation is supposed to be fun but I'm stressing over leaving them. I know it's only for a week but I'm so attached to them. What can I do to feel less nervous?

I got a job at this small diner last week and the other ladies who work there for like 10+ years introduced me to some of the 'regulars' on my first day of work. But there's this man (possibly late 50's-70 y/o?) he works at the truck repair place next door to the diner and he's a regular. I've talked to him a few times & he's very nice & funny but Idk just something about him makes me happy. Just so y'all know, I'm turning 15 on the 25th so this by NO means I have a "romantic crush" on him or anything nasty. It's more like I want him as some sort of father figure in my life. I mean, my dad is ok but he doesn't act like a father figure or someone I want to look up to. I get happy when I see this man when I go to work but it also makes me feel weird. Is this considered having "daddy issues" - did I use that term right? What's wrong with me for thinking this way? Tbh, I think I can look up to this man more than my own dad and it feels like he could protect me more than my dad could ever & it hurts to say that but there's just a lot of bad things that happened between my dad & I & he's really immature as well. I think I'm just trying to find a mature father figure but I don't think this is right, I'm getting way too attached to this old guy and I've only met him last week. What's your intake on this? (Also there are questions throughout this). It would mean a lot to me to receive kind answers. Thanks(: Btw: I put this in this category b/c I thought more ppl would answer.

Please tell me what she means by this song reminds her of me. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=K75A16HRdBY

Embarrassing so please don't make fun I need honest answers.

I told her don't break up with him If you really don't want him to die tell his parents so he can get help (He doesn't want anyone else to know) Omg what advice can I give her She doesn't like him anymore

I've had this dream three or four times since my boyfriend left for vacation two weeks ago, it's where I walk in on him and my mother engaged in sexual relations. him and my mother do get along but I know for a fact they aren't doing anything behind my back - I know for fact so don't even mention that it could be a possibility. but every time I have this dream I wake up upset and jealous and enraged. makes me feel like maybe he could do better, or wants better. makes me hate my mother. I'm only seventeen and I'm having dreams of my boyfriend boning my mother ? what the hell is this and what could it possibly mean ?

My mother asked me to ask this for her. She met a guy on a date site a few months ago and he claimed to be single. He seemed nice but my mom always thought he acted suspicious. Regardless, they kept dating. She texted him on his birthday and he got mad that she didn't call but instead texted. He told her he didn't want to talk to her. Surprised, my mom let it go but she texted him two weeks later and he texted back immediately. He said he was picking up his sons at the airport. He said he would see her when the sons go back home (they live out of state). My mom became suspicious because he said he "wouldn't call anyone" on his own volition while his sons were there. My mom decided to find the guy's Facebook. There she found a post in the results about some other woman excited to see this guy and referred to him as her boyfriend. My mom decided to message this woman to find info. To her amazement, this other woman claimed to be marrying this guy in 2 1/2 weeks. This guy completely lied to my mom about having another woman. The guy became completely irate and told this woman that he did not care about my mom but denied that my mom and him were intimate which they were. He went so far as to threaten my mom by saying "this is a dangerous coin to flip," threatened with supposed s** tapes and said he would "demolish her home until she begged." He had the nerve to tell my mom "to mind her business, how dare she destroy his "home" and "to walk away." My mom is upset right now

I'm 19, and I LOVE to cuddle! But I am a virgin and want to keep it until marriage. I just want a guy to hold me and hug me like a teddy bear, run his fingers through my hair, and scratch my back up and down and all over! Are there any guys who would do all that for a girl without wanting sex? There is a cute guy who I have been flirting with, who is also a virgin. Do you think he might want to do that if I invite him over for a cuddle date? When I was a little girl, I used to get a lot of affection like that from people, and now I miss it! :(

I need help really bad. So me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago and its been tuff on me. She left me for another guy. She was my first love and I treated her so good. I did all the small and big things for her. I gave her a promise ring and it was a really nice ring. I never treated her bad. Well she begged for me back and we meet up and she started acting weird saying she doesn't know what she wants and so I left. so then after that she begged for me back a second time and we meet up and she says were not compatible and starts acting weird again, so I left. So after that she begged for me again and so we meet up and this time we kiss and hug and she says she misses me. So after she left, she didn't really talk to me and I texted her saying I deserve better and she should not play games with me, she never texted me back after that. I ended up finding out she was still talking to that dude through instragram because she has his name in her bio, so I checked it again after a week and this time it said she was single. I guess my question is will she ever call or text me again? its bugging me every day I really loved this girl and I am trying to let her go. Its just really hard right now, I haven't talked to her in about three weeks. she even told me I was the best thing to ever happen to her the last time she begged for me back. so can you please help? I cut off all communication with her. I haven't said a word to her in three weeks

I don't like him and I know he doesn't like me because he doesn't give any signs other than being nervous when I'm near and not wanting to be close to me. But it's annoying how he'll look at every single person but me, when he sees me he just walks away in a different direction. When I'm somewhere he'll do anything he can to not be near me. I never did anything to him, so what is wrong with him?

Tengo 14 años mi prima también pero es mas grande por meses,llego una tia (Que no es mama de ella)y se quedo en la casa de mi prima,a los dos días llegaron a mi casa como alas 12:30,no se me hacia raro que viniera solo viene por mi WIFI ya que en su casa no tienen y pues no le doy mucha importancia,pero mi tia y mi mama se fueron a La Bodega (Es una tienda en Mexico):v bueno ellas se fueron menos mi prima ella dijo que se quedaría a mirar TV y yo estaba en mi cuarto VideoChateando con mi mejor amiga,llego mi prima a mi cuarto y me dijo que si podía pasar le dije que si,me empezó a hacer preguntas de sexo que mi primera vez asi para ese entonces era virgen,le pregunte y me dijo que ella también(Mi prima esta pues regular no esta tan buena pero me la tire)ella sonrio y solo me dio un beso de ahí no se ni como pero ya estaba sin calzones y sin blusa solo estaba con su brazier me bajo mi pantalón y me avento a la cama y me dio sexo oral como por 2 minutos y ade ahí se paro y se sento en mi pero solo me estaba calentando,por que tenia los bóxer arriba me los baje y le meti la punta y de ahí toda fue el mejor dia de todos ya que tenia muchas fantasias con ella,No usamos condon,ni terminamos por que me hablo mi mama por teléfono que ya iba a regresar en 20 minutos nos bañamos y en el baño me dio sexo oral xD creen que esta mal tener relaciones sexuales a los 14 años¡? ahora ya solo me acaricia el pene yo la beso y todo pero ya no quiere :c

First off, I'm not posting this to be nosy, I'm posting this because I'm highly suspicious of my new neighbors, who are renting the house next door. Also, this light is blindingly BRIGHT, the pic does not do it justice. It is shining into my window (even with blinds) and disturbing me (houses here are very close to each other, maybe less than 10 feet apart). Also, when I pulled up into my house they immediately turned off the bright blue light in the front of the house, but it's still shining in the back. They also turned the lights back on throughout the whole house.

what does "I hope you are ok" mean? And then she replied "And NO I'm not ok" What does this all mean? Sorry dumb question but please help answer. Thank you!

I met a guy on OkCupid. He lives a while from me so we have not yet met. It's been about 4 months. But he has never gotten my number so he's also never called me. He's never heard my voice. I asked him why he never gave it to me and he said "I don't know honestly. I'm just not a good texter". We use the Kik app to talk and he mentioned he uses it with other people too. He's getting ready to get a plan ticket soon to come see me so we can meet. But is this no number thing normal? Is he just being cautions?

Husband and I don't drink. Would it be too tacky to include a note with the invitation. Something like "we will provide limited alcohol, but we don't drink ; no alcoholic gifts please."

I was born shy and always been shy. When we are around his friends, I make an effort to talk to them but only when they talk to me. He always tells me that I'm so shy and antisocial and it hurts my feelings. I can't change the way I am. One time I told him if he doesn't accept the way I am, he should just divorce me. What should I tell him?

Okay, so I'm sixteen and I'm an androgynous, bisexual female. Growing up I always wished I'd had an older brother, though I have two older sisters and I'm very close with both. However, I often have very detailed fantasies (I guess you'd call them that) about a fictitious brother. And trust me, the idea of my sisters and I is repulsive. It's just a brother thing. Is there a reason for this? Am I just mental or is it just a warped desire to have a brother?

Sometimes when my dad gets drunk or frustrated he like. Takes his anger out on me. Today he slapped me because he was talking to me and apparently I was looking at him like he was stupid. I just have a resting ***** face. Sorry? And I didn't have a shirt on. Just a bra and jacket because I was waiting on my mom to help me with a couple pimples on my back and he told me to take the dog out and I said "ok hold on a second" and walked to my room to get a tshirt and he started storming towards me like he was going to hit me so I dashed out the back door. This happens a lot. I've only fought back once. Sometimes he just hits me for no reason. Is this considered abuse? Yes or no. I don't need smart a** comments.

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months and were at a point in our relationship where it gets sexual. Sometimes i do wanna have sex but when i dont he would force himself on me and wont stop until i just let him do it. I talked to my friend about it and she said its rape but im not really sure if it is or isnt but if it is should i break up with him?

My boyfriend is afraid to see me naked why!!!??So me nd my bf were texting he said babe I'm scared I was like why? He's all I've never seen a girl naked before and when we're alone I'm scared and nervous bc if I see you naked I'm gonna walk out of the room and he said the closest thing to a naked girl he saw was me in my bikini!! Please help idk what to do so he wants a picture of me in my bra and underwear so he can be prepared should I give it too him I mean I trust and love him but should I btw I'm 15 he's 17 No hater comments!!!

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There is so much wrong with the world; animal abuse, rape, murder, child abuse, and just so much more. I am young and feel like I am unable to stop or help or lessen any of it. What can I do?

I think that nobody was ever important to me. I mean as a kid I didn't made any people who were around me important. I even think that I was just acting 'loving son' with my parents because I just made myself care for them but it wasn't honest. I think that because I was really 'love' guy so I was falling in love with GIRLS and I know when I really cared for somebody. But I never had happyend with girls. I had my heart broken twice and it left me with depression which lasts 4 years and trauma about trusting people and making them important to me. Now I can adore girls but stopped falling in love so that I care for them. That's problem with romantic relationships. But I'm more afraid about the fact that any of family members and friends weren't really important to me.Or at least not to that degree like when I was in love.. I'm confused. Falling in love is so strong compared to child-parent love that it seems to don't matter? Or my relationships with close people are lacking something? I want to feel that close people are really important to me but I think I have to learn it. What would you advise me to do?

ok I'm 13, and my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. he is the best person ever and my parents love him. we hang out a lot but since we get more comfortable with each other, he's been wanting to finger me or have me give him a hj. now I know you guys are going to say "you're too young" or "you don't want to be known as a slut" but I think I'm okay with it I'm just worried about how he's going to react about it especially because it's our first time. please help! thank you so much!!