I love my boyfriend but don't want to have sex or go near his penis because it looks gross (not just his, all penises) We had sex once and I puked all over him 2 minutes in.

I reeeeeeally like this guy who works at a gas station. We texted a little bit a few days ago and a little bit last night but sometimes he ignores me. I've never really talked to him in person but he seems like he's mad at me. I honestly don't think I did anything wrong and I don't know why he's ignoring me but it sucks and I'm so sad and I just want him to text me or talk to me or something but I want him to make the first move. Is there a way I could make that happen? If not, how do I make the first move? I don't want to text him first because I feel like I'm being clingy and I like him but I don't want to come off that way.

please can somebody shed more light on this site if it worth trusting?

OK here is the question I know a girl I just met her She is really chill fun to talk to and a sweet young woman I met her a month ago at a church invite here is the kicker she is engaged to a guy @ the church who I know Here is my main question I noticed she started about a week ago she would stop hugging me which she did before she would ignore any type of normal Conversation and when around her fiance I would notice she starts crying and then when he is gone she is back to normal so here is a breakdown of my questions 1. Why does she cry 2. What is with the back and forth 3. What should I do If I avoid her she almost comes across as hurt but when I am around I get the above Emotional response I would like her to vent and talk to me as to why but I don't want to make any Assumptions or piss off her Fiance so as a guy what should I do?

So I been talking to this woman for awhile & Im really like her I think eventually it will turn into a relationship but we haven't had sex yet & Im afraid she might not like me as much afterwards what should I do to make sure this doesnt happen

I just moved out of Florida to a new school that is out in the country. I have an accent different then them. I got welcomed from many people in the school because I was new. ( my first day of school was yesterday ) I said something and I thought I heard someone laugh and say "the way he talks" .I don't know if I was imagining them saying that so I don't know if that's true but I'm pretty sure it is. I'm the only one with a different accent so it's pretty weird. The middle school is very small with not many people. Any advice and can you answer the question above please. Thank you for your time. im trying to get a girlfriend sometime this year ( I'm in 8th grade )

I know a girl for 2 years. The first 5 months, we texted each other constantly. After that, she stopped responding to me. I continued to text her monthly (trying to catch up with her) for 9 months and I get no response from her at all. She barely gotten back to me earlier this week, and said she was sorry, she barely got my messages. I really don't believe that so I just ignored her message. If I am important to her life, she would have gotten back to me many months ago. 1. Did I do the right thing about cutting her out of my life? (she never responded to me for over a year. I don't know if I want a person like that in my life) 2. Would you take that person who never respond to your messages for over a year, back into your life? I feel I am being taken for granted or something. 3. Am I being a control freak? by saying if I am important to her, she would have gotten back to me many months ago. I feel I deserve better friends than her. 4. What would you do if your friends just stop responding to you for a long period of time, and they suddenly come back into your life? Would you want to be friends with them still?

She said "S*** my dick, Elijah!" and I jokingly said "If you had one, I would be sucking it all the time" while chuckling. This made her very upset. Why!?!?!?!?!

So, this girl is a girl that I've been pursuing for the past year and we've became really good friends. I've developed feelings for her and over time I thought that I saw a future with her. I finally asked her out, by the way I'm not the most confident guy out there, and she tells me she wants to but should t because we're both moving to different cities and going to our different colleges. Is this an excuse? I'm not the type of guy to beg or blow up on some one because I didn't get my way. I try to understand it and to see from there point of view. I when she first told me, I listened to it and understand it but I don't agree with it. She's not good with emotional connections (that info I picked up myself from talking to her) but I would never hurt her. But the fact that she told me this, I'd rather her just tell me no because it's been two weeks and it has been on my mind everyday... I don't know what to do. We connect with each other. I just don't know what to do because talking to her about this stuff isn't easy on her or me... Help please.

I'm having a child by him he cares for me and doesn't want his kid to be with another man. But we haven't been on good terms. He wants space because we argue a lot about him hiding things and his finance. Anyways things were okay finally he opens up and he invited me to his house to watch a movie everything was fine and there it was!, almost hanging from the pillow a very long red curly hair. He said it was from him doing laundry but he has a washer no dryer ait was morning time and his sheets didn't smell clean at all. He's been wanting space I cannot go through his phone or ig and I haven't in over a year. Idc much about it but this hair thing made me sum it all up and I feel like he cheated. this is breaking my heart because I know him and I feel like he did cheat I broke up with him and I can't control my emotions I keep calling him and asking him to tell me the truth but he insists it's from the dryer and now said wants nothing to do with me because I won't believe him. He thinks I'm stupid and crazy for thinking he cheated.

i'll tell her "hey bîch, i'm coming over at 3am, and you better have your clothes off for me". how about it?

Hey everyone... So recently my girlfriend and I broke up(about 3 weeks ago). We dated for about 2 and a half years.. I am having some real trouble coping with the whole scenario, as she tells me we are better off. She goes out and hooksup with all these guys and drinks now.. She was never like that with me. I just don't get it.. So I tried to get back with her and she kept rejecting me.. I promised her I would change for her; no use... Recently (about a week ago) i went over her house to just talk with her. Her parents were not home, and we had sex... This is what confused me the most. Is she toying with me? I left to go on vacation that week after having sex with her, and when I come back, I find out she hooked up with all these dudes at a party.. Prior to this she said she wanted to hangout the day i come back to talk about things.. Well I recieveded a concussion and was high off of adivan(doctor prescribed) when i called her a night ago.. She began telling me what she did and I like freaked out, calling her a whore and such. I regret saying this but now she dosent want to talk or see me again. This is understandable, as I find her promiscuous actions disgusting. I just don't know what to do. Should I keep trying for her? Or what? I know the obvious answer is to move on, but it is just so hard. I always think about her. HELP! We are both first loves, 17 years of age. Also, we were both entirely virgins, as all we did prior to dating was hookup with others.

I used to like this girl in my coed fraternity. She and I teased each other and gave each other nicknames. I stopped liking her after I was too insecure of being with her, since I thought she would reject me. I avoided her for a while and she got kinda upset about it. I apologized for avoiding her and she asked why I avoided her. I told her it was because I had a huge crush on her, but knew she didn't like me to which I guessed right, since she friend zoned me by saying we should be friends instead. I still did nice things to her, but stopped acting weird, clumsy, and funny around her. It was her birthday yesterday and I ended up giving her a stuffed bunny. Today, she asked me if I still liked her and I told her that I don't. I told her that I started going after this girl in my economics class and she looked sad with a frown on her face. I told her we could be friends and she had this fake smile and said sure. The time that passed after telling her I liked her was four months.

So me and my boyfriend are both in our earily 20s. Where not into clu** or part**** or anything like that. We've been together for just about a year. I mean where still happy, just feels like that light we have is slowly fading. I mean when we have s** sometimes its amazing and sometimes its meh.... any tips or ideas.

Over the last year of my freshmen year, 2 girls hated me because i was too interested in their friend and they treated me badly. When i was talking to a guy next to me, they hit the guy in an attempt to hit me. Now that i am a sophomore, i don't respect them and give them dirty looks because of the way they treat them. they don't even APOLOGIZE to me that they did treat me bad. I left that girl alone because i lost interest in her and STILL they treat me like ****. Should i just forgive them?

So I dated this girl 2 years ago for like month. It was a rebound relationship for both of us so afterwards we remained friends. (Even tho it's been rocky), We have not talked in a year before 2 months ago when I asked if she wanted to get some lunch. She said sure and we actually had a good time. So when I was in town last week (because I live outta state) I asked if she wanted to get together again she said sure when she had some free time I was still spending time with another "friend" so he ended up spending time with us. I felt that we did not have a good time (because most of the time my "friend" was with us. And because me her and some talks about the past which I felt was silly. I later texted her saying that we should not talk anymore she then flipped out and starting calling me delusional (cuz I guess my "friend" told her i said we were together for 2 years starting drama) she actually said some really messed up things and I did as well. It really come outta nowhere and I did not even know she was so angry at me. Anyway looking back I kinda want to mend things with her and end things on good terms but I don't know if I should and I should hair move on. I feel that it's silly stuff and I actually care about her so I don't want to end things on bad blood especially over silly drama and on false pretense. Any advice ??

So, there is this guy who's a truck driver for the same company that I work for (a upscale fast-food restaurant). But, he lives in NC while I live in a northern state. He and another guy come 2 days a week. At first, I never noticed him. Then, he began coming up to me and talking to me, after first wondering why I'm so shy but then asking how I'm doing. I've only talked to him very briefly because they take about an hour to drop off the truck's delivery. Well, today, he started talking to other girls, and so I'm thinking he's just super outgoing with everyone. But, then he was standing afar with another coworker (we'll call him Jay) of mine, talking about me, and smiling and gesturing. Then, he came back up front and basically said he had been talking to Jay and saying I was his (the truck driver's) girlfriend, until Jay jokingly told him I was 16. (I'm not!!) I later asked Jay about it and if he had told the driver my real age/that he was joking..and Jay was trying to figure out if I liked the driver or not by my questions. But, the way Jay was talking didn't sound as if the driver was joking until he thought I was 16. Also, the driver went over to my brother and told him I was his girlfriend and he couldn't have me (w/o knowing he was my brother lololol).. The few times he's talked to me when I asked him how he was, he's said, "I'm good now that I got to see you.. and "I'm tired, but as long as you're good.." Am I reading into this or do you think the driver finds me cute? e also waved from way in the back at me, but I wasn't sure he was waving at me..so I didn't wave back...:O I'm nervous that he's just playing/messing with me in a friendly way. And, if I act interested, he'll think I'm weird/ crazy.. I mean, I don't even know his name, and he doesn't know mine. He hasn't asked.. What I meant by the middle part is that the truck driver was talking to Jay, and I believe he was referring to me as his girlfriend, because when I looked down at them where they were talking, the driver sort of pointed at me and smiled. Then, when I was talking to Jay, he asked if I were interested (due to my questions), and I said, "It depends.." and he said, "So..not really..you're more flattered?", meaning the driver had said something positive/nice about me in their earlier conversation..

I met this girl at a party additional necessary info on that can be found in my previous question here(since I have limited characters) https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150730205122AA4gbwq Anyway based on that info I my plan was to ask the girl out at a bonfire I invited her to since the only mutual friends we have are people I only see once a year(at the same annual party I met her at) I seem to be getting mixed signals between what happened at the party and Facebook(although I know Facebook really isn't anything to rely on) She is unable to go to the bonfire so that kills that importunity(it was a Facebook event so I got no feedback on why) After the party I sent her a friend request on Facebook and she didn't intially accept bur she did after I cancelled and resent it the initial reaction it what made me feel that maybe she had different feelings. (maybe I am overthinking it) On a couple different days after that I posted a couple things on her Facebook wall about dogs(since dogs were one of the things we talked bout at the party after I mentioned I was a mailman and she her cover photo is her with her dog. However she never liked or acknowledged the posts which gave me doubt about her liking me Due to the fact that I don't have a much of an opportunity to see hers in person I was going to ask her out over Facebook(which I hate to do but it seems like the only option at this point) but I am really not sure how to approach the issue and what to say.

This is a serious question, so I would appreciate serious not immature answers. I've had sex, but I've never really given a guy oral before. I'm with someone right now and i think I will pretty soon. However I don't know what to do. Like obviously I know how to put my mouth on a penis, but I just don't know what to do from there. Like do you move your tounge around or keep it in place? And I still have no idea how you manage to guard your teeth from hitting the guy. I pretty much know nothing. I just want it to be good, im nervous and could really use some tips. I would really like detailed answers, like everything I need to do. Thanks ahead of time to the people who aren't immature about this!

I have a baby cousin who I never met before until two weeks ago, and she won't let me hold her, or reach out to her, she lets the rest of the family, but note that she's been around them for a longer time, but she's just so cute and adorable, how to get her used to me?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for just about a year. I mean where still very happy but to a point it feels like that light is fading. When we have s** sometimes its great and sometimes its meh. Where still like I said very happy but where not happy with where we are in our lifes right now. Theirs things we both want to change in life but where just a little lost... any tips and ideas to spice it all up? By the way where both in our earily 20. Where not into the partying or anything.

I m a girl and I ve been messing around with a girl (we only really use our hands) but I was just wondering how much it really matters if we use protection or not? We should be fine without, right?

So I met this guy about two months ago, but really only started talking to him around two weeks ago. We were clearly flirting with each other, and I am totally into him. Last weekend he kissed me, and one thing led to another... Eventually we were making out on his bed and touching one another. I stopped and said, "I don t want to rush into anything, because I don t want you to think any differently of me. I like you." He said he liked me back, and that he wouldn t think badly of me... He was also a virgin, by the way. The sex was quite passionate, and he kissed me a lot. Once we were done we fell asleep together. The next morning he tells me he isn t ready for a relationship, because he doesn t know if he will still be around in a few months. Why would this guy, a 25 year old virgin, have sex with me, someone he sort of jut met, and not want to further our relationship even just a little? Is it because I made the mistake of having sex with him to early on, and he thinks I am easy? I never just sleep with people for the hell of it, so I feel incredibly used and sad...

my best friend and I have been friends for about 8 months but it seems as if I've known his forever. we are 13. I fell in love with him a while back while he was in love with my friend. so I did what I had to do and let him be happy even if it wasn't with me. It hurt to watch them kiss before me but what else could I do? it took me about 5 months to finally get over him. I do have a boyfriend now.. my best friend hates it when i talk about other guys to him and i finally found out why. the other day he told me my friend wasn't the only one he thought about anymore so I was excited for him bc that relationship wasn't healthy anymore. then he told me it was me. I don't feel anything towards him I don't think. He said he wanted to keep his distance though. but i know from the past he will want something to happen. what should I do?

i been talking to this boy on and off for a year and it seem like haven't went anywhere we always talk about each other being together about us going to college together we still haven't seen each other in person we only stay like 8 miles away from each other we could date other people but always end up talking he fell like we only can date if we go to sschool together I told him I can seem him on the weekends but both of us work I told him I had a std and he still wanted to be with me

When I say weeks, I mean 4 or 5 weeks. My girlfriend today said to me that she felt that I was being distant from her and being dry with her over texts and all and the thought of me flirting with other girls had come into her head a lot. I haven't flirted with anyone because I see that as cheating and I haven't been trying to be distant or anything with her. Why would she think of something like that though? Part of me is annoyed that she would think I would do that to her, to be honest. Is it normal for girls to think like that?

I like this guy and have for 2 years, can't get over him no matter what tried a lot believe me. This guy goes to camp with me so I only see him there, not going this year so I won't see him. I text him, both of us just texted once and a while before then we started talking a lot but that was only for a couple days then I got the sense he was getting bored so I just texted him every so often but now I feel like I have to talk to him cause I like him so much and I have been texting him since Friday basically and he won't respond sometimes or he will but much later people tell me this is just how he texts so don't take it that way what do I say to him actually to open him up don't say just hey what's up cause I already have done that I need other stuff for the convo remember I haven't seen him in a while

so my friend and I are on an intense snapchat streak of almost 80 days and we don't want to lose it. however we have to get up early tomorrow for school and cannot stay up until 10 to snap until it changes. will it still change if we have snapchatted through the day but won't snapchat at 10 when it changes? will it change if we don't snapchat to see it change will it be 79 when I wake up if I don't watch it change and we stop snapchatting for the night?

Whenever I see a girl with a pretty face and a Big Butt I just get very curious to know. I can't help it so please don't judge. We all get curious at some point.

I finally ask her out after almost a year of trying. By the way I'm not the most confident person either, but I finally did. She tells me, " I want to but I shouldn't because of school." The fact that I'm going to one school and her another school and it's about 2 and half hours drive from each other. She also says that she doesn't want to start anything right now. Is this an excuse? When we talk were really on point with each other and we just click instantly. And to hear this... It won't leave my head and it keeps coming back to me like a bad song. I know she's moving and I know I can still be a friend to her and I would never hurt her; she also says that I'm one of the few people in her life that makes her genuinely happy, but... I just don't know what to do... I guess what I'm really asking for is a slap in the face and someone to tell me the truth or something. I see something and I want her but I don't want to hurt her with questions and with what I do. I honestly care about her.

okay so I m not going to explained I want to know this because it s very complicated. but if you have sex, is there a way for either the male or female to tell if it s one s first time, other than the lack of knowledge about what they are doing? I know females cherries pop, but after a long time is it possible for it to reheal and pop again? basically what I want to know is: is there a way to lose your virginity and then (although no longer a virgin) go through the same process of losing your virginity again? cherry repopping, pain, discomfort?

He has had plenty of GFs, but when it comes to picking up on hints that a girl likes him he has admitted it he is clueless. Ive liked him for about a year, but recently we got to spend alot of time together and now Im starting think he may like me too. He always includes me in things, he goes out of his way to make me laugh and he gives me lots of hugs and its like ahh he is so sweet and nice and he is so perf. he is sensitive and funny and just a great guy, but he is CLUELESS i mean im shy so im not willing to just like walk up and kiss him but i mean im kind of being so obvious that i had a girl ask me if i liked him. like is he not into me an leading me on, cause there was this one opportunity he had to tell me and instead he voted to tell me that one of my friends told him i though he was hot so i shut him down (i panicked) and now i think if i hadn't the convo may have leaded a different direction. He has told my im pretty and hot but its like I want to go all into this relationship and not be in this area of uncertainty. Or if he doesn't like me at all i want him to stop leading me on. ANyway what should i do to get him to see i want him

i am going on a date with my ex for the first time in 3 months. i am really excited and know i am not going to try and rekindle anything yet i want to just have a good night and fun time with her nothing more. what are some good topics to just a nice conversation? anything special topic for someone else? serious answers only i want to try again with her but i do want to take my time so i just want a fun easy date nothing over mushy or anything like that.