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- Question: Help Please....My moms mad at me?
- Question: How do I get my mum to stop treating me like I'm a child?
- Question: How to deal with my dad?
- Question: Where can i buy a door knob with a way to lock it from the outside? Door handle with passcode?
- Question: What to do if you think your parents are going to split up?
- Question: Is my big sister okay?
- Question: My mom hits me I'm 20?
- Question: My toddler doesn't want to leave?
- Question: Can my sister control my old mom to change her will?
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- Question: My parents are too quick to judge my boyfriend...?
- Question: I'm 17 yrs old and live with my family. i hate it here and i want to find happiness by living with a friend a state over. how can i do this?
- Question: My mom is cheating on my dad . Please help fast! :/ It s Urgent!?
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- Question: Can my mother do anything to get me to move back into her house or stop my dad from helping me move out? I live in Texas.?
- Question: I feel absolutely awful... help?
- Question: Mom thinks she knows everything!?
- Question: I'm 20 years old and want to move out but I'm terrified of my dad?
- Question: Parents want my password for my personal school profile and email?
- Question: Mother-in-law is obsessed with my son, am i being selfish?
- Question: I'm 19 and my parents still expect me to be back home by certain times.?
- Question: I caught my little sister watching porn?!?!?
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- Question: I m 14 years old and my sister is 17 and she abuses me. By either punching, slapping,etc. I don t know what to do & I havent told my parents?
- Question: My mom always makes me feel bad about myself & has never supported me in anything. what should I do?
- Question: My mom always makes me feel bad about myself & has never supported me in anything. what should I do?
- Question: My mom ALWAYS makes me feel bad about myself as in my weight & acne. she emotionally abuses me & idk what to do?
- Question: Was this abuse?
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| Question: Help Please....My moms mad at me? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 01:15 PM PDT So I ll start from the beginning. I was filling out paperwork and I had to get it done really quick (for field hockey) My mom kept calling me to do things and chores she wanted done before she left (for a little business trip for five days). So when she called me again I answered in an annoyed and snappy voice. She paused and asked me why I m talking so rudely. And I answered, saying that I was jus doing something. Then she rolls her eyes and says bye sharply and leaves the house. I tried to stop her and say sorry and say bye back but she pushed me aside and left. I feel so horrible right now. She left and I m not going to see her for the next five days. What do I do? |
| Question: How do I get my mum to stop treating me like I'm a child? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 01:06 PM PDT I'm 21. Let begin here: She tells what I can and can't wear sometimes, she won't let me get a belly button piercing, she won't let me get a tattoo, she makes me go to salons to get my hair dyed, and she treats me like I'm under 18 sometimes. She also rarely tries to tell me what I can and can't buy. I can't move out because I don't have enough money to get an apartment for myself and I'm fed up with being treated like I don't have a high school diploma. I love her a lot and she means the world to me, but I'd like to have some independence and make more decisions on my own. I mean, I have some of my adult rights, and we argue over me wanting to make decisions on my own. I know her intentions are good and she's definitely not a helicopter parent. I can go to bed whenever I want, I can watch whatever I want, I can listen whatever music I want, and I go to places by myself. She's reluctant with allowing me to get blue highlights next month and I told her that I'm willing to take the consequences if I don't like the results, I'm paying for it myself, and I think I can also get a nose ring. I feel like I'm going crazy. |
| Question: How to deal with my dad? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 12:56 PM PDT My dad insults me so much and I'm a teenage girl so it gets to me a lot its mostly about my image/appearance in only 14 so I'm in the early stages of being a teenager he says stuff like "ur getting really fat" and "u eat to much" baring in mind I'm not tht fat and I hv acne he is like "that's the laziness" and calls me a slob I cant take much more and he keeps trying to make me do what he wants me to do when I grow up but I want to be a teacher for the deaf |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 12:44 PM PDT My sister and mom keep stealing my clothes and my stuff in my closet so im wondering where can i buy a door knob or handle that can lock from the outside ? Like i go in to change then close the door then take a key and lock it from the outside? And one u cant pick? Any good brands or where i can buy them with no spare key that comes with it bc if there is then my dad will def give it to my sister wen she wants to take something from me bc he doesnt care if she wants to. Help? DONT BOTHER TO ANSWER IF UR GNA SAY SUM BULLSHIT ABT HOW IM SPOILED OR SUM OTHER BULLSHIT OR U WILL GET CURSED OUT BY ME. |
| Question: What to do if you think your parents are going to split up? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 12:41 PM PDT Im 13 and lately my parents have been fighting a lot. i saw a book on my dads amazon account on the recently viewed section and it was called something like how to develop trust with your partner after cheating. its kind of terrible but sometimes i wish they would divorce just so that the fighting would stop, they pick on everything the other does. what should i do??? |
| Question: Is my big sister okay? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 12:33 PM PDT So im 12 years old boy and my sister is 17 and she gets super angry sometimes and I'll see blood in the toilet after her showers and I ask her why its there and she tells me to stop being a (bad word) baby and flush it, and get over it. I don't know why she gets so mean and she told me that shes gonna rip my (bad word) head off and then she told me "suck my **** (bad word)" can someone explain oles I'm so worried I am too scared to tell my mom!! But sometimes my sister gets better after a couple days but then it soon comes back?!?! |
| Question: My mom hits me I'm 20? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 12:33 PM PDT So I'm 20 years old and a full time student that doesn't work. Today our house had this construction thing so we had to get our cars away from the garage. So I moved both cars (me and my moms) to the side because she was watching my nephew. But when the construction was finished she told me to put the cars back in place, so I told her since my nephew is sleeping to come out and park her car so I don't have to go back and forth. This situation eventually led my mom to go all crazy saying that I don't do anything for her (I try to do almost everything I can, when to go buy wood with her, give her the things she wants to watch, etc I really try not to anger her. But apparently she was really angry that I didn't park her car and told her to park her car, so she hit my head real hard with my shoe and through things around the room. I am short tempered so once she hits me I really can't stay calm to be hit so I hit her back and push her against the wall. The fit goes go for a few minutes and now she comes in my room telling me to get out. I know at this age that I should get a job and move out but I really have low seLf esteem and I really don't have a social life and get really nervous when talking and my mom cussing at my and calling me names isn't really helping. I just need to wait 2 years till I graduate and get a job. I just wanted to ask people on yahoo answers if the situation was something anyone would through a punch over and it would be great to get addition advice. |
| Question: My toddler doesn't want to leave? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 12:18 PM PDT My two year old doesn t want to go with his father? I have custody of my son but I try to coparent with my son s father. Only because I believe is healthy for a child to have both parents in his life. Lately he doesn t want to go with him on the weekends. He hugs me and cries that he wants to stay in "my house" its extremely hard and heart breaking but I m not sure what to do. I m not sure if it s because he goes everywhere I go and is used to me or I don t know. Should I alow his father to visit him and if he wants to leave he'll go?without forcing him What can I do? I m completely lost and I m not sure if I should let him leave again |
| Question: Can my sister control my old mom to change her will? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 12:16 PM PDT it isn't a case of physical abuse, its threats by my sister to mom that if mom doesn't listen to her my sister wont help my mom with her checking and shopping and basically everything , I live too far away to go to moms every other day I'm retired and my wife is disabled , my other good sister in FL is hope we can find a way to stop my nasty sister from taking my mom to the lawyer and changing the will to leave us out of it , all with threats to mom that she wont watch her or let them do it all . so if my mom agrees to change the will and my sister gets a notary or proof of that my mom is of sound mind before mom signs the new will , how can me and my good sister challenge this? |
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| Question: My Brother Killed his own twin brother?!? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT Well he never exactly killed him but at the same time he did: So basically its been an year now but A year ago, My brother was experimenting with his twin brother and killed him, er knew that one of them was not going to live long because of heart problems but he basically killed him, Im really confused . |
| Question: My parents are too quick to judge my boyfriend...? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 11:15 AM PDT I am 20 years old, and my boyfriend is about to be 21. He's in between jobs right now and is about to get a job as an overnight stocker to keep a steady flow of income while he looks for a better job. He's a blue collar worker (works for car dealerships) and wants to be a mechanic when he can get the money to take the test to get certified. This irks my parents, especially my dad. Both of my parents have Masters Degrees and my dad is a very high up executive in a large banking company while my mom is a math tutor full time. They are "concerned" because they know the expensive life I've become accustomed too and urge me to look for someone with more of a future. What they (mostly my father) don't understand is he's treated me 1000x better than any rich boyfriend I've ever had. He constantly tries to better himself for me, as he thinks I deserve the best. He puts my happiness before his own and make it known how special I am and how much he loves me every day. What more could I ever ask for than someone that loves me unconditionally like that? How can I move passed my parents' judgement and not let that get in the way of my love and dedication to him? I love my parents, but they are just wrong here. I'd rather be treated like gold than have it. |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 11:11 AM PDT my friend and i have known each other for the longest time. ill be 18 in 8 months but i feel as i can't wait till then. his dad is fine with me moving in but my mom and dad are overprotective of me. i do not want to drop out of school since I'm in 11th grade. i would love more then anything to transfer to my friends school where he lives. i wouldn't pay rent my parents are convinced i will but ill work it off. to set this story straight all i want is a solution. how can i make this happen? am i old enough? I'm mature for my age i have a job so i can transfer this job to the same workplace where he lives. everything will work but even when i mention it to my parents about moving they get extremely angry and punish me for it. all i want to do is leave and be happy with my live. my collage i want to go to is 30 minutes from his house when its 3 and a half hours from mine. the people up there are wonderful and everyone is the best. id have clean slate and have not a worry in the world. but, my parents don't seem to care what makes me happy. my family is pretty wealthy. we get by good. but i don't like it. I'm a simple man. i like being on my own. how can i move? how can i convince the two most stubborn parents to let me? i know its 8 months until I'm an adult but please. i can't wait any longer. id really appreciate more then anything for an answer. thank you. |
| Question: My mom is cheating on my dad . Please help fast! :/ It s Urgent!? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 11:10 AM PDT First, I have to mention I m 13 and my dad went with my older brother to Prague, so he will study and my dad will help him out. Anyway, my mom is cheating on my dad, well she is going to! Lets start from the beggining. My mom started talking to a gym advisor from April. I checked their chat from time to time just from curiosity. But today, I checked their chat once more, and they mentioned that they liked each other . And my mom is going out tonight and he asked what colour is she gonna wear and bla bla . And my mom told that she actually will share a drink with him and he was happy . they also said that they make each others day. That guy, is ugly. Srsly, ew . But , anyway i dont know what to do! I really need help fast cause she is going out tonight. I need some options fast. I really dont want to tell my dad ! he is a great man and i love him . i dont want him to get hurt . I want to stop my mom from doing something with that guy. I thought of tracking her from fond my iphone, and when she goes away from the club, and stay in another house(its going to probably be his) im gonna scare him with sending him messages that im gonna tel his family(idk if he has a wife) and my mom or he will stop:3 Thanks for reading guys! Hope you have some good suggestions. and please dont tell me that its not of my buiseness.it is. |
| Question: I hate my life so much I wanna just die!? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 11:06 AM PDT I know for a fact everyone hates me, including my family, I told my dad I hated him when I was 6 and that's why he isn't here, His girlfriend is scared of me ever seeing him again for the fact I say anything without thinking it and she doesn't want me messing up their relationship. He has always talked to my sister on the phone but never talked to me, he'd be like I'll call for me later but he never calls me back, My mother brings all of this up every time I do something She doesn't like, she'd be like this is why your dad left me, because there's something wrong with me, I've always been an emotional person because of the fact my dad left me and everyone in my family would bring it up everytime I do something they don't like, but Now Im coming to the point I feel suicidal... I didn't know why my dad never talked to me until today, I've always been told that my dad left because of the fact his mother died but Now I know, when I had an argument with my mom she told me everything what I've said above and that I cant even make friends, everyone Is my friend until they get used to me and than avoid me and this is true even though I've never tell her anything, So Im deciding what I should do today because the argument only happened a couple of hours ago, Also now thinking about it I could understand why my sister hates me so much. |
| Question: How to get someone to reply you on whatsapp? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 11:06 AM PDT |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:54 AM PDT I'm 17 and am going to try to move out into my own apartment. Most won't let me sign the lease or whatever, so my dad will do it for me. I've lived with my mom my whole life, but have hated it. I've always wanted to move in with my dad but she never let me. I'm going to stay in school & have a job. My mom will try everything through the law to keep me in the house, is there anything she can do since my DAD will be helping me? My mom and dad live in separate towns but I may go live in his town (apartment by myself) until I graduate. |
| Question: I feel absolutely awful... help? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:53 AM PDT so, my mom has been terrible to me since i came out as bisexual. today, she had driven me to school today, and she asks me if i made any new friends. it's the second day of school, im still trying to get used to classes, so i said no. now, i was generally not trying to make friends this year, cause i don't exactly like anyone in my school beside the 20ish friends/aquaintences i have already. i just want to get through high school and get to art school where i will be surrounded with my kind of people. anyway, she said that she wants me to "enjoy highschool" and "not stay in my room all the time" and, what she really emphasized "meet some BOYS this year" (she hates me for being bi. especially since i prefer girls, i am worried to elaborate to her.) i am very shy and not good with people i don't exactly like or like too much but i just feel guilty. all in all, im basically a gay introvert who wants to make it to her golden years in college easily and as smoothly as possible. is that bad? should i feel this bad about my mom being disappointed in the way i do things? im just so lost |
| Question: Mom thinks she knows everything!? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:53 AM PDT My mom has never been ideal. She had awful manners,she slouches eats loudly with noises,yells at everything and acts like she has a mega-mind. She tells me i'm a beast and evil ,whenever i tell her to eat properly and act more like a lady,then she finds excuses that she doesn't hace time and that she sacrifises her appearence because of me and my studies(to be exact my language lessons) but have i asked her to do so,or if she does that why does she make me feel bad about that,it's her decision. She thinks she has a super analitic /analitical(whatever!) Brain and she can predict my actions and never forget anything. Which apparently is bullshit. She doesn't know ANYTHING about me. She just yells at me every goddam second of my life and plus i have younger siblings,a toddler and a 4 year old,i'm almost 15. What can i do about her?! She constantly tells me i hate her and i don't love her,but that's not true. Not at all! |
| Question: I'm 20 years old and want to move out but I'm terrified of my dad? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:46 AM PDT I will be 20 years old in a couple weeks & I want to move out. My dad was in prison for most of my life he got out when I was around 12/13 years old I rarely ever get to do anything, Since I was 13 whenever I wanted to do something or for anything really he always would ask for a deal. It started off with little things like taking pictures in my bra and panties and then he would ask for more and more (even once to jack him off) I use to he so afraid to tell him no. He has never hit me. But he has hit my mom before and sometimes he gets so angry it just scares me to death. My boyfriend and his family knows what's been going on & they say I could come live with them. I even tried it once. I was there for 4 days but he somehow got his address and found me. He was there with other people even one person come in the door. I heard they had guns. I went back home because I was terrified of what would happen. He had a court day the other day and I was so sure he was going to do time but he didn't get charged. And I'm planning on leaving again today to my boyfriends house again. But he knows where they live & even though their family says its ok I'm just scared of what will happen. I currently have no job because my dad made me quit And I don't start college until next year.If I left he would do anything in his power to stop me and bring me back.. What should I do please help. Should I stay with my bf and his family? At least for a Lil while until I get a job and can get my own place? |
| Question: Parents want my password for my personal school profile and email? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:45 AM PDT Because they want to keep track of everything being charged on my school meal plan card, and in order to check they need the password to my school profile and school email. While mostly everything in my account is school related only I just feel uncomfortable giving multiple people access to my personal school email and accounts, it just doesn't seem right to me. Doesn't sit well with me that they just have full unlimited access to that stuff. I can just bring up the account information for my parents when I come home for weekends or I can just screen shot it and email it to them. Anyway am I being overly dramatic about this? |
| Question: Mother-in-law is obsessed with my son, am i being selfish? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:39 AM PDT my son was born 6 weeks ago and it all started in the hospital when she began to get on my nerves. she kept coming in the room whenever she felt like it, and she would bring along all of her friends and family to visit me in my room. I had given birth and not even 4 hours later, she had already brought about 5 people to see me. My partner and I decided to give our son my last name for personal reasons and when she saw the clerk putting my last name on the birth certificate, she lost it. she got very angry and tried to push me to change the last name. then she left in anger when i refused.. my partner and I live with his mom and dad. we both work full time and are saving a down payment for a house but at this point i just want to get an apartment to get away from her. my boyfriend keeps telling me no and that we are going to stay here until we get a house. (which could be a few years). When i brought my son home from the hospital, she would come in my room at 3am and take him from me and take him to her room. The first few days of him being home, she constantly had visitors every hour at our house and i barely got to bond with him because she kept taking him so her visitors could see him. 6 weeks later, i figure she would calm down but she is just as bad. I literally have to lock myself in my room all day to avoid her. every time i step outside of my room, she approaches me because of the baby. Yesterday, I had walked out of the room with him in my arms to make something to eat, she immediately comes up to me and takes him from my arms without asking.. I learned to walk out of the room with him in a wrap, around my chest so she cant take him. now, she just stands there and stares at me when i come out like shes waiting for me to give him to her.. im so fed up with her and my partner wont give in to an apartment. i feel uncomfortable here. am i being selfish? my boyfriend and i have been arguing a lot lately because of it. i feel like i cant do anything here without her breathing down my neck |
| Question: I'm 19 and my parents still expect me to be back home by certain times.? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:38 AM PDT I'm 19 (20 in 2 and a half weeks) and I'm very outgoing. But my parents still treat me like a kid even though I don't act like one. If I go out shopping or for another type of day out, they're always like "be back by 5", "be back by 6", be back by 4". None of my other friends' parents give them certain times because they're adults. Even when I go out on nights out I have to be home by half 1 at the very latest. Every other one of my friends gets to return at like 4 or 4:30am. Why are my parents doing this? I'm almost 20, for god's sake. They can't tell me what to do. |
| Question: I caught my little sister watching porn?!?!? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:24 AM PDT What do i do? I'm 14, 15 in like a month and my little sister is 12,This happened like half an hour ago, i went into her room because i was looking for a brush when i approached her on her laptop, straight away she switched to a different tab and i went over to her computer and saw that in another tab it was porn hub :o she straight away clicked the tab off once she noticed that i saw what she was doing, i walked away because i was shocked then i went back to her and asked her what tab did she just close (even though i knew it was porn hub) she told me it was a pop up.. -_-... it was quite obviously not a pop up so i continued to question her but i could tell she was about to cry (she often does when she's been caught) so i left it and walked away. I'm just concerned, the idea of my little sister watching porn just.. disturbs me o.o , i want to talk to her about it or to my mum but i don't want to upset her or make the conversation uncomfortable, what do i do?? ;~; |
| Question: Am I wrong for doing nothing with my life? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:19 AM PDT I'm 27 and still live with my parents. I have Bipolar Disorder. My mom says that makes her happy because she doesn't want me to be more successful than her (I'm serious) So I stay in my childhood room every day and watch TV an use my laptop the whole day. I cook and eat. I'm one of the laziest people you will ever meet. But looking at society today, I'm pretty okay with being the person I am. It just seems like people are living for money and money alone. There doesn't seem to be a lot of humanity in the world anymore. Can you see where I'm coming from? |
| Question: I'm scared to tell my parents about what my bother has been doing? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:15 AM PDT I was recently snooping in my brothers stuff (he's 16) and I found empty beer bottles, condoms, electronics cigarette, and butts of old cigarettes. I'm 14 do I tell my parents about this. This has really been bothering me. Help I'm scared to tell my parents about what my brother has been doing. What should I do |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT I lost a loved one and i'm am very sad about it. She was 96 years old but somehow i didn't see it coming. Anyways to help me get over my lost? |
| Question: Should I sell my guitar? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:09 AM PDT So I have an acoutstic/electric guitar and both my brother and my cousin want to buy it from me, It is worth about $500 new and $430 used but I am going to sell it to either one of them for $400 because they are family. One of them (my brother) knows 0 guitar skills whatsoever but is closer to me, the one of them is very experienced with guitar (my cousin) even better than me, but I am not so close to him. The guitar was originally my mothers, but she gave up trying to learn because she saw that i was much better than her. i havent asked my cousin what price he wants to buy it for. so, should i sell it? and if so who should i sell it to, im kind of torn. if i am going to sell i need to know if my mom is okay with it BUT my mother was manipulative to me and all of my brothers so i am wondering if i should do it behind her back. ALSO dont comment saying "oh she's you mother she has alot to go through she loves you" hah no..... you don't understand. she manipulates and ruins everyone she meets. she ruined my dad, she ruined me, she ruined my brothers, she ruined my step dad, yada yada yada blah blah blah.......anyway. thanks. i will update this post when or if i sell it. It is in WONDERFUL condition. when i mean used it goes for $430 used, that is awful ebay prices, you know how ebay is |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:07 AM PDT We have home now but in one month time we need find own home,but mum don t have money for that.And she have bad credit history.We just want help mum get back on feet. And school is starting soon.I am 16 years sister is 11 years old and brother is 9 years old.We just don t know how to help our mum. |
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| Question: My sister breaks expensive things of mine? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:05 AM PDT I'm a 15 year old male and I have a 19 year old sister I live with her and my mom. and whenever I break something of hers i get grounded for months. But when she breaks something of mine for the same reason, my mom supports her and they both say I deserved it. So far she has broken up to 5000$ worth of my belongings. When I ask her why she supports her she says its because she is a woman and men deserve those type of things for everything they do to offend women. How should I tell them how I feel? |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 10:02 AM PDT my sister is controlling my mom she is 88 I'm 68 sister is 55 have one other sister in FL other sister lives near mom nasty vindictive type . If I go to lawyer I don't want lawyer to open can of worms and have mom removed what should I do who can I trust . |
| Question: Why does this happen to me? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 09:52 AM PDT i feel like nobody around me understands me except my father...he is very important to me but the problem is the more i love him the more i am afraid to loose him..i keep praying for his long life literally every moment....yesterday my sisters's friend's father passed away..and my sister said may this never happen to us...she just said it ...but this situation came into my imagination unintentionally...and i started crying couldn't hold it (i don't cry much).......and my whole day went bad! what should i do? its not that i m too dependent on him......i take my own decisions....its just that i simply dont want him to leave us ever... :( |
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| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 09:41 AM PDT when it comes to soccer games or school events she's never supported me. she's never gone to one, it's always my dad who goes to them. she ALWAYS makes me feel bad about my weight, I can't have one conversation with her without her talking about my weight. I'm not skinny nor fat, I'm average & happy with my body. she's always comparing me with thinner girls. when she's mad at me it gets 100x worse. she gives my body this look with a lot of disgust & it makes me feel terrible about myself. she also calls me ugly a lot cause I'm slightly breaking out on my forehead but I mean every teenager does right? the other day she told me "you look terrible". & of course it made me feel so low about myself. I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for 7 months now & both of my parents like him. but she'll tell me that when him & I get married he's gonna leave me for a skinner woman. sometimes I start to think that that's true & I worry. when she's also mad at me she always finds ways to get me in trouble with my dad & make up lies to him. she mocks me & says I'm worthless & a good for nothing. I always do my chores & nice stuff for her but she always finds something to complain about it cause I can never do anything right for her! it's gotten so bad I cry about it at night cause idk what to do anymore. I'm 17 about to be 18 in 4 months. |
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| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 09:29 AM PDT when it comes to school, playing sports, or anything she has never supported me. she's never attended any school events or my soccer games, it's always my dad there with me. she makes me feel bad about my weight. I can't have one conversation with her talking about my weight or comparing me to a very thin girl. I'm not fat nor skinny, I'm average but she exaggerates & makes it seem like I'm obese but I'm NOT. of course every teenager breaks out at one point & that's happening to me right now, it's not too bad but it's kinda visible. she calls me ugly & says I look "horrible". when she gets mad at me she always finds way to get me in trouble with my dad or tells him lies & I'm sick of it. but when she's all happy with me then she's all nice but it's sometimes out of nowhere where she says really mean & hurtful things to me about my weight. I have a boyfriend & my mom says that when we're married he's gonna end up leaving me for a skinner woman. she says she feels sorry for my boyfriend cause I'm a good for nothing cause I can never do anything right for her! I do nice things for her or when asks me to do things I do them & she always has to find something wrong with it. she mocks me when she's mad or sometimes she'll look at my body with this look & that's the worse look, she looks at me with disgust & it makes me feel so bad about myself! I cry myself to sleep at night cause of it & idk what to do anymore, I haven't told anyone cause I'm embarrassed to. what should I do? |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 09:24 AM PDT When I was around 8, my mom started drinking heavily sometimes and she's like that angry type of drunk. She'd throw me against walls, hit me with objects on the head (like chairs, remotes, and her fists). She'd beat me all day and I was always afraid to come home cause she would hit me. Then she was going through some hard time with my dad who at the time she found out had cheated on her. This was when I was 11. She would drink every day and beat me every day as well. I seriously don't know how I've never gotten seriously injured from her punching me in the face. I have scratches, claw marks, and bruises all over my body even now and I'm 15 now. This continued throughout the years but stopped a year ago and now it's less infrequent. She's apologized numerous times for what she did but I can't like forgive her. It's weird. Here's the thing. If she's at a family reunion or a party and she has a little drink. I lose my sh it. Like I can't deal with it and I seriously act like I'm a mental patient. Everyone thinks I'm weird cause I act this way but I'm just afraid. I've promised myself that I will never ever drink. EVER. My question is, was this abuse? Is she still somewhat abusing me by drinking just a bit even though she knows I go insane? |
| Question: I'm not allowed to wear a dress because I will "give people the wrong idea". Opinions? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 09:15 AM PDT My dad is getting married and I had to buy two dresses, one for the wedding and one for the rehearsal dinner. I found two black dresses I absolutely loved. I felt good and comfortable in them. My dad and sisters both loved it but my future step mom and grandma saw them and said it was too provocative. I'm 16. Neither dress was low cut. The first one was knee length with cutouts on the side (which actually had lace over them). The second one was just above my knees with an open back and a high collar. So now my family has decide these dresses are too provocative and that I will be giving the wrong idea to the people at the wedding. I even offered to find something to wear underneath so you can't see my skin on the cutouts or the back and they still said no. Am I crazy for being disappointed that they would say that? And I am in no way a provocative person. Even if I was would there be a reason to shame me for it? |
| Question: My father is sexually abusive towards me and i am very uncomfortable in this environment? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 09:03 AM PDT i am thinking about calling the police station in my area to ask a few questions. first off, i am 17 & would like to leave home. secondly, the reason is because my father is sexually abusive towards me & i am very uncomfortable in this environment. i reached out to my mom. she wont listen. she ignores me or gets angry i would make accusations like these. i can't have a lock on my door. this just lets him come in on me changing my clothes or sit on my bed while i am doing hw there. no matter how verbal i am about my displeasure towards his presence in my room, he wont leave. he'll start to get verbally abusive towards me.. say i am disrespectful towards him as a parent. my mom usually jumps in at this point & yells at me as well. I want to leave. my ques is: if i call my local police station, tell them about my situation just so they can give me options on how to go about this, will they automatically report me? or will they ask if i want to report first? if i chose not to report will they not give me any options? i live in MA, USA if this helps. BUt, i dont want to report him in a way that would send him to jail or cause my sister or any other family member any problems. she's in college & we just bought a new house... i cant have him filed as a sex offender (my friends say this needs to happen and WILL happen if i report anything) bc my fam will go through hardship. I want to "disappear" from my parents lives. I'm a good student & i know i'll get a scholarship to college. so i think i can make it own my own after 18. but right now, i only have $300 (that i cant touch because my mother has a joint account with me), no license/car, & i have 1 yr of hs left. living with a friend is NOT an option. i live in a very strict circle of friends who's parents are well... not as nice as their children are. all my friends parents either: a) just sent kids off to college b)can't afford another mouth to feed or c) dont want another face under their roof. it's sad for me but it's my reality... |
| Question: Why do i hate my parents so much? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 08:56 AM PDT theyre good parens,never done anything bad to me but i just hate them so much.theyre so annoying and i want them to leave me alone and never come to my room again i hate when they make sarcastic comments about what im wearing or about my hair. am i the only one who feels this way? :ooo im 15 -.--- |
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| Question: I found my dad's email on the Ashley Madison leaked files.? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 08:48 AM PDT Now, what do I do!??!! Do I tell my mom?? Do I talk to my dad!?!? I'M COMPLETELY FREAKED AND PISSED RIGHT NOW! |
| Question: Why am i so afraid of this? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 08:41 AM PDT i feel like nobody around me understands me except my father...he is very important to me but the problem is the more i love him the more i am afraid to loose him..i keep praying for his long life literally every moment....yesterday my sisters's friend's father passed away..and my sister said may this never happen to us...she just said it ...but this situation came into my imagination unintentionally...and i started crying couldn't hold it (i don't cry much).......and my whole day went bad! what should i do? its not that i m too dependent on him......i take my own decisions....its just that i simply dont want him to leave us ever... :( |
| Question: How would you describe the relationship between me and my moms best friend son? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 08:34 AM PDT So my mom and her best friend have been friends for five years now. My moms best friend and her family are family to us. So her eldest son and I are really close but I am not sure if we are just friends or he sees me like a little brother. For example he annoys me as if we were siblings because one time we went to six flags one time and he was annoying me and playing around with me and he invited one of his friends from school but he wasn't like that with his friend. He was also pushing me like not to knock me down but to move faster which I was anyway without him pushing me and I got mad at him for pushing me and he stopped. Another thing is my parents also let him lecture me and my brother if we don't listen. He also annoys the living crap out of me as if we were siblings. He also will not let anyone pick on me and he will beat anyone up if they try to hurt me. |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 08:19 AM PDT They sit at home and do NOTHING;(((. I cant have a family on my own because i take care of them. ;( |
| Question: How do I ask my dad thats not bothered with me for years for money? :s? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 08:14 AM PDT Okay so I'm 16 I really want a Play station 4 this yea lr but my mum is going through money struggles with paying bills etc.. She said to me your dads not bothered with you for 3 years ask him for the money he never gives you anything I've always payed for your things, food, clothes, games, school trips, for once he should do something for you. And I totally agree with my mum. But my dad lives in Canada and we live in the UK, my only contact with him is facebook..and he rarely messages me even on there. My mum said I should just come out with it and ask him to pay a bit towards the ps4 about £250 at the most maybe more I know alot to ask for but my dad has never cared for me he's never been there for me...don't I deserve something at least? So I need help or how to word it to him on facebook with the asking for money I'm nervous but you don't understand how much I want a ps4...somebody help :S Please.. And thankyou... :-) |
| Question: What did I do wrong? Why is my Mum angry with me? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 08:10 AM PDT Before you say something like "You should understand why she's angry" hear me out. She dropped her Samsung S5 Phone and the clip inside to make everything work disconeccted. So when she went out to get my Brother from work i clipped the screen back in. When she got home she found her phone on the table picked it up and said why is my phone on the table? I waited for her to open it and she saw it working and was using it. Then she screamed at me for "Touching her phone without permission" Yes I admit that was wrong I shouldnt have done that but I FIXED it for her. She would have had to spend £200 otherwise. I wanted to do something nice for her because I havent done so in a while. I dont understand why shes mad. |
| Question: Does anyone else find this odd? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 07:56 AM PDT The Other day, my family and I looked at a house. We removed our shoes (not uncommon at open houses). I was barefoot as I had worn sandals, and everyone else wore socks. The realtor kept asking me "Oksana, how does that floor feel?" and "Oksana, how does that carpet feel?" Later, I asked the realtor why she kept asking me that. She said that because I was the only one with bare feet (no socks), I could feel the floors/carpets better and that opinion was important because of that. Does anyone find this odd? |
| Question: I've been feeling a little ignored lately by my parents and I'm not sure what to do.? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 07:54 AM PDT Someone in my family recently passed and it had a major impact on my mother, a few days later my sister left for college and it too has had an impact on my mother. My father has gotten some new opportunities at work and has been away more, leaving my mother and I at home for most of the day. She has been filling up her time working from home and is almost always on the phone, trying to get a word in with her has become rather difficult and with my sister gone I don't have her to talk to. I've been a little depressed I think with the change that has been filling our home and I've been having trouble eating. I dont think my parents have noticed but I don't want to trouble them more as they've been going through a rough time. Any ideas for getting out of the depression or confronting my parents about my feelings? |
| Question: Does motherhood give women status? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 07:47 AM PDT Does motherhood give women status over women who remain childless? |
| Question: My dad suddenly with no reason start to cry why ?this happens sinnce 2 months .? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 07:37 AM PDT my DAD with no reason start to cry sometimes 2 to 3 times a day sometimes 1 time in 4 days 1 hour ago he was talking with me and he was ok then he went to the kitchen to eat and while eating suddenly with no reason he start to cry i asked him what.s wrong with you dad he said he cant control it. my dad is ok and healthy as far as i khnow he does not take any meds can that be cured ?? he.s 62 years old . this happens with him since 2 month |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 07:33 AM PDT Update: She has this passive thing going where others think she's meek. She easily forgives others but lets supposed transgressions of her sister build up until there's confrontation. She really likes attention and seems to resent any paid to her sister. She'll make a point to mention compliments, says someone never liked her if they don't pay her attention,even wonders if they're jealous of her & yet puts herself down too. They are senior citizens not teens. What can the other sister do without making it worse? |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 07:31 AM PDT For example one minute she would be really nasty and shout at me and piss me off then literally the next minute she'd be all nice like nothing happened and she does this so often its making me really annoyed at her |
| Question: Is it weird for a 56 year old to give a 14 year old a Victoria Secret gift card? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 07:20 AM PDT My little sister was given a Victoria Secret gift card for her 14th birthday by my mothers boyfriend. I think it's kind of weird, but my mom and sister think it's perfectly fine. My mom has been with her boyfriend about 6 month's and my sister has never said he has done anything inappropriate and she doesn't seem uncomfortable around him. I'm almost 30, and I'm not really around much, so I don't know him that well. He is know as a good christian guy, so I feel like I'm being over protective and paranoid. She probably has never even shopped at Victoria Secret, which makes it even more odd. I just think the clothes there are too sexy for a 14 year old. I know this is a weird question, I just need a outsiders opinion. Sorry, it's so long. |
| Posted: 21 Aug 2015 06:34 AM PDT I explained to him that ALL WORLDS DIE. If Pandora was a real place it would be dying same as the Earth. Suns are stars, they all go supernova eventually, and nothing in the Universe is eternal. That the planet is just like us in many ways. Although it is a good idea to eat healthy and exercise eventually a human being will still die…so same with the Earth. It is a good idea to keep it clean and viable, but that won't make it last forever. Simply longer. I explained that doesn't mean humans will die out. We may go on to spoil other planets, if we can figure out a way to travel far enough, and it is my belief that we will. That made him happy again. But seriously? A kid in his teens should be able to figure all that out for himself, right? |
| Question: What can I do to stop my dad from emotionally abusing my brother??????? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 05:48 AM PDT So my brother has just turned 16,and our father is emotionally abusing him.By that, I mean he constantly blames my brother for our mothers death.My mother died in labor to my brother when I was 7.My father never really got over it,and he always treated me as the favorite and I was ok with that.I m ashamed to admit that,growing up,I also emotionally abused my brother.I blamed him for killing MY mother I never called her his mother. I called him worthless,a waste of space, and I said I wish he d died in her place.I of course am disgusted with myself.I am now 23 and after my marriage broke down with my wife,I moved back home.I moved out at 18,and returning home I was surprised to see just how awful my father is to my brother.He was never this bad before.My father refuses to see anything good about my brother.He calls my brother a curse.Yes, a curse.I recently discovered that,unsurprisingly,my brother is self-harming.Im going to get him help for it,but unless my father backs off,my brother will never truly be OK.My brother and I are really close now.I am finally being the big brother I should have always been.I think part of it is guilt,because my brother never deserved the way I treated him.I remember when I was 17(He was just 10!) that I beat him up with a few of my friends.My fathers reaction? Good on ya, son .Surely you can imagine how that made my brother feel.I want to make things right.He s such a great kid.If I move out,can he legally live with me?Advice? Thanks. |
| Question: My Mother Has No Idea How To Treat Stuttering? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 05:23 AM PDT I have a stuttering condition and my mother thinks being harsh on me about it will make me stop. She always tells me to 'focus on not stuttering' and 'why do you stutter more when you're talking to me and less when you're talking to your father?'. What she doesn't know is that she's putting me in a very uncomfortable situation, and the reason that I stutter more with her is because she makes me very anxious whenever I want to talk to her (my father acts like my stuttering isn't there, which helps so much). She always informs me when my stuttering us less or more, which makes it even worse. She continuously stops me when I'm talking and orders me to 'just quit stuttering'. She even says that the reason that I stutter is because I just want attention. Sometimes, it even causes her to yell and hit me. For example, it helps when I don't look directly at the person I'm talking to; but when I do that she insists that I'm using my stuttering as an excuse and thinks not looking straight into her eyes is a form if disrespect. When I speak to her in a bad tone, or talk back to her, she always tells me that 'my awful stuttering is God's way of punishing me for my actions towards her', when in fact that worst thing I've said to her was 'Mom, I don't understand why you're yelling at me'. She also always says that she 'just can't listen to me when I talk like that'. Please help, I don't know what to do . |
| Question: How tall do you think I will be? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 05:21 AM PDT So I m 15 but turn 16 next month and I m currently 5 7 or 5 7.5. My mom is 5 4 I think and my dad is 6 1 and my brother is about 6 2. Do you think I ll get to 5 9? I'm a girl btw |
| Question: Would you call this disrespect ? Posted: 21 Aug 2015 04:46 AM PDT Ok last night when I was trying to go to sleep to get ready for work today.Because I have to wake up at 4am in the morning to get ready for work.but last night around 11:30 pm when I was trying to go to sleep my mother. woke me up because we have a cat and she wanted me to change the litter box for days.and I haven't done it so she got upset when me. last night because she wanted me to change the cats.litter box and I haven't done it do you think that was disrespectful. for her to wake me up at 11:30 pm to tell me about the cat'a litter box or not ? |
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