Growing up my dad was solidly in my life until I was 4 and then parents got divorced because he was a drink and abusive and then from 4-7 he seen me when he wanted to see me and after the age of 7 I think I seen him 3 times and then when I was 18 he showed up at my graduation and I was so happy I have always loved him and will always love him but we aren't that close. My mom is walking me down the aisle but I still want a father daughter dance so I need something that can somewhat relate to my story and not a song about how he has been ther my whole life. Thanks everyone!

Since I was about 9 or 10 years old, my mom has been well, not the greatest mother to me. She's slapped me, kicked me, thrown things at me, slammed my head into a wall, pushed me, etc. She's also said (and yelled) terrible things to me about a lot of different things. When I cry because of things she says and when she hits me, she mocks me and says I'm weak. I have a brother who has ADHD and she yells at him far less then she does to me and barely ever hits him. I'm fourteen now, so this has been going on for about 4 or 5 years and has since caused me to have panic attacks and be depressed. I've told my two best friends and my boyfriend about what's been going on and they all think that it's really serious and that I should do something, but I don't know what that something should be. Please help.

Today was the first day of 8th grade for me, I have absolutely no friends in any of my classes. Like today in U.S. History, when the teacher called my name to come up and get a paper everyone looked at me and started laughing. And at pe I am alone, no friends at all. Everyone just look at me. In drama, no friends. In math I feel like everyone's laughing at me, it's a big 60 student class. Today when I lined up to go in drama, some girls passed by me and said "eww" it really hurt me to see them behave like this. And tomorrow in language arts, we have to work in groups!! I'm gonna be alone. Everywhere I go I just get laughed at and people throw stuff at me. I'm a 13 year old male btw. What should I do?!!!!! I keep having anxiety attacks. Thanks in advance.

My Grandpa has legos and i wanted them because i loved playing with them when i was younger and still do. I have to e-mail him in order to do so. what do i say so it doesn't make me seem childish and so it isn't weird/awkward?

i am 17. i live in pakistan in an area where people are too stuborn to move on. i dont have a social life because whoever i meet is a total dick. when i am in school i try my very hard in everything but at the end my hard work doesn't help me. when i come home my mother is busy at her stuff and just takes me for granted and acts as she cares and want to have fun with me but when she gets angry at me(which is a lot) she says the stuff that she normally thinks about me, she thinks me as a loser and shows herself as a very innocent and a woman who is victim of all the worries. she taunts me and degrades me. if i say something she doesn't like she beats me. my father is away on buisness all the time. my brother is the only person that truly believes in me but now he is gone abroad. i feel totaly alone now that he is gone. even i have lost hope in my life. i am nowadays tottaly fusterated and have sudden outbursts in which i cant control but to cry. i sometimes have suicidal thoughts. i need some help as anonymus people dont judge you that quickly.

My sister and I are home alone for 5 hours today and I wanted to make her day fun! Im 13 and she s 8 but she s really mature. She acts usually acts 10 or 11. I wanted to know some activities to do with her today, especially some crafts, but we can t leave the house. Thanks everyone!

My parents are always saying that I have an attitude or that I am mean to them. I do admit sometimes I talk back, and I know it doesn't help me but I just have to. Also sometimes I will say something (and I don't even mean to be rude) but they think I am being rude and I get in trouble for it. My parents have been going through a lot of stress lately, and they say some nasty stuff to me (it hurts so bad I cry)! I always try to figure out ways to make them stop thinking about me in this way. Please help me, I would really appreciate it thanks!

I want to get my boyfriend and his father something very special for christmas my boyfriend lost a little brother at 8 weeks old and he still never forgets him I would like to get him and his dad something very special and personalized that they would never forget. So if anyone has any ideas please let me know

Im 16, its summer and i hate my life, my little brother tells on me for the stupidest little things and i get into huge trouble for it. I need some distance from my parents, they are completely unreasonable and im sick of it. I want to leave for a bit. We have about 5 acres of forest on our property, maybe i can find a way to live back there? I want to leave and come back in a week, what do i need to do to prepare for living in the woods in a tent?

Every so often me and my older brother spend time with our Aunt and her daughters and for the most part it's great. She's often really nice, loves shopping and is really girly but often she is doing everything to ensure my brother is happy. Me and the girls usually go out and do our own thing while she is being all nice to my brother. She's given him a job and often takes him on business trips to a different country for a few days. She always showers me and her daughters with gifts but much of her attention goes towards him. I never receive too much cuddles but she's always a lot closer to my brother and it annoys me. She rarely kisses me on the lips or is as warm with me. I'm always being told how beautiful I am but she treats my brother like a king. Should I talk to her about this?

My little brother is 8 and im 16 and we cannot get along. Its almost as if he is out to get me. Ive seen how some people treat their little brothers, same age difference as me with my friend, he threw an apple at his little brother real hard and pegged him right in the crotch and he laughed it off, now if i did that to my 8 year old brother he would be on the ground in an instant crying, then calling and telling on me in the next second. I am getting to the point where i never want to interact with my little brother again, because any interaction turns into bad, and he is ruining my life, it is literally falling apart because he has to tell on me for making him do a job that my dad called me and told me to tell him to do it, then he calls after i get mad at him for not obeying, i dont hit him or anything, and he calls and gets me in trouble. My parents treat him like a ******* angel. He bit me and made me bleed once, aside from hitting scratching and screaming, and that was probably the worst thing hes done. And my parents didnt bat an eye, they just punished us both barely, me more so. All they did was ground us for 2 days and thats ridiculous because i lost so much more than he did in those days. Im so done with it, im thinking about packing my things and living in the woods for a bit, please help me my life is falling apart.

I'm turning 15 and I want to celebrate my birthday by going to a Korean barbecue or to cheesecake factory then watching Grand Budapest Hotel for free by the waterside. And I already have a nice dress and outfit and everything planned but.... my family isn't exactly nice. My family usually focuses on just themselves, even if we're out celebrating with me. And we always drift apart. My mom tries to be nice but can still be rude or irritating, and my older sister follows in her footsteps by criticizing and being a b****. My brothers are okay but they probably couldn't care less about my birthday, and neither could my stepdad, so I can't really enjoy my day with them. It'll be the usually "I'm on my phone or eating while waiting for it to end". So I doubt I'd wanna go out. But if I look dressed up I guess then they'll appreciate my outfit, and they could pay.. But then again I love my bf but lately he's been a bit too much and I'm getting tired of certain parts of him, and I would enjoy being with him but I don't want a fight or anything... Plus he might not dress up so.. And I could celebrate by myself but I don't want it to run too late or to be alone and everything, especially since my dress is beautiful but a bit mature and I don't like creeps... I just want to have fun, and maybe having someone with me could be good, so who do you think?

I left my family to live with my girlfriend and we lived together for 4 years and were together for 7 years but that all changed a few months ago. The break up took a lot out of me and I'm still struggling to deal with it all especially since she moved out with our 2 year old daughter. My sister has had some problems in her life and at home and we always try to be there for each other. I'm 24 and she's 18 but we're practically best friends and I'd have crumbled without her advice and support. She's been hanging around a lot lately and has really helped and started to pay her way too. I like having my own independence but it feels weird not having anyone to talk or share things with. I miss not having my daughter around. My sister and I never had a father figure and our mother is so career driven. It hasn't been easy for my sis. What should I do?

Okay, so my mom has been acting quite strange for a few years now. She's lately been acting paranoid about EVERYTHING, even claiming that most Americans are born evil and that vaccines administer deadly toxins. (Yet she has threatened to kill me, my dad, and my older brother on several occasions. HOW IS THAT SUPPOSED TO HELP?) Oh, and she abuses the 911 hotline, basically threatening to use it whenever she's really angry at someone. The police have actually come on several occasions, but they've been unable to help. Sometimes when she uses the computer, my mom starts yelling at the screen, oblivious to the fact that whatever she's watching is ON A SCREEN, and worst of all, she snickers to herself, even when she's not on the computer. I've noticed that she also tends to snicker after she argues with someone, which makes me assume that she's pulling some sadistic prank. It's like she's talking to her inner demons. But the biggest doozy of all comes from the fact that she DOES NOT LISTEN. Anyone who responds to this will likely tell me to take her to a counselor or a mental doctor, but the thing is, she refuses to play second fiddle to anybody. Although she doesn't admit to it, due to her infinitely stubborn personality, my mom acts like she's an omnipotent deity, forcing people to think like her. I'm about to hit the word limit, so that's all I can say. Please, PLEASE help. Thanks. Every bit counts.

I'm 15 and the brat is 10. He constantly annoys me. Not just because he's ten and my brother, he annoys everyone. He's just not very good to be around. When he drives me to the point where I snap at him He just has some smart @ss thing to say, which pisses me of more. Sometimes I'll shove or hit him, but not hard enough for it to actually hurt and he just acts all tough about it. I told him in 3 years I'll be out of here and won't see him again and he just said okay. I told my dad I can't deal with him anymore and he just acts all depressed and tries to guilt trip me even though I'm the victim. My mom won't care because she likes him more. I find that I have headaches a couple times a week because of him. My parents don't live together so I was thinking about suggesting I go with my dad while my brother is at my moms and then I'll switch places with him. I don't even care about him anymore. Does anyone have any suggestions of how I can deal with him? I'm not very happy anymore because of him and I'm very stressed out. I don't want to hear "you're a stupid kid at stupid kids fight he's your brother you love him and this is a faze". Because we used to fight, now I just hate him. I don't want to be affiliated with him in any way. I feel like screaming and pulling my hair out

I hit a parked car and drove away. There was a very small nick on the car I could barely see even though I was right next to it. I drove away but my guilt got the better of me and I drove back to leave a note. The pen was out of ink and I couldn t right anything. Then I got some water and a towel and was ablle to make the tiny nick even smaller but if u were close and loved ur car u could probably see it. There was cameras and so now I m freaking out wondering what to do. My mom acts like it is fine but I m one of those kids that freaked the hell when I copied someone hw. I just want a second opinion on the matter because my mom just didn t care. Do u hunk I ll get caught? *do u think I will get caught?

My mom has been seeing this dude not even a month and is stupid for him😟 the first time I met him he was calling me beautiful and kept saying that and I felt awkward about that but I let it slide second time I saw him he was staring at me saying I look good and I also ignored that my mom and her boyfriend went on a trip with me and all my siblings he kept looking at me telling me to sing for him and when my mom left to go take my niece to the bathroom he started to touch my hair and play with it I pulled away and gave him a dirty look he again started to play with my hair my brother saw him doing that and ask why is he doing that he said my curls are bouncing then we went swimming my mom left to go to the bathroom he was swimming way too close to me and he try to make me take a shot of tequila and I said no i don t drink I m 17 I told my mom this the second day back from the trip twice she ignores it my brothers told her she ignores I made a big deal about it and told her she asked him did you touch my daughters hair impropriety he just said it s not worth the trouble seeing each other anymore not answering her question she was blaming the break up on me and called me petty she then left the house to go to his house we all know what happened next how am I supposed to deal with thid

I currently have a 6 month year old daughter. The father left and cheated when I was 6 months pregnant took off for a year. He didn't go to our daughters birth or helped with anything. Now I have a wonderful 24 yr boyfriend who loves and cherries my daughter. I recently filed child support and out of the blue my ex shows up at 2am wanting to see our daughter saying he still cares and loves me. I was upset but my mother likes to take control and be in my business. I tried to explain to her to let me handle things and talk to him but she let him see our daughter and held her. I'm 22 years old and father is 18 I know bad but What does he want? Should I let him see our daughter?

I'm 14 years old. Turning 15 in approximately 3-4 months (January 10). So when I turn 15 I will only have about 3 years left to live with my mom, dad, brother and sister! I plan on moving out when I'm 18, but have no idea if I'm going to be living alone or not. By that I mean, I do not know if I should move in with my girlfriend (if I have one) or wait until marriage. How will all this stuff work out?? Is it scary living alone???

My parents divorced back when I was 11. My mom got custodyof my brother and I. We went to live with my grandmother since my mom had no one in the previous State that we lived in. My grandmother was nice and loving up until I entered 9th grade. 9th grade was when I was diagnosed with clinical depression after everything my father put us through. Over the years she slowly got worse. She wouldn't let me have friends in the house, and if I did have someone over she would kick them out even when I had my mother's permission. I'm now a Sophomore in college only part time and working full time as a Preschool Teacher. The past 2 years things have almost gotten physical between me and her. She takes the lowest jabs at me.. saying my father didn't raise me right, or my mother deserved when my father hit her and cheated on her, etc. She has almost pushed me down the stairs multiple times. She gets in my face and attempts to put her hands on me. I don't ever bother her. I sleep, eat, shower, go to work, go to school and repeat. When I cook I clean up after myself. I use to do alot of things around the house for her too but I just don't ever have the time to and then she's only ever nice now when she wants something. She calls me a disgusting stupid ***** and a piece of ****. She says college is stupid. I've tried getting help from my uncles but they won't do anything. Neither will my mom. My mom always says "I'm not getting in the middle of it." I don't know what to do anymore.

Well if u read the first part that's how I have a baby I lost my home at 13 lost the vehicle and family abandoned us. Lost my dog about a year later. I haven't had a home for 6 years I haven't had a apt in 3 I just rent a room have no job no life can't do much I tried going to college but I need a hs diploma first I'm almost there but idk I just hope people find this and pray that I can goto college and get a job for me and my baby. Because we don't have anyone but each other.and it's alot of work with no mo en car or time. So please just pray for me

So my mothers brother died many years ago. She used to always listen to the voicemails he had sent her on the voice machine but about 5 years ago she deleted them by mistake. Ever since then she has longed for them back. Is there any record somewhere? Anyway I could get them back after all these years? Thank you.

My birthday is coming up and I'm turning 15. I got to do a lot of things myself and visit lots of places in the city to explore and work my own job. I have money saved up from two years, about 270 dollars. I already have a nice cute dress (it's also a bit mature for my age and if I go out by myself there's the fear of some creeps at night being urged and everything) and I want to go to this Korean Barbecue place and watch a free movie viewing of Grand Budapest Hotel by the waterside. It would be nice. But my family is... not so nice. My mother is constantly complaining or mocking cruelly, my stepdad is distant, my sister is basically a b*tch and criticizes me/

when I was probably 10 years old, (i'm a girl) I saw some movie of this couple making out. I guess I was imitating or wanted to do what was done in the movie, so when I hung out with my cousin once, who is 4 or 5 years younger, I started kissing her. I'm pretty sure she told her dad and I don't think it ever happened again, but now being 17, i feel horrible and disgusted with myself. I don't know why I did it and i wish I could take it back because she was so young and we never had any other problems growing up and it was never talked about and we are close, but it still haunts me from time to time and I feel so bad.

I found on his YouTube history some videos involving medical examinations of women's private parts. Is it possible he's thinking of becoming a doctor?

Growing up with my aunt was something of a mixed package in terms of the way she treated me. On one hand she was loving to me, on the other she would be blunt at best and rude at worst. Much of her vitriol has been extended towards my mother who she claims is uncultured due to her upbringing (she has stated this both, to, and in front of me on multiple occasions). By doing this, I believe she has no respect for me by extention. Recently she has come to our area for an extended visit and my family are adament that I see her because it would be in ill form not to (it is cultural, for them), yet whenever I think about all the things she has said to my mother (she has also made it clear to me that she has very little respect for her, additionally she has told me that she doesn't wan't me to turn out like my father) I feel inclined not to go. I know this sounds like I am blowing things out of proportion and being as crybaby, but I just wanted to know your opinions on things. She is my paternal aunt. She and other members of my father's side of the family have made it clear on multiple occasions that they disapproved of my father's marriage to my mother and many times, have not been courteous towards her

I'm 15, and i live with my parents still. This sucks, because my parents sleep in the room next to mine, so i feel like everyone always hears what i'm doing. This is even worse when i try to masturbate, even though i do it at night. I get so pissed sometimes because i wish i could just live on my own and not have to see other people all the time. I just want to be alone sometimes.

Hi, I am 15. My parents are disgusted I am not getting a job they chose for me, they say I will no money from them or my grandma. I will get no nice clothes or shoes anymore. I am 15 going into my last year of school, I don't really want to spend my only two days free a week working when I will have lots of work to do for my exams. Is this unfair? Thank you

I really can't I'm only fourteen and I want to move out!! My mother my mother is always loud, and screams at my brother and sometimes me. She treats me like I'm 6 one minute than she treats me like I'm 18 the next I honestly hate this the most. She also never gets out much and gives terrible advice about things she should probably not be giving out advice for. She repeatedly asks me questions I've already answered and just doesn't get what I say. Sometimes her just not getting it is funny sometimes it's annoying as hell! And I really don't like that she depends on our father for all the money she probably should start trying to get a job instead of making excuses for working. My brother is always complianing and constantly at home in his room playing on his computer watching YouTube. Playing on your computer and watching tv relaxing is all well and good until that's literally all you do!!! He's nineteen years old for crists sake!!! He still lives with us he isn't going to school seriously he is in a constant state of angry at the world and he does absolutely nothing to help pay bills, or clean or go any length to help out. He leaves his room to do something every 3 days it seems he is a complete jerk to my mom and I and utterly useless. My dad and I never saw eye to eye I feel distant to him and i feel bad for him but I also really feel bad for him he never does anything for himself I love them but i hate them

I was you know in my room which happens to have windows even on my door so...my room is also very close to my parents, so when I walked out of my room mum was staring at me asking what I was doin...I just stood there and looked at her disgusted expression. Then she said she should put a curtain to cover the windows on my door, which was very...suspicious I guess. Than when she actually put the curtains I went on the kitchen to get myself a banana and I was waiting for her to place the curtains and when she looked at me, she had a disgusted expression on my face and I was panicking inside, then she laughed and I entered my room. What if she saw me through the window??? I had a blanket on me, so if she asked me what I was doing what excuses can I come up with? Do you think they saw me? Btw I'm a 15 yrs old girl I meant on her face not mine sorry I'm panicking.

Hey guys long story short, I put in a 12 hr shift yesterday and waited 2 hours after work before being forced to walk 4 miles to my house because my parents forgot about me. I'm exhausted today because I got home at 1 am and have to be at work at 11:30. I want to call in, but my parents said I can't. So now I'm pissed. Should I just call in?

So from the very first day the teacher finds me annoying because I dared to voice my opinion about a question he asked, I did it very politely and he just rejected to discuss on it more hence ignoring me. I am the Class Representative & the topper of the class, each and every teacher treats me well & helps me. Now WTF is wrong with this guy, he is our class teacher & so far he is all time pointing my mistakes & ignoring me. Even he never sent me to any management meeting as CR thus trying to keep me back and giving chance to less deserved guys repeatedly. He even blames me for nothing like " I bunked the college from middle & ran away however I was present in the college with proof in attendance register. Even after all this stuff I treat him with respect from my heart & every-time I approach him. My hands and head is always low. ABOUT THE TEACHER : Self proclaimed genius, thinks he knows it all & never accepts anything new. This guy has ****** my mind & I really don't know what to do ? I can't take any harsh steps as our college is autonomus & he can target me by not giving appropriate internal marks. NOTE: Everything above is totally away from emotions, it is fact don't underestimate that I just blew all my emotions to make the whole description against him. I wrote everything thinking from a 3rd guy's perspective.

So let me start here: I am an 18 year old (youngest child). I still live at home because I have autism (nothing severe) But about a year ago, I discovered that my mother has been smoking pot (we're in WA, it's legal) and it really bothers me. I don't care about anyone else, but when it's her it just bothers me, because when I was younger I had a bad dream similar to this. I know everytime she does it because I have a nose like a hound dog, and can smell it from a mile away. How can I ask her to stop? I've already confronted her about it, and asked previously when I first found out, but she just got mad at me and said it's her life, not mine, and how she should have freedom in her own house. It just really bothers me. This morning specifically, I happened to wake up around 7AM, and when I went upstairs (main level of the house) I could smell it. AT 7 IN THE MORNING. She's also been a terrific mother who does anything for her kids, I should add.

My daughter has been telling me this for a long time but only now it worries mebecause her grades are not good even though she tries hard to get good grades. Even as a child she used to tell me all these things but I used to think that she would grow out of it. She is 16 years old now, She always gets a bad headache when she reads. I got her glasses even though she can see fine without them since her tutors always told me that she misses out words while reading. She's very talented though. I also noticed that she's slow to do things. Especially number related things. Till now she relies on her fingers and cannot do mental math even with small numbers like 26+12 . I can see that this causes her stress since my traditional husband hits her and shouts at her for small mistakes and scolds her for being slow. People think that she's bright and it pressures her. Her tutors have also told me that she's lazy, careless or has a behaviour problem and that she is not putting enough effort in the things she do when I can see her work so hard. The thing is I never saw it as a problem before since she's not behind enough in class although her grades are very inconsistent sometimes she gets F's but sometimes she manages a B and occasionally an A which surprises me since that is a very huge gap.

My father is most definitely a narcissist. He's unsupportive, abusive, distant, and all about me me me. Only his opinions count, no one can do anything without his "permission" (I can't even go out with my mom without asking) He's also incredibly controlling. I'm turning 18 tomorrow and whenever I make that point, that I'm legally an adult, he just scoffs. Well I'm done, I'm just wondering what the best course of action is at this point. I have a job secured and I'm going to move out in the next year or two. I've been deprived of interacting with others and experiencing the world normally for years, so I don't think I'm ready to do that now. Is it worth trying to just tell him to leave? I fear he may become violent or make us feel guilty. What is the safest way to go about dealing with this? I know I need to cut him off, but I can't stand waiting until I'm ready to go. Will telling him off work? If anyone's ever dealt with this, sharing your experiences may help a lot. Thanks

I also moved to California for a job, and she lives in Miami.

My mom has always been emotionally abusive towards me, she used to hit me a lot when I was younger but she hasn't done that in like three years. Lately, she has been getting worse, she always screams at me and one time she even straight up said I was ugly to which I replied "mom that hurt my feelings" but she of course turned it around and acted like she was the victim like she always does. Today was the last straw when she said that if I didn't clean the house she would stop feeding me. I really can't live with her anymore. I have so many problems because of her and would rather hurt myself than live with her. So, is this enough to call CPS and get custody taken away from her?

Both of my siblings, who are now out of college and working, told me they don't like them as well. My parents are both really antisocial, and I'm a very social person, but I can't talk to either of them like I'm having a normal human conversation. My dad's normal conversation is him basically interviewing you and then he doesn't even care about your answers. If I try to talk to my mom we end up arguing and she always ends the argument, even if I'm right, claiming the topic is stupid or that she absolutely WON'T look it up cause she KNOWS she's right. My home always feels like a high stress environment, I never feel like I can talk about my feelings, all my mom does is complain about her decent, high-paid job and all her co workers and how terrible our decent-sized house is and how she's the only one working around the house, when I was alone all day and cleaned the kitchen and vacuumed the living room, hoping they would notice me. I usually gulp down my dinner and bolt to my room because all the conversation is her complaining and me trying to lighten up the mood. I feel trapped and lonely and sometimes I go on walks around the town just to escape them. Is this "typical teenage rebellion" or can I dislike my parents without being a stereotype?

About a year ago, my parents got my brother an iPad. He plays with it every day, but not on games like a normal kid. He spends all of his time on YouTube! He'll watch hours of it every day, up to eight hours or more. He wakes up at five in the morning to play YouTube, and doesn't even eat breakfast. He won't come to the table to eat lunch or dinner, and when he does, he brings his iPad with him. If we have to go to a doctor or relatives house, he panics until he gets the wifi password, and if the Internet goes out, I have literally seen him get anxiety attacks. We can't go anywhere where there's no Internet because of him, and my parents don't want to do anything about it. I'm not old enough to drive, and I need to go places! Any advice?

My life is such a major fuckup and I don't know what to do anymore. Everyone treats me like a child. For example, at school, I go to a K-8 school, and we still have assemblies, recess, and have learning programs that that are mostly child-themed (like Dreambox, Typing Agent) I'm also treated like a child by my parents. My parents won't let me have a cell phone or social media, go out outside my own street in the neighbourhood, use the computer unsupervised, check up on me when I'm in a PUBLIC BATHROOM (It's really embarrassing), and are basically overprotective. Whenever I try to grow up and be mature, for some reason life won't allow it, and I'm always pushed back down. No wonder why everyone wonders I'm so immature and irresponsible. I also never listen for some reason. I'm always trapped in my mind, thinking about the things I like, daydreaming, and I'm never listening. I don't know why I do this. For some reason I never heed advice from anyone. I once had a counselor to give me advice on life, but I never heeded advice from her for some reason, and my mom was paying her too much, so she pulled me away from her. (extending in updates) For some reason I always fight with my little brother. He's 7. Every little thing he does for some reason annoys me. I can't tolerate his singing, copying, anything from him. He never listens to me. Yet I still don't know why I continue to bully him. I don't know HOW to be the big brother for some reason. And also for some reason, I feel the need to get physical with him. And I can't help this for some reason. And I always end up getting into trouble. For example, yesterday, at the pool,my little brother kept spraying cold water in my face, and I got sick and tired of it. So I pushed him under the water (PUSHED, not HELD), and then when he resurfaced, he started crying, told my mom, and she grounded me form the computer for the rest of the week. (I'm not even supposed to be on here right now) And I HATE myself for this I also live in a country (the U.S.) where the government is corrupt, there's constantly questions on here about cons and libs, the education system sucks (Seriously, they've dumbed down the standard to a 50% passing grade! WTF?!?? And I can't move out yet.), and other things. I've recently been wrongly banned from a Minecraft server for 30 days because it said I was fly hacking. I've filled out an appeal for the unfair ban only to get it rejected. The worst part is, I have an account on that server, and I wanted to be a moderator on it. But my punishment is a severe one, and I can't apply for 5 months. FUСKING GREAT. Now I'll have to wait until November. And I also feel like I have a subconscious that's in some way, and some HOW, preventing me from WANTING me to get better, or, preventing me from WANTING to get along with my little brother, or, basically preventing me form doing a lot of things. My life is such a failure, and now I feel like DYING. If things are constantly going to be this way, then I just don't want to live like this anymore. I've already started self-harming, but instead of cutting my arms like everyone else does, I bang my head against walls and I take burning hot showers. But it hurts so good. The day that I pushed my little brother under the water and got grounded, I took a burning hot shower, and banged my head against the wall 25 times. 5 times for my front, back, sides, and top of my head. Now I feel like I've killed some of my brain cells. I also have Asperger's syndrome. What do I do? Oh yeah, and any rude/mean/hurtful comments will result in a blocking. (End of updates.)

So basically 2 years ago my parents caught me smoking. They are VERY anti drugs. Since then my mom has become more cool with it but my dad is not at all. This summer i've been blazing basically everyday and i've become super careless with it. The other day my dad came in my room and a towel was under the door, the window was open and my room smelt like incense and that was the last straw for him. He told me I dress like a stoner and he's sketched out by some of my friends. I told him I wasn't doing anything but he doesn't trust me. He said if he officially found out I was doing anything he would sned me to boarding school and basically ruin my life. I'm really stressing what do I do

I am a 22 year old female from Cape Town and I have a four month old son.I fell pregnant and I never wanted a child.I love him but life sucks I am sad everyday.I hate my life.Some days Im okay but then Im not and I think about giving my son up for adoption.But it will be like that when you have a child you never wanted.I dont have an education my mother took me out of school in grade 7.So Im probably never going to find a job.So my mom supports my child which I hate because she such a bitchy person.She always throws in my face that she supports him and that I must get a job yet I have no education because of her.How am I supposed to get one?I just want to be able to do what I want and go out when I want and not have to stay at home everyday because I have a child to look after.I really dont know what to do?

So my parents got into the biggest fight last night. They were screaming at the top of their lungs and throwing things everywhere. My older brother James had to hold back my mom (Greisy.) my other mom (anmo) packed over night things and stormed out yelling. Greisy then went in her office and sat down and stayed there. Me and my brothers were so scared at this point. Then in like an hour I texted my mom Anmo and she said she was alright but not coming home tonight. I then realized greisy was packing EVERYTHING she has in the house. Her office supplies clothes things from her bedroom and even the dog. She just said stay put Anmo will be home soon. Then she left us. I told Anmo what happened and she called me sobbing and she can t breath and now she is driving home. She came in the door crying and went into her room. Me and my brothers went with her and she is sobbing can t breath saying I m so sorry I m so stupid it s all my fault I m so sorry where did she go she is never come back, etc. this was so hard so the rest of the night she s just crying and I m staying with her and she calls greisy and from what Anmo told me, greisy said it s easier to be without her than with her. They have been married 10 years very happily with some fights. This is so unexpected it feels unlreal please help me!

My cousin is just pissing me off so much because she is always complaining and following me everywhere and trying to flirt with my other cousin that I am so much into him in really stupid and Annoying way .

I'm here in my I don't know what to do with her. I'm 23 and she's my sister but I am basically her parent. If I take away her laptop she will hate me. She threw a plastic toy (pet shop) at me when I told her to behave and I am just at my wits end with her. Help me.

I'm 16, mom & her friends (elana & Dona) instruct Dance everyday. We have a very close family bond. I'm really close with Dona, she always supports me, I love her a lot, we have a special bond.. Recently Dona got madbecause she couldn't get the dance moves as quick as mom & elana; so she got mad at elana, Dona now feels she doesn't deserve to be on stage. She hasn't come to Dance in 5weeks, she's over exaggerating, we love her so much & have tried everything for her to come back but she's not. 4 days ago I texted her "wanted to say I love & miss u so much! Been thinking about you, I hope your doing great!" She put "aww I love you & miss you too!😘😘😘" (I know she's serious when she says that because she's a very serious, hardly shows emotion kinda lady, who Is very straight up!) today she wasn't on my Facebook anymore, turns out she blocked me, mom & Elena. Why'd she block me?? Anyway, today I texted her saying how much I missed her & love her, how I miss her always (playfully) yelling at me & waving at me, how I hope she's doing good & im always thinking of her. She put "I miss you more! I hope everything's going good for u, looks like ur going to have to find someone else to take my place.. always remember Hun that no matter how hard things get, always be the best, most positive person u can be!😘😘😘" I said "no one will ever take ur place! u will always hold a special place in my heart" do u think she thought it was weird? do you think she hates me, since she blocked me?

So I can't handle the stress life at my house so my friend is offering me to live with her. It's like a 5 minute drive from my actual home. And I will check in a few times a week. I told my mom that. I do great in school, I get good grades, I attend. I'm very mature and independent, always have been. I'm going to be taking classes at the community college next summer. I just can't live at my house for the stress factor.

I don't know what I'm having but I wasn't an Arabic name to match her story. she was going to be aborted (killed) but I thought to the Qur'an and my heart couldn't so it. was any man and woman's life spared in quran

So.. Basically my dad left when I was a year old, due to complications between him and my mom. He came back into my life around the age of three or four. And for a while I was seeing him every weekend, then every other weekend, then not at all. And I rarely hear from him. Maybe, and I stress that word maybe, a handful of times. I see him maybe once or twice in a year. In my memory he's never called on my birthday or even to check up every once in a while. I've been a year+ without hearing from him. Actually the only time he's checked up on me this past year was to ask if I stole a bottle of crown royal from my grandparents, and I saw him on my graduation (there was no "good job, son" or even "good luck with the rest of your life"). Uh, well today I was reading something and it reminded me of him. And for the past few hours I've been reciting what I'd say to him. What I'd ask him.. But I don't know if I should even try to contact him.. I don't know if I really want to. I mean, I'm 18 now and I've had a cellphone since the age of 12 and this man has always had my number but he's never called to ask if I was doing okay or anything of that nature. I mean hell, I went into a psych ward because I was baker acted and he didn't call, it was his wife that called. Which is an amazing woman, and they have three kids and he treats them all great. I just don't understand why he can't try with me. The only thing I can think is that maybe he's afraid but that's such a bullsh!t excuse. Mother's not the reason he's kept his distance. If anything she's tried very hard to promote a relationship between me and him.

My boyfriend being 21 and me being 18. He s the first I ve been for this long. We re both in college, this is actually my second year in college and his third. I ve always had the idea of waiting for sex till marriage (what my parents had always told me to do) but for someone reason I decided to just do it. My fright of losing my virginity was about doing it with someone I knew I d break up a couple of months after but since I know my boyfriend loves me without a single doubt I decided to have my first time with him. He waited a year and 4 months for this. He NEVER pressured me, or talked me into it. He said he respected my choice of waiting so everything we did was on me. I didn t feel pressured, I know what I was doing, I wanted to do it so I did. Last night the cleaning lady decided to clean my room and found some condoms and showed them to my mom (both her and my mom go to the same church) my mom called me over and gave me a big talk about how I ruined her reputation in church, how I was a disgrace and how I curses and filled the house with sin and how all the family is going to pay the price of my actions. She started crying so much and when my aunt tried to calm her down all she did was push her away and say how everyone made mistakes but her little girl couldn t? She doesn t want me to be with my boyfriend anymore or even hang out with my friends. I m in college fcs. I m not one who talks back at my parents, ever so I can t even defend myself, dunno if I even have the right to. My boyfriend wants to talk to them and tell them how sorry he is and how he loves me, but I told him not to since it won t be no use and it probably would make things worse. I assume they won t let me go out anymore and if they where very protective of my now I ll feel like an endangered species. I m not going to break up with the only guy I have gotten to trust and love this much. What can I do?

Anytime I bring up something they turn it around on me and make excuses and make it my fault . Why don't they just apoligize ?

His brother and his four kids and we are staying combined. His wife has gone to bangkok to work leaving all the four kids here. The kids are whole day in my room and i have no privacy at all. I have my 6 month old kid as well. So the kids are in my room till late midnight and i cant do any private stuff i want to do because of the kids. if i tell the kids nicely to go my husband stops me. Last night he had to feed one of his brother s kid it became untill midnight and i had to sleep late last night My hubby taken me and kid from my mum place at 10:15 pm after a long day at work then took out to buy food wen i reached home it was 10:45pm as i entered the room his bro's kids and mother in law came in my room and waited till late 11:45pm and then he fed his bro's kid it became 12:30am. I told my hubby that i am tired and we shuold sleep early he is saying no his brother's kid can be in the room. my hubby does not take care of the baby at night i have to take care of baby and feed. My hubby does not understand or feel how tired i get and i want my privacy and peace of mind. But instead he feels for his bro. His bro is nicely sleeping in his room and my hubby feeding his kid in my room and i cant change my clothes or sleep early because the bro kid in my room. HIs brother is jobless and sitting at home. my hubby is supporting him with money. if i ask him for money he says u pay yourself. once in 3-5 months he gives me some money. that also he tells me you are beggar. My mother in law is a bad person herself she knows and still manipulates my husbands mind and has now made him totally against me. i dont want to leave my husband but just want to stay separate with him but my husband does not want to stay separate and expects me to say yes to all his demands of his, his bro, kids and mil. Whether i am happy or not none of them are concerned. if i say no to his demands he raises hands on me. i just told him that the kids should not be so late in my room as i am not free to do my stuff. i had the baby feeder in my hand and after washing the feeder i just sprinkled the remaining water on the floor so my husband in anger threw the feeder on the ground. should i tolerate such a behavior from him and my in laws and live there without any self respect. Don't i have a right to live my life my way. we have attach bathroom in our room. so one day when i went to take bath my husband forced me to keep my clothes and towel in the room n go in the bathroom. i said ok. but as i was having bath he had brought his brothers kids in the room i came out from the bathroom thinking my husband knows that i am naked but i was wrong he has no respect for me at all.

I have 3 brothers and 1 sister. Me and my brothers and mom get SSI checks due to variety of reasons. However, I'm the eldest (22 yr old female), and I have a job online. I work at home. I work hard for money, and I never get the chance to spend money on myself or save money because I'm spending It on food and bills. Food I barely get because my brothers eats or takes It all. When I work hard to get money, they sit back, buy video games with their money, play video-games and complain while I making money to put food on their plate that will disappear from the freezer and the refrigerator within two days. When I study for my license, and get my license, It's not fair (according to them) because they don't have their license. Yet, they didn't wanted to take out the time to study for their license when I studied. When one of my brothers or my mother has a girlfriend or boyfriend, It's not fair to my 19 yr old brother because my brother doesn't have a girlfriend. He would complain about It's not fair and that the ones who has boyfriends and girlfriends is being cocky by talking about who they love or like. If I was to move out because I worked hard and saved money to move, It's not fair to my brothers or sister because I worked hard and spent "my time" studying while they were wasting time on pointless things: like wanting sex, fast food, or just sitting and complaining.

Im a 15 year old girl and i hate spending time with my family , i live in a small house with 14 people , 7 in the first floor and 7 in the secend . All they talk about is kids and how they can fix the house . The problem is that the other (2 familys) are downstairs everyday twise a day , its like they dont have thir own livving room .

Hi im a 16 years old guy i have a bother and 2 sisters and im the youngest sibling. My dad loves us all but lately he has been insulting me whenever he gets a chance (for no reason). Yesterday i was just roaming around in my house and my dad got mad and told me to sit down, if i go to bed late he'll get mad, if i go to bed early he'll still get mad. I got straight A's this yea and I respect and love him a lot and I know he loves me too...does he think its funny to insult me?? Or is he trying to communicate??? I treat people the way they treat me but he's my dad...if he keeps insulting me 24/7 I will treat him the same way after about 20 years. I can't stand bullsh'it. Now whenever hes home I just sit in my room..and he gets mad and if i come out he'll start insulting me...What did I do?? and its been like 10 months since he started doing this..