I'm going into 8th grade tomorrow and i just hate everyone at school they're all drama,immature and all just annoy the **** out of me. I have friends that don't live anywhere near me (internet friends) they make me happy and I'm going to a new studio for musicals hoping to make a friend or two. But i just can't stand the people at school i feel so awkward when I'm put into groups and i just can't trust anyone at my school,is this normal? and do you have any advice? they're all so mean at school and I'm usually nice

Just curious. My story: Jim is a simple, sweet guy, liked by everyone. Even I used to like him! And we were very close. But as I grew and changed, I noticed Jim started being really douchey towards me--disrespecting me with backhanded comments. First, I stopped talking to him. Thank gawd. But it wasn't until this year that I FINALLY realized why: Jim (subconsciously) didn't like how I changed. He still thinks he likes me--but I know better: he likes the IDEA of me, not the (new) REALITY of me. It's funny cuz yeah--everybody likes him. But I've seen his "bad" side, and we are NOT capable of friendship anymore. I'm curious if you've ever disliked someone that everyone else likes, and why?

She's always had one, but now that we just came back from summer it's a lot more noticeable and I've been trying to make her look better lately. Is there any way I can help her fix that? I really want to help her I feel bad because some people make comments about it and she's very insecure about herfelf:/ Also, she can't get a surgery because she's not very wealthy. Like is there anything she could wear or do to make it better? She doesn't have internet either so she can't really search up stuff in case you're wondering like why doesn't she do this herself.. Anyway thanks!

So my friend had picked me up and we were driving back to her house. Since its the start of school, she had her roster (class schedule) on the dashboard of her car. I asked if I could see it and we talked about how she needed to go back to school to get it changed. I then put it back on the dashboard in the same spot, just on the opposite side. Well, the windows were down and all of the sudden it blew out the window, and I tried my best to catch it. I kept asking her if we could turn around and that I would look for it. Instead, she kept saying no and she kept saying "I can't believe you would do that" and " how could you throw my roster out the window." There isn't anything vital on it, like a social security number or anything, just an address, which anyone could find if they really wanted to online. Also, she said she had to text someone about what just happened and she wouldn't stop saying stuff about it to me even when we were inside her house. Her brother was there which made it even worse, and when she told him he just laughed about it. I literally felt so bad that I told her I was going to look for it and walked about half a mile or more in the dark for it. She didn't even follow me or text me. Finally, I get a text asking if I found it, and I say no and that I'm just going to have my dad pick me up. She then tells me that she'll drive me home, and she picks me up when I'm about halfway to her house. When I get in the car she says nothing. She's just singing along to her music. I felt like crying because I felt so bad, and she just drops me off without another word. I haven't even received a text from her. She has said nothing to me since. This whole thing has left me wondering what the hell has happened. Do you think it's my fault?

My roommate is a girl from high school that I just became friends with later on in high school. She is very selfish and was too lazy last night to let me in the building even though she borrowed MY key. Then today she wanted me to go all around campus with her and i agreed, but she wanted to bike cause she's lazy, and i wanted to walk because its a nice day and we had nothing better to do. She thinks every guy is obsessed with her. If a guy likes me, he must like her. She continuously puts me down in front of big groups and will always take little jabs at me and brag at everything i say. She always talks about her high school cheerleading and "popularity" there and her "great" relationships with the upperclassmen. I almost feel envious of her when she brags because of how much attention she is getting/says she gets from guys. She is trying to hang out with my older brother and his friends but they don't even know her well at all and all she cares about is partying and meeting guys. I am losing my mind and am low on self esteem now. Please help. More specific than "just talk to her" or "hang out with other people." everywhere i go, she'll wanna go (and beat me at everything).

So my first school day this year is going to be in about a week. On the first day it's kind of a short introduction and we pretty much don't do anything that day. But the thing is, I haven't met with any of my classmates during the summer (which is normal for me) AND half of the old classmates switched schools and the other half got filled by some other people from the same school, and I know none of them while my old classmates do. Does anyone have any ideas how to go through this and not make it awkward and not make a fool out of yourself, and maybe make good impressions for the new half of classmates?

I just started a new school year and I've noticed something peculiar... People reconize me by name while I have no idea who they are. I'm more of a silent type, who doesn't talk unless I have to and when I do I try to make the best of it so I don't make it awkward. But people still reconize me by name, my name isn't that rare nor am I the best looking guy so what gives? Any idea why this happens?

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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I used to have a large group of girlfriends to hang out with but things changed, some of them moved away or switched schools, or we just lost touch. Now I'm friends with a bunch of guys at school, like 10 or 12, and my only close girlfriends are : A) my best friend at school, who I love, but I know I'm not her best friend because she is closer with her neighbor than with me B) a new girl who I met last year. she's annoying and loud sometimes, but she's not bad company, so I would consider her my 2nd best girlfriend C) a weird, quirky girl who has every disorder in the book and who everyone makes fun of but I've been friends with since elementary school and she still makes me laugh D) my good friend outside of school who I only hang out with every few weeks but we always have a good time

I'm a junior in high school, our main group of close friends consists of about 12 people. There's this one very quiet, awkward girl who we reached out to freshman year, and now she won't leave us alone. She will literally follow me around without saying anything sometimes. When she does say things, it's obnoxious. She's very condescending and tries to take charge, when really she has no leadership power because no one likes her. We feel obligated to invite her to things. Her mom is also very pushy and obnoxious, and will confront us about it if we don't. Any advice?

I'm starting high school in a few days and I have a friend who has a really bad reputation for starting drama and she even broke a girl's knee cap when she started talking behind her back. I'm afraid that when people see me with her, they'' automatically assume I'm a mean person too which will make it really hard for me to make new friends. Will this actually happen? How should I handle it? **they'll

My best friend is going through puberty, and recently has started becoming very mean, aggressive, and impulsive. Just a couple of days ago, my friends and I were in an argument against him, and he called my friends douches (which btw were his friends as well) and me "so ugly, every time he thinks of me he wants to gag". He never would say that to anyone in their face. He's a player who always acted like he didnt give a damn about alot of things, but healways had a soft spot for me (always defending me, making sure i was ok, apologizing to only me when he had other people he needed to apologize to) so I asked him what his problem his through text, and he said high testosterone, and the fact his sister ( he was close with her) is going away to college. I said oh, i'm sorry, i didnt know. He also said i'm sorry to only me but was vague on what he was sorry for. I dont know if i can continue bein his friend if he's gonna act this mean all the time. How to deal with him???? I would love to continue being his best friend, i've known him for 3 years and i dont want to throw it all away....

Help I'm 14 and used to be best friends with this guy and then he started to be a jerk and a racist i was his only friend now he has no friends but my mom is being so unfair she is making me e friends with him and hangout and i didnt one day and she grounded me and he talks bad about me and one day i ignore him he tells his mom who tells my mom then gets me grounded help me i dont know what to do

Growing up I went to the same school for 10 years. I grew really close to all the friends I made. About a month ago i entered high school, with not a single one of my best friends attending my school. My sister said she met people she liked in about 2 days. I've been at school for 3 weeks and haven't met a single person I like. Now understand im not failing and my grades are really good, and no one is being mean to me. It's just my mind is not used to being the kid doesn't have anyone to talk to. Every time we can pick a partner in class I'm either by myself, or the last one chosen. And when I do strike a conversation, they're too focused on their friends in other groups. I am joining a couple clubs next week. Do you think this will make me feel less lonely? Also is doing homework at lunch normal?

My best friend, who is like a brother to me, has decided that he is joining the Marines. I know that the USA needs people to defend our country, and I fully support it. I just need to know how I will deal with him being gone.

So I go to a school were we get loads of homework so sometimes I can't make it to meet my friends. They get all judgemental and make me feel really bad if I cant meet them because I've got tons of homework... So what are some good things I can say instead of saying I'm doing homework?

Ok so I'm fine with people teasing me every now and then, but when it gets excessive then it gets annoying. It also makes me wonder where I really stand with people or even my group of friends. Is it all in good fun (like I'm hoping), or is it that I've become some sort of butt of everyone's joke lately or maybe even all the time now? How do you deal with this? It seems when I say something about the jokes, then they want to joke/tease/mess around with me even more, yet when I brush it off and don't say much or anything or even take it seriously, they still want to do the same!

I have a small group of 'friends' and they have a squad. I'm friends with everyone in the squad but they never invite me anywhere. I'm nice to everyone, I never start anything and each of them likes me. But they always leave me out, I see them going to Water Parks, Pools, Parties but they never ask me. I'm been friend with most of them since the 7th grade! I asked one girl why they always leave me out but she never answered me. I have severe depression and I need my friends but they never need me. It's hard because most of the time I am locked away in my house, and I want to go places with them. I feel like most of them don't want me around even when they say the opposite. I don't know what to do. I can't cut ties because then I would be alone and I couldn't do that again. Please, any advice?

About 4 months ago my best friend and I split apart; a huge dramatic situation happened and now I'm pretty sure she hates my guts (she's a narcissist). She tried to get my boyfriend in trouble with the school for something she was equally responsible for(and she succeeded due to sexism, racism, and the school not knowing how to handle the situation). She has tried to talk with me twice but has failed to start a conversation without running away. She wants to become friends again but I don't trust her anymore and am hurt by the lies (I caught her telling) and hurtful things she's said about me (and my boyfriend) behind my back. In school for the last few months before summer, I couldn't even look at her, and from her all I would receive is a glare. School starts in a week and I'm nervous. What do I do if she's in any of my classes? How do I get over my anger and sadness over the hurt I feel? What do I do if she wants to try to talk to me? How do I be the bigger person?? HELP PLEASE

and no hobbies no interests I have nothing.. and I want to kill myself it's not like I m hurting anyone, literally nobody cares. parents are dead I have 0 friends no dependents no job etc.

I'm thirteen, and i'm from France but I live in America. I moved here this year and this is my first time in a school in America. Anyway, I have gym, and the girls and boys have different gym days, but on Friday we had gym with the boys and we played dodge ball and we were switching sides of the gym, and a boy that likes me slapped my butt, I told him to quit but the next time he did it again. The time after that, he tried to touch my breast (I don't have much, but still, I don't like it) and I slapped him. The next time, he did it again, but I didn't have quick enough reflexes. The teachers didn't see it and its annoying and I went to the movies with my friend and he was there with his friend and instead of watching the movie he was watching me the whole time. Even when I went to the restroom, he came out and waited outside the door and kept annoying me. Is he obsessed? What should I do? He's also spreading rumors that I'm begging him to have sex with me, he's saying I tried to get on him, and he's saying I went into his house while he was sleeping and that I tried to get on him then. It's so annoying

Im having my birthday party at a hotel. My mom said that I can invite as many people as I want to my pool party, but I can only have 4 stay the night becuz otherwise we will have to buy another room. and she said only one room. But I have 10 friends who im inviting and I just can't choose favorites. I need ideas as to how I can pick who comes without favoritism totally just like "luck of the draw" I guess. and how can I be polite to those who don't get to sleepover. Thanks in advance

Im a 21 year old girl. I have very long black hair, pale skin and brown eyes. I look foreighn but my eye and hair color are dark like them. Wherever i go women stare at me, gossip, and get jealous. They call me hooker and nobody wants to become my friend. When i walk women stare at me from toes to head. Why? Im not turkish . Im not greek. Im a foreighner born in cyprus

My nephew needs a calculator. Two people already offered to give me one. I only need one. How do I tell the other person that I already have one?

I'm 16, and I went on a camping trip with some friends this weekend. I brought my phone with me to use as a camera. We went canoeing, and two of my friends (without knowing I had my phone on me) tipped my canoe over. It was stupid of me to have my phone while canoeing, but I think the other people tipping it over on purpose makes it not entirely my fault. Now my parents are saying they won't by me another one to teach me responsibility. I said, "I need a phone." which is true, and "I think you would want me to have one to get in touch with you." And they freaked out saying, "don't tell me what I want or need." What should I do?

As weird as this may sound, lately our friendship has been more like a relationship. I mean she doesn't like me romantically, but some of the things she gets annoyed with me about are weird. The other day we were hanging out with another one of our friends. She was getting mad at me for not giving her enough attention. Apparently I was laughing more at what my other friend was saying than what she was saying. She felt like she was competing with our other friend & she felt like I liked her more because she's prettier. She was also annoyed when she found out that our other friend was spending the night because she wanted to have alone time with me. I mean I understand wanting to have quality time together or whatever, but every other time we hang out it's just us. I don't understand what the big deal is hanging out with a third person. Basically, this girl is very insecure. She is overweight, self harms & lives in an abusive household. She has a ton of medical issues. She thinks of me as her only friend & if anything was to happen to our friendship she would kill herself. It puts me in a very horrible position that I don't want to be in. What do I do? It's not like I don't want anything to do with her, but I feel like this friendship is very unhealthy.

I'm 14 and I'm going into high school I weigh 120 and I really want to get to 100 I tried running, cutting myself back, counting calories, drinking a crap ton of water but nothing wokrs. can you please help.

So I got the new xbox and my old friend whom I played with a couple years ago found out. We used to go to the same private school until highshool. Now I'm one year from graduating. He always sends party invites and texts me, but I don't want to talk to him or anyone else online with the mic. Do I tell him something? Make a new account?

A while back she told a really big secret of mine to my brother and some one else, but I looked past it sense she thought it was helping me. But lastnight she texted me saying she was sorry and she told my brother something. So I called her and she kept saying sorry and told me what she had told him. I can't believe she would tell him this personal thing about me. She had no right. I've never told anyone anything about her. You know? She's my bestfriend. I feel I can't ever tell her anything again. Would that make me a bad friend for cutting ties with her? I just don't need that

My sister and I just transferred to university in a new state where we don't know anyone. It's been a week and things haven't been going so well. We're very shy people and kind of have a hard time making conversation with new ppl. We're in a upperclassmen hall and everyone knows each other already so that also makes it hard for us. Everyone also seems to be mean and stuck up. Recently we found out that our suitemate has been talking about us on social media. She said that we dont talk to people and we only talk each other and other stuff. We never really got a chance to talk to her when we moved in cause she was out all day and we have early classes while she has late classes. When we see her outside we try to be nice and say hi but we cant just walk into her room when we're all here and also dont know what to say. There are also girls in the lobby that i think feel the same way. We try to say hi to them but they barely respond. I know it's only the first week but with our suitemate talking about us on social media and other people seeing it, as time goes on it seems like we're not going to be making any friends. We're looking for clubs to join but our school barely has any. So what can we do to make friends and turn our social situation around?

I made a fandom account on Instagram a while ago and asked my friend if she wanted to share it with me and she said yes. I thought it was a good idea at first cause we'd have more stuff to talk about, but recently all her posts are bad quality and frizzy looking. It doesn't help that I have OCD which makes it even worse! I work hard on my posts but it's like she posts the first hideous thing that she sees and calls it her own (even though I know she didn't make it, she stole it from someone else). And I don't want her to be the other owner of our account anymore!!!!!!!!! I would tell her but I can't just say "you can't own the account anymore". Is there any other way I could tell her or trick her into not wanting to own the account anymore? Her posts drive me nuts that I delete them but she notices and asks why. By the way, we've never met (don't worry we know that we are real and not 59 year old guys)l We are internet friends. Thanks. x Hayley

I'm 15 and my life was so perfect like a month ago but everything changed ,my 2 friends have become closer and are excluding me from everything ,I had a fight with my parents and they didn't talk to me for a week like literally not a word and the fight was stupid! It was all my little sisters fault ,my 2 brothers and sisters hate me too they don't talk to me and I have literally no one else I don't know what to do im crying right now and my mom told me that no one wants me here she keeps telling me to move out but I don't know if she's serous or not :(((( OMG I'm sooo upset what do I do and where do I go I can't live here anymore since no one wants me

Okay so I'm moving to a city away from all of my friends from my old school. My best friend is from that school except hes always busy with sports and his parents and school. Due to him not having spare time he sometimes goes a day or two without texting me. My problem is during that time waiting for him to reply I feel bored and anxious and depressed and I'm not really into any sports or hobbies so I don't have anything to do besides sit on my phone and waste time waiting which can be kinda depressing. I want to be busy as well so I can not seem as lonely and desperate and do nothing all day. What can I do?

I'm really friendly and love talking and talking but nobody answers they are all busy and stuff and they will sit there and message other people and pretend they're afk when they talk to me 90s kids are probably not like this because they didn't have those DUMB iPhones that everybody just sits and stares at all day... I had a friend sleepover the other night and all he did was check his facebook and instagram like a BIG HUGE PHAGGOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I GOT SO MAD THE **** U CALLING ME IGNORANT FOR

I'm 16 & I hate it. I have no close friends & I think this is the reason for it. I'll overanalyse any interaction with my friends & Ill find something wrong with it & will convince myself they hate me. I act aloof for fear I am annoying them or am being clingy etc. I think this stems from my childhood best friends who would suddenly ignore me & call me clingy etc.

I ve known this girl for a very long time. Overall, I don t think she s a bad person, but i feel like she doesn t understand when she hurts my feelings or that she tries to impress a lot of people but ends up looking like she s bragging or one upping people. And its partially my fault for letting her get to me so easily. It s just that sometimes she ll get on my nerves and push every single one of my buttons and I just want to say something to put her in my place. It doesn t help that I m influenced very easily by people around me and a lot of people in my school hate her even though they don t know her very well. When I hang out with her outside of school, its like she lets her walls down and stops trying to impress so many people and that s the time when I love being her friend. But at school, she tries very hard to compete with me whether its with grades or boys or friends. It s not like i rub it in her face that i get better grades, she just asks what i get on tests and when it ends up being higher than hers, she sometimes will lie about her grade and try to make me feel inferior to her. Its the same with boys Whenever I like sometime, its like a few days later, she ll start liking him to and start to compete for his feelings. There was this boy that I ve liked for four years but as soon as I told her, she started liking him and made me swear if he ever asked me out, I d have to say no. I said fine, which may have been stupid of me at the time, but at the time I never thought there was a chance that he'd ask me out. They became lab partners and if they'd ever talk or anything, she'd talk about for ages afterwards. She'd even go as far as saying that he was flirting with her, but I know that's not true because 1. he flirts with everybody. and 2. I've heard him talk about how annoying she is. I didn't want to tell her that cause i knew it would hurt her feelings and she'd get really bad at me. but one day she started saying that she didn't want to say no if he asked me out so she pretty much canceled the "say no if he asks you out" thing. So I kinda just burst the news out. I was so unbelievably furious that she'd hurt me like that. She got mad and we kinda just yelled at each other about it. She kinda walked away from me but a couple days later she came back and said "she forgave me". i didn't think i was the bad person at the time, but looking back at it, i realize that i probably shouldn't have acted so mad because after all it was just a stupid boy that i don't like anymore. Anyway, a couple of my friends decided enough was enough and we walked up to her one day, but the person in our group (she's not that bad, it just came out that way) started saying it all wrong. she said that she was manipulative and mean and we didn't want to be her friends anymore. I probably should have stopped her and told the girl in a different way, but i was scared that if i told her off, the entire group would get mad at me and wouldn't want to be my friend either. so i kinda didn't say anything. so the girl and i stopped talking for a while. later i kinda apologized for the way we spoke to her. she said she forgave me but i didn't really think she meant it. she asked me to hang out with her a couple times over the summer, but i said no because my other friends and persuaded me how bad of a person she was. when high school started a few days ago, she found new friends. i was very happy for her and i talked to a few times in the halls. for me, i didn't make any new friends. but my group kinda disbanded and went in separate ways because on the girls went on the cheerleading team and became obsessed with being popular. the other one kinda became a loner although we talk a few times in between classes. the last one (the one that told the girl off) found a "bestie" and although she still hangs out with us, its not the same anymore. i have one friend that's kinda popular and she's really nice but i want other friends too. so i apologized again at the back to school dance last night, but she acted "super hurt" and kinda just brushed off my apology about the girl treating her that way. and she started talking about all the times she hurt my feelings but she turned the story around so it made me look like the bad person. i got irritated and said, sorry again and told her good luck in high school. i dunno, it just made me pissed because she didn't seem to realize how much she hurt me over the years. she's the reason why i almost became anorexic even though i am really skinny. and she made me feel ugly and depressed. i dunno. i can see her side of the story and how hurt she probably was when we turned on her (even though i can still tell you why what we said was true, although we should never have told her in that way). but i wish she could see it from my pov btw, if this helps. we're both in freshman year of high school

I made this new friend & at first I enjoyed her company. Now It seems she wants to spend way too much time with me. I'm a people pleaser & can't say No or Lie to her. In the past when I've been truthful with friends it ended those friendships. I still want to be friends with her but it's just getting a bit too much now - I need space.

So I was best friends with this girl but after I became friends with some other people, I didn t really talk to my first friend as much and we sort of fell out without saying anything. I felt really bad after a bit and kinda miss her but I don t know how to put it into words and I don t know how to express how I m feeling to her, advice/tips?

So, I have become good friends with this girl at my job, even though she's only been there a few months. She also has become close with another mutual coworker who was there with me before she came. But, the problem is that he and I don't talk that much..I have talked to him a few times and that is it. Just recently I was at the mall with my good friend and we ended up meeting up with him and just chilling. Well, he's nice, but I don't feel as if could ever see myself becoming close friends with him. I must mention he is gay..He seems to have impeccable style, makeup, skin, goes tanning, etc. While I like style and looking nice as much as the next girl, I feel that I'm definitely not as concerned about that (time wise nor money wise) and I just feel we do not click that well in order to actually become close. He seems to be much more of a party-er than I ever would be. I feel so judgmental and rude if I tell our mutual friend that I'd rather just we two would hang out. But, also, I'm kinda shy, and I just feel like he and her are close, and then she and I are. But, that we didn't really seem to bridge the gap. I just don't feel a connection to him, and sharing our mutual friend would be hard. I feel as if for her sake I should be obligated to like him and want all 3 of us to hang out. But, I've always been pretty much inclined to be closer to one person in a group of about 3 And, it's not that I hate him or think he's a terrible person. I just don't see myself getting close to him. What should I do? What part of we don't really share the same interests do you not understand? I never said I couldn't be her friend still...I just do not see us ever becoming close. There are a BUNCH of other people at my job who are straight who I will never hang out with, either. I guess I am judgmental and rude against every single person besides my friend.. And, again, it's not like I don't ever talk to him..I just don't talk to him that much, just like there are others at work who I don't talk to that much who are straight...so am I supposed to straight up tell him and her I don't want to hang out with him because he's gay? ..because that's not how I feel at all. And, I'm glad you can apparently read between the lines and know exactly how I feel.. if my friend invites him to the mall, too, I'm not going to tell him he can't come. I honestly don't feel comfortable at times with a lot of people. When there are people, gay, straight, or otherwise, who I'm not comfortable with, does it mean that I have to be comfortable to not be judgmental? I'm sure you've become friends with every single person you've come into contact with, right, to come to this conclusion of knowing my thoughts? Did you know there are more straight people who I'm not friends with than there are gays who I'm not friends with?? I just was wondering how I should deal with this because it's not like he's made the effort to bridge the gap, either... Does it all just depend on me? In your opinion, it will probably be a resounding yes...So, I am obligated to become close friends with him, even though we don't have much in common, to prove I don't hate gays? That's what I got from your answer... but I guess you don't realize that not everyone you come into contact with is meant to become your friend...Acquaintances are much more common in life... and many people who are still acquaintances with me are so because it's mutually agreed upon to stay that way.. but I guess that's just little ole judgmental me..

So my best friends mom loves me and her step dad thinks im cool. Well when she sleeps over we go to my public pool and I have a lot of guy friends. Some of them are older by like 2-4 years. But we would text this one life gaurd that works there and her mom, dad, and step dad got mad about it. Now she is not allowed to talk or hang with me at all. I have no idea what happened but when I called her she was crying and told me we couldnt hang anymore cause her parents think I will take her to my pool and meet new bous ir some **** like that. Then her step dad starts screaming and was like " ur not allowed to talk with her hang up with her!!"" And I got freaked out and now she cant talk or hang out with me at all. I dont know what to do, please help!!

For some reason I have this odd belief that everyone hates me. Whenever I walk down the halls or talk to someone I just feel like people are talking about me behind my back or initially don't like my personality. I've had a few parties and at the last one a few boys go there early and so no one was really there yet and the way they acted was just really annoying and as if they thought I was a looser and a waste of time. They ended up leaving really early too because my neighbour said he was going to call the cops but I just feel like they were probably really happy to leave because being around me probably put them down or was a waste. The boys were really popular to so I feel like they're going to tell evryone else how much of a looser I am.

I have what i call "fake friends" at school usually to sit at lunch with or in the hall. But i don have anyone to hang out woth an my parents dont think i talk to anyome and they say to me idon hav friends all the time they figure out a way to fit it in what they're saying to me an i just wanna yell intheir face. Ive tried to grt my dad to meet one of my fake friends parents so we could hang out but he just yells at me "im not meeting their mfin parents..and i try to tellthem their the reason idont have friends..but they yell at me for it i cant even walk aroun my neighborhood to get away from them i get so sad amd stresse out alot bc of them not letting me go anywhere im 16 and i havent even gone on a date yet bc of my parents can someone please help me!?!?!!?!?!

Total price for gifts, food, whatever else. The reason I ask is my friend is spending $1,000 and I think that is insane. She makes around $40k a year and always complains about money problems. When I was a kid I was lucky to get a $50 gift and pizza.

Im 16 & am an easy person to talk to/get along with, I get told this a lot. I have many good male & female friends but no close friends. Any best or close friends I've had in the past have been nasty to me or given me the cold shoulder & called me clingy. I haven't had a close friend in 2 yrs. Now I am terrified of rejection, to the point where I overthink every minor thing that happens in my friendships. Something minor can happen & I'll think to myself, "Ive blown it s/he thinks I'm boring/clingy" & I stop trying to be their friend. I overthink texting people first so I always wait for them & rarely ask people to hang out as Im scared they'll reject me & think Im clingy. I feel this is the reason why I have no close friends. How can I get past this? X

So yes you may see my error with the bad word on the question but its true she is... Im a beginner at guitar and its only been like 2 months since i been playing and shes like "your out of tune, maybe you should as barbra ( another roomate next door ) who knows how to play teach you. Maybe we should have playing times because your always making noise and blah blah blah" point is is that shes being rude and bratty about my playing skills. Im a beginnet im going to not sound good!! What should i do about this problem?

i feel lonely and school is almost starting and i dont even have a single friend

I am best friends with this girl since childhood. I always did have a thing for her and always wanted to see her naked. The other day I set up my phone in her room when I was over so that I could record her getting out of the shower. She did not figure out she was recorded and although I got away with it, I feel really bad and disgusting. However, I did not delete the video, do you think I should? Will I feel less guilty if i delete it or the same? I have already watched it a few times and although I do like what is on it, I feel like a terrible friend. I am really close with her, her boyfriend and her whole family. I know i should delete the video but I can't at the same time. She is beautiful and i have wanted to see her naked for years. At the same time, its driving me crazy that i did this and have the video.

I go to an all-girls catholic high school that I live about half an hour away from. I have friends, but I never see them out of school because I live so far away. It seems like they are always having fun and doing stuff every weekend. Im not asking to be like the stereotypical popular girl, but how can I be more popular and hang out with my friends (and boys) more in and out of school? I'm involved in two sports and a club. Thanks

i have a boyfriend and we've been together for over two years. last year, my friend admitted his feelings to me. he said he was in love with me. i told him that i loved my boyfriend and couldn't be with him (my friend) it wasn't until recently that he's been pushing his feelings on me and it's making me uncomfortable. he says weird, flirty things to me and gets too close for comfort. he knows i have a boyfriend and even claims that they're friends. i don't know what to do. i don't know how to stop my friend from acting this way towards me.

So basically I m 18, I m in college. My friend who is also 18, is leaving very soon, and I m going to be left here, so tonight I want to be able to come home very late. Except I gave school at 9 in the morning, so what do I do? They d probably want me home by 12 but my best friend has 2 weeks and I want to make the most of it. No idea what to do, anyone got any ideas? I may just go anyway, but they will be extremely pissed at me and I don t wanna deal with that. Thank you!

my friend is joining PRIDE and wants me to attend the meetings with them but i don't have an excuse to stay after school and i don't think my parents would allow/want me to join PRIDE

I was in fourth grade when my parents took me to a new school, and I left a lot of amazing friends behind too. Its been six years since Ive seen them, and I only found three of them on kik. We sometimes talk, but its just so awkward. My dad is taking me to my old school's district festival, and my friends want to see me. Not to mention I ran into one a couple weeks back at a restaurant. I didn't talk to her, because it felt as if she were a complete stranger to me. Anyways, Im going to the festival and see some of my old classmates, and my question is how to not be so awkward. And I know they changed, so how do I get used to their personality change after all these years?