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- Question: Should my boyfriends mom make us pay bills?
- Question: What is a deadbeat dad?
- Question: What to do with my lovely family?
- Question: What should i do?
- Question: Should I get paid for babysitting?
- Question: Turning 18 tomorrow. Dad...?
- Question: Moral dilemma.....help please!!?
- Question: Rock and a hard place?
- Question: Parents wont let me live in a dorm?
- Question: I don't want to kill myself, but sometimes I wish I died soon.?
- Question: My husband wants our children to go to college even if they do not want ?
- Question: Should I stay or should I go?
- Question: If you have racist parents, how do you deal with it?
- Question: Should I involve Child Protective Services?
- Question: I'm scared to go to school?
- Question: MI MAMA Y MI HERMANA SON UNAS BRUJAS QUE ME HACEN LA VIDA IMPOSIBLE.?
- Question: Do you think it's wrong my mother in law took 2 months before we heard from her after we were married?
- Question: Am I really going crazy?
- Question: I ues to vape but now i dont?
- Question: Is there a way I can convince my 27 year old daughter to stay at home when she is out of work temporary?
- Question: Should I stay home and take care of my grandma or go out and start my life?
- Question: My love is moving, am I acting selfish about it?
- Question: How do I help my friend who has a narcissistic mother?
- Question: My mom seems to want to make me hate myself. Is it me or her thats wrong?
- Question: He's been the sole supporter of our family for 25 years,we share 4 children.?
- Question: How to deal with touchy people?
- Question: Did your parents ever put you in danger like this?
- Question: Me and my girlfriend broke up should we try to work it out?
- Question: How do I fix my life?
- Question: Should I cut my dad out my life?
- Question: Why does my baby brother always want a piggyback ride?
- Question: Embarrassed in front of father?
- Question: Does it bother you if you and your inlaws don't get along and they don't like you for no reason? I try not to let it bother me but it does.?
- Question: Do you find it strange my daughter's father was texting seconds before walking her down the isle?
- Question: Mother Heard Me Making A Bad Joke And Said She Wont Ever Look At Me The Same Again?
- Question: Can my mother have two headstones in a cemetery. One is set with my father but she re-married after he passed and now needs another stone.?
- Question: My sisters hubby has Aspergers, she cut me off?
- Question: No matter what I want to do my parents don't support me?
- Question: Shall I kick him out? problems with ta tenant? Please help me?
- Question: My sister is SOOO ANNOYING!!!!?
- Question: My moms house isnt a place where my son can be raised and i dont know if i should move back with my sons father?
- Question: My sisters keep making me feel like crap...how do i ignore them?
- Question: Am I anti social?
- Question: Does my little brother need help?
- Question: How Do I Convince My Parents to Let Me Smoke Cigarettes?
- Question: How to I convince my parents to let me go to this concert?
- Question: Being wrongly accused of something?
- Question: What can I do to protect my nephew?
- Question: How to stop stealing money? Especially from my parents?
- Question: Why does my mom do things just to make me cry?
- Question: How do I let my dad know I'm moving out tomorrow?
- Question: Why do i get the feeling that i forgot someone importent to me ?
- Question: I insulted my mother?
- Question: Why won't my dad let me date?
- Question: In the state of minnesota, can I be emancipated or be put under the guardianship of a friends mom?
- Question: How do I get my family to accept my relationship with a older woman?
- Question: Ladies mature question?
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| Question: Should my boyfriends mom make us pay bills? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 01:28 PM PDT Okay so I am 19 and my boyfriend is 21.. we have been together for 3 years now, I do not have the best home situation, mother drinks and dad is just...i would just rather not go into details but anyway ever since i can remember i ve always wanted to get away and i had no one else to live with and he understood my circumstances so he offered to live with me, we are both in college so we moved to an apartment close to the college we are attending, well it turns out we can t afford it at all while going to school so we think of a plan to move to his parents,, its obvious why we can t move to mine, well anyway he has 3 other siblings so we had to build an extra room in the back (we paid for everything) and we are still paying it off. The mom has been spoiled her entire life and she makes her kids pay her bills. when we moved in we thought we would have to only help out with food but it turns out she is making us pay electric, do you think that is fair? and his brother and his friend are moving out in a few month and i am worried she will make us pay water and gas which they are paying. i just feel like as a mom she shouldn t make her kids pay bills because my parents wouldn t but we can t live at my house. Im not sure what to do...we started working part time and we have cars, phones etc to pay for. everyone i have asked said we should only have to pay what we use of electric and not the whole house seeing we won t be in there much,not to mention all of her money goes to shopping |
| Question: What is a deadbeat dad? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 01:22 PM PDT |
| Question: What to do with my lovely family? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 01:22 PM PDT Okay, our Dad passed away some time ago. Then Mom (few years ago). She had remarried and her husband had 4 children from his former wife. Mom had 4 children. When she died, my siblings decided they didn't want anything to do with my step-father anymore and just dropped out of his life. We (husband & children) still enjoy his company as well as attend church services together. The thing is...my siblings expected me & my family to do what they did and walk away. We chose not to and now my siblings haven't invited us to any of their gatherings since Mom passed. They are so mad and have twisted things to make it look like we are the troublemakers. How do we resolve? |
| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 01:16 PM PDT A couple weeks ago before school , My parents asked me if i want to move schools , I Simply said no , They kept telling me that the school is amazing and stuff like that , So at some point i said yes , I Stayed there for 2 weeks (almost) , But i didn't like it , I Just simply didn't , Sure my parents saved time if i am in this school , Since my mom is a teacher in that school , My brother would just pick me up with my mom at the same time instead of going to my school then going to this one , But i just simply didn't see what they were talking about in the school , The teachers were awful , Screaming at the class or simply not teaching at all , And just a few teachers were good and then it's the students who just annoy them , So i didn't like it , My mom saw how sad i was everyday when i come back , And asked me if i want to move back to my old school , I Said yes , But she was not happy about it , My brother got really mad at me , And so did my mom , And now they are just flipping out each time i do something , It has been this way for a while now , And no my dad isn't with us , My brother kinda takes his place with payment and stuff but my mom also works , So what should i do ? Things haven't been good here D: |
| Question: Should I get paid for babysitting? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 01:15 PM PDT I have a 6 year old brother and after school Wednesday-Friday his friends come over (6 and 4). When their mother got her new job (5 years ago) my mother offered to watch her kids after school when she has yo work late (they have been friends for about 10 years). But for 5 years it has been me taking care of the kids while my mom does practically nothing. I'm 15 now and I have been doing this since I was 10. I'm in highschool and I barley have any time to do homework. I have managed to maintain good grades but I would feel better about doing all this work if I got something out of it. If it was just my brother that I was watching I wouldn't ask for money (older siblings are obligated to watch younger siblings) , but these kids aren't related to me in any way. I love them to death but they aren't really my responsibility. The catch is that their mother doesn't know that I do all the work. My mother tells their mom that I'm just a lazy teenager who does nothing to help with the kids. I DO EVERYTHING. I FEED THEM. I PLAY WITH THEM. I CARE FOR THEM WHEN THEY GET HURT. I PUT THEM DOWN FOR NAPS. I'VE DEVOTED MY LIFE TO THESE KIDS. Don't I deserve to get something out of it. What do you think (sorry for the long rant, I'm just really tired of this). Sandy, I don't want to get out of the work. So I can't find something to do after school. Then the kids will be left with my mother and she doesn't know them like I do. She doesn't know their favorite toys, what their allergic to, what each of their cries sounds like, etc. |
| Question: Turning 18 tomorrow. Dad...? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 01:01 PM PDT Hey guys, I'm turning 18 tomorrow. And I've been wondering, what's it like to have a dad? I never had a father, well figuratively. I never met him. I know of him and he of me. It's just that today, I wished for my dad to give me a call. Just ask me how I am, what I'm like. My mom always said I looked like him, and she loves me dearly. But I think a boy and his dad has a special bond... I never had someone to learn me how to fish, or change a tire, or throw ball with. I had to learn and compromise where I could. And here I am, a guy. Almost 18, a knob in my throat as I wonder what it'd be like to have a dad... Are dads really that important or am I overreacting? |
| Question: Moral dilemma.....help please!!? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:55 PM PDT I have two elderly dear friends. They are sweet, trusting, and big hearted. They have been caught in a few scams by horrible people taking advantage of elderly. Well, I know their son is taking them! They don t know this, but he is addicted to pain killers. He works with my family, so I know. He s constantly hurt. He is a smart and talented man and makes bank. However, he is always broke. He calls his poor parents and asks for money. They think he s down on his luck and try to help. Constantly taking food from their mouths to feed him, pay for his rent, etc...But, he just needs help. He s a good man with a bad addiction. But they are oblivious to this. I can t stand seeing him spend all their money too! They barely make ends meet. At what point do I step in an tell them what is going on? I m worried that it will kill them. They are feeble and how horrible to know your own son is taking advantage of you. Other people know, but no one will step in and help! I don t know what to do. |
| Question: Rock and a hard place? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:44 PM PDT This past year my father went to jail and financially crippled me and my mother. We lost car to no payments and are barely able to pay the rent and light bill,, our plumbing is messed up and we don't have any hot water and the landlord won't fix any thing also I don't have a job anymore and my mom drinks and isn't reliable as she used to be. I'm in college and have no way to class and I can't study because I don't have any Internet or phone service. I'm currently using a spotty open WiFi signal. Things are getting harder and I can't find a way out. Help? Advice anything |
| Question: Parents wont let me live in a dorm? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:41 PM PDT I really want to get out of my house but for the first two years of college my parents are not letting me live on campus. How should i convince them to let me move out. I do not mind living at home but i am looking for something different and exciting. |
| Question: I don't want to kill myself, but sometimes I wish I died soon.? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:41 PM PDT I love God. He has given me wonderful times. He has showed me His love many times and I am eternally greatful. But I feel like a loser. I feel like I am worthless. I am a single mother of three. I left their dad because I wanted a better life and example for them. I left him two years ago. He is now in jail. I am losing all my hair at 27. I have gotten a lot of acne. I feel ugly. I wear glasses too. I am greatful that I can see with glasses, but I think I am going to go blind and bold. I have been to the Dr. many times, but since all the test came back fine the dr. sent me with a counselor. They think my hair loss is do to stress and anxiety. But it is hard to be positive when all your hair is falling out. Just yerterday I wanted to die really bad thinking that my kids can find a better mom. Am I going to hell for wanting to die? |
| Question: My husband wants our children to go to college even if they do not want ? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:40 PM PDT I am American and my husband is half Egyptian-half Norwegian. I think this is a cultural difference which I feel is an issue. Everybody in his family, in both cultures went to college or as they say university. We had a talk about it and I feel that he doesn't want to say it, but he does not want the children to be like me. He comes from an upper class family, is very educated and speaks 5 languages. I did not go to college, am a bit educated not like him and speak only English. I feel that it is everybody's choice to do what they want, but it seems that this is getting out of hand. He has always been the one who allows them to do what they want. Our daughter wants a dress, he buys it. Our son wants a car, he buys it. He has always been the one who spoils them, but now he is angry that they would not go to college and I feel that he doesn't want to tell me but that he always would have felt better if the children went to college, and be educated like he is.and be like him. I feel that he is ashamed that I'm not like him. I don't know what to say. I've never seen him that angry and I don't know if this has anything to do with me too. |
| Question: Should I stay or should I go? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:24 PM PDT I am about to begin my final year of law school and I'm at a crossroad. My mother had a massive stroke about two and a half weeks ago. She underwent surgery but has been having other complications. I have two siblings but only one is willing to help but doesn't feel like she can do it on her own.I go to school 2,000 miles away and Im not sure whether i should return to school or stay back and help out here. Any sincere advice is welcome! |
| Question: If you have racist parents, how do you deal with it? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:12 PM PDT My dad's racist to my black friends. He always asks my mom if the friends I'm hanging out with are black. He doesn't care how they dress or act. He just notices the skin tone and BAM, he already doesn't like them. Whenever I stand up for them when he makes racist comments to me about them, I get in trouble cuz I was 'misbehaving'. My dad once even said my 'misbehaviour' was what I learned from hanging out with black people. My mom tells me to apologize to him but so far I have never once apologized to him when he's racist. So that's the mess I'm dealing with. I'm curious, if you have racist parents, how do you deal with it? |
| Question: Should I involve Child Protective Services? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:12 PM PDT My husband grew up in neglectful home due to addiction and now his kid brother is facing a similar situation. We are finally in the position to offer Kid Brother a place to live safely and as normally as possible only instead of just him his girl friend needs a place too as well as their dog. We've welcomed them all into our home and its and its been a little too bumpy for us. The kids are well mannered and mostly respectful but before we invited them to live with us they were having to couch hop for seven months and make their own decisions regarding survival and we can tell they are still in that mindset. They come and go as they please. They hardly leave their rooms to interact just to snatch food or a shower and scurry back. What rules we do have they don't respect. The situation has turned a little heated and the kids absolutely do not respect our sacrifice and the responsibility we've taken. We're trusting them a lot and they haven't shown us any sort of good decision making skills. We're just another crash pad for them. Shortly after the kids moved in my husband took initiative and talked to his parents regarding Kid Brother staying with us and they were not pleased and offered to sign over custody. I wanted to do this right from the start and involve a social worker but there has been hesitation because we wanted to take into considerations what Kid Brother wanted just in case he would be placed in the foster care system. I'm wondering what the right decision. |
| Question: I'm scared to go to school? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:01 PM PDT I don't wanna go to school..I don't wanna leave my mum alone in the house. My sis will be staying but she will start going to university soon, my dad goes to work, and I'll go to school with my bros. my mum doesn't work and I don't want ANYTHING to happen to her. I love her dearly :/ what should I do? |
| Question: MI MAMA Y MI HERMANA SON UNAS BRUJAS QUE ME HACEN LA VIDA IMPOSIBLE.? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 12:01 PM PDT Hola! tengo una hermana mayor que parece la preferida de mi mama y entre las dos toda la vida me han humillado y me han tratado muy mal sobretodo cuando trato de salir adelante y triunfar, me fui por 3 años de la casa pero tuve que volver ya que tuve un bebe (Que es el unico nieto) pero siempre tengo que vivir a la defensiva porque siempre me anda diciendo cosas feas o corriendome de la casa, pienso en buscar un trabajo para poder irme con el bebe pero la situacion en Venezuela a nivel economico es espantosa y seria muy dificil salir adelante con un hijo viviendo sola, Que me recomiendan? |
| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 11:33 AM PDT I never did anything to her. I think she decided to not like me because I was married before. As a mother myself, even if I didn't like someone my child married, I would be wish them well as soon as I heard. My husband & I eloped so we didn't have a wedding. We heard from my parents right away. This has nothing to do that she wasn't invited to our elopement. This witch also didn't go to her grandson's wedding. It was close by and a big event. We called her right away & happily told her we were married. My parents right away wished us good luck. Try to get your facts straight before answering. PLEASE |
| Question: Am I really going crazy? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 11:19 AM PDT So my mom and sisters think I'm going crazy because I play a lot of video games (2-4 hours a day) and when I'm not playing any games then I'll usually stay in my room on the internet. I don't like being around people or getting staring at, that is why I chose not to be around with my family so often. Sorry If my English is bad. |
| Question: I ues to vape but now i dont? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 10:31 AM PDT after my dad found out i gave him my vape and it was my only one and i guess he looked thur my room and found other vape stuff but i dont know and he is like whers your other e cig im like i dont have one and he dosent believe me i want trust with my dad |
| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 10:23 AM PDT My daughter told me today she is moving out tomorrow. I knew before she wanted to move out. She got a new job recently but her manager cut her job temporarily to work only on Saturdays until October because he doesn't have anymore hours. My daughter is moving in with roommates but I really prefer to stay home longer. |
| Question: Should I stay home and take care of my grandma or go out and start my life? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 10:19 AM PDT I am a 21 year old female and currently live at home. I have wanted to possibly move to another state and go to school so I can do some growing up. I have a really close Italian family and they hate when any of their kids want to leave and go off on their own. Right now I take care of my grandma every day because no one else is home. I currently don't go to school and I don't work because there isn't anyone else to take care of my grandma. I would love to move to another state to live with a couple of my friends but I feel guilty leaving because there isn't anyone else to be there for my grandma. I love my grandma and would do anything for her but I feel like I am holding off my life. My family also makes me feel guilty for wanting to go and do things because there is no one else to stay with her. I watch my grandma for free and they don't want to hire anyone and she doesn't want them to hire anyone because she wouldn't be comfortable with anyone else. I have no idea what to do in this situation. I could really use some guidance. I don't know what the right thing to do is. |
| Question: My love is moving, am I acting selfish about it? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 10:04 AM PDT Hello, I am 23 in my 5th real relationship. He is my dream, everything I ever wanted – his character, looks, the way he treats me, and the way I feel for him. What makes him stand out is that he encourages me and helped me become the better person that I am today. I was messed up after my dad died. I started doing drugs and was in a relationship that became abusive after our baby was born.. I lost ALL faith in relationships but then he showed me love for me AND my son. I never felt so close to someone and so happy. He dealt with trust issues, craziness, my past – EVERYTHING. He is like a father to my son. Am I acting selfish with regards to him moving away from me? We talked money and moving out, but instead wants to be with his parents who decided to move far away to be with their grandkids. They have better job prospects and cheaper living there. I cant go because I would be taking my son from my family. My mother was with my father all her life and he aimlessly died when she tried to wake him one day. My son is the only reason she smiles and without him she feels isolated. I cant take him away. I understand he loves me but I cannot stop crying. I cut myself a little, which is BIZARRE very abnormal of me. I was also a little mean to him when he told me. I cannot grip the reality of the situation, but I know it is better for him. I am trying to convince him to stay with me because he is my wings that keep my flying. I feel so torn. Am I being selfish? |
| Question: How do I help my friend who has a narcissistic mother? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 10:01 AM PDT She is 25, living at home, because her parents want her to live at home. Her mother has been emotionally abusive since she was young. Every time I talk to her on the phone, she seems a little more weak, a little less confident. I feel like she is withering away. I want to send her links from google about women with narcissistic moms, but I'm afraid of doing more damage than good. I tell her she needs to get away because her family environment is toxic, and she agrees, but doesn't do anything. Should I just let her live her life? Be a listening ear when she needs it? And not impose my judgments? |
| Question: My mom seems to want to make me hate myself. Is it me or her thats wrong? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 09:31 AM PDT My mom has always (since I was around 8) put me down. She would always say I was overweight and I talked to much. So I stopped talking to her. Then she told me I wasn't pretty and I was annoying. So I avoided her. Now she calls me over dramatic and selfish. She always says its not all about me whenever I try and talk to her now. Even though I only talk about her because she acts selfish. In reality Its all about her. She acts like everyone wants to talk to her and always complains about my (lovely and sweet) sister to me. She has only apologized to me once in my life. I am only 13 so I realize this may seem stupid. Once I made her breakfast and she threw it away and said it was crap. Right now she guilted me into joining band. I want to quit but she's guilting the hell out of me. She made me join because she used to be in band and completely disregarded the fact I was getting teased. Another time when I was in elementary school, this girl tried to choke me and my mom just stood there and watched. Later my mom accused me of beating up that girl. She always puts me down and I am on the verge of hating myself. I tried to act all nice and happy to her but she just put me down again. Am I just being selfish and stupid or is my mom really that mean? |
| Question: He's been the sole supporter of our family for 25 years,we share 4 children.? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 09:27 AM PDT |
| Question: How to deal with touchy people? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 09:20 AM PDT My stepdad is really . . touchy? Like he likes to hug me and my brother and put his hand on my shoulder and back and it really pisses me off because I don't like to be touched but I don't wanna seem rude but I always back away whenever people try to touch me in general because if I want to be touched I will tell you but I don't know how to deal with it? |
| Question: Did your parents ever put you in danger like this? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 09:15 AM PDT I was sitting in the car with my brother then my parents stopped at the store and told me they'll be right back. when I reached out to my mom scared because two old men were staring at me she said, "don't worry your brother is here". My brother is mentally disabled he could not protect me. But she said "They don't know that", basically chancing it. So when they went into the store I was stuck in the car and the two old men pointed at me and had a plate of food and told me to come get it. They didn't even care that they saw my brother in the car (if they saw him). I could hear them clearly and they said "she's not going to come" and then they left. I told my parents and they didn't care. |
| Question: Me and my girlfriend broke up should we try to work it out? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 09:12 AM PDT Ok the reason we broke up cause when she was pregnant she was house hopping and refused to come home. And would sometimes take are 3 year old at times. There would be times she would not even pay rant and leave me with the all burdens. There was times to she would steal from me and would lie about. I really love the girl but she made me so frustrated at times. But later on her pregnancy she counted to house hope between her moms house and my house. And later on she told me she wants to live with her mom cause she feels so stressed in the house and my response wasn't to happy cause i sacrificed everything for her so i can have my family in one home. And we started to live with each other like the 1st year of are relationship cause her mom abandoned her when she turned 18. Her mom had a restraining order on her throw her in jail called my phone and my moms phone to complain about her daughter. And when my first born baby was born she told me i don't have the right to be in hospital and stay with the baby cause im a pace of ****. So i asked why would you leave your family for someone who gave you a hard time in life. So the my new born baby born by the way i have 2 kids with her. She continued to house hope with the new born baby and asked her lets do family counseling to help us. But i told her needs to stop the house hoping and lets work on are relationship. But she still continued so I told her if this continues i cant be with you no more and it continues and we broke up. |
| Question: How do I fix my life? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 09:11 AM PDT Okay here is my life... Ever since I was a kid I've been traumatised by my parents by there fighting publicly and physically. They involved with the police a lot and not in a good way. I have cried countless of times as my dad is an alcoholic and smoker and I fear for his life. My mom is a lunatic simply put. I have a brother and sister and they share this tor I fear that this may scat them for life as they are very young. We are living on countless amounts of loans and I just want to finish high school but now that seems unlikely as my parents can't afford It my brother and sister are crying and parents still fighting physically. We have little relatives who don't care about us. I need some help at least please someone tell me what to do I beg you. I have sucidel thoughts as well as putting to rest my brother and sister. I have also been bullied in school my whole life being the outcast the reject. I need someone please I just want help |
| Question: Should I cut my dad out my life? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 08:46 AM PDT My dad is a drug addict and has been one his entire life. He was very abusive to my mom and I saw and heard everytime he hit her. He has never been in my life and didn't help raise me. I'm 21 and I have my own life now. My daddy doesn't like my boyfriend because he is 30. Well one night my dad saw us out and just started calling me names. He said I was a whore for dating an older man. He told me to keep on sucking his dick and all kind of really nasty mean things. He kept telling me **** you over and over and was acting crazy for no reason. I knew he was high on drugs that night but it was still no excuse. So I told him f you because I was angry. I told him he is not my dad and I don't want him in my life and business. I do feel bad for what I said but my dad is out of control. Should I cut my dad out my life for good? |
| Question: Why does my baby brother always want a piggyback ride? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 08:45 AM PDT My 10 year old brother is always wanting me to give him piggyback rides. I say yes a lot because he's my baby brother and I love him so much and he would be upset if I said no. he's also been clinging onto me a lot more then normal. I think it's also because our parents might divorce to. I feel really bad for him he's been upset and could this make him feel more comfortable? please give me advice and it doesn't bother me when I give him piggyback rides he's pretty light but yeah I just wanted to know if it's maybe puberty or hormones but thanks for advice!!! |
| Question: Embarrassed in front of father? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 08:36 AM PDT I'm 17M I texted my dad when you will come instead of come i wrote ***. Lol im laughing and embarrassed |
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| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 08:17 AM PDT Everyone else at that special moment are posed in the pictures smiling, but you see my ex-husband standing there actually texting. Now these pictures will FOREVER be in my daughter's wedding photos. |
| Question: Mother Heard Me Making A Bad Joke And Said She Wont Ever Look At Me The Same Again? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 08:06 AM PDT I was up in my room one night. Not realising how loud I was, me and my friend were on the phone talking about a comedians joke about gang rape and laughing about it, then the next morning I woke up my mum went crazy. Im 19 and she said she'll never look at me or trust me in the same way ever again, saying she is disgusted in me etc. What should I do? PS. I told her it was just a joke but she still didn't care. |
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| Question: My sisters hubby has Aspergers, she cut me off? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 07:38 AM PDT It's very mild. He can socialize fairly well, but you can see he has a hard time with cues. Hes not like rainman at all, hes actually a former model in LosAngeles and NYC. He is fully tattooed on one arm, his chest, back, stands 5'11 slim broad shouldered and naturally muscular, light olive skin, bright ice blue eyes, thick light brown hair, pillowed pink lips, strong jaw and highcheekbones all around chiseled face. Hes going to be 31 in October but looks 23-24. Hes from pennsyvania of largely Dutch descent. She says hes very well endowed and good in bed(guess that's where he releases his social energy) and also has a deep "cool" sounding voice. He's a nice guy but has a hard time with kids and is shy. He was blue collar but now works with computers. She wont leave him despite Aspergers being untreatable, his brain wiring is bad and impossible to fix. She says its commendable how hard he works to socialize and offset his affiliction and that he is actually ashamed of having it and wont tell ppl, he self loathes and that cant be healthy. I work with damaged goods like this. Shes very protective of him and she cut me off. She is very pretty and slim figured herself. While hes handsome, his brain isn't. Why would she stay with him? He does drugs to self medicate. Hes also slept with over 30 women before meeting her. Hes dirty. Update: Ive heard some of these folks have extra testosterone which might be why they have brains like this and some are masculine and hung? They said that they have the extreme male brain(unable to socialize, violent, primitive, obsessive) |
| Question: No matter what I want to do my parents don't support me? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 07:32 AM PDT All I'm trying to do is figure out what I wanna do. I took one semester off before going into college because last minute I almost chose something just to impress my parents now I've finally found what I WANT to do and I want to register for school next semester but my family is just being a bad unsupportive environement. They yell at me, tell me I'm there failure child, tell me to get out of there house, and I'm terrible to them etc. I know me being kinda unsure and uneasy is NORMAL. I wanted to be a teacher and a few years ago when I finally told my mom she disapproved that's why I chose other things I also did cosmetology but I know it's a waste of my potential, I almost went into nursing school because that's what my mom did but I realized just before registering it's not what I want. Everytine before I look into something else my mom screams at me and the whole time we are at a school she's like are you even capable of this? I just wish she'd see the potential I have and realize it's okay and it's what I WANT. How can I work with her before our relationship is ruined for good? |
| Question: Shall I kick him out? problems with ta tenant? Please help me? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 07:26 AM PDT I have a guest living with me (paid for three weeks stay). He is already here for 2 days. In this time he managed to burn a pot (leaving it on burner for an hour) brush the paint and dent a wall, 2 centimetrs in diamter, and on the whole he is realy messy, putting dirty booxes on furniutre, leaving heavy crumbs everywhere, peeing on seat and floor. ALthough he compensted for the burnt saucepan and he is leaving things soemwhat lcean, he has a bad attitude and i m not happy with him being here. What shal lI do? |
| Question: My sister is SOOO ANNOYING!!!!? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 07:21 AM PDT I'm 14 and my sister is 16. She is SO ANNOYING. She thinks she's SOOO ******* hilarious but she's not at all. Also, you know how some people talk to themselves? My sister MOUTHS to herself. CONSTANTLY. She's been doing it since she was like 8 and I've told her to stop a million times but she doesn't even try to stop. And she doesn't have any kind of disorder that affects her behavior. She's just WEIRD. I'm always getting annoyed with her, but then my mom tells me to "not be mean to her". I'm just sick of her. I know I sound like I'm 7, complaining about my sister, but I also have brothers and they're not annoying at ALL. It's JUST her. Do you guys have any advice?! |
| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 07:00 AM PDT My ex and i got seperated about 1 week ago. We would fight all the time and it wasn't healthy for our son to be around. So i moved out and came to live at my moms house . Here at my moms house there is no refrigerador or stove or bathroom to shower because the house is old. For all of those necessities we have to go next door to my brothers house. But i dont want to go in and ask for help because my sister in law is a hypocrite. So i dont have a job . I dont have car or a high school diploma . I always depended on my sons father. Big mistake. Now he tells me to go back and live with him until i get a job and that we can be friends . He wants to help me out until i get up on my own feet . Literally because I fractured one of my akles so im in crutches. So should i go back to his house? I had already accepted the fact that i was going through this and i was ready to figure it out on my own . After i decided i was ready to do it on my own , he decides he wants to help me out. So we talked about it . That if i were to move in , we would not fight at all . And only talk about out son. What should i do? I do want whats best for my son. Hes my number one priority. I just feel that I've failed as a mother because i cant support him financially. I wanted to go back to school bit i think that money seems more of a necessity than school. So after my ankle gets better i will look for a job. |
| Question: My sisters keep making me feel like crap...how do i ignore them? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 06:50 AM PDT I have 2 sisters... i am 26 my other sister is 25 and my other one is 22... the 22 year old has a son... my 25 year old has no kids...and me...i have 2 boys... they go out almost every night to the bars... my younger sister hardly ever spends a night with her son... she works and goes out... no time for her son at all... someone always has her kid.. and to me thats not cool... they will come over somtimes and tell me things like... ur such a mom.. u look like a mom now why do u only do mom things..etc... and then they will sit there and talk about how drunk they got the night before and how much fun they had.. i feel like they rub it in my face. I love every second with my kids... i have never been to the bars i think my babies are way more important. But they constantly make me feel like im a boring mom who has no life. I tell them that i like my life and i absolutely love being with my kids . My kids make me feel so special and i hope i make them feel the same. But how do i make my sisters stop making me feel like im missing out on this big nightt life they have. I hear it almost everyday and im tired of it. |
| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 06:43 AM PDT I stay at home during the weekend and rarely go out. I like to stay in my room surfing Internet playing the whole day during the weekend. I don t talk a lot at school. I only talk to my close friends. When there is any party/ event I always reject. I only talk to my parents and some close relatives. When my teacher ask me questions that are not related like what do you do in the weekend I always say I it is my privacy. If I am anti social is it good? I m 16 year old |
| Question: Does my little brother need help? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 06:38 AM PDT I have a little brother who is 5 years old. When he doesn't get what he wants, he gets very angry and starts to beat people and break and throws things when he is angry. He screams so loud too. Is this a unnormal behaviour? Should my parents send him to see a doctor? |
| Question: How Do I Convince My Parents to Let Me Smoke Cigarettes? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 06:23 AM PDT I'm 15 year old male teen. When I was at the age of 10, I tried to smoke and I really liked it. After that, I didn't smoke for 1 year because I didn't know how to access the cigarettes. After that, I had some friends, who smoked and they taught me to access them, and then I began to smoke. After 2 months, my parents found out that I smoke. They yelled at me and didn't let me to use my computer for 1 month. I stopped smoking, because I was afraid of my parents. Now I began to smoke again and I'm tired of hiding it from my parents. The main reason why they don't let me smoke is because they think that smoking stunts your growth. However, I've had many friends, who started to smoke at very young age but now they're very tall. So how do I convince my parents to let me smoke cigarettes and how do I disprove that smoking stunts your growth (I need some science facts, which disprove it). Oh, and don't tell me how unhealthy smoking is and don't tell me that smoking under 18 is illegal because in my country, it's legal for minors to smoke, it's just illegal for adults to provide them tobacco products. |
| Question: How to I convince my parents to let me go to this concert? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 05:48 AM PDT In a few days I'm planing on going to a Snoop Dogg concert at the state fair with a guy friend, two of his friends, and one of my girl friends. This will be one of his last nights in town before he leaves for a year and I want to spend time with him, and I like hanging out with him. I didn't tell my parents that I was going with boys though, or else they wouldn't let me go even though I know I'm not putting myself in danger because they're all good guys, just older. I'm 15 years old and I'll be 16 in a month, going into my junior year of high school. My mom wants my little brother to come with me, or she'll send my dad to "chaperone" because she thinks the crowd will be "rough." I find this a little unfair and think they should trust me enough to do this, I have a job at the state fair and I work there all day which is probably just as dangerous with the people who are there. How do I convince them to let me go and enjoy my time? Please help! Thanks! |
| Question: Being wrongly accused of something? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 05:44 AM PDT So, me and my friends were out the other day and we were walking passed three younger girls (we are 15, they were about 11) and we recognised one of them and one of my friends said to us 'Is that so and so's sister' and we all looked and she must have over heard as she said quite confidently 'Yeah I am!' and continued to walk. Unexpectedly one of my friends, said 'I don't like your sister she's a b***h in school' the rest of us were shocked and startedyou could say 'nervous laughing' which we aren't proud of. The girl stopped and yelled at us saying 'that's not very nice'. we all ran away shouting to eachother, not her, when she went around the corner.we saw the girls sister and I have quite bright hair and my friends are quite recognisable too, so the girl caught on that we were the ones that were around when our friend shouted at her sister. the girl said we should 'watch out' 'we know what we did' she will 'get her brother'. all of us were panicking, especially the girl that started it, but we didn't think too much of it. now, we found out that the sister is accusing us of 'racism' (they are polish, not of a different race so therefore it makes no sense) when we definitely were not racist at all. My dad is a different race, therefore I am not racist. the girl is posting on facebook she is 'excited' to 'slap' us in school. She has also threatened to get school and the police involved! We did NOT do anything, I doubt she can get police with no proof? This is all alleged, and it is NOT true. What to do? |
| Question: What can I do to protect my nephew? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 05:43 AM PDT My sister is that girl that when she gets a bf she doesn't care about anything. Including her son. So my mom has my nephew all the time. She comes home for about 2 hours then leaves when he falls asleep. She's a druggie and her bf is a dealer. They use her car. My nephews starting to be effected by it. And my parents don't know what to do bc if they kick her out she'll take my nephew bc she uses him as a tool. And if they go for custody they'll probably lose. And then she make it even worse on them. She's a terrible mom all she does is scream. I would try to get him but I just had a child myself and Unfortuantely I'm recovering from a recent surgery and can't get a job in going to school instead. So what is something that my family could do. We tried Getting her to sign over custody but she likes the control so she won't. And my nephews father is a deadbeat. Please help. My nephew is a sweet boy he listens to me but acts up when it comes to his mom. He is 4 and needs to be ready for school but he's like 2 years away. Everything my family does she goes back on. He's starting to go down hill. And don't judge me or my family just tell me what my options are id search the internet but don't know where to start. |
| Question: How to stop stealing money? Especially from my parents? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 05:36 AM PDT So I'm 14 years old currently and I don't know what to do. The first time I stole any money was a few years ago when I was in grade 3. I saw a 100 dollar bill lying on my mum's wallet and I took it. My parents found out that night because my wallet was see through and they didn't punish me. They didn't ground me, or not allow me outside to play or something. They just gave me a lecture. Since then I've been consistently stealing small amounts of money from my mum's wallet. Stealing maybe around 5-10 dollars from it whenever I felt like I was short on money. Other from the first time I was caught, I only got caught taking money out of my mum's wallet one other time, and that was around 3 years ago when I was around 11. Around two years ago I started actually getting money from my parents, around 100 dollars a month for my lunch at school, but even though I'm stealing significantly less frequently now, I'm still occasionally doing it. Now the amount has dropped to just coins and the like, I think around 5 dollars each time. I really need advice, I don't know what I should do, especially since I feel guilty about stealing the money, and my parents aren't doing anything other than giving me a short lecture about it, and I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Why does my mom do things just to make me cry? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 05:35 AM PDT For example, I've been keeping my room really clean for weeks and she called me a slob. She also always points out the negative things about me instead of the positive, it's really not fair. Why does she do this? |
| Question: How do I let my dad know I'm moving out tomorrow? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 05:13 AM PDT I just agreed to rent an apartment. I know its at the last minute but I had to quickly make a decision before the landlord gave it to someone else and want to move it tomorrow. I'm not going to be far from home, just 4 towns over. I'm worried how my dad will react because it is at a short notice |
| Question: Why do i get the feeling that i forgot someone importent to me ? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 04:58 AM PDT |
| Question: I insulted my mother? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 04:54 AM PDT So I was showing my mum my exam timetable. She said: u better start studying hard, I never see u study at all. I got pissed at her. I told her that i study at 6 in the morning in school (I reach school at 6). And I also do study at home. But she doesn't believe me. I also told her that it was because she was never around a lot as she works 6 days a week and comes home late. But she still thinks that i don't study. So eventually we started fighting. So I got mad and said: I don't want to be near people like you. My mum got offended and told my dad. So he told me that i was wrong. I know that i was wrong, but my mum doesn't know that I have problems in school. I tried telling her, but she doesn't care. All she cares about is grades. She doesn't know that I'm facing depression. Any advice on this? |
| Question: Why won't my dad let me date? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 04:47 AM PDT So I'm 14 and my dad won't let me or my other sisters date until we're 16 but my dad and stepmom are completely fine with my 15 year old sister dating a 20 year old |
| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 04:06 AM PDT I m a 15 year old female and I ve been having problems with my mom, stepdad and biological father. I have a job, I m getting my permit here soon, and I get good grades in school. My stepdad has major problems with narcotics and won t go to meetings and he s abusive, (emotionally, verbally and physically) my sister is the same way and my mom has an issue with them too. My mom married my stepdad when I was 5 and practically every year they ve gotten into fights because of my step dad taking his pills and my mom would threaten to leave and he d promise to change and never did. This past December my mom actually went through with it and they got seperated ,(not divorced) and said we weren t going back there ever again, but every weekend I had to spend with my real dad, she was staying at his house, going out to dinner with him and everything. 6 months after being away from him, my mom came home from work just freaking out and here she had found out that my stepdad was planning to cheat on her. It was not even two weeks later and she dragged me to his house and told me that they were moving back in together. Nothing has changed at all and I feel more unsafe than I ever have. Can somebody please help me just to see what my options are? I ve been trying for months to figure out my options and nothing has been working. Please can someone tell me what I can do to get out if here? |
| Question: How do I get my family to accept my relationship with a older woman? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 03:58 AM PDT The past couple of years have been quite difficult for me; parents divorcing, exams, losing friends etc but things are starting to come together for me now. My education is going well, I'm happier than before and I've been seeing someone that makes me so happy. She is an Asian woman who is a bit older than I am (18-29) and she is a major reason why everything in my life is so good now. My mum and sisters are not as supportive as they should be and it's causing some fiction between us. They are slowly starting to accept the relationship more and more but it's still not enough. I couldn't imagine my life without her - she's amazing in every way and no other girl or woman compares. My sisters feel she will want to return to her home country at some point but I cannot control that or how I feel. I've never felt like this before and I just want my family to be happy for me and love those who are important to me. |
| Question: Ladies mature question? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 03:57 AM PDT I'm dating a 21 year old. She said she's a virgin and wants to wait. The thing is on he instagram she likes alot of sex stuff. There's a pic that said "boys want us to deepthroat they junk but they can barely eat puzzy like a corn on the cob" and another one saying "we must talk about sex it's a must". Very similar like these post she like son the daily. Could she be lying??? Keep in mind it's no longer 1947 it's 2015 where the girls are just like guys aka players |
| Posted: 31 Aug 2015 03:45 AM PDT Why do my parents always ask me to get things that are in the same room as them when I'm not even in that room and ask me to get my sisters breakfast? I do it most of the time but why are they doing this? |
| Question: If I legally change my name can I change my last name to my moms? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 03:37 AM PDT |
| Question: Can I change my daughters last name to mine? Posted: 31 Aug 2015 03:31 AM PDT I still live with her father but I just really want to put my last name in front, can i do this? |
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