Marriage & Divorce: Question: Is it normal to only have sex twice a month after 15 years of marriage ? |
- Question: Is it normal to only have sex twice a month after 15 years of marriage ?
- Question: Why do I feel so bad?
- Question: How to get my husband to cook for me?
- Question: Was this a red flag that I was in a relationship with a guy who said this to me in the last few months?
- Question: My husband keeps beating me?
- Question: If I was skinny and beautiful. Do you think my husband would quite hitting, punching me and stop hitting me with objects.?
- Question: Should I be upset?
- Question: Would you stop your Bf/husband from beating your children?
- Question: If a man hits you and doesn't put bruses on you. Is it sill a form. Of abuse my husband says he don't abuse me because he don't leave marks.?
- Question: How do you trust someone who had an emotional affair? It may have not been very long, but it still hurts.?
- Question: Why won't ex cover up her tattoo of my name?
- Question: Is this realistic ? Re-post, looking for more answers.?
- Question: I really want a divorce, but if I get one, I'm ruined financially. My spouse makes most of the money , what am I suppose to do?
- Question: Is dumb to get married if you both have been date for only 10 months and your only 22 years old?
- Question: How can i win my wife back??
- Question: Is my husband being a wimp?
- Question: Can my wife ask for child support money from my SSI disability cheek? I live in illinois?
- Question: Husband bought car without telling me...?
- Question: Husband bought car without telling me...?
- Question: How do I keep ashley madison from my wife since the account got hacked? I dont want my wife to take me to the cleaners.?
- Question: Is this not annoying behavior?
- Question: I need to know if what he did was in the category of "cheating"?
- Question: When your wife is sad what GENUINE compliment do you pay her to remind her that she has good qualities?
- Question: Ashly Madison debate?
- Question: I am non-custodial parent paying $800/mo for one child who has been out of country for 2 years and I haven't seen in 5 years. Need HELP!?
- Question: Wife had baby 2 months ago and not showing affection towards me. She said everything is fine but she rarely kisses me and we don't have sex.?
- Question: How do you get over betrayal?
- Question: Are you happily married? How long have you been dating? How long have you been married? (more questions in details)?
- Question: How do I tell me husband I want to have sex, but don't want to TRY to have sex if he can't finish. Is there a nice way to say this?
- Question: Three years of marriage and cant finding myself moving on.?
- Question: There is a married woman (with a 1 years old child) at work she keeps winking at me and come close to me, what to do?
- Question: Why are so many men okay with being 'whipped' or on a leash by their wives or girlfriends?
- Question: My ex husband has our son sleep on a futon mattress in his dining room/kitchen area during overnight visits.?
- Question: Should I just resign to looking for love and marriage?
- Question: How can I regale my wife in bed?
- Question: Will it ever work?
- Question: Why would a man not want a child with his wife?
- Question: How common is it for women to cheat with their male fitness trainers?
- Question: What play is this? A woman wants a baby, but husband doesn t. We learn it s because he has 1 with another woman, and that baby is very sick.?
- Question: Should I confront my fiance about his relationship with his son s mother?
- Question: Is it possible to change my last name?
- Question: How to decide what is to put on a your husband's headstone when it's a second marriage?
- Question: Signs a cheater has changed for the better?
- Question: My own brother is with my wife, what do I do? because literally I am about to either go break **** or break someones face?
- Question: Why do you think it is that women or married couples are expected to have kids?
- Question: Is marriage pointless?
- Question: Can wife ask her share from husband without break in relationship?
- Question: If you married your dream woman, would you still check out other women/view porn?
- Question: Why did people in the 1940s-1960s marry so early?
- Question: What to do when you finally realize that you are married to someone with mental health issues, and everything you've tried isn't working?
- Question: If your 18 years old daughter became pregnant, would you encourage her and her boyfriend to get married?
- Question: I dont enjoy sex with my husbnd at all. We are newly married and he doesnt satisfy me ! What am i supposed to do now ?
- Question: Why won't my wife sleep in the same bed as me?
- Question: I dreamed that my husband was hitting me?
- Question: About circumsize?
- Question: Why after marriage women become so different? I mean before marriage they put on make up, dress up good and make us feel wanted and loved.?
- Question: How important is it for your spouse to be "in shape"?
- Question: Why is sabotaging our marriage after 29yrs together?
- Question: I think this will help me immensely in my marriage: How do I tell the difference between REAL woman thoughts and EMOTIONAL woman thoughts?
| Question: Is it normal to only have sex twice a month after 15 years of marriage ? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:56 PM PDT We have been together 15 years and we used to have good sex , we used to have sex 2 to 3 times a week now it is down to 2 per month sometimes if I'm really lucky its 4 per month , I try all the time and he rejects me , saying he is tired I have a full time job and take care of our 2 children , and i always feel the need to have sex no matter if I'm tired , he never asks me for sex its ALWAYS ME and Im just getting fed up , what can i do? he is 44 almost 45 and I'm 40. |
| Question: Why do I feel so bad? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:53 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for a year. Before we got married he had an uncle who verbally agreed to send him 3000 dollars every semester to pay for classes. He promised husband 50,000 as a gift if he finished his bachelors. Then when this uncle found out him and I were getting married and he cut my husband off from this verbal agreement. We both are young hubby and I. We are 23. For whatever reason he wasn't happy my husband and I got married. I have never met my husbands uncle. He knows nothing about me. I am a law school student who has been tutoring and mentoring his nephew to get through college that's how my now husband and I met. Yet I feel like my husbands uncle thinks negatively about me. Which I don't care because I know who I am. Yet I feel like our marriage made my husband and I lose out on a good opportunity. I feel like of we had never gotten married the agreement would still be intact. He was looking forward to getting that money and starting a business. Now he doesn't see the business happening for him. I cry about it sometimes. Yet there is nothing I can do his uncles mind is made up. I don't know why I feel so bad. |
| Question: How to get my husband to cook for me? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:26 PM PDT I do all of the cooking all of the time. It would just be nice to feel pampered/waited on every once in a while. He's cooked for me once, on my birthday and since then I've asked him when he would do it again and he just says, "I will", but never actually does. It's kind of frustrating because I've told him that this is a way he can make me feel special and also help me out, but he just doesn't do it. I'm not asking for a gourmet meal by any means, just a little effort. I've stopped bringing it up because I feel like I'm just wasting my breath, also I don't want to be a nag cause I don't want him to just do it only because he thinks I'm mad (which would still be a step up from how it is now).... I guess I just want to him to be genuine about it. Any suggestions? |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:25 PM PDT By no means was he ever physically abuse or ever aggressive...We dated for a bit, and due to me being a virgin and intimacy issues and not being ready, he once said to me in the last 3 months of our relationship: "Well, I've thought about how I can easily force you down and get my way with you.'' So odd because other than he being mad at me for not having sex, he was incredibly sweet and emotional. Idk, i told my counselor about this months later, and she asked me why I stayed with him after that. he also said more than once that he thought the only way to get me to have sex with him was to force him since I was so scared, like apparently his ex-girlfriend did... |
| Question: My husband keeps beating me? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:10 PM PDT Everytime we go Go-Kart'ing he beats me every single time and outlaps me as well! What should I do?! |
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| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:05 PM PDT My husband took a trip last month with his friends. I have always been very lax about him having to check in with me because I trust him and feel like it's unnecessary to breathe down his throat. However I received a message from one of his friends that went on the trip with him that he went to a strip show. My issue is that if he had told me, I would've been ok with it--again I feel that part of having trust is being open with one another. I suppose I feel pretty insulted that I had to find out through a friend of his. Am I wrong to be upset over this? I don't want to even think about bringing it up unless I am justified. :/ Thanks |
| Question: Would you stop your Bf/husband from beating your children? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:05 PM PDT I just watched a vid of a man brutally stomping a child and his mother just excepted it why? the vid i watched https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNITlqngSRA |
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| Question: Why won't ex cover up her tattoo of my name? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 07:28 PM PDT My ex wife left me and doesn't want anything to do with me. She told me she didn't love me and completely cut me out of her life. She have a big tattoo of my name over her heart. She makes good Money so she has the money to cover it but when I saw a picture of her and a mural friend on Facebook. The tattoo was very visible and not covered up. It has been 3 months. Why won't she just covered up if she doesn't want anything to do with me |
| Question: Is this realistic ? Re-post, looking for more answers.? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 07:17 PM PDT Finding a husband who is kind and loyal, good looking. One who will let me go down on him every morning and have sex every night. Massage his back and body whenever I see fit and always end arguments with hot steamy sex and make up. How realistic am I being ? Should I lower the standards ? |
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| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 05:29 PM PDT your fiance is 25 is that too dam early ? |
| Question: How can i win my wife back?? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 04:12 PM PDT So my wife has kicked me out more than once I have depression bipolar and OCD. I lost lots of jobs and she said i have alot of maturing to doThing is im 23 and shes 30 so she is more experienced then me im still learning. she has two kids so i was struggling being a good husband and farther... Recently i drank too much alcohol got drunk and cracked the windshield on our car and she got so upset and kicked me out of house and she is saying shes fed up and said were never getting back together |
| Question: Is my husband being a wimp? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 03:17 PM PDT Me and our friends are going skydiving this weekend, and I've been trying to get my husband to go. But he's being such a sissy. He doesn't want to go skydiving because he's scared something could go wrong. I told him to be a man, but he'd rather play it safe and stay on Earth. Wimp? |
| Question: Can my wife ask for child support money from my SSI disability cheek? I live in illinois? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 03:06 PM PDT |
| Question: Husband bought car without telling me...? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 03:02 PM PDT Husband just bought, I'm sorry, just LEASED a car while I was in the hospital, recovering from lung collapse surgery. We had discussed him wanting to buy a car when I was first admitted and he even asked my opinion on a few but we never talked about finally deciding on a car and/or when he'd get it. I thought we would research some cars, go check out some etc. When I got out and got well, but a day after I am released this woman pulls up in a 2012 BMW 5 something. Now as for our household, we have 6 kids, ages 8 to 18, and live in a 3 bdrm house (that I had before we got married), 3 vehicles (2012 Altima-financed, 2005 Expedition-rvcd payoff chk to get BMW, 2004 Pontiac - paid off) that we had prior to the BMW. My husband has been saying for yrs that we would get a bigger house to accommodate our blended family, but has been between jobs the majority of the 10 yrs we been together and has now been on a job for 4 months making good money. My issue is the vehicle as well as his priorities. Rather than buy a vehicle, he's leasing one. Rather than look for a bigger house, he opts for a car. I'm feeling disrespected and unappreciated bc for the majority of the years I have been the bread winner (and sometimes the only one working)but never made big purchase decisions without consulting him first. |
| Question: Husband bought car without telling me...? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 03:00 PM PDT |
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| Question: Is this not annoying behavior? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 02:32 PM PDT I'm a 46 year old male and my wife is 44. We've been together going on 13 years and there's one thing, above many, that she does that annoys the crap out of me. She's currently home between jobs and is about to start a new one soon. When I get home from work she wants to sit right up under me, rub, and cuddle and I just want to sit down and relax from the dat. All the rubbing and touching is annoying to me. We're not talking about her just placing her head on my shoulder, she wants to cuddle and stroke and rub my head. Again, been together 13 years I would think that by now she'd be use to me being out of the house. Would this annoy anyone else the minute you walked in the door? Granted at night when the lights go out she stays on her side of the bed wrapped up like a mummy. When I ask her to stop I get the "oh, you don't want me to touch you" attitude. Am I wrong for not wanting to be molested every day I come home from work? |
| Question: I need to know if what he did was in the category of "cheating"? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 02:25 PM PDT My live-in fiancé of 2 years was talking to another woman for about a year. My fiancé was hiding this from me by deleting his text messages on his phone. He never went to meet this woman; however, they would talk a lot and often (sometimes up to 50+ texts in a day). He never even texted me this much hardly ever. When I discovered what he was doing, he denied it at first....but then I showed him my evidence. I found out because we share a mutual cell phone account (it was a MUTUAL account....so I had every legal right to discover this information), and I was seeing a lot of numbers on his line that I did not recognize so I did a search and discovered that it was a woman. He lashed out at me calling me a crazy psycho B**** when I found out. He is now denying that this is a type of cheating behavior. I don't believe he met with her...but the fact that he was hiding it from me told me that he KNEW it was wrong. I don't think he met with her face to face (but I'm not sure). So, I understand that there was no sex HOWEVER when you have to hide what you are doing, then you know you did something wrong. He refuses to acknowledge that his was wrong and it was a type of cheating. |
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| Question: Ashly Madison debate? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 02:12 PM PDT me and my friend are separated on this issue. I never used the sight but apparently somebody in her family did. she claims its not ok to release the information of the sloots on ashly Madison because its private information and peoples lives. "what about the spouses the victims of the cheaters?" to wich I reply "i agree. the spouses who are cheated on deserve to know they are at risk for lethal sexually transmitted diseases. they should be fully aware of there spouses sexual activity so they can take the necessary medical precautions. Nobody should die from aids because there spouse is a sloot.being married means you protect the one you love even from disease .if you cant keep your sexual desires under control and stay loyal to one person as you promised till you die then you shouldn't be married. I find such behavior to be akin to murder due to the consequences that come from it even when the spouse never finds out." what do you think?is cheating harmless fun if nobody finds out or is it a risk of death for your spouse depending on what who you sleep with.? I think its a far more serious issue than people put it off as. everybody treats sex like a joke now but I genuinely think its too dangerous for your spouse to cheat on them. |
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| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 01:28 PM PDT I am the one who hugs and usually initiates the kiss. I keep hearing patients, but it's hurting my feelings and I don't want to keep brining it up and making her feel bad. Is this normal? Feel like our first kid wasn't as bad. |
| Question: How do you get over betrayal? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 01:27 PM PDT i had doubts, but now im sure that my husband, the father of my two, six and two year old children, my husband who was my first, my bf is cheating on me. now,i need your help with how do i get over it in my head, and my heart so that im strong enough to do what needs to be done, how does one recover from somthing like that? |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 01:15 PM PDT My parents are unhappily married and now I'm afraid to marry. I'm only fourteen, but you know. Also, how did you meet? Have you been married before? Thanks! |
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| Question: Three years of marriage and cant finding myself moving on.? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 12:33 PM PDT I have been married for almost three years and we have two beautiful healthy boys. Though I still find couple of things that bother me. First of all, when we got engaged he asked me for prenup. I wasn't very happy with it, because it showed to me that he didn't trust me the way I trusted him. anyways I signed it because his family wanted to protect themselves. The second thing is that he paid an escort service girl who came to his house and had sex with him before we met each other. He told me about her the day after our wedding in the airplane going to Hawaii for our honeymoon. Is been three years and it still bothers me. What can I do or say. Please any advise is appreciated. |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 12:29 PM PDT i m just being friendly but find her very attractive, before i know she have a child i smiled back, she have a picture of her son and her husband at her desk, i respect the marriage institute and don t want this child have a dysfunctional family, i notice that she see that i m a little turned off, don t want her to hate me i want to keep a healthy and friendly work environment, do all women like this? is marriage is meaningless? (and i experience this more then once....) |
| Question: Why are so many men okay with being 'whipped' or on a leash by their wives or girlfriends? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 11:59 AM PDT I've met lots of couples, at my job, in my own family etc., and I noticed there are a lot of men who are whipped. By whipped I don't mean they are "romantic" or attend to their partners, what I mean is they are on a leash. They ask their wives for permissions, their wives tell them what to do. A few scenarios: Some couple came into my work and I told her where she can pick up a file and facing me she says to her husband: "I'll send him there to go get it" and he just looked at me annoyed as hell. One male friend said his new girlfriend won't let him eat meat anymore because SHE'S a vegetarian. I have female friends who don't let their boyfriends go out with their friends, check their phones, etc., and male friends who have to lie about meeting up with friends. I have seen guys who are flat out mommied. The irony is, these type of women won't ever follow the same requests if said vice versa. Why do men put up with it? Doesn't it affect your ego at all? Are there men who actually like having a mother as a wife? P.S. I am a woman lol |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 11:25 AM PDT It s causing our son to not get enough sleep the nights he is with his dad and he is coming home an emotional and physical wreck. Can I obtain no overnight visits from the court based on this issue? |
| Question: Should I just resign to looking for love and marriage? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 11:10 AM PDT I've always been told I'm a good person, giving, loving, caring, respectful, genuine. Yet, I've been on so many dating sites, done activities out of my comfort zone, etc. I've been working FT since 16, have 3 college degrees (working on my 4th), family oriented, fun, a good listener. However, I am very plain & average looking, I have a big stomach and butt. I am not morbidly obese but, plus size. I am 41 and never married, no children & I don't sleep around. Is something wrong with me? Should I give-up on even trying for a good husband anymore? |
| Question: How can I regale my wife in bed? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 10:55 AM PDT why do Pakistan men like when there wife's ignore them I find that there more drawn too there wife when they do this why is that and also there never truly happy it's like all because of money n yea I get it all Pakistani men aren't the same but I have men quite a few n there all pretty much alike why |
| Question: Why would a man not want a child with his wife? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 10:49 AM PDT This is a dedicated professional who makes time to be with the wife he loves. He just doesn't want kids. He's willing to do it but only under pressure from his wife. His wife came to me asking whether it's right to force him into this since she has the power to do it, but she's afraid it will make him unhappy or even stop loving her. He has a child with someone who was a money bloodsucker, but he always paid his child support. He wasn't stingy. Did that turn him off to a traditional family? |
| Question: How common is it for women to cheat with their male fitness trainers? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 10:44 AM PDT |
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| Question: Should I confront my fiance about his relationship with his son s mother? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 10:17 AM PDT They were together for 6 years high school sweethearts ect. They had a child together and before his first birthday she cheated on him and split. She s now married to the guy she cheated with , with 2 more children. His family is still holds her to a very high regard, I feel like I m living in her shadow and my daughter in his sons. They have books and books of pictures from when their son was born. No one even bothered to take one of me and my daughter when she was born. : ( I know and fully understand they need to talk because they have a child together no issue there. My issue is he hangs on to all the pictures of them. Brings her up in conversation all the time . he compared me to her my entire pregnancy. What do I do? I ve brought it up before. He immediately dismissed me and basically called me stupid. |
| Question: Is it possible to change my last name? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 09:45 AM PDT Ok so my parents got married when I was young. They had been together since they were in highshool. Recently I said to them I wanted to change my last name back to what I was born with..Everything they brought me got taken away and I had to earn my own things myself because they hated what I said. They told me I couldn't do it. Because it got changed because of their marriage and that I'm wrong on doing so.. Is it possible to put my last name back to what I was born with? I really hate my last name |
| Question: How to decide what is to put on a your husband's headstone when it's a second marriage? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 09:38 AM PDT I was thinking of beloved husband, but there are some things with other roles, so . . . An inspirational quote about our relationship was what I was thinking but need to find that. I don't know what to do & monument co. is waiting on me. We were soulmates, few year marriage but second time, first love in our youth.. |
| Question: Signs a cheater has changed for the better? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 09:36 AM PDT How can you tell that a cheater is remorseful that they betrayed you. If you decide to take them back and give them another chance what are the signs to look for they have changed. What would it take for them to earn your trust back? also if the cheating was a on time offence, not reoccurring |
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| Question: Why do you think it is that women or married couples are expected to have kids? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 09:17 AM PDT I don't want to have kids and people think I'm some sort of alien when I say this... I'm in my mid 20's and I just want to travel and be in love with no kids, what's wrong with that? |
| Question: Is marriage pointless? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 09:08 AM PDT I don't know what to think of it, because of the divorce rates these days. What do you think? |
| Question: Can wife ask her share from husband without break in relationship? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 09:00 AM PDT |
| Question: If you married your dream woman, would you still check out other women/view porn? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:33 AM PDT "dream" What I mean is that if you married a woman who had the looks and personality that suited your taste to a very high degree, would you still look at other women/pornography and/or would you be honest about it if your wife asked? I wonder how a woman (or man) would feel if they had been pronounced their spouse's dream in every way, but, secretly, the spouse was looking at magazines with nudity, watching pornography and checking out/eyeing other women/men (not just casual observation). |
| Question: Why did people in the 1940s-1960s marry so early? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 08:17 AM PDT Seems like most people I know who married during this time frame married early in life. Most of the women I know married when they were teenagers. My grandma said she and all of her friends married at 15, 16, 17 and 18 years of age. Their husbands were usually in their early 20s. The country singer Loretta Lynn married at 15 and had four children before 20. |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 07:45 AM PDT I work at a health care center and I spoke anonymously to the mental health department today and they said that unfortunately there's nothing I can do. I just have to determine if my quality of life is well enough with it in my life to stay (which is the case) or if my quality of life is not well enough to stay (which is not the case). But I love her and I want her to get beyond this; I can't imagine what she goes through on a day to day basis with her inner demons. I just know that whatever it is, it is holding her (and me) back from living the life we want to live - a peaceful and serene one. They suggested positive reinforcement rather than negative, but that doesn't work because she scrutinizes compliments and tries to see "between the lines". They suggested encouraging them to see a therapist to adopt as a surrogate parent or role model, but she won't since she MUST be in control of herself and refuses to take anyone's advice (not even mine). They suggested figuring out what motivates them, but everything that motivates her is short lived and essentially low bearing fruit and they reward themselves often (borderline addiction). They asked about ADHD and/or head trauma and I had to confess yes because they had a concussion. Then they finally said "Can you walk away"... I had to stop there and go back to my IT work. So what would you do in a marriage like this? One where they were too high funcitoning to warrant intervention but too low functioning to have intimacy with? |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 07:14 AM PDT They are keeping the child. Her parents are upper middle class and willing to help financially and her retired mother is willing to babysit while both young parents work. The catch is they want the couple to get engaged so the dad can move in and they can "do things right" |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 06:54 AM PDT I am a pakistani girl and as the culture is followed my marriage was arranged. On my wedding night when we made love he was not even able to maintain erection and above all he was biting my nipples so hard that i was crying. Its been a month and he is like this. I dong get to enjoy anything. His elder brother flirts with me a lot and he playfully teases me. On my honeymoon i was highly disappointed. He is small and cant even erect properly. He went for different treatments but no effect. What should i do ?! |
| Question: Why won't my wife sleep in the same bed as me? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 06:50 AM PDT I'm 33 and my wife is 31. We've been married for 3 years and we have a daughter who's 5. For the past couple of weeks, she has been refusing to sleep in the same bed as me. She said it's because I snore too loud. So I decided to put a camera in my room for a few nights and film me sleeping. Each time I woke up, I played back the footage and I didn't snore at all. I've never even snored in my life. She's been sleeping on the sofa in the living room. I don't understand why she won't sleep with me. What could be the reason behind this? |
| Question: I dreamed that my husband was hitting me? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 06:48 AM PDT |
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| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 06:24 AM PDT Not all but mostly women are like that... I'd like to know why that happens? they won't stay clean they won't use perfumes.. Why can't women do the same after marriage? Why life become so boring after marriage and having kids? I think that's a big reason behind couples getting divorced and cheating. Thanks guys. Oh I've seen such marriages where guys have to work 8-10 hours at job and then at home they are taking care of children and some even cook for the family too xD cause few women are busy enough on facebook. Oh yeah same goes for guys too they get fat lol but what I think is if women / wives motivate their husbands they won't get fat. Stacy I never said I hate women or blaming them for anything. I am just sharing an experience and asking about opinions. Don't be a butt hurt! I already said it goes for both. Men also get Lazy and fat! Joyx5 that's true men do change too but whats the reason behind it that's what I am asking about lol. Ron I dont need your hate comments stop being a dumbass. After seeing your comment I came to know the reason why some animals eat their own kids. LMFAO xD |
| Question: How important is it for your spouse to be "in shape"? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 06:08 AM PDT Basically, would you care or love your spouse any less if they were to gain a substantial amount of weight? why? |
| Question: Why is sabotaging our marriage after 29yrs together? Posted: 20 Aug 2015 05:36 AM PDT I am a 53yr old woman, I grew up with both my parents present. I am a twin. I have a grown daughter of the union, a grohe has told me wn step-daughter, a grown son both not of this union.I have 4 grandchildren and one grandson on the way. I love my family. I love my husband, I don't like what he's putting me through though. I love and fear God and was baptized at an early age. My husband told he didnt grow up with his parents, has never been baptized, I don't think he has a relationship with God, nor has he ever belonged to any churches. He worked in same profession for over 28yrs. He is just 1yr older than me, but can be hugely playful and immature at times He wants to retire, and leave the state to go back to his childhood home in another stste. He has betrsyed me many times, lied, used drugs and cheaduring our relationship and during our marriage. I still love him but thought he loved me as well. Recently,and on numerous occasions, he has told me he doesnt love me anymore though he cares. I feel he isn't being truthful only except when its convenient. I feel he's being selfish, he has had a plan to work, save and leave all along, and has tried to minimize my contribution to our life together, so he can (now at our older age)divorce me and not have to provide for our family and future together any longer. |
| Posted: 20 Aug 2015 05:21 AM PDT I seriously can't tell the difference. If we haven't set up a life goal, and if we don't have a structure we follow, and if we don't have any objective in life other than "survive another day", then how do I know when she is contributing anything of worth? I keep trying to create a goal, structure, purpose, meaning, objective, etc. but she doesn't seem to want anything to do with it. She likes the flexibility to do whatever she wants without being burdened with a long term goal. She likes the ability to quit things when they get hard or they are boring... So creating any future with her is next to nil... So without something to go towards, wouldn't that make ALL her thoughts emotional based around that concept of "surviving"??? I don't know, most of my wife's thoughts are pretty emotional or based on her fears of what "could go wrong" which is in line with her pessimistic belief that the world is out to get her... I need help with examples on what are thoughts I should entertain and which ones I should just treat like venting and ignore? |
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