Marriage & Divorce: Question: How does a man become good at interacting with women? |
- Question: How does a man become good at interacting with women?
- Question: Get Married!?
- Question: Would this be a deal breaker for a future husband?
- Question: So i lost my virginity and I feel like I can't date anyone else, flirt with anyone else, or have sex with anyone else?
- Question: What significance of Don Victor s absence and his return?
- Question: Do you tend to get a little possessive of your partner after you guys start having sex?
- Question: Newly wed not in newly wed bliss? Just extremely unhappy in general.?
- Question: Why is it that a lot of married women tend to be more flirtatious?
- Question: What do you think about a man who only proposes to a woman not out of love but out of convenience because she comes from money?
- Question: Can a Marriage Survive Without Mutual Respect?
- Question: Girls with daddy issues: yay or nay?
- Question: Why do people in my village call me a dog?
- Question: Is it okay to fantasize about other men?
- Question: Is it possible for a non-social male to get a wife?
- Question: My husband touches my flower like he's grabbing 25 cents?
- Question: My wife will not do anything together, not eve take a walk?
- Question: I want to have sex with a married couple but dont want to join any of those fake websites. how can I find a couple in tucson az?
- Question: Is it too soon to get married after a year and a few months?
- Question: Creatice romantic night ideas for my husband?
- Question: If the life you and your wife created together was great for her but not for you, what would you do to fix this?
- Question: A married guy says he is intrigued by me. What does he mean?
- Question: When you are looking to get married?
- Question: My wife cheated after 4 years of marriage!?
- Question: Where did cains wife come from?
- Question: Are you happy with your life, your freedom, your financial situation, your life choices, and your limitations after you became married?
- Question: What can I do to motivate myself to clean and be more responsible when my spouse doesn't reflect the same behavior?
- Question: My married life has been impacted heavily by my kids, even as they get older. Is this common?
- Question: Looking to relocate my husband is having an affair I need to leave the area?
- Question: Is it appropriate to stay in a realtionship and not get married?
- Question: Any death benefits to spouse married for 30 years, divorce, male spouse dies?
- Question: Married for 30 years _ divorce - any SS or other death benefits available?
- Question: I have a higher sex drive then my husband?
- Question: How do I tell my husband I'm pregnant?
- Question: Can castrated men marry?
- Question: My wife walked out because of my lies and my addictive personality and my obsession to want things NOW, can I win her trust back and her heart.?
- Question: I think I lead on my FB friend to cheat with me.?
- Question: I really don't want my mother in law to come to town when i have my baby... advice?
- Question: I fantasize about attractive men that I don't personally know?
- Question: Is iut necessary to show marriage license to get an Indiana Driver's license?
- Question: Husband did some stupid stuff while drinking and I still feel mad?
- Question: What would you call your that died when you re-marry? Is it ex husband? Late husband? Or is it something else?
- Question: Women would you ever cheat on your husband?
- Question: Did I do something wrong with my ex mother in law?
- Question: When you hear that there were 47 million Ashley Madison accounts, does it make you wonder if humans are designed to be monogamous.?
- Question: I was being sexually harassed and my husband said nothing, am I in the wrong for feeling hurt that he said nothing?
- Question: Is there ever a rational reason to have an extramarital affair?
- Question: Should I let my husband buy this car?
- Question: My wife doesn't want to have physical relations with me?
- Question: Should I leave my husband?
- Question: Why do people choose to spend the rest of their life with someone?
- Question: I divorced two months ago and my ex wife is already engaged. How can i overcome this betrayal feeling?
- Question: This guy is harrassing me and threatening me?
- Question: Separation or no ?
- Question: Should married men keep online relationships secret from their wives? I speak with a married man online almost everyday.?
- Question: Is marriage worth it?
- Question: Failing Marriage. Very Unfulfilled and Unhappy. What are my best options? Suggestions?
- Question: We care 4 each other,not in love,getting to know each other we're tired of being cheated on,we're dating for 3 months, she's my sis friend?
- Question: Why do some wives submit and some are shrews?
- Question: Husband cheated and now?
- Question: I feel stuck in an unfulfilled marriage.I don't know what to do about it. Stay, Separate or Divorce?
| Question: How does a man become good at interacting with women? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 08:46 PM PDT Some women say i'm attractive and when i go out to places sometimes i get the glance of interest but.... As soon as i start engaging them and interact i get really awkward and timid...really bad...then they lose interest fast and i feel bad and hate myself even more. How does one get good at the game? |
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| Question: Would this be a deal breaker for a future husband? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 08:01 PM PDT I know this girl with a 26 year old sugar daddy who gives her gifts and cash. He likes anal putting down her mouth and facial. What would her future husband think if he found out about this? |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 08:00 PM PDT I'm 24, and before anyone lectures me about how it was a bad idea because I'm not dating him, it's too late, already done. I don't regret it or think it's bad..we're friends with benefits, so no dates or anything...but i feel like I belong to him, even though I am aware that I don't . Whenever i try to flirt with people, it doesn't feel right, cuz I'm sleeping with somebody on the side. I feel like I'm banned from dating, too, because i gave myself up to this man...Idkk...I'm confused, help. He's 29. |
| Question: What significance of Don Victor s absence and his return? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:36 PM PDT How did the individual characters react (Victoriano, his wife, and young Lupe, his daughter). The question is about the book Rain Of Gold by Victor Villasenor. |
| Question: Do you tend to get a little possessive of your partner after you guys start having sex? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:15 PM PDT Which doesn't necessarily equate to being clingy, but feeling like a part of them kind of belongs to you, even if you didn't necessarily have those feelings beforehand? Even when I had a fwb, he still held a special place in my heart. Anyone else, if so, what gender are you? |
| Question: Newly wed not in newly wed bliss? Just extremely unhappy in general.? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 06:47 PM PDT I am 24 years old, been married for a month to my husband we have been together for 5 years. Currently we live in our home town, I cant stand it, AT ALL. I cannot stand my job. I have been up in Oregon this past week testing and interviewing for state jobs. I am heading home tomorrow, and the thought of having to go home literally brought me to tears. Like sobbing tears. I love my husband to death but dont understand why Im constantly unhappy. I feel like **** when I talk to him about it, because we are supposed to be in this newly wed bliss stage and we are not and I feel like its my fault. Im trying so hard to get a career up here, and its competative and discouraging. The thought of having to go home literally makes me feel sick. I am so lucky when it comes to tanigible things and my relationship, but I honestly feel like I am ruining it. I cant find the light at the end of the tunnel. I feel like crap and like its my fault we are not in newly wed bliss. Im just SO tired of waking up everyday miserable, and I cant find the positive side of anything. I just need some advice, some words of encouragement, someone to relate to so I dont feel like a piece of ****. |
| Question: Why is it that a lot of married women tend to be more flirtatious? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 06:31 PM PDT Single people don't tend to be that flirtatious, in fact most single people seem to be more calm and normal, but married people seem to be more overt and openly flirtatious. |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 06:30 PM PDT i know a guy who bounces around from women to women to get what he wants and when the well runs dry he is gone, what will stop a person like this |
| Question: Can a Marriage Survive Without Mutual Respect? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 06:01 PM PDT I am loved but I am not respected by my other half. It does not change and I am sick of it. The more we talk about it the worse it gets, |
| Question: Girls with daddy issues: yay or nay? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 06:00 PM PDT I remember a Family Guy where Quagmire said he liked them.... I'm kinda on the fence...they're AMAZING in bed, but too emotional.... |
| Question: Why do people in my village call me a dog? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:36 PM PDT when they walk past me or past my house they say like "here boy, come here"...and there's no dog, it's just for me! Are they suggesting im stupid? Or horny? (Im married 10 years, i hardly go out) Or too violent? I have gone up to people who disrespected me in the past and asked them what was up. They always got scared and said 'nothing'. Maybe it's that... |
| Question: Is it okay to fantasize about other men? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:08 PM PDT I was at the gym yesterday and I saw this guy I used to see often. We spoke very briefly back then but I didn't see the need to speak to him again because I am married. When I was feeling horny today, he crossed my mind and the fantasy began-- it seems every detail of his muscles and his facial features crossed my brain. He is attractive but I didn't realize I have a crush on him nor I lust for him. What gives? |
| Question: Is it possible for a non-social male to get a wife? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:05 PM PDT I mean I'm really REALLY non-social and have no friends and I talk to nobody at all. But I'm very expressive of myself on the Internet. I'm a teenager currently and I'm gay but don't want a husband when I grow up. I want a wife simply because I want children. I'm so non-social I've even had thoughts of cloning myself and my clones will be my children but that is likely not going to work out. So I want a wife. Will I ever get one? |
| Question: My husband touches my flower like he's grabbing 25 cents? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:03 PM PDT I recently experimented with my husband on how to touch my girl down there. It was quite awkward but I don't know how to really explain to him that it didn't feel good. I was looking for the sensual touch like someone making a meringue... Not someone mixing the ingridients of a meatball. How would you explain love making with a spouse without hurting their feelings? We just want to try someone new. Is withholding penetrstion going to help until both of us are really turned on? |
| Question: My wife will not do anything together, not eve take a walk? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:01 PM PDT |
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| Question: Is it too soon to get married after a year and a few months? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 04:06 PM PDT AND whats the maximum amount of time will you be with someone before getting married? |
| Question: Creatice romantic night ideas for my husband? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:51 PM PDT I just found out I'm pregnant. I want to plan a really romantic night for my husband so I can tell him. We've been trying for a baby for over a year now, and it finally happened. Any ideas for a really romantic night? Maybe even something I could lead into sex pretty easy, because as far as he knows, we were going to try again this month :) Any ideas help :) |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:48 PM PDT Would you do like I've been trying to do and merge the life I'm currently living with one that I'd like to be living (compromise)? Or would you let go of fantasies, dreams, and ambitions just so you can keep your wife happy; after all, happy wife, happy life, right? |
| Question: A married guy says he is intrigued by me. What does he mean? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:34 PM PDT He says it isn't anything of a sexual nature yet he hasn't introduced me to his wife and rarely mentions her and we've known each other for almost 2 years & he has also offered to help me with my bills once I asked him JOKINGLY if he'd help me with with my school work and/or the bills. I'm in my mid 20s and he is in his 40s |
| Question: When you are looking to get married? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:30 PM PDT What things are a dealbreaker for you .... 1. Smoking/alcohol on a weekly basis 2. Kid(s) from a previous relationship. 3. Cheated on a previous relationship 4. Number of sexual partners is higher than 15. 5 |
| Question: My wife cheated after 4 years of marriage!? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:26 PM PDT While i was deployed in the military, she had an affair with one of her co-workers. She tried to hide it from me but all the signs pointed to this infidelity (sending late night texts, hiding cellphone, etc) I questioned this behavior and that just lead to an argument. She s also been asking for a divorce repeatedly. She has a child from a previous relationship and we are very close. I m alot closer than the biological father. It wasn t until I asked to use her personal laptop, that i found out the truth. I found numerous text messages (imessage) between her and this man. Most were pretty disturbing. To make a long story short, she walked in on me while I was reading the messages. After talking it over, she finally told me the truth. They had sex multiple times! She says that the affair just started out as a friendly get-together and she needed someone to talk to while I was away. Also, she states that their relationship wasn t based on sex, just companionship. The sex just happened along the way...She claims that she never wanted me to find out because it would break my heart and I ll never look at her as my loving wife again. She is begging me to stay! She also claims that she was working on ending her affair but needed more time to end it as she grew feelings for this man. Now she wants to try and work it out to save the marriage and to preserve the bond me and her child have formed. What should I do? Also, She never wanted to have anymore children. But now she is willing to give me a child of my own |
| Question: Where did cains wife come from? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:26 PM PDT |
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| Question: Looking to relocate my husband is having an affair I need to leave the area? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it appropriate to stay in a realtionship and not get married? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:45 PM PDT I grew up in church, and I believe it's wrong to live with someone. I don't want to live with my boyfriend anyways. I want nothing to do with marriage, but I also don't want to break up with him. Is it appropriate to stay in a realtionship without getting married? |
| Question: Any death benefits to spouse married for 30 years, divorce, male spouse dies? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:31 PM PDT |
| Question: Married for 30 years _ divorce - any SS or other death benefits available? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:30 PM PDT |
| Question: I have a higher sex drive then my husband? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:26 PM PDT I am 28 and I love sex, !y husband also does, but their are times when he is not in the mood. He pleases each time we have sex. How can I explain to him that I want sex more often. What should I do? |
| Question: How do I tell my husband I'm pregnant? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:25 PM PDT He does not like kids at all. I'm 19 and hes 21, he got me pregnant once before when I was 16 and he was 18, he wanted me to abort it or we would put it up for adoption... I was not going for any of that. I miscarried, and he tried not to seem relieved. I took a test this morning and it came back positive. When he comes home later tonight I... don't know what to say. If he wants to me to terminate it I dont want this to break us up. Should I just go with whatever he says for like the sake of our marriage. |
| Question: Can castrated men marry? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:25 PM PDT |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:20 PM PDT Ok so a week ago my wife had finally had enough of my lying, she says she does not trust me! I lie about money mainly. I have stole money off her to gamble with and buy things i don't even need!! We have been together 12 years and married for 6. Very difficult years as she has worked through all of them and I've been between jobs a lot. I have a steady stable job now and have been on in for nearly 2 years. So no problems work wise, just my constant lying and taking her for granted. I have finally admitted to myself that I have a problem and went to see a therapist 2 nights ago. She seemed to thins I have a compulsive disorder for the need to lie, I've become that's obsessed with it it's broken my marriage Into pieces. I have now realised what is important to me in life and that is my wife! I am willing to get help from therapy and make myself a better person. But feel like I may have lost my wife for good, but I will not give up on our marriage yet! Any advice or comments would be appreciated. Thanks. |
| Question: I think I lead on my FB friend to cheat with me.? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:16 PM PDT My husband works two jobs trying to support me. I don't make enough to help him and he pays all the bills. He works almost all day on the weekend and some weeknights so I don't see him much. Recently I've been talking to a guy friend on FB and he wanted to come over. I said "Hell no." quite literally. Well I posted where I was and he popped up there. I was shocked. It was at a cafe with a female friend of mine. I tried to play it off and he wanted to go back home with me. I told him that's not necessary and my husband will be home soon. He tried to play it off like nothing will happen, but I wasn't risking my husband coming home to find a guy there. I deleted him from FB, but he still leaves messages. I did tell him how lonely I was and that he's almost never home. I can honestly tell you I wasn't thinking about the consequence cause I was feeling lonely and I don't work on the weekends. I'm thinking about blocking this guy and his number cause he keeps trying to hang out and call to talk. I feel as though I lead him on and I don't want my husband to think I've been cheating emotional or physically. What can I do? |
| Question: I really don't want my mother in law to come to town when i have my baby... advice? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:12 PM PDT so my husband & I are having our first baby.. he is due next month (September) well my MIL is coming to town -.- ugh i really don't mind her coming to see him/us but she is staying for TEN days! like why does she need to stay that long? im gonna be fresh out of the hospital & breastfeeding.. so i will have to go out of my way to go in the bedroom because i will not be whipping my boob out n front of her & her husband. i am not going to allow her to be up our asses for 10 days! my husband & i need time with our son when he first gets here! she bad mouths my mom & my mom is gonna be at the hospital with me plus maybe spend a day or 2 with me while my husband is at work. i don't want to be mean & make my husband tell his mom no but i don't know what else to do. any advice? i hope i don't sound like a b*tch but dam i hate my mil. tia. would u want your mil & her husband at your house for 10 days right after u give birth & are breastfeeding? i doubt it! so stop acting like im being unreasonable. our place is small too. & we don't get along. she has 6 other grandkids & she never did this with any of them! a couple of u are right, i need to talk to my husband or her & tell them how i feel instead of being worried about being mean. |
| Question: I fantasize about attractive men that I don't personally know? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:02 PM PDT I'm happily married and I have a good sex life. However, I'm finding myself fantasizing about many men. I work out often and it's a normal day for me to see guys who look great. There are several that I find quite attractive and they tend to consume my sexual thoughts. No verbal exchange but smiles are exchanged sometimes. It doesn't feel right... Am I normal or should I forget pumping iron? |
| Question: Is iut necessary to show marriage license to get an Indiana Driver's license? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:58 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband did some stupid stuff while drinking and I still feel mad? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:53 PM PDT He threw a lighter at me and it left a huge welt and bruise on my thigh. I stayed calm and told him he was drunk and I didn't want him near me. He called me a whore, which he knows is completely outlandish. I wasn't reacting to his outburst and tried to lay down on the couch for bed. He tried to punch the couch and accidentally (really I do know he didn't try to punch me) punched my elbow instead. And now I have a pinched nerve and an even bigger bruise. Then I was crying and telling him to just please leave me alone, I was scared, he hurt me, blablabla...and he spit on me. We have been together 10 years, married 6. And we have two sons (they didn't see this thank god.) There have been a handful of other times he has gotten like this. Shoved me a couple times, threw something at me, whatever. Maybe once a year since being married...and always while drinking. I'm not afraid of him, we don't have a bad or abusive relationship..I just haven't even wanted to speak to him for 3 days. I feel like I don't really know him or want to be around him, especially not to be intimate. He doesn't really understand, and HIS feelings are hurt now. I'm just mad and can't really move past his stupid behavior the other night. I want to, but I feel numb to his guilt and apologies. How can I let this go? I don't want to hold a grudge over his drunken stupidity. I also don't want it to happen again. |
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| Question: Women would you ever cheat on your husband? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:18 PM PDT |
| Question: Did I do something wrong with my ex mother in law? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:12 PM PDT I got a call from my ex mother in law June that she needed help. She said the company where she worked was installing a new computer system and they told her she had to upgrade her computer skills to keep her job. I really liked June when I was married to her daughter Jan but I had not heard from her in over a year. She knew I was into computers and she wanted me to train her. She said she would pay me for the training. I told her I would be happy to train her and I don't charge my friends for helping them. I went to her house each Saturday morning and gave her the training. She kept her job and even got a promotion and a raise. She insisted that I let her take me to dinner at a nice restaurant as her way of saying think you. We had a great meal, great conversation, and great fun. Then I got a call from my ex wife Jan. She ask me not to help her mother any more. When I ask why, she said I was so nice to June that she has started to have feeling for me and it would be too kinky to call her ex husband dad. OH CRAP. How do I get out of this mess without anyone getting hurt? I told Jan her mother and I were just friends and that is all we will ever be. If her mother wanted male championship Jan should introduce her mom to single men her age. She would make a trophy wife for someone. I hope I handled this correctly? Did I? |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:08 PM PDT or do you think that number is overblown? |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:29 PM PDT My husband and I were out for a walk when two guys drove up and started to sexual harass me. Saying things like what they want to do with me and such. I looked at my husband and he just started walking away. I was shocked. I thought he respected me more than that. I guess not. he later told me it happens to women all the time and I gotta just learn to deal with it. Yes I understand that and I can deal with it when I am alone, but I at least thought he would stick up for me. I'm not saying get into a fight over it. Just say something... anything...instead of ignoring it. I thought husband and wife's look out for each other.... |
| Question: Is there ever a rational reason to have an extramarital affair? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:27 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I let my husband buy this car? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:15 PM PDT I have my own car. I pay off my car payment and insurance on my own. My husband has his own car and pays off his car payment and insurance on his own. I'm 8 and half months pregnant. Me and my husband both work full time and I will be getting paid during maternity leave . Buttttttttttt today my husband found this car. It's an "island beater" he wants to buy it for 500 and then fix it up. He says after he fixes it he will sell his other car. Idk I'm scared that he's going to wind up having to put too much money into it. We make decent money... but idk. Should I just say yes. I can tell he really wants to. But I'm just trying to be smart here. |
| Question: My wife doesn't want to have physical relations with me? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:08 PM PDT I am always there for her, I listen even when I'm not interested, I encourage her, I do house work, but she rarely ever wants to. Should I look elsewhere? |
| Question: Should I leave my husband? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:39 AM PDT My husband has changed & lost his way. He is 26. He drinks all the time and can t say no. He constantly lies to me. He says he does it be cuz Im not intimate with himand stopped carring about what i think and others think. He lost his values and moral. Last night he went out to the bar with his co workers. 5 hours later i call him and it turndout his drunk off 3 beers. He thinks done one spiked his drink with drugs. I told him i was done living this life and I wanted to seperate until he finds his wayand knows what he wants. He didn t say anything. I was going he would push back hug me or say he is sorry atleast n i love u but nothing. He just stood quiet. I have a feeling he wants to split up but can t say it bcuz his scared to b alone. I wonder if leaving him fit a month. Moving too my mom s house for a bit will help us both realize of we want to continue being together. |
| Question: Why do people choose to spend the rest of their life with someone? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT Why do people CHOOSE to spend the rest of their life committed to one person? If that's "love," then I will never be able to love. Why do people put themselves in prison like that? I'm 19 and never plan on this sh*ty thing called marriage. Why do people do it? And don't say out of love, because that isn't love! That's stupidity! We are not made for monogamy. I'm not a "youngin!" I'm a young adult, and seeing me as anything else is disrespectful. I am NOT a kid! I am a young adult! It's so sad how many "adults" have no respect for young adults! |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:00 AM PDT Even though i need to move on it hurts to know that she's already engaged. She's "engaged", she's not dating. It's more serious!I feel betrayed because i'm almost sure she cheated on me! I have no doubts! |
| Question: This guy is harrassing me and threatening me? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:59 AM PDT So this guy i was friend's with wanted to be with me. But i was friends for a while when i knew things were getting messed up i blocked everything him from life. i got married and very happy. so now, he gives really bad messages in facebook to my husband saying i had slept with him he got photos of me and stuff like that. he threatening me that he will come to usa to take revenge in me. sometimes i feel so depressed and feel i will be away from my husband cause of him being very arrogant. what should i do? |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:59 AM PDT Have been married 7 years not in love with husband but he is a wonderful man , no sex life :( my husband want sepration to see if we really want to live toghter , but I never worked and my fear is what I'll do with kids and work ? It will be hard , but now I'm in depression and can't make my kids happy , not husband , what should I do ? I want to leave him but don't even have job :( |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:47 AM PDT The relationship is not sexual. But we do talk about personal things. I know he keeps this from his wife. Should he? and why do you think he does? |
| Question: Is marriage worth it? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:34 AM PDT I'm in a serious relationship, and there is talk about marriage now. Honestly, I don't know what I want. I've teetered between wanting marriage, and wanting nothing to do with marriage. I've looked up advantages and disadvantages, statistics and divorce rates, ect. I've done my research, I'm not going into this blind. My problem, I still can't decide what I want. I struggle with the fear of marriage, so that's not helping at all. I'm not sure if it's my fear talking, or if marriage really isn't right for me. I know no one can help me on this, because you don't know me personally, but I'm just hopping to hear some life experience or personal stories. Is marriage worth it? |
| Question: Failing Marriage. Very Unfulfilled and Unhappy. What are my best options? Suggestions? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:57 AM PDT I feel stuck in an unfulfilled marriage of 6 years. 1 baby. Husband is immature and unloving. Can't get him to go to counseling. I have tried for quite some time to talk to him about our issues and see if we can resolve it. I have tried to make things work. He wants to stay married yet he wants to act like his friends who are in co-parenting/mutual partnership type marriages with no romantic or sexual involvement.His friends act single. I want a normal good marriage with date nights, better family time & good sex (we rarely have sex.He doesn't make time for it & he's s immature).He doesn't show much support, respect or consideration for my role,goals or feelings. He calls me fat. I'm not. I always support him with everything. We fight & argue almost every single day. I feel like I can't be bothered to try to make the marriage work anymore if he isn't going to try on a consistent level to improve at least. He's been so wishy washy about what he thinks he wants and inconsistent with his efforts. I'm frustrated and feel that myself and our young child deserves better. I envy my friends & their healthy marriages & even my single friends who at least aren't tied down in an unfulfilled marriage. They can date & still enjoy what it feels like to have someone take interest in them stilll. I'm tired of trying to talk to a man who doesn't care to hear what I have to say or how I feel. He doesn't help out with our child consistently yet he was the 1 that asked me every year for a baby. |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:41 AM PDT had a conversation with someone I'm seeing and getting to know each other 2 3 months like dating but we know each other for many years because she is my sister friend and we are in our late 30s we had our talks about been lied and tired of we were cheated on in past relationships and many other things like where we got to point of thinking marriage find the one is Not for us and just find a good person or implant bank of semen for her things like that (you know what I mean) and I love kids we both don't have kids,,we're just giving ourselves a shot to get to know each other, then she had a dc. App. and sent me this textmsg. "Hey babe I went to my dc. appointment and I was having second thoughts about the birth control after our little conversation earlier. I still put in the implant , good for 3 years ". I know she was on the birth control after we decided me not using protection ,we're good and responsible people have good feelings and care for each other but not in love yet and actually this is how she's been thinking and told me sister about all paperworks bank donors,cost and what has to be done,I know there are other men better than me but she chose me, I like her 1st time I saw her but we were not single before, having a child is such a blessing I dated singles mothers and single women I know i may regret if I push her away but I'm still thinking there is a special someone for her out there (pardon me order/ unclear re-edited details) |
| Question: Why do some wives submit and some are shrews? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:31 AM PDT No matter how I word this question, it seems many think the husband is at fault somehow..but if he is not, and wife just refuses sex over and over, no matter what! She thinks it's ok! But..she wants her husband to stay faithful and if he tries to divorce her she will try to take everything and demand support? Slander him to friends and family? This is happening to a family member. His wife goes out in evenings often, goes to 'friends houses' or 'yoga classes' but he never goes out. They have equal careers, share parenting kids. But she insists on seperate bedrooms. |
| Question: Husband cheated and now? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:30 AM PDT My husband had cheated on me for a year I chose to stay and repair the relationship a lot of ups and downs I forgave him but he's still working on earning my trust back. He has changed but something recently happened I found a woman in his phone again so I confronted him I didn't accuse him I simply asked what this was about first I got I don't know than later he changed his story it was an accident phone glitches and it found this person by mistake and so on.. I said so either way you're lying to me about something he said he didn't say anything because he didn't want to ruin our progress I said lying is what does that and he's been defensive saying can't have live without trust so I don't love him now he's accusing me of cheating anytime I use the phone and he ignores me and insults me in front of our kids he thinks he's right and all he's doing is hurting me. I think you can have love without trust because he broke it and has to earn it back but according to him my feelings are fake.. We were doing really good up until this fight. It's possible it was an accident and he was telling the truth my issue was he lied and it's made me scared that either he is willing to lie about something so small he will lie again about bigger issues. Or either this issue is already big and he's lying making it seem small.. lying is the hard part and he doesn't view it as lying he just views it as me making him feel interrogated and this is all my fault. He just keeps saying how this is my fault. I know I love him therefore you can have love without "trust" it's different because he broke my trust I loved him and had blind trust in him before but I Tried explaining to him that once you break a persons trust you have to earn it back he just thinks im being with him for sex. Basically calling me a whore or something how can I explain to him how I feel is normal? We are not in counseling I wanted too for months he didn't agree when he finally did things changed and we couldn't make time for it |
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