My sister got hers when she was 12 && I'm 19 and I haven't got mine. Does it take longer because I'm a boy? Or could I be pregnant?

My fiance and I have been together for years, but before I met her, I had a best friend who I've also known for years. She's also my ex girlfriend. I dated her before dating my fiance. 5 years ago, my best friend would torment and harass my fiance. It was my fault, because I would confide in her and give her very intimate details about my relationship and she would use it as ammunition against my fiance while she was harassing/tormenting her. My fiance dealt with the abuse for months until she decided to leave me one summer night in 2012. I came home from work and she was gone, along with all her things. She couldn't emotionally handle it anymore. I begged for her back. I promised her that I would leave my best friend, but I never did. I still stayed her friend for a few more weeks, although she ended up dropping our friendship anyway after finding out my fiance took me back. I really miss my best friend, even after 3 years. simply miss our friendship, and I'm considering contacting her again, but my fiance isn't happy about it. She said I could be her friend, but that it may cause her to leave again, and that if it does, that I shouldn't be surprised. I feel like I have to choose between my friend and my fiance, and I don't know what to do. My fiance's feelings are valid. She has every right to be upset with me right now but my best friend was there first. My fiance says I'm just trying to have my cake and eat it too. Any advice? Please give me realistic advice. I've tried reconnecting with my ex best friend last summer when my fiance and I took a break from our relationship. We were friends shortly before I noticed it just wasn't the same anymore. It didn't feel the same way and she was almost never around for me. I know there's a chance that will happen again, but is it worth another shot or no? Should I just keep my distance? Am I being selfish?

Ok I plan to ask my close friend to homecoming. She has liked me since valentines day. I didn't ask her out because I was scared of not being a good boyfriend for her but I looked past that. So me and our friend ella gave set up a plan. Ella will text her asking her to help ella with her hoco proposal to her boyfriend. But there really isn't a proposal. I'll be waiting in the hall when my crush asks to go to the 'bathroom' to help with this proposal. I'll have a box of basketball cupcakes in my hand with one saying hoco and another one saying yes or no. And the lid will be open dispalying the words "don't box me out! Be my hoco date and I'll always set a screen for you! ". This next part is tricky. I was thinking of doing a bouquet of roses that have a note attached to each stem explaining why I asked her and the last note will say because I like you ALOT or I write will you be my girlfriend on the outside of the bouquet or I just do one single rose. Could you answer this part too?? Oh and should I ask her 9/4 or 9/11??

So I have kind of a dysfunctional family so I have to live with my grandmother. I'm 16, almost 17. I like black nail polish and I want to wear it but my grandmother won't let me. How can I convince her that there's nothing wrong with it? Or how can I ask her to let me?

I'm not awkward but i do have my awkward moments. But most of the time people meet me and i instantly feel how awkward they talk to me both girls and guys (i'm a girl btw) . they don't hold my gaze and usually avert their eyes. And if they can they try to avoid dealing with me and go straight to the person next to me even if it had something to do with me. I don't think i'm intimidating as I've been told to have a baby face . also i keep a smile on just in case . so why do they do that ? And how can i change this ? I'm really tired of this happening in every club, community i join . thanks

Lo que sucede es que tengo un amigo que probablemente tenga el VIH y me contó que le hizo sexo oral a su novia, y me preocupo un poco por la chica, ya que no hay contagio por saliba pero él tiene al menos 2 muelas picadas y con caries. Y bueno, quisiera saber si en el caso hipotético de que mi amigo tenga esa enfermedad ¿la haya podido contagiar?. Hablando sin tabú, él me dijo que le hizo sexo oran en el ano y en la vagina, o sea le metió la lengua en la vagina y el ano, y de antemano agradezco a los que me brinden la información.

I used to be very self concious of myself and just hated who I was so I made a fake Facebook account just so I could see what it felt like to be pretty and have guys talking to me all the time well I started talking to this one guy in particular and we talked for a long time and he started catching feelings for this girl he thought I was and I started catching feelings for him well we started dating been dating for like 9 months and I just don't want to do it anymore but I don't want to loose him I planned on deleting the account way sooner but then I started really falling for him I care about him as a person I truly am ink be with him but unfortunately he's Inlove with the girl he thinks I am he always send these long messages about how much he loves me and I just don't want to loose him I don't know what to do anymore

I've spent two years in a relationship on and off because he was going through some things that affected how he treated me. For the first quarter, he was awesome and a stand up guy. He had some personal things go on and started acting different towards me. We we through a bad break up and he has broken down and committed himself to making things right. He was there for my baby that's not his. In the mean time my baby's dad wants a chance to be a family and has been there when some major things happened to me when the other guy was absent. Now, I'm stuck in the middle. FYI, baby's dad has not been present for her in the past much. I have a nice home and don't want to be used by guys trying to take over my things.

It certainly seems like everything you used to enjoy ends once they come along

Just wondering if I am the weird one here but this website (http://bettersleep.org/mattresses-and-more/mattress-sizes) claims "A full size bed is only enough space for a single sleeper and only if the person is under 5 feet 5 inches tall" I'm 5.10 and I feel like I'm swimming on a pool when sleeping on a full and even when I sleep with my 5'6 girlfriend, we still have enough room for a a third person, like the extreme right side is empty. To be honest even on a standard twin (100 cm wide) we've slept pretty comfortable. What do you think? Isn't it weird to claim that a full bed is just enough for a one person?

Hola! Un cordial saludo a todos los que me leen. Le habla un joven de República Dominicana el cual está pasando por una situación más que difícil, expondré mi caso por este medio con el fin de que sus opiniones puedan alentar me o ayudarme a encontrar salida. Mi caso es el siguiente: Cuando era mas joven de unos 16 conosi del amor de Dios y pasaron varios años y creía en su conosimiento, luego llegaron momentos duros lo cual me movió a apartarme del señor, luego de eso ingrese en un mundo para en el cual en ese tiempo no conocía (la homosexualidad) bien crey que podía vivir lejos del señor y que ya eran con mis fuerzas pero no fue asi; puesto que luego de eso varias cosas an tocado mi vida de una manera devastadora tanto que siento desmayar y no encontrar salida, mi familia esta dividida mi padre está divorciado, no tenemos casa propia, el local donde esta el negocio de mi papa no es de el y se deve la renta sin contar que esta en quiebra, se debe a varios bancos cantidad de dinero que creo que nunca podríamos pagar, una enfermedad incurable tocó mi vida lo cual para mi es devastador en resumen mi familia, economía y salud es un total desastre. Me reconcilie con el señor y deje el mundo de la homosexualidad pero en mi vida no e visto ninguna mejora todo va de mala en peor, pues todo esto sin mencionar el desempleo y que devo el transporte y la mensualidad de la universidad y la deprecion que aropa mi vida. habrá una oportunidad para mi??? Tendré una salida??

I just need to get my story out there because every time I look it up on the internet it's always someone else's story & im just super confused. I'm not afraid to help her out if she is in a relationship & I'm not afraid to call the police or do whatever I need to do so here's my story/my mothers story. this is my moms boyfriend her & my dad are no longer together. this boyfriend use to be her ex boyfriend because he was a stalker & she had to get a restraining order. she started dating other guys and when they got back together they kept having arguments about her ex & everything you can think of. he's kind of slow. but they have arguments all the time and he says things like "why you got to be so stupid ?!" I really need to know.

My daughter has long curly hair that she wears in 2 braids and this boy grabbed her hair and swung it like jump ropes, so she pushed him away and he socked her in the eye, so she has a black eye. My daughter is my husband whole world, they look and act just alike and they are very close, so when my husband seen my daughter face he was furious to say the least and he went to the kids father house and knocked him around a few times, if it weren't for my brother he probably would've beat him more, he gave him 2 blackeyes, his reasons for this are obvious. My husband is a sweet person, but when it comes to people he love he will get crazy. Some people are saying my husband was wrong and others disagree. what do you think?

You don't understand how scared I am! This guy in my class hates me absolutely no doubt I know! He hates me I hate him. He's constantly mean to me and picking on me and my friends! The whole class knows that his friends and my friends are sworn enemy's...but lately he stares at me and then holds it for 3,4 seconds then look away. I'm so scared!! He IS a problem child each day he gets into trouble!! Why does he stare at me like this??

soulless means "wholeless"

So I met this guy three years ago, online. We talked for a bit, lost touch then contacted each other when I graduated High school. So I went to Dubai with my best friend because I've always wanted to go there. We ended up going to college there. It was the third week when I met the guy I used to talk to. Didn't know he was living in Dubai, he's Pakistani so he was living in Pakistan. Anyways, three months later we decided that we wanted to get married. I've met his mom and dad and it was fine. Problem is my family. I've never had a good relationship with them or my older brother so I was scared to contact them. When I lived with them, they were very judgmental, controlling me 24/7 and brought cultural into religion. I haven't contacted them since I moved to Dubai and I liked it that way. But I contacted them and told them about Hussain( let's call him that). texted my sis and bro before i called my mom. Bro contacted me saying we don't him blah blah. Told him, I knew the guy very well Called my mom that night.. didnt go well To Make a long story short, she ended up saying I would never marry a guy out of my race. I told her that racism wasn't allowed in Islam. As long as he's muslim and we understand each other, then it's all good. She hung up on me but not before telling me that I was an embarrassment to the family. That the only reason I moved was because I was haunting for guys. That I was always a slut. She would never allow me to marry him. What should I do?!

I don't know if I'm just blowing things out of proportion but it started maybe last month when they drew a penis on our garage door. I told my dad about this and we just disregarded it as some kid who was bored. But recently it's been more active; this past Thursday they knocked on our front door and rang the door bell and it was about 9:40 PM. It only concerns me because I was home alone that night and I don't know how they knew unless they had seen my brother leave around 8PM earlier that night.. Obviously I didn't answer the door but when I woke up on Friday I saw they had drawn a penis on my CAR. Thankfully it was car chalk and could be washed off but I'm getting worried because this means they know I drive this car (There's a total of 4 cars at my house). I'm not really sure what to do at this point... should I report this or wait to see if they eventually stop?

What would you think would happen if you wrecked your dream car and your mom tells you too bad no more driving till she is,dead Why do I want to bang her so bad

My aunt is young & pretty but is mean to me & my young cousins, & I always imagine her getting turned into a wrinkled old lady because of it; I even write stories about it. I started telling them to my cousins like campfire tales, & even though it's about their mom they join in with their own takes (which are surprisingly good) about how she magically grows old- the oldest even said "turning into an old hag". They seem to enjoy it, at least freely add in, & I am taking creative writing classes, & this process has actually greatly helped with my imagination & descriptive skills. Is this wrong? Should I keep telling them the stories & letting them make new ones? P.S. And today the eldest said "Why don't we do one about your mom?" Don't know how I feel about that, what should I do? And if my aunt finds out about it, what do I do?

generally speaking, I find myself attracted to the unconventional. But I found lately that I'm attracted to men no one (or barely anyone) would find them attractive OR even think they're special. for example, I like : *men who have a VERY bad sight that they can't go through their daily lives without their glasses. *men with half face burns *mute men *one eyed man I don't know why I'm writing this in here but I feel like I need to let it out. People around me might judge me for this so I feel the need to share it with you guys .

My mom was using Webmd to look up some symptoms and didn't know how to work the symptom checker. She was trying to ask me how to select a lower part of the back on the model in the symptom checker, but instead of just pointing to the lower back of her sides she walked up behind me and roughly and repeatedly poked me in the back of my love handles area. I ABSOLUTELY HATE being touched unless someone asks for my permission first, so when she touched me I quickly turned around and yelled "HEY! Please don't touch me". Then she told me to shut up and ignored my concern. I asked her again "Hey, could ask before you touch me? And don't tell me to shut up" to which she started yelling at me and got very defensive and told me to stop having an attitude with her. I thought I was standing up for myself, I've told her in the past I don't like being touched unless someone asks for a hug or for permission first. My intension was not to back talk her or be disrespectful but I felt her touching me and telling me to shut up was way out of line. I love my mom and I know she loves me but when she does things like this I feel like she doesn't care about my feelings and totally disregards my feeling and opinions and never wants to take me serious. I have tow main questions: 1. Was I right or wrong to have asked her to not touch me without asking and not telling me to shut up? 2. Should I confront her and tell her how that situation made me feel?

i know imdeserve happiness, but i have yet to find the right reasons to make myself happy. i victimize myself. i blame myself for all of my familys problems and i know thats because i am overly ambitious about how i want my life to be and i hve a huge ego . i have a mole on my right butt cheek, and according to astrology thst means i will live a deprive life, a life of poverty. i think its true to the point where i have certain expectstions of myself thst i will never be reslly happy with myself, but i wish it wasnt. i think simple fides would make me hppy. like if i lost weight, and if i had a pet, but unttsinible gols are something i excel in.

I've never had the slightest bit of celebration for any of my birthdays though my parents always went all out for my older sister's. It makes me feel really insecure cuz I'm turning 20 in a couple weeks, and I still have yet to have anyone care enough to even wish me a happy birthday, let alone give me a birthday present or want to celebrate it with me in some way. Is that selfish and materialistic of me? (To want someone to make me feel important for a day) Cuz I feel like I'm a shitty human being for wanting attention. Like "it's not all about you dude, so just get over it it's not a big deal, stop being so full of it to think you deserve to be held in prestige just for existing. Not everyone gets that sort of life and the fact most everyone has this entitlement about birthdays is stupid and you're just being an *** for wanting any of it." I HATE wanting. Because wanting only makes me feel selfish and needy. I don't want to be that person. And I'm kinda hard wired into seeing being needy as a chick thing, so since I'm a guy I really have to ball up and pretend I'm unfazed. It sucks. It's just like more pressure to be unfeeling and maki able to everyone else's desires. Any input about any of this or even just ideas about how to get over it or make my own something or other for myself for my birthday that wouldn't be horribly lonesome would be great. Thanks guys. :)

I really dont know what to ask for this question but i just wanted to tell. My young step uncle died today and im incredibly upset. But before we found out from his mother, we were waiting for news when his son said "daddy's dead " It's crazy because where did he even learn what dead means. He is only 3. Then we asked him who told you that and he pointed to the wall. It kind of freaked me out.

I'm 22 years old. I have a one year old by a guy I met almost 3 years ago. I'm crazy about him. And the feeling is mutual. We have had our ups and downs and I made the mistake of leaving to my parents instead of working things out. My bf and I have fought before, he hit me I hit him. Which is not right but we have both got pass that. That's all my parents needed to be against him. My bf and I chose to be together and work things out for our son so far everything is great. Except that my parents do not approve. They want me to put him on child support. They say things like he has never done anything for him and that he's a bum, then they throw the "fight" in my face. He's in school, he have a good job as a journeyman electrician, own apartment and two vehicles. Far from a bum, and he buys me and our son whatever we want or need. Always have. I've tried to move on and date to make my parents happy but I was very depressed, I lost a lot of weight, I was a mess and so was he. We decided to do this together. And I've made my choice. My parents get upset when I go to spend time with him. Idk how to solve this. I'm torn, all I want is peace and to be happy. They try to belittle me and call me young and dumb and it hurt. Idk what to do. I'm black, he's white. That's a part of this too. They call him a racist redneck to his face my bf react the same. It's a mess. I don't think they would ever like each other and we plan to marry after we are both done with school in 3 years.

I'm going to start by saying I'm 17 and she's 15.. We live an hour away from each other (We're in Canada) We met like 4-5 days ago on Periscope she was broadcasting and she is a singer and she was singing like so great!! and we started talking and yeah... For the past few days we've been talking through twitter (I added her first) and almost every time she would throw in a "aha or LOL or AHAHA" with emoji smiles and winks. She started all of the convos for the most part (except for yesterday I did) She stated she has a BF but she idk... It sounds like she's flirting but I want to believe she's being friendly.I got told only by her that I look like Kanye west LOL... Most people would TOTALLY disagree but hey it's a compliment.. She even asked me personal questions.. like about my life and in response she told me a lot about her. She gave me her twitter, facetime and snapchat.. when we facetimed she was laughing a lot at my jokes even though a few of them were dumb lol and as I said earlier in return she was telling me about her personal life. She asked me if I have a GF currently and said I'm sweet and a good guy . She sometimes does the shy faces too when she responds like :$ lol.. Are any of these signs of flirting or just a friendship happening? She even stated she would like me to come to her town lol.. idk help?? thoughts? I rarely know much about her BF lol.. so don't ask me anything about him..

My boyfriend has sexual fantasy fetishes which is effecting our real life badly and i can't bear my family and friends because he included them all in the fantasies and it makes me hate them all now amd sex is so scary.i cant breakup with him i kept trying since fetish started.i want him to be fixed.its everytime he is so frustrated he does these things. Help.

I just got settled in for my last year at college. I'm extremely anxious. For starters, I hate my major and see no future career with it (that I would enjoy). I have absolutely NO idea what I want to do in life. All I know is that I want to move to the west coast. But even that creates a problem because my immediate family is on the east coast, and I suffer really bad separation anxiety when I'm away from them. I just can't see the future and it scares me. Older adults in my life are constantly asking what I'm doing after college, and I can hardly come up with a fake answer. So many people my age are happy in their major and know what they want to do in life--I DON'T AND IT FREAKS ME OUT. How do I even begin to stop my anxiety? Any life advice out there? PLEASE!

For one I don't really like him for my own personal reasons. I just don't. I accidentally walked in on them during their "intimate" time at their house. And I happen to he see his penis. I was bothered by the fact that it big, especially in girth. After that I really didn't want him for my sister. The fact that he is Mexican made me even more angry. What should I do? I prefer her to marry a white guy. I also don't even want to speak to her or go to her wedding next Saturday. This is a serious issues so please serious answers

So I was fired from my job. I unfriended my co workers,as to not have them involved. I knew I was getting fired. One coworker was very supportive and made me feel better the couple days leading up to be fired. She said things like , don't go in angry or they will think you're guilty (which I wasnt, it was false alligations) and she also said " if they fire you for that, they might as well fire everyone else" . we had only REALLY been talking a couple days. She seemed very interested in my life. I live in a new place and I don't really have friends. So her talking to me like that meant alot. Well she completely stopped talking to me, two days before my meeting . She won't accept my friends request and she won't tell me why. Strangely I got pretty attached quickly, as we had alot in common. Would any of you stop talking to me, if in her situation any why? Actually all of the ones that I liked stopped talking to me and wont accept my friends request. This one person in particular has relly hurt my feelings though.

ok the only reason why I'm so crazy over my ex is cause he was my first love and the one who i lost my virginity too we were ON AND OFF for a year then in june he just stopped talking to me all of a sudden and stopped wanting sex then I Noticed this girl just started commenting on all of his Facebook stuff and i noticed he would talk to her nicer than he would ever talk to me then i realized that was his new girl AND SHES WAY UGLIER THAN ME and is 30 with 4 kids while I'm 21 with NO KIDS i was so shocked that my ex a 24 year old guy with NO KIDS would leave me for that so i sent his new girlfriend this " he is not gonna be faithful to you he always comes back to me so unless you wanna share his d!ck with me i suggest you not get too comfortable btw how does my p*ssy taste?? haha" after he found out i did that He called me a dirty bi**h and told me if i ever call him again he's gonna get the cops on me he blocked me on Facebook and told me to delete his number and that i'll NEVER GET HIS D!CK AGAIN IM OLD NEWS and i still miss my ex so much even after he said such mean things to me is this normal?? i can't even go on Facebook anymore cause its boring not having him there to look at and it just reminds me of how he kicked me out of his life FOR GOOD should i make a fake profile so i can add him and see what he's doing he's soooo f**kin hot

My name is delvonte I know it might say Blake but it's delvonte. I hate my name sooooo much I feel it's to long my grandfather was suppose to name me but he was in Spain so my "father" named me his name I ladell so he wanted his name mixed with his. I'm you going to change it I'm 100% sure it's just I'm not sure on the name my grandfather wants to name me Eddie or Kacko I like them but I'm not sure I like the name Johnny can you all please suggest names

Im looking for newage travelers! people who share my ideals. peace givers who travel. basicly traveling hippies. i want to join a convoy of people who travel. a site or a phone number for new ge travelrs or a peace convoy to pick up a lost soul! please help

Me and my wife are getting bored with the same old sex night after night. She sucks my dick. I rub her nipples. She bends over and I **** her in the ***. Etc etc etc... We've invited everyone we know but so far nothing's happened except my boss said he might come. I've been told 8 is good.

I want a female cousin so we can go to her baby shower and buy girly dresses

So I'm new to high school and there's this cute guy in my elective class. On the first few days of school, he was kinda shy but he talks to me . Now it's the second week of school and we talk a lot. One day he showed me a video of him boxing and was talking about how strong he was. Then another day in class we laughed almost the whole time and he kept staring at me with his beautiful eyes to make me laugh. Then on another day, we also laughed a lot and he called me Hun. He always stares into my eyes when we talk and always listens to what I say. He will also find ways to touch my arms or hands in class. I was tracing my hand (for part of a dumb project) and he put his hand on top of mine and said "Put my hand on their too" . And another time when he said I have small hands, so we compared hands and he interlocked our hands together. Then one time this girl said my arms were soft and he wanted to feel my arms so he felt my arm and just left it there for a few seconds (30 seconds probably). I think he's really cute and I like him but I'm a freshman and he's a senior. So do you think he likes me ? And if he does, can a senior date a freshman?

he texts me a lot, but whenever I ask him questions like how his summer went, he reads it and doesn't answer, until I text him again the next day

So I moved from upstate ny to Brookyn. It's been a year and I hate it here. I hate everything Ioved it in my old house. I was happy then and now I am not I miss my friends and I miss everything there. I moved about 6 hrs from where I used to live and I can't visit often. We moved because they thought it would be better here but it's not. They still want to live here but I don't, scratch that, I can't. I'm not happy and I'm only a kid I should be having fun hanging out with friends but I can't do that here. It sucks. Really bad. I also cry a lot because I miss it there. How can I convince them to move back? And please don't say that I'm being a brat or something cuz I'm not. Until ur in the same situation ur not the one to talk. Please help.