if you are married what was your wedding like?so guys tell me when you get married what do you want your wedding to be like? add your details and have fun with this question?

My boyfriend and I are seriously considering getting married so I've been looking at rings. I found one at Kohl's that I really love and it is waaaayyyyy below our price range at $500 ($175 when its on sale during the weekend). I just don't want people to think I'm white trash or something. I guess it doesn't matter what other people think but I also don't want something that's going to turn my finger green or break.

Describe what you would want your dream future wedding be like (don't worry about money) My dream wedding: I want the proposal to be really creative, well thought out and elaborate and in front of my friends and strangers in a public area (like those ones that go viral) I want my wedding to be in a really nice church or cathedral and want my dress to be long and white and be a bit poofy as well with sparkles with either straps or sleeves with my hair either down or half up half down and curled. I want my wedding day to be in fall (winter is ok too but mostly fall) And for my reception in a nice indoor ballroom type area decorated with pretty lights, candles, chandeliers, etc. I want my wedding to have either very little alcohol (maybe just champagne and wine) or no alcohol at all. I want a chocolate fountain and really good food and music. I want my cake to be probably a chocolate cheesecake maybe with strawberries and raspberry in it but decorated really nice and not look like chocolate from the outside. For my honeymoon I want a first class flight to Europe and go to France, Germany, and Italy.

She's been really helpful with a lot of the planning and we are getting my parent's gifts as well. The problem is I am not sure what makes an appropriate gift in this situation. We do have a lot of the same interests, anime, fantasy and collecting fantasy knickknacks (our specific tastes differ a little though). I was also friends with her before I even met her son, my fiance.

My buddy is getting married this weekend and his future wife wants all the pairs walking down the aisle to do something clever and funny. Each pair has to do there own thing. Nothing simular to the others. Any ideas for my partner and I?

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Due to certain circumstances, me and my girlfriend has to get married within a short period of time (she is not pregnant, but The reason is not relevant). We have talked to the court, and tomorrow, we are going down to The courthouse to get married. Anyway, as this came very fast and unexpected, i havent gotten time to figure out what i am going to wear. What should i wear? I dont own a suit or a blazer and i cant buy one either

My sister is getting married in Spain at the end of September. So far, most of the people she invited are not able to attend, including me. I'm currently pregnant and it's an extremely high risk pregnancy. My sister wasn't understanding when I told her I wouldn't be able to go, but she's backed off a little. She wanted my partner to bring our kids anyway and leave me at home, which we told her was out of the question. So here's the bigger problem. My mom wants to stay home with me, because I've been told I could end up going into premature labor and if that happens, I will need an emergency c-section. Mom doesn't want to leave in case something does happen (and unfortunately, the chances are high). My sister has been on a rampage since and is angry at everyone, especially me. She even asked if I could have the baby delivered before her wedding. It's tearing my mom apart because she does feel guilty, but she said she would feel even worse if they were over there and something happened to me. Should I encourage her to go? Or do I let her continue and hope my sister will understand eventually?

Where do you even start with planning a wedding. We know we want it on the beach.. Were getting married in a year and 10 months and we dont have a huge budget. We were gonna do something small and intimate. Frok start to end how do i do this??

I've seen other questions about this, but you know, just going to gauge responses anyway. My bf and I want a small wedding, probably taking place in the yard, with everything hand cooked or made(like a big bbq but in the fall). Nothing huge. The problem is our families though. His family is very small with only 2 siblings (that have SOs) and his parents, while my family is huge with 12 aunts/uncles and over 16 cousins. The problem is that while my family is a close one only a handful of my cousins/aunts/uncles are close with me. Close enough where I want to invite them. My mother says if I invite 1 I have to invite all 20something of them, and to me that just seems ridiculous. Her thought is that the ones left out would be upset (and yes it would mean inviting one sibling and not the other, and in some cases, two parents and not their kids). My thought is that well its my wedding I should do what I like, and since it's all small and pretty much all made "in house" it just seemed obvious to me that a large wedding is out of the question. Plus I've definitely seen my cousins post pictures of themselves together and they seem to have no issue saying "me and my favorite cousin!" so I assume they will be adult enough to handle not being invited (most of my cousins are in their 20s). Has anyone ever done this before? What is the fallout? I really don't want this to be a huge wedding with all of my extended family, but I don't want to exclude those who are closest to me. For those of you who are curious, me and my bf both have neurological/neurobehavioral disorders. I have ADHD (adult) so being around too many people (I consider more than 10 alot) overwhelms me and I shut down. My BF has depression/anxiety/ocd with agoraphobia so he also can't be around large groups. I do love all of my cousins, but many of them I either don't get along well with or am not close to. For something as special as a wedding, I'd rather not spend it locked up in my room overwhelmed. I'm also glad I asked this question because it allows other people to see that even people with disorders can find love and get married, and that not everyone who wants to "nix" out certain family members does it for purely selfish reasons. This is part me wanting the kind of day I deserve, and also not wanting to have a panic attack half way through the ceremony.

I'm getting married in a few months and the topic of the guest list came up when I was at my fathers house Saturday. My stepmother and I don't have a close relationship. I only really spent any time with her when I became an adult. So my stepmother was asking if her parents and sister would be invited. When I responded no, she wanted to know why. I told her it was because I'd never met her family. She didn't seem to think this was a good enough reason and started telling me how my grandma (dads mom) doesn't like her and she'll have no one to talk to when my dad is talking to her. I shut her down after that and kept refusing to talk about it. But I was wondering if etiquette says I should be inviting them? My dad isn't contributing to the wedding. Good to know I don't have to. Thanks to the two answers so far!

I live in California but by best friend is getting married (and lives in) Deatsville AL. Because I am the Maid Of Honor I am responsible for throwing her a Bachelorette Party. I have no clue what is around there to do. Any suggestions? She isn't a huge drinker so we will not be going to any bars. Thanks.

Please help. I am a fluent Spanish speaker but my bosses daughter asked me to translate her wedding program. i don't want to mess it up. Please help! Remembrance Rose Ceremony In loving memory of: Rose Placed By: Seating of the Families Wedding Processional Bride's Processional Presentation of the Bride Scripture Reading Wedding Message and Sharing of Vows Exchange of Rings Scripture Reading Communion & God's Knot Prayer of Blessing & Benediction Pronouncement of Marriage Presentation of the Couple Recessional The Wedding Party Parents of the Bride Parents of the Groom Officiants Maid of Honor Best Man Bridesmaids Groomsmen Flower Girl Ring Bearers

I have been with my girlfriend for just over four years now and I am definitely ready to spend the rest of my life with her. Problem is, we are both only 19, and traditional parents may have a problem letting their 19 year old daughter go so early. Being traditional myself, I want to ask the mother and father for their blessing (not their permission), but am worried I may shock them and that they might feel it's too early. I am rather close with her parents and they do like me, so that's not an issue. I have never hurt their daughter, we've been together for a straight 4 years; no break ups, fights, etc. I have a good job already and I'm going to college full time, I know their worry wouldn't be financial security but rather it's just letting your first daughter go. Her father is very close to her and favors her more than his other. SHE is HIS security. So in a situation like this, how am I supposed to ask him... How can I ease him into it?

She got married a couple weeks ago and me, my son, my daughter, and fiance was all in the wedding. We are a beautiful family according to most. So, there is no reason for her not to have any pictures of us. She has her husband, her son, her daughter and her but not the other bridesmaids, or groomsmen. She is very jealous hearted and shows it but I'm get friend. It's her book but you can't be that jealous that you dosomebody like that who spent all that money to be apart of your wedding.That's low.

In my dream I was at a get together and in walks my ex with his new woman carrying a baby girl that I thought was mine. I pick her up and he comes to take her back and then walks off before attempting to give me hug. He fades off into the background with his now woman. I walk around asking for help to help me get my child back and no one was helping me to do it. What does this dream mean. We ended a decade friendship where he kept coming back every other year. This time around he comes back asking for a relationship and we weren't communicating the same way and he goes and be with another woman. In the dream he comes with my baby girl and gives her to me but takes her to go be with the woman he left me for again. What does all of this means?