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- Question: Could my stepdad be cheating on my mom?
- Question: Why am I smiling when I go near someone?
- Question: Is this right ?
- Question: Chicos y chicas que hago para recuperarlo? 10 a la mejor respuesta?
- Question: Looking michael a borges passway 8-24-2015?
- Question: Why am I having to jump through all your hoops to get a password to be accepted ,which was zzzzzero wrong with it !!!!!!!!!!!?
- Question: I'm kinda paranoid... what was this guy trying to do?
- Question: My boyfriend says I'm childish; do you think I am? Ahould I try to change or just let this relationship go?
- Question: What are some Japanese female fox names?
- Question: Am I doing the right thing?
- Question: Why do I feel so lonely when I am married?
- Question: Ashamed of sister who's married to old man?
- Question: I witnessed my niece being raped and molested by her stepfather while she was 3 - 4 years old and it could've been longer?
- Question: Sometimes I wish I wasn't married, so I could date, and have physical relationships with new people. Do other people ever feel that way?
- Question: How to tell a guy you're pregnant?
- Question: Our neighbors and their guests are using our driveway without permission. How do I get them to stop?
- Question: I lied to my closest people in this world and this lie was three years ago it's getting worse every single day what should i do?
- Question: Family argument! Advice needed!?
- Question: How do I convince myself to not to kill my dad?
- Question: Had sex with my neighbour. Need help.?
- Question: This is a very honest question?
- Question: How would you feel in this hypothetical situation?
- Question: Why is this dude very snappy at me when he is having problem with the wife?
- Question: Boyfriend acting weird. Is this his way of breaking up?
- Question: I want to fight my friend to make him tell the truth?? methods?
- Question: What if the spouse has a new family with a baby?
- Question: Why do I hate middle school?
- Question: Do the majority of men prefer independent or submissive women?
- Question: Not sure what to do here.....quick question?
- Question: Is this weird?
- Question: Is this considered as sexual abuse?
- Question: What does this mean exactly? "I am better than I was. I will be better than I am"?
- Question: Feeling alone/ molested?
- Question: How to show someone you really care about them?
- Question: Should I transfer to my girlfriends college?
- Question: How do I form deep relationships with people?
- Question: Is it possible to have a bad spirit affecting my relationship on a certain date of the month?
- Question: 30 day change finance make money?
- Question: I'm male and I have a girlfriend but I've developed feelings for a male I've known for a while.. what do I do?
- Question: Dad punches and hits us all the time how do we stop him?
- Question: Help me please!!!!!!?
- Question: What should I do about this?
- Question: Sexual and weird text from a boy?
- Question: Help! I'm ugly?
- Question: What is play-fighting?
- Question: Do you think my mom is insecure and fake?
- Question: Is it impolite to sit in the back seat with your friend, rather than the front seat with your mom?
- Question: WHAT DOES THIS MEAN ?
- Question: How can i change my moms mind ?
- Question: Studying abroad with or without parental consent?
- Question: Why does my girlfriend care about this?
- Question: When I get older?
- Question: Could i bang my friends mom on vacation?
- Question: Is it bad to masterbate?
- Question: If someone says, "I've missed my mom a lot, she never played favorites. She was really great" what is that supposed to mean?
- Question: How should I let my family know that I'm getting married soon when I already have two sisters getting married?
- Question: Partner doesn't want a baby?
| Question: Could my stepdad be cheating on my mom? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 02:57 PM PDT He used to be a funny guy, humorous to a fault with dad jokes. He had the old guy beer gut and greying hair. But all of a sudden he's as mean as a gator with a toothache, swearing at me, his wife and my little sister (who's nine). He went out and made my mom buy him a treadmill and he's on it CONSTANTLY. She had to buy it because he doesn't make much higher than minimum wage. He used to be the kind of guy who would down and entire box of twinkies within hours of purchase and now he only eats things he deems healthy. He's never given a damn about his health and what he cares about now is stuff that effects how he looks. He's taken to drinking, heavy drinking and then he'll go out with his buddies and come back near 1am. This change was sudden and I'm worried, these shouting matches that he starts are getting out of hand and it's as if he starts a fight for a reason to go out at night. I'm scared to bring it up to my mom but she's said she's getting concerned about him but not specifically what... And he has a history of lying about where he goes when he leaves the house but it's not usually to another woman's house just to his bachelor buddies who throw parties. Opinion time; What do you guys think? Does it sound like he's cheating? Or is he just burnt out and frustrated? It worries me because my little sister thinks they're going to divorce and she blames herself without provocation, maybe she knows something that I don't. |
| Question: Why am I smiling when I go near someone? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 02:44 PM PDT I'm trying to talk to someone about something serious, but when I go near his room I am starting to smile. It's like my body forces me to smile. I feel awkward so I just turn back. How do I stop this? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2015 02:28 PM PDT So yesterday my stepdads nephew and his friend flew over from America to Australia to see us, this is the second time I've met them. My brother had his friends over so his bedroom was full, so my stepdads nephew and his friend had to stay in my room for the night, I had to share bed with my stepdads nephew, and he like sort of spooned me, but I was too tired to notice, but when I woke up I was laying with my head on his heat as he had his arms around me and when he saw I was up he said " good morning beautiful " as if we where dating or some sh*t. I have to admit he is pretty hot, but I don't know my relation to him, if there was no relation at all I think I be relived, but if there is what do I do ? |
| Question: Chicos y chicas que hago para recuperarlo? 10 a la mejor respuesta? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 02:27 PM PDT hola bueno esque en la tienda de enfrente de mi escuela hay un tipo que me gusta y yo le gustaba a el el año pasado pero pues ahora que a mi me gusta ni siquiera me ve y creo que ha perdido el interes, tampoco nos llevamos muy bien que digamos pero pues si nos sonreiamos y saludabamos. Hace una semana un tipo con el que trabaja me llamo por mi nombre y no sabia que pensar. en fin lo quiero recuperar es decir quiero que vuelva a mostrar interes en mi. porfa ayuda |
| Question: Looking michael a borges passway 8-24-2015? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 02:01 PM PDT |
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| Question: I'm kinda paranoid... what was this guy trying to do? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 01:41 PM PDT So I was walking home from football practice, and this one guy came up behind me and said, "Hey i just moved in here, what is there to do for fun?" and i just said i didn't know cuz i didnt really have time to do things because of football. Then he asked me what kind of women i liked. i said all kinds. and then he asked me , what about older women? and i said no. then he asked me if i wanted to make money, because his friend is looking for a model. I said no thanks. He asked me that three times, and i said no three times. Then he asked me for my name and number, and i said i didn't have a phone. I said I had to go and walked away. BTW im 14 and he looked like he was 30/40. He seemed slightly mentally unstable, because he kept stuttering. What was he trying to do? scam me? is he a predator? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2015 12:30 PM PDT My boyfriend and I havent been going out for too long but now that we spend more time together he notices things about me that he thinks are childish. Keep in mind we only have a year age gap of 20 and 21. First of all I don't drink. He says most people drink once they are like 18 and then he asks if I will drink with him next year. I personally have never seen an appeal in drinking and don't really want to try. Secondly I don't smoke pot. It's not because I think it's a bad thing to do nor do I condemn those who do smoke. I simply am not into the idea of being in an altered state of mind. Thirdly we haven't had sex yet. Honestly I'm not big on sex and I told him this when we first thought about going out. I have done it once in my life and to be honest it just felt gross to me. I would do it to keep my partner happy but right now I don't feel we have gotten to that point in our relationship. Lastly I don't like going to parties. I'd prefer to stay home and read or watch movies. I never stop him from going and will join him if he asks but he says he knows i always want to be at home. He tells me that I'm acting like a child that has to be a "good girl" I've told him that I'm just not a very exciting person. I asked if he wanted to break up but that pissed him off because he says im more willing to throw away a relationship than to change anything about myself. I just feel our personalities clash too much for this to work. Is it just me? Do I need to change? |
| Question: What are some Japanese female fox names? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 12:13 PM PDT I know Kurama would be a male fox name. Would there be different names depending on the color of the fox? Like a golden fox vs a red fox? Also, what are some for tides/storms/currents and similar? (Also female japanese) |
| Question: Am I doing the right thing? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 12:13 PM PDT soon im calling cps, (children's protection services) because of my parents. my mom and dad constantly fight and my relationship with them was bad.. at least I thought so until one night I was sleeping and my dad was drunk and slept in the bed with my mother and I and in the middle of the night, I woke up and my dad was trying to pull me toward him and of course of natural instinct I yelled stop it and he wouldn't stop and he tried to shove his hand down my pants and kept yelling stop and pulling myself back, and he wouldnt stop and finally I broke free and slept on the couch.. so I was obviously very upset, and my mom doesnt really believe me, she says she thinks if it happened he was drunk or doing it in his sleep, and I know he knew it was me, he had his arm around my mother.. so of course im very unhappy, she doesnt beleive me. I have a lot of spiritual believes, and when my mom and I fight and she has lied to ne so much that I cant take it anymore especially now then ever, so I spiritually adopted my best friends mom because she has known me since I was 4 and has always loved me for who I am.. so I spiritually adopted her. you may not beleive in all that kind of stuff, but even if u dont.. I want to call cps, an get out of this house that I was almost raped in and out of this family that I wasnt meant so I find it fortunate that I found a new family that accepts me an loves me. so is calling cps the right thing to do? |
| Question: Why do I feel so lonely when I am married? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 11:44 AM PDT My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years now, this will be our first year married but I have just felt so lonely. He works hard and I am so proud of him but he never wants to spend time with me or put in the effort on making me feel special. His parents constantly point out what is wrong with me, for instance, his dad once said that there were prettier out there that I would just have to accept it. I have no idea where that even came from, I never once told my husband I was the prettiest woman in the world. I am told constantly that what my husband makes is his ( I stay at home with our son). The money is not mine, he makes it and he earns it. Now, I have always been the one who worked when we were dating, he never had a job but I constantly worked and earned my own money, so this is new to me just as it is to him. I love my son and love being able to spend time with him but I would love to work, just right now, I can't. My husband will not say anything to his parents about the way they talk to me, he just constantly tells me, it is okay. It is not okay and it has started to take its toll on me, I have started thinking about divorce, having dreams about having sex with other people ( i mean dreams dreams, like asleep and dreaming), I do not know if that is normal, I love my husband, I am just tired of feeling like a slave to a man that doesn't make me feel wanted. |
| Question: Ashamed of sister who's married to old man? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 11:25 AM PDT My sister brought shame to our family by marrying a man 24 years older. They've been married for 6 years and have a gorgeous and smart 5 year old. She's only 35 and I think she should have married a man her own age. She's bring her husband to meet the rest of our huge family and I'm afraid they'll laugh at her be because she was desperate to marry an old man I'm not married, but given the chance I wouldn't marry an old man. My sister is the only one who's. married. She's 35 and her husband is 59. How do I prepare her for the teasing that will come her way? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2015 11:09 AM PDT He would come into the room at night around 4:00am when everyone was sleeping, sometimes she would be sleeping on the chair, and he would be naked without any pants or underwear on then he would rub himself up against her in between her legs on her vagina. This happened many nights, and she would waking up screaming and crying that a pee-pee was going inside of her. I saw him doing this but, I was adolence and afraid to say anything. I'm not sure if He pressed himself all the way inside of her or was just circling his dick in her vagina and then he pressed down, but she would always waking up screaming in the middle of the night and crying, sometimes she would throw-up in the middle of the night, other times she would pee her pants when she was standing up a-Lot, I decided to tell this Because, I felt sick for knowing this, . It is many years later, and she's an adult. She doesn't remember the story, of when she was 3 or 4, It is many years Later, and I wanted to tell someone. She doesn't live with her stepdad anymore, and her mother isn't with him anymore. But, I wanted to Tell someone , I feel Bad and Confused, And, if I told my niece would she go into Shock and not even believe it. Could he still get in Trouble?What would you do, and she has brothers from her stepdad, so she still loves him. What would you Do? He would rub his dick up against, her and inside her legs. I think this happened for 3 yrs. but I'm not sure. She Would always wake up Screaming from Nightmares. She would Wet the Bed Every Night. @ Amanda- I was a victim myself of abuse. I was only a kid when I witnessed this. - It was not my Fault. @ ccorridon~ what a Beautiful Answer. <3 " |
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| Question: How to tell a guy you're pregnant? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 10:43 AM PDT A month ago I met this guy. We hooked up. (My first time) he let me know he didn't want a relationship. I was fine with it, even though his actions said otherwise. He's in the Marines so he travels a lot right now he stationed somewhere in Japan. Even though condoms were used I found out I'm pregnant. Of course it's his. I'm 100% sure. He's the only guy I've been with in that way. Since he's thousands and thousands miles away how do I tell him he's gonna be a father?? He won't be back for a year. And I know it's not smart to wait to tell him. We Skype once or twice a week. Something like this happened to him before. But he was played the girl wasn't really pregnant. He's going to think I'm lying because he told me the story. What do I do? How do I tell him. I'm absolutely ****** |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2015 10:24 AM PDT They are using our driveway to access their backyard because they have a utility trailer blocking the driveway where it runs into the backyard. They know we don't want them using our driveway and yet they keep doing it! They don't seem to care at all so confrontation won't do any good. We rent from the same landlord but the landlord has a policy about bothering him over neighborly disputes. The lease states no fences and no kind of PERMENANT blocking device so putting up a fence is out. However I have thought about putting our trash cans/flowers at the edge of the driveway -- I think they would move/run them over though. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to make it where they cannot use our driveway anymore or get them to stop?? Any suggestions |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT We used to tell each other everything so my mom was pregnant that time and when she got the baby died I couldn't tell him that because he was doing the exams I didn't want to distract his mind and at the same week my aunt had a baby so I used him to tell him this is my brother and now after three years he asks me how is your brother everytime I go to my aunt I take pictures of her son and send them to him I'm tired of it plus he loves me he planning to marry me and in one day or another he gonna find out but I'm afraid if I tell him he gonna leave me because of my lie and the worse thing he hates s lying plus he tells me everything honestly and I lied for his goods I don't know how I'm going to fix my mistake please help |
| Question: Family argument! Advice needed!? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 09:49 AM PDT |
| Question: How do I convince myself to not to kill my dad? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 09:02 AM PDT I hate him so much. He's lazy and doesn't contribute to our family. Like he won't even take the trash out. He doesn't bring enough money home and then demands like fancy food and stuff. And hes such a misogynist. He even verbally abuses us. He calls me and my mom "bitches" just because we refuse to clean up after him. My mom also works but she can come home and help around the house so why can't he. I hate him so much. I actually want to strangle him to death. I literally hate him so much i want him dead and out of our lives. |
| Question: Had sex with my neighbour. Need help.? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 08:56 AM PDT How to hide it from my husband. My neighbour is quite hot and rough in bed. I want to keep meeting him. But how to hide this from my husband ? |
| Question: This is a very honest question? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 08:55 AM PDT Is it normal to have hurt feelings when a therapeutic relationship ends? This happened with my school psychologist. Should it ever have bothered me to the point I needed the advice of a clinical psychologist? @JMITW, I never threatened, pressured, or came anywhere near the individual. If temporary hospitalization is extreme then I wonder what you call the individuals who have done much worse working with clinical psychologists. |
| Question: How would you feel in this hypothetical situation? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 08:28 AM PDT Let me preface this by saying this situation is hypothetical. I'm not saying it happened! Just imagine this happened to you... I would like to know how you'd feel IF it did! Imagine you have these two friends, and they're a husband, and wife. They're two of your closest friends. One morning you get a call from the husband and he's freaked out because the wife didn't come home last night. She said she was going to the store and she'd be home by 8:00. And that her phone was off. You guys try calling her phone but get her voice mail, you leave messages but she doesn't answer. You guys think the worst (kidnapping, murder, etc.), and the police are called. Finally she comes home and the husband tells you she was at this guy's house (an ex bf of yours but that's another story) and he's furious. You ask the wife if it's true and she won't say where she was, just that she was out roaming the town. The next day she sends you a message saying she was at a donut shop studying and her husband was upset because he didn't know. Then the NEXT day she says, I'm sorry to make you wait but what happened is that I went to a picnic outdoors and fell asleep there, and I feel terrible and embarrassed but I didn't mean to make anyone worry. Hubby was mad at first but we've since made up. Would you suspect she was lying? Would it be mean to suspect that? If this happened to you would you believe her? Would you be upset? Suzanne... you brought up a good point, and it's crossed my mind. I'm getting worried about her, too. Her behavior isn't normal and I wonder if she has some weird issue going on. I was mad at first and I still am, but now I'm more worried than anything else. |
| Question: Why is this dude very snappy at me when he is having problem with the wife? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 08:14 AM PDT his wife is in love with me but we are not together...I'm basically the third party...I'm like his wife rebound..... Dude is get snappy at me when they are having problems..almost like a menopausal woman?? Why is it my fault? I'm not even contacting his wife...she contacts me... |
| Question: Boyfriend acting weird. Is this his way of breaking up? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 08:08 AM PDT I haven't seen my boyfriend in 9 days. Last time I saw him he gave me a necklace he'd made me & everything seemed fine. As a bf he always wants to hold my hand, cuddle me, need reassurance & is very very affectionate. So after Sunday he was acting distant. I couldn't get much out of him. I was texting him only. He said he was settling in to the new place & making his first meal. When I asked if everything's ok, he said there nothing on his mind, he just hasn't got any motivation & feels awful not texting me back. I replied & got no reply. I messaged him on Monday & all he could say was"I'm thinking bout you too." I don't understand where this came from or if we're even a couple anymore. he's not communicating. I want to help but he's being selfish to keep me in the dark. |
| Question: I want to fight my friend to make him tell the truth?? methods? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 07:52 AM PDT so my friend likes someone and he has agreed to fight me for the truth, if i win he'll tell who he likes and if he wins i will guess someone i haven't guessed yet. we just need a method of fight, can be physical but we wouldn't hurt each other i guess. thought of elastic bands and a target, or like Mario Kart. HELP??? okay we have agreed to do a 2/3 contest, one of the things will be Mario Kart |
| Question: What if the spouse has a new family with a baby? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 07:49 AM PDT |
| Question: Why do I hate middle school? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 06:42 AM PDT 6th grade was good 7th grade was horrible and I'm worried for 8th grade, I hate how the kids act and all the cliques. Does it get better? and why does a lot of people not like middle school? gosh I just want it to be over and come to the part where everyone are over themselves and act normal again. |
| Question: Do the majority of men prefer independent or submissive women? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 06:16 AM PDT |
| Question: Not sure what to do here.....quick question? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 04:54 AM PDT I'm planning on relocating to a new city with the money I have saved up. I've begun applying the jobs the problem is I cannot possibly move until the end of December there's no possible way to move any earlier. With that being said, Is it too early to apply for jobs? Am I going to have to wait until I move there to start applying?? |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2015 04:28 AM PDT So basically i stalk my best friend's cat . i have a screenshot of every photo she ever uploaded of the cat . And she doesn't know . i keep feeling guilty like when you stalk a person and you're afraid they'd find out. As silly as this might sound , I'm really embarrassed of this . |
| Question: Is this considered as sexual abuse? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 03:40 AM PDT When I was 12, I ran away from home for a few hours. When I got back my mom pushed me on my bed, got on top of me and started hitting me and, well I guess you can call it dry humping me. She was saying things like "this is how it feels to be raped", and "be happy it s me and not anyone on the street". This went on for just a few minutes but it s been bothering me a lot, wondering whether it s considered sexual abuse or not. Please help!! Thanks in advance... (I m female by the way...) |
| Question: What does this mean exactly? "I am better than I was. I will be better than I am"? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 03:27 AM PDT |
| Question: Feeling alone/ molested? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 03:13 AM PDT Ok so when I was 5/6 I was molested by a man in his late 20 s early 30 s I would always love playing outside and he had always been around in the neighborhood. He lived right next door. One day he told me to come into his home because he had bought a doll for me. As a child not knowing any better I went in, expecting to get the doll he told me he was going to give me. In return he started taking off my clothes, after put me on a table where he had spread my legs and started to put his fingers inside of me and rub them agains my clit. After he was done he told me to put my clothes back on, told me to promise I wouldnt tell anyone or id get in trouble. That day I went home feeling scared to tell anyone what happed to me. To this day no one knows. Im afraid to say anything to someone who has not been through this because I feel like they would look at me like im dirty. Most days Im afraid to be around men because I think they will do something to me. Growing up I couldnt even have boyfriends because I was so uncomfortable. If you have been through this tell me your story or even if you have advice, anything would help. It took me 16 years to talk about what happened to me. |
| Question: How to show someone you really care about them? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 02:31 AM PDT So my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months now, and its long distance, he's 10 hours away and he's always saying how I don't care but I do...like I wouldn't have stuck around this long if I didn't...I send him things, I write him long messages to know how special he is to me. An I work and have school plus the homework and I talk to him as much as I can, but its like it's never enough... So how do I show him that I do care and love him? It hurts me that he thinks I dont care :( cause I really do.. I asked him how I can prove it and he said it doesn't matter but I know it does.... And I do know he has some issues that his ex's caused but I do my best to make sure he's happy and doesn't feel down, so it broke me when he said I didnt care.. |
| Question: Should I transfer to my girlfriends college? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 12:34 AM PDT I'm currently a student at a CC and I'll be transferring to a university in the fall of 2016. I am a Business Administration major with a GPA of 3.4 with a lot to improve. I plan on raising it to a 3.6 & I was wondering what school to go to. She attends a state school and I'll be applying to basically every state school as well as riverside. She goes to a small and new state school (CSU) and it's not that well known. I was wondering if I should go along with her. She is dependent in a way and would like me to join her. Wherever I end up I know I'll do well school wise as I always have that as a priority. I know in my gut that this is the one, knowing everything we've went through. Things such as emotional support, academic support, and hardships we've went through together. I don't want to be specific but things that change most couples as in very saddening things that make them stronger. I'm in a dilemma and would want advice on this whole situation. Anything would help, thank you. |
| Question: How do I form deep relationships with people? Posted: 26 Aug 2015 12:05 AM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 11:33 PM PDT My partner and I have been together over a year and currently going on our 2nd year soon.We have known each other over five years now, but made it official last on january 25th;2014.We would have liitle arguments and get through them like many do but every month on the 25th fights would just happen out of nowhere, we could be watching tv and suddenly an argument will go on between us two. The weird thing about it was that everytime we would have this big argument, we would break up for no reason. We don t celebrate every monthsary like a few couples do, anymore because of this.Our relationship isnt bad we love each other very much and cant picture our lives with out one another but Today is August 25th, we had a good morning we both gave each other a kiss did our daily routine,came home had dinner and even watched a movie, (not thinking of what todays date was)Time came for us to go to bed, it was almost perfect.when out of the blue we just started arguing, I broke up with my partner and few seconds went by and I saw my partner grab the phone not knowing what was happening I waited to see. Out of nowhere my partner started laughing, not knowing why, I asked what was funny and to my surprise I saw the date its the 25th! It was funny for a second then I started to panic, is there such a thing of a bad spirt in the relationship its starting to concern me? |
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| Question: Dad punches and hits us all the time how do we stop him? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 10:25 PM PDT every night when dad gets home he has beers and snacks and watches tv. Then he'll start to get cranky and yell alot at mum. Then my older brother Cameron will do something and this will set my dad off. one time dad grabbed Cameron by the throat and squeezed really hard after Cameron started dancing in the living room between my drunk dad and the TV. He says smacks are good for us and teaches us to respect our elders. filmed dad hurting my brother https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNITlqngSRA |
| Question: Help me please!!!!!!? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 10:00 PM PDT So, everything happened yesterday. I didn't want to go to school, so my boyfriend went alone. I have to mention that, we go to the same class and the same school except one session. So, I usually don't get bother if he goes alone etc. but I just snapped yesterday after watching to much drama series about cheating. This happened after his class was done, so I didn't do anything while he had class. Anyways, my boyfriend got mad saying that he didn't have freedom and couldn't do anything without me being mad or controlling. I partly agree, but I still wanted to apologise trough sms and calling because I felt bad. Well, he thought that was controlling…. I know it may seem that way, but I was only trying to apologise. He said to me that he thinks I am manipulative and I only says things to make him feel guilty. Yes, that's true but not on purpose. So, he ends up being cold towards me, saying mean things but I do agree on what he said that I won't learn and keep doing it, if he doesn't act cold towards me. Because then I may think he have forgiving me. |
| Question: What should I do about this? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 09:18 PM PDT I told my roommate that we would share things in the bathroom without actually thinking, however, I don't want to share toilet paper with her. She already has her things set up in the bathroom; toilet paper, caddy thing,soap and more. Will she think it's weird if I bring my own toiler paper roll with me whenever I use the bathroom? |
| Question: Sexual and weird text from a boy? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:35 PM PDT Hey, I'm 13, and have been friends with this boy for a month. He lives around the same area as me, and is really sweet. Today, he sent me a text saying "I wanna do you so bad😍" and I kind of got freaked out. I didn't really know what to say, so I just responded "what do you mean" even though I obviously knew what he meant lol. He responded with "nvm" and now I feel kind of weird talking to him. Should I just ignore him from now on? Should I block him? Should I keep talking to him like nothing happened? I didn't tell my parents, even though I literally tell them everything, because I knew they would want to see the text, but I deleted it already so it wouldn't haunt me or something. Please respond nicely. Any advice is appreciated, thank you :) |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:32 PM PDT I asked my cousins how my picture looked and whether I should have taken a clear picture, they replied by saying " yes, you should take a more clear picture". Then I asked them again if my picture is horrible( the one I posted on Instagram) and they are continuously ignoring my texts and not answering them. What does this mean? |
| Question: What is play-fighting? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:22 PM PDT What is play-fighting?? |
| Question: Do you think my mom is insecure and fake? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:20 PM PDT I've come to the agreement she has thsee two characteristic. My mom loves to gossip she talks about everyone. Yet she goes to those people and acts all sweet. She has cofee with her friends and talks about others. She then talks about her frie da with others as well too. She acts like a 5 year old she says people use her aND holds these grudges. She seems to live to act nice to someone's face then she talks about them. All she does is complain and gossip. She goes to me with her problems. She gets mad when I tell my problems to my frie ds and this old lady whom is her friend that she hates now. I literally can't trust her about anything she'll tell the world. Ive needed glasses for 4 years and if I tell her she'll give a long speech and then complain about money. How do you not notice if your child needs glasses? My new hs is quote a distance away from my home she has no license to drivr. She wants to look for someone to drop me. I don't mind using the bus I'm pretty sure I can handle it well. She then gets all upset aND infuriated when I have a bad day. I'm tired of her crap. Is she not insecure and fake? |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 07:59 PM PDT me & my boyfriend are in high school & we cant drive yet, so his mom does a lot of the driving. she insists that he sits in the front seat with her & finds it odd that he wants to sit in back seat with me. in my opinion, it seems polite to sit by your friend in the car. lol. just wondering what other people think.. |
| Question: WHAT DOES THIS MEAN ? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 06:36 PM PDT I'm 20 now but when I was younger my dad use to have seizures, and after he would come through he would call my name or ask about me until I was able to show up. There would be times when the doctor's would tell me I couldn't come back because I was too young but eventually they would escort me back there because he would constantly ask about me. A few years ago , thia lady was staying with my sister. I was visiting my sister and ended up getting snowed in so I stayed a longer than expected. However, that was the first time I've ever met this lady and one night she had a seizure. After she came through, she began to ask for me and my sister came and got me out of the room. I was a bit emotional because I hadn't saw a seizure since `09 (my dad passed 09.03.09) .. The lady just laid across my lap and cried until she fell asleep.. Now , my mom's cousin has been having seizures . And my mom came home and told me "when ______ has her episodes , she calls your name and asks about you" . Although I didn't let her know that it kinda creeped me out , I was just wondering , AM I PARANOID , IS THIS ALL A COINCIDENCE , OR IS IT DEEPER THAN THAT? |
| Question: How can i change my moms mind ? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 06:35 PM PDT So I was in choir in 7th grade and this year (9th) I decided to go back. And I got in but I told my mom I needed money for the outfit and other school stuff and choir cost the most out of it all she said no pick something else you've already been in choir but I wanted to work my way up to chamber choir. Its not that she cant pay its that she doesn't want to. But I don't want to pick another elective. Singing is what I do best . Its what I want to do for the rest of my life not as a job but just in general but she wants me to pick something else :( how do I get her to change her mind ? |
| Question: Studying abroad with or without parental consent? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 05:40 PM PDT I'm going into art school in hopes of getting a degree in graphic design or illustration but this country makes me miserable. I have no chance of a good education because of lack of universities in my field, VERY bad education system, personal etc. I also don't remember feeling happy here. I've always been more comfortable moving or on vacation than in my own bed. I really want to study in Oslo or Moscow since I have family in Russia and my boyfriend(religiously, husband) recently moved to Oslo so I'd have a little help getting a flat and such but.. I'm not legal yet and I don't know if my close minded parents would ever agree to let me go without them because they have it in their head that generations now are stuck up and spoiled rebellious teens 'unfit' and irresponsible of anything. I'm getting to the point where I want to just pack a bag and go off somewhere to get my head off everything for a week. I've asked my mom about moving next summer and she said we'd 'figure it out' but as soon as she closed the door she started talking to my dad about how they didn't even know if I got into art school and I'm 'already moving'. If it matters, I got in two days later with max points and a complimentary letter from the principal. This is a little scattered but I'm at a place where I can't stand this anymore and I need advice. I forgot to mention that I've always been a straight A student and I've never been in trouble inside school, and out. I've always been obedient and I dont get why my parents think so lowly of me. -English not my first language. |
| Question: Why does my girlfriend care about this? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 05:34 PM PDT I'm a guy and I've been with her for 14 months. I have CF so I'm infertile, can't grow anymore, have breathing problems, and a 40 year lifespan. Before we dated I was in a depression, I'd never had a girlfriend because I have no confidence and hate everything about myself, I cried myself to sleep, cut myself frequently, and thought about suicide. Then she came and asked me out, she's the sweetest and most adorable girl I've ever seen, I said yes. We hold hands, hug, kiss on the cheek and when she kisses me on the cheek, it feels really nice. Her lips are so smooth, soft, very kissable and I love her. I've kissed her by the lips before, I've kissed her half way so only half of our lips make contact and she likes it. Sometimes I give her a little quick peck all the way on the lips. Anyways, yesterday she saw my scars and she unfortunately knew exactly how I got them, she's too smart to think anything other than razors could have left those scars. And she started rubbing my arm on the scars and said "why"? Then she said "I love you, don't cut your beautiful skin". Why does she care if I still hate myself enough to cut myself? |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 05:32 PM PDT I am feeling really grown up and I really want to find out some stuff. When can I start to learn to drive? When is the best time to get a girlfriend? How to get a job when older? P.s I'm 14 |
| Question: Could i bang my friends mom on vacation? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 04:40 PM PDT Ok so im in mexico on vacation with my mom and my friends family, we went to this island, and me and my moms friend are alone she ask s me if my friends think shes hot, i say yeah and she asks "in a sexual way" laughing, i said yeah to be honest. Then we get on a banana boat ride im behind her sitting she then turns to me and says " i dont do anal" laughing, im aroused tbh i wanted to bang tf out of her, but the whole ride which is 5 minutes she acts like im ******* her from behind verbally not physically ( i wanted to physically) saying stuff like "does that feel good for you", "are you ready to climax", moaning my name. She was kind of smirking while saying this, but when we ended the ride, she puts her hand on my thigh, and says "you did really good johny", later we were in the ocean digging for rocks i found two that looked like ***** one about 4 inches she says " ooh thats to small for me" "im unsatisfied" saying to my mom. Then when we re eating lunch my mom asks what was everybody s favorite part, she then says "being in front of john" laughing, then actually says the banana boat ride. Its 5:30 rn and i dont if shes really wants to **** me, cause i would let her, but you tell me if she really does want to, cause We re in a suite and im in a room with my friend and shes in a room with her husband, my mom is sleeping in a room in between my friends parents rooms and my room. So if i were to make a move, how? And where? And does she really want me, im 16 to. |
| Question: Is it bad to masterbate? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 04:26 PM PDT so im a teenage girl and is it bad to masterbate I do it sometimes when im really in the mood and im religious but not overly religious and I always feel guilty about it but then I think its only human |
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| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 04:12 PM PDT Here's the situation...I'm in my 30s and live with my fiancé and son (prior relationship). We were originally planning to get married and then have children together sometime in the future. Recently we found out we're pregnant so we have firmly decided to move up our plans to marry. (NOTE: Marrying before the baby is born is VERY important to me and I will NOT be swayed on this. Please refrain from any snarks about sex before marriage, as my fiancé and I are both grown adults and very happy about this baby) We are very excited to get married very soon, prior to announcing our pregnancy at the beginning of the second trimester. We are planning a very small, quaint private ceremony next month (not much more than eloping) and hope to have a larger, more conventional wedding + reception a year or so later when we have more time and money. We want to get married and even if the pregnancy does not prove viable we still want to get married and try again for a baby. |
| Question: Partner doesn't want a baby? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:55 PM PDT I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. We live together, work together, and are basically inseparable. I married at 18 and it was a mistake.. I have never loved another person the way I love my bf. And I know it's 10000000% returned. We always said we would never have kids (I actually believed myself to be infertile but that's a different and long story) I got pregnant in February of this year and we lost it at the 2 month mark. By then we were excited and hopeful even though we were scared and confused in the beginning. I had had a missed miscarriage so I had to have a d&c to have it removed. But even though I never had any desire for kids, the lust is in my heart now. He comforted me for all my depression postpregnancy, he said we would have our rainbow baby (which is a child after a loss); however I feel that those were just words of comfort and not truths. He refuses to have sex with me now without a condom, he brushes past the topic when I try to bring it up. I love this man so fricking much but I now really want to have a child, his child. My heart breaks more every day. What do I do? |
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