Family: Question: How old should I be to start a family? |
- Question: How old should I be to start a family?
- Question: What would you do?
- Question: Does my dad have to raise me?
- Question: Just wanna let myself go...?
- Question: My great grandmother on both sides were 100% Irish. So how much Irish does that make me?
- Question: I want to help my dad but dont know how. is he just getting old?
- Question: Are distant relatives too distant to be looked as family?
- Question: Best way to explain feelings of rejection?
- Question: My mom won't let me hang with my cousins anymore?
- Question: Would this kind of mother in law be a turn off to you?
- Question: How to settle this?
- Question: How can i escape from my abuser? i have no job and no money??
- Question: Does my mother have a mental problem? What can I do about this?
- Question: Why is my mom so dull?
- Question: Boyfriends sister getting naked infront of him (Please read)?
- Question: How to talk to my sister?
- Question: My mothers boyfriend comes into my room and stares at me while I'm sleeping. What should I do?
- Question: Aunt is younger than niece. Who is the "elder"?
- Question: *PLEASE READ FULLY* *IMPORTANT* I need to run away from home and not get caught (LOOK IN DETAILS)?
- Question: Does a "family man" only mean a man that likes to be with his wife & kid(s) or could it also mean with his whole family?
- Question: Can I marry or love my relative girl our relationship is like brother and sister?
- Question: School is stressing me out and dad makes it worse?
- Question: Can i enroll my grandson without his parent.?
- Question: How Jewish am I?
- Question: What is wrong with my parents? Are they being abusive?
- Question: Can I shop by myself?
- Question: My mom and I got into a fight?
- Question: My dad is always telling my mom that I'm doing bad things but I'm not?
- Question: My mom gets angry... A LOT...?
- Question: I hate my relatives and sometimes my family too ..!!?
- Question: My mother doesnt seem to want to spend any time with my kids. I know she spends time with my nephew. Any advice?
- Question: Episode of Suburgatory with "You're Adopted Joke!" Is this funny?
- Question: Why does my sister keep stealing all my stuff??
- Question: Dad disabled traveling 1st time to 2 countries to meet women he's been talking to off Facebook?
- Question: My mother's marrying a 21 year old guy and she's 34! I'm 16 & hate this guy I dont want a stepfather thats almost my age! Should I run away?
- Question: How am I supposed to tell my parents that I am lesbian if I can't even tell them what I want for dinner?
- Question: How can my niece live with me and go to school where I live without taking away any rights that my mother has? She has full custody. NJ?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Where do i send my grandson?
- Question: How do I tell my sister how to musterbate correctly?
- Question: 14 year old brother poops his pants and doesn't care and also addicted to Xbox?
- Question: Was my dad about to rape my mom?
- Question: I don't understand?
- Question: Is it just me . . .?
- Question: Relationship issues in need of advice?
- Question: Why am i having sever head and back pain?
- Question: Help. I heard my parents have sex?
- Question: How do I ask my sister to let me wear her clothes?
- Question: Hall hire for teenage birthday party?
- Question: Why can't women see a man, the same way they see a baby?
- Question: My life is in complete ruins and I only have myself to blame. Where do I go from here?
- Question: I am having some problems with my job and I don't know what to do! Please help!?
- Question: Major family problems, help please?
- Question: I'm not really sure what to say or think?
- Question: Why do my parents like my brother more?
- Question: What do I do or say to her?
- Question: I would to find my father in Thailand which I never see and he didn t know that have me can any body help me please?
- Question: The best thing a father can do for his kids is to love their mother? What is the best thing a mother can do for her children?
- Question: How can I influence my dad to let me stay out later?
- Question: She's scilent and doesn't want to talk with me!? Help!?
| Question: How old should I be to start a family? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 01:08 PM PDT I want to be a counseling psychologist and that will take about eight years of college. I will be about 28 when I'm finished. I probably will take a year to find a job and such, but will it be a little too late to get married and have kids when I'm near 30? |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 01:06 PM PDT I was molested by my dad, because of my ignorance at age 15. He goes to jail and is gonna be locked up to 10 years. My older brother hates me and so does my mother. My sister was supportive. My two younger brothers were 1 so they didn't know what happened. Now it took one year for my mom to get a boyfriend. It took a month of dating for her to get knocked up. The boyfriend is married to a woman in mexico and my mom is still married to my dad. The boyfriend also denied the baby and could care less about it, but continues to see my mother for some reason. My mom neglects my brothers whenever she is around her boyfriend. she is 43 and acts 19 not having a concern for her children. They are now four. I want to gain custody of them but I have no job and I'm trying to be a full time student. I know my mother is a mess because when she was one month pregnant she got drunk on tequila to forget everything. |
| Question: Does my dad have to raise me? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:56 PM PDT So my dad raised me since birth like my parent but recently we took DNA test and hes not my real dad and he acts different now. I just want to know if there's any laws that says he has to raise me still? Also im 14. |
| Question: Just wanna let myself go...? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:51 PM PDT I'm just saying... I'm 15 y/o and I really can't stand some things in my life.I mean,I have the some of the shitiest parents one could have,and my brother is even worse. My mom is a raging,neurotic woman who can't act like a normal person whatsoever when she's angry.Unlike a normal mother,who'd just ground her son when he does something bad,mine has to yell and hit and call me names(seriously,who the hell calls her son "dumba s" "moron" or "retard"?).She doesn't hit me so much like she did a few years ago,since I am bigger than her now.I still don't have the nerve to respond because of my father.He's way better at controling himself,but he's still a douche who thinks he's better than anyone else and acts like he's the "alpha male". But really,my brother is,by far,the worst.He's 22,but he always taunts me of how I have no friends,how I have a problem of speaking and still keeps asking why I'm always so "shy" and why I keep myself from anyone.What's worse,he thinks he's smarter than anybody because he started to read and treats anyone else like an idiot.God,I hate him so much. When I'll grow up,I'll probably be an anti-social bastard who hates everyone and everything.But can you blame me?I'd say that my parents who should've never had a kid and my bullying brother who can't stfu are to be blamed. Right now,I'm just thinking about ways to make them angry and regret my existence. I know that they provide me shelter and all,but is it worth it if I'll just become a sociopath? |
| Question: My great grandmother on both sides were 100% Irish. So how much Irish does that make me? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:50 PM PDT |
| Question: I want to help my dad but dont know how. is he just getting old? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:47 PM PDT Every single day I see him he's angry about something, I haven't seen him happy ever. Like even in home videos of me as a baby he didn't look happy. But he's just getting more grumpy as he ages. He's 52. But he's always been a hot head, anything that doesn't go as he wanted it to go will set him off and he will start yelling about it. Everyone in our house laughs at him because of it... Like last night I couldn't eat due to a stomach ache , he caused the biggest scene. He starts yelling because I had a stomach ache. & his face literally turns red. He embarrasses me so much. I don't Fücking get it. I'm 18 years old. But he does the same thing to his wife too. & she's always miserable because of the way he is. No one can talk to him, its impossible without him freaking out over some dumb shït. He's all I have and I hate seeing him like this. I want to move out because everyone in my house is miserable and it causes me to feel like shït . but I don't want to just leave him like that. Idk what to do.. Even if I tried to talk to him I wouldn't be able to say one sentence before he interrupts me. He thinks he's superior over everybody due to his age. Even if I'm right about something, like a math problem he'll deny it. If I said 14*5-10=60 he will deny it, work out the problem than say what the answer is (taking all the credit to himself). You will never hear him say "you are right" or "goodjob" ... Lol . idk what his problem is. How would you deal with this situation? |
| Question: Are distant relatives too distant to be looked as family? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:33 PM PDT We barely share any blood & we are allowed to marry them. |
| Question: Best way to explain feelings of rejection? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:30 PM PDT I wanted a diverse perspective on this: I am adopted by my father, I found out he was not my biological dad at 15. I had always felt I was treated poorly by his sister and his mother. About a year ago, I came home from an overseas assignment to visit family. About two months after I returned to my assignment in Japan, my aunt confronted me saying she found pot in her 15 year olds duffle bag (in an oriental bag) and that I had given it to her. I told her, no way and that I value my clearance, my governent job, and my family to much to peddle pot overseas much less give it to a punk kid. Goodness, yea I smoked pot a few times as a teenager, but im almost 30, married, with a kid! She didnt believe me, she told me if she found evidence, that I would never be allowed in any house she rented or owned. Well that was it, I had had enough of this constant rejection and black sheep treatment from my dads side of the family. I will not speak to her. I spent six months sitting sick to my stomach wondering how I would be received on my next visit home. Meanwhile, my mother continued to be buddy buddy with my aunt, and act like its no big deal and the situation is over. I feel even more left out than i did before, my mother tiptoes around my aunt like she is a rich godess, and tells me i should get over it. This has forever ruined my relationship with my mother. My mother wants to take my daughter to see her, and acts like i should go toe, but i am extremely uncomfortable. What say you? oh dear sorry for typos! |
| Question: My mom won't let me hang with my cousins anymore? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:29 PM PDT My mom doesn't want me to hang with my cousin no more, because she's bad influence. The thing is, my cousin likes to party a lot. She's super funny, popular, and everyone either loves her or hates her. She has really good grades and she even helps me with my homework, thing is my mom said I cannot hang with her anymore because she's tOo 'wild." And she always has an excuse like, "her mom doesn't know how to act right, all they wanna do is party." Blah blah. "They're always ghetto and ratchet, stay away from them." But my Aunt is smart, and she has a good job, and went to college.. and she always takes us out, while my mom forces me to read books, study and eat the same boring meal everyday.. please how can I tell my mom I want to keep in touch with my aunt's family?? |
| Question: Would this kind of mother in law be a turn off to you? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:24 PM PDT My boyfriends mom condones and sides with his bad behavior when he is dead wrong . for example he left the hospital during his daughters birth and she got mad at me! |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:24 PM PDT Me and my twin brother just got our license. He is more comfortable driving so my mom wants him to drive me and our little brother to school. But, me and my little brother have practice after school so i asked my mom if I could drive us home and she said no. The only reason I want to drive us home is so we don't have to wait for my mom to get there and then drive home. We could just leave when we are ready. But my mom says that it's not fair to my twin because he would have to walk home or get a ride. But that's what he's been doing for the last 15 years of his life. My brother and my mom won't listen so what do you think I should do? |
| Question: How can i escape from my abuser? i have no job and no money?? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:16 PM PDT i'm 6 and a half months pregnant with two little kids under 7. My household is not safe for me or the children because my boyfriend is Crazy. at first i thought maybe i did something that made him snapped but it seems to be getting worse. he has broken 3 of my iphone with a hammer, my tv and laptops and even my face. last night we were having a conversation and i stated my opinion which he thought was disrespectful because i didn't wait for him to finish his sentence he rudely told me to shut my *** in front of my kids. i then said baby be more respectful its not a big deal. before i knew it my galaxy 5 was going through the wall and he grabbed me, i ran up stairs with a knife and locked me and the kids up. he's the bread winner of the house and is in control of all the money. i have no where to go no family and no money. i have a friend in RI willing to help me but how will i get there when ticket cost 500$. please help. I've discover some money in the house and want to escape with it but i fear it will be the end of me if he finds out. i know what he is capable of doing. 2 weeks ago he drop us off in the middle of no where after we had an argument in the car. i had to walk to a near by house with the kids while he drove away and thankfully a pastor paid for a taxi to take us home. am in school and almost finish in February i will loose everything but am willing to take that risk and be safe. should i change the lock to the house or escape with the 1000$ for our rent? |
| Question: Does my mother have a mental problem? What can I do about this? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:06 PM PDT Earlier today, my mom and I were having a normal day. Then she asked me to help her with her bank account, and as she was listing things off for me to add, the calculator shut off. I got aggravated at it and asked her to repeat the totals. She snatched the calculator out of my hand and called me a b****. I tried to tell her I didn't know what had made her turn on me, and she continued for the next 4 hours to call me every name you can imagine. At one point I started crying and she grabbed me by my throat, digging her thumb into my trachea, and told me to shut the f*** up. She says all of this is my fault. She set up traps for me, as well, including having me pour a giant glass of milk with my hands shaking, which I spilled, and having me cut 4X6 photos out of photo paper, then telling me halfway through that they were supposed to have a white border left on them and that I was an idiot. I know this is bound to be some form of mental illness. The day started out fine and we usually get along great, but every 4 to 5 weeks, she has an outburst like this where she yells at me for hours on end over something tiny that she says I've done to upset her. Please help me. How can I get her the help she needs? Also, every time she does this, she manages to repeat the same exact things word for word from the last time. I don't know if this is relevant, but it strikes me as very odd because she will bring up the same topics that aren't even current, like things I did when I was 6. |
| Question: Why is my mom so dull? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:53 AM PDT My mom is soopa fat and she is soopa dum. No but seriously she can never hear me, she's constantly yelling, she farts and burps all the time around us, she pees with the door open and often times she doesn't understand what I'm saying even though it's super simple to understand and she gives me this dumb confused look. I just spent a week vacation with her and I get so pissed at her for being so dumb. |
| Question: Boyfriends sister getting naked infront of him (Please read)? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:43 AM PDT Hey guys, please read before you judge. I've been with my 19 year old boyfriend for about 2 years. He has a sister who is 20 and I've never really seen them communicate much so I didn't form any opinion. Today he sent me a picture message of his sister naked in a childrens swimming pool (A paddling pool? I dont know what you'd call it!) She had her boobs and private area covered with her hands and my boyfriend had captioned it "This is why you don't play dares with me" I've not even replied to it as honestly I'm kind of creeped out. I have a 20 year old brother myself and I would NEVER get naked infront of him. I showed my mom and she agreed it was weird and said that she thought his sister had only covered herself for the picture - which makes sense because how would she have been able to get into a pool without her hands completely free? I dont even know what to say about it. I feel so uncomfortable and kind of wrong for saying this as it's his sister. The only person in my family that I would get semi naked infront of would be my twin sister... we're both females though. I know their parents are never home either as they both work full time, otherwise im sure they'd have had something to say about this. What do you guys think? Thanks. |
| Question: How to talk to my sister? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:41 AM PDT Ok so in my family I have a younger brother, an older brother, an older half-brother, and an older half-sister. My half-siblings are from my dad's first marriage. Ever since I was little I always wanted an older sister for the fun of it. I haven't seen my older half-sister since I was a baby(I'm 15 now) and my half-brother gave me her phone number to talk to her. I kinda blame my dad for us not being so close because he broke off contact with her and her mom. She lives in the city, which is about an hour away, and I've always wanted to visit her and then we would hang out the whole day or for a weekend. But the problem is I don't know how to talk to her. I have social anxiety and I hate talking on the phone so it would be a little awkward for me to do so. And I can't text her either because she doesn't even have my number. So what should I do? |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:40 AM PDT Okay so he isn't really her boyfriend they just have sex. They've been doing this for the past 5 or so years. Anyways, it's like 4.30 am but like an hour ago I was asleep but for some reason I woke up and he was just standing there looking at me, it scared me half to death, I was like 'what the f^^* and he just left. this isn't the only time this has happened, it happened once before and it honestly freaks me out. Like, what if he's done this without me waking up? I dont know what to do, should I tell my mum? I somehow don't think she'd care, I'm 18 now, and she's a total alcoholic |
| Question: Aunt is younger than niece. Who is the "elder"? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:37 AM PDT My friend is 18 and her niece is 20 years old. They recently started a friendly debate about who is the elder in their relationship and should get "respect". That got me thinking. The aunt is younger but the niece's mother's sister so she is her aunt. But the niece is actually older... in my opinion they both qualify to be the elder. Your opinion on this? Who is the elder? |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:36 AM PDT I am terribly abused and neglected and threatened to be killed. My parents are currently using drugs which is making it worse. I have tried calling the cops but they think I am playing a joke and won't do anything about it. I just need tips to run away without being caught. No, I don't have family anywhere else I can go to, and I have literally tried everything else that I can do. Any help is greatly appreciated.... it is life and death-literally, so please help me as much as you can... |
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| Question: Can I marry or love my relative girl our relationship is like brother and sister? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:33 AM PDT My mother's,father, I mean my grandfathers, younger sisters, sons , 2nd daughter can I love or marry her |
| Question: School is stressing me out and dad makes it worse? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:28 AM PDT I just started my sophomore year of high school and it's only been a week and i'm so stressed out. On top of it, my dad always attacks me about the little things and about studying and i do study and so far i understand everything in my classes. I'm taking an ap class and two honors classes and a 2nd science class. I'm the oldest child in the family so i understand all the pressure will be on me but it's so shitty! He gets extremely mad at me whenever he has the time to and it frustrates me because i did well in school last year. All A's but one B in an honors class. I know he wants me to get into a good college and whatnot but the stress is driving me crazy. Also, i'm basically locked in the house every day because I have to study. Even in the summer i had to work on my studies and honestly i feel like my dad doesn't want me to leave the house. How can i solve this problem? I'm researching colleges every second of my life right now and i don't want to disappoint my dad but seriously.. |
| Question: Can i enroll my grandson without his parent.? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:26 AM PDT My daughter abandon my grandson.now he need to enroll.but I don't have a custody of him.I don't have any contact of my daughter. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:19 AM PDT So my grandpa is 100% and my grandma is a gentile, but my step grandma is 100%. Because the halakhah says that Jews are Jews through the mother, does having my step grandma change anything? |
| Question: What is wrong with my parents? Are they being abusive? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT Hey everyone, So my parents have been treating me like a kid, and I think they might be slightly abusive. I graduated this year, and I'm 20 years old. I've talked to them about the way they treat me, but they always say things like "while you're under our roof, you follow our rules" and stuff like that. Once I was goofing around, admittedly being a little annoying, and my mom sprayed me with the spray bottle we use on the dog when she's naughty. She said, and I quote, "You're acting like the dog, so you deserve to be treated like the dog." My mom always threatens to take away my iPod, that I bought with my own money. I've tried to tell her that she can't do that, but that just makes her angry. She said that someone, she refused to tell me who, said that I'll always be living with my parents and that I'll never move out. I was pissed, of course. And when I had bad grades because I didn't study (I've been overwhelmed and frustrated with schoolwork lately), she said that they might be right about me. My dad gets furious over random things, and takes it out on us. I remember a time when he and my mom were separated. No one wanted to talk to him when he called, so we just let the phone ring. A little rude, I guess, but his reaction was awful, He gathered us around and yelled at us. Any advice? Also, please don't try to tell me that I should deal with it and that I should just grow up. That's not helpful. |
| Question: Can I shop by myself? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:59 AM PDT So once I was at a store and we can only use one coupon at a time so my dad said we could pay separately and he gave me money and a coupon. We each paid separately and I was amazed they let me do it myself. I m pretty sure that they let me do it cuz my dad was there but my dad says I can do it as long as it s not beer or cigarettes (lol) but I m still not sure I can buy stuff on my own cuz I d like to. Btw I m in Minnesota USA Thx Omg Merlin that makes me so excited! Thxxx Thx Morgan :) |
| Question: My mom and I got into a fight? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:58 AM PDT My mom told my sister and I a week before that she was going to take us to the flea market for some school clothes shopping. So on Sunday, the day she said we'd go, she said she'd pick us up, we got ready, and then she cancelled on us saying we'd go next Sunday. So my sister and I are upset but we blow it off and wait until next week. On Friday night she calls and says we're going on Saturday instead! So my sister and I are extremely unprepared. We cancel our Saturday plans because this is the only time we'd be able to go before school starts. So it's Saturday now and she calls me saying she's outside. I answer saying ok and it takes us about 5 minutes to go outside because we had to grab some things and my sister had to put on her shoes. We go into the car and she immediately yells at us saying we made her wait too long and she almost left us. On the entire way there (it's kind of far) she nags us telling us how we're not grateful for what we have and how we don't love her and we love our dad more (which isn't true at all.) Shes yelling at us saying how we crack our phone screens (we didn't) and how her friends daughter is so successful at a young age and we're not. So the entire ride we're crying in the backseat. We leave the flea market and we get back in the car and she's nagging us again and now all 3 of us are crying. (Let me remind you this all started because I made her wait 5 minutes?) Should we have gone out immediately? Is this our fault? |
| Question: My dad is always telling my mom that I'm doing bad things but I'm not? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:54 AM PDT If my mom finds out I've done something bad, for example, be "disrespectful" to my dad, I get SCREAMED at, Like she screams at me at the top of her lungs because she's crazy. Maybe I do things that are a little bad, but he makes it seem ten times worse. Sometimes he says I say things that I never even said! Yesterday he told my mom that I told him to "Shut his big fat mouth". I never even said that! Now im grounded for a week. Every time I tell my mom that he s lying, she yells at ME for lying! I can't do anything anymore or it gets twisted around and I get grounded. How do I get my mom to believe me? Why is he doing these things? Does he hate me or something? |
| Question: My mom gets angry... A LOT...? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:53 AM PDT I love my mom, and I tell her that... But she gets mad at me for the most stupid things. She has a bad relationship with my father, who smokes and is apparently bad to her when I turn my back. She lashes out on me for something my dad does. She yells at me all the time and all I can think of doing is crying and telling her to calm down I a shaky voice... My close neighbor has walked in on her yelling at me a few times and has told her son that even she thinks it's odd. She apologizes after she gets mad at me normally, which I really appreciate. She understands when I do something wrong. I actually swore to my friend the other day in text (not at her, just because I was mad) and normally she swears at me. We have a close relationship but apprently her mom saw, and told me I can't talk to her anymore. I told my mom and she contacted my friends mom and sorta fixed it up... My life isn't perfect at all but in thankful for what I have. She gets mad at the littlest things, but understands the biggest. I don't know what to do about it... I wanna help her but I don't know how.. Thanks. |
| Question: I hate my relatives and sometimes my family too ..!!? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:50 AM PDT I hate them they're ugly narrow minded and mostly uneducated I hate to go to their houses and attend their weddings I just want to stay away from them but my mother insist me to go I hate my family my mother my bother and all because they don't care my emotions and provide me as much money as i required sometimes I get so angry on them and just want to leave them but I'm not financial stable so I have to stay with them what to do how to deal with them..?? |
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| Question: Episode of Suburgatory with "You're Adopted Joke!" Is this funny? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:43 AM PDT I have two kids a daughter 14, and son 9. Yesterday my daughter was watching her favorite show Suburgatory and main family's oldest daughter played by Allie Grant convinced her little sister she was adopted by teasing her. The little sister was freaked out for the whole episode because she's convinced she's only one in family who has blue eyes and their for must be adopted. In the end Allie Grant's character never got in trouble, and thought poor kid, but my daughter thinks this was hilarious. Suburgatory is a great show with some smart writing, but what kind of lesson is this supposed to teach my daughter? Why didn't Allie Grant's character get in trouble? Now she might try this on her little brother. With clueless parents it's no wonder the little sister felt unloved, and her sister had the upper hand. That's a picture of actress Allie Grant below. |
| Question: Why does my sister keep stealing all my stuff?? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:39 AM PDT I had to have someone install a lock on my door because of this but my sister is so desperate she finds a way to get in. She steals my clothes my jewelry my jeans and especially my makeup. She's taking it too far shes stealing my bras and wearing them when they don't even fit her and the other day I found one of my dirty underwears in her closet!!!! I don't know why she had it in there but I'm grossed out. She even steals a lot of my moms makeup. But I don't understand why she does this, she has a lot of her own stuff Yet she just has to go in my room all the time. She's trying to act way too grown she's 13 she wears crop tops wears a ton of makeup and even has a bellybutton piercing. I'm 16 and no matter what I do I can't get her to stop doing this. She used to steal my shirts from my closet and give it to her friends and some of those shirts I never saw again |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:36 AM PDT Okay my dad is disabled, he has memory loss... insomina along with other health issues as well. Hes met two women off Facebook one from the Philippines & the other from Hong Kong. he just told me today he is planning on flying there to meet both he will be on 4 different plans/ a day lay over twice just on the way there in Guam. I am so nervous for his safety. I am all for him finding love but traveling across the world to meet two different women in two countries traveling for the first time (by the way) I am trying to advise him to go see one at a time- fly non stop to hong kong.. stay in a nearby hotel- & come back then if he needs to.. meet the other maybe a month later what are your thoughts? Please help. also i wil add its a $1,000 cheaper by him going though all that at once... I still say a $1000 extra is worth his safety & i did not mean to say memory loss- his memory is okay- he's not cenile or anything. please tell me your thoughts so i can advise him correctly |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:36 AM PDT My mother has always been an embarrassment to me, she had me at 18 and never really did much for me, I've only ever seen my real father once. Now it wasn't enough that she started dating this 21 year old idiot but now they're getting married so this clown is technically going to be my stepfather! My God! What is wrong with her! I have friends that are 18 that look older than this guy and despite only being 5 years older than me he treats me like a little kid! I feel like running away I am not going to become the daughter of a 21 year old! I feel so angry and depressed and don't know what to do |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:26 AM PDT I would really like to be able to introduce them to my girlfriend but they don't even know that I am a lesbian. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:12 AM PDT This is a situation that I am struggling to be at peace with for a long time now. I have been the mother figure of my niece for all of her life and not having any rights has made thing very difficult for us. I want my mother to be able to enjoy life and be the grand mom. My mother is doing great by the way, the issue is she works at night meaning my life and work schedule has to go around hers. I have my niece at every night but barely get to see her since either me or mom take a 3hr bus to get her to and from school since we live in different towns. Something as simple as my niece living with me and going to school in my area would make all of us so much happier in our lives. I do not know ANYONE who is in a situation like mine which makes me feel so lost and alone. I am 25 and I have been taking care of my niece since I was 13. Everything that a great mother wants for their child I want for her. My friends and family fail to understand my situation and how I love her like my own. I don't have any children by the way. Me and my mother have always strive to do our best in raising her. I hope that someone can relate to this situation. and if you have any information that could help, I greatly appreciate. Sorry for the monologue but I am really at my wits end and just shouldn't be this hard to give a child a better life... I do not want to have to go a serve legal route to get the rights for her to live with me. My mom wants this as well. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 09:39 AM PDT My father and mother just recently scolded me and my 16 year old brother. They were saying how disrespectful and ungrateful we are. Which is not true in the slightest. This isn't true because everything m parents have ever gotten me I have always taken care of whatever it was they bought me and always thanked them when I received whatever it is they would give me. Also I never usually ask for anything. And I never get angry with my parents but for some reason this time I was so mad I started to cry a little bit. But what really made me upset was my father calling me and my brother "ungrateful little s***heads." So the real question is what should I do? And what would you do? |
| Question: Where do i send my grandson? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 09:38 AM PDT He is 12,I watch him on the weekends because his mother works her butt of to provide for him and his two brothers.He does not listen to me,he shrugges his shoulders,rolls his eyes,yells at me,has no respect for me or my husband and children,he throw's things,and punches things also.My Daughter in law Does not see that he needs a wake up call. |
| Question: How do I tell my sister how to musterbate correctly? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 08:56 AM PDT My sister is 13 and I am 15 (Im a guy) and I caught my sister musterbating a few days ago, and lets put it this way, she was doing it wrong you could see that a mile a way. Not to seam like a perv but I watched for about 30 seconds because I wanted to see if she was actually doing it wrong and she definitely was. I really care about my sister, and my mum isn't around and good luck getting my dad to explain things. She was basically naked rubbing a cucumber above her... yeah... We are basically best friends as we are always moving there isn't really time to make and keep friends so she will listen to me I just don't know how to tell her what I saw and how she is meant to do it or even if she is meant to be doing that. I know I musterbated since I was 10 but not sure if it would be different for females. I had to give her "the talk" basically because my dad didn't wanna do it but yeah, anything helps, thanks |
| Question: 14 year old brother poops his pants and doesn't care and also addicted to Xbox? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 08:01 AM PDT okay so my brother is 14 years old and he smells like **** all the time. My mom just looks over her shoulder at it and washes his underwear anyway. I can't even step foot in his room because it reeks of ****. He makes my room smell if both of our doors are open. His dad notices but doesnt do anything. He's been doing this for years. There are bricks of poop under his bed. When he walks little poop balls will fall out of his pants. And that's just the poop problem. He plays xbox over 14 hours a day. The couch smells like pure **** now. He just consumes junk food and plays xbox. GTA 5 to be exact. He does poorly in school, he has no social skills. He cannot even go out to a restaurant or my grandmas house without throwing a fit because he's "tired" but as soon as he gets home he goes to Xbox. He just sits with his head down at the table everywhere we go. He is a waste of human life right now and my parents won't do anything about it. If I try to talk to them about it she turns things around and starts trying to point out flaws of my own. I'm just sick of this situation and it really makes me sad. Someone please give me advice! He's starting the 8th grade in a few days and if we don't do something now he will fail and not make it to highshcool. What threw me over the edge is that he as been playing xbox since 3pm yesterday and it is now 11 am. So about 20 hours of just playing. Please help |
| Question: Was my dad about to rape my mom? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:53 AM PDT Last night, after we got home from school shopping, my parents drugged me with something called Tizanidine and 2 allergy pills. I wasnt quite asleep yet while I saw my dad pick up my mom who had no idea what was going on and couldnt even stand up by herself. She couldnt form a complete sentence she was so out of it... My disgusting father had to help her eat her food it was so bad. I know she takes pills called Temazepam which just knocks her out. Like if a fire happend, she wouldnt be able to wake up. I have no idea why she takes them. Anyway, so while my dad was out of the room I hid her pills (he is a pill addict and takes anything he can get his hands on. Anyway, I watched him pick up my mom, and say "I'm just taking her to the bathroom". But I followed him and said "You missed the bathroom. What are you doing?" And he was about to walk down the stairs but I yelled at him. I said that she was out cold and couldnt even stand up by herself, and I doubt she would want to have sex with him. He said "She agreed earlier!" "Go to bed"! And I said "If you touch her I would call the police and he that it was technically rape", and that set him off. I asked him "If she wanted to have sex with you, she wouldnt have taken her medications!" and he just started yelling at me like crazy and said how "****** up" it was he couldnt sleep with his wife. My mom WASNT faking. Should I tell my mom? I asked her this morning if she remembered what happened last night AND SHE DIDNT. I stayed up and watched all night until I made sure he wasnt asleep. So is my dad a gross necrophililac or what?? If my mom had agreed to sleep with him later, she would have been still up, and COULD HAVE WALKED DOWN THE STAIRS BY HERSELF. I'm only 14, and I am really creeped out by my dad. I saw him once make out with my mom while she was out cold after surgery. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:48 AM PDT I'm 17 years old , I just got a job and I'm living under my moms husbands ( step dad , but I don't claim him that )house , it's around the beginning of the school year and my one year anniversary is coming up with my boyfriend . My mom came to me and was like when you get your paycheck I'm taking u out to get school clothes . And I'm like well hold on Bc I'm buying something for my boyfriend and she yelled at me and was like no your not . She hates on me so much , a few days ago I over heard her saying that I'm too pretty for him and that we're not gonna last forever , and when I'm 18 I have to pay rent . I'm not understanding this situation . My mom gets a check from social security for my dad passing for me and my two little sisters and she gives it all to her new husband . I don't see how I'm supposed to do the things I need and pay for my stuff for school with working two days a week about 10 hours and only making 8.25 $ . If I show that I'm able to take care of my self am I able to move out before I'm 18 .?? I need some answers on what I should do to avoid this Bc I'm so stress out and my days are getting harder and harder . |
| Question: Is it just me . . .? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:46 AM PDT Is it just me or unless you have a mom and a dad you only have two moms ? It doesnt really matter if it s two guys or two girls there s still no male influence . |
| Question: Relationship issues in need of advice? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:43 AM PDT I've was in a relationship for 4 years, in the time we had a child. Now 4 years old. We broke up 2 years ago. She wanted nothing to do with me and during that time she was sleeping around with her exes. I live in Texas now. Is been a year now. When I went to visit a couple months ago, she seemed so close to me and very flirtatious. We hooked up and we decided to try and work things out. I brought her to Texas and we admitted we were slightly in love with each other again. Long story short. The day she went back, it's if she lost interest in me. We're after a month now, she admitted that she doesn't really love me, she thought she was. She doesn't feel the need to talk at all everyday, just every once in a while and maybe things should be put to a stop until I move back to California. But only if she's still interested in me though. Mind you, she's the one who kept convincing me to try and work things out. She thinks I'm acting irrational for telling her that I'm done doing this over and over again. (This isn't the first time this happens) She said she doesn't mind if I sleep around. Yet a couple months ago she couldn't picture that. I asked her what if her exes come back around, she said she doesn't know what she'll do. Yet a month ago she said she didn't want anything to do with them. I feel like she just wants me wrapped around her finger. Idk what to do or say?any advice? |
| Question: Why am i having sever head and back pain? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:06 AM PDT I have went to many doctors where i live and every doctor tells me theres nothing wrong i have had ex rays and mri done of my head neck n lower back i have told them of my past abouse whe i was grabbed repeatedly by my hair of the head and swong around and around plus kicked in the back repeatedly from age 6 to age 12 notjust by my step mom but when my step dad got drunk he would use a belt buckle on my lower back n my step mom used to put on gogo boots n use my lower back as her kicking target n when i was put in foster care n came back to live with my step dad n mom i was very stubran n when i turned 16 n wanting to date my dad wouldnt let we would get into fights n i would be slammed against brick wall but the doctors said that wouldnt cause me to be in pain now n they didnt see nothing on the exray or mri so im at a loss on what to do |
| Question: Help. I heard my parents have sex? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 06:47 AM PDT Last night I was at the beach. I actually am leaving right now. So back to the question, I was sleeping on the couch in the living room, and my parents' room was above me. I started hearing weird noises thinking it was my younger brother. I then realized they were coming from above me. I also have a younger sister, so they obviously we're trying to keep it down. I texted them "I can hear you". When they were done my mom saw the text and said "he heard us". I could hear every noise too. I feel so awkward now. What do I do!? I don't want to talk to them about because I just can't! |
| Question: How do I ask my sister to let me wear her clothes? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 06:43 AM PDT so im a boy and I like to wear my sisters clothes when shes not home, but I really want her to help me look more like a girl with out anyone knowing. how can I do this? |
| Question: Hall hire for teenage birthday party? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 06:39 AM PDT Hello everyone I live in Heidelberg, VIC , looking at hiring a hall for teenage birthday party from Banyule Council. Loke to know how much it roughly cost! Any ideas?? |
| Question: Why can't women see a man, the same way they see a baby? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 06:21 AM PDT |
| Question: My life is in complete ruins and I only have myself to blame. Where do I go from here? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:41 AM PDT I have made mistakes and I know much of it is my fault but I have been through so much and I don't want to carry on. I am still only 17 but I don't really care because my life is basically over. I lost my father two years ago and obviously I'm still grieving a lot. I was with my girlfriend for a long time but then I lost her because of my mistakes. I joined up to a website where you can make new friends. You have to be 18 but I just lied about my age and I started talking to a much older woman who took a lot of interest in me. I enjoyed talking to her & she is really attractive and the fact she was over 20 years older than me was just an added factor. I listed that I loved redheads. We decided to meet up and it was a lot of fun - we went for a fancy meal & then went back to hers for some movies. I was supplied with loads of booze so I was unable to walk or get back home safely. I suggested paying for a taxi but she made it clear to me that I am not going anywhere. I told her about my relationship but she was insisting that I make love to her and so I stayed. We met up a couple of times after. I felt really guilty and ended up telling my girlfriend who left me as a result. 2-3 months later the women revealed she was pregnant and that there is 50% of me being the father. She's now 7 months pregnant with her baby girl |
| Question: I am having some problems with my job and I don't know what to do! Please help!? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:30 AM PDT I work at a waterpark in a concession stand. When I first started I loved it and couldn't ask for a better job. That has done a complete back flip I hate it and I want to quit so bad. While everyone else gets their relaxing time I'm stuck in the concession stand doing everything. I get jumped onto for every single thing I do. For an example: One day I had put chicken in the fryer and I had forgot about them, well one of the girls that I work with yelled in there and asked me if I had put chicken in the fryer I nicely responded " yes " She looks at me and says well they are burnt now, As I was walking around the corner to take a look at them I heard her tell the person who was getting them out of the fryer she said " Make her eat them anyways she was the one that fixed them it's her fault " While laughing. At that time I was so upset they could say that. So the guy gets a tray puts the chicken in the tray slams It down in front of me and says " here you go ". I wasn't going to eat that and I didn't eat it. I have no help in there I get to clean up by myself. I hate it. Everytime I find out that I work I cry my eyes out because they treat me like a dog over there. Another example": Some one was suppose to come in before me when I got there nothing was done and the manage told me to go cut the fryers on. Please tell me if I should quit or stay! *manager |
| Question: Major family problems, help please? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:23 AM PDT I'm 15 and I told on my sister to my parents about what she's doing when they're gone and my parents got really upset. I told my parents that she learns bad things from watching videos online and then my parents got mad at me and then they said they would disconnect the internet. My parents then talked to my brother and told him that if they couldn't control us, they would kick us out of the house and expected us to die. My parents never said anything like this before, it wasn't always like this, it never was. I'm just afraid of what might happen in the future. It's been a long time since I felt suicidal again regarding all of this. |
| Question: I'm not really sure what to say or think? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:22 AM PDT December 27 3:23 in the morning we welcome a new born baby so adorable. With me n the mother on somewhat good terms she felt very confident that baby was mine. So with her in dependency . I try to spend as much time with the baby as I can. But most time I work overnight so I'm not able to so she thinks I'm dodging. But when she tried to put me on support as the allege father I went and took my genetic testing but when it was time for her to take the baby she was nowhere to be found. So I kinda laid back on trying to see her. Mother Telling me she keep forgetting and whatnot. But seriously who forgets that? So as days go pass. The mother won't lemme see her because I ask for testing and with that I was suppose to leave for the military back last year but I couldn't cuz I need results. To get everything situated military is big on family. So rolling on almost 8 months there still haven't been no results that came in. My main thing is that I get results I need closure. How do I proceed with This. Some people say There's some features and some say they don't see any. So I can get better take care of what's mine military or not. She will be taken care of. But this was way before she got pregnant. Help please |
| Question: Why do my parents like my brother more? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:56 AM PDT It all started when I was 7 My Parents had bought my brother an Xbox 360 with Xbox live and, a couple games and they said it was for both of us which clearly it was just meant for him they tried to trick me by putting my name on the present after he opened it and 3 years later when I was 10 they got a PS3 for "both" of us and again he got games with it of course too and he put a password on it so I couldn t play it when he wasn t home and the moment I ask for a gaming system all of the sudden I have too buy it when I have a job my brother just got the damn games without asking so I don t get why his lazy *** who never does anything just watched tv and eats get everything when I clean up and do chores get nothing. He doesn t even deserve any of the games he s gotten so why does he get everything and I have to work for it I am the same age right now as when he got the ps3 |
| Question: What do I do or say to her? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:33 AM PDT So my step daughter lives with her father and I. And I am the stepmother and well the only mom she has in her life. (Real mom gave her up when she was a baby, and dad raised her and both came into my life 3 yrs ago) I am raising her now along with my fiancee of 3 yrs. The other day she told me she has hair growing on pits and down there area. I did say she's still too young to shave and worry about all that right now. But on other hand I think it's uncomfortable for her.. but then again she is very dramatic at times.. what wld u say or do? |
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| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:19 AM PDT The best thing a father can do for his kids is to love their mother. What is the best thing a mother can do for her children? |
| Question: How can I influence my dad to let me stay out later? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:06 AM PDT My boyfriend is coming from a different state that my dad knows nothing about and he s coming on a school week so how can I ask my dad to let me stay out later that week so I can hang out with my boyfriend? Oh and my dad is kinda strict and overprotective about the time I m out. I m 17 if that helps. |
| Question: She's scilent and doesn't want to talk with me!? Help!? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 03:17 AM PDT let's get straight to the point, i reallyyy need help badly since i care alot for her! Me and my gf are together for only 5 months, but she has a problem with herself. She can't forgive herself things that happened in the past, her youth was roughly ****** up since her mother always told her she was nothing etc, divorced parrents alot of pain. Now i come into th picture, every now and then she says nothing, she is grumpy and treats me like a dog because she can't figure out what to do with herself. I am being nice to her for houres everytime while she bitching at me for everything i say. She then (pretends) to be happy towards everybody else exept me, she's not mad at me because if she would i would've noticed!! I talkee with her that she can not continu releaving her frustration on me, it hurts for me too... She sayd i understand. 1 day later she did it again, you get the point. How do i talk with her?? She told me just once what was on her mind, and while she is in this state of grumpyness everything i do or say is not good... Help |
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