Marriage & Divorce: Question: I found out that my bf was legally separated 7 years ago not divorced. If he passed away what would happen to me and kids we have together? |
- Question: I found out that my bf was legally separated 7 years ago not divorced. If he passed away what would happen to me and kids we have together?
- Question: Does my husband love me?
- Question: Why are some women like this?
- Question: How do i fix my marriage I cheated on my wife?
- Question: Why did my wife leave me for a black guy?
- Question: Is he obsessed? 10 points!?
- Question: Why did my wife leave me?
- Question: Whats the best way that I should tell my wife that I only used her for sex and now I need to find a 20 year old new wife?
- Question: My sisters fiancé has a big penis, what should I do? It's larger than mines?
- Question: I want sex more than my boyfriend. Is it weird for the girl to want it more? How can we work with our sex difference?
- Question: Anxious housewife?
- Question: Is it that hard to keep the right guy?
- Question: If your husband of 27 years of being marry, tell you that you are beneath him and not on his level. What does this mean?
- Question: Dad issues?
- Question: What do you do with the top piece of the wedding cake if you get divorced before your one year anniversary?
- Question: How to get my husband to live separate as he is a mama's boy and his mother is creating problems for me?
- Question: Awkward situation with niece's daddy.?
- Question: How do I tell my husband I don t want kids?
- Question: How much is a photo of jimmy hoff and hi s wife jo hoffa?
- Question: Is cheating inevitable in a marriage? Will all husbands inevitably cheat?
- Question: Husband has $30k in pension fund. We were married for 7 years. How much money will I get once divorce is final?
- Question: Gender Studies: Is it fair to say that most people marry within their own social bracket?
- Question: What is the probability of marrying someone you've known your whole childhood?
- Question: Is he stalking me? 10 points!?
- Question: Why are single people answering on marriage and divorce?
- Question: How do you convice your alcoholic husband that he needs HELP?
- Question: Can I divorce my wife even if I forgive her for cheating?
- Question: If I got married in UK Can I go back to the Philippines after getting married?
- Question: Im confused, need to clear my mind!?
- Question: Would you be okay if your spouse spent a long time loving another person and continues to love the person, but is still married to you?
- Question: Please help me with my fear of marriage!?
- Question: Should a couple divorce so one of them can get medical assistance and housing?
- Question: Are men who drink regularly and or smoke, more likely to be promiscuous ?
- Question: How many marriages are messed up because they are trying too hard to reinvent the wheel? What does the wheel look like and why?
- Question: Am I wrong for wanting my husband to help me pay for a minivan?
- Question: I lost my ACHCCCS card, how do I get a replacement?
- Question: Do u think someone could marry another who is 12 yrs older then them?
- Question: Gift for multiple occasions?
- Question: Is it legal in Brazil for me to marry an Anaconda?
- Question: Do I have a right to be upset because my ex wife doesn't want to cover up my name tattooed on her?
- Question: I'm a 53 year old black woman sleeping with a 27 year old white guy. Am I being silly? Should I stop or can I keep going?
- Question: I'm getting married w/ an option to become a stay at home mom, will my husband be obligated to pay child support if I don't have a job?
- Question: Will my obese husband live long enough to be 70?
- Question: Is it too late for me at 24 years of age?
- Question: Question about back child support?
- Question: Does marriage work best when there is a clear division of responsibility and personality?
- Question: Wondering - what have you always hoped and dreamed the man who ask you to marry him is really saying?
- Question: Is my wife (still) having an affair?
- Question: Moved to new area where no family for job...ideas on how I can get a life?
- Question: I dream I have ice cream and wife but when wake up no ice cram in site nand no wife I go to store buy icecream but where ?
- Question: Women: Would you marry a man who can't cook?
- Question: Men: Would you marry a woman who can't cook?
- Question: I feel miserable in my marriage?
- Question: Can someone explain the financial issues of dating and marrying someone with children?
- Question: Why should a women be entitled to half of a man's possessions if she decides to divorce him?
- Question: Why don't women cook or clean anymore?
- Question: Why do people get married if they intend to cheat or are going to do it anyway?
- Question: What if you never found your partner unattractive, how do such marriages work out?
- Question: What is marriage to you...a team?
- Question: Has your marriage lived up to your expectations?
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 08:27 PM PDT |
| Question: Does my husband love me? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 08:23 PM PDT i cheated on my husband after 5 years of feeling lonely unloved n unwanted I finally cheated not because I was attracted to the other person frankly the other person, there's so much wrong idk where to begin he's younger he's immature he has no future n the list goes on but some how when I would cry every night n no one would here me or know or understand I felt like this younger guy did he shows me so much attention an all that so I then for him attractive now I just stop having sex with him I know my marriage is broken n there's no fixing it so what I'm trying to do is work my way out I'm holding onto my husband so I can get some financial help for the home n my son then I plan on taking my baby n going far away I day dream of a better life for me n my baby somewhere that we're both happy away from all the hurt..... I feel like there's no one I can tell wats going on with me I feel like no one understands so all I do is comfort my self in work cigarettes n sex with the younger guy I don't understand y I still can't justify my actions can someone just tell me wats wrong or wats going on with me.... FYI I sent my son to stay with my mom for a bit so I can work |
| Question: Why are some women like this? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 08:22 PM PDT I have been through emotional he'll with my ex. First I get called a Worcester but then you complain I don't show u enough affection and that I love the dog more than her. Than a couple of times u tell me to go seek other when but when I tell you I cheated, you busted out crying screaming and pulling your hair |
| Question: How do i fix my marriage I cheated on my wife? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 07:59 PM PDT |
| Question: Why did my wife leave me for a black guy? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 07:58 PM PDT |
| Question: Is he obsessed? 10 points!? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 07:55 PM PDT A guy has been contacting me for months now. Its gotten to where he contacts me every day, first thing in the morning, middle of the day, and before going to bed. I've told him to stop a few times. But that just makes him try harder. He said something about us having an intense love story that ends in double suicide/death. That kind of got me wondering. He also sends me love songs every day. Is this creepy? Is he obsessed with me? Thanks for answering! |
| Question: Why did my wife leave me? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 07:32 PM PDT |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 07:18 PM PDT We been married for 25 years so its time for an upgrade. |
| Question: My sisters fiancé has a big penis, what should I do? It's larger than mines? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 07:13 PM PDT For one I don't really like him for my own personal reasons. I just don't. I accidentally walked in on them during their "intimate" time at their house. And I happen to he see his penis. I was bothered by the fact that it big, especially in girth. After that I really didn't want him for my sister. The fact that he is Mexican made me even more angry. What should I do? I prefer her to marry a white guy. I also don't even want to speak to her or go to her wedding next Saturday. This is a serious issues so please serious answers |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 07:07 PM PDT I've recently moved in with my boyfriend. Ever since we moved in I've wanted sex more then him. We still have sex about 2-4 times a week, but I could do it more then that. There are nights when I'll touch him sexually, but he'll tell me he's not in the mood or he's tired. I'm busy and tired too, but I still want sex. It makes me feel weird and kind of unwanted because I thought it was the guy was begging for sex. Our difference in sexual desire frustrates me on many levels. How can we work out our difference in desire? How common is it for the girl to want sex more? Is it very unusual? I love my boyfriend and love living with him. Our difference in sex is just frustrating though. |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 06:36 PM PDT I shared with my husband that I no longer want to work with him in helping start our business. I told him that I'm not comfortable working with him because I feel that he can be a bit mean to me sometimes. I try to express how I feel to him but I don't think he cares. I'm a housewife so I tried my best to be supportive and help him get his business started. Now that I told him that I'm not interested, he said that it's fine but I will reap no financial benefit if the business does well. I am kind of hurt by that but I don't want to discuss it with him anymore. It's been almost a year since I've been out of work from my previous job but my worst fear is that I will have nothing to fall back on if my marriage doesn't work out. Honestly I just feel useless and like a bum. |
| Question: Is it that hard to keep the right guy? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 06:25 PM PDT I am watching all these videos that talk about how to keep a guy interested in you. If you are with the right person, do you really have to work all that hard to keep him around?? I am getting out of a marriage and wondering what did I do wrong that my marriage ended. By the way I had also lost interest in him. if it takes all that hard work like how to treat a guy such as when to give him space and how to make him chase you and all that bs rather than a honest love relationship where you both are being yourself then I rather be by myself. It is just not worth the effort. I believe that the if two people are right for each other relationship shouldn't be all that much hard work to keep it going since you both would enjoy each other's company and be yourself and both sides show their vulnerabilities. Share your thoughts please. |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 06:25 PM PDT |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 06:20 PM PDT about a year ago my parents got a divorce. in the beginning my dad would talk to me everyday but since he's got a girlfriend he doesn't contact me until the day i go to his house but I'm the one that starts the conversation. my dad and his girlfriend and friends sit outside all night and drink while I'm watching the kids inside( I have a sibling and she has two children.) I feel like I'm there for a baby sitter. I'm probably just paranoid but it's just really different since we were so close before the divorce. my question is, should I tell him how I feel? or am I going to look dramatic? thanks |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 06:06 PM PDT I know a couple who separated 3 months after they got married. What happens to the top of the cake? |
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| Question: Awkward situation with niece's daddy.? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 05:38 PM PDT My sister's ex-husband came onto me the other day. He basically said he married the wrong sister and if I every become single to let him know.. I am completely uninterested in the dude. Should I tell my sister about this, or was he maybe trying to make her jealous? They split pretry recently. Also he is going to come over again, how should I deal with him now that I feel uncomfortable? Also, should I tell my SO ? Thanks |
| Question: How do I tell my husband I don t want kids? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 05:36 PM PDT My husband and I have been together for 10 years (married for 7). We have an incredible marriage, but there s one problem: I don t want kids, he does. We got married young (I was 20, he was nearing 25) and neither of us had a firm idea of whether we wanted children at the time. Before anyone jumps in about how we should have waited, please know that that was our original intent but serious unforseen circumstances convinced us to take the leap early. I ve never been particularly maternal, but the older I get the more I m realizing that parenthood is not something I m interested in. My husband, on the other hand, likes the idea of being a father and-- being that he s 5 years my senior-- is getting a bit antsy about getting things underway or at least having a clear plan/path toward parenthood. Naturally, I m beginning to panic. I always assumed the urge would come upon me one day, the way it does for many women. After all, I ve been told my whole life that I d eventually change my mind about it. Sadly, that doesn t seem to be the case and I m at the point where I feel I need to say something. I love my husband dearly and I don t want to lose him, but I also don t want to chain him to a childless life if that s not what he wants. The complication is that I could still change my mind. I could still wake up one day and say, "you know what? I do want kids.", so I hate to jump the gun and say I absolutely never want them. What should I do? How should I broach this subject? |
| Question: How much is a photo of jimmy hoff and hi s wife jo hoffa? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 05:35 PM PDT |
| Question: Is cheating inevitable in a marriage? Will all husbands inevitably cheat? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 05:30 PM PDT Let me preface this by saying I know it's important to have a life outside of relationships, and that a relationship isn't gonna complete you or fix you if you're not whole already. I get that. The thing is that I don't think I'm ever going to be happy. I need love, and I would like to have a husband but I'm so afraid that men aren't going to LOVE you, and that's just a delusion spawned by all that Disney garbage, and that all guys care about is having sex with various girls and breaking their hearts. There's a huge shortage of men in the world so why would men even be motivated to behave? I don't want to be single when I'm 1,000 and sitting in a nursing home alone with no family, but it would be equally heartbreaking to be married to someone who cheats on me and who is in some other girl's arms when I need him. I feel like it doesn't matter if I'm married, either way I'm screwed. Sometimes I feel like my mom and my pets are the only living things that will ever love me. Believe me, I'm so grateful for them, but I don't know what I'll do when they're gone, and I don't even know why I have a need for a bf and husband when a dog's love or a mother's love is so much higher. I wish that things could be the way they are in Disney movies and all that crap. I wish that there were a man who loved me enough to DIE for me!! Can anyone else relate? What I meant to say in my post is that so many people just accept that their husband is gonna cheat because being in denial about it makes it so much more painful when the other shoe drops. Every bf I've had has hurt me terribly! I went into a serious depression and almost died because of the stunts the last one pulled. I know for a fact that not all women cheat, because I'm a woman and I just don't have it in me. What I meant to ask is that I feel like virtually all husbands cheat. I don't see how I can be happy. As incredibly selfish as this is, I want a relationship that brings me joy and not one that keeps me on pins and needles. Does such a thing even exist?? |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 05:23 PM PDT |
| Question: Gender Studies: Is it fair to say that most people marry within their own social bracket? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 05:17 PM PDT Everyone is going to hate this question, but I still want to ask. Recently someone asked if all women were gold diggers, which is, of course, ridiculous. It has been my experience that people usually marry people that are similar. Including their values, history, religion, level of education, and financial status. I guess I'm saying wealthy people usually marry wealthy people, Jewish people usually marry Jewish people, And so on... Is that wrong? I'm not saying this is the case all the time, or even when its not, that it is an exception. I'm just saying it seems to be the case most of the time. Do you agree? Is "gold digging" some sort of plague on the dating scene? I think the idea of financial security is attractive, but is it the sole factor enough to say "gold digging" is common practice? And who out there has enough money to say they are being victimized? |
| Question: What is the probability of marrying someone you've known your whole childhood? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:55 PM PDT What is the 'rate', so to speak, of people who marry people they've known their whole lives verses those who marry someone they meet in college, work force, etc. |
| Question: Is he stalking me? 10 points!? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:48 PM PDT This guy has been contacting me for months now. He is always sending me links to love songs and different things. Its gotten to where he contacts me every day, almost nonstop. I've told him to stop a few times, saying I don't want to develop feelings for him. But he ignores that and keeps doing it. I could ignore him but I'm starting to like him. Is this harassment? Is he obsessed with me? Thanks for answering! |
| Question: Why are single people answering on marriage and divorce? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:41 PM PDT There are quite a few people who are answering on marriage and divorce, and they are not married. Most of these questions seem made up. Why? They answer without experience, makes no sense. |
| Question: How do you convice your alcoholic husband that he needs HELP? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:38 PM PDT |
| Question: Can I divorce my wife even if I forgive her for cheating? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:24 PM PDT I would have never got a divorce unless there was cheating involved. It's been 6 months but I can't get over it. As a christian I forgive her but I honestly can't trust her enough to stay with her. It will hurt me and it would hurt her since I will always question everything she tells me. Is it ok if I just filed for divorce? |
| Question: If I got married in UK Can I go back to the Philippines after getting married? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:14 PM PDT |
| Question: Im confused, need to clear my mind!? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:04 PM PDT So I'm divorced. 4 kids and 2 step.. Its been two years of divorce but we haven't really fully separated. We still have faculty trips, dinners, movie nights, etc. But there is still plenty of arguing and fighting. Anyways, at this point, we still haven't fully went our separate ways. I think cause of our kids. I would like my family back but we just don't get along. We have both been with other people. For me, they just been hook ups. To her, they have been serious. I don't see myself being serious with anyone in any near future. As for her, she's constantly telling me she wants someone else, something serious. But When she feels kids would b ready. Anyways recently she was evicted with no where to go. Of course, she has my kids so I told her to live with me till she finds something. While she's been here all I hear her tell her friends on the phone is she don't wanna b here. She's here cause she has to.. Yet 2 nights ago she tried to have sex. And yesterday while watching TV she tried to caress my arm. I ejected both passes. Well I got upset today cause I seen this text on her phone taking to some guy.. Flirting.. We took the kids grocery shopping and the guy was there. She didn't say hi to him but instead text him. Idk why I'm so upset but I feel like she's betraying me with this incident and all the things she says to others about being here.. I kicked her out. I cooled off. She came back and I just decided to leave on my own.. Someone please shed a little light. I'm not the type to break easy or go to family and friends about my issues that's why I'm here.. I just want to know if this whole situation is right, am I wrong, is she, are we both?? |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 04:04 PM PDT Can love really be destroyed? |
| Question: Please help me with my fear of marriage!? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 03:47 PM PDT My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage, and I was fine with it until a few moments ago. I've been teetering on the thought of marriage for months now. One week I'm fine with it and excited for the future, then next I'm so anxious I cry myself to sleep. I love my boyfriend so much, and I do want to marry him, but my fear just won't go away. A picture on Facebook made my fear of marriage act up again. It was a picture of handcuffs on a couple. I don't want to be tied down to anyone, not even someone I love. I'm my own person, and I refuse to be held back by someone else. I can't afford to get professional help about this, plus it's embarrassing enough. I'm sick of going back and forth on it! How do you get rid of the fear of marriage? LEAVE ME ALONE TROLL!!!! STOP USING MULTIPLE ACCOUNTS!!! I REPORTED ALL OF YOUR ANSWERS!!! This is not a "troll" question! How much of a jerk does it take to pick on someone with Gamophobia!?!? LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!!! PLEASE STOP!!!!!! I WILL REPORT THIS TO THE POLICE!!!!! THIS IS CYBER BULLYING!!!!!! I'M 19, NOT 28! I DIDN'T ASK THOSE OTHER QUESTIONS!!!!!! GO **** YOURSELF TROLL!!!!! GO TO ******* HELL AND DIE!!!!! I'M GOING TO FIND YOU ASSHOLE!!!!!! PLEASE STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M BEGGING!!!!!! JUST STOP!!!!! WHAT BENEFIT DO YOU GET FROM HARASSING ME?!?!? LEAVE ME THE **** ALONE ASSHOLE!!!!! YOU DON'T DESERVE TO LIFE YOU LOW-LIFE BASTARD!!!!! Why are you even bothering answering this question when you know I will report you? You aren't getting 10pts. So what's your deal bastard? Like bullying random people on the internet!? Well I'm done playing your game. Have fun in hell ****! |
| Question: Should a couple divorce so one of them can get medical assistance and housing? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 03:44 PM PDT |
| Question: Are men who drink regularly and or smoke, more likely to be promiscuous ? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 03:33 PM PDT I've noticed that out of the guys that cheat on their wife or gfs 8 out 10 times, they are usually drinkers and or drug users. Any correlation or am I being paranoid ? |
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| Question: Am I wrong for wanting my husband to help me pay for a minivan? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 03:27 PM PDT My husband and I have separate bank accounts. We have an arrangement to split the bills equally even tho he makes almost double my salary. I am expecting our third child and plan on upgrading my small sedan to a minivan. I have saved 5k for a down payment and asked my husband to put a couple thousand down to help keep my monthly payment lower. He refused. He won t help me because it s "my car." Am I selfish for even asking? |
| Question: I lost my ACHCCCS card, how do I get a replacement? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 03:25 PM PDT |
| Question: Do u think someone could marry another who is 12 yrs older then them? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 03:13 PM PDT Bc my friend who is 17 thinks she could maybe marry or be with a 29 ur old guy I won't say who he is She's a fan of him It's the adam young and we are both fans but she thinks she could be able too |
| Question: Gift for multiple occasions? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 03:11 PM PDT My husband and I are coming up on our 5th Anniversary and I decided I wanted to do something extremely special for him. He's been in love with a band since they came out in '04, so I bought VIP tickets for him to go see them play and to meet the band. I was planning on giving him the VIP tickets for our anniversary, but then the concert is on his birthday.. Would it be odd to give him this for his anniversary, but then use it on his birthday? I was thinking about finding a sitter for all night rather than just the hours for the concert and then booking a hotel the night of the concert and driving there instead of home afterwards as a surprise.. Just not sure if I would need to get another gift for on his birthday or not? |
| Question: Is it legal in Brazil for me to marry an Anaconda? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 02:48 PM PDT I am having a difficult time find a human woman that interests me enough to want to ask her out but I see many snakes I really like. I was just wondering if I could legally marry an Anaconda in Brazil. |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 02:47 PM PDT My ex wife and I split 3 months ago. She said she didn't love me anymore and has completely cut me out of her life, which is cool now because I dealt with the hurt, but today I saw a picture of her on facebook through a mutal friend and there it was the same tattoo with a heart and my name on it. She's been having it now for 4 yrs and when we first divorce she still didn't remove it even when she was with her boyfriend at the time. She told me when had got back together she use to tell him she wanted to cover it up. And?? So of you divorce me and then get back with me to just leave me again. What's the point. Why live with the reminder. She has a good paying job so I know she can do it. I mean it's kinda upsetting in my eyes because I feel like it's a sign of disrespect. |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 02:47 PM PDT I'm a 53 year old black woman who's been divorced. For the past month I've been having a sexual relationship with a 27 year old white guy. I feel a bit silly about the relationship, but On the other hand I enjoy it. However, I love the sex. He actually puts forth effort to give me pleasure. He's got a great body. I'm flattered someone his age would be so sexually attracted to me. It's given me a lot of confidence. I'm having a lot of fun. However, I feel silly because he's my daughter's age and I'm sleeping with a white guy. Part of me feels like I should be sleeping with a black man my age. Im also concerned what my kids would think (I have twin 29 year old sons and my daughter) Am I being silly by sleeping with him? Should I stop or is it ok to keep going? |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 02:17 PM PDT I got sole custody of my now 14 yrs old daughter from a DV divorce 8 yrs ago. Recently I accepted a marriage proposal of which my fiancé assured me that I have the option to be a stay at home mom so I can take better care of my daughter. Wedding will be in a year. My fiancé lives in MN with a stable job (enough to support both me and my daughter) and a house, we're in CA (renting an apartment and who knows how long do I still get to hold my job before another lay-off kicks in). My daughter doesn't want to move to MN but prefers to to move with her dad and his family who now has 2 children. D My ex-husband currently doesn't have a stable job since a year ago, neither does the wife. Will my husband be obligated to pay child support (after we get married, move to MN and I'd be out of job) when my daughter chooses to live with her dad? I also learned that at her age she has the preference of choosing which parent she wants to live with. I'd like her to re-consider going with me but her mind is set to stay in CA. HELP … |
| Question: Will my obese husband live long enough to be 70? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 02:10 PM PDT My husband loves food. He is the sweetest guy in the world, but I'm worried his weight will be problematic for him in the future. He is over 300 pounds, but he is still active. My question is, is it possible for my husband to be alive at age 70? I want us to grow old together. |
| Question: Is it too late for me at 24 years of age? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 02:07 PM PDT I just want to know if it's too late for me to be a virgin and have never had a girlfriend at 24 years of age. I was reading an article that the prefrontal cortex finishes developing at age 25 and experiences are less intense at that age. I feel bad that I missed out on young love to be honest and I might not know how it feels to be passionately in love. Also, sex may not feel the same either. I also read that people who get married earlier in their 20s have a great experience in their twenties during formative years. Then when they get experience life later on, they can look back fondly on those years. I really hope it's not too late. Being a virgin at this age, I know I have missed a lot of formative experiences. I just fear that I might never find anyone and it will be too late. What can I do? |
| Question: Question about back child support? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:55 PM PDT My ex husband is almost 2 years behind in back child support, owing almost $5000 in child support payments. I am remarried and I live in another state with our daughter and my husband. We recently went back to court for my ex's back child support payments and the judge put my ex husband on probation and ordered him to pay his arrears plus what he owes me now and he was suppose to start paying by August 1, 2015. So far he hasn't paid anything and just keeps ignoring the order to pay the child support. He isn't working or looking for work ( the court ordered him to look for work). What do you think will happen to my ex next? Do you think the judge will ever enforce the probation that he is on for non payment or will they just keep adding on to what he already owes now? |
| Question: Does marriage work best when there is a clear division of responsibility and personality? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:32 PM PDT My wife and I overlap on just about everything we need to get done. Cooking? We both do it (or rather don't do it). Cleaning? We both do it (or don't do it). Shopping? I do it but that's besides the point. Parenting? We both do it. Dealing with drama? We both do it. Fashion? We both deal with it (though I tend to know it better than my wife - true story). Car repair? We both deal with it. Finances? She does it (only because she does it when I go shopping - trade off). Dishes? We both do it. Laundry? We both do it. Lawn? I do it but that's besides the point. Garden? She does it. Pet care? I do it. Homework? We both do it........ Now go back through the list and all the one's I said "we both do it" or something like that is all the things we argue over. No one ever argues over pet care or finances. So is this the secret to a functional marriage? Clear division of roles/responsibilities/personality? I know a lot of people were raised with gender norms so this is just second nature to them. Girls do the cooking, cleaning, and the parenting; boys do the working, getting dirty, and the disciplining. And you may not realize this, but by playing by the gender norms you are already having a clear division of labor! Nothing you and your wife does overlaps; you two are indeed 2 whole people coming together to create the foundation of a family. But what about those who don't play the gender game and have all this overlap? No wonder they fight! What do you think, am I on to something? I'm not proposing woman cleaning the house and the man does nothing. I'm just saying clear division. No fighting if only one person is clearly responsible. |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:31 PM PDT For instance: you will never stop making me want to be a better man.... |
| Question: Is my wife (still) having an affair? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:29 PM PDT Question for you. Lets assume everything I write below is the truth. Over the course of a marriage, a woman starts to resent/fall out of love with her husband. She confides in a man at her job and over time, becomes emotionally attached. They cross over to a physical affair one night (7 weeks ago). She then decides that she wants to try and work on fixing her marriage and her family. She tells the co-worker that they must not do that again but she wants to remain friends. She doesnt have sex with the co-worker again, but the two of them continue to see each other outside of work alone for a few minutes here and there, after work he walks her to her car, etc. They send each other e-mails about music and sometimes the woman lets her guard down and will say something like "I miss you terribly". My question is simply this: Is she still having an affair if she continues to engage this co-worker like this? Is this considered an ongoing affair? Thanks |
| Question: Moved to new area where no family for job...ideas on how I can get a life? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:24 PM PDT I joined a gym, not into online dating, most of my co-workers are married. Just need ideas on how to create a life after leaving area where most family/friends reside. |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:19 PM PDT I have dream I have ice cream and wife but no ice cream when I wake up I no have ice cream or wife and I look in fridge for ice cream but only food so I buy ice cream from store but cashier is communist because have Mohawk so I run to other store but they kick me out when I preach word of Jesus because I scare kid like what how do I scare kid with Jesus so where buy ice cream sorry my English not good I am born in North Dakota. |
| Question: Women: Would you marry a man who can't cook? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:16 PM PDT Reposted since the original was reported. |
| Question: Men: Would you marry a woman who can't cook? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:11 PM PDT |
| Question: I feel miserable in my marriage? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:09 PM PDT Im 33, and i have been married to my wife for the past 8 years (married for 6). I have a year old daughter and my wife wants another child in a few years. The reason i feel miserable is because i feel under appreciated. I also feel like i give my wife more than she gives me sometimes. I come home from work and theres little to no gratification in coming home. She says "hey honey" and then goes back to what shes doing. Also she forgets to get me things for holidays and birthdays, yet i always remember. I would be happy with no presents if i atleast got sex, but she has been lacking in that too. before having our daughter we would do it a lot, but then it decreased to basically not even having sex at all. I try to make her life as easy as possible, ie do chores around the house, and take care of our daughter while she goes out with friends, or to the spa, cook dinner for myself etc. I get a thank you and a kiss on the cheek, maybe once every 2 weeks. I do these things for her almost every week, and im about to stop. My attraction to her is dwindling and im starting to settle with how things are now. Im basically a stepping stool to her, what do i do? every time i bring it up with her, she says im childish and that i need to grow up. She also says our daughter deserves all the attention now. |
| Question: Can someone explain the financial issues of dating and marrying someone with children? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 12:01 PM PDT I don't want to date anyone or marry anyone with children. I make pretty good money and in my interpretation my spouse and I would not be able to own anything together and have a joint account because then my money would go to child support. If I find a great guy who makes less than me which with my salary is likely to happen and his ex or baby mama is a total harpy....she'll be taking a portion or my salary too right? If we have a joint account? I know SO many who abuse the system and use child support for themselves and their own boyfriends and hair and nails and stuff so I DON'T want that to happen. I DON'T - want to hear about anything but the logistics of how this works. |
| Posted: 22 Aug 2015 11:47 AM PDT I dad has a friend that was in the fire department for 30 years, his wife started a relationship with another guy divorced him and took half of his pension and his house. |
| Question: Why don't women cook or clean anymore? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 11:44 AM PDT My sister in laws don't cook or clean, I have several aunts who don't cook or clean, and several married friends who are a mess as well! Their husbands surely are burdened by this. My mother always cooked and cleaned up after the house. Even though she had a job and was a busy woman, she always made time for the house. Why do so many women refuse to care for a household? |
| Question: Why do people get married if they intend to cheat or are going to do it anyway? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 11:40 AM PDT I don't get it, just stay unmarried if you lack commitment, right? It saves everyone trouble. And yes, this is related to the recent Ashley Madison nonsense. |
| Question: What if you never found your partner unattractive, how do such marriages work out? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 11:18 AM PDT What if you never really found your wife attractive and you kept this to yourself, could such marriages survive or is it bound to collapse? I only want answers from people who are married, not single. |
| Question: What is marriage to you...a team? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 11:00 AM PDT Marriage to me is the two of you against the world. I believe there should be no hiding things from each other. And no one should come before your partner. Are there any marriages out there like this? What is it to you? |
| Question: Has your marriage lived up to your expectations? Posted: 22 Aug 2015 10:32 AM PDT Why or why not? Everyone's open to answer, but I'm specifically interested in what women think. |
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