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- Question: How to cope with you brother leaving for college/uni? HELP!?
- Question: My mother hurts my sister. PLEASE HELP!?
- Question: I hate working with my dad?
- Question: I hate working with my dad?
- Question: I think my sister is starving herself?
- Question: I haven't talked to my cousin for 2 years and now...?
- Question: Should i hang out with my bf baby mama?
- Question: How Do I explain to My Parents I HATE Working?
- Question: Dad caught me smoking cigarettes, please help.?
- Question: Can o+ father and a+ mother have a- daughter?
- Question: Would you want to see your "grandpa" under these circumstances?
- Question: Why does my mom not like me?
- Question: Do I have to sign for package?
- Question: Worried for my mom? She is depressed because my brother is in jail again and at the hospital? What should I do? should i contact him?
- Question: Am I wrong for telling my friend to grow up ? His wife messaged me the other day and said she wished he was more like me?
- Question: Overheard my Dad on phone with a mistress what do I do?
- Question: How do I help my parents accept my new mate?
- Question: Have you ever had the becoming a man talk with your dad, or male family member. GUYS ONLY?
- Question: My elderly mother is never happy?
- Question: My family hates my fiancée, need advice.?
- Question: How can i get help for my mother who is leaving a domestic violence situation?
- Question: In your own opinion, how do you establish and then maintain an optimistic family environment?
- Question: My mom is acting like an idiot how do I stop her?
- Question: I am 21 paying for my college And my dad owes child support, they are taking money out and giving it to my mom, but she won t give me any.?
- Question: How do I tell my sister I don't like her choice of husband?
- Question: I had my son 6wks ago and my SO helps with NOTHING!?
- Question: Better grade of hair?
- Question: Any advice?
- Question: How can I convince my parents to buy me something expensive?
- Question: Why didn't my mom tell me about this?
- Question: Girls, I thought it'd be funny to make fun of my 2 sisters! But my sisters are the ones who got the last laugh on me. Answer this up!?!?
- Question: Seriously mature question?
- Question: My mother is making me feel insecure and suicidal.?
- Question: Did I act out in the wrong way? Found out my father has another child?
- Question: Can I get food stamps for me and my daughter even though her father helps with supporting her financially with buying her what she needs?
- Question: Do you have a good relationship with your parents?
- Question: 10 very fast points! What reason is my professor treating me differently?
- Question: My older sister keeps stealing my stuff?!?!(10 points best answer)?
- Question: My Grandpa died and I didn't see him?
- Question: Don't know what to do about my family always fighting?
- Question: I hate my mum?
- Question: How should I respond to someone that is constantly taking jabs at me and putting me down?
- Question: Why is it that a woman's life is valued more than a mans?
- Question: My Father Is Insane. Any advice?
- Question: What are the characteristics of older sisters?
- Question: How can I buy a guitar for someone without letting them know it's for them?
- Question: How do I tell my sister I don't want her to live with me?
- Question: Mature family problem help?
- Question: My younger brothers are always me to do stuff for them , or asking for something that is MY stuff. and, when I say no, they get mad at me...?
- Question: My sister s babysitter isn t nice to her?
- Question: Why is my mom's boyfriend treating me this way?
- Question: Why the hell am I being hated on by this dumb thing?
- Question: How do I ask my dad to get me a new phone?
- Question: Added a friend on snapchat and they gave a questionable response?
- Question: Help me find my sister please?
- Question: My dad doesn't listen and can't remember things? It's really stressing me out. Help?
- Question: What are the characteristics of people who have a younger brother or sister?
- Question: Why is my younger sister so mean?
- Question: My mom expects me to know everything because i speak english?
- Question: Am I overreacting about this?
| Question: How to cope with you brother leaving for college/uni? HELP!? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:48 PM PDT So... My brother is going to another country in a few days to continue his studies there. For 2 freaking years. I still can't believe that he's actually going to leave home. Yes, he'll be back for holidays, but I really can't accept the fact. I actually have a very good relationship with my brother. I don't have other siblings, just him. I hate life at the moment, and he's the only one that makes me happy. I can tell him whatever I want, he understands me more than anyone. I'm happy for him, I just don't want him to leave. How do I deal with this? HELP! This might be stupid but I can't handle it anymore. How do I cope with not seeing him anymore? I literally have like one friend (who doesn't go to my school. Ha. Great.) and I don't want more reasons to be depressed. Help? Thanks:) |
| Question: My mother hurts my sister. PLEASE HELP!? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:25 PM PDT Okay, this is my first time on the site, but here's the problem that has been going on for a long time. I am an Asian from Bangladesh and I live in the UK. My family were born in Bangladesh but me and my siblings were born in the UK. My father is great. He is caring, affectionate and just basically the perfect dad. But he has to go to work in the afternoon and he comes back at midnight, that's when the trouble happens. I am generally no trouble-maker. My sister is two years younger(i am 14) and while she is a bit more naughty than me, but my mother is much more severe to her. Recently, she was punched repeatedly on the back by my mother for the only reason that she watches alot of make-up tutorials on the tablet and she doesn't do a lot of homework, EVEN THOUGH IT WAS THE SUMMER HOLIDAYS, we tell our father but he doesn't believe us ( my mom has a clever way of concealing the secrets). I need help on what i can do about it.PLEASE. |
| Question: I hate working with my dad? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:11 PM PDT I have already posted this question but yahoo automatically placed it in health and fitness. Anyway here's the problem. We have to work together and cooperate but that doesn't seem to work we are always arguing and never get along he thinks it all my fault and I think it's all his fault but the simple facts are that he is the boss and I usually just go along with his way but sometimes I offer a suggestion for a better way and he gets angry and I get frustrated. Anyway I'm probably just going to finish this project with my dad and hopefully never have to do this again with my dad. Any advice is it my fault?. We used to get along pretty good but now its pretty bad |
| Question: I hate working with my dad? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:39 PM PDT I try to be cooperative and understanding but whenever I suggest a better way to do something he doesn't care even if his way takes longer and is less efficient. I don't have much fun working with him any advice sorry about the category yahoo automatically did that |
| Question: I think my sister is starving herself? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:34 PM PDT Over the last couple of months I've noticed her eating less and less. She eats a small dinner with the family. And she often expresses she's "not hungry" and won't eat anything at all. She eats a small breakfast before school. Usually dry cereal. I know she doesn't eat anything else the rest of the day. The shorts she bought two months ago magically to big and now she needs a belt. The school skirt that she had to butten at her rib cage now fits her perfectly. My sister is 14 around 5'5. And I can only assume she weighs less than 120. I have expressed concern to my mom but she yelled at me. I'm 16 and don't know what to do. |
| Question: I haven't talked to my cousin for 2 years and now...? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:22 PM PDT well, my cousin and I are the same age , 20 both, and we grew up together since kindergarten but before 2 years when she went to Paris to study architecture while i stayed in my country to study medicine. I have never seen her anymore, even when she comes here for holidays we don't see each other. But ,..i f**king miss her. That night that we fight, i was drunk and i said something to her really bad and since than she stopped talking to me. what can i do ? if i text her she will text me back but just for formality not that she really cares...... help me pls :/ |
| Question: Should i hang out with my bf baby mama? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:02 PM PDT For some reason my bf baby mama wants my bf, myself her man,her and their kids to hang out and do not something together. She wants to get to know me but I see her at the house when she picks up the kids. I. Think this is weird what do you guys think? |
| Question: How Do I explain to My Parents I HATE Working? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:51 AM PDT Before judging, please read my entire question. I am a 35 year-old woman named Gail. I have an arts degree (which is useless today) and have been doing odd-customer service jobs since I was 18. None paid well, and I am finding myself bored with life. I recently faked a mental breakdown out of state, just so I could return to my parents house (who were not pleased that they had to pay for my airfare home plus credit card debt I accumulated.) My parents demanded to know how long I plan on staying with them. I told them at this point, I am exhausted. I need at least 10 years to just rest and live with them. Once I am 45, I might try freelance writing. In the mean time, I would need my old bedroom back, prescription drugs and absolute PRIVACY (unless I need to borrow money, which is frequently). My Mom thinks I'm nuts for 'mooching' and am lazy, but I have been trying to get a good job for years. It's not happening. With the new techno age and everything being about iPhones and Twitter updates, I can't compete. I lightly suggested they let me cash in on my inheritance early, but that was frowned upon. I know this sound insane but am I wrong to do this? I am no motivated or driven to work anymore. I need peace. |
| Question: Dad caught me smoking cigarettes, please help.? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:45 AM PDT Hi, so I was smoking in my bathroom and my father walked in and smelt it, he confronted me and made me give him everything. It was late at night and everyone in the house was asleep, needless to say he was mad. My older brother smokes and my mom knows I smoke (after being caught by her) she took it away back then and I told her I wouldn't smoke again. So my dad says he's going to talk to my mom tomorrow and sort out a punishment. What should I do? Be silent while they shout at me? |
| Question: Can o+ father and a+ mother have a- daughter? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:36 AM PDT |
| Question: Would you want to see your "grandpa" under these circumstances? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:36 AM PDT When I was a little girl, my grandpa left my sick, dying grandma (his wife) alone and went off to be with her best friend. The two moved away to Texas from California (my home) and his new wife sent us letters saying they never want to see us again, and my grandpa went along with it. Years later, his second wife dies, leaving him all alone in Texas. He then came begging my mom and her sisters to help him. Now they all help him financially and physically. I understand he is their father and raised them fairly well, always had a roof over their head and food on the table, but i just can't get passed how he left my grandma, his 5 daughters, and his grandchildren to be with one odious women and did not reach out to his daughters again until he needed help. My mom now wants me to visit with him at least once because he is 82 and could die soon. However, i have no desire to do so. Am i being stubborn or out of line? Am i just holding a grudge? I mean, i don't even know what i would say to him, besides i think he is a weak man, with no morals, that is easily influenced by a terrible woman. |
| Question: Why does my mom not like me? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:30 AM PDT My mom always swears at me or will say im not gonna get anywhere in life and noones gonna like me. I get why shes mad because sometimes i dont help out but i have studying to do! my gsce's are coming up and i need to revise but she thinks that learning how to wash dishes is the most important thing. When i do help out with the chores, she'll say do it like this, oh no dont do that, its meant to be like this! And that really frustrates me and just makes me want to not help her. Even today i wanted to order some good because there was nothing in the house for me to eat, so i got the phone and for some reason shes swearing at me! I may have gone a little overboard by throwing my shoe but there's only so much i can take! She'll tell my dad and he'll either tell me off or ignore it. Its like im not comfortable at home. When its midnight or something and they're all upstairs it makes me feel at peace because no one is taunting me. What should i do? I try to hold my anger and upset inside me but it doesn't work and i end up walking away and crying. She just wont stop. |
| Question: Do I have to sign for package? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:22 AM PDT I ordered a small package that only cost 8$ from Amazon but I got it free with my gift card. Will I have to sign? I'm only 13 and my mom doesn't know about it. |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 11:17 AM PDT I feel really bad for my mother with what is happening right now. Her son is in jail for about the 6th time for drug dealing and this time fire arm possession to protect himself. My mom has been crying and worrying a lot lately, she just been sitting down on the couch staring worriedly into space. I comfort her and hug her ,she sometimes smiles for my sake. Its really hard to see and now she found out he has been sent to the hospital again and told my mom he wants to die. I feel bad too, i was not really in good terms with him,i used to be until he bully me a lot and physically abuse me because i did not agree with his lifestyle. I was scared to stay home for years because of him. i used to mad at him of how he careless put our family in danger. But i do feel somewhat bad for him and mostly my mother, its really hard seeing her this way, since mostly she always acts so nice and smiling. Now she is insanely worried and I'm worried too, and i just feel scared and not sure what to do, should i just keep comforting my mother and let her talk her concerns with me or leave her be? she told me she wanted me to talk to him and to help him calm down and that to make peace with him and that he wants to talk to me again and is sorry for what he did. Should i let go of the past and talk to him? or write a letter to him? i feel so confused, hurt, guilty and sad, i am not sure what to do |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:41 AM PDT So, I had an issue with my friend using me as an alibi to do obviously dirt behind his wife's back. I finally had a talk with him and I told him don't use me as an excuse any longer. He looked a little agitated, but I guess we are good still. I told him that his wife seemed to be on to him and he really didn't seem to think anything of it when I told him she was instant messaging me. Its seems like he is ready to let go. She seems a little sneaky too. I didn't respond to her message. |
| Question: Overheard my Dad on phone with a mistress what do I do? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:34 AM PDT He said I wanna lick peanut butter off your ___ and disgusting things like that. My mom was with her friends and i was stuck here with him and he was on the phone talking to some other women about doing disgusting things to her. He always told us how cheating is terrible and he made fun of other families where someone got a divorce and said thats horrible YET HE HIMSELF this hypocrit is on the phone WITH ANOTHER WOMEN AN MY MOM DOES NOT KNOW ABOUT IT! |
| Question: How do I help my parents accept my new mate? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:32 AM PDT I was in a dysfunctional marriage for 8 years. It wasn't really a marriage because we were living very separate lives (not my choice). When my ex decided he needs a half-year vacation to visit his home country instead of finally building a life with me I decided to call it quits. I felt he wasn't emotionally connected with me. I (maybe too) quickly met a great guy, that I am still with and things are so much easier. Problem? My parents don't accept him because for one he is part Hispanic (his other half is from my original country and he speaks that language fluently), and that is viewed negatively by their community, and the other reason is that he chose to date me when I was still married. To me the prior relationship was done a long time ago, and I was just happy to find someone that made me feel important again. He did want to wait until my past was laid to rest, but it took a while so that didn't happen. Now I have a fulfilling life with the new man, but cannot be in the same room with my parents without a fight, and they haven't seen my love for over a year. What do I do? |
| Question: Have you ever had the becoming a man talk with your dad, or male family member. GUYS ONLY? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:25 AM PDT im 16 I wanted to know some experiences of having the sex talk with your dad or male relative and what you talked about. how you brought it up. how the conversation went. tell me everything. |
| Question: My elderly mother is never happy? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:19 AM PDT I m 22 yrs old, my mom is 63 yrs old. However a few yrs ago she had a stroke that caused her to be unable to work anymore. There were also very minor changes in her physical ability she isn t able to see as clearly as before and she takes blood pressure meds. I am the youngest of all her children and the only child that doesn t have a family outside of our family. So my sisters all live with their husbands and family I live at home with my mother. My mom has become extremely difficult and just unhappy. She pushes almost everyone in her life away. So it s just she and I. I m all she has left but I m so tired of dealing with her. I don t want to turn my back on my mother because she is my parent and I love her dearly. But I just don t know what to do with her anymore. I got her into this elderly daycare thing just so she isn t sitting in the house all day, however she went once and said she doesn t feel like that s a place for her because everyone was so old. Me and my mom argue all the time. She hates being in the house by herself and so I have to argue with her anytime I have to go to work. I workA LOT! Idk what to do. If I leave then my mom has nobody. |
| Question: My family hates my fiancée, need advice.? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT Sorry in advance for the long story.. We are high school sweethearts. We have been together since we were 15 and now we are 21. We have a daughter now and are planning on getting married this upcoming year 2016. I'm the youngest of 3. My brother is 27 my sister is 25 and I'm 21. The problem is my mother and sister always have something negative to say about him. They criticize everything about him, they don't like the clothes he wears, they don't respect him as my daughters father. My mom doesn't like him or anyone in his side of the family to take our daughter unless I am there present. I have tried talking to them about it and it usually leads to them saying" fine I'm not going to tell you anything anymore" but it still continues. My sister is in a relationship with a guy that treats her like garbage and I am never so disrespectful to her. My fiancée works to maintain us and has never asked me to work so I can take care of our daughter and continue college. If he is tired on his days off, they say he is lazy. He has always put our daughter and I first, I don't understand why there is so much hate towards him. Even though he knows this goes on he has never had me chose between him or my family, but I think it's getting to the point where that's what I will have too do. ANY ADVICE please I just want everyone to get along. |
| Question: How can i get help for my mother who is leaving a domestic violence situation? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:48 AM PDT My mother was a stay at home mom for years, cooking,cleaning ,taking out trash,taking care the children,the shopping, doing all household chores etc. She has been together with her husband for 18 years. He has cheated on her,verbally and physically abused her,he even got arrested for it once, but got out. I told her to leave him many times in the past but she says she couldn't until her eldest son(my step brother) graduated from high school. He will be graduating this year and she is planning to finally divorce him. Her husband says that she will not be getting any alimony or none of his benefits when they get a divorce. She is in her late 50s and has terrible menopause symptoms,from painful stomach pain, backaches, headaches,depression,panic and anxiety attacks. Which stops her from doing anything most days. I plan on saving as much money as I can for her in a separate bank account, to get a apartment for herself. what can she do to support herself? Are there any home base jobs or something she can do from home, maybe some sort of program for her to get into? She lives in PA. |
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| Question: My mom is acting like an idiot how do I stop her? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:33 AM PDT So I wake up, and my mom is screaming at me cause I play video games (im not addicted i just play an hour or so here and there). I'm like wtf and then she shows me this 3 minute random Youtube video of some "doctor" or "physiologist" who says that video games mess up the mind and is the root for almost every mens problem blah blah blah. My mom believes it for fact and I was arguing telling her its ridiculous and that the guy didnt even bring statistics or evidence to support his claim and I even showed her what other doctors were saying and how they say video games have no negative effects and my mom thinks they are all "being paid to lie". So my mom went and took my ps3 and all my games (i bought with my money) and hid them and said that she will only ever return to me once I finish cegep and university and that shes doing this "for my own good". How do I snap some sense in my mom? |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:29 AM PDT My dad owes child support, and I am 21 paying for my college out of pocket. Throughout my life my mom was hardly there. My grandparents raised me and my sisters since we were little and my mom was in jail. My mom is now receiving the money and she won t give me anything. I would like to know if I can do anything legally to get the money to me instead of her. My dad helps me out now with my school and pays for my car, but I just don t feel it s right for her to receive the money when my grandparents were the one raising us. |
| Question: How do I tell my sister I don't like her choice of husband? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:11 AM PDT My sister brought shame to our family by marrying a man 24 years older. They've been married for 6 years and have a gorgeous and smart 5 year old. She's only 35 and I think she should have married a man her own age. She's bring her husband to meet the rest of our huge family and I'm afraid they'll laugh at her be because she was desperate to marry an old man I'm not married, but given the chance I wouldn't marry an old man. My sister is the only one who's. married. She's 35 and her husband is 59. How do I prepare her for the teasing that will come her way? |
| Question: I had my son 6wks ago and my SO helps with NOTHING!? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 09:03 AM PDT Not cleaning or baby and if he does he makes me feel like I have to earn it. One time he said if I let him go drink with friends he would get up the next night with the baby. Nothing is 50/50 unless we are in public then he becomes father of the year. I m almost to the point of just leaving but he says he ll take our son..I just don t know what to do |
| Question: Better grade of hair? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 08:51 AM PDT All races have a good grade of hair if you know how to manage it the right way. But I want to know if my daughter will end up taking after her father's grade of hair, he's white, Puerto rican and black. Both of his parents are mixed on both sides so my daughter is a "melting pot" lol . She is already taking after his hair color which is golden brown and she has gold eye lashes and eyebrows. She hardly came out with anybhair, she has a bit at the top, enough to give her a bang. Another thing I noticed is aloft of African Americans hair doesn't have alot of natural oils in it, her hair looks oily and I tend to wash it (not everyday, but 2 times a week) she's starting to get enough hair to brush at the top so I started wetting a brush and I would literally sprinkle water from that brush on her hair and her hair starts to cus up, nice lose curls. I hope her hair stays that way ❤❤ is it safe to say that she might take after her dad's grade of hair? |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 08:45 AM PDT Im currently living in my aunts house and staying in One room since im out of state for college,& i also pay her rent, buy my own food,my own shampoo etc. The problem is that she is very unorganized and dirty with her house, i dont mind because its not my house, shes a housewife and doesn't work she has 2 kids which makes the mess even worse. I help her once in a while to Wash the dishes, vacuum and sometimes help her with the kids. Now she's been trying to tell me lowkey that when she's not home to Clean her house, while she's out at the Gym and with her kids. She leaves her clothes in the Living room and expects me to Fold it for her, as well as Clean her kitchen and her bathroom. I think thats overboard since i am not living in her house for free and while she's out having fun. I personally dont like cleaning but i keep my Stuff clean and clean up after myself but i just dont like what she wants me to do, i mean i wouldn't even Fold my moms clothes back at home. Any advice? |
| Question: How can I convince my parents to buy me something expensive? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 08:04 AM PDT I wanna Xbox one really bad but each time I ask my dad it's a no and I also graduated middle school and Going to highschool so I think I deserve something. And I can't get good grades cause it's summer but I can act mature if that can help. The reason I want it because my friends have it and I know for sure that Sony is going to stop making PS3 games so I don't want to be left behind. What can I do. |
| Question: Why didn't my mom tell me about this? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:58 AM PDT My boyfriend Bill came to my house and I introduced him to my mom. He immediately said "You are so lucky to have a gorgeous mom". Then he said to mom "You look very familiar. Have we met before"? Mom said "no, I don't think so". Bill went home and searched for mom's name on the internet trying to find out if there was some event he was at that mom was at also. He didn't find any but he found several of mom's pictures on the Internet. He found out she was a model and had her picture in several magazines when she was younger. Bill printed out these pictures and gave them to me. I had no idea mom was ever a model or that she had appeared in national magazines. She had never told me anything about this. Was I ever surprised. I want to put these pictures on the wall in my room with a banner that says "My wonderful and beautiful mom". Bill told me to please check with mom before I do that. He said there is some reason she did not tell you she was a model. Can anyone think of a reason mom did not tell me she was a model? I think the pictures of her when she was young are of the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:53 AM PDT Hi girls, I'm a guy and I'm 23. So I just went over to my sister Amanda and Lauren's house to make fun of them because it entertains me when I get them mad. They live together (Amanda's 25, Lauren's 22). To my surprise, they had enough of me making fun of them. They challenged me to a bet. If I won I could continue to make fun of them without them saying anything. But if they won, I would have to let them put me in a ridiculous outfit and spend the rest of the day at their house doing whatever they said. I agreed to the deal. Well girls, I lost to Amanda and Lauren. So now I'm getting ready to pay up. Before I do, they have some questions they want to ask you girls so you can help them out with their victory. Here's Amanda and Lauren's questions.. 1) Should I have to wear a white crop top with poofy sleeves? or a pink blouse with ruffles? 2) Should they make me wear a pair of Lauren's skin tight skinny jeans? or a pair of Amanda's skin tight pink leather pants? 3) Should they have me wear high heels? or make me walk on my tippy toes all day? 4) They're making me wear a tutu too. But they want to know.. Should they put it around my waist or around my neck? Or if they should put one around my waist and another around my neck? Since they have 2 tutus :( 5) What should they have me do at their house while I have to do whatever they say? 6) What should they make me do to entertain them since they won and I have to keep them entertained all day because I lost to them? Ugh! |
| Question: Seriously mature question? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:51 AM PDT 24 and i run my own business. I never went to college. I make roughly 80-130k a year. It hasn't been easy. At times i only get 4 hours of sleep due to working on my website. I have a cousin he's 21 & we always hang out. He works at t-mobile and goes to college (wannabe thug). The thing is he always brings me down. I'll give examples but there's more. He'd be like "Go to college you know some you can rely on when your 60". He's always asking "how's business?" (i just stare at him like ughhh good). He once told me "You need to loose weight or no girl will bang you". I also bought myself a 80k 2015 benz. He started talking smack when he saw the price like "Expensive only a fool would buy that". All while he rides the bus to school. He thinks he's hot stuff because he goes to college. One time he said "Get off that laptop for a second and go after girls since i know you don't get laid often". I just reply to him like "Dude you work 9 hours a day and you get bossed around then you still need go to school for a decade before your like me". All he say's is "Your a hater. I will soon be a cop with my criminal justice diploma and i will be king just wait. You know it deep in your heart i'm a threat to you". I call him "college thug" to piss him off. I just want to get your opinion who's the hater? Keep in mind he asks these questions 24/7 |
| Question: My mother is making me feel insecure and suicidal.? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:30 AM PDT Its so hard to explain how she makes me feel and how she does it but I'm going to try my best to explain in a nutshell I am a 17 year old girl by the way. She calls me a whore , she makes nasty comments on how I eat, how I walk. She calls me a concubine as in I would be a slave to my dad. Which is disgusting me and my dad get along so well as a father and daughter and she is so bitter about it. She hasn't been diagnosed with an illness as she refuses to seek help but we all know she has a problem. She has kicked me out over 3 times and took my bus card and money off me so I can 'starve and die on the streets' in her words. She kicked me out when my dad was away so I was helpless. I know so many teens are bad and I'm not a saint but honestly I have not done something awful to deserve this. Most people I know are on holiday but I'm not so I went out twice in one month and she said I go out too much and I probably sell my body. She was sleeping downstairs and I sneezed upstairs and she said I woke her up and beat me up so bad my nose bled. Social workers have come to our house but she would always brush it off to send them away and threaten me and my younger sister to tell them we are fine. She has even beaten up my best friends mum for no reason so my best friend is not talking to me. My cousins turned against me and blocked me off every social media because of her. I have no one and I'm so alone. Cutting does not relieve the pain and I feel like I'm drowning. |
| Question: Did I act out in the wrong way? Found out my father has another child? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:29 AM PDT Hi, I know I may sound like a horrible person but I just need to talk about this. I'm 15 and female and after school another teen about my age and female as well came up to me. She reveals that my father is actually her father. She was trying to track down her real family. Well I know my dad has cheating issues. He has done it multiple times with my mother. Too many times. She had photos and stuff of my dad. And when she called him "her dad" I kinda snapped. I think I was feeling really hurt towards my dad because I love him so much. He is my hero but now I just feel so ... I don't know. Well I acted out and tackled this girl screaming swears and saying that he is MY DAD and everything! Like I really bashed (well more like scratched and slapped) her out of a moment of pure anger. I just felt so jealous and betrayed really badly! Am I a horrible person? Did I act normally? I don't know why I feel so mad at this girl. I know it is not her fault but I kind of blame her for ruining this relationship between me and my father. |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:20 AM PDT Me and my daughters father aren t together and do not live together, I currently live under my grandparents roof and that s it they help me with a place to live but don t support me or my daughter financially, me and her father have it worked out where he supplies the things my daughter needs with what he can, even though he does that am I still able to apply for food stamps for me and my daughter? |
| Question: Do you have a good relationship with your parents? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 07:11 AM PDT |
| Question: 10 very fast points! What reason is my professor treating me differently? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 06:12 AM PDT So I have known my professor for 10 months. He seems to get more friendly with people I am close to in class. Like flirty. But when he is alone with me he turns into a playful child. Like sticking his tongue out. I don't really talk much in class so he handed me the marker to participate on the board once I did he said thanks "queen and the thinker" sunshine is another nickname I guess. Also one classmate said he bought a lady friend around but once he saw me they started walking separately from each other. Thought that was odd, then he looked over and waved. He also sings around me sometimes. I really try to be professional even though in our past we had good conversations he told me he enjoyed our banter and chats I told his thanks and that he is an awesome professor and wished him luck. He also keeps reading my facial expressions trying to guess my thoughts. During lectures. Also he keeps telling me I have creative brilliance. |
| Question: My older sister keeps stealing my stuff?!?!(10 points best answer)? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:28 AM PDT So I'm 14 and my sister is 21. She keeps taking my stuff without asking like yesterday she took my phone charger and now I don't have a fully charged phone. Or like I dont really wear makeup but I buy makeup wipes to clean my face but she takes those. She has a job so its not like she's struggling |
| Question: My Grandpa died and I didn't see him? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:27 AM PDT My Grandpa died on June 9th 2015 and me and my Family were going to visit him in the United States this July, I talked to him the day before and he said "It's only 30 more days till I get to see you and I'm so happy and I love you very much." and I never got to see him. He was the kindest,most loving and best Grandpa ever. He always made me laugh when I sad or having a bad day. He always called to check up on me and now he can't. I'm heartbroken. I loved him even more than my own Father. Why did he have to die? I hadn't seen him for 2 years. How do I deal with this? I miss him so much, now he's gone forever. June 14th he died |
| Question: Don't know what to do about my family always fighting? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:25 AM PDT Recently my brother got a girlfriend. She acts nice but is rude to me and my parents, and takes advantage of my brother. Anyway, my dad can't see that and absolutely loves her, but my mom and I do not like her at all. Therefore, whenever my brother wants to do something with her my dad will let him but my mom won't, and this causes SO much fighting between them. I hear it in every room I'm in and it makes me want to cry because I can't escape it. I'm worried my parents might divorce because they've been fighting a LOT lately and my mom says things to me like "marry a man who agrees with you" or "marry a man who respects your opinions and views" and I just don't know what to do. I've talked to both my parents telling them that the fighting bothers me and all they've said is "it bothers me too" but they don't do anything to stop it. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm so stressed out and sad and I'm starting school in a week and I'm nervous to go back and all this stress is taking a toll on me. |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:19 AM PDT im a asian in highschool. My mum never lets me go out. She is not doing this for my safety she is always going about there is not enough time to study.i love my friends anf hanging out with them. last year when I didnt live with my mum I went out a lot. but now I cant Ive grown apart with my friends. they never invite me cause I always said my mum wouldnt let me go. I feel so left out . Shes always on about study study study. iget so much stress from her and cant get away from her. I dont even have my own room. I have to study right next to her. because of her I really hate studying. I dont study anymore I just pretend to infront of her. my last report apparently to her was really bad she hit me and was angy at me for a month. I never told anyone how I feel. I always appear to other people as a positive person. I didnt do anything to my mum but sometimes she gets angry at me for no reason. hits me alot. is a clean freak and always makes me do the housework which I do with a positive face. I do everythign fro her. but sometimes I want to get away from her. shes alway rants about sacrificing her life dreams for us but its not even true. I really hate her... im grateful to her for raising me and feeding me. but this is too much. |
| Question: How should I respond to someone that is constantly taking jabs at me and putting me down? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 05:11 AM PDT There is not a lot I can do to avoid this person at he is a part of my family and works at the same hospital that I do. I can t stand being around him and a lot of my family members don t like him either what are some tips of diffusing the situation or how is a good way to respond without getting so mad every time |
| Question: Why is it that a woman's life is valued more than a mans? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 04:44 AM PDT I understand being polite and women and all that but, whenever there's a potential risk involved it's always "Let Jaelon do it he's a boy." All the carrying, making runs around the neighborhood, chores are done by me. If there's one of those huge centipedes that bite, IM the one who has the chase it from under the bed. If we need to something from the truck at 12 am when it's 7 blocks away its "you can handle yourself." Or even if she's just being lazy it's always "Jaelon can you ________?" Just this morning I was told I would have to take my brother to the bus stop 2 days a week even though I'm sick, so why did I end up taking him all the days? And it doesn't help that he takes his showers before me so I have to go from a hot shower to the cold outside. I don't even get any thanks or anything because "That's what the man of the house is supposed to do." I'm freaking 13 wth. |
| Question: My Father Is Insane. Any advice? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 04:38 AM PDT I'm 15 year old male teen. My father is insane and yells at me for absolutley everything. My mother can't do anything because if she'll defend me, my father will begin to yell at her too. When I was at the age of 8, my sister bought a guinea pig. When she came home, my father began to yell at her for buying the guinea pig and kicked her and even my mother (because for defending my sister) out of the house. He told them to give the guinea pig back to those, who sold it to them and get the money from them back. When I was at the age of 11, he read somewhere on the internet that chips can cause imbecility if a child or a teen eats them often, because their body, especially brain are growing, so the chips can affect it. He told me to never eat them again, even when I'll be adult. However, I disagreed and told him that not everything's true what the internet says and even if it's true, it's my own body and I can do with it whatever I want, so it'll be my problem, not his if the chips will affect my brain. After few minutes, when I was going to sleep, he came to my room and began to beat me for disagreeing to stop eating chips. He has never beat me, and the only time when he beat me was for disagreeing to stop eating chips. Isn't it a child abuse? There have happened many more things, but I don't think I need to write them all. I even can't stand up to my father because I don't know what's gonna happen. Any advice how to deal with him? |
| Question: What are the characteristics of older sisters? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 04:34 AM PDT this guy told me i didn't seem to be an only child and he always thought i had a younger brother or sister. just wondering if that's a good thing or a bad thing |
| Question: How can I buy a guitar for someone without letting them know it's for them? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 04:31 AM PDT I want to get my brother a guitar and from my previous questions and looking stuff online I shouldn't buy him just a random one. So I'm thinking of taking him to the store to test out guitars and see which one he really likes. But how can I do that without letting him know it's for him. I owe my brother a lot so I really want to get him something nice |
| Question: How do I tell my sister I don't want her to live with me? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 04:12 AM PDT My sis wants to move in with her 2 sons.I have a 9yr girl&a small 2 bedroom.I can't stand my sis she is a neg selfish complainer with a foul mouth.It's my home&she wants me to turn my life upside down for her but she has no concern for me&my life&home.Our bro offered to let her stay with him,because it's a longer drive to work she said no.How do I tell her I don't want her to live with me.I really want to help her.I love my nephews.I feel selfish for not wanting her there.I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Mature family problem help? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:56 AM PDT 24 and i run my own business. I never went to college. I make 80-130k a year. It hasn't been easy. At times i only get 4 hours of sleep due to working on my website. I have a cousin he's 21 & we always hang out. He works at t-mobile and goes to college (wannabe thug). The thing with cousin is he always brings me down. I will give examples but there's more. He'd be like "Don't you wish you can go to college you know some you can rely on when your 60". He's always asking "how's business?" (i just stare at him like ugh good). He once told me "You need to loose weight or no girl will bang you". I also bought myself a 80k 2015 benz. He started talking smack when he saw the price like "Too expensive only a fool would buy that". All while he rides the bus to school. He's a dude who thinks he's hot stuff because he goes to college. One time he said "Get off that computer for a second and go after girls since i know you don't get laid often". I just reply to him like "Dude you work 9 hours a day and you get bossed around then you still need go to school for a decade before your like me". All he say's is "Your a hater. I will soon be a cop with my criminal justice diploma and i will be king just wait". I call him "college thug" to piss him off. I just want to get your opinion who's the hater? Keep in mind he asks this questions 24/7 |
| Posted: 28 Aug 2015 03:35 AM PDT I don't HAVE to do ANYthing for them so why are they being so rude? |
| Question: My sister s babysitter isn t nice to her? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:52 AM PDT It just feels like she's never nice to my sister (who's 6) except when my parents are around. My sister does everything herself. The babysitter doesn't even help or play with her. I'd end up doing that because I feel sorry for her. Whenever my sister drops something she'd get all sarcastic and say "Wow, nice one, Sarah." My sister was even punished once because she changed the channel, and when the babysitter scolded her and she started crying, the babysitter just scolded her for crying and told her to behave. Like what? She's just a little girl, you don't have to be so rude. In the end, my sister just went to sleep while the babysitter played with her phone. It's like she gets paid to laze around. It's so different when my parents are around, her tone of voice when speaking to my sister is friendlier. She'll start talking to my sister and treating her so nicely. Of course my sister is only 6 and doesn't realise the change so she thinks it s genuine, but I notice. I don't even know why we re still hiring her. What sucks is that my parents love her. She follows us on trips to Italy, England or France. I've tried to tell my parents but they won't listen. I don't want to tell the babysitter straight to her face either because I feel like it's not my place. I don't like seeing my sister get treated like that, what do I do? |
| Question: Why is my mom's boyfriend treating me this way? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:36 AM PDT I'm 18 year old male. I live with my mom and her terrible boyfriend. I work full-time and go take college classes in the morning. Everyday when I come back from work or school he always giving me funny looks. He always trys to get me pissed off. He makes remarks about how little money I make or how I will never do anything with myself. I pay him a share of the rent and utilities, but he charges me for things that I shouldn't have to pay. He ask me to give him money for his car's gas, his food, among other things. He's even tried to extort me more than once. Just recently he said "If you don't give me 100$ by the end of the week, I'm throwing out all you own." He has thrown away my things before. He once threw out a bag of my laundry because he didn't like where I placed it (I had to go to work, there's no way I could of put it all away on time. ) He threaten to hit me before but he too much of a coward to do so. He always trying to intimidate me. He always saying that "if you do that I will beat the living s*it out of you and I don't care if you call the cops. He's kicked me out of my own home many times without my mom's knowing and has even stole the key right before I had to work late. I am sick and tired of his behavior. I tried talking to my mom about his behavior but she got angry with me and told me if I don't like it I can leave. At this point that's all I can do. Any advice? |
| Question: Why the hell am I being hated on by this dumb thing? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 02:16 AM PDT Long story short my dad got my mum a new Infiniti QX80 for her birthday thing is everyone in my family except my uncle is hating on my parents as well as me? Why are we being targeted especially me? I had no part in this |
| Question: How do I ask my dad to get me a new phone? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:47 AM PDT So my last phone, Xperia C 2 days ago accidently fell in water and has stopped working and I can't get it to work anymore.I am 16 and having a phone is a need of mine. I did not damage the phone on purpose, it was an accident. I always took good care of it but I guess it had to happen. Also I got this phone Early 2014 so it has been like 1.5 years and it wasn't very costly either (around $230). So how do I ask him nicely to bu me a new phone? I don't want to come out as desperate or anything. It is hard to convince my dad but I need a phone as it is a NEED not a WANT. Thanks :) I have already put my phone in dry rice and it was functional but only for a couple of hours before it became fully dead forever |
| Question: Added a friend on snapchat and they gave a questionable response? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 01:00 AM PDT I told them that I added them on snapchat and there only response was okay. What does it mean when they give you a one word response such as ok |
| Question: Help me find my sister please? Posted: 28 Aug 2015 12:27 AM PDT I am looking for my sister Terrie Anne miller. If anyone knows her or has any information on her please let me know. I miss her so much and really would like to see her again and talk to her. Her DOB is 05/11/1985. |
| Question: My dad doesn't listen and can't remember things? It's really stressing me out. Help? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:58 PM PDT For some reason, my dad has lost any common sense he had in the past. He has also become really mean. He tends to criticize what ever I like (such as music, shows, etc) and then I get mad and he can't seem to understand why I am mad. Then I try to explain and he will just leave the room. That's just one situation. Other times he will ask a question, I will answer, and then 5 minutes later he will ask the same exact question. And he isn't joking or kidding around, he is genuinely serious. It's gotten to the point where I tense up if he's in the room. Anything I can do? |
| Question: What are the characteristics of people who have a younger brother or sister? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:49 PM PDT this guy told me i didn't seem to be an only child and he always thought i had a younger brother or sister. just wondering if that's a good thing or a bad thing |
| Question: Why is my younger sister so mean? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:44 PM PDT So I'm 16 (17 in a month) and my sister is 14. Ever since we were little, she's been SO mean to me. She's really thin and I'm more curvy so she used to always call me fat and the second I would walk into a room, she'd say, "Hi fat legs!!!" Haha I know that's kind of funny but it used to hurt my feelings. Anyway, now it's escalated even worse. For example, right now I just said, "Good night, love you," and kissed her on the cheek and she said, "Why are you always trying to kiss people? You're so gross!!! Leave me alone!!!" She also ALWAYS says, "You're such a stupid *****. Nobody likes you and I hope you die in a hole." It's weird because sometimes we get along great and othertimes we can't stand each other. My parents know about how she is but have gotten tired of hearing her say the same things over and over again. I know that these things shouldn't bother me, but when my own sister says that she doesn't love me it kind of hurts. Anyway, thanks for reafing and I'll take any advice you can give!!! :) |
| Question: My mom expects me to know everything because i speak english? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:34 PM PDT My mom doesn't speak english and she's in the process of divorcing my dad because of physical abuse but anyways she's been trying to get a job and she makes me do all her job applications and makes me do the phone interviews for her and its making me really stresssd out she expects me to know everything and im a junior in high school ive never gotten a job before and i have no experience and all this stuff is really confusing to me and she yelled at me and said im useless because i couldnt help her learn the answers for interview questions i don't know what to do and how to deal with this |
| Question: Am I overreacting about this? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:27 PM PDT So about a year and a half ago, I used to watch my younger cousin overnight for a few hours because his mom and grandmom had to work. They were giving me a good amount of money for this and I've always been the designated babysitter in the family. Well, one day my mom's cousins came to our house and basically asked me what I was doing with my life. I have really bad anxiety that no one knows about. I almost never tell anyone about it and I guess I hide it well. Anyways, they started telling me that I shouldn't be doing the babysitting and I should get a "real" job. However, that is what I felt comfortable doing at the time. I broke down and told them about my problems and they basically shut up but still kept telling me that I need to do something better. I'm still hurt about this, and every time I hear that they're coming to a family event, I get upset and my mom doesn't understand why. She basically defends them and says that I'm overreacting...and it bothers me because she knows about my problems. I just felt like they intruded on me and judged me without knowing my full story. I'm not close with them...they barely know anything about me. Should I get over this? Or do I have a right to be upset about this still? My mom and dad basically said I need to get over it but they say that about everything. They have never let me express my emotions and I'm sick of it! |
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