Marriage & Divorce: Question: Does a mother need a reason to want her children home? |
- Question: Does a mother need a reason to want her children home?
- Question: Does anybody in today's society really take marital vows seriously anymore? Never cheating and never hating their spouses?
- Question: My husband is my only friend?
- Question: Did Naomi know Jordan was cheating in wolf of wall street?
- Question: I My wife has become a complete battle axe. Last night during sex she punched me as i climaxed now i cant pee straight..do i divorce her?
- Question: Why do I love G dragon so much?
- Question: Should I tell my mom I think my dad is having an affair?
- Question: Parents are getting divorced after 26 years... How do I cope?
- Question: Feel like I'm in a one sided relationship. I love him and don't want to leave. Is there anyway to fix this?
- Question: My parents are in their late sixties. I am 37, a single woman. They are living with me in my 1 BR apartment. I hate it. What should I do ?
- Question: My brother passed away leaving a wife and six children. When our parents die can she (my brother's wife) inherit part of our inheritance?
- Question: Can you please help me? I wanted to marry my cousin but now I just found out that my dad has been having sex with her...do u know what to do?
- Question: If you weren't married, would you have an abortion?
- Question: FOR WOMEN ONLY.....Does it bother you when your man watches porn?
- Question: Have you ever seen a couple break up/divorce over verbal abuse?
- Question: Am I just being used to get permanent residency?
- Question: Weightloss question?? possible drugs. custody battle?
- Question: My husband and I are separated, living in different houses and I am seeing someone.?
- Question: My husband doesn't have nothing to do with me because of my life and he can't stand being around me so he goes to his parents house?
- Question: How do you address the parents of your wife/husband?
- Question: My wife **** someone I know . I what too kill her help?
- Question: Why do white women take their husbands last name ? This seems very bizarre to me can someone explain it to me ?
- Question: Why would he do this?
- Question: What advice would you give a newly married woman ? (first marriage)?
- Question: Caught my separated wife talking to another married man at 2:00 am? What does anyone think about this?
- Question: What do I do if I can t seem to trust or get along with my husband family because the other baby momma is more welcomed ? Etc?
- Question: Divorce abroad?
- Question: Is it bad for a man in his 20s to marry his first gf?
- Question: My wife is talking to ex husband about been him and she say am check for stuff to fuss about she say we got bigger thing then that?
- Question: Strugglimg with working different shifts as spouse and need advice?
- Question: My husband left me for another woman.?
- Question: I got pregnant by my ex husband. Why isn't he divorcing his new wife to marry me again?
- Question: What do u do when all u do is try to make your husband happy?
- Question: Why would it work for my wife s sister, and not for my wife?
- Question: How do I warn the next victim of a Narcisst/ womanizer/sociopath that she is in for a world of hurt?
- Question: How does cooking for your husband devalues you as a woman?
- Question: You and your spouse finances?
- Question: Feeling neglected now that baby is born?
- Question: What does my husband mean?
- Question: What does my husband mean?
- Question: Every time my husband corrects me, that u r wrong even though in case of my child?
- Question: Is it normal for young married couple to sex only 4 times a year?
- Question: I' sri lankan, i want to marry a tunisian women, how can i marry her? what i want to do for it?
- Question: Is it unreasonable to not marry a girl if she is unwilling to take your last name and that is important to you (tradition)?
- Question: Love marriage or Arranged marriage?
- Question: Pregnant wife left me?
- Question: The way she speaks to me?
- Question: I am twenty years old my husband thirty-six we are a gay couple and live each other would this be a problem for you sixteen years difference?
- Question: What are the chances of abusive husband changing?
- Question: Is my husband's bizarre behavior something to be concerned about?
- Question: I m in love with a married man (yes I know) I m married too and not sure what to do . We meet up twice a week what do I do?
- Question: How many years old girl should be married ?
- Question: Which the best place for Married ?
- Question: My husband never called to tell me he made it there safe?
- Question: Is there any couple out there that wants to video chat with me and my wife sexuly on Skype?
- Question: I love to touch my husbands butt. IS THIS NORMAL?
- Question: Why ex should be an ex ?Is there any law that breaks this rule?
- Question: Why my wife has seemed to become uninterested in sex with me?
- Question: I moved from a country to the usa and was married in the country where i lived can i get married to someone else in the usa?
- Question: Would it help my fiance get joint custody if we were married? They were not married when child was born?
| Question: Does a mother need a reason to want her children home? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 09:37 PM PDT Just a simple question. Long story short...we were moving and my SIL (who I have had problems with in the past) asked my HUSBAND, not me also...if our daughter could spend a WEEK at her house so her daughters and my daughters could play. I tried to compromise with my husband because I did not like the idea of my daughter being away from us that long. I said she can sleep over for a night, and we got into a huge argument over it that I gave in to my husband and allowed her to go. But after the second night, I wanted her home. So I texted my SIL saying that I was gonna pick her up in the morning and she responded with, "WHAT? WHY? WE HAVE PLANS? WHY ARE YOU BEING LIKE THIS?" I told her that I just want her home. End of story. And she persisted to fight with me on it and told my child that I was being MEAN for not letting her spend time with her cousins. |
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| Question: My husband is my only friend? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 09:13 PM PDT I love my husband, but he has his groups of guy friends and I have no one. We have 2 kids and don't get out much, so I always want to go somewhere with him and the kids. I wish I just had someone who either has kids also or I could hand out with a couple times a month. I'm in my 30s and I'm thinking someday I'll be really lonely if things don't change. :( |
| Question: Did Naomi know Jordan was cheating in wolf of wall street? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 09:12 PM PDT Remember when she asked about the dominatrix named venice? Im sure she suspected her husband cheated on her but why didnt she try to catch him cheating or get proof? Did naomi turn a blind eye to their husbands affairs as long as the home was tended to, bills are paid, money is in the bank, and he kept his cheating far away from home? they had nannies, chefs, maids, gardeners, security guards, she got to shop all day with his security cards?. I think she didnt want to give up that lavish lifestyle. I think she wasnt working. She was a stay at home mom. |
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| Question: Why do I love G dragon so much? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 08:41 PM PDT Can I marry him? |
| Question: Should I tell my mom I think my dad is having an affair? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 08:39 PM PDT so recently I was on my dads iPad and he gets his messages sent to his phone and his iPad. so these messages started coming up from a lady whom was not my mother. and I looked at them and there were inappropriate messages on there. pictures and more, going back and forth. they have been married a long time so I can t believe he would ever cheat on her and go behind her back with anything. but I m not sure if I should talk to my mom and tell her what I saw or if I should ask my dad. he deleted the messages off of his phone but they still show up on his iPad. |
| Question: Parents are getting divorced after 26 years... How do I cope? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 08:39 PM PDT My parents just told my sister and I about a week ago that they are getting divorced after being married for 26 years. I am 23 years old, and recently engaged to my boyfriend of 4 years. My father cheated on my mom, but they had been unhappy for a while. I guess my question is, how do I cope with this? I am doing my best to face this head on, and hold boundaries with both my mom and dad. I ve been going thought phases of anger, then depression, then mania. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 08:28 PM PDT I've been with him for 8 months will be 9 in a week. I love him, I'm not so sure if he loves me as much as I do but I feel he somewhat cares, I hope so. It took me a while to realize this but I feel this relationship is one sided. In the relationship I feel I'm the only one really giving, making sacrifices to make sure theses still an us in the future. Before we started talking I liked him so much and when he asked me out I swear I was the happiest girl in the world. Now I don't even know how I feel. I do so much for him. He always makes me feel like there's better things he could be doing than being with me. Sometimes it feels like I'm begging him just to spend a little time with me. Few weeks ago he asked me if Id cancel my to hang out with my brother for his birthday just so I could help him with his mom. Yesterday I asked him if he'd help me with something, like cancel what he was doing and he said no. We got into an argument and when we're done I felt like I needed to say sorry and I did. I'm always ready to drop what ever I'm doing for him with him it's an excuse. I love him and want to continue being with him because I don't want to go through moving on because there are a few good memories with him. I don't know is there anyway I could fix this. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 08:11 PM PDT My parents have been pressuring me to get married since I was 24, that's when I finished schools. I shouldn't travel, I shouldn't go out unless they are with me. It's acceptable if I am married and go out with my husband or with his knowledge. They visit me every other year for 5-6 months. While they are living with me, they expect me to take them out and make plans with them every weekend. I have been doing that for years. Now I feel trapped and find myself naming them all sorts of bad names in my mind. I find it hard to smile, laugh or be myself with them being around. And then they reprove me for being all so dull and looking unhappy. I am a hard-working woman, work 9-5 hours and doing well for myself financially. I provide for everything when they live with me. Except my life comes to a standstill when I am living with them. I have cried, tried to tell them that I need personal space, I am a grown woman, I do not need constant watching over. I cannot in straight terms tell them that I do not want to live with them because I know they would find it too offensive. They tell me they are going to die soon and then I will have no one left in the world. I want them happy, healthy, comfortable and I do everything to ensure that they are, except I hate living with them. I am so guilt-ridden and depressed I can not eat well, sleep well and have this constant deep sinking feeling in my heart that all that lies ahead of me in life is grief, sorrow, pain and dealing with death. |
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| Question: If you weren't married, would you have an abortion? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:55 PM PDT If you weren't married, and were in a relationship and got pregnant...would you have an abortion? Would you only consider having the baby if you were 35 - 40 (the age when fertility drops and miscarriages start happening?) People clearly abort when they're not married, because in the suburban area I live in there's not one out-of-wedlock baby. I also think that third parties play a factor in abortions. (Parents, boyfriends, etc pressuring the individual to have an abortion.) |
| Question: FOR WOMEN ONLY.....Does it bother you when your man watches porn? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:42 PM PDT I recently came across a saved website on my husband's phone. Although this is very unlike him, I got so p**sed off, I started sleeping on the couch. We have twins (toddlers) who are into everything. Their favorite gadget to "play" around with is our cell phones. I keep mine out of the way, but my husband just casually leaves his wherever. I'm afraid that one day one of our kids will come across this crap. Although probably too young to understand yet, it's not something they should even be viewing, no matter how they find it. Any thought would be greatly appreciated. |
| Question: Have you ever seen a couple break up/divorce over verbal abuse? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:41 PM PDT I haven't. I have only seen people break up or get divorced when they lose interest in their partner, or one of them cheats, or when domestic violence happens, or when their partner doesn't want to get married, or they have difficult step-children. But I have never, ever, seen a couple break up over verbal abuse. They will stay in that relationship until the first punch is thrown. You see people saying, "There are always warning signs during first few dates that most people will pay attention to." Yeah, they pay attention alright. And if they are compatible with the man or woman they will get into a relationship with them anyway despite the verbal abuse that is already occurring. |
| Question: Am I just being used to get permanent residency? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:15 PM PDT Here's the reader's digest version: we met in October 2012. He passed his phone number to a colleague of mine, but I was hesitant about getting involved for a variety of reasons, but at the insistence of my co-workers, finally gave in and went out him. Fast forward 6 months, and we're married with baby on the way. Fast forward another year, and we've had our second child together. Now there's this thought that just lingers in the back of my mind that he's just using me to get permanent residency status. He's been in the US for 10 years living under the radar, so why now all of a sudden? There's things he's been doing lately that he never did when we first got married. My dad made a comment about how men typically change and are less involved after the second child, which is a possibility. But then again, it was a lot of change very fast, which he seemed more than eager to rush into. Now he's constantly working, weeks upon weeks of 7 days work weeks; lying about when he has to work; constantly on his cell phone; trimming his pubes prior to leaving for work; no longer showing an interest in sex, but every day, there's history on his phone of dirty videos. Other than what I've mentioned, are there other types of warning signs or red flags I should be on the look out for? I've talked to him, and it seems like he's just telling me what I want to hear. |
| Question: Weightloss question?? possible drugs. custody battle? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:09 PM PDT Is it possible for somebody to lose weight just from having a job after not having one for so many years? I know, a weird question right? My husbands ex is fighting him for custody of their daughter. We have custody currently. Im wondering if we should request to have her tested for drugs. We know she smokes weed (we were just there to.pi k child up last weekend and there was a blunt on her front porch and my ex and her used to smoke together when they were together but doesnt anymore)but suspect she does cocaine or crack. Her mom has done it in the past. She was never overly fat, but was chubby. She Then within the last year started working after not working for five years, has gotten fired from three jobs, and has also lost A Lot of weight. But she doesnt do any activities or work out. Is it possible that shes lost a lot of weight just from actually working and doing something or would it be acceptable to have her tested for drugs?? Also, she forgets a lot of things. We will tell her something or the child will and shell forget it within an hour and call back or ask the same questions the next day. Also imagined a conversation that she said my hub and her had about us having the child for certain days when they never did. Doesnt this seem odd? |
| Question: My husband and I are separated, living in different houses and I am seeing someone.? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 06:13 PM PDT My husband and I are separated, living in different houses. We had issues like any couple but were very happy for about 10 years. I suffered the loss of my brother and fell into a depression. He was very supportive during the process but did find someone else to be his rock. After thinking he was in love, not thinking so and me finding out finally, I begged him to stay and he did. We attempted to mend the relationship for a year but it didn t work to include counseling. A year after I found out, I became involved with someone I knew. He made me feel whole again, loved me and brought me out of the depression. He showed me intimacy, affection and was not angry at me all the time. My husband and I separated during this process based on a house sale and, although he does not know about the other person. Presently, I talk to my husband once or twice a week, we text good morning" or "good afternoon" and see each other maybe one a week or biweekly. We live in the same city 30-45 minutes from one another. Its the oddest situation where I know legally I m married, we don t say we are either seeing someone but we aren t going anywhere. Not moving forward together or apart. |
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| Question: How do you address the parents of your wife/husband? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:57 PM PDT Filipino's usually call friends parents by "tita" or "tito" as a sign of respect. I'm sure it goes the same for their girl/boyfriends' parents. Others might say "Mr." and "Mrs."... But I want to know how YOU address them. |
| Question: My wife **** someone I know . I what too kill her help? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:44 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:40 PM PDT I mean a person should have their fathers surname right so why do white women take their husbands last name when they get married |
| Question: Why would he do this? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:36 PM PDT My husband and I are forced apart by the law as there is a no contact order on his part. I can contact him but he can't respond. So I email him things like what's going on at home and with me and I tell him he's gonna be okay and that I support him no matter what. He reads the messages every time. Friends also spot him wearing his wedding ring still. Does this mean there is still hope in getting back together? Thanks, Jill |
| Question: What advice would you give a newly married woman ? (first marriage)? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 03:48 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 02:33 PM PDT I m 20 years and married we have a 4 month old and he has a one year old by another girl they don t like me because of what I don t know we were both raised different his other baby mama is just messing up everything trying to make our lives miserable his mom is rude and thinks that even though I don t get along with her she should still be able to see the baby but should I let her my daughter 4 months I just need answers |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 02:01 PM PDT Hi I m Canadian married to American in Miami last May and I work in Dubai, to make this story short I had to leave her (had very very very strong motive if you are curious) and now I m back in Dubai and I travel a lot and in my plans I m not stopping in the U.S. Soon. My question now, how can I get divorce while I m in Dubai ?! (I m asking her to do it in Miami but not getting any response from her) |
| Question: Is it bad for a man in his 20s to marry his first gf? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 01:34 PM PDT If they connect really well and have been together for a couple years, is that a good enough reason? Usually, men and women have had several relationships before settling down. |
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| Question: Strugglimg with working different shifts as spouse and need advice? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:52 PM PDT I recently got a job that is first shift while my husband has a second shift job. I have anxiety and not being able to see each other except for weekends and a few minutes when he gets home from work if I wake up from sleeping is making me stressed out and want to panic. We also have a child in daycare for several hours of the day where our shifts overlap. Its nice having our child spend less time in daycare and to pay less but im having a hard time. Should my husband take a pay cut and leave his current job for a first shift job. Then our child would be in daycare for at least 8 hours and we would have to pay a lot more which makes me feel guilty. I just dont know what to do and how to not glfeel depressed and anxious about the situation. Any advice would be great from someone who has been in a similar situation. |
| Question: My husband left me for another woman.? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:32 PM PDT My husband left me for another woman. His reason was because he said I was boring and uninterested in threesomes etc.. The woman he is seeing is only 20, without children and more fun/ has similar interests according to my husband. He met her online a few weeks ago and started the affair. I met her and she told me she does not care that we are married, she has no intention on ending there "relationship". We have been together our entire adult lives and are now in our 30s. We have children and until I caught him with her I thought everything was ok. We separated briefly a year ago but went through counseling. since counseling we haven t even had a single argument. This is completely devastating to me and our children, who were there when I found out/saw him with the other woman. It has now been a few weeks and I haven t heard from him, I blocked him online because he posted all kinds of photos of the two of them together for the world to see. I dont know how to feel. Has anyone else ever been through this. How did you get through it. |
| Question: I got pregnant by my ex husband. Why isn't he divorcing his new wife to marry me again? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:27 PM PDT My ex husband and I divorced because he impregnated his mistress. Recently, while his wife was out of town, he got drunk and called me over, and we had sex. I assumed that meant he still loved me. The next morning, he said he regretted it and told me not to tell his wife. He said he was ashamed. He also added that I shouldn't have had sex with him because I knew he was drunk and accused me of taking advantage of him. A few weeks later, I found out I was pregnant. I assumed he would be happy, so I told him and his wife. Instead of being happy, he got angry. His wife cried and ran to her room. He then ran after her and tried to console her instead of being happy with me. He told her sleeping with me was a mistake and that he was drunk. She didn't buy it and is considering divorcing him. I told him he should use that as an opportunity to remarry me and enjoy his new baby. He said he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby. He told me to get an abortion. I don't want an abortion. I want this baby. I also told his seven-year-old son that he will soon have a half sibling, and he was happy. My ex is now mad that I brought his young son into this. He said if I have this baby, he will never see it nor let his son have a relationship with it. He said he'll even try to get out of child support if he can. He is instead doing everything to work things out with his wife. He also added that if she divorces him, he still won't have anything to do with me or the baby. What is his deal? |
| Question: What do u do when all u do is try to make your husband happy? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:26 PM PDT we have 2 beautiful babies, and i know he cant work because he is injured, i never get on him for that, i do all the shopping most of the cooking and take care of the babies he cleans maybbe once or twice a week i take care of all the bills and biusness in the house, but he just finds reasons to be mean, i have even been going to counseling, he has started hoping it would help us. but nothing. we have tryed seperating and living in our own place but my heart hurts too much when he was gone. but now i see it in the babies. how do i deal with this, i just cant take a man for a child any more |
| Question: Why would it work for my wife s sister, and not for my wife? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:23 PM PDT Let me explain, I have been under tremendous stress from work, home (not my wife, I love her), but it has gotten to the point that I have been feeling sick, hallucinating, having nearly constant panic attacks, and chest pains. I heard that grabbing a pair of breast can substantially reduce stress, so I tried it on my wife. I did not notice a decrease in stress, but then we talked to her sister, she was okay with it, and I grabbed one of her breasts, and shortly there after, I went to work. I felt physically better than I have in years. This only lasted for about 36 hours. I don t have the money to see any sort of health professional, nor can I afford insurance, as in the money literally is not there. Why would it work better when grabbing her sister than it would when grabbing my wife? |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 11:02 AM PDT I have known a person or so I thought for a long periods of time. When we met he figured out what my vulnerabilities were and from then on his next targets looked like me, had the same description and everything else. Now is he is marrying this woman who obviously was lonely and has money. By the time I sent her the warning she didn't take heed to it but she doesn't deserve that at all. So how do I send a clear warning? red flag wanting to move too quickly, wanting to meet the family too quickly, false stories, mirroring your vulnerabilities, manipulation, false attention through being clingy......Now this woman is in for a world of hurt and I want to protect her because it is the right thing to do. He goes into the relationship with an exit plan already and will frequently revisit his past victims, but the real supply he marries and it can take years to recover your life afterwards because you were married. How do I warn her? To the person that said how about you stay the hell out it is probably one too so you don't give a **** about who can get hurt. |
| Question: How does cooking for your husband devalues you as a woman? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:50 AM PDT |
| Question: You and your spouse finances? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 10:31 AM PDT My husband and I have separate accounts which is fine. However I haven't been able to work due to surgery and my balance is $30. He's complaining about giving me money to get weekly groceries for OUR children, back to school supplies and new shoes for OUR kids. I'm not spending a dime on myself, I even have a lovely 3 inch skunk stripe running down my head because I can't afford a color or cut. Meanwhile he informs me he's going to look at a boat with "his" money and doesn't think I have a right to be angry. We have 4 kids and with the house now being 12 years old it needs more than routine maintenance. and if he gets anything for the house he points out to everyone that HE bought it with HIS money. I don't understand that lack of partnership with our finances?? |
| Question: Feeling neglected now that baby is born? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 09:27 AM PDT During my pregnancy, I admittedly felt very vulnerable at times. I was emotional, a little needy and my husband was very understanding. When his work day was officially over, he left. He only went on one business trip and I came along with him. He just seemed very concerned about my well being and had actually said to me, "You're first, before anything else." We spent a lot of time together because we knew we would have a baby to focus on. We would go out a lot and do things during my pregnancy, really fun things. Now that I had our son, he has let his work take a bigger priority again. He has meetings later. He goes on frequent business trips. When he's home, he'll sit with the baby on his lap and be working on his laptop. He'll do business calls at home. Before he used to say, "When I"m home, I'm home." Now he is often preoccupied with something else. It's not like we spend no time together. I get about a half hour before he goes to bed where it's just us. For about 5 mins when I come home, it's just about me and the baby. He's off on weekends but he didn't use to do work on them and now he has been. I know he is very ambitious and I am, too. It's not like I don't work. I actually work 6 days a week and I work from home sometimes. I just feel like I miss how he was before and don't understand why now of all times, his wife is someone who'll "spend time with later". Also I'm always suggesting we go to the beach as a family or take the baby to the park on the weekends. And he says he's happy staying in, watching a movie, and relaxing. He's worn out but he's only worn out because he's working like a dog. He does compromise and we put the baby in the stroller and go for walks. |
| Question: What does my husband mean? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:42 AM PDT My husband is a very negative and unhappy person. Nothing I do pleases him, except intercourse. He says mean things to me like "your feet are ugly", "you're not a great mom", "you have no talents"... Etc... He says he loves me, but when I try to get him to open up, he says "you would leave me if I did.".. I don't understand why he stays with me if he obviously doesn't like me! We have been through alot together.. He has cheated in the past, he has lied ALOT, we have tried an open relationship before because he wanted other women (nothing ever happened), and he doesn't act like he wants to grow up! A lil about us.. I am 25 and he is 27, his good points are that he works hard (but he can't stick with one job very long), he helps take care of my kids by providing a home for us (but he doesn't like them), and we get along so great when we aren't being serious! I need to know what you think about the things he says to me? |
| Question: What does my husband mean? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:27 AM PDT |
| Question: Every time my husband corrects me, that u r wrong even though in case of my child? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:07 AM PDT |
| Question: Is it normal for young married couple to sex only 4 times a year? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 07:03 AM PDT For the last couple of years, thats how its been with me and my wife. This started after she had our son. We went to a counselor and the only advice she gave was to order pizza and watch a movie. Even when our son is not around, wife still doesn't want to do anything. I asked her if anything bothering her, and she said everything is fine, she's happy. When I try to talk to her about this, she tells me to shut up and change the subject. I want to sex at least 2-3 times a week, not 2-3 times a year. Does not offer to do BJ, HJ, none of that stuff. I record her online activities and can't find any evidence of cheating. Opinions? Whenever we do sex, its "dead fish", "hurry up and finish" sex with no foreplay |
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| Question: Love marriage or Arranged marriage? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 06:23 AM PDT |
| Question: Pregnant wife left me? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:54 AM PDT My pregnant wife of 6 months left me. I'm a jealous man.... I know I am. My wife is much younger than me and very pretty. I am not good looking or made of money. I know she is with me because she truly loves me but I still get jealous. She works as a bartender at a nice casino. She talks to a thousand men a day at her job... I don't like it. Last night I called her to check on her to see if she was okay. She abruptly said she had to go. I got angry and went to see her at work and asked her why she did that. She said she had a guests to wait on and told me to stop interrogating her. When she got home from work I tried to make love to her and she said she was tired from standing up for 14 hours and wasn't in in mood... While she was sleeping I noticed she fell asleep with her phone unlocked. I started looking nice through it and she woke up after 5 minutes. She was really angry and said she never does anything wrong and that I'm acting like a jealous psycho and to give her privacy. If I ask my wife to see her phone she will unlock it and hand it to me with no problem. But she hates when I snoop. I went to work this morning and came to see her on my break and I came home and she is gone. All of her things. Our dogs. She turned off her phone. She left me a note and said my behavior is going to stress her out so bad i will cause her to miscarry or have a breakdown. I don't know how I can get better... How can I trust my wife |
| Question: The way she speaks to me? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:46 AM PDT My wife is Chinese and does a lot of evening work to meet clients for her job. I've had a trust issue with one of her friends which she tried to explain away. It's Friday night and I was wondering why she was in the city. She said she couldn't talk and that I should text her. I outright asked if she was with him. Why? Because I found her chat history had been cleared but she lays spoke with him on Thursday (just two days ago). She shot back a sarcastic reply that she is f**** him. I questioned why she was being nasty and she once again repeated that she is f***ing him... What upsets me is why she is purposely throwing that in my face instead of just being honest and saying that she was probably with a client. If I take what she says at face value, our marriage is over. But she has made sarcastic remarks in this style before to me. I'm over it. Why does she say rubbish like that directly and at what point should I start to take her replies seriously? Yes we are married. She is 30 and I'm 32. No kids. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:34 AM PDT or you wouldn't mind if your spouse were sixteen years older |
| Question: What are the chances of abusive husband changing? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:32 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for 6 years and have one child. At the beginning of the year he started getting extremely jealous because I was working. He would constantly accuse me of cheating. One night we got into an argument and he punched me in the face. It's when he followed me around that I ended up punching him back. He then spit in my face. I fought back by packing my bags and moving abroad with our son for 6 months. During that time he paid child support and promised to change I'm back with him now and yesterday he yelled at me, so I'm starting to worry that he's still abusive. Can abusive people change? What should I do? |
| Question: Is my husband's bizarre behavior something to be concerned about? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 05:22 AM PDT Lately, my husband has been working every weekend. But, he doesn't tell me until 10 the night before. He knows well in advance that he's going to work. This time--for example--his friend/colleague who lined up the job, told him it would be the whole weekend for two weekends. That's what bothers me. He wasn't going to tell me about it. Fast forward to this morning, I heard him "manscaping" just before leaving, then I found my trimmer on the charger. And last night when I was putting his phone to charge, I noticed he a special folder on one of his screens that was called nueva carpeta and had the browser in it. Since we've been looking for a house, I thought it was related to that. I opened the browser to find it was saved to a porn site. All of this out of the norm for him. Normally I wouldn't think anything of it, but all at the same time, and then the "manscaping" this morning? He's a contractor. All the job was these next couple of weekend is painting, so why would ne need to trim his areas to do painting--or any other renovation work, for matter? Well, that explains why he's always on his phone and takes forever in the bathroom. And that's the last thing I need in the house, especially with two very impressionable children who get into anything and everything they can get their hands on. That's part of the reason my first marriage with down the sh*ttr, and I'm not about to go down that road again. I now have two children to think about. |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 04:58 AM PDT |
| Question: How many years old girl should be married ? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 02:07 AM PDT |
| Question: Which the best place for Married ? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 02:04 AM PDT |
| Question: My husband never called to tell me he made it there safe? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 01:20 AM PDT So my husband went out state to visit family before he left today he explicitly told me "I will text you when I get there" well I check my phone nothing no text no call nothing. It was too late after I got out work to call his moms house so here I am fuming he always asks me when I go somewhere to let him know I got there ok and I always do why no answer from him there s other phones he could use there |
| Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:56 AM PDT |
| Question: I love to touch my husbands butt. IS THIS NORMAL? Posted: 15 Aug 2015 12:42 AM PDT So my husband has major abs and his butt is nice and tight . Anytime he comes home the first thing i do is give a butt a nice slap than he comes on top of me and starts kissing my neck. Its so hot. But honestly i would rather slap his butt than have sex with him. Is this normal? Hes 27 and im 25 . :) Is it normal to love slapping his butt? |
| Question: Why ex should be an ex ?Is there any law that breaks this rule? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:55 PM PDT My ex kind of regret letting me go being with a gold digger and got his lesson .There is a huge age difference .He has high status and well off money wise.I know that he loves himself way too much and is selfish.He said he would fight for me and even wants to have more babies with me .He has another children from previous relationship . |
| Question: Why my wife has seemed to become uninterested in sex with me? Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:55 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 14 Aug 2015 11:16 PM PDT The mother does everything in her power to keep any information from us. He has visitation already. She breaks court order regularly. We are engaged. Would it help his case if we were a legally married and stood as a united front? The child is 5 and we've been together since she was 1. We need everything we can to use in this case. |
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