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- Question: First day of high school?
- Question: Does she actually want to meet up with me?
- Question: Please be dead honest?
- Question: I can't stand my friend but I feel bad for him?
- Question: I am scared to go to school now?
- Question: How to deal with arrogant on condescending best friend?
- Question: I hate my life and I'm scared of the future?
- Question: New school! New friendships!?
- Question: I think my friend is lying to me about getting dick.?
- Question: How can I get my friend back?
- Question: How do deal with, for lack of better words, unrealistic people?
- Question: I've stopped talking to an obnoxious friend, but I feel guilty about it, Why?
- Question: Pisces not talking to me?
- Question: I don't know what I want to do when I'm older?
- Question: What Do I Do If I Want Another Life?
- Question: All My Friends Speak a Language I Don't Speak. What should I do?
- Question: Friend from camp can t visit?
- Question: I hate going to college?
- Question: Is it normal for friends to talk like this?
- Question: My friend is ALWAYS STUDYING how do I get her to TALK TO ME????
- Question: How do you move on from your bestfriend that your drifting apart?
- Question: Our friend changed and we don't know what to do?
- Question: What should I do for my birthday party for my friends?
- Question: Am I just being paranoid?
- Question: What do i do?! friendship issues!?
- Question: Friends: I have no friends????????
- Question: Do I need to ask for their names?
- Question: How can I buy cigarettes at the age of 14?
- Question: Are we still friends? What should I do?
- Question: Should I still me friends with her?
- Question: Which way is cuter to give a birthday present?
- Question: Is there a lot of group work in college.?
- Question: Are my friend right about my reaction?
- Question: "Friendship" over?
- Question: Does she just see me as a friend or is she really attracted to me?
- Question: Why are our friends desperate to see us date?
- Question: My bestfriend never invites me anywhere?
- Question: Friend sleeping on your shoulder?
- Question: Does my best friend like me? (I want muliple answers plz)?
- Question: Should I just stop being friends with this person?
- Question: I need help! School problems?
- Question: Does this friend have something to hide?
- Question: Should i be mad at my friend? Please answer I will vote best answer, comment and give points!!!!?
- Question: GIRLS... WEIRD OR CREEPY? HELP!?
- Question: Why are my parents strict?
- Question: I m single and looking for a relationship.. How do I avoid an abusive relationship? I don t want to be any where near a crazy!!?
- Question: Why do I always feel like I'm a very mean person?
- Question: Would my friend be worried if I told her I try to eat under 500 calories a day?
- Question: Why am I always mad at my best friend?
- Question: Need Advice: New High School?
- Question: How To Deal With Conceited Friend?
- Question: What do you think about this video?
- Question: Things Keep Going Bad?
- Question: How to make new friends to hang out with?
- Question: Hi, I'm 14 and I think I have a crush on my friend.?
- Question: Highschool bull?
- Question: Scary Calls? Please help?
- Question: High school is making me feel lonely?
- Question: Why am i really depressive?
- Question: Is she a true friend?! someone please help?
| Question: First day of high school? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:56 PM PDT tomorrow is my first day of high school and im so scared.. i probably wont have any friends because im rly bad at making friends and ill be a friendless loser ;-; what should i do im too shy... |
| Question: Does she actually want to meet up with me? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:54 PM PDT I'm 16 & have met up with this girl in my grade twice this summer. We had fun both times. She was the one who organised both meet-ups. We aren't that close, but she was talking about how we could have a sleepover etc. I tried last week to meet up but had to cancel the night before as I had to work. I work in my aunt's shop almost everyday & sometimes get asked to work on my days off. She said ," that's ok, hopefully another time". Today I asked if she was free on Tues or Weds as Im free both days. She told me, "aw crap, those are litreally the only days I'm not free". I said, "no worries, hopefully another time" & she said, "crap, school starts soon anyways x". Does she sound like she doesn't want to meet up? Im just worried as I lost some fake friends recently & she is the only girl from school Ive met up with over summer. Im scared I'll be friendless next term :( |
| Question: Please be dead honest? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:51 PM PDT 24 and i run my own business. I never went to college. I make roughly 80-130k a year. It hasn't been easy. At times i only get 4 hours of sleep due to working on my website. I have a cousin he's 21 & we always hang out. He works at t-mobile and goes to college (wannabe thug). The thing is he always brings me down. I'll give examples but there's more. He'd be like "Go to college you know some you can rely on when your 60". He's always asking "how's business?" (i just stare at him like ughhh good). He once told me "You need to loose weight or no girl will bang you". I also bought myself a 80k 2015 benz. He started talking smack when he saw the price like "Expensive only a fool would buy that". All while he rides the bus to school. He thinks he's hot stuff because he goes to college. One time he said "Get off that laptop for a second and go after girls since i know you don't get laid often". I just reply to him like "Dude you have to put your little uniform and name tag then work 9 hours a day and you get bossed around then you still need go to school for a decade before your like me". All he say's is "Your a hater. I will soon be a cop with my criminal justice diploma and i will be king just wait. You know it deep in your heart i'm a threat to you". I call him "college thug" to piss him off. I just want to get your opinion who's the hater? Keep in mind he asks these questions 24/7. Just be real honest. |
| Question: I can't stand my friend but I feel bad for him? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:43 PM PDT I'm honestly his only friend. Even my other friends question why I still hang with him. Even in high school people hated him because he was nerdy but he would do really arrogant and stupid stuff and when he'd get his *** whooped he was convinced that he was the innocent victim. Even his own brother avoided him. I even almost hit him once back then because I let him borrow some CDs and he didn't return them until I went to his house and they were all scratched and stuff. Now he's 27 and I'm 25. He's honestly going nowhere in life. He still lives at home, never had a job and no drivers license. But just being around him is irritating from some of the **** he says. Like he said it was creepy that I'm dating a 22 year old. And It took the life out of me not to snap out because he kept rambling about it. This dude has never even kissed a girl. And he was trying to give me advice I didn't even ask for. Or he will ramble about how his brothers are jerks because they nag him about getting a job and moving out. And how he's still young so it's not a big deal. It's like he lives in a fantasy world. But I can't help but to feel bad for him. I tried getting him a job. He went to the interview but he skipped the first day because he wanted to go to a concert. But apparently they are the jerks for firing him because they didn't understand how he's always wanted to see that band. |
| Question: I am scared to go to school now? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:38 PM PDT People say I snitch on this kid because he brought a knife to school when I 100 percent didn't. This was around june. I am a sophomore now but the kid is that brought the weapon is still in school and I don't know how to tell him that I didn't snitch at him. How can I deal with this, please help. |
| Question: How to deal with arrogant on condescending best friend? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:35 PM PDT My friend gets joy out of my mistakes. If she is better than me at something, she glistens with confidence and tries to put me down (and won't stop). She likes to brag about herself as well. She is taking honors and AP classes this year and she always likes to brag about her amazing classes and grades. I really want to shut her up and say that my GPA is higher than hers, but I don t want to make her upset. She doesn't have a humble bone in her body and it makes her look bad. She won't do anything if she isn't somewhat talented at it. I tried to get her to do sports with me, but she wouldn't. Why is she like this? It really annoys me and it s quite hurtful. How do I get her to stop? |
| Question: I hate my life and I'm scared of the future? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:34 PM PDT I'm 15 years old. Lately I've been feeling worthless and everything is my life seems to be negative. I don't think I'am like the others. People my age go out and have fun all the time and I'm always at home obsessing over new things on the internet. Sometimes I blame my parents for this life. My dad died of cancer when I was 13 (my mum wasn't with him anyways) We got an ugly house and I never invited anyone over, we don't have so much money so I often refused to go out with friends therefore I did not make any long lasting friends. Last summer I tought everything was going to be okay when I started hanging out with my friend the whole summer and we made new friends. But now she has got a boyfriend and forgot all about me. Now it's Summer again and I've spent it at home. I Hate my life and sometimes I cry for no reason, I'm also very very afraid of my future. I can't pay for my o levels like the others so I can't keep studying. Yesterday my mum told me that on Febuary she's going to get the my last children's allowence since I'm 15 now and that I should start thinking what I'? Going to do with my life. The thing is I have no idea! Please help me |
| Question: New school! New friendships!? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:33 PM PDT I am starting a new school and I am scared that I won't make any true friends. Just acquaintances. I want a friend that I can talk to about anything and I mean ANYTHING. What do I do? |
| Question: I think my friend is lying to me about getting dick.? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:26 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I get my friend back? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:19 PM PDT My ex best friend means so much to me and I'll be willing to do anything to get her back. we used to be so close. We've got eachother through alot and i've never had a closer friend. At one point we only trusted eachother.To me personally she was someone who kept me going.She was the first person in my life to be there for me. Let's just say i kept ******* up. My overthinking made me accuse her of lying to me when the truth was she was always really busy.She got hurt because I kept doing that. I also kept overly texting her which got annoying. She was so sweet and kind and kept giving me chances but I ****** UP over and over. I think we shouldn't of tried to fix things so soon after a fight and needed some time apart.Now she thinks im negative energy and thinks things wont work out because we've tried so many times and nothing worked.She has said we can stay acquintances.I've apologised and she has accepted it and forgiven me.She is too busy focusing on school and life problems to be fixing **** right now (she said its not one of her priorities).I kept panicking and kept telling her to stay for a while which resulted in her blocking me on social media except 1 account (i still have ways to contact her). I've asked if we can be friends in the future and she just said "i dont know". My plan is to wait and text her a birthday message. (3 months away).Is that to soon to approach her? She is really stressed right now.She is special to me,she saved me. I want her back in my life. I've also wanted to say i've made a huge mistake just when she told me she needs to focus on school.I took it as her leaving me and I kept fighting to stay.It stressed her out even more. I see what's happening right now as a break from eachother. When I approach her should I mention the past and say sorry and that ive learnt from my mistakes? Or is mentioning the past a bad idea? Can we ever be as close? Honestly its my fault.I stressed her out.My anxiety messes things up. she said she forgives me but right now she thinks its best if we stay apart. By right now does she mean for now? Or forever? If its for now I agree with her.We need a break. But I don't want to lose her. |
| Question: How do deal with, for lack of better words, unrealistic people? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:18 PM PDT One of my best friends tends to be...I dunno...unrealistic. Sure, dogs or cats or whatever love their owners but I don't think it works the way and to the extent she thinks it does. It's like this fantasy where everything loves her or her way is the only way. She's always like, Pet 1 loves me and hates so and so. Pet 1 protects me and no one else. Pet 1 lets only me pet him/her My pizza is the best. My mom is the only one who makes this the right way. I wouldn't mind if it things weren't like this with EVERYTHING and EVERYDAY. I'm all for opinions, okay? But I find this incredibly annoying because it's as if everything revolves around her. She's my good friend and I don't want to lose her. I just want to know how to deal with this politely. Believe me, I need to do work on my end as well. It's not just her. |
| Question: I've stopped talking to an obnoxious friend, but I feel guilty about it, Why? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:16 PM PDT |
| Question: Pisces not talking to me? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:11 PM PDT Ok so about a month ago I met this girl who's a Pisces (I'm a Capricorn) and we immediately clicked and became SO CLOSE. like best friends. We talked all the time every day and hung out a lot. I told her everything and she told me everything. However my best friend from before (a Sagittarius) got super jealous and hounded me about this girl all the time. I told lauren (the Pisces) about caroline (the Sagittarius) jealous behavioral and she thought I should scale back from caroline. Last week around Tuesday she all of a sudden became close to this girl (just clicked like w me) that she knows I'm not a fan of and slowly started not talking to me as much. I'm super jealous and I know that but on Thursday at cheer practice it was like I did not exist. I got hurt and had to go to the trainer and she didn't ask if I was ok. I texted her after and asked if everything was alright w us and she said she was just hanging out with her new friends and that we were fine. We facetimed like normal that night and the next day she asked me to sit w her at lunch and I thought everything was good. But now she's straight up avoiding me I think. I try to snapchat or text her to talk to her and she gives me one word answers or doesn't answer at all. I facetimed her because I told her I had to tell her stuff and she didn't pick up after like 9 rings. And I know she's not busy! I have no idea what's going on. I mean I did recently hang out w caroline so maybe that's it but idk. Please help save this! |
| Question: I don't know what I want to do when I'm older? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:06 PM PDT All my life, classmates, teachers, friends and family have asked "what do you want to do when you're older?" And I've never really known how to answer that question. I'm now 14, and a straight A student... But people keep telling me that I NEED to decide because it's essential so that I can decide on which baccalaureate I want to do, etcetera. How come making a decision at my age is so crucial? And do I really need to make my mind up now? |
| Question: What Do I Do If I Want Another Life? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:00 PM PDT I know this may sound ungrateful, or Rude, but I keep thinking of how my friend has this perfect life. She has siblings (I don't), and she has such a happy family. I want to enjoy my family, but I don't know how. If anyone has anything that might get me off the fact of my friends perfect life and onto mine. |
| Question: All My Friends Speak a Language I Don't Speak. What should I do? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:52 PM PDT I am a day student at a school with day and boarding students. I have friends from other countries and friends from America. I don't have lunch or any classes with any friends from America--who speak English--so I eat and socialize with my friends, who are boarders. I love them and I don't want to abandon them, but they are constantly speaking their own language. They come from Brazil, Peru, Germany, and Columbia, so they speak Spanish, Portuguese, and German. I speak none of those languages, so when they talk to each other, I can't say anything. I feel so left out when they do that and I don't even feel like I'm part of their friend group. It's just really awkward too. And it's not like I want to talk all the time either; I just want to understand what they're saying, but I can't. So what should I do? I've already told them that it kind of bothers me, but they continue to talk in Spanish, Portuguese, etc. I really don't want to leave them. |
| Question: Friend from camp can t visit? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:51 PM PDT at camp, i made a best friend but she lives 4 hours away. the only time she can visit is at christmas break and now she can t visit (she was gonna take the train) bc her dad is going somewhere and for some reason that means she cant come. we re both still in school so its hard to do weekend etc and now i cant go to camp next year and i dont know how to tell her - also tips in staying in contact. thanks |
| Question: I hate going to college? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:44 PM PDT I started classes a week ago. And I hate it. To be honest I hated high school because I was a loner and was bullied. Then after graduation I went to community college. I stopped being shy and came out of my shell and it was great. I actually got a bunch of friends and it was fun. I was able to make conversation with anyone. In between classes I would just bs with random people I didn't even personally know. Well I'm 21 and I transferred to a university this semester. And I can't stand it here. It's a good school but the students here are really annoying and just irritating to be around. It's like high school all over again. Even students that are older than me act like 15 year olds. I know college is for education but I wanna have fun also but it's really hard here. In the cafeteria I sat down at a table these football players wanted to sit there so when I went to get a drink they moved my tray to a counter by the trash can and the girls they were with we're giggling and ****. And some of the dudes were staring at me trying to intimidate me I guess. I wanted to honestly break their knee caps I was so pissed. I didn't even eat, I just through it in the trash. These people are in their 20's for **** sakes. I hate it. |
| Question: Is it normal for friends to talk like this? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:34 PM PDT The other night I had 4 of my friends over for a poker night. We got on the subject of our wives. Most conversation was just about how we all met each other's wife, but when the discussion came around to my wife, it got kinda graphic. All the guys talked about how they wish they could sleep with her, and how if I die they'd easily divorce their wife to be with mine. One even suggested he'd do it before I died. I didn't say much during this conversation but it made me uneasy. Is this normal talk? I didn't realize my friends felt this way. Also, when I brought up her possible STD, that didn't deter them! I thought it would get them to stop taking like that, but they basically said "whatever" and that they would "take one for the team." What does that even mean? |
| Question: My friend is ALWAYS STUDYING how do I get her to TALK TO ME???? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:32 PM PDT I'm 16, and I'm a guy. In late May of this year, I made a friend who lives in the neighborhood across from mine, and our moms are friends. she's a perfectionist, and wants to get into harvard, and she has a 4.38 gpa. recently, she found out her crush was moving, so she got very miserable, and i think that's why these past few weeks she's been studying more than usual. she doesn't even talk to her mother, let alone me. her and this 12 year old acquaintance who I rarely see (and who my mom said can't come over to our house) are my only friends. WHAT IN THE HELL DO I DO???? i only have four male classmates in my special ed school, so dont suggest finding friends at school. |
| Question: How do you move on from your bestfriend that your drifting apart? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:32 PM PDT She doesn t talk to me like before I try having conversations like before but it s just not working... How do I move on rom my bestfriend? |
| Question: Our friend changed and we don't know what to do? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:26 PM PDT So we have a group of four girls and we always hang out together. Recently we graduated highschool back in May so we no longer see each other everyday. I see 2 of them often all the time still. But the other one (let's call her Kate) hasn't really. I mean we've all hung out together a few times times since school but the two other girls (Britt and Jen) live practically next door. I guess you can say we left Kate out a bit but it wasn't anything personal. It's just she lives further away so she probably can't come. I think she might be upset because we never really ask her if she can hang out we just do and not really say anything to her about us going to hangout. She's not someone who texts all the time. I'm not either but I text Jen alll the time and go to her house the most. Anyways we hung out with Kate a few days ago and she seemed kinda different like annoyed but she doesn't ever get mad ever and sometimes we dying out without her and it never seemed to bother her before. But she also seemed like into different stuff like anti-establishment and whenever we talked about a celebrity (who she'd use to like) she'd hate them because of their ingenuity. idk she just seemed different and distance like idk if she's mad at us or if she's just changing her ideals or whatever like she was talking about life and pointed out certain contradictions to life or what we were taught. feel kinda bad about leaving her out but she never cared before ? |
| Question: What should I do for my birthday party for my friends? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:23 PM PDT i have 7 friends come over my house. My friends is sleeping over my house. Please help me? |
| Question: Am I just being paranoid? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:14 PM PDT I'm 16 & have met up with this girl in my grade twice this summer. We had good fun both times. She was the one who organised both meet-ups. We aren't that close, but she was talking about how we could have a sleepover & a house party for her upcoming birthday etc. I tried last week to meet up but had to cancel the night before as I had to work. I work in my aunt's shop almost everyday & sometimes get asked to work on my days off if their is low staff. She said ," that's ok, hopefully another time". Today I asked if she was free on Tues or Weds as Im free both days. She told me, "aw crap, those are litreally the only days I'm not free". I said, "no worries, hopefully another time" & she said, "crap, school starts soon anyways x". Does she sound like she doesn't want to meet up? Im just worried as I lost some fake friends recently & she is the only girl from school Ive met up with over summer. Im scared I'll be friendless next term :( |
| Question: What do i do?! friendship issues!? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:06 PM PDT i've had a best friend for 7 years. we did fight a lot and she did pull a lot of ****, and even two times, we stopped speaking for months at a time but we ALWAYS went back to one another. she kept all my secrets, made me laugh more than any other person, always defended me, we had so much in common. well, she recently started doing some bad drugs and ditched me for some girl by blocking me and ignoring me. i got pissed off at her and i feel seriously betrayed. i still do. she messaged me after a month, speaking trying to become friends but i shot her down. it's been three months. apart of me misses her, and i read our old conversations yesterday and laughed, but apart of me wants to hate her. i forgave her sooo much for pulling bullshit with me. she has done other **** but nothing like this. what do i do:/ I dont want to forgive her because what she did was seriously wrong, but apart of me feels lonely now. everyone will think i'm fake too if i forgive her AGAIN, which is kind of fake behavior.. by the way, she ignored me for 5 days ever since becoming friends with that girl, and blocked me off of facebook for bithcing the other one out for annoying me in class while i was working on a project. |
| Question: Friends: I have no friends???????? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:06 PM PDT I'm 16, and I have Asperger's Syndrome, and because I have anxiety issues I go to special ed school with only 4 other boys. I made a friend in late May of this year, but she has become very distant as she's become very engaged in her studies (she's a perfectionist, she has a 4.38 gpa and wants to apply to harvard) it's made worse by the fact that she is depressed over her crush moving away. she's 17. i have another friend who I only hung out with a few times, and she's only 12. i tried being friends with people at school, but it didn't work. my dad is divorced and very distant and is a huge jerk. i don't see any purpose in going on, and ive resorted to talking to my childhood toy. |
| Question: Do I need to ask for their names? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:00 PM PDT So apparently I have offended some colleagues at work. Boss has told me about it, but I havent asked specifically about what I did wrong. Anyways, I can still feel tension with some colleagues....as if they dislike me or something. Should I ask the boss for their names so I can ask them what I did? |
| Question: How can I buy cigarettes at the age of 14? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:59 PM PDT I am 14, I am turning 15 in about a month. I recently started to smoke with some friends, I know what I am doing and I don't want you to tell me to stop it or tell me that it is bad for me. Please I need some advice on how to buy myself cigarettes ! Also I live in Greece so my own plan is to buy something from the store and then a pack of cigs and if they will ask me " for who " I would tell 'em that it is for my parents ( Here in Greece all the parents, send their kids to buy them cigs ) Tell me your opinion and/or give me a advice. Again don't tell me it's bad for me, thnx |
| Question: Are we still friends? What should I do? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:59 PM PDT Emily (my friend) and I have been best friends since 3rd grade. (We're in 7th now) but we really stopped hanging out near the end of 5th grade. She's so sweet, and I don't want to let her go. We've both found new friends in middle school. We sometimes say, "hi!" But that's all. But the weird thing is, we still invite each other to our birthday parties. But we don't even hang out there. It's like we're still trying to hang on but we let go. What should I do? Do I try to hang out with her more often? |
| Question: Should I still me friends with her? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:53 PM PDT I would explain all the times she lied to me and ditch me at the last moment to do things with her other friends but that would be to long. We always have plans to do stuff and at the last minute she makes up an excuse like I forgot that my other friend asked me to do something with her. And one time when she said that I said you could have just told me you wanted to do something with someone else instead of me expecting her to say that she really had something planned but all she said yeah ok fine. She s one of my few friends and best and idk if I can deal with her ditching me for other popular girls. She really nice when we re alone but in front of them she s really mean and one time when I told her that she said yeah ik. And if she had to choose between popular girls she goes to parties with to take cute pics with and me her probably only real friend she d probably choose them. Anyways I don t know if I should be her friend anymore and how to stop being hey friend since we hang out like every week |
| Question: Which way is cuter to give a birthday present? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:50 PM PDT Hello, My best friend lives in England while I live in another country. Im trying my best to be there on her birthday (she doesn t know) but Im not quite sure as I don t have an official univeristy Break so Idk weather I should skip classes and travel or wait Until the christmas Vacation which is only 3 months after her bday. But the second option is much more possible. But Im gonna surprise her on her birthday if I dont go there, ive got another friend there and she will help arrange a small cake with a teddy bear and some chocolate in a box and the delivery man will deliver it to her house BUT for her birthday im getting her a tiffany necklace that she has always wanted. I wanted to surprise her with it when Im there and see her reaction but then I got an idea that I could tell my friend to attach the necklace to the bear and ask her mum to film her when she gets the present. Which way is cuter? |
| Question: Is there a lot of group work in college.? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:49 PM PDT I am a senior in high school and i suck at working in groups. If i am in a group with my friends we will just sit around and talk and not get anything done, If i am in a group with people i don't know than i will do most of the work myself and if i am in a group with somebody i dislike i will just screw around on my phone for the whole period. Does this group work bs stop in college or does it get worse? |
| Question: Are my friend right about my reaction? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:47 PM PDT First off all my friends are guys except from my one female friend Holly. We were hanging out at the pool when Holly came out of the women's changing room. She was wearing her bikini, and it immediately caught our attention. Holly looked good, not porn star hot, but average and pretty. My guy friends blew it out of proportion. They were obviously horny and said they needed to go home together and ditched us. I ended staying with Holly, who knew they were pervs. She thanked me for being a gentleman? and keeping my senses. Later my friends called me gay for not wanting to jerk off to Holly with them. Yes Holly did look nice and it did turn me on, but I didn't want to think any more that way about a good friend. Lets just say Holly's friendship with them is strained. It was just a bikini in the end and she wasn't trying to flaunt or anything. Are my friend right about me though? What did Holly mean by being a gentleman? |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:31 PM PDT I had a friend Who I invited to my wedding. He asked for an invitation and practically begged me for one so I sent him one and he never responded he gave me the impression that he was coming anyway he never responded and I had to pry a response out of him the day of the RSVP deadlinehe tells me his vacation time won t be approved because of the busy season at work he could ve told me September is a bad time for him when he got the invitation he worked at this company for a number of years and he waits till the last possible day to tell me he s not coming. Needless to say I m pissed off at him and I don t want to talk to him anymore and my justified in reacting this way or am I overreacting? |
| Question: Does she just see me as a friend or is she really attracted to me? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:28 PM PDT met this girl at work driving buses. Whenever she passes me going the other way she waves, sees me before I see her. Few weeks ago she was parked at a bus stop and I was coming towards her and as I checked my right mirror I noticed her waving at me, but in a slow way with a soft look at me. Also on that day when overtaking my bus she looked back and waved at me. A couple of weeks ago we met at the bus terminal on the way to the toilet and she started a conversation with me. She would then talk about her getting into trouble for speeding by management. We were talking for about 5 mins. She said she was running late and needed to use the toilet and had better go. I left to go outside and she then came out after using the toilet and on passing me to get into her bus said she had bad hay fever, again as if initiating something So few days later she was coming towards me on her bus and she pushed her hair up but acted like she didn't see me and ignored me. So couple of weeks ago we both pulled up at bus stops on other side of the road from each other and she looked behind over her shoulder at me and waved. I looked at her but ignored her. So she waved again and again I kept looking but ignored her. She then looked puzzled and waved again and I smile laughed because she kept trying and she then had a little smile and drove off. She's just come back from holiday and when she saw me today she done a circular wave, like enthusiastically, and next day she waved with big smile |
| Question: Why are our friends desperate to see us date? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:27 PM PDT All of my friends were supposed to eat out and see a movie as a group. No one showed up except for me and my best friend Emmy. We ended up eating together and seeing a movie alone. Another time at the skate park our friends ditched us, so we skated alone. The trend keeps continuing and Emmy and me suspect they are trying to get us to go out. Everyone always says we're cute together because Emmy and I usually hang out together alone together anyways (we're friends since childhood). But we're only friends. Apparently our friends keep saying we should go out, but it just keeps getting awkward. Why are they doing this? I'm a guy btw. |
| Question: My bestfriend never invites me anywhere? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:24 PM PDT Whenever I go or do anything I always ask my parents if I can invite her for example at movies, swimming, shopping etc. I always keep her in mind. She never invites me to anything! For example she came over for a sleepover and we were talking about plans for the next day, so I call her and she says she can t anymore because shes going swimming, shopping, and going to watch a bunch of movies, she tells me al the fun stuff she s gonna do and doesn t invite me, when if it was the other way around i wouldn t hesitate of asking her. Also, I always see her posting stuff, like going to family fun center. Then on the rare Occasion that I ask her why she didn't invite me she says " because I was just with my dad and my sister"... I feel like she uses that as an excuse, and if I was even just with my dad I would still invite herShe s been my best friend FOREVER. I would maybe think she doesn t see me as a bestfriend, but she s always saying how we re best friends. I feel like I should maybe look for some other friends, but she s practically ,my only friend. And I'm not the best at making friends. School is starting soon and I just want a good friend that would do anything for me just like I would. Should i try making new friends? What do I do? Thanks! |
| Question: Friend sleeping on your shoulder? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:20 PM PDT We were taking a long bus ride home and we both fell asleep. When I woke up I found my female friend (I'm a guy just so you know) sleeping on my shoulder. She was also cuddling against my arm. She looked comfortable, and I knew she had a long day. I didn't bother waking her and we ended up taking the bus to the last stop. I got some comments about how cute my "girlfriend" was sleeping. I had to explain that she wasn't. We are just best friends, close, but nothing more. She was just tired and always feels safe with me I guess. Is it weird to sleep on a friend? |
| Question: Does my best friend like me? (I want muliple answers plz)? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:10 PM PDT Yesterday my best friend(guy) and I (girl) went to a baseball with my parents and little brother. We ended up not watching the game just talking the whole time (at one point he asked if i was wearing lipstick and I wasn t y was he looking at my lips in the 1st place).On the car ride home he was very touchy (He usely never touches me) He kept poking my cheeks and sometimes my lips (he was doing this most of the car ride and was laughing the whole time), touching my back, putting his head on my shoulder (for a few seconds), leaning towards me, and hand wrestling (playfully and kept saying stop being so touchy jokingly, even though he started it,and continued). At one point he made the comment "wow i can t believe you older than me" (he s 14) (i m 15) and he tried sneakily to take pictures of me (he knows i saw him and laughed but he s never taken a pic of me). Finally we he leaves he texts me 3 minutes later asking if my parents were talking about him. ( y would he care?) Background info: this was frist time we ve hung out alone (as in no friends). We text almost everyday and see other everyday because of swimming, and recently when he came back from Japan our friendship has felt a little different ( a little more akward but that could be me because I m naturally akward around the person i like). We been friends for a year. He s protective of me. He s never had a girlfriend. And I ve notice he glances at what I m wearing more often. So does he like me?*sorry I leave words out |
| Question: Should I just stop being friends with this person? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:01 PM PDT My friend keeps sexually harassing me on Facebook. He said he wants me to be gay, and have sex with him. I keep telling him no. He keeps pestering me to be gay. And I have to keep telling him no. I'm not joking around with him. I'm this close to calling the cops on him. And he wants to suck my private area. And he wants me to talk nasty to him. I said I didn't want to, but he keeps bossing me around. What should I do? Should I just end the friendship with him? |
| Question: I need help! School problems? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:56 PM PDT Basically, on a group chat I called a boy called let's say Joe a peasant because I heard he beat someone up. I didn't realise his best friend was on the chat and screen shotted what I said and sent it to Joe. Joe private messages me and started having a go at me so I blocked him however because of the nasty things he said my friend lets call her zoe called up joes friend and had a go at him for sending the screenshot. Later on a girl from the mean girls group at my school started tagging Joe in a group rate someone did of Zoe and Joe started saying horrible things about her and the mean girl was joining in. I'm really scared incase the mean girl comes up to me and Zoe at school and starts being horrible. I understand what I do said was wrong but I think this has been blown out of proportion. Idk what to do someone help |
| Question: Does this friend have something to hide? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:44 PM PDT A friend of mine was in a relationship with this girl named Tina for 5 years. Well Tom and Tina broke up in June 2014. I met Tom in September 2014 and have been friends ever since. Tom briefly told me that he dated Tina and that they broke up because she wanted to get married and have kids and he wasn't ready for that. Tom wouldn't go into further detail than that. Tom found out that I was following his ex Tina on Instagram and called me explaining how uncomfortable he was with that and wanted me to unfollow her. He was also was concerned that I might be talking to Tina. Tom He felt it was going into his personal life. He asked me as his friends to stay away from Tina. Is Tom worried Tina will tell me something that he dosent want me to know or something? I am a straight male btw. My name is Ryan |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:37 PM PDT PLEASE ANSWER!! So me and my friend always want to plan sleepovers we have planned at least 7 oppurtunties to hangout but she ALWAYS cancels for whatever reason/excuse. The thing is its only if the plan is to hangout at her house. I f we are hanging out at mine she will be over here in a heartbeat! But she has been over to my house like 3 times already and I think it would be fair to switch it around for once! So like yesterday we were supposed to have a sleepover I texted her " hey what time should I come over?" in the morning shes didn't answer I TEXTED HER 10 TIMES THROUGH OUT THE DAY!! She did not answer once, not one text! Until 6:00 pm and hour after I was supposed to be at her house for the sleepover she texted me "hey i just got home, I cant do the sleepover, maybe next time" I was thinking, so you made me wait ALL DAY for that?!!! Anyways she responded LAST NIGHT,"ok you have 2 options u can come over here, or i can come over to you house!" So i picked to go over to her house becuase mine was pretty busy, so we planned 11 am at her house the next day. Now its the next day and no suprise she canceled, 12:00 pm she said "hey i cant hangout i have to study maybe later!" ITS LIKE THEN WHY DID WE PLAN TO HANGOUT?! I guarantee you If we had planned to hangout here she would be over here right now! I swaer everytime were supposed to meet at her house she cancels! What do you think I should do? 1.Should I ignore her? 2.If im mad at her am I a bad friend? IDK if it is her that cancels or her parents!! Also what should I do when I text her?! |
| Question: GIRLS... WEIRD OR CREEPY? HELP!? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:34 PM PDT I'm at college orientation and there is this cute girl I'm talking to.. She's very quiet and when I talk to her she only answers my question and doesn't hold the conversation. I think she's cute, I don't like her... Yet... Lol. However I noticed that she always sits and walks alone when her roommate is not there... My best friend from highschool is roommates with her. Would it be weird if I asked my best friend if her roommate is OK... Cuz i noticed she was sitting alone Yesterday we did group work and the teacher said to get into groups... She didn't get into any group, since no one asked her... So I asked if she wanted to come in our group... She said yes. My question... Would it be weird to send my best friend the text asking if her roommate is OK since I noticed she was sitting alone. How would u word it? |
| Question: Why are my parents strict? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:30 PM PDT I really don't get it. I was never able to hang out with friends as much and am never really invited because of how strict my parents are and it's embarrassing. Today I told my dad how I just recently purchased my homecoming ticket with btw is at our school. He starts telling me that I won't go to any dances just my prom. I told him why if I'm the one buying them and just says he doesn't care that the conversation is over. Like I really don't get it , what's so wrong about going to a school dance. And I'm a good kid and about to be 17. It's so frustrating I cry about it all the time |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:28 PM PDT Please tell me if there's numbers I should keep on file if I come across one! I know of one now he has a gf and I don't want to be nowhere around him but there's son loose screws in his head if he thinks he's goin to win me and he keeps hacking my online dating sites and stalking me on the street. He's jealous because I want do what him wants me to do. |
| Question: Why do I always feel like I'm a very mean person? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:19 PM PDT I always feel like I'm being rude to people, even though I know I'm not. If I do something that could be interpreted as even slightly rude, like not holding a door for someone, seeing someone drop something and not helping them pick it up, or if I make a comment that could come off as rude, even if I don't mean it that way, I'll feel guilty for it for a week, and I won't be able to stop thinking about it. In elementary school, I was a little rude to a few people in elementary school, but everything turned out fine between us. And it's not like I ever bullied them or called them names or anything, I just wasn't so nice to some people. I was nice to everyone in middle school, even the people the got into drama with in elementary school. I hardly ever talked to anyone, because I got separated from my friends and I became really quiet and shy, but when I did try to talk to people, I always tried to be very nice. I did get picked on a ton because I was always so quiet. People used to called me a "creep", "loser", "stupid", "ugly" . I'm in high school now, and I'm nice to people. I still don't talk much, but more that I did in middle school. I try to help people when I can, I try to give people compliments, but I still can't help but to feel like I'm a mean person for making the smallest mistakes. I don't know why, but I can't stop feeling like I'm a worthless mean person, and I feel like everyone thinks I'm a *****! I need advice. Has anyone else felt like this? I'm sorry, I realized that I made some errors in this, but I don't feel like correcting them, haha. |
| Question: Would my friend be worried if I told her I try to eat under 500 calories a day? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:18 PM PDT I don't want responses to the 500 calorie part, I just want to know if my friend would be worried and why. My friend is 20 and I'm 14 |
| Question: Why am I always mad at my best friend? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:01 PM PDT I have lots of friends but there is one that I always get mad at for no reason and it always ends in arguments. We were fine until 6 months ago when we started playing a lot of video games together. I'll be fine one minute and he'll say something as a joke and next thing I'm ignoring him and/or texting him mean things. Are we just talking to much? Or do I possibly have bi-polor disorder? |
| Question: Need Advice: New High School? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:54 PM PDT Im so scared of school starting soon. Im going to a new high school and I'm in 11th grade. Okay so there are really good-looking people there and I know NO ONE. Idk how to make friends anymore because I already have friends (you get me). The guys there are so hot (im not boy-crazy im just stating facts and im an homors student so pls dont say how i should not be worried about boys). How do I make friends? What do I do on the first day? Im really nervous! |
| Question: How To Deal With Conceited Friend? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:54 PM PDT Okay, I don't want to make my friend sound bad, because I love her, she's a great friend and everything, but only when it comes to things outside of swim. In practice, my coach put me and her in lane one, the same lane, just us two, and we're about the same speed, except she exceeds in speed during sprints, because she's a sprinter, and I'm distance. So she occasionally passes me, but not always. But she always acts like it's a huge victory, she brags about it, she'll tell me, "I passed you, so then I had no other competition," and stuff like that, and it comes off to me as rude. During our first meet, she beat me at my own stroke, butterfly, and she bragged about it forever, at the meet, and even at practice! It's just very annoying and rude. The other day, my coach wanted me to lead my side of the pool, to have everyone keep up with me, and I told her that, because she wanted to know what we did after she left early, and she immediately said "That was only because I wasn't there, that's the only reason you lead," and then I proceeded to tell her that I'm faster than her, because I usually am. She acts so superior, she always wants to go first in our lane, because she's "faster" and she's always wondering why she passes me sometimes and I tell her, about every single practice, SHE HAD PRACTICE DURING OFF SEASON WHEN I DID NOT because it was too expensive, but she just thinks it's because I don't like swim anymore. I'm sorry, I know this sounds petty. Wow, reading this, it does sound super petty, and I'm sorry for that. I just get easily offended and don't appreciate being put down and being told how slow I am day after day. Also, I'm just super competitive. |
| Question: What do you think about this video? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:50 PM PDT They' re mom & son. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IY0ZiqH_84 what do you think? Did you like it? |
| Question: Things Keep Going Bad? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:49 PM PDT My first love left me, I'm getting along differently with my good friend, someone stole something from me last week (and nobody has stolen from me in a LONG time. I was bummed.), my family left me because they didn't want to bring me with them and they've never done that, I literally have nobody I'm really comfortable with and haven't in months, I'm maintaining a diet for my sport but it sucks because I get bummed out so often and I have to help myself even harder from eating anything I shouldn't eat. My sister acts diffirently and it makes me really mad how she acts now. I have to be with her all the time. We have some family that has to live with us now but they're just making the house messier and I don't get along with them at all. I don't have my own room. They want to take my only room where I keep my stuff (a closet) for something else. My family acts like everything I do, I shouldn't do. I don't like the things I used to like as much anymore. I miss my ex and I have to see her now and it's been more than two months since she broke up with me. Nothing really fun has happened in a long while. Stuff is too dull now. I hate this. |
| Question: How to make new friends to hang out with? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:48 PM PDT I just started high school a week ago. I'm a freshman. In 8th grade I didn't have many friends. I only hung out with 2 girls and they were kind of annoying and didn't like to hang out after school and stuff. I barely hang out with them now. I have like no one to hang out with. I really want more friends and thought that I could make more in high school. The problem is in every one of my classes, I'm either sitting beside all boys or those weird creepy goth girls. And don't tell me to talk to them because we have nothing in common and There all depressing and I don't want hang out with people like that. There's a lot of nice people in my classes but I can't talk to since we have a seating chart. How can I make more friends to hang out with if I don't sit near them. And also how do I start a conversation |
| Question: Hi, I'm 14 and I think I have a crush on my friend.? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:44 PM PDT I'm a girl and I think I like my friend. I always knew I was probably hetroflexible or bi, so that's not the issue. I don't know if she feels the same way, but I have a theory. So I was at a sleepover with her and some other girls the other night, and her(s) and my other friend(c) were like cuddling sort of so I got really jealous and joined the cuddle puddle and my other friend was like "u two are totally gonna be a couple when ur older" they were like "nooo." They always text and hang out so I get kinda jealous but don't show it. It really sucks. The worst would've if they get in a relationship. I want to tell her but I need to get more info about everything, but I'm really asking how to deal with jealousy. Also if we were in a relationship or if her and c were together, how would that work with our group of friends? |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:39 PM PDT my friends that are girls and my mom and her friends say i am beautiful but, no guy at school ever associates/ talks to me and when i try to talk to them they ignore me and give me dirty looks and all the preppy fake bitchass girls at school talk to me but when they are with thier friends they say nothing to me they dont even acknowledge me. why? |
| Question: Scary Calls? Please help? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:22 PM PDT This might be long but please read. I'm only in 10th grade but this goes way back to 5th. In 5th grade me and 3 other friends Avella, Shay and Brooke, we all got this text messages but they weren't really fatal we were only like 11. I remember this text messages said things like do this or something bad will happen. We were so stupid we actually did those things but they told us to do stuff like cuss at the teacher and stuff like that. But my one friend Brooke. She refused to do anything and called it Retarded. She texted the Person and said "stfu you dumb ***** blah blah blah" the Person only replied with "I'm sorry you feel that way, I'll be back for you, Brooke but next time a bit mot physical" I still remember everything. Well he/she left us alone. Keep in mind we were still in 5th grade. Well back in 7th grade. Brooke disappeared. Like just disappeared. I remember it like yesterday. We came back from volleyball practice. And she said she was walking home. Later that night her mom called us thinking she was at mines but she wasn't and we called the police and they think she was kidnapped. The case recently closed with no confirmed information. And now I've been getting calls. I thought this calls were from some sick kid from our school. But recently he called me and said stuff like you have 11 days to live" and I told him off then he said "IM SORRY YOU FEEL THAT WAY, ILL BE BACK SILVER" exactly was was said to Brooke. I'm rlly scared.police ,my mom thinks it's a prank |
| Question: High school is making me feel lonely? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:22 PM PDT Going into high school I had no friends. I thought because no one knows me it'll be easy to make friends. Well, I've been in school for almost a month now and haven't met a single friend. I sit alone at lunch, I don't get picked for group projects, and I sit alone at tables when we can choose where to sit. The biggest problem is that there's no one to make friends with. All of my classes have people who have known eachother for years. Anytime I try to talk to people they don't respond, glare at me, or keep talking to their friends. The one guy I've met that's cool has the same lunch as me. But he would rather sit at his packed table of friends then with me. Should I try to just be nice so people see me as the nice kid? I just need some tips. Lunch is getting really boring and lonely |
| Question: Why am i really depressive? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:18 PM PDT My whole life I can't find steady peace and happiness. I'm 20 now. I grew with no friends, loner, and hated life. At 13 I told my dad I'd kill myself but I never tried it. As an adult I think my mind is on another plane and think about how life is depressing because the days go by even faster and you live and you just die. For a while now I've been feeling fatigued /lazy. Don't know what it's called, but it's preventing me from going out, I stay in a lot. I'm introverted. I haven't been writing and making songs like I really want to. I love doing that, it's my passion. But for the last year I don't have the energy. And I haven't been active in trying to better my life and chase my career. I'm in college now. And after school I just go home and lay in bed. And in the evening my depression is worse. It's dark and I'm alone and I think about how life has no meaning and sometimes I wonder what's the point of even trying if we're gonna die anyway. I hate that my mind is like this.. |
| Question: Is she a true friend?! someone please help? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:15 PM PDT So my friend Valerie's water works aren't working at this point in time so I told her she can shower or bath whenever she wants at my house. So this morning, she came round to my house and took a bath, I trusted Valerie not to do anything else but bathe, redress and leave, so I didn't go in the bathroom until ten minutes ago. In there, I find out that she hasn't even let the bath water out and she's left a FLOATER in the bathtub! She'd totally taken advantage of my bath and I'm really pissed. Is she a real friend or not? |
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