I have social anxiety and I'm 13.. And I'm just so scared to hangout with him or whatever.. I haven't seen him in like a month because my anxiety is taking my life over.. I'm so scared I'm gonna lose him like I'm losing everyone else.. I really need help and how to overcome my anxiety..I have no friends because my anxiety takes me over. I've only had up to 1-3 friends my whole life...

okay so i am 15 years old n so is my bf we have been dating for 8 months now n everything was going great until one day my sister got into my facebook and show our messages n we were talking a bit sexual n when they say it they hated the kid saying that he just wants sex from me n that i have break up with him n i refuse to break up with him so me n my bf spoke about it n he wrote my mom a speech to trust me with him n she hated it n now my parents n i are now beefing n my bf my boyfriend is mad n really really fed up with this he said that he was done trying to convince my mother about us n he doesnt know what to do anymore i ask him if he was giving up on us n he said a little bit idk so the next day i ask him if he was okay n he said not really hes still mad i told him dont worry everything will be fine n he was being really really mean a bit so then i said plz dont be mad n he said can u just leave me alone plz . i was heart broken cuz we said no matter what that we will always be their for each other n now i feel like hes giving up on us n pushing me away by doing this to me n hes hasnt been answering my texts n its hurting me to think he doesnt love me i ask him if he still does n he said that he does . *sigh* what should i do give up ? give him some time to think? or end this? plz help me ); thx

I am half Italian half Japanese. My mother gave me a traditional Japanese middle name at birth, Maho. My first name and surname are both very European names, so I just can't come to like my middle name at all. Whenever my name would come up on a list/my license/etc. people at school would see it and laugh or make fun of it. People would also distort it to rude things like "My Hoe". This has been an issue all throughout my life as far back as I can remember. I chose a different middle name as a kid that I love and that has meaning to me and that's what I tell everyone it is. When people see my actual middle name, what am I supposed to say? I'm not disrespectful of my mother's culture whatsoever. I appreciate and understand her want to give me a traditional middle name. However, most people I'm surrounded by are extremely narrow minded and haven't been exposed to any culture but their own. I have two years of schooling left and I don't know how I'm supposed to handle this. It's very frustrating.

My dad's birthday was yesterday the 10th, my mom and I had a fight along with my sister. Its s long story, but there was a teapot my sister and dad liked, my dad wanted it, but he and mom were talking about it, and my sister thought it was for her? (She can be very childish and immature, anyway.) But, my sister asked what they were whispering about and I said "something about the teapot?" And my sister put all her purchases up, and I told my mom "This might be my fault... She heard dad and you talking about putting the teapot back, and she asked me what was going on and I told her something about a teapot?" My mom's response, "Yes you did screw up!! I don't know what kind of stuff you were talking about behind my back, but I won't tolerate it, stay out of our business and get the details right before you make assumptions!" I started to break down crying, because my cat died the day before, and I told her "I lost Callie.." My mom said, "So did I!!" And then I asked my sister if I could stay with her, and my sister asks my mom and my mom is like "Fine. I don't care. I don't care." And she has hands on her hips like she always does when she's mad and then I go home with my sister, and my mom and dad are too mad to talk to us, and when I get home the next day they said I ruined his birthday, and that my sister was too cowardly to take the blame with me, and how childish and immature she is.

Ok me & my boyfriend have been together 8 months & even though he hasn't meet my aunt he should have a little more compassion I think since he claims he's in love with me last week my aunt died of cancer on the day we were suppose to hang out & instead of asking me am I ok or conforting me he was like "damn when can I see you then " & since he hasn't been asking me am I okay I have to make him ask me & make him show that he cares & today is her funeral & he hasn't once gave me encouraging or loving words I even told him I'm on my way to her funeral & he just ignored it is it wrong for me to wanna break up with a guy just for that?!?? I just find it sooo ******* rude!!!

I'm only 18 and I recently moved out of my moms house to live at my dads. The thing is, I really want to move away from all of them, but my mom guilts me with her emotions and I don't want anybody to be upset with me. It's hard. I want to move somewhere it's easier to live. I want to move away from all the people who hurt me because I see them all the time and they're just a constant reminder of my past. I live in my hometown but I'm just so tired of it. Don't get me wrong, I will always know and love this town but im aching for some adventure. It physically drains my energy how much I crave to move away. I just don't know what kind of job I want. I just don't have a lot of money. I don't know what exactly I want. It hurts. It physically hurts. Its a yanking at my chest and causes heart palpitations. I don't know what to do. I just need advice. Please help.

Basically my FWB, who I don't know much about at all, except we have amazing sex. Idk, he talked about wanting to take pics of me, and I agreed to it, because it felt sexy. We have 0 mutual friends, we just live in the same town, no connections, etc..everyone says beware of naked pics because it could come back to me, but how? he gave a verbal promise not to show anyone and of course he could be lying, but even if he does, who does he know who I does? Yes my face was in the pictures...I'm 24 and he's 28 also, does it mean he has zero respect for me? he still texted me afterwards...morning after asked ''how do you like your facial?''

Okay so the other day I saw the girl I like looking at me but then look down at the floor but then when I look back she wasn't at the same spot she had moved?

Until i found out things from his past (obsessive sexting, porn, lying). Obviously this great ma who i wanted to trust, didn't seem that trustworthy anymore.. rather than making things up to me, he began manipulating me into "stepping it up" and doing more things for him, or he would "go back to his old ways" I'd say that's not the way to get me motivated, and you're only making me more insecure. his response was "I'm just being honest. I'm used to this and that and if you don't keep me happy, I'll just move on" But he would promise me the world and say he'd be the greatest guy ever and I'd be the happiest woman if I did comply and "keep him happy" , I straggled a little being not very experienced and more innocent than he was, but ultimately I figured ok, well if he makes it worth it and makes me so happy, why not try more things.But each time it seemed like the next thing became not enough, and I was always made to feel not good enough.always felt threatened that if i didn't "step it up even more, or switch it up" he would cheat or "get excitement elsewhere". We had began making plans of having a house all together, said it'd be great! But No appreciation or affection whatsoever unless I did sexual things or excitement. stupidly, I kept believing him and trying to keep a balance of "requirements" than he wouldnt have to go out drinking or go out alone, and he would be with me. I moved in, and we were still for the most part happy. Then things went downhill.(cntued below) ABout a mnth after I got upset one night and he started yelling and screaming, if i didn't give him the night i promised he would lock me out. Then i said well now i dont feel like getting in bed at all! So he dragged me out in the cold leaving bruises, until I agreed to come back in and "be his gf" Many times after, if we had an argument he would start swearing and yelling and made me leave (with kids). Each time it would ALWAYS be my fault.He is never wrong. I made a mistake in confiding in one of his family members who i thought supported us, but they went and told everyone and the family went crazy and tried to force me out becausethey feared their son/sibling would ultimately get in trouble with the law (forget the fact that maybe someone should help him get counseling for breaking things and being violent!) I began not wanting anything to do with them.They are always discriminating, talking less about different races and/or overweight people. ocassionally i'd say something to politely ask they don't speak like that in front of my children and Im sure they didn't like that and never respected me. Not to mention always super inappropriate. We got better, we distanced ourselvesfrom them . Still don't feel he never puts in the same effort, it's escalated to the point where I have done things I am not proud of for him in hopes that he will snap out of it and be the man he once was and promised, but at the same time im angry and we have disagreements but if I dont keep my mouth shut he gets violent then always blames me for not "shutting the **** up" I am trying so hard to make things get better, and start out each day sweet and making efforts ot excite him or motivate him...And part of me thinks he is right. Maybe i should just keep my mouth shut , like he says after all he pays the bills, and no longer sees his family as much or goes out to bars as much... Unfortunately when in this situation, things don't seem that black and white. Has anyone been in similar cases? Like Legally, is it really my fault when i get hurt because I keep arguing? And eh claims all guys have these needs. Si this really true? I mean it's gotten to the pnt where I have been with other guys while he is watching... :(

My husband and I are moving to Seattle. We currently live in Dayton, OH. He graduates this fall and will move in January to start a full time corporate job. I graduate in May and will stay until June (our apartment lease also ends in June so it makes sense for me to stay). I'm nervous about the whole thing. This is not our first big move, but I'm worried that once we get out there something will go wrong. All we know is that we cant stay here any longer. I need tips, advice, comments. I don't want to forget one single detail, I want the move to be perfect. So far its anything but perfect.

What must i do ? Why does he want that !!

My routine with a girl is usually to make her a friend with benefit or something of the sort, then make her fall in love with me, then make her accept the fact that I will never love her back (though still leaving her a small window by saying that I do care about her, I'm just not available emotionally) but also make it impossible for her to break off from the relationship because she is already too dependant on me emotionally (as well as sexually). So from then on I would have a full-on relationship but unattached on my side, meaning she is committed to only me but I can have other people in my life provided I let her know just enough about the other girls: not so much that she would feel like the other girls are more important to me than her, but also not so little that she would feel like I'm hiding something. Now the problem is after a certain amount of time I start to actually care and develop feeling for these girls and having feelings for girls like them is unacceptable to me (Would you date a girl who has been in such relationships? No. Probably not, right). My question is, how, then, do I stop developing emotions for these girls while still keep having sex with them on a daily basis? Is there a way to dettach emotionally without having to stop acting like their SO?

So I'm with a group of trainees at a company and sat with one of the employees the other day... He told me that I understand lots of things bla bla bla and suggested that I should work with him because there is shortage of employees... He told that to me ONLY not to the other trainees does he mean it? Please help! He doesn't know my name btw just my major

i have girlfriend before. we both so close to each other after 1 year i able to know she sex with his boss from so many mouths we fight . i gave her chance . and she swear to me that she never gona meet him but few day after i find out she still doing that she said she just playing with boss because he can gave her every thing i broke up she say to me u belong to me now almost 1 month she keep msging me daily moring and even always saying me good morning send me pic and saying me miss u love u u belong to me daily say that can you tell me what in her mind did she playing to me she love me when why did she msg me because she bored what i have to do?

Im 19 years old now When I was 10 years old this woman neighbour took a sudden interest in me and would always offer to babysit me for my mam as my mam was a single mother. She had kids of her own but always was very huggy and feely with me when she seen me. Like she would come over to my house and hug me for hours and always compliement me and say Im gorgeous. She would always buy me stuff even though my mam told her not to like sweets before meals and always giving me money.and would ask me to accompany her to the toilet. She once said to me when my mam wasnt there that she only comes over to my house to see me and not my mam. My mam started to think her behaviour with me was a bit innapropriate and said this to the woman but the woman said she wasnt doing anything wrong. This woman also told me that she wanted to run away with me only she would be done for kidnap and asked me to live with her. Does this sound like grooming behaviour? Opinions welcome

About a month ago, the guy I like (who also likes me) said outloud mid-convo "maybe someday I will find the perfect person". I was pretty upset that he had the audactiy to say something like that to me, in front of me. When I got a little tense and said "well, I hope you find the one someday" his response was "..you don't think it's you?" to which my reply was "No? But you obviously don't" and his response was "well, I think you are pretty close! I need to know more things about you in order to know for sure *snuggles up to me*. If you were the perfect person, I would probably run away scared". Tonight, he was texting me and said "I saw a shooting star and thought of you :)". When I asked him what he wished, he told me "I am not sure I am supposed to share, and plus it's serious..but if you wanna know I will tell you :)". When I told him he could tell me he said "I want you to be the one". I reciprocated and his response was "good, I didn't want to freak you out lol". My question is, is what he said a good thing or a bad thing given what he said last month about the 'perfect person'? Cause he didn't say he 'thinks' I am the one, he said he 'wants' me to be the one.. which could mean he doesn't see me as being 'the one', but would like it if I were...?

My sister came home crying one night after her boyfriend of five years broke up with her, and she came into my room and told me she loved me more than anything else. Then she begged me to squirt on her stomach to show her I loved her too, so I did. Is that bad?

I was seeing a guy and I found out he has a lying problem.. He tolled me he had a baby before and that it was a miracle because he couldn't have babies but sadly the baby died... One night we were having sex he didn't have anywhere to pull out he lied and said he could *** inside me because he can't get girls pregnant... Like a fool I trusted him four months later I'm pregnant. I found out he cheated on me with ten woman I forgave him unfortunately. But now that I found this out I have no idea what to do.. I had an abortion before I met him and almost died due to the loss of blood. I asked him to go to therapy and he denies he has any problems or needs help.. I rolled him well you need to atleast stop drinking two times a night than he still will not do that. I really would love for this to work out but I just do not know how to get him to want to change. I do not want a drunk around a baby I really wish I could help him... Do you have any ideas to help him change or get him to be a better man...??? I do not want to be a single mommy and he says he really wants a family.. I believe he truly loves me despite his behaviors... Please help us

Buen día, qué puedo pensar después de besar en los labios de una mujer, al rato me duele la cabeza??? Y lo reñaciono con el beso porque me deja un saborcito diferente en los labios, en la boca.

Hello everyone I am 23 years old guy and I have always had a little bit of belly fat. I wanna lose weight so badly because I'm sick of being a little bit chubby. I wanna feel confident in my body and show it off. I wanna have nice biceps and triceps, 6 pack abs, nice pecs and shoulders. What is the best and fastest way to make this happen? What are the best foods to eat? How often should I run/workout? How much water should I consume? How many daily calories? I am currently 6ft and 185 pounds. I have already started eating healthier and waking 6 miles a day and biking 18 miles every other day. I have started working out. I have been doing 30 reps for triceps, shoulders, biceps, and doing 80 crunches a day. Is this ok? I just wanna put my fat days behind me so girls will finally find me attractive. I'm pretty decent looking now but I would love to be that sexy guy. But I wanna make a new change in my life.

My ex boyfriend once fingered me and I started to bleed which means I've lost the hymen and now I have this amazing man who wants to get married to a virgin girl and wont marry other than that. I told him everything about my previous relationship and that I am a virgin afterall because there was no p**** inside of me. How will I make him believe that I didnt get any p**** inside of me but only fingers? Since there is no proof that I am a virgin because I wont shed blood. Please anyone give me a solution.

So I've been dating him for a good will now and I want to have sexual relations but I'm scared that if he can get in trouble.

I've known this guy for about eight years now and I'm getting some vibes that he might like me. I like him too, but I want to make sure that he actually has an interest in me. Heres some things that he's told me and done. - Offered for me to sit/lay next to him to watch a show - Told me my voice is soft - He'd constantly look at me and smile really big but when i'd look back he'd look away fast - Constantly call me over to show me things on his phone that he finds interesting/likes - We play this MMO together and he sent me a virtual little flower item lol - Tease me over the mic There just a few things and I'm probably just looking too much into it. But what do you think?

We used to do anal all the time. We actually only did anal before we had sex. She used to like when i would finger her *** and stuff like that but ever since we ve had sex, she doesn t want to do anything anal anymore.

My parents and others tell me that I'm just a late bloomer and matured and have experienced things later than a lot of people my age and I hate feeling like I'm behind. I'm told I'm immature but I don't really feel that I am. people just perceive me as that but if they really knew my true personality I don't think they would think that. How I think is mature but sometimes how I come off seems immature because I get nervous and just can't be myself. I just want to feel like I'm normal and like everyone else. Is being a late bloomer really that bad/negative of a thing?

my husband is so mean to me. .. if he is not cursing me out or fighting with me he is bossing me around. .. I had a neck procedure done and when new got home he was mad and I trite to ignore him but when he stands in my face is hard. .. I am getting short term disability because I had surgery and I save all the money so I can pay bills and still see the doctor. .. he is very greedy with his money and is always accusing me of stealing. .. I've helped him when he needs it but I have to beg and he still says no. .. he has no respect for me. .. he hit me hard in the face not to long ago and when I called the police they yelled at me. .. I have no where to go and shelters are full. .. when I got home after surgery he left me by myself for 3 days and of course I couldn't move much so I didn't eat and going to the restroom was so hard. .. he did not care. .. he also punched me in my arm after I had surgery... not the life I hoped for... he had thrown hot food in my face and beat me up allot. .. what do I do. .. I have allot of health problems and I don't qualify for help cause I make to much. .. police never help me. ..

When he cheated on my mom the first time I was about 8 years old. I never knew what he was doing back then and he took us with that "lady" frequently. I thought she was a relative and she was nice. But one time when I was in the car with my dad, still at the same time when I was 8, he told me he loved this girl so much and he told me not to tell my mom, we'll I obviously told her but I didn't know anything was wrong. So it's 2015 and I saw a photo of my aunt with this infant, and I asked my mom who that was. She responded back that the little girl in the photo was my "sister". My mom told that my dad slept with that girl again. Oh and I forgot, when my dad cheated the first time he had a baby boy. So that makes 2. My mom texted my dad that we found out about her. He came and talked to us about it and my brother forgived him, but I didn't, I even called him a ******* slut, because you know the saying, a cheater is always a cheater. Since then I always hated him for that.But there was this serious talk I had with him when we were at Mexico. He noticed I was ignoring him most of the time and everything. He thought I loved him but he was wrong. I don't trust him neither do I love him. He told me the problem was only about him and my mother, it's true but he doesn't understand that it impacted the whole family as well. He just doesn't get through that and keeps saying that this doesn't involve me and I shouldn't be worrying about my mom. My mom should've never deserve this.

when i was in high school, I would laugh for every single thing. then a girl told me things and screamed that I am always laughing. the teacher told her to leave me alone, that that is how i cope. What did the teacher mean by saying that I cope by laughing?

I work at a small mom and pop shop and I don't feel comfortable with my boss sometimes using racial slurs. After work, I invited my boss to my place and we were watching a movie Boyhood. There was a scene in the movie where a white woman talks about how she loves Obama when the kids were posting Obama's sign on people's lawn. My boss roled his eye and said "why don't you have a n*gger baby?" at the movie. I didn't want to get into an argument with him, so I didn't say anything. I'm a minority and he sometimes makes fun of me too but he's respectful most of the time because I'm hard working and reliable. Also, according to one of his co-workers, his parents and his grandparents apparently used racial slurs a lot.

The thing is My Bf's sister who has a (6 year old and a 1 1/2 year old (both females) -EVERYTIME we visit them it actually gets alittle awkward for me. I been with my Bf for over 9 years and we recently had a baby. Since we recently had a baby...she's been alil funny....SO, our baby is almost 2- cute as a button. NOW, every visit to c her and my Bf's brother in law, I feel she throws jabs at me about my baby's complexion. In Spanish there is a term they use called (Negrita)- which apparently it's a term of endearment- I get that, but does it really make you feel good to keep repeating something that you know bothers me? My baby came out like a little Pocahontas baby..caramel complexion, and my Bf is olive/light skinned. I have a light tan/ olive complexion naturally. Our child is definitely darker than us two! No question- Also, "genetically"on my side of the family this is completely accurate . Am I just over reacting? Its just I don't know if she cares, or what? She knows it bothers me...in the past their grandmother openly says these remarks and says (that's nothing) I told the grandmother on different times that I don't like that- but for this happening now again..I just choose not to over react...so please advice anyone...??? much thanks PLEASE ADVICE!!!!!!!!!

My neighbors were fighting last night. As entertaining and adrenaline pumping as it was, I was left delighted. The woman is a total *****, always has been to me. Her husband is nice but he is a drunk. I recorded the entire thing and was going to upload to youtube here shortly. She hit him with a beer bottle first. Then he began to beat the tar out of her as she screamed for help. This all took place in front of her 4 year old child. She was screaming at him for beating her in front of her child. The cops were never called. Some people have said I'm legally obligated to report this? I don't want to get involved in their affairs and have him mad at me. And personally she deserved it for hitting him first with a beer bottle. My youtube video of the event is below. Listen and give me opinions. https://youtu.be/P23qC4UWPRQ Further add that my patented argument-O-meter has ranked tons of fights on youtube, my neighbors fighting and my parents fighting. If possible, I'd like to have a youtube channel dedicated to videos and recordings of parents and couples fighting, along with my patented argument-O-meter rating for the fights. Patented argument-O-meter.

And for the record, by "repeating theirselves", I mean telling the same tired, old stories over and over and over again- (to the point where you could probably tell them particular stories, yourself, almost word-for-word, or possible, even absolutely bang-on word-for-word!) If so, how do you deal with them, when they do it, and you're thinking "Bloody hell! Not this poxy story again! Please, anything but this again!"? o.o

where the father whips the daughter and later on the daughter whips him not fifty shades of grey

I was just wondering because when I looked it up I didn't find this question so I thought I'd ask it

It first started out with him being a tad touchy after a while of knowing each other, as in asking for hugs constantly, always saying "I love you", little things, y'know? So i didnt really suspect anything. But lately he's been acting up more, I talked to my little sister about it and she says she's noticed too. He's been getting really touchy, always getting close, and still carrying on with the hugging and "i love you"'s constantly. Recently, I laid in his bed with him and watched a few movies, while we were laying across from each other he would keep scooting closer abd closer, then moving his hand a bit closer to mine. After a while he moved down onto the floor. (His mattress is on the floor as well, so he was still close) while laying there for a while he would look at me and poke me, then if i had my hand out he'd play with it or slap it. Yesterday, he tried to make me stay up but i ended up saying "i'm going to bed" and he whined and said "please stay up!" even though my other brother was watching it too. Last night we ended up goin downstairs and he kept making me hug him, and each time I did he'd hug me tightly and press ALL of his body up against me, not just his chest. He then leaned over me and i looked down and it looked like he had a *****?? I haven't told anyone but my sister because I'm afraid everyone else will think I'm making it up. Should I be worried or is it all in my head? Please help. Thanks.

I'm 13 years I'm not shy or self conscious or anything. i have a very deep voice and sometimes people can't understand what I'm saying. i don't have trouble speaking i just don't make small talk. if someone asks me something i'll answer it. just because I only speak when I'spoken to doesn't mean i'm shy.

I HAVE TWO MANY OPEN TAPS NEED TO DELITE

he loves the anime show fairy tail and on these hoodies the symbol is on it im just not sure which one looks the best... please let me know your opinions (: <3

Okay, maybe it might not be a curse but during my summer, something weird happened. Me and my friends talked about it, and they want to move on but a part of me is still kinda stuck on it. A month ago, I went to an amazing event. It was in the city and I had a perfect time, then as the night went on something went wrong and I ended up lost and alone. It all worked out but the day after, arguments started happening with all my friends (this continued on the whole month). I was even the one to initiate some of them. They were petty arguments that I would never start but I did for some reason, as for everyone else in my life. I think im being paranoid because our theory ( me and my friends ) is just that since there was no school to stress about, we caused stress on each other, but personally, why did it have to happen after that exciting/horrible day? The exact date fyi was june 21st. I know this sounds stupid and dumb, but a part of me wants to go back to the place it all happened and perhaps just try to reverse the bad vibes and go back to the good ones I used to have. What do you think? (please help)