I hate my dad so much I want to kill him, so here us what happen my grand dad died last year and In his will I inherited the farm. A little family history i am 23 years old. I never knew my parents i grew up in my grand parents house. I loved him so much, we went fishing almost every Sunday, he made be breakfast every morning, took care of me when I was sick. Even spanked me when I didn't want to get out of bed at 4 in the morning to work on the farm. Last year when i came home from school i found him. He had a heart attack and there was no one around to help him, i felt both sad and angry for a while. Back to my dad. Last week my aunt shows up with someone. They came in grand ma made em dinner, first I thought it was one of her friends but as we were eating she said he is my father, i took it as a joke at first because she jokes with me all the time. I took me a few minutes to see she was not joking. The first that came out of his mouth was "you know the farm is worth millions if we sell to the city" i got so angry, he didn't say hi son or how have you been or anything about my grand dad, i got so mad i went to my grand dads room grabbed his old 12 gauge and told em to get the **** out. I always wondered why my parents didn't want me, but now I don't care I want em to stay gone or dead. What would you do in this situation

Would you be mad if your 13 year old daughter bought A few thongs and didn't tell you about it

When I was 12 before my mom and his uncle was in an actual relationship me and him had a thing going! But then we moved on cause we was young then my mom and his uncle were in a kinda messed up relationship for awhile! When I was 14 I ended up sleeping with my mom s boyfriend cause I hated him he was trying to be my dad and I was a teenager with evil plans! Well I moved on my mom found out about it and stayed with him so their relationship was wrong by then he became a sex offender she ended up marrying him when I was 17 or 18 can t remember wasn t there! Well I don t consider him a step dad at all but he is! Well I met back up with my step cousin again and we really started bonding again and we had sexual relations! Now we are stuck worried what everyone else will think even though we hate my mom s husband!! My family says its morally wrong but I say my mom should have never married her husband cause she cheats on him and stays in prison most of the time and they just use each other! So should I be with my step cousin or not!!

My mother in law always talks about moving in with us when she gets old or any time we look at houses to buy she says is there room for an in law suit. My husband and I haven't been married that long and my mother in law isn't sick, she can take care of herself and isn't old.. why is she so worried about living with us.. she is also married and has other children. She says she will not live in a nursing home.. it's awkward and I honestly don't even know why it's up for discussion.. how should I handle this situation the next time it occurs?

I ask this question again since most people couldn't answer respectfully last time.

I pay my sister to fold clothes wash dishes for me.. i noticed I have a shortage of underwear and noticed she was wearing a pair of mine (sticking out the back of her pants) it's mo accident that she'd be wearing them because she doesn't live with me so there could be no confusion how she got them.. I feel like it's a strange thing to take.. should I confront her or just not let her clean my house anymore?

I grew up without a mum. I completed my degree and honors in accounting and I am working at a good firm. I have struggled all my life and its always been empty but somehow I made it. Now with work going badly and I have no one else and no marriage on the horizon, I feel this gap. Why haven't I felt this sense of loss before?

Details: my dad passed away and my mom is a total witch. i understand i am young and should be living with her. she, however, makes me miserable along with her boyfriend always neglecting and criticizing me. i dont work yet but i am going to start. she made such a big deal about releasing my funds before. she lied about how much money i have because she doesnt want me asking for it. i need money for food and other things so my boyfriend can work. i dont want to tell her i ran out. what to do?

I'm 20 years old, I live with my parents at the moment but I'm working on moving out. Throughout my childhood and now, I have taken alot of emotional and verbal abuse by my father. I used to be obese in my junior high years and was reassured daily that I was a fat***. Which gave me the motivation to lose 150lbs anyways. My sister is the favorite child and she knows it. She throws it in my face that she is smarter and that she has all of the talent. And it's true. Shes artistic and can sing like an angel. And im still trying to find what im good for. she told me that Im stupid, I'm not going anywhere in life and that my boyfriend is way too good for me and he will leave me because everyone I like always does. I don't have many friends at all because I've recently got clean from drugs (which was one of the hardest obstacles in my life) and I dropped all of the toxic friends I had, so she makes fun of me for not having friends. My mother works alot and she is always too tired to ever talk to me. When she does she could care less what I have to say. I hurt my family because of my past drug use and i think they still havent forgiven me completly. Ive been sober for 1 year now. I have an amazing boyfriend that keeps me stable and gives me hope. But I feel like he is the only one I have and it makes me so scared to lose him, he doesn't even know about my family issues because it's embarrassing.I feel like my family hates me and I don't know why or how to fix things. Any advice?

I moved into my dad's house 6 months ago because family issues with my mom. He told me he had bed bugs 3 months ago and I literally have had major anxiety attacks since then. They've infected the couch i slept on so now I sleep on a table. As you can see, I really hate them. Me and my brother have been telling my dad to clean his room for months and he hasn't done ****. They've started infecting the bathroom, kitchen and hallway and every time I see one I flip out. My dad has not been listening when we tell him not to sit on the couches, don't leave the room with pajamas on, and don't take take it off anywhere. He left the pajamas in the sink, fell asleep on my brothers couch for 10 minutes which got like 20 on his couch. Now that's going to be infected, and he always leaves his room with his pajamas. I have absolutely had it and I took everything on the floor of his room (boxes, papers) and threw it onto his bed. I can't ******* deal with this anymore. Did I overreact by throwing it on his bed? He needs to clean his ******* room so we can start the extermination proccess

I realise this is the question of a very spoilt girl. Some months ago, when I graduated college, I was awarded a minor scholarship by my school for excelling in a subject. My mother feels like my sister (we're twins) also deserved the scholarship, and that may be true, seeing that she seemed to have a fairly unattentive/disinterested teacher, but only one person could be given the award and it turned out to be me. Now, my mum decides that in order to show my sister that she and my dad think she deserves recognition as well, she will give her a tablet of her (my sister's) choice, even though my sister, good as she may be, on numerous occasions has "boasted" abt how little time she has spent on her school work. I already have a tablet, I got it for christmas/my birthday (our birthday is on christmas eve) bc of the difference in how much they have spent on her vs me during the last few years (a fairly large sum). My mum says I should be happy knowing they would have given me what they gave my sis, if they could have (I quit my riding lessons while she continued bc I was afraid, and I got sore eyes/blurred vision from wearing contact lenses, we both need an expensive prescription type) and my dad thinks I'm ungrateful counting everything I haven't got, but I can't help feeling a bit upset. Why would the "feeling" that if they had their way, I would have got everything my sis got be enough, while my sis is given a tablet to make up for the school's decision they found faulty?

I want to move out real bad its stress and fighting too hard to leave with my baby's dad. I have custy of my two boys one is his. He always said i can't take him his has to stay. The dad pays childsupport. Dad on youngest birth certificate. My name is on all the bills and i pay on them. The house was left to him after his dad past away last year before xmass. The dad don't treat my older one like his own. What can i do i want to move but im scared can i move out when his not home with my boys?

My fiance hates my dad because when we were dating for a month and a half, she found out at the beginning I cheated on her for nine days....sense my dad said "It s not that big of deal, I cheated on his mom for months and we were married get over it!" My fiance absolutely hates him and wants to cancel off the engagement, she found out when we were six months into it and i proposed, help?

OK so , I am a twin (girl) and I have my brother which we are twins, then my fuckibg devil sister came 4 years later, she was born when I was six, everything was calm until she was born, my parents have never fought until she was born, every time I talk to my mom about it she says "no I love everyone the same" altough she got a party this year, she is 10 now, and my brother and I only got parties up to age 4, my moms favorite scale is my dad, my sister, my brother, my dogs, me, every time I get angry at my sister they get angry at me and I get in trouble she says "stop getting mad at her it is like you are angry at me" and all that bullshit, if my sister gets angry at me she screams at me , swears at me, punches me and my parents don't do nothing to her, that's.why I hardly go out with my family ( mind you I am a teen) and Part 2 I'm still not done they say not going out is messing my brain up which s not true, since she was born I knew my life was going to be ****, I am going threw puberty and stuff and on still don't get my own damn room, so if I get my period my ******* so sister would obviously know and scream that I'm on my period which ******* pisses me off, my sister sticks to my mom like glue, if I try to have some alone time with my mom , my sister comes along and ruins it, she is the ******* devil, In my brothers case he is chill and doesn't bother either of us, I'm just ready to be 18 graduated from high school and go to a ******* college with dorms, I woubt even tell my parents which college I'm going, and I'm going to choose one away from the ******* state I'm in, also it is 4 years till that happens she always starts the fights and I dont respond but she is just so mean to me and my parents dont do nothing to stop it

Hey guys, I'm know as a square. Nerd. Geek. So I think if I start smoking I'll be cool. Where can I buy this kind of stuff? Or where can I get it from? Maybe cigarettes? I'm 13 years old. I think I'm old enough to buy cigarettes..

My boyfriend and i have a two year old. Him and i fight to much and we r not married. I want to leave with the kids i have custy over both of my boys but the two year old his. Son dad pays childsupport. I pay the bills and my name on the bills. He don't treat the boys the same like he should i been staying for my youngest but its to hard to leave with him and i don't love him any more. The dad is on birth certificate can i leave when his not home for i don't hear the yelling and the threats?

She doesn't like make up at all. If I got her make up she would be mad at me. She's not a typical 13 year old. She acts young for her age, so she prefers stuff from the toy section at target. I dont want to get her a gift card either. She has a hamster and a fish too. I cant really get her a decoration for her fish tank because the tank is too small. Any ideas? My sister is really picky.

I would hate to separate them but this is hard. I have a 12 year old who was recently diagnosed with OCD, the fear-of-contamination type. She will scrub silverware over and over and never let anyone touch her food. She can not eat food that is new, unfamiliar, or from new places. My mom makes this worse when we are out. When we go out, we go to the same exact place. My child orders something and my mom says "look at this fork ok, this is your fork, I have not touched it mine is over here". Feeding her fear. We were at the movies the other day and she gave my child a water bottle. She said "now listen, listen to how this cracks, that means no one else has drank out of this water bottle and there are no germs and you will never get sick". This reinforces everything my child has been taught against in therapy, to be afraid of germs in new places and new ways to look for them. How to tell my mom (nicely) to knock it off?

Last week I went to the mall with my best friend and we went to Charlotte Ruse where their was a deal 5 thongs for $12 so we got 6 each and my friend has already bought thongs with another friend and she hides them from her mom so we both got thongs to hide from our moms. I was completely fine with it for the first few days but I'm beginning to feel really bad about it. Me and my mom are really close and I don't want her to find them and feel like I was trying to be sneaky and I'm not close enough with her to tell her about them, this morning I threw 3 of them out in the trash in my rooms because the guilt is really getting to me, I've been dreaming about it! I do my own laundry and everything but sometimes she folds my clothes so if she finds them on her own I just have no idea how she'll react. And I know that she doesn't wear thongs so she wouldn't really get it, I just got them so I don't have visible panty lines. should I tell her about them or let her find them on her own?

My parents arrgue a lot and my father ( I hate to call him that) hit my mother ...there are a lot of problems .....I don t have anything in my life that s good....I have thought to suicide several times ...but I think about my brother and how he would be lonely also my religion forbid the suicide ...I don t know what to do

Every time I go overseas with my father he always brings these women with him and lets them stay in the same hotel room as him. He says he doesn't sleep with them so it is not considered cheating, even though he spends almost all his time away from home with them and keeps them a secret from my mother. He buys them shoes and clothes, calls them honey, pays for their expenses and for one of them even gives her an apartment to stay in! In return they give him massages and drive him around and give him lot's of attention and pamper him. When they are in the same hotel room they lock the door so I do not know what they do but it gives me an awful feeling. Everyone knows about my dad going around with these women including family friends, except for my mother who is kept in the dark. whenever she is around everybody pretends that nothing is going on. I feel awful about these trips because they are supposed to be a time for me to bond with my dad but I always end up getting very pissed off but unable to find a solution. I can't talk to my mum about it and I feel like I am hiding things from her. I can't talk to my friends because this is so embarrassing, and my dad doesn't think what he is doing is wrong. I feel embarrassed about being his son and unsure of how to respond to the whole situation. How should I treat them?? my father's friends, my father, and the women he keeps spending so much time with. I hate him for what he does but he is my father!

Okay. I am 19 and I just moved back home after living on my own for a full year. I was hospitalized twice for mental issues at the end of the school year that made it so id have to go back home. Anywho, since I have been back my dad has been treating me like my 6 year old sister. Every time I'm In a bad mood (which only includes tired, short responses. No yelling or fighting) he either assumes: A. I'm about to kill myself B. I'm a bratty teenager. Then either yells at me or threatens to send me to a hospital. I have been diagnosed with chronic severe depression but he still misinterprets every down day for teen angst. He doesn't get it

My dad's wife constantly puts people down in front of others. She's a big woman and one on one she act's nice but as soon as there's a group of people around she turns into such a bully. How do I deal with her "put downs"? My dad constantly asks me to put up with her and be nice to her, but it never ends. How do you deal with a bully like her?

So basically we are as blood related as complete strangers. My mom is adopted and my second cousin is also adopted. We didn't really grow up together and I probably saw him twice when I was really young, but I don't really remember any of it. My mom and his dad, my mom's cousin, are kinda close, but I hardly remember them. I just saw my second cousin again for the first time in ten years, basically like meeting a new person, and I kinda like him. I don't know if anything will ever happen, but I just want to know if it's wrong to even think about him like that?

My mother and I were best friends growing up until I was 17 when I got my first boyfriend my mom was jealous and upset always telling me he'll cheat and it won't last basically always being the devil in my left shoulder whispering in my ears. This guy was 4 years older than we and my first he told me that we didn't need a condom so at 18 I got pregnant with my son During my entire pregnancy my mom verbally abused me calling me a whore, telling ppl awful things about me including my sister and brother. Basically telling my sister not to end up like me. I miscarried at 4 months right after I found out my mom said it's good news now I can go back to school. When I was giving birth to my dead son she was in the room saying "if you listen this wouldn't have happened" basically again verbally abusing me while I cry as I push my dead son out after that I attempted suicide twice. The second time I got admitted into a hospital where my mom started telling my family members I'm crazy. I finally moved out I visit her and he'll her when I can my new bf lost his job and I asked her for 20$ for groceries she said no then my older sister and I were talking and she said our mother bought her groceries... When she was in the car accident I was by her side 24/7 whenever I can watching tv shows with her ALL day or going to ALL her doctors appointments right after school. I had no social life growing up. I had no idea how she could have treated me that way because I got pregnant.

I recently got married. I'm 25. Our marriage hit some hardships, but things are better now my parents were there to support me. They helped paid for most of my wedding because they wanted too and said I was a great daughter. Recently I think about them a lot & how much I love them. I will call & text them I love them or keep calling to make sure their okay. My is 62 & dad is 57. My mom is in good health, but my dad has diabetes. He's been sick recently. He lost weight for his health. I constantly worry about them. I cry thinking about them dying the thought of losing them. I cry every once a week it's just terrible feeling. I love them so much. I don't have a bunch a money for them. I'm scared to tell them because the last time. I worry a lot. I had a fear of my nephew after I got married of him falling down the stairs & nephew. He's 2 now. I would call my sister making sure okay. I got panicked every time he went near stairs & cry. I'm afraid of heights. Sometimes I have nightmares at night & my husband wakes me up. I worried about my husband too. We recently bought an 8 week puppy a week ago. Now I'm starting to worry about her too. She helps with the pain of me being scared of losing my parents. I think something wrong with me. I'm scared to tell my husband. He knows I worry. I only lived with my parents before marriage. My 3 sisters don't have this problem. Why me it's so unfair. I do enjoyed my family I just am scared of losing them. Especially my parents.

My mom and her boyfriend are getting married and he has 3 kids who I really really really despise. His youngest is 8 and he never listens to his dad or siblings. Then the daughter is 13 and she is very rude and spoiled. Whenever she doesn't get everything she wants she throws a fit and is a total brat. His oldest is 15 and he isn't that bad. But all 3 of them never close the cupboards and never put things back where they go and they are all very judgmental I feel like I can't do anything in my own house so I stay in my room all day.

We're not the kind of family who kiss and hug each other or make idle conversation, though we're on good terms and I know they love me and everything. I'm also very awkward and the thought of wishing him a Happy Birthday scenario makes me cringe because I imagine how awkward it would be. I forgot how I ever wished him Happy Birthday years before, and now it just feels so awkward and cheesy. Does anyone have family relations similar to mine? How did you wish your dad a happy birthday?

I woke up this morning remembering that I had to wash my covers and stuff. So I so I removed the cover and underneath my money was gone. somebody had stolen my dollars, quarters, and dimes. They only left nickels and pennies. I'm so damn mad and I'm bawling my eyes out. I don't trust my brother and sister because once my sister stole $20 from me for lunch when she could've just asked my dad! And my brother is autistic but they are both pains in the ***. My grandmother barely comes upstairs and my dad has plenty of money already. I have a really bad emotional attachment to my money because we're not rich and because I'm 13 and I can't get a job. 1) Please tell me a way to catch the person 2) Suggest a really, REALLY, good place to hide my money for the next time because I'm so sick and tired @y- My sister is 8 and my brother is 11- no one does drugs in the house

My baby dad sighned of on his other kids would they look in to his past and he loose his rights to r son if we go to court when i and my boys move out there to much fighting

She spreads lies about me and tells people my dirt but she exaggerates it. She always points out my flaws and she never admits her mistakes not even when I confront her about it. She likes to play mind games- one minute she ll say something and the next one she ll deny she said that thing. She s not forgettable if that s what you re thinking nor does she have a mental illness. What should I do? She'll always talk about her achievements and she'll minimize my accomplishments.

I love in the worst part of town. It s high crime and is only getting worse. almost every night I hear gun shots people screaming and cops flying down my street. Should I move? I love my home but I can t stand living here anymore. If I move I ll have to give up my animals because I can t afford to live in a place and spend 200 a month extra to keep them. Would you move if u were me

Lately my mum has been really nasty, all she does is sit around the house and refuses to do anything. Anytime I ask for something to eat for dinner or something for breakfast she gets mad and tells me she doesn't feel like it and says she'll do it later so I end up having to use my own money to order something (which she ends up eating most of without asking). My dad has noticed it too whenever he asks her something she just tells him to **** off because she's watching TV. Yesterday I was in my room watching a movie and she came in and was doing something but I couldn't see what she was doing so I asked her and she snapped at me and said "what's it to you it's none of your business" when all I did was ask out of curiosity. I'm not aloud to walk my dog at night because the streets are full with drunk people and I'm only 14 and I'm quite short so it's not all that safe since his walk route is very secluded so my dog was scratching at the door like he always does when he needs the toilet and normally my mum takes him out at night and she started shouting at me telling me I can't tell her what to do and that my dad will be home in a few hours and the dog can wait till then but he's only a puppy so he can't hold it for long so I just took him out and got in trouble when I got back for going out at night. Was my mum right about acting this way about all these things and how do I stop her from acting this way? I tried talking to her but she just told me it's none of my business.

So, I just got screamed at by my sister (who is having another B-Fit) because I did not answer the phone after she called the house twice in a row. I was talking to someone who was offering work at the office. She had the nerve to say, "Who was talking to you that was more important?". Mentally, I was going off. I was gonna smash this narc sideways. THEN she says to me, "God forbid it was an emergency, I could be dead." Imma save the rest of my frustration for her. But seriously, wtf

so I just went up in the attic, during the mid of August, to find a Hefty bag of my sister's medical scrubs. So I'm up there, I bring a bag down, but the scrubs are too small for her. I go up again, spend 30m sweating, and I bring down a bag that has larger scrubs, but she says, "these are 'all' small. Now I checked, and at least 3 had L on the tag, which is 3 more than other bags. So she's angry that the scrubs ARE upthere, but haven't been found, she's making my father check downstairs and in the garage, where her scrubs would definitely NOT be in. Also, before she got home, she was complaining that my father did not pick up the phone 2 times back to back while he was on the phone w someone offering a job. "Cuz God forbid it was an emergency, she could be dead because he didn't answer". Before she started talking to me again, I tried faking that I was dehydrated. I sat weakly against the wall, sounding disoriented, but she just gave me a bottle of cold water and sent me up, cuz she's a nurse and probly saw thru it, or she's a total B. So I go up again, spend another 30m in an insulated attic, checking boxes in our already cluttered attic for 4 people's stuff, and I have to check boxes that we would normally keep holiday decor in. Another half an hour, I still don't find it. I'm currently waiting for her to start screaming again, but until then, it's quiet Because she is bipolar, and my bipolar sister has B-Fits where she just makes other people do stuff for her. Then there are her Psycho B-Fits, where she gets pissy that you can't do things for her, which is likely going to happen later

Hi i want to move with my boys because there's to much fighting and yelling between me and the dad if i move out when his not home and if i do end up in court would he loose his rights to his kid that he had with me if they look in his past because he lost he other kids?

My parents are picking a Collage for me that is no debt. I am not happy about it and rather go in my direction where I would go but in the result would have debt. My parents are on the older side and are starting to have health problems. They don't have the money to pay for any school, and I would see why they pick this school for me. But I know I will not be happy!?

I won't lie about this, I was tremendously lazy as a kid.However in my teen years I've taken pretty, big, steps, to be more proactive. I do everything asked of me, and more. I don't get an allowance either, so I mean I'm doing it just to be helpful. My folks however still have the perception of me being lazy. Such as I told my mom, about a job I applied for, and she says; "Well you actually have to do the work." =/ Let's see...I would be getting paid to do it, I already work for free, the one example she brought up of me slacking off was because she flat out said it wasn't important, I wouldn't have anything like a computer to get distracted with...I just don't get what I have to do, to get past this perception they have of me. I know this is probably going to sound bratty, but I think my folks are emotionally manipulative. I think deep down, they want to emotionally pressure me, and keep me at the house, because they're both 50ish and out of shape, yet constantly want to do physical labor, and I'm their pack mule. I think they depend on me, more than they let on, and I'm happy to help, but I need my own life at some point. Anyway advice is appreciated, and I'm ready for all of the comments telling me what an ungrateful, stuck-up, brat I sound like.

Last night, when I was in my room lying on my bed, my cousin walked in and asked me to share my bed with him. I thought it was ok because we sometimes sleep together. When we started to sleep, he put one of his legs on mine and his hand on my boobs. I tried to tell him not to do that but he seemed to ignore that. That lasted for a whole night. And also, when ever I was on the car with him, he didn't stop put his hand on my inner thigh even when I gave him a mean look. He's 19 and I'm 15 now. I really don't know what to do but I don't want to tell my parents or his parents because I'm afraid that they will make it worse but I also don't know how to tell him straightforward. What should I do?

Basically I was having an argument with my mum and she started to throw my clothes out of my window, I could tell she was getting angry and when she gets like that she scares me as she has previously hit me. When she picked up another pile of clothes I pushed her arms so she would let go of them, she then turned around and punched me twice in the arm, once in the chest and once in the stomach, she then picked up a full can and held it to my face however she did put it down afterwards without using it, I'm scared to say anything because she claims I pushed into a wall first, which I didn't I just pushed her arms but people are more likely to believe my mother over me. She didn't hit me again after that but she did continued to shout about how she hates me and wishes I would leave, I'm only 16 and can't aggord to move out but I would if I could.

I'm a 13 year old girl and I have a 11 year old bro and our family are on a budget so we can right now only afford a 2 bedroom but does anyone have expierence sharing room with a younger sibling that is opposite sex? Last time I shared room with him was when I was 6 but I'm scared to share with him now :/ idk hard to explain, and what would my friends think? Would they not wanna hang in my room?? I know this is dumb but I'm a girl who worries about crap :(

My parents never seem to understand why I want the things I do, and why I do the things I do. For example I asked for a Polaroid camera for Christmas, and both my parents just laughed and said it was rediculous and that they weren't going to waste their money on old technology. Another example, I asked if I could go get my nails done with a few friends and my mom said it was a waste when I could do them myself. As a result of them not understanding I tend to not communicate with then very well, and feel uncomfortable asking them for/about things. Sorry for his long this is. Do you have any recommendations on what I should do?

What will my child be if I had a baby with my Chicana Girlfriend? I'm white

I have a younger sister. She's almost 16 and I'm 22 so we look like we could be the same age. Lately I've been comparing my body, hair, face and skin to hers which is weird cuz we look so much alike. I'm just worried about her being like a more attractive version of me. Does anyone else ever feel like this?

my dad confessed to my mom, brother and I that he has a2nd family. He went behind our backs for the last 6-4 years. During my teenage years, my dad was always absent or should I put it "busy at work", he would come home, but whenever he was home he was very hostile to my brother and I. eventually my brother and I just accepted the fact that our dad was always irritated because our personalities just didn't get along. One day, we caught him in our car (WHICH OUR MOTHER BOUGHT!!!!!!) with a woman, named Amy. Amy was always the reason why our parents fought for the last decade or so (I was in fourth grade when it all started, I"m halfway through college now), my mother was always suspicious about her (SHE WAS HIS STUDENT IN LAW SCHOOL but she is now a full time lawyer, at this time of writing). he admitted that he was has two of Amy's children. He admitted that he was hostile towards my brother and I because he was so problematic with his affair What makes it worse it that our mother is the provider of our family. she works so hard so my brother & I could go to really good schools and excused my dad because he was an "intellectual" not a "provider". He told us that the reason he was mad was because none of kids wanted to be a lawyer (my brother is a banker while im studying to be a doctor) I threatened to change my name. My dad cried but our mother is so devasted being fooled by 6 years. Before they got married he had another child out of wedlock. Please give me insights

there are three adults here and my mom is using us all... she receives a lot of money each month but still wants my money... and I don't even have a room I sleep on the couch. im trying to save for my own place but its extremely hard... if I don't give her the money she threatens to put me out or even hurt me... she complains about bills all the time but I cant be her cash cow for ever. what am I to do ??

My sister is a spoiled brat. i hate her. She always causes problems for my family. My parents give her whatever she wants. She curses and swears at my parents and gets violent. she breaks things and has vandalized the house before. My parents also just let her get away with it. she is basically a bully at home. She's extremely selfish and only cares about herself. My parents paid for everything, she never paid or gives anything back. My parents paid for her to go to a private school and even paid off her college rent and fees. She started a fight with me today and every day, she would yell and scream at my dad. She even physically hit my dad! She even hits my dad when he's driving. Update: She does not respect my parents or anyone. She started a fight with me today and my parents will just let her get away with it. She's 26 yrs old and still lives at home. She often has said very nasty things to me and bullies me. I'm a college student and am trying o get a degree and she will say stuff like "you'll never get a degree" and curse and swears at me and says the nastiest stuff to me, my mom and my dad. She causes my parents to fight with each other or causes many fights at home. My parents do everything for her and she still disrespects them and cusses them out all day. How do i deal with this? She bullies me and my dad all the time. It's very stressful living at home. i would literally mind my own business and my sister will start fights with me for no reason, i already try to ignore her and not talk to her, because all she does is pick fights. i HATE her so much. My parents were threatening to get a divorce because of her. i think she's a sociopath. She is suppose to take medication but she would stop her medication and not take it. I don't understand why isn't she in a psych hospital. i know other people who don't even behave half as badly as she does and they would not get away with things she does. If she lived in another home, she would've been kicked out or hospitalized or even in jail. I've spoken to my parents but they would just argue and not do anything about it. i do not act like she does, i don't treat my parents as bad as she does, and my parents don't spoil me like how they do with my sister. She's older and she gets whatever she wants and gets away with it. My parents allow her to act like this, i have talked to them about it but they don't do anything about it. @ Tony, Thank you for taking the sincere amount of time to write your answer for me. I almost cried while reading it. I'm sorry to hear about your situation. My sister is very hard to get along with, she bullied me my whole life. She often provokes fights even when I try to mind my own business. I'm also worried if she will do the same thing to my parents, take away all the money and all their belongings. The other day, my mom went to the ER and my sister showed no concern, while I was in the ER waiting by my mom. She still tried to start drama and told my dad to go straight home even though my dad was with us at the Emergency room for my mom. You're right, I won't give up my education just because my sister doesn't want me to succeed, she's been discouraging me the whole time and telling me I'll never finish college or get a degree. You sound like a wonderful father to your children. :) God bless you and your family. I see great things for you and your future.

This is the story: my mom asked my bro and I to go shopping at Costco. She gave us her credit card and Costco card but when we got to the checkout place the lady said that the owner of the card needs to be there in person. I used my card to pay thinking that my mom would definitely pay me back because it makes sense. But that was 29th July and she still hasn't paid me back! She owes me $600 and whenever I bring it up she turns it into a joke. And like she says she'll give it to me, but when I ask when she wont say! I'm a college student I don't make much money. How can I keep pressuring her with your making her mad?

My mum always complains about her job and the pay. She says that she wants to quit her job anyway and even doesn't know where to work after that. She's changed her job four times and now she works for a travel agency. I'm so concerned about this and I can't trust her. She would do anything to earn money. Is it that easy for single mothers to get a job in porn industry or something?

Im 13 almost 14 and a girl. so i met another girl in summer camp and we instantly became best friends. She asked me to go to her house. i asked my mom but my mom said no cause she doesnt know the girls parents. So i got angry and suddenly she yelled at me saying," FINE!! I DONT CARE IF THE GIRLS PARENTS A FREAKING DRUG DEALERS JUST GIVE ME THE MOTHERS NUMBER AND GO TO YOUR ROOM!!" I gave her the number and went upstairs to my room. After like10 minutes she came in to my room and told me to open the xbox so my sister could play. i told her the cd isnt working and she told me my other sister was playing a couple of days ago so i tried to wake up my sister so she can open the xbox all of a sudden my mom started yellin at me telling me im a disapointment and i wasnt the daughter she wanted. I havent stopped crying since. What should i do?

I am a 16 year old female looking for part time work and I came across one which was mowing the lawn for a bit and I asked my mum and she said I can't mow the lawn, and that I dont know how too. One it doesnt meean I cant learn, 2 she never taugght me how too she only ever taught my brothers and they enjoyed it. What is so wrong with me mowing thhe lawn? Every job I apply for she disagrees with. !! It's so frustrating

what do I call My dads parents and their parent's Parents and his parents' parents Sorry I messed this up. I meant my grandfathers parents and my grandfathers parent's parents

I've hear the most bad news ever that invovles me. No, it's not the health or financial bad news but a news where it impacts me emotionally. Now I feel broken. The young woman everyone have known is now broken. I feel so different...so not myself, all thanks to my parent's non supportive comments. I just turned 19 and still live with my parents because it's cheaper while going college. I feel so angry, angry at everything, and don't give much care to anyone anymore which is unlike the other old me before this...like I cared for everyone, the kind hearted girl...now she's just gone. I'm so afraid... I can't move out because it's very expensive to even rent one small room monthly. I'm a college student and so it's hard to get by.

I have been going to raves for a year now and out of no where my mom doesn t want me to no more. I m 19 and I just got a job my mom always tells my dad that I m done raving and I don t need to no more. I m not a bad kid my mom and I are close and all but she doesn t want me too. Music makes me feel alive and I love going to them.. Every time she says I m done I just want to say I work I can pay for it ... But I don t know what to do...:(

I think i'm depression and my family aren't supporting me. I'm a 22 year old and have a 7 month old girl who her father never stood up for her and abbandoned her when I was 3 months pregnant (After a relationship of 4 years) Now my family are all nagging me for no reason I'm always quiet I don't even say a word and whenever they start telling me how an awful mother I am and that I am not even capable to not raise my own child. It makes me feel like I'm a failure and want to be left alone without anyone around me. I have a boyfriend who is the world to me and I love him dearly and he treats us like Princess and queen, I love him so much that now I feel like I'm a total failure and say to myself that he doesn't deserve someone like me and that he deserves someone better. I wish I could open up with him as I always do but he is on holiday and don't want to ruin it because of my mood. I'm saying probably it's just a phase that I'm going through and maybe I would be better when I leave the house but God knows when and that is another reason which frustrated me because I'm only in the beginning of the relationship and it's too early for me to leave the house but I feel so miserable in here that I want to be by his side. He is ready to take care of us but it's a big step cause we have met on facebook and lives in another country but he regulary comes here for us. Please I want someone to encourage me because I feel like I'm collapsing. Sorry for being so long I need to speak up :(

My daughter was 8 when we divorced and my ex-wife moved out of the area and never told me the address. After our divorce, my ex-wife ended up living with and later marrying one of the guys she had an affair with. Now my daughter says that is her Father and he is the good guy and everything about me is bad. During one of my ex-wife's many anger episodes she tried to crash our car with my daughter & step-daughter inside head-on into on-coming traffic. I was driving and only just managed to avoid a collision. It would have been fatal. My ex-wife had been married previously and already had a daughter when we married. After her Mother and I were married she had several affairs, was always very angry and even stabbed me twice. I felt I had no choice but to end the marriage. Obviously, I have always loved my daughter and would not want to cause her any hurt. Should I tell my daughter about these terrible events? Or would it only cause harm? Or, would it be better to just leave it unsaid and get on with my life and let my daughter cut me out of her life and blame me for everything? Just to add, I don't think she acted strange before we got married. Though, it is possible the bad things she did were down to post-natal depression or hormonal issues but she would never admit to suffering from these things.

My mom is aggravating me!!! Pls Help!!!!!!!? She goes through my phone...She gets mad at every little thing....She threatens me....She says that in a preteen I'm 14...She won't let me go anywhere (I just want to go play b-ball at the gym its 2 buildings down the street)....She won't let me go to early college...She always accuses me of sending nudes to boys (I really really don't I just take my phone in the bathroom by accident) and I gave no desire to even kiss a boy (I think its gross) let alone send nudes (That's even worst) ....I'm celibate and i don't want to have sex with anyone....and she treats me like a slut...She thinks I'm gay because I'm a tomboy and I'm really not...she yells at me for EVERYTHING And no she is not protecting me because she doesn't want me talking to boys(these are the only ppl I can talk to because I don't get along with other girls I don't talk to my mom about personal stuff ex.Puberty BTW)...She thinks I'm lesbian but won't let me hang around boys (I'm not lesbian BTW) .....and do you think 14 is a preteen pls help me deal with her