I am the sister (18) and he was one of my friends and they ended up dating. I made sure he couldn't come over to our house, but she is still "dating him" and deleting the messages. Is there anything I can do to stop this? He is talking to her in an adult manner. Parents know. They told him to stay away and not talk to her. He ignores it. My mom works in a court house and was told by multiple judges and lawyers that nothing can be done law wise unless physical contact sexually happened. I know they kiss and have talked about laying down together. Sadly my sister wont listen to me about the fact that when I was 14 a 17 year old talked me into having sex way too early and then abused me heavily for 2 years. She is into "bad boys" and is at the age where she thinks she is right about everything.

I know cheating is wrong. I used to be 100% against it & thought horribly of the people who would actually cheat on someone they love, but now im one of those people. I love my boyfriend with all of my heart, i want a future with him, i want kids with him. Hes the only one i want in my life. But i never feel satisfied with him. I feel the need to go get more. I cry to myself about it all of the time in the shower. Because im a scum bag and i hate myself for it. Ive only cheated with one person. It still doesnt make it right. Idk what kind of response im looking for. I just needed to vent. I feel so low. So scummy. But then some days im like **** it lets do it and then i regret it right after it happens. I want to stop but then again i need to feel satisfied. Idk ik how horrible i am.

My neighbor, ( Who I'm pretty sure is on some heavy drugs ) comes to my house daily to ask for favors. I work from home for a IT company and I've had to tell him more times than I can remember that I'm working and can't help him / have him coming to my door. To make matters worse, His girlfriend. Came over 3 times in one day to use my phone. The third time I let her borrow it she talked for an hour straight before I had to ask her to end the call because I had to go to the store. Today I pulled up after running out for a quick bite to eat and he asked if he can borrow a movie--- I told him No because I'm working.. Less than 20 minutes later he's ringing my door bell asking if he can use my phone?????? This is crazy what can I do to stop this?

So I was talking to my niece over the phone a couple days ago were pretty close she's 16 I'm 26 and well she admitted to me that she had a boyfriend (strict family so kind of a big deal) of course I knew eventually she would have a boyfriend and I did at her age so I was okay with it.. But late last night we were talking over the phone again and she asked for advice about this boy and I said "well...do you love him?" And she said yeah but in a way where she really really meant it and she never even had to think about it for a second I can't stop thinking about that why?

Estábamos en una fiesta y mi novio me tocaba todo por dejaba de la falda mientras se quedaba viendo con cara de hambriento a las viejas que bailan en el nightclub! Me sentí súper mal y solo me quite

I own a departmental store in kolkata, india. on the 20th of aug 15 a customer gave me a nRs 500/- note. and left. in like 10 secs after she left my store i saw dat its fake. I send my employee to call her back but she got into her car and left. today the 30th of august she came to buy an ice cream cone and i confronted her. i told her that she gave me a 500/- note on the previous visit (didnt say about the fake), she refused . she said she gave me a 100/- rupee note. she was denying it completely dat she gave me a 500/- not. but i told her that i have that on camera that she gave me a 500/- note. she said ok u have it on camera. i told her yes and the note is fake. she said to show her proof that she gave me that note. i told her that there are so many customers present in my store at that point... y will i say that she gave me that note. then i asked her whether she will exchange the note. she said no. i then said ok .u are not invited to my store anymore. she made a huge issue about why i made the comment but later changed the note. was i right to say that she wasnt welcome in my store. p.s if u were present in my store at that point would you feel that i was wrong to say that. i am a straight forward guy, i am very polite and have a very good goodwill in my area about my behaviour. but i cant tolerate any wrong doings. would like your opinion regarding this matter . thank you so much in advance... ( i am very happy i got my 500/- bucks back) :)

I'd like to find an experienced military wife/girlfriend to be able to chat, email, Facebook with to express my feelings & fears with. I have no support system I can confide in.

Ayer salimos de fiesta y aquí es muy común que hayan chicas bailando en mini tarimas y yo estaba con mis amigos y el llego y se quedo con nosotros, pero hacía casi como si yo no existiera y se le quedaba viendo exagerado a una de las chicas que bailan con cara como de que se la quería cojer ! Qué opinan? Es malo que haga eso o es normal?

Should I go and sneak or explore outside. My parents are not home, I want to take a walk outside. I just want to go outside, have fresh air...

Should I tell my teacher I love her ? Im not in love with her ... but I love her like a friend ..Ive known her for a year and she's been really nice to me and I know I can talk to her . She's more then a teacher to me , she's more like a friend . She always compliments me and came up to me a few times and hugged me . Asked me to join student council and lets me hang out with her after school . She knows that I look up to her and trust her . Ive told her some personal things and know I can tell her everything ... I feel like we are on a family/ friends level besides a student/ teacher level . I want to tell her I love her but with out it being to weird ? Is that possible and should I tell her ?

Okay me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months now we are very happy but whenever he goes to hang with his friends I get mad cause it seems like he has more fun with them than me I don't even trust them anyhow one of his friends has tried to put the moves on me and the other friend lies a lot about things I've tried to tell my boyfriend they aren't really nice people and I don't trust them but he won't listen to me at all and has told me I don't care what you think I'll hang with them if I want to and I'm just like well they aren't good people I want my boyfriend to have friends of course but not ones that aren't good people what should I do?

Hi my name is ryan and im a 13 year old male in 7th grade. Recently i joined my schools football team. In the begining of the summer i joined my schools football camp, when i joined i make a new freind named maximus, I instanly started noticeing him sorta hitting on me. Whenever he finished a drill i would put my hand out for a high five but instead he would hug me and he would always try to start conversations with me and tried to make me laugh. Im strait so i showed him that i wasnt interested in him by no responding. A few months have passed and he stoped showing intrest, eventually close to the end of summer our camp closed but the practice f9r the football team began. When this happend bo5h me and max went obviously, when this began he started showing intrest again. School started and this is when i started to question my sexuality. I have always been straight but when school started i started to have lots of emotions fot max. He started showing lots of exesive touching like at practice every time we had any break he would rap his arm around my shoulder and andpull me close to him and talk to me. He also did this on the football game sidelines. One time i was walking behind him and he had new extra padding on the back of his shoulder pads near his but and i was looking at it and he notice and started flirting with me and made jokes like "you like my back pack?". I was i bit confused and accidentaly said yes to that question. When that happened he started to get really close to me he always tried to sit with me on the bus, sit next tome my desk etc. Where i noticed it the most was at the high school football game. When i got there i was looking for a seat and i saw max. He was very excited and asked me to sit next to him so i did and when i did he pulled right up to him and put his arm around my shoulder, he also made excesive eye contact and conversated alot with me and played many games with me. Lots of very popular hot girls were interested in him but he didnt care one bit and even called some ugly and rejected them all. He kept his arm tightly on my shoulder for the whole game. Note that i did not refrain from the contact due to the recent affections i grew for max. So the question is hat does he like me and is he gay? Please read details they're important

Basically I met this girl online a few days ago. We started talking and hit it off. We talked on the phone and Skype. Then I messed up I guess. On Thursday and Friday I was suppose to Skype her. Friday was the worst though. I was suppose to Skype her but went to the gym instead. She sent me a text saying that she was annoyed by me then she basically said shes over it but I need to keep on the mark and show it through action. Anyways on Saturday I Skype her at around 11:30pm and she tells me that she is again annoyed by me and that I'm on probation. (Yesterday I told her that I would get home by 10pm-11:30pm) And she kept insisting that I had only till 11:47pm to talk to her since she was tired and sleepy. As far I could see she was really in bed and really sleepy. I got interrupted and asked her to hold on. by the time i got back to the phone she ended the skype call. I looked at the time and it was 11:47. I called once, it rang and went to voicemail. I then sent her a text and left it at that. I do like her and wanna get to know here better.

I am about twenty nine years now, I have sexual addiction which I think is not good for my health, even though I have a woman but still I do masturbation because she cannot satisfy me, please can anyone help me with idea on how to control it

so me and bf got in a bit ao a tiff and after a long while of talking on the phone he said i should find other friends at hang out with during school because sometimes during lunch at school we dont have much to talk about and it gets boring.. ... i didnt want to overreact so i just said okay and called it a night... should i be hurt? or does he just want space?

I went to my pastor to get some guidance regarding my spouse who abuses me. I forgot to mention that if my spouse asks what I talked to him about, to please not mention the issue and keep it confidential. My spouse went to talk to the pastor today to inquire what I was there about. Would it be likely the pastor would tell my wife what I talked to him about?

Were on and off in the previous months. were both 17. he used to have a job then he quitted because i said girls might try to talk to him. then hes in college. and he barely talks to me like 1 day each week. i know he cares and loves me also were long distance. I just wanted to know why he disappears? like does he needs space that much? because i message him everyday and stuffs.. i just need an advice no rude answers please (:

What to do for a job when you dont like being around people or dealing with them, dont take orders from no one and did I mention dont like people? I am trying to think of something I could do without ANY other people but I just cant think of anything, can you??? I was thinking about writing a book but than dont you have to do a lot of press to get your book known??? What else could I do???

I m getting married in less than a month and ever since we started wedding planning my mom has one way or another brought up the idea of grandchildren. When she talks to her friends/family about my fiancé and I, she almost always brings up her "excitement to have grandbabies soon". I have already told her that I want to wait a few years (3-5) before having children so that I can enjoy just my husband and I and so that we can get settled. (We believe in waiting to live together till marriage) I really do love children and am actually very good with them and really want twins someday, but I still want to wait. My fiance doesnt have a preference for when we have kids. He is fine with whenever and is letting me decide when. I have already made preparations before our honeymoon night. (birth control) My mom just doesn t seem to get the hint. Any suggestons to make her stop nagging me? It s getting frustrating

Hola, Hay un chico en mi salón de clases Siempre nos estamos viendo pero cuando se cruzan nuestras miradas, se voltea pero no sonríe ni se sonroja La verdad es que nos llevamos bien

I live in a town where if you arent scholared in anyway, arent rich, dont work at a factory, you work at walmart. i love my job at walmart. I do what I can to help support ny kids while they are in my ex mother in laws custody. Long story and not even on my part (attorney tried to fight it). anyways, it seems like im stuck in a rut. ive been living a my parents since my ex kicked me out two years ago, cant afford a place on my own, cant even afford a car (mom is loaning me her spare), i feel like im not only failinh myself but im failing my kids. ive been trying desperately to get my kids back. a friend of mine in another state has offered me lodging and has a job lined up if i so chose. i want to start fresh and do better vy my kids to get them back, but i dont know that i can handle being ten hours away from them. i cry every time i think about it. This past week hasnt helped either. Ive been really sick and unable to work so my attendance is starting to become rough. please offer me some thoughts on what i should do? Please

So I ve been workinng in a small pizza shop from my house almost 3 months now. There was a manager there. When I told him I wanted to become a cook he was really excited and said he would start training me. So it s been 2 weeks now and he s been training. I almost quit the place before I started training with him because I couldn t stand the place. But when I was going into work with him, I looked forward to work. He made work enjoyable. We became friends and we could talk forever about anything. He was fired the other day and I am really upset. And it s not an upset like that s too bad, I ll miss him. It s more of like I m crying because I am thinking of all the fun times we had working together and it makes me cry to know I won t see him again. Is this weird. I m not in love with him. But I grew attached I guess. Maybe it s because I haven t really had a giant father presence in my life and he was a kind of father figure. But I am truly upset. Even it s a funny memory, I start to get all choked up. I feel like I m mourning somebody who s died, but know one has. I know this is really long, but thanks for reading and I ll take any input you have. Thank you. I'm sitting here partially crying thinking about him...

They may also argue with you about the pettiest things that you disagree on. What experiences have you had regarding this and what do you suspect was at the root of their behavior?

Or at least i think he's gay. By the way i totally support gays and lesbians. Im his younger sister and we've always been on the opposite sides of the spectrum. Im more into sports and used to be tomboyish and he does musicals and plays and likes kpop. He hasn.t admitted to being gay yet (and yeah ik i shouldnt just assume but...) one day i think he was wearing makeup. We were sitting in class (im in his math class cause im at a higher level) when i noticed he was wearing brown eye shadow. My parents dont let me wear makeup so idk i got pissed and annoyed at him. Why was he trying to wear makeup? I was always irritated he liked kpop (no offense to those out there who do) it just seems ridiculous and he always wants to be like them. And the makeup thing irked me. I didnt like it. I feel stupid for feeling this way cause hes my brother and i support him if he is gay but somehow the makeup was too much and i got weirded out by his need to wesr makeup. I wasnt embarassed. I feel bad for even being thinking about the makeup like that. Does anyone have thoughts? Words? Itd be very much appreciated.

It was a magical relationship in the first two years until the abuse began. He would slap me, hit me, beat me with his belt. I had bruises, broken bones a few times, and I still have scars. He would forbid me to go outside and see my friends and family, and would call me stupid and naive. I became pregnant when we were 4 years together. He kept beating me, though less often, usually when he was drunk. I remember it clearly - I was 7 months pregnant, we had a fight and he threw me outside on the cold, it was snowing in December. He said to ''go to hell' and said I can sleep on the doorstep. I didn't sleep on the doorstep. I went to our neighbor to tell him my story and he gave me some money so I could travel 180 km to my sister. I went there. I had a baby in my sister's house, I got my daughter and me out of everything, in lots of pain and suffering, and finally we saw the light. It's been a year. My ex called me a few weeks ago, which surprised me. He didn't call in a year, since his threats and blackmails after I "ran away". He wanted to talk and after a few minutes of begging, I agreed to meet him for coffee. He changed. He became fit, quit drinking and smoking. We talked for 4 hours straight about everything, he apologized for all and said he was a big pig. It looked honest. He said he regrets it. He went to an anger management course, and said it's got a progress. We met again 3 times and he wants to get back together. What should I do?

Hi my name is ryan and im a 13 year old male in 7th grade. Recently i joined my schools football team. In the begining of the summer i joined my schools football camp, when i joined i make a new freind named maximus, I instanly started noticeing him sorta hitting on me. Whenever he finished a drill i would put my hand out for a high five but instead he would hug me and he would always try to start conversations with me and tried to make me laugh. Im strait so i showed him that i wasnt interested in him by no responding. A few months have passed and he stoped showing intrest, eventually close to the end of summer our camp closed but the practice f9r the football team began. When this happend bo5h me and max went obviously, when this began he started showing intrest again. School started and this is when i started to question my sexuality. I have always been straight but when school started i started to have lots of emotions fot max. He started showing lots of exesive touching like at practice every time we had any break he would rap his arm around my shoulder and andpull me close to him and talk to me. He also did this on the football game sidelines. One time i was walking behind him and he had new extra padding on the back of his shoulder pads near his but and i was looking at it and he notice and started flirting with me and made jokes like "you like my back pack?". I was i bit confused and accidentaly said yes to that question. When that happened he started to get really close to me he always tried to sit with me on the bus, sit next tome my desk etc. Where i noticed it the most was at the high school football game. When i got there i was looking for a seat and i saw max. He was very excited and asked me to sit next to him so i did and when i did he pulled right up to him and put his arm around my shoulder, he also made excesive eye contact and conversated alot with me and played many games with me. Lots of very popular hot girls were interested in him but he didnt care one bit and even called some ugly and rejected them all. He kept his arm tightly on my shoulder for the whole game. Note that i did not refrain from the contact due to the recent affections i grew for max. So the question is hat does he like me and is he gay?

My boyfriend has anger issues. He gets mad way to easily. Has no patience for anything. He'll punch walls, and other things. He'll kick & break things. He's destroyed a lot of things while angry. He's never laid a hand on me and he's said that he isn't a woman beater. I don't know what to do to help him.

So my ex n I were together for 3 years engaged 2 years and we have a baby Together. We split 4 months ago I'm still not 100% sure why we split cause his reasoning was basically I wss clingy but few days before he left me I caught him hanging out with a girl the same girl I caught him texting they both say nothing is going on between them. So this whoke Tom he had me beliving if I worked on myself we would get back together then out of the blue he says he is done with me for good. I thought maybe he is just saying that cause he was mad at me over our argument with our daughter. Now tonight he sent me a friend request on facebook told me if I started anything he would block me cause he has alot of girls on there I said well its not like ur with them he said well if I did get with one of them I don't want anything started so I asked are you trying to get with 1 he said I'm not having this conversation with you so later on tonight I mare a status saying something bout I want a hit guy with some abs he messaged me saying I no alot of sexy women with abs ya no if hearing ur trying to get with a girl didn't hurt enough already cause right now I feel like I'm never gonna get over him I'm never going to be able to move on my heart hurts so bad my eyes are so dry from crying everyday and now it seems I have no one to talk to cause when I need a friend to help me get through it they ignore me

Hi. I'm a 17 year old boy and I don't have a good relationship with my brother. My brother is only 1 1/2 years younger than me. However we don't see eye to eye on anything and just don't get along. We're not constantly fighting but he just doesn't understand my ways and I don't understand his. We've tried to become closer to each other but we just have conflicting personalities and views. It makes me sad in a way but I'm fine with it because I know no matter how much we try it just won't work out to us being close. So my best friend is like how I would want a brother to be. I've known him for years and he is my biggest supporter other than my parents. He understands me like no other person I know and we just get along really well. We spend a lot of time together as well so he really is like my brother. Is this normal to be closer to my best friend than to my actual brother? My brother isn't a bad person but he and I just are oppsites and simply don't have the right personalities to get along. While my friend and I are basically the same people we have so much in common. Thanks!!!!

Okay, I last year I attended Culinary School my Junior year of High School. I was unbelievably excited and in love with this school. It could of easily been one of the coolest experiences ever. However, as the year went on, I began to be bullied, by the teacher. It really began to bother me because I tend to beat myself up if I don't do stuff perfectly. And he would only to it by calling my food crap, etc. even if I told him I was aware I messed up. Now, I wasn't the only student being treated like this, his nickname was chef asshole. Either way, the words became worse and the belittling became worse with direct hurtful remarks. I became so pissed off and upset that I demanded to drop the program my 3rd quarter of school. Either way, ever since my senior year started, I still can't shut up about that damn program and how much I hate that teacher. Everyday, I bring it up impulsively to anything food related or even school related. I just can't stop talking about it and not only am I getting sick of it myself but I can bet my friends are too. I confess I miss the program, I still love it. But I don't regret dropping out. Because out of 20 kids in my afternoon class, 5 choose to return from last year. I just want to shut up about it. I want to forget it, but it haunts me in everything that I do. I just in the least want to stop mentioning it so I can stop annoying the world with my complaints So how can I stop? Any suggestions? And no don't say just "stop talking about it."

I want a chest binder because my chest size is a C cup and does not look good in girly things. I want to ask my mom for one but I don't want to give her the thought that I'm a lesbian or something.. Because most of the time binders are associated with that. How should I ask her??

My boyfriend has heard me sleep talk before but says that I am usually talking about school or work. The other night I was staying at his house and in the morning he wasn't really talking to me. I kept asking him what was wrong until he told me that he heard me not just say it but moan the name Levi. The thing that makes it a million times worse is that we both have a close mutual friend named Levi. I have never held any sexual attraction to the guy at all. But now my boyfriend thinks that I have some kind of secret feelings for him and is really not letting it go. He says its not a very common name where we live so there could only be one person I was talking about. I tried joking saying maybe I was talking about the jeans but he just blew me off and stayed angry. He brings it up all the time and even went as far as to tell this guy that I secretly wanted to bang him. Poor guy just looked so confused and told me that he thought my boyfriend was being ridiculous. I want to prove that just because you say something in your sleep doesnt mean anything but I dont know how. Should I try talking to him again or just let it go and hope he gets over it?

i was curious to what would happen to a child who runs away and isn't found for a few years what would happen to the runaaway case? and if they were caught after the age of 18 then what?

Hello, I am 19 yrs old & legit have unpaid braces & appliance on my teeth for 4 yrs now. The last time I went to the orthodontist was in '13, I was 17. At first when I got them I could barely go because she had a low incoming job & now she has a super high paying job. She gets so much that me & my twin sister can't even get Medicaid & financial aid anymore. She recently paid off her car & now she just got another one, WTF!? She gives us no money at all & I don't bother to ask for any either. Everytime I try to bring up my braces she acts like she doesn't want to talk & then gets up mad and leaves. My sisters are tired of me going on&on about them. My gums hurt so bad because I don't have a dentist & the appliance they put in at the roof of my mouth is super tight against my gums, its supposed to be roomy but my gums are swollen/grew! I tried working to pay for them but almost failed my 5 classes and most of that money had to go to gas,clothes,etc.I pay for the cable & phone bill. She says she has no money (big lie) but she always gives our 15 yr old sister money. Even gave her $200 for school clothes. IDK what to do? I listened to everything she told me,I am legit a goody two shoes, still a virgin, clean the house, got a summer job, never snuck out. Both my younger cousins got there braces finished & their moms never complained about. SMH bcause I got mine way before. I am just so irritated/frustrated! IDK what to do anymore, nothing will ever be good enough! PLS & THX! My orthodontist does not want to finish my braces anymore, but wants to take them off. I want them finished, not taken off! They are nowhere close to being finish. I have what it looks like to be an overbite maybe an overject. My teeth were pretty straight before the braces, but that was my reason of getting braces from the start so I could get my overbite pushed down. I am just truly upset, yall what to do? I am at whits end with this situation.

First month of talking he tell me he's going with the flow and now it's been 3month he's says he just enjoying the moment let things happen on its on.. What does that mean exactly?