Family & Relationships: Question: Really looking for advice? |
- Question: Really looking for advice?
- Question: Help. Idk what to do i think I might be falling for my cousin but I don't want to ruin r friendship what do I do?
- Question: How do I stop black men from hitting on me?
- Question: Has anyone ever conceived a child with a close relative?
- Question: Pregnant girlfriend being distant! I'm scared she may have no interest in me anymore!?
- Question: I talk to much?
- Question: Should i say this to my boyfriend?
- Question: Should I Send a Pic of my EX Boyfriend Laying on my Naked A$$ to his New Girlfriend?
- Question: Is my life unlucky or what?
- Question: Hardships for me?
- Question: What things would u do to get ur x 's attention , ? ..without making it seem like ur desperate..or without making it obvious..?
- Question: Is it me or Him who is wrong?
- Question: I Sent a Stranger Photos of Myself?
- Question: Moving out at 17 with my boyfriend?
- Question: Has anyone ever encountered Kansas behavioral health systems in Kansas? if so what did you think about their case workers?
- Question: My brother is dating the sister of someone I once considered a good friend, but is now my enemy. Am I wrong for feeling betrayed?
- Question: What is the best place to live out of these 3?
- Question: Hola! Mi nombre es Renata y espero que me puedan dar algun consejo?
- Question: Help help help?
- Question: I went to Wales, Ystradfellte for a trip and my teachers wife made me jealous.?
- Question: I AM MAD AT MY TEACHERS WIFE?
- Question: School in NC pls read?
- Question: Cousin's girlfriend is ruining our friendship.?
- Question: Why would he tell me he has an open relationship and then 7 dates later tell me through text that it's now a closed relationship?
- Question: What can I do to tell him it's okay?
- Question: What does it say about how our world is now that many think of a DNA test first when faced with being a parent?
- Question: Be honest... have you and your spouse ever had an argument like a scene out of a movie?
- Question: Is it too soon to ask about exclusivity?
- Question: I feel unloved and unwanted?
- Question: Reliability in relationships how much does it matter?
- Question: Why is god taking me thru all this?
- Question: Me and my partner **** yesterday and we didnt use a condom he kept pulling his dick out and when i got home i was bleeding a little?
- Question: What should i do with my wife?
- Question: Is it a good thing if your manager chooses to call only you by your last name? He told me today he was going to keep calling me by it..?
- Question: How can i move in with my dad?
- Question: I had sexual relationship with my girlfriend's mom?
- Question: What is wrong with my mother? i'm convinced she's got some sort of mental disorder?
- Question: How can my mom choose a man over her children?
- Question: Why do we rely on others ?
- Question: My favourites food in cild?
- Question: Can you help me out with this girl I like?
- Question: What would you do if your mom didn't get invited to her son's fiance's bridal shower? Did I go overboard? (I got uninvited to the wedding)?
- Question: Is this a virus?
- Question: Am I a chauvinist?
- Question: Shouldn t i be angry?
- Question: My Narcissist Ex keeps our divorce in secret, but why?
- Question: My stepmother has left her nursing home and they won't tell why?
- Question: I have a really awkward and weird question that needs to be private and anonymous so my hole ? is very long so it'll be in the "details"?
- Question: Fell for my best friend, and everybody disapproves because he's a head shorter than me?
- Question: Does friends with benefits ever work out?
- Question: Why did he lie about his life to me for?
- Question: Does he still love me?
- Question: Is it illegal to take a woman's picture without her consent?
- Question: What does it mean when someone calls you pretty amazing?
- Question: I Cursed out my Ex Boyfriends new Girlfriend and they BOTH THREATEN TO KILL ME!!!?
- Question: What does it mean when someone says you were truly a blessing to them?
- Question: Does a divorced father have to pay medical expenses if he don't agree with treatment?
- Question: One of my friends who's like 12 years old says that she's never gonna get married or fall in love and she's strict about it?
- Question: I'm jealous of my teachers wife.?
- Question: Why would anyone want to be a Secondary in a polyamorous relationship?
| Question: Really looking for advice? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 03:19 PM PDT I started dating this man in October. He's wonderful man and I do love him a lot. He has 2 boys that he got full custody in March they are 13 and 10. I have one daughter who is 17. I do like his children a lot and they also like me a real lot. For the most part they listen to me. I am with them everyday while their dad is at work. My problem is both boys have a wise mouth but only when they don't get their way right when they want something. They expect their dad to jump for them anytime they want something. And when he doesn't then the attitudes start immediately. He also NEVER punishes them for it. Both boys have threaten to hit him. Also they want to do something EVERYDAY. Him and I have not a day or night alone since he's had custody. I ask him to get a babysitter and he says he tried which I believe to be a lie and think that he doesn't try at all because they boys make it quite clear they aren't going anywhere. Also he lives in a VERY small 1 bedroom pretty much a studio. He has been looking for a 2 bedroom. We literally have no conversation without them in it and commenting in anything we talk about. Several times I've asked him to come outside and they come right out he will tell them to go in but they just keep coming out until he doesn't say anything anymore. When he walks me to my car they follow him and tell him to hurry up come inside. They won't go outside without him. My question is what should I do and help me explain things to him? Also no sex in a month. |
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| Question: How do I stop black men from hitting on me? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 03:03 PM PDT I'm a black woman who is not interested in dating black men.Im not a racist and im not saying that I go against black men.When I go to the store whether be walmart,food depot,any shopping mall or even if I walk to the store,I get attention from that one certain (PERVERTED)black man or two,Not all of them cus that never happens,That hit on me.The way that they approach me and what they say makes me feel uncomfortable.They dont touch me,but they do tell me "hey babe let me get cho phone number" or "damn baby youve got a nice ***".I remember there was one that tried to chase me down in the walmart and I got super scared when he tried to find me.I'm very shy and So I dont say much.I dont wear revealing clothing or leggings since I am busty.I do like to wear giant sweaters and baggy awkward looking blue jeans and I try not to attract attention and I dont feel like I have the bravery to say "**** OFF".I wish this would stop because Im tired of feeling like a victim. |
| Question: Has anyone ever conceived a child with a close relative? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 02:49 PM PDT Was it consensual? Was it forced/rape? Who was it with? Was the baby born healthy? I've read about a brother-sister couple in Spain who have been living in a spousal relationship for over 35 years who had two healthy children together. Constructive comments only please. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Col7ndyEr7Y |
| Question: Pregnant girlfriend being distant! I'm scared she may have no interest in me anymore!? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 02:22 PM PDT I was never the type to post about my issues on yahoo answers but this has been really bugging me. I've been with her for almost a year now. She is 23 weeks pregnant. The pregnancy was an accident but the best one I've ever made. I feel extremely happy to be sharing this child with her. However, I feel as though my girlfriend is being distant towards me in every way. She was never the type to express her feelings but recently she won't tell me anything. She never wants to be intimate with me anymore, I can't hug or kiss her without her pulling away from me. She acts like everything with me is a chore(hugging, kissing, holding hands, cuddling, sex, etc.) she huffs and puffs and I cant understand why. I am starting to believe that she doesn't want me anymore. She is distant towards me all the time. I've talked to her about my feelings numerous times but somehow I always turn out to be the bad guy. We have been spending a lot of time together recently due to me being unemployed but she says space isn't the issue. She tells me that I am always on top of her physically. Honestly I can't recall any time recently I have been. I'm getting to the point where I feel like she's pushing me away for no reason. I don't mean to sound like I'm whining about it. I understand that there are hormones going on but this badly? I just feel like I am no longer desired by her physically and emotionally. She honestly makes me feel like complete crap sometimes. I honestly cry almost daily now. |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2015 02:20 PM PDT damn i talk to much i say everything that comes to my mind some times i even feel guilty after talking much damnnn help! |
| Question: Should i say this to my boyfriend? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 02:04 PM PDT Ok well this is kinda embarassing but my boyfriend has a habit of biting his hand and that makes him drool. I think its gross but I dont wanna say it to him in case i hurt his feelings! Any suggestions on what to do?? |
| Question: Should I Send a Pic of my EX Boyfriend Laying on my Naked A$$ to his New Girlfriend? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 02:01 PM PDT i sent this to my ex boyfriends new girlfriend and then they BOTH threaten to come to my house and kill me WAS THIS THAT BAD???? " he is not gonna be faithful to you he always comes back to me so unless you wanna share his d!ck with me i suggest you not get too comfortable btw how does my p*ssy taste?? haha" He called me a dirty bish and told me if i ever call him again he's gonna get the cops on me :( she asked me for proof of us f**kin on satruday i didnt send it cause i didnt wanna be a snitch but i have a pic of him laying on my n*ked a$$ its a old pic but should i send that too her now??? |
| Question: Is my life unlucky or what? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 01:42 PM PDT Hi all. So it's more than just depressing comic week for me. It's Depressing Life. So I'm going to elaborate a bit on this and I don't mind even if you give me a single line answer; I would just appreciate you taking the time to go through this and an honest answer will earn you 10 points. Here's the deal. I have no friends (the ones I had just left for work purposes to other countries), my beau and I don't get along (marriage seems impossible for us due to differences in color, race and religion). I hardly get permission to go out even if it's to let it all out on my own. I made a plan to go on an outing with my teacher sometime ago; reminded her thrice, turns out everytime she has an important affair to attend to. What has the world come to when even your teacher starts ignoring you? Is she really busy or is it just a coincidence all the three/four times I have contacted her? I received positive responses but the plan was never followed through with. Oh and yes, I am fat, I have poor health, I don't have a good job (I have one but it pays miserably), I have no social life, my domestic life is impaired (poor family business and parents fight). I am just about alone in this world with no companionship or no supporter. I am happy that I get enough to eat and have a roof to live under. Again, my major problem is friendship...I seem to repel people although I am very nice and friendly. I go out of my way to please them. What gives? :( |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2015 01:32 PM PDT I hit a really rough patch lately, I quit my job of 5 years because I just could not put up with the disrespect and I felt very unappreciated. I have been out of work for two months, losing my house also. My car recently has been acting up and soon will be my "home". How do I convince myself to not give up completely? I want to overcome this. |
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| Question: Is it me or Him who is wrong? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 12:38 PM PDT I have this new friend in benefit that I met for a first time. He loves me so much and we never slept together. So I am falling for him too . We started sharing things you know . He told me why he broke up with his gf it because they were naughty all over the place so she was not good for him anymore because he is a god fearing person .He also a God fearing person , love church and sex ??? I am also a god fearing person too and I don't like sex . I am more focus on the word of God .He also told me that he slept with his ex without a condom twice.I told him that if we are serious about this relationship , we have to go get tested before we sleep together. He started arguing and said I don't trust him . I must say that he and his ex are dirty . So now he said that he "want " me . (sleep with me) and I told him that I am not ready because we only met once and he kept on begging me until he got angry at me and said I can't him happy. 1st of all I don't care what his ex and him did. Secondly, the reason I asked him to test with me it because what serious couples do before they sleep each other. '3rd I prepfer making love to a guy after a year or get married or when I fully know him/ I don't know what to do. I love him but because he is a god fearing person and love church but the way he behaves because he loves sex a lot and I am not. It just disgusts me. Any help or advice? |
| Question: I Sent a Stranger Photos of Myself? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 12:19 PM PDT I started talking to this guy on Google Hangouts (I know, I know, Google +...), and we hit it off pretty well. I decided I could tell him my age (13), and he told me his (before I told him mine ((33))). I didn't find anything particularly strange- I mean, he wasn't asking anything pervy, so why should I? He sent me a photo of himself, and a few of his dogs, and I sent him a couple of my profile pictures from Twitter, since everyone can see those anyway. We knew quite a lot about each other at this point, all except for our last names and addresses. He said I'm pretty, and asked if that was creepy... He then said I'm hot. I said that that was definitely creepy, to which he apologized a lot and seemed kind of mad at himself for saying that. That '13 year old me would find you hot', and 'I wish I'd met you 20 years ago' (he said that one before realising it was weird). He hasn't saved any of them to his phone, he said after I asked- 'I'm not going to go down that road'. I feel as though this sounds way creepier than it was at the time, but I'm just a little worried now... I'll not video chat with him, or send him my address, or meet up with him, or give him my last name, or send him more pictures, or do anything inappropriate... He said he wasn't finding it weird because I act/look much older than I am, which I think is true, and we did talk a lot before he found out my age etc. Still, he hasn't said anything extremely wrong, I just feel a little uneasy. Thanks~ Please don't be mean, I'd just like some advice/something to ease my anxieties. Thanks~ Should I just cut all communications? Okay, I blocked him. End. Of. Story. |
| Question: Moving out at 17 with my boyfriend? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 12:11 PM PDT I have a hard home life where I feel uncomfortable army house, I face emotional and some physical abuse from both my parents. I am 17 years old and I plan on moving in with my boyfriend and his brother and mom. His mom loves me and I practically live there anyways, she said she would love to have me live there because I would be extra help around the house, if I moved in id help clean, pay for groceries and help pay rent. I just don't know how to go about telling my parents I'm moving out |
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| Posted: 17 Aug 2015 10:47 AM PDT I come from an extremely close family that can usually forgive and forget, but I can't get over the fact that my own brother would go out of his way to start a relationship with someone he knew I would never speak to again. |
| Question: What is the best place to live out of these 3? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 10:44 AM PDT So, I m from Belgium and my girlfriend is from Florida, and we re just not sure where to live. She doesn t speak Dutch, so that could be a problem, although she s learning it. Our middle ground would be somewhere in England. So, Florida VS England VS Belgium. I changed it, lol, thanks for the heads up. And I kinda meant which country has the better living standards. |
| Question: Hola! Mi nombre es Renata y espero que me puedan dar algun consejo? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 10:40 AM PDT Mi novio tomo mi celular y vio una llamada que habia recibido de mi ex, no me dejo explicarle y simplemente rompio conmigo, como no tengo nada que ocultar yo quiero hablar con el y decirme que mi ex novio me llamo para pedirme que volviera con el pero yo le deje claro que tenia pareja y que por favor me dejara de molestar, mi novio no me quiere escuchar y no me responde las llamadas ni los mensajes, no se me hace justo por que yo a el tambien le e encontrado varias cosas y cuando le pido explicaciones no me las da se hace el ofendido y yo termino rogando practicamente cada vez que encuentro algo, nose que hacer me siento muy mal no se si seguir insistiendo para que escuche lo que tengo que decir o simplemente dejarlo seguir con su error ayuda me siento super mal :/ |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2015 10:07 AM PDT My baby father receive a 1st of the month check from social security will I beable to apply for my 5 month old son |
| Question: I went to Wales, Ystradfellte for a trip and my teachers wife made me jealous.? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 09:28 AM PDT She was holding her Husbands hand, I have a crush on him. I can't put my mind to my work over this shall I tell my teachers this, so I can work in class effectively. I've never had my feeling hurt. :( |
| Question: I AM MAD AT MY TEACHERS WIFE? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 09:19 AM PDT I HATE HER WITH ALL MY HEART SHE HAS PUT MY JOB TO A STOP OVER BEING DEPRESSED THAT I'VE BEEN JEALOUS OF HER, BECAUSE SHE'S BRILLIANT AND HAS THE MOST AMAZING MAN IN THE WORLD. I FEEL SICK TO THE TOP. |
| Question: School in NC pls read? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 08:43 AM PDT When does school start in North Carolina? In like Greensboro? PLS REPLY?? Btw for public school or charter :) plsssss reply ASAP!!!!!!! |
| Question: Cousin's girlfriend is ruining our friendship.? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 07:12 AM PDT So my cousin (B) and I are less than a year apart and have been close all 26 years of our lives. Recently I became friends with his girlfriend (Al) and introduced her to my friend (As). Well, apparently my "friend" confided in Al because my husband kissed her. All of them B, Al, and As knew about this for over a month before telling me, after several drinks, on the 4th of July. My decision was to work on things with my husband and cut As out of my life. He was wrong, but she was too and I vowed to spend my life with my husband, not her. Well, suddenly Al thinks I'm a horrible person for staying and ending my friendship with As. She has gone to bashing me on social media, wouldn't allow my cousin to go to my father's wedding, etc. I have zero desire to reconcile with Al or As, but I miss having my cousin B in my life. He hasn't reached out, so do I just let him go or do I take the big step and reach out to him? |
| Posted: 17 Aug 2015 07:02 AM PDT We met at work, he was new, I've been here ten years. He's 55, and I'm 35. We met, we discussed starting something, and he said yes, he wanted to. We went out throughout the end of last school year and a few times in the summer. Each time heating things up. The last time we felt each other, kissed passionately and arranged to actually have sex. Then nothing. No communication for 12 days. I mean, no strings attached sex with an attractive woman, and someone who makes no demands and is what he called a very happy and pleasant personality... I'm going to see him on Wednesday, I just don't see him being faithful even if he says it to me in a text message. He was very clear about this. His current GF was his affair partner when he was married. He's been with her for three years... everything was all going well... what do you think? I even texted him to make it clear I wasn't looking for a relationship so he wouldn't feel confined... I told a friend at work just now, she thinks he just doesn't want to have it on text, that he will continue in person. What do you think? |
| Question: What can I do to tell him it's okay? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 07:00 AM PDT I want to have sex with my boyfriend before he leaves for college again this year. Today is his last day at home. I'm on painkillers because of a broken ankle, and whenever we get really close to sex, he stops and says he would feel like he's taking advantage of me. How can I prove to him that it's okay? Because I really want to do it. What should I do? We've never had sex before, and I'm a little nervous, but it's still something I really want to do. |
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| Question: Be honest... have you and your spouse ever had an argument like a scene out of a movie? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 06:28 AM PDT You know, one where one partner storms off or gets in their car after shouting "I'm leaving!" If so, how long did you guys stay physically apart and how did you make up later? |
| Question: Is it too soon to ask about exclusivity? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 05:43 AM PDT I met a guy online through a dating site. We have been talking for over a month now and we really click. It is constant conversation via text, phone and Skype. I have deactivated my online profile. Mainly because I like this guy and I do NOT have time to date around (single, full time working mom with primary custody. He too is incredibly busy. He works mostly nights and anywhere from 40-70 hours a week. He has his son every other weekend. He doesn't have a lot of 'free' time either. We see each other when we can. We have been to dinner twice and lunch twice. He came to my house Saturday after he got off work at 2am. We stayed up till 5 talking and well... you know what happened. The next morning, got up, talked and piddled around for a few hours. Parted ways. He told me how gorgeous I was and that he really enjoys his time with me, etc. BUT, once again, I peeked onto the dating website to find him online. I felt a little biffed by that. I didn't say anything tho. I want to date exclusively with him. No more dating websites, just see where things go. I want to ask him if he feels the same, but I am not sure if I should. (I'm 31 and he is 30). What is the protocol with these things?? |
| Question: I feel unloved and unwanted? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 04:13 AM PDT I don't know if this would help but i'm Male and 17 I have friends, i have great parents but i still feel so alone and depressed in this world i don't feel like people care about me or even want me to be around, no one has ever asked if i was okay and if i try to talk to someone they try to avoid me, i question if my life is even worth it i mean i like myself as a person i like the way i am but i don't like the pain i feel everyday and the question i just have is, what should i do? iv tried a psychiaist but that doesn't work, and if you have been through this, how did you fix it? |
| Question: Reliability in relationships how much does it matter? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 03:16 AM PDT |
| Question: Why is god taking me thru all this? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 03:13 AM PDT I m having a hard time dealing with jealousy. I had a miscarriage n 2012 n I had a baby n 2014 but died shortly after being born. He was Premature born at 23 weeks . But it seems as tho everyone is getting pregnant and I m sitting like wtf am I doing wrong ? Maybe it s not meant to be? After I loss my baby I loss my job my apt n had rondo stay with family... Me n my boyfriend smdh Then we had to move to my grandparent house n it has it's good n bad days. I'm going away on vacation for my bday... Soon after I told my Gmom bout the trip now she asking for money towards the cable bill.. I don't understand why now ask n we been there a yr now. My mother ran up my name with the eletric bill cause I helped her out now it's $1,800 n it's on my credit report... Idk what to do but keep saving n move. My fiancé days got cut at work so I'm the breadwinner at the moment |
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| Question: What should i do with my wife? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 01:19 AM PDT I been with this women for 6 years n we have 3 kids together. Our first 3 years we was good we did things together n we loved each other. We are still young am 21 n shes 20. But had 3 kids in the past 3 years. Now we are 6 years into our relationship n it seem to get worse n worse every single day. She feel like am alway wrong n that she always right in everything even in the things she wrong. She controls me like n acts like am a dog or like a random guy thats nothing to her. I pay ALL bills i take care of my kids. I give her money for w.e. she needs but shes so controlling n she so nasty to me like she alway made for no reason. Like we can be good n talk n if i walk out the room n come back in n shes mad n being nasty like i did something to her. But i didnt. So i guess i want to know wht should i do cause i tryed asking everyone in my family n her family but no one wants to take parts of it. So please guide me. Do i leave my kids with her n move on my own or do i stay for my kids. |
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| Question: How can i move in with my dad? Posted: 17 Aug 2015 12:00 AM PDT I currently live with my mom and have been going through things and want to try living with my dad for many reasons and my mom wont let me because she says i am just trying to run away from my problems which im not im 15 and have been basically forced to be living with her for these past years how can i move in with my dad? I have asked my dad and he is okay with me living with him. |
| Question: I had sexual relationship with my girlfriend's mom? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 11:40 PM PDT My girl friend's parents are divorced and her mother is hence an unsatisfied woman. One day I went to meet her and she was not in her home. I met her mother and we felt attracted towards each other and had sex. I also have a sexual relation ship with my girlfriend. S does not know about all this and I am feeling a lot of guilt. What do I do? |
| Question: What is wrong with my mother? i'm convinced she's got some sort of mental disorder? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 10:52 PM PDT So I let her borrow my charger to charger her ipad since she doesn't have one. and that's the only charger I have. so right before i'm getting ready to go to sleep I tell her " I need my charger so I can charge my phone. I have to wake up early for work and I use my alarm clock on my phone" and she pretends like she doesn't know where it is. then i'm like " I know you hid my charger. please give it to me" and so she was like " get out my room before I knock you out" and i'm thinking to myself " are you seriously threatening me right now. I just want my charger that I paid for with my own money. Then she locks the door and she locks the door to my brother's room as well which made me believe she might have hid my charger in there as well |
| Question: How can my mom choose a man over her children? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 10:16 PM PDT Please open picture for details. It turned out a lot longer than I expected. |
| Question: Why do we rely on others ? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 10:11 PM PDT Why do we rely on others ? Why do others rely on me???!!!!!!! How to stop this ?!!!!!!! >.< And I mean in a bad way. -.- |
| Question: My favourites food in cild? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 09:49 PM PDT Punjabi |
| Question: Can you help me out with this girl I like? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 09:48 PM PDT If you are staring into space in class & then you see a girl looking at you & smiling while she has her hands on her head. Was she laughing at me or just admiring me? |
| Posted: 16 Aug 2015 09:19 PM PDT My brother's fiance is an awesome girl, but my mom came home today in tears. What you have to understand is that this woman doesn't cry. Ever. She's very tough, but this got her. Also for all it matters I'm a guy and I'm 21 in college living at home. So apparently she didn't get an invitation to the bridal shower, because it got "lost in the mail" whenever her sister and her cousin got one. Her sister lives two houses down from us... Yeah. The soon to be wive's sister was the 'organizer', we'll call her B was behind all of this. B also snubs her at the bridal shower and wouldn't speak to her.. Anyway I send a rant to B on Facebook calling her out on her s**t, and calling her a hateful b*tch (I know extreme, but it wasn't going to be pretty no matter what I said). So then all hell breaks loose, and my brother calls me saying he's coming over to beat me, I call the cops (me and my brother aren't as close anymore, and his tone downright scared me). That thankfully defused the situation a lot, and was probably a smart move even if it was kind of weak. It turns into a big circus, but the situation was defused. Now I'm second guessing myself. I'm uninvited to the wedding as well. I had to take up for my mom at all costs. We aren't a family of drama, but I made my case be known that I'm not having my mom being pushed around by some 24 year old girl. My mom thanked me up and down, but I'm just unsure if I did the right thing? I also apologized to my brother's fiance too, but not her sister, and I'm probably not going to. |
| Posted: 16 Aug 2015 09:05 PM PDT I was recently sent a message saying this "(I know somebody who likes you a lot. And if I waasnn t so shy, I would tell you who it is. alturl.com/qrbsw) Tracey0328" what exactly is it? Is it spam/a virus? I haven t opened the link yet |
| Posted: 16 Aug 2015 09:03 PM PDT Long story short I was having a conversation with a friend and I upset her because she felt that I belittled women. I was wondering if my views on "roles" meant I was a chauvinist. I believe not that men are superior but that we do have certain, advantages. A specific example is we are naturally stronger. But the statement that upset her was about paying for meals. I believe that if a woman is going to go through the trouble of looking good for me the least I can do is pay for her meal. Does that make me chauvinistic? Any thoughts are much appreciated. |
| Question: Shouldn t i be angry? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 08:42 PM PDT my grandmother taught me how to make insect repellant with kerosene and lotion. so I sent my fiancee to buy me kerosene, he brings me back a bottle. i mix it and sprays it on myself and the children. 5 hours later, he tells me its gasolene he bought because he does not know what kerosene is. the smell is very mild, but if you don t understand, say you don t understand. don t bring me a potentially dangerous liquid. I am very dissappointed in him. and i am pissed! |
| Question: My Narcissist Ex keeps our divorce in secret, but why? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 08:02 PM PDT My husband (51) and I (41) married two years ago and left me for another woman (56) 4 months ago, who is my acquaintance. They had an affair without my knowing for a couple of months prior to dumping me. I divorced him as soon as I found out he had moved in her house. Since he left, he totally refused to talk to me, so we communicated thru emails and texting, and now I even blocked his phone number and emails. Even though I asked him to change the mailing address, his mails still come to my address but I am sending them back to the sender. I was told by our mutual friends that we are temporarily separated. I know that his co-workers and friends would tell him crazy once they get to know of his affair and divorce, because we recently married, he is way older than me, I make much more money than he does plus I look more attractive than this old whore. Our divorce will be finalized in 3 months. Will he announce his divorce officially and introduce his new woman to people? Based on the fact that he left his mailing address here, I am afraid if he comes back. Any experience of Narcissist pattern? |
| Question: My stepmother has left her nursing home and they won't tell why? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 07:28 PM PDT |
| Posted: 16 Aug 2015 07:22 PM PDT Okay this is very private so no names but my fiancé and I will be getting married soon & have been talking about "trying new things", so there was this one night "anal" for brought up and I told him I would do anything and everything with him because I love him and I'm going to spend the rest of my life with him and slowly used fingers then decided to stop due to not have proper equipment then after it was said & done the next day he asked me to pretend it never happened &I was okay with it, then it got brought up again just talking about it then he randomly changed his mind again & then recently today not long again we were just making out and he was grabbing my butt and rubbed it a little and I said I have the right things we need for it and we were prepared & that I'm wanting to try it too and he was so all for it then all of the sudden out of no where he changed his mind & said it was wrong & we shouldn't do it literally less than a minute after he said he was excited to try it and I'm so confused & I asked him why he changed his mind & all he said is that it was wrong & that's all and I just said k hope 1 day he can fully open up to me about it all. He does have a gay grandpa and I'm wondering if he afraid to try it out of fear of it making him become gay which he is no were near gay at all we've been together for so long and I've known him for 10+ yrs we are SOUL MATES Please help me understand we tell each other EVERYTHING except this topic help me understand. |
| Question: Fell for my best friend, and everybody disapproves because he's a head shorter than me? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:40 PM PDT For a long time me and my best friend, (whom I'm going to call 'Joey' for now) have had feelings for each other and eventually got together. Recently we started making it more public, and nearly everybody in my school, and my parents disapprove and bother the both of us constantly. Reason being, he's a head shorter than me and has to stand up on his tiptoes to kiss me. In class I get nicknames such as 'pedo' and 'Joey' gets called some pretty offensive stuff that I'd prefer not to mention. And my family dislikes him because he doesn't fit their 'standards' of how he should look and act. It's taken a bit of a tole on the both of us, how should we both handle this? |
| Question: Does friends with benefits ever work out? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:36 PM PDT I always hear it goes a direction where one wants feelings, or gets territorial, or starts wanting more over time, gets hurt, has expectations, etc. Or where they pretend it's just sex but there's always something more. Ever been a situation, where in all seriousness, it worked out and didn't end badly? What's your experience? : I talked to a guy who has slept with a lot of women the other day, and he said ''yep, they can never be happy with what they have.'' |
| Question: Why did he lie about his life to me for? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:36 PM PDT I found out a guy that i liked, lied to me about his life.. He had told me his mum and dad died & he had no family. After an argument , i found out through a friend of his, that his mum was alive & he had siblings.I also found out he was once married and i remember joking around with him one day asking if he had ever been married or had kids and he said no. He told me he was a virgin, which i found hard to believe . But considering how we met i thought i would trust him on it.. ( we met at a club and almost had a one night stand but didn't go through with it), I thought we where good friends and very close, he and I had many conversations about his mum. How he missed her and how i was like her in some ways with some things i did and said .I found out his mum was alive and lived a few mins down the road from me & thathe had siblings too. I was told he didn't like his family but he knew from day one i didn't like mine,so why didn't he just be honest and say he didn't like his and that they where dead to him? I thought we where good friends but i guess not since i found out the truth from his friend, his friends seemed to know the truth but i didn't. i just am wondering why he lied so much? I was friends with him for a few years while he was lying to me. |
| Question: Does he still love me? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:34 PM PDT My boyfriend we have been together for almost 4 years and lived together for 4 months. we are a young couple hes 19 im 18. Weve broken up two times before. We are a dull relationship now. He dosent take walks with me. he barley talks. we havent had sex in weeks but i always try to start but he will do something to get me mad. then again he never starts with me he goes to sleep. i dont feel like our relationship is the same we have became dull i tryed telling him thousand times he dosent listen. |
| Question: Is it illegal to take a woman's picture without her consent? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:18 PM PDT Before I start, I want to say that I don't have a gf nor do I want one.. Every once and awhile I get a girl being flirty or come on to me.. I don't care for that much.. I was thinking of funny ways to discourage them.. What I was thinking is.. when they try something.. I take out my phone and take a picture of her face (even if she is looking dead at me).. I will save these pictures.. if it continues I will post them up on some site as a hit list or something.. women seem to be doing this more now.. I dont really care for it... but I think this is a funny way to stop it.. is it legal though? you guys that said it is illegal are dumb,.. i just found out it is legal.. and to get back at all of you im going to go straight ahead and upload pics that i snap.. i was going to wait but not anymore :P HA! |
| Question: What does it mean when someone calls you pretty amazing? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:06 PM PDT |
| Question: I Cursed out my Ex Boyfriends new Girlfriend and they BOTH THREATEN TO KILL ME!!!? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:06 PM PDT i sent this to my ex boyfriends new girlfriend and then they both threaten to come to my house and kill me WAS THIS THAT BAD???? "______ is not gonna be faithful to you he always comes back to me so unless you wanna share his d!ck with me i suggest you not get too comfortable btw how does my p*ssy taste?? haha" THEN HE CALLED ME TO TELL ME TO DELETE HIS NUMBER AND IF HE CATCHES ME TEXTING HIM OR CALLING HIM HE'LL DO SOMETHING TO ME WTF |
| Question: What does it mean when someone says you were truly a blessing to them? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:04 PM PDT |
| Question: Does a divorced father have to pay medical expenses if he don't agree with treatment? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 06:00 PM PDT My fiancées ex wife has had his two younger children in psychiatric care for the past couple years. They were fine but all of a sudden they had to see a psychiatrist. The reason is "teenage" drama. Nothing major just tho gas kids go through as a child. Nothing major. Example one of the girls friends didn't want to be friends anymore it hurt the kids feelings she cried mom says "let's go see a psychiatrist. Now the bills are over 5k and she expects him to pay. He didn't even know the kids were going and don't agree to it. He feels she as a parent should try to explain tho HS to the kids 1st. Please help!! Any advise would be great |
| Posted: 16 Aug 2015 05:54 PM PDT And she says she's decided that since she was like 8 years old. And she says she wants to live independently when she gets older and not with a spouse, do you think she's gonna grow out of this attitude? I'm like pretty sure she's gonna stop being like that in a while, but I don't really know @the person who said the 12 year old is me It's NOT me, the 12 year old is my FRIEND. |
| Question: I'm jealous of my teachers wife.? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 05:47 PM PDT I have jealousy problems from the past over my teachers wife because I was in love with him. I've been gone over 5 years, and still feel pissed that the two of them made me feel aching pain. I need to watch movies about girls having hard crushes on their teachers, it makes me feel better, and I have to watch like young girls harming wifes to get her off my mind, I've been unwell for a few years and I can't have my job. |
| Question: Why would anyone want to be a Secondary in a polyamorous relationship? Posted: 16 Aug 2015 05:36 PM PDT I'm not judging or anything, but if I were to ever enter one of these relationships, I'd want everyone to be equal. Being thought of as secondary feels like I'm selling myself short. I have a feeling that not everyone feels that way (duh), but it still vexes me. Can someone explain to me why they'd be ok with being secondary? |
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