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- Question: My grandma keeps telling i cant work and im depressed about it?
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- Question: What are the positives of being a disappointment.?
- Question: How to quit something my parents forced me to do?
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- Question: Should I consider all of my distant relatives as family? We're all barely related. Also, what is considered close relatives?
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- Question: My life is horrible. What should i do?
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- Question: What do I do when my mom won't let me keep my plugs?
- Question: I'm a college student about to go back to school and I have no way of getting my things out of storage since my parents aren't coming too?
- Question: What's considered close relatives & what's considered direct family members? Are they the same thing?
- Question: My Family always insult me?
- Question: My friend was brutally beat up?
- Question: Why does my dad always say I don't need stuff?
- Question: My family doesn't like me?
- Question: Why do I look half Asian?
- Question: What could I do to help my wife, she lost her son today?
- Question: How can I look-up my biological dad, w/o having to pay online and still get his information?
- Question: Is it possible for a niece & uncle to have the same blood type?
- Question: Do you think it's weird/right for someone to marry their uncle, niece, or cousin?
- Question: How can I make my parents understand?
- Question: My parents are preventing me from moving out?
- Question: Why does it turn me on when my step-daughter calls me "daddy"?
- Question: Is this weird?
- Question: I need to obtain custody of my 3 grandchildren, mother is MIA as are all 3 fathers, what do I do next?
- Question: My older brother kissed me?
- Question: My stepdad is extremely racist and my mom is an Asian immigrant?
- Question: Fathers blood is B+ and Mother is O+ and son is O+ is that possible?
- Question: What should i do about this?
- Question: Abusive younger brother?
- Question: How would you respond to this?
- Question: I don't know how to feel about my dad anymore?
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| Question: How to get out of a holiday? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:47 PM PDT so I've not long turned 18 and my parents have paid for a holiday. Problem is, is that I didn't want to go. Not because i'm ungreatful. But it's because it's my dad that only wanted to go and he decided to pay for everyone. I'm getting told by my brothers I'm a idiot to want to back out. My mom doesn't want to talk to me because of it... Now I'm a girl that loves to game.. And I even said that I'm happy to give up the two consoles they gave me for my birthday in order to pay them back. I'm currently looking for a job and I'm struggling to get them to let me not go... Any suggestions? I'm not looking for them to hate. I just dont want a holiday and they won't listen |
| Question: My grandma keeps telling i cant work and im depressed about it? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:36 PM PDT im 18 and sometimes i forget stuff and my grandma keeps telling me i wont get a job and that i have no common sense and im tired of it! she thinks all i care about is fixing my face and buying stuff i want when she takes me shopping and i don't even ask her for stuff because i know she will say no but yet she buys all this damn stuff for herself and she never uses it she just keeps spending money on crap she doesn't need but that's not the subject..i forgot to wash the dog's plate because i had other stuff to do and she said "how can you forget i kept telling you and telling you?!" she only told me that once and when i walked in the kitchen an hour later and remembered i forgot to wash it and she said that i wont ever get a job and just be stuck at the house for the rest of my life and i graduate soon :( shes always putting me down and the other thing is her telling me i have no common sense and i won't be able to get a job she keeps putting me down and that's making me not want to work i just want to leave and never come back but yet she expects me to take care of her when shes old after constantly putting me down and making me stressed and on top of that she makes it seem like i'm stupid when i'm not i'm just so tired of her i'm trying to prove her wrong by getting a job when i graduate i just hope she will realize how hurt i am i don't even do makeup everyday :( |
| Question: Family trip risking my graduation? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:33 PM PDT My parents are planning a trip to Mexico this winter (December 14-28). However, I have to be here for an advising appointment since I am taking running start (A program that allows you to attend community college and earn high school credit) and cannot miss it (December 21st). It is a must if I will be attending classes the following quarter, which I must do if I want to graduate high school on time. My parents refuse to let me stay here, being that I am 17 and they don't trust me. What can I do? I want to graduate high school on time and this appointment is my only setback. I cannot reschedule the appointment since that's the only day the advising counselors are available. |
| Question: How can I get his parents to...? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:22 PM PDT So about 8 years my and my now fiancé got pregnant. His parents hated me then and I'm sure they still do. They sent him away and brought him back. When he saw his son for the first time they wanted a paternity test he said no. And from then on they don't acknowledge their first grandson. I've offered to take the test with him to try and get them involved with our family. We will be married soon, and don't even know if they will come to our wedding. Any advice on what to do? |
| Question: What are the positives of being a disappointment.? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:19 PM PDT I am hated and no one wants anything to do with me. I have the worst of luck and can't keep a job because i quit or miss work. I am a disappointment what is positive of being a disappointment i am an idiot. |
| Question: How to quit something my parents forced me to do? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:16 PM PDT I have been forced to dance all my life and I really don't like it. And since my brother quit football my parents put more expectation on me making it harder to quit. I committed myself to dancing and I made a lot of sacrifices that I regret and the favoritism among the dancers made me feel even worst. I would try to tell my parents about taking a break and quitting but they would make a huge deal about and tell me they don't want anything to do with me if i quit. I would also explain to my parents how the instructor would always yell at me and I was getting tried of it. But they only laughed and told me that when they were younger they got yellings also and that I should deal with it. But I can't deal with it cause I'm getting yelled at for something that I hate doing. Plus the physical and mental pain is stressing me out. How can I approach my parents without them getting angry with me. |
| Question: What should I do about this situation happening? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:14 PM PDT As every teenager, my parents trouble me. But I feel as if my situation could be a little worse. I love my father, he can make me mad ever so often but he is my favorite parent. I love him. But that s beside the point. My mother acts bipolar. She gets mad over the simplest things. I have a Christian boyfriend, we re both 16. It just happened I came home late ( an hour) because I was helping him take care of a one and three year old. She was pissed. When I walked in the door she wouldn t tell me why she was mad then when I turned on the light in the living room she cussed at me for turning it on so I turned it off and asked why then yelled at me "I have a headache!" I, then, asked her why she yelled at me then which was a sarcastic move. My friend then texted me and asked me if I could help her with her nephew and niece in the morning and if she could come get me and she said no. I asked why and she said "Because I ******* said so. " This isn t the first time she s been so... I don t know how to describe it. Just a few days ago, she got angry at me for doing the dishes she told me to do minutes earlier. I don t know what I ve done. But she just always gets angry at me for no reason. I just don t know what to do at this point. Is it just because I m a teenager? |
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| Question: Is it OK what my buddies are doing with my sister? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 01:00 PM PDT I am a highschool senior with a 14 year old sister Alice that I really like. She is developing into a beautiful young woman and she is the nicest person ever. She has a lot of home work. My high school buddies like to hang out at my house? Alice often ask my buddies for help with her homework and they gladly help her. She always thanks them for their help and gives them a hug. They also tell her to call them any time she needs additional help and sometimes she does. With my buddies help she is doing great in school. I am surprised and thankful these guys are so helpful. I don't think there is any romantic interest on either of their parts but I am not sure. I have not seen any signs of it. It looks to me like Alice is my buddies adopted sister and they just want to be nice and help her. Do you think that is their motive in helping her? |
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| Question: My life is horrible. What should i do? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:54 PM PDT My mom is abusive and calls me ugly stupid and fat. My dad is in prison. I have no friends. I never see the rest of my family that much except my two cousins and my aunt. I sit alone at lunch at school and one day i didnt come to school last week and my classmate who i thought was cool with me said he was happy I wasn't there. Next week i have this trip to canobie lake with my school and ive always wanted to go but now im not sure because ill be lonely if i do go. |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:51 PM PDT My name is Hassan any My parents refuse to leave our shitty 3rd world country (Ps. I live in Iraq) most my friends died in mosil when isis came. what can I do to help them understand that if we stay here it s eventually going to kill us. |
| Question: What do I do when my mom won't let me keep my plugs? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:51 PM PDT So I'm sixteen and it is my choice that I wanted to get plugs. My mom didn't know about it but when I got them she got mad but let me keep them and every time I sized up she would get mad and threaten to take them away even thow I bought them with my money. Now Iv had plugs for over a year and she took them away just out of the blue. Went into my room and took what I bought. So now I don't have the slightest idea what to do. She thinks that what I like and my love for rock and bands and going to concerts is a "faze" but Iv never felt more like me when I listen to them and get in crowd with all the energy. The music literally speaks to who I really am. Anyway I want my plugs back but I don't know what to do to get them. Any ideas? |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:50 PM PDT I'm going back to college tomorrow and I can't get my things out of storage. I don't have a car down there, my parents aren't coming with me, I don't have any friends down there and I only have a learners so I can't rent a truck. The only way for me to get my stuff is to wait until Tuesday at the earliest to see if one of my parents political friends can help me. So until then I won't have anything to eat (since I don't have kitchen supplies), I won't have any sheets to sleep on or towels to wash up with and I won't have internet because I won;t have my router. School starts on monday so this puts me behind everyone else already. And before you say why don;t I ask the person that helped me move into the storage unit, I can;t and I won't. The person that moved me in was my abusive exboyfriend. Do you guys have any suggestions about what I could possilbly do?? Thanks |
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| Question: My Family always insult me? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:42 PM PDT Hey, My Grandma has 4 kids and we are a really close family. All of my uncles and their children spend the whole day at my grandmas house. Now here is the main part. I am 14 years old and I'm fairly skinny. The living room is where everybody hangs out and I normally stay upstairs. Whenever I walk into the room everybody immediately gives me the worst look and insults me. Whether it's about how skinny I am or something else about me. I don't understand I haven't done anything bad for them to insult me and I get really offended and just walk out of the room. Please help me as I can't take this anymore. |
| Question: My friend was brutally beat up? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:41 PM PDT My friend's brother, who's about 8 years older than her(she's 19), beat her up. He broke her nose and she still has scars on her face. He did it for some retarded reason (she didn't want to visit his wife's family), on New Years. I only knew 2 weeks later when I went to her father's funeral. She was telling everyone she fell down the stairs, but you don't get black eyes filled with blood from that. So I knew it was her brother, he always abused her verbally. I told her to report him to the police but she didn't want to ruin his kids' lives. She hasn't been speaking with him ever since but he's holding her back from marrying the one she loves and threating her and she told me he shows signs of violence to her mother and sister. Can she still report him? Her sister saw him hit her, and a couple of people know he did it but didn't see him do it and the doctors at the hospital suspected as well but didn't make a move. Would she be able to prove anything? Please help, she's more than a sister to me. |
| Question: Why does my dad always say I don't need stuff? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:16 PM PDT I earn money every week. This week I decided to buy a shirt. My dad than said oh no u don't even need that! I like the shirt. I don't get why he can't just support me and say nice shirt. It's a sports team that we both like so he should like it. It's not the first time this has happened. A couple times before he said I don't need a shirt that I liked. Why can't he just be happy I'm happy? |
| Question: My family doesn't like me? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 12:05 PM PDT I know that none of you can tell me whether or not my family likes me (because I know that they don't, at least, not by their actions), but I'd like some opinions on my situation nonetheless. I'm fifteen and I've got a lot of aunts and cousins. They always favor my other cousins (mostly my male one who is my same age). My cousins are always really stand offish, and super close to my aunts (and my other cousins). Anytime we all get together, all they talk about is the stuff (trips, dinners, etc) that they did without my sister and I. They hate my mom (even though my parents are divorced and I don't live with her) and don't agree with my dad all of the time. I don't know if they're taking out there anger on me because of my parents or what. I'm pretty educated and successful for my age (not to sound conceited or anything, it's simply the truth) and always try and get my cousins (the ones who are in highschool) involved. The male one that I talked about earlier isn't in advanced classes (like I am), but never less, I try and get him to try clubs/sports etc just to hang out (and to get some experience for college applications). We used to be best friends, but now that I don't see him in HS, we've grown apart. He was my only connection to that side of the family, and now that I don't talk to him, they simply ignore me all together. What did I do wrong? What do you think they're trying to accomplish? I'm just feeling down guys, sorry if I complained too much. Thanks in advance. |
| Question: Why do I look half Asian? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:49 AM PDT I the 3rd child of a family of 4 children. Both my parents are white, my siblings all look completely white... Except for me. All my life, most people, upon meeting me have asked me "are you mixed? Like half Asian?". It's always "half Asian?", almost never just "Asian." people usually guess half Japanese or half Korean. Especially people who are half Asian themselves ask me this. I've always brushed this off but now i really don't know. Sometimes people won't even believe me when I tell them I'm fully white. Here's the thing though: I don't look like my father. I can't think of one facial feature we have in common. I don't look like my siblings much either. My whole family has green eyes, but I have dark brown (and an "epicanthic fold"---> "Asian eyes"). My mother has dark hair like me and my sister, and the rest are blond. Lately my hair has darkened a lot and thickened. It's a pretty dark brown/grey. I've only seriously started thinking about this recently but it's starting to really bug me. I don't want to jump to conclusions. Does anyone have any advice? Has anyone else gone through a similar experience? Thank you. |
| Question: What could I do to help my wife, she lost her son today? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:41 AM PDT |
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| Question: Is it possible for a niece & uncle to have the same blood type? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:36 AM PDT |
| Question: Do you think it's weird/right for someone to marry their uncle, niece, or cousin? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:35 AM PDT I ask this question because some places in this world legalized it. Also, do you think it should've been legalized? |
| Question: How can I make my parents understand? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:30 AM PDT I'm an 18 years old Asian girl.I have a strong character, I mean I look like I care about nothing, a strong person, ready to support anyone, confident and leader ship but neat and obey but many times, maybe they haven't yet notice because I'm not study in my hometown so I only see them on weekend, they told me to smile, to admire people to have more friend and look more friendly. I tried it but I feel bad, many times, I just want someone to admire me but I can see no good in myself, I feel like I don't deserve it but now I'm so down, I try to talk to them or send some sign but maybe they don't get it. I used to feel more comfort around my parents when I was younger. I have no idea why...I want to be the same good girl but many times I feel stress when I hear their voice, I feel their expectation so strong. I don't dare to tell them directly, I'd cry when I say it . How can I make them understand ? |
| Question: My parents are preventing me from moving out? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:17 AM PDT So I'm 19 years old, and my parents WILL NOT let me move out. I already signed up for a good job, and have a place to live, and it's also rent free! I'm not going to be part of the movement where people still live at home anymore, because of the "My house My rules" policy. Also, I'll FINALLY FEEL like an ADULT after YEARS of being treated like a child. I want to move out because my parents have STRICT rules. I'm not allowed to: -watch Rated R or above movies (I got grounded for a MONTH for watching 50 shades of grey), -use the internet past 8:00 PM -have ANY form of social media -HAVE A CELL PHONE FOR THAT MATTER! I feel like I have little to no because of them. They are WAY too strict and overprotective. Even when I told my parents that I am a legal adult and I can do whatever I want, they just said they don't care, since I live under their roof, and that motivated me to move out. So earlier today, I started packing my things into MY car, which I pay for, and once I was done, I told my parents I was moving out, and said my goodbyes, and I started walking out to my car. But then my dad had my older sister (21) park her car behind mine so I couldn't get out, and they will NOT move the car. And to add to that, my dad then proceeded to park his car in front of me so I can't move forward. Please help! How do I get out of here!!!? lol this was a troll |
| Question: Why does it turn me on when my step-daughter calls me "daddy"? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:04 AM PDT I ask this question again since most people couldn't answer respectfully last time. |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2015 10:57 AM PDT I am a child of a single mother who used sperm donation. I know I'm not the only one, I have like 10 siblings, but some of them have dads that aren't biologically related to them. I don't have any male figure that I see often enough to be a real "male romodel". Is it normal to want one? Like is it weird to think about having someone you consider like a dad to you? If you do have someone, what are they in your life? A family friend? A neighbor? A teacher? Also, is it normal to want contact with my biological father, even though I already know he doesn't want it? Thank you so much. |
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| Question: My older brother kissed me? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 10:51 AM PDT I know it sounds disgusting, i am really grossed out. I pulled away immediately and he rushed out the door and left for a week, he just came home last night i didnt tell my mom or anything, i dont want to embarrass him and we didnt talk about it. is that good or bad? this is so awkward and weird which is why im asking strangers on the internet basically i wanna know if i should confront him about it? and recommend therapy or just let it slide and know that it was a mistake by the way i'm not a kid or anything if that helps you i'm 17 and he's 19 but yeah im just confused and i dont feel the same around him anymore |
| Question: My stepdad is extremely racist and my mom is an Asian immigrant? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 10:46 AM PDT Hi, I am a 15 year old girl & biracial & my mom is an immigrant (legal btw). My stepdad is white and he is against foreigners coming into this country and he is very open about it. When he's watching the news and someone has an accent he'll say sh*t like "go back to your own country". And he's married to an immigrant. Once we were walking through an asian community and he pointed to a dog and said very loudly "these people want that ON the table, not under it" & me and my mom are asian! Whenever I tell him off he throws a tantrum & threatens divorce, says I should keep my opinions to myself & my mom just brushes it off even though I know it bothers her. She told me he won't stop so it's best to ignore him but I don't believe in that. I've heard him say the n-word & he tells my stepbrother to befriend only white kids. It's bad enough that racism exists but people should not have to deal with it in their own homes. This is only the tip of the iceberg. He also says sexist sh*t like "women shouldn't be in the army because they don't have that second sense. They can't kill it's a testosterone thing" um excuse me? first of all WOMEN PRODUCE TESTOSTERONE TOO!? and that's extremely disrespectful to female soldiers who not only face danger from war, but high rates of sexual abuse from their own army. also my brother was allowed to swear & watch r-rated movies b4 I could & I feel its one of many needless double standards that help breed self-limiting women what do I do |
| Question: Fathers blood is B+ and Mother is O+ and son is O+ is that possible? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 10:42 AM PDT |
| Question: What should i do about this? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 10:16 AM PDT Hi. my 11 year old nephew comes over almost everyday and plays GTA online with my husband, sometimes he's invited by the hubby without consulting me first which infuriates me. I have bitched and complained about this to his mother but nothing is being done, he sometimes shows up uninvited and stays the night, they stay up all night playing video games and making messes and driving me crazy. my husband claims he wants someone to play video games with when he gets off work, everything they do makes me angry to the point of wanting to pack up and move again. his mother lost her apartment after losing her disabled daughter's social security benefits, and Food stamps after her ex falsey reported her out of spite she's staying with a friend with her kids. sometimes i yell at my nephew for being here insulting him out of anger and my sister calls me miserable. she has no control over him, the boy is out of control he calls me names and disrespects me i am at my wit ends! i wouldn't mind him coming over once in a while like on the weekends what should i do? Thanks for any advise! also i pay the rent and electric bill he just provides food. the boy doesn't listen he just does whatever he wants! |
| Question: Abusive younger brother? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 10:07 AM PDT So I'm a 16 yo girl and my brother's 11, but about 2 inches shorter than me and just as strong bc he does a lot of sport. For as long as I can remember he lashes out at me randomly, like just now i haven't spoken to him all day and he comes up to me and starts grabbing my legs and hitting me and then starts yelling at me saying I was trying to kick his face when I was just trying to get him off me. He never respects my space and seriously has anger issues. When I'm in school it doesn't happen as much because we're in diff schools, and I only really leave my room to eat(work and revision). But he's always super violent for no reason and my parents will yell at him but it's never stopped him. Sometimes he'll be lashing out at me and chasing me around and I'll end up hitting him to get him away or screaming for my mom, but if I hit him she says I should have got her and if I scream she tells me to shutup. I can't go and get her because he's chasing me, blocking me and hitting me. What can I do?? |
| Question: How would you respond to this? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 10:01 AM PDT My stepdad is very verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive. He lies and manipulates to get his way all the time. I was talking to my mom the other night and I was asking er why she puts up with this. Her exact words were, "Knowing what I know now, I would never have married him. I do want to divorce him but I'm in my late fifties. I don't want to be alone." I felt bad for her and didn't know how to respond. I understand her fear of being alone but if I were her, I would rather be divorced than abused. Maybe I'm in my early twenties and just don't understand. How would have you responded? They have been married for seven years |
| Question: I don't know how to feel about my dad anymore? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:48 AM PDT I used to think I had a perfect life and a perfect family but I'm not quite sure about that anymore. I always remember loving my father and thinking he was really funny and cool but looking back, he has also had a completely irrational temper for as long as I can remember. I also fail to see how my completely level headed catholic mother could fall in love with such an angry man. In the past year or two, a number of things happened that have made me feel as though i don't love my father any longer and I'm scared. Here are some examples in order of their occurrence -my dad has always had a temper and everyday I would hope that he wouldn't lash out and get really angry at me or anyone else in my family. Although he has never harmed ANYONE and I wouldn't call what he does mental abuse, it still makes life very hard. It started out infrequent and isolated but has since escalated to insane levels. The smallest things are now able to set him off -he thinks he is in control of virtually every situation he is a part of, and even when he is wrong he erroneously insists that he is right (he sees any challenge to the accuracy of his statements or beliefs as an attack and, as mentioned before, immediately lashes out). Last week, at my physical examination my dad was literally telling the doctor how to examine me and the doctor was VISIBLY annoyed. -I have reason to believe that he is cheating on my mother. I have seen craigslist open on his computer in a separate tab labeled men seeking men. I have also found grindr on his phone. I'm also pretty sure he has a second email account for all of this. I'm kind of still in denial though and I'm very concerned for my mothers sake -he is a hypocrite, saying that others are unable to take criticism even though the smallest comment causes him to explode -he thinks he is more important than he his and gas unironically said many things to the effect of "your teachers will give you higher grades if I tell them to" or "they'll let me break this rule or that rule because I'm me" I've kind of accepted that I definitely don't really love him the same way that I used to but I'm very scared that I might dislike or even hate him. Looking for support and help about what to do... Please no hate |
| Question: Help, any advice please? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:45 AM PDT The past year of my life has been really bad. I was suicidal, my parents were untrusting and demanded my trust in them. But recently I found my Dad on tinder, full messages to girls though him and my mom had been together for more than 15 years now. Just yesterday his computer restarted and he lost all of his open tabs and blamed my mom for it although she did nothing. About a week before this incident he started keeping his office door closed. I woke up this morning and he was pissed. My mom was working in her office downstairs and I had quickly grabbed a towel from the linen cabinet. Once I came out of the shower he slammed my door open and told me "Close the ****ing door" He s never sworn at me before, and this never was established as an issue. He stomped up and down the stairs and placed this stupid *** sign on his door saying "Do not touch Do not enter Don t even look in this general direction" I brought it up and he told me to go work on math and check my priorities and is now spending more time outside and not talking to me. What should I do? Thanks in advance. |
| Question: Not uncomfortable just rather not? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:43 AM PDT I don't like talking to my mom about personal things that go on in my life. Is this normal? I feel this way because it seems like everytime i tell her something she throws it in my face if we have an "argument". Also it seems like every mistake i have ever made no matter how old it is she'll be like "that's why i dont trust you" and it makes me upset because she has made mistakes in life but i dont throw them in her face i just move on . i am now 16 years old and currently have a bf who i cannot see the 1 person that makes me forget about everything i go through. This is not even half of what she does but 💁 |
| Question: Is it fair for my parents to ground me? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:43 AM PDT Yesterday I went to the mall with my friend and her family and I was told to be home my 7. Well we ended up leaving the mall at around 6:30, and her father wanted to stop at Walmart to just get a backpack, but he ended up getting everyone's school supplies which took an hour!!! i wasnt able to walk home because it was too far from my house. I told my mom it wasn't possible to be home by 7. but now I'm grounded, which I don't necessarily see as fair considering it wasn't possible for me to get home, and I would've if I could've. |
| Question: My mom always wants me to take my autistic brother wherever I go? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:40 AM PDT I m 18 years old and my brother is 16 and autistic. I also have an older brother who is 22. Ever since I was little I have been highly embarassed by my little brothers odd behavior, he ll say weird things and laugh for no reason and has picked up weird habits. Even now, whenever we go somewhere, he ll spend 2+ hours in the bathroom, he ll fart randomly, he ll spit a lot, he ll start laughing and my mom is always telling me "take your little brother with you, he never gets to do anything!" WHEREVER I freaking go, and my older brother has never once taken him out with his friends. I m always the one doing this stuff and taking him places. I ve become very annoyed and upset, I know I sound stuck up but seriously I can not take it anymore. I m always super embarassed and I feel like I have a little kid I have to babysit because I have to watch him., |
| Question: I'm a overprotected 20 year old? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:39 AM PDT ok so i'm 20, i get good grades, ROTC student, I have a job that my mother still walks me too. never drank got high or whatever. I asked her if i can walk to my friends house which is across the street and I still have to come with her. Am I being over protected? |
| Question: What rights does my father have to me if he is not on my birth certificate? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:39 AM PDT I am 15 years old. My father is not on my birth certificate but his birthday is. My mother says he wasn't there to sign but when I confront him about it he always says he didn't have to sign. She could have put him on there if SHE wanted. He recently has been taking me to the doctors and dealing with my school stuff. Can he do that? I only recently met him about 4 years ago when my mom put child support on him. He instead decided that (without the law getting involved), he would just give my mom $200 a month. I go to his house over the weekends but whenever I tell him I don't want to go he gets mad, grounds me, and forces me to go. Do I have to go with him on the weekends? Do I have a say in anything? |
| Question: How to tell my mom that I want to move to Europe? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:33 AM PDT With my daughter, might I add. My mom and I have a relatively good relationship. We live in America, so Europe is far. Really far. There's several reasons for my wanting to move, the first being I think it would be a cool place to raise my daughter. The second, I think I would be a better parent far away from here, as stupid as that sounds. I'm a good mom, it's just I'm really unhappy here. I don't have a good relationship with my family, half don't speak to me and the other half, although they say otherwise, talks behind my back. Sometimes I even hear my mom doing it which is hurtful. It's all because I had my daughter when I was 16. It was a mistake, but a mistake I'm happy to have made. I've made a lot of mistakes here that I cannot say the same about though and I need a fresh slate. I can't go anywhere, not even to my family, without hearing about things I've done. Without getting glares. It feels suffocating. Recently I visited a friend in England and I cannot even describe how amazing it felt to be in a place where no one knows my name and to meet people without them having a false opinion of me based on others opinions. So basically I think it would be a good decision. However I think it will hurt my mom. She has plenty of kids to worry about, but I do have her grand daughter. And I don't want to care, I want to do what I think is best, even if it sounds dumb. I just need to know how to tell her without burning bridges I suppose. And yes, I know I can't just simply move there. I've already researched all of the daunting factors of getting a visa and I plan on revisiting only to begin figuring out how to go about it the best way. And as for why I don't just move to another place in America, it's because I do not want to. This isn't some random want, and if I'm going to move that far it won't be to a place I'm uninterested in. And I'm 20. No need for parental permission. |
| Question: I can't stand the kid next door.? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:32 AM PDT He's 7 years old and cries about everything. He cries if we don't play the game he wants to play. He cries if I don't invite him to dinner. He cries if my daughter beats him at a game. He cries when she can't come out and play. Yesterday he came to the door and she said she couldn't play, and he cried. Then he yelled her name in the front yard and started throwing rocks and hitting stuff with sticks. Then he came back to the door and knocked again, but we didn't answer, and he started peeking in our windows! His family is weird and the police have been there numerous times because I'm sure there's some sort of drug use going on over there. I don't want to get them angry at me because I fear backlash from them. What should I do besides move far, far away? |
| Question: Whenever I go to concerts with mom and stepdad, stepdad tries to leave me out of dancing? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:26 AM PDT It's hard to explain, easier to show but I'll try my best. I love going to concerts and I am grateful, believe me. I do dance by myself whenever I go and my stepdad leaves me out but it's not as fun. I go to concerts with my mom and stepdad, well, I can understand them slow dancing to slow songs, that's understandable. Well, whenever a fast song comes on, he grabs both of my mom's hands and dances. She tries to grab my hand too so we can all three dance together but he always grabs her hand and takes it away from mine out or he just decides to get closer to her in order to push me out. Even when my mom is sitting down for a song and I'm dancing, he doesn't dance with me at all. What should I do? My stepdad has always hated me but my mom really wants me to go to concerts with them so I agree to go. |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:22 AM PDT Now I feel threatened that my boy might do something to me. |
| Question: What are your house rules on bringing people home? Do you Always have to give notice? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:18 AM PDT When your bringing a friend or bf/gf home do you always have to alert ur family. Like if ur hanging our for the day with a gf and want to come chill at ur house, must u alert everybody. Interested in YOUR situation |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:12 AM PDT My mom and dad have been fighting for a lot of time and I think my mom decided she didn't want to be with my dad anymore so she left. She promised me she wouldn't but she left. It hurts because I was only 11 I was very insecure about myself I didn't cry when I found out because I already new it was going to happen. My mom lives very far away and I only see her 3-2 times a year I cry every night not knowing why and whenever someone talks about their mother I felt bad for myself or I start crying. It's been 5 years everything is the same as 4 years ago but much worse. Should I seek professional attention and speak to my dad about it? Or just keep it to myself? |
| Question: Worst vacation ever? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:10 AM PDT so this is going to be a long question so let me start from the beginning. so every year we go on vacation to florida. And by we I mean my mom, my grandma, my grandpa, my aunt, my uncle, my sister, my dad and me. Which is a total of 8 people. And the place we r staying at Is only meant for like 4 people but you can easily squeeze an extra two people. so we r 8 people in a house meant for six people. And the thing is that im the youngest out of all these 8 people which means im always the one getting picked on and everything almost always gets blamed on me. Which is already annoying. I mean imagine having 7 people always attacking you. but this year my mom had the best idea ever (and I mean that sarcastically) she decided to invite a close family friend.And she is staying in my room. it was my moms idea to invite this relative so she should sleep in moms room. But I could've lived with that but it gets worse. This so called family friend lets call her clarissa is really annoying. she is one of those people who always make smart remarks after you say something. Like for example ill say I want to be a lawyer and shell how can you be a lawyer if your dad always defends you? and also they treat me like im the maid. like today my mom is going to a hair salon owned by our family in florida and ive been dying to go see it. So I asked her I fi could come and she said I cant because I have to clean like its my vacation to. and even after I clean everything they told me to. as soon as I sit down everyones like why are you siting down your not done cleaning. even though im finished. Like I cant deal with this for another week. how can i enjoy the last week of my vacation If I have to deal with all this? |
| Question: CRAZY STEP MOTHER HELP? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:09 AM PDT ADVICE PLEASE So I live with my step mom but my dad and her are getting a divorce because she is phyco. We need to live with her until April IF she signs the house over to my dad that is. We can't kick her out cuz her names on the house & my dad rushed into things which he now regrets. She would fight with my dad almost everyday over little things. She was always jealous of my mother & thinks my dad will get back with her when he made it very clearly he just wants her. She never had a good man before so she might think hes to good to be true. He would open doors for her, let her win the arguments, hold her hand, buy her flowers but she would still fight. It would be annoying hearing them fight & i would feel sorry for my dad and wanna cry for him. The day they ended it was on fathers day. My dad said let's have a family talk & she was rolling her eyes & BAM before you know it she starts calling me a whore,slut,ungrateful,rude,***** & brings up my mom. The cops came & said they cant kick her out of her house & told us to be cordial. Days go by& it still happens. I have dreams were shes gonna kill us& she acts lik a possessed lady. She needs to leave i can't take it anymore but how? She wont sign the house over to my dad& no one is buying the house. She needs to be put in a mental house for her actions & words she said to me a 14 year old girl but in Wisconsin can u committe someone to a mental house without their input? |
| Question: Can a 17 year old move in with his real parents? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 09:02 AM PDT I am a 17 year old in South Carolina, my real dad lives in Nevada, i live with my grandparents who have custody over me. Can I legally move in with my dad? Or do I have to be 18 |
| Question: I have feelings for my step dad..? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:59 AM PDT Before you ask if this is a troll no, I actually have feelings for my step dad. I did not have a dad growing up because his job (flight attendant) required him to travel long distances and my mom and him never really had a real marriage because of it, so my mom decided they should just become "friends." My mom met my step dad in like 2009 and they got married in 2013. I've had "feelings" for him for awhile now, but obviously I can't act on them because he's married and I could accidentally get him in trouble if he ever agreed to do anything. To tell you a little bit about myself I'm 15, a guy and gay, he is 39. I find everything about him attractive and I love his personality and it kills me because I KNOW I can't have him. In reality I kind of seem like I don't like him, but I'm only like this because I don't want him to find out his step son has feelings for him. He doesn't know that I'm gay or anything like that and he seems cool about not having clothes on, besides boxers, around me. He has slept in my bed before (he crashed on my bed after work), he's changed in front of me and we have spooned (accidentally when he slept in my bed.) During those ties I felt like we were a couple, but in the end I know we can't be together. I've tried gettkng over him, but it's really hard. What should I do? |
| Question: Little brother apathetic? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:58 AM PDT I have been worried about my brother a long time. He doesn't try in anything he does but has all the potential in the world. I try to make him do his homework, shower, etc but my mother gets very angry with me when I do so. He is the baby and the favorite of the family so I don't really have much power. I want to help him but I don't know what to do anymore... I wonder if he has a psychological problem. What should I do? I also have an older sister that wants to help him too but she is out of state. |
| Question: 16 year old cousin is smoking? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:46 AM PDT Let's call her J Okay so her parents are pretty strict. They won't let her have a boyfriend until she's in college and of course they won't let her smoke. But she told her parents she was going to the movies but she was going to her boyfriends house. Okay so this is confusing but J's boyfriend's sister is best friends with J's sister. So J's boy friends sister told J's sister that she was smoking at her house. Should I tell her parents? J's sister doesn't want her to get in trouble so she isn't going to tell her parents. But I'm thinking I should tell them, I mean she is smoking at 16! We have proof because J's boyfriends sister took a picture of them smoking. I don't know what to do! Should I tell her parents? |
| Question: Deal with a possessive mother.? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:32 AM PDT I'm a 21 year old girl. I'm going to graduate in a few weeks. When I'm not at university, I'm usually in my room, at my parent's place, in a remote village that doesn't even have an internet connection. When I want to go outside for a walk, I need to ask my mom to go with me (in case I get kiddnaped). When I want to go swim in our swimming pool, once again, she wants to be here to watch after me (in case I sink). Up to now I've been ok with that. I was just a fat and depressive kid. A year ago, when I was abroad for studies, I met someone. I didn't really expect that our relationship would last (and apparently, nor did my mom). We now plan to move in together, in the country he lives in. I'm not only doing that to follow my heart, I also think that this could be a great life experience to get to live/work in another country for at least a year. She now spends her days crying, says that I'm cruel for leaving her, that I've changed since I'm with him. She says that she might never see her grandhcildren etc...I told her I'll visit her for christmas and summer but that is not enough! I start to doubt in everything she does, it wouldn't surprise me that at this point she's trying to stop me from doing that/keep me close to her/ ruin my relationship/plans. What should I say? Or is it even worth trying to talk to somebody like that? I can feel her. After all, I'm her only child... but what did she expect? She wants me to live in the same remote village? Alone, or to raise a family and visit her every day for tea? The situation is really stressful for me too... I do know that this is not gonna be easy so I really need a break. |
| Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:26 AM PDT My dad both hit me really hard yesterday. I made my parents angry but I'm in so much pain from everywhere. I got hit everywhere and if my Mum didn't come in between my Dad...I don't want to think about it. Problem is we don't really have a CPS so when I threatened to call in about my parents, they just laughed. What am I supposed to do? I feel like a prisoner in that house. I'm not from the U.S. clearly and at this point I really wish I was. |
| Question: Is the school treating my daughter fairly? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:25 AM PDT I got a call from my daughter's highschool that they wanted to discuss a problem with me. That was really surprising as she had never been any trouble before. The principal told me that the school had a problem with my daughter tutoring math. The only had room for a fixed number of students where she was doing the tutoring. Each semester they would post a sign up sheet for the tutoring. It turns out that most of the people that signed up were guys who did not need any tutoring. Most of the guys were A students that just wanted to get to know my daughter better. He said I can understand why these guys would want to get to know her better because she is beautiful girl. He said they were going to have to get someone else to do the tutoring so girls could get the math help they need. I know my daughter is going to be disappointed that she is being dumped. This just does not seem fair. I asked why they just don't kick the guys out that don't need tutoring and they told me they were afraid they would be accused of discriminating against boys. I think if my daughter could say she was a math tutor in high school, it will help her get in the college of her choosing. Parents (and high school girls) please give me your thoughts on this. Are they treating my daughter fairly? What should I do if anything? |
| Question: What should I do? Quickly? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:24 AM PDT Hi, I am a 13 year old who is currently in the midst of my family who are know talking about politics. However, my mother keeps on telling me to listen and leave the phone. Plus there are no people around(youngest person:dad). So what am I supposed to d o to not get bored. |
| Question: I think my parents hate me.? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:19 AM PDT They dont talk to me, they refuse to listen to me, if my family do something they instantly blame it on me, they dont let me out my room, whenever they go to a resturant or someplace nice they wont invite me, I dont know what to do. I dont feel wanted here. I once went out and when I came home they didn't notice I was gone, but started shouting at me when they realised I was out. They have always bought my family new objects so on, apart from me I'm just zoned out for them. I got together some money and bought them a gift and they threw it away.. literally right infront of me I dont know what to do. |
| Question: Why did my mom do this? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 08:17 AM PDT I'm 17 years old and a male. My mom and dad and I were on a vacation about a week ago. We stayed at a motel and there were 2 beds very close to each other. Almost immediately when they turned off the lights for bed mom took off her robe with nothing on and dad started kissing her and stuff in the bed next to mine. It was light enough in the motel room to see. Then mom got on top of dad and did it. I could see everything. Why would my mom do this? |
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