Family: Question: My mom and I got into a huge fight? |
- Question: My mom and I got into a huge fight?
- Question: My brothers wife is exaggerating! Please help, it s unbearable!?
- Question: I cannot stand my sister?
- Question: What do I need to do now??? did I do some thing wrong?
- Question: Stay Abusive Situation/Homeless Out-Of-State?
- Question: Should I move out of my dad s house to live with a friend?
- Question: I hate my mom?
- Question: My family and I are being evicted. We have 3 days. We don't have much money. We have 3 kids. Pets also. What can I do? Where can I stay???
- Question: Does it matter how he gets it as long as he gets it?
- Question: Mom's attitude changed after sister went to dorm. Im crying!!?
- Question: My mom is always crying?
- Question: 10 year old brother cried on my shoulder!?
- Question: Should I move out?
- Question: Im 26 and engaged, mom s FURIOUS when I see my fiance alone?
- Question: My mom AND the rest of my family are very superficial they are mean towards people who aren t attractive.?
- Question: Heard my mom tell my grandma im fat, really upset.?
- Question: Why does my little sister abuse me?
- Question: I think my brother may have touched my friends inappropriately when we were younger?
- Question: Caught watching porn for the first time!?
- Question: My sister's boyfriend is living in my mother's home and my entire family is not comfortable with it?
- Question: I ran over a cat with my car .. what should i do now ?
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- Question: How do i get off my brother's locked home screen?
- Question: My grandmother just threw the most valuable item I have in my life!! Please advice!?
- Question: Can I move to a shelter out of state?
- Question: Guys, I have a concern:'(?
- Question: Why would nurture parents force me to stay on nature's side while they got my siblings on the nurtured side?
- Question: I caught my mum reading my diary AGAIN and I went absolutely livid?
- Question: Am I being unreasonable?
- Question: I despise my mother's husband?
- Question: How to convince my parents not to shift to another country?
- Question: My sister called me inconsiderate and disrespectful, and my mum agrees with her?
- Question: My dad is on drugs?
- Question: I told my mom and dad that my cousin molested me and i am talking to cps today!?!?
- Question: Last minute birthday gift?
- Question: I hate my mum?
- Question: I'm throwing up and my parents don't care?
- Question: Roach problem at my parents house?
- Question: IPHONES SUCK!!!!?
- Question: Why is my deaf neighbor so rude,nasty,selfish?
- Question: I am 10 and a half and my parents are getting divorced?
- Question: Don't want to visit my real father. Yet I feel I have too.?
- Question: My girlfriend was a prostitute to save my lif?
- Question: Easy breakfast in bed? For kids?
- Question: Mature serious family problem?
- Question: Is my kid being lazy?
- Question: Dad wont pay for my university what shud i do?
- Question: Mourning fathers death?
- Question: I want to die painless?
- Question: I miss my mom, I can't take this anymore?
- Question: My girlfriend sold her body to save my life (10 points best answer help)?
- Question: My dad having child pornography?
- Question: Is love enough?
- Question: What Is m'y oldest cousin?
- Question: Serious mature family problem?
- Question: I'm 13 and want to live with my dad please help!!?
- Question: Is it incest?
- Question: I want my room I'm 14 and still sharing with a 10 year old..?
- Question: How can I deal with this?
- Question: I'm curious what reason would a father be more close to one of his sons and not the other ?
| Question: My mom and I got into a huge fight? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 01:19 PM PDT My mom is super overprotective, even tho im 19 years old dude. All my life, she has banned me from going to any of my friends houses (thinks they would poison me?), doesnt let me play soccer, basketball, dodgeball, etc as she thinks il get hurt. I never learnt to swim cause she forbids public pools aswell. She tried so hard to forbid me from lifting weights at the gym, but finally after a year of constant arguing about it she gave in (tho here and there she still tries). Literally she wants to keep me in this tiny bubble of hers. Now today she wakes me up super early, and tells me oh her friend said video games are bad and is gonna hide all my games. I was argueing once again that video games are harmless and that I barely even play games, yet she didnt care. Finally she took my games (i bought with my money) and hid them with her. It was then that I couldnt take it. I started argueing like crazy about everything, and then she walks away from the arguement cause she knows she lost, and now wont even look at me. Am I wrong? I feel like in an hour when my dad comes home shes gonna tell him and my dad always sides with her and an even bigger war is gonna start breaking loose tonight.....should I apologize to her now or stay ? |
| Question: My brothers wife is exaggerating! Please help, it s unbearable!? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 01:01 PM PDT Recently, my brother announced that he and his wife are expecting a child. They were married for about 7 years and all that time they were trying to get a baby, but they weren t successful, that is, until now of course. Now, I understand that she is very happy and doesn t want to loose it, but this... this just isn t right. She is using the situation. She is making all of us her slaves. She is currently staying with my mother, and she is in her third month. It s driving me and everyone else crazy. Although she works in a beauty salon, she acts like a doctor, and she made up a diet, which seems great for a diet if you want to loose weight, but is really bad for the child, and she think that it s healthy. Lots of other stuff, which would take me forever to write, but anyways, if you know a way that I could stop her reign of terror, that would be great. |
| Question: I cannot stand my sister? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 01:00 PM PDT Me and my younger sister are very close in age. We used to be the best of friends, in fact, I was closer to her than anyone else. Being her older brother, if by only 5-6 months, I've always tried to set a good example. I think I did a good job, too. I never fought, I reasoned problems, et cetera. If she did something wrong, I would correct her. But then, well, hell struck loose. About a decade ago, we had one of the worst winters, ever. As a result, she spent those months in her room, on her iPod, and watching YouTube. But because that time was so extensive, she grew what I can safely call a YouTube addiction. She became so addicted, in fact, that she started to share all their opinions. For example, she used to enjoy quirky, awesome music. Now she's into Miley Cyrus, Taylor Swift, and terrible, bad role model-esc music. She now wears super exposing clothes. She says stupid, stupid stuff like 'I wish I had an Xbox so the boys would love me..' She's always been very popular, and now she's like a super-diva. Granted, that's all fine. I won't judge clothing style, musical preference, ect. But she also became, well.. Spoiled. We've lost a lot of money because she DEMANDS everything goes her way. She won't stop fighting, screaming, and crying until she gets her way. Despite her popularity, she also pretends that even her own parents hate her. I can't even talk to her without wanting to ******* rip her neck open. And this isn't a teenager phase, either. She's in her freaking 20's. |
| Question: What do I need to do now??? did I do some thing wrong? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:55 PM PDT So... about two years ago my parents passed away I was 10 and now I am 12! so I need a legal guardian that legal guardian is my brother my brother is 27. So a couple of days ago he was dropping me off at my dance practice and in the middle of the road something happened to the car I didn't understand what it was! he got out of the car to check what happened to it and he said f*** this day! After an hour it started working when he came to pick me up from dance I saw something on the road and I said what the f*** is that and he slapped me and he said if I will say that word again I will get into really big trouble. when we came home he took some of my electronics and he told me that until I will learn to speak like a person he won't talk to me and I could say goodbye to my electronics! I did apologize but I didn't really understand why should I do that if I repeated what he said! and he said that I will get my electronics back when he thinks it's the right time! so yesterday I asked him if I could get my laptop back and he said that because of that question I won't get it for another week I asked him why and he said that if I will talk back he will take the rest of my electronics! I got so mad that I went to my room and slammed the door I have never seen him that mad at me!he went to my room and said that I have to give him my makeup and jewelry so I gave him my makeup and Jewelry!I don't know what to do I didn't do any thing wrong what should I do? Am I a brat? |
| Question: Stay Abusive Situation/Homeless Out-Of-State? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:41 PM PDT There are no shelters in my area and the state itself has the least amount of funding for homeless because there aren't many and it is a extremely conservative state. So, I will have to leave the state to find a homeless shelters... OR I could stay in the abusive living situation I am in. It isn't as easy as "leave abusive situation live on streets" You try living in a shelter with bedbugs and drug addicts or sleeping on side walk. It is a hard choice. I have 4 days to figure it out... I grew up in foster care so no family to turn to...and no friends. I am 100% on my own. I do have a small income but it ins't enough to pay deposit or two month's rent. Which a lot of room for rents want ironically. I am too old for job corps. The age limit is 24. I am in late twenties. |
| Question: Should I move out of my dad s house to live with a friend? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:26 PM PDT So Ive lived with my mom in the same city for about 8 years, and I love it there. But then my step dad got a job 12 hours away, and instead of moving 12 hours away for my senior year of high school, I stayed with my dad, who lives about 40 minutes away. I realized I had to leave my mom and still move school, but at the time I wanted to be with friends. Now that I m in school, I still rarely get to see my friends, I m miserable. I dread every day, I hate this town, this school, how my dad/step mom works, everything. My absolute best friend and her family always let me know I can move in if I want to, which means not only am I living with my best friend, I m in my "home" town, and I get to finish my senior year in the same school I started in. Now dad would not like this, and I m afraid if I leave he ll hold it against me. My friend said that he loves me, and should just want me happy, but I m not sure. But I can t live here for a year, I m not happy here. Sorry it s long, but I d really love some advice. Thanks |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:26 PM PDT She is so fat and stupid. She yells at us all the time for the littlest things, she is so fake when we're in public. She speaks super loud on her cellphone so people can hear her "adult" conversation. She always compliments me on how I'm a "growin' boy" and I'm a "bottomless pit" when really I'm not. It pisses me off so much. She always alters stories she tells and thinks everyone wants to laugh with her about everything. She pees with the door open at home, farts and burps while we're around and laughs. She doesn't understand the simplest things I tell her and gives me a dumb look. |
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| Question: Does it matter how he gets it as long as he gets it? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:22 PM PDT I hear all the time how marriages end due to the involvement of in-laws. In this case it is my husbands siblings. When we had problems with parenting he would call his sister and get advise from her and it would frustrate me that when I said it it created issues but when his sister said it he would calm down and tell her she was right. Wouldn't even come back to me and say "sandy said the same thing you said and I am sorry that I didn't listen to you". It got tot he point where his sister was the go to person to solve our problems. His sister was the one who protected and took care of him when his parents were drunk and fighting then passed out the following morning unable to get him and their younger brother ready for school or out at bars leaving Sandy responsible for dinner and homework. Not only that, she and her husband are a successful couple raising their three children. Now that he is talking to his brother again the same thing is happening. I walked in on a conversation he was having with our 13 year old about boys and he was using negative definates. Telling her to stay away from boys in school because they only want one thing. I could hear him yelling from the other room. When I ask him why he was yelling he said that because she doesn't listen. By the end of the night he was on the phone with his brother and his brother told him that he can't talk to a child like she is an adult then not expect her not to act like one. That the yelling was too much. That you don't get positive results out of negative actions and all his yelling accomplished was to confuse her or to piss her off. It's like the words mean nothing coming from me. he ends up yelling at me for making a big deal out of it. |
| Question: Mom's attitude changed after sister went to dorm. Im crying!!? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:20 PM PDT Last year, my parents asked me to go to dorm and i said no because i can't live without them and homemade food. My parents were cool with. After fall and spring. I had to rerakr some classes. That i got Ds in. My parents were upset about me because i wasn't studying upto my level. I was A's and AP student in high school. Every time, when i was the topic, they sarcastically ask "would you at least pass this time? Its was really painful to hear such words. They're support would bring me down every time. This year, my sister is going to dorm. My mom's favorite child is my sister. She going to dorm is tearing my mom's heart apart. After comming home fron dropping ger off, she immediately have "im stuck with boring life face". Whenever i compare myself with my sister, she says "youre no where comparable to her. She got half ride but you are making us pay for your class twice". Its only been a day and i already got verbal stabbed million times. If my sister was here, she would've supported at least a little. Although my mom loves both of us, she loves her a lot more. She also says that no one would marry me if have strech marks on my body. She makes me feel as if im not worth to live with my 5'4 and 190lb body with streches on my stomach and waist and hips and with 2.8gpa and 3 retakes in freshman year itself. How do i stop her from saying these??? |
| Question: My mom is always crying? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:19 PM PDT My dad had done something stupid 5 years ago but she's still very upset about ( I can't understand why) But she thinks something is happening again and all she ever does is cry.. She can't leave him because she can't get a job (Bad arthritis) She has no relatives to stay with and her best friend is in the hospital dying. I've had to hear them argue over and over again and hear her cry and have to comfort her. I don't mind doing that but I can't show that I'm scared and very depressed because she will feel worse. I don't know what to do anymore. |
| Question: 10 year old brother cried on my shoulder!? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 12:03 PM PDT My 10 year old brother came home all soaked up and crying he walked about 45 minutes by himself in a sweatshirt (no shirt underneath) and short and flip flops I let him borrow. He knocked on the door and my parents answered, and they saw him crying. He called me down and I came running down and he was laying down crying. My parents let me help calm him down while they went upstairs to get him some stuff to help him. I gave him a hug and he was crying on my shoulder and kept on crying and I kept comforting him and he fell asleep on my chest and I woke him up 30 minutes ago and I made him a warm bath and he's just got out and continued crying on my shoulder. (His close friend died, and best friend just moved to Germany). He just keeps on crying and idk what to do but hold him close and hug him and let him cry. he's also being bullied by neighbors too :( (we start school on the 15th) he won't let go of me and we're all cuddled up under my blanket and he keeps on crying. It's like he won't calm down at all. I can't calm him down at all sorry this is long but I need help thank you for any advice |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:52 AM PDT My mom is the kind of women that can't live without a man. Whenever she fights with her boyfriend she makes a big deal out of it ,and starts preparing for what she thinks will be a miserable life. Every time she does this I try to cheer her up, and tell her how much better we're going to be without him. I don't know if she realizes how much this affects her children. Shes also a very superficial person all of her family infact, . they think I'm not normal because I'm always in my room studying all the time they say " it's not normal for a young girl to not have a boyfriend or go out with her friends" Sorry for the punctuation and grammar |
| Question: Im 26 and engaged, mom s FURIOUS when I see my fiance alone? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:44 AM PDT Im 26 and my fiance is in the navy. He was in ROTC the last 4 years we were together, now he had to move. I moved out of my parents house and right now live alone. I start nursing school in September. Before I start nursing school I am staying with my fiance in a different state. My mom is not only beyond furious that I am staying with him ALONE but she also doesn't want anyone else to know because she says THAT IT MAKES HER LOOK BAD. She goes crazy saying that family and people are talking about what a whore I am (again, I am engaged and we were together for 4yrs before this) She becomes irrational. Is this normal? Do people even still think this way? My therapist thinks my mother is a histrionic narcissistic personality. |
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| Question: Heard my mom tell my grandma im fat, really upset.? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:28 AM PDT It was really late at night and I couldn't sleep and I was hot so I opened my bedroom window and went on my phone and my rooms right above the driveway. That night my mom came home late because she was out to dinner with her friends and she pulled up Into the driveway and her window was open and I heard her talking to my grandma on the phone in her car, I guess my mom thought I was asleep because she was telling my grandma about how fat I am and how I get out of breath so easily, and I try and were bikinis like my friends and I just look horrible and its embarrassing etc etc. I know this conversation was supposed to be private and after 5 minutes of the conversation I shut my window and cried myself to sleep. I know she didn't want to hurt my feelings and I wasn't meant to hear that but just hearing her tell my grandma that is so embarrassing. I'm 13 year old girl and 145 pounds. I'm super self conscious about my weight and my mom knows that. I never eat junk food and I try as best as a can to excerisxe but sometimes its hard to juggle school homework and going to the gym. I just feel so awful after hearing my mom say that and now I'm even more self conscious. Now I know my grandmas judging me to. What do I do? I'm really upset, the fact that thats how my mom sees me, and that she tells my relatives about it. I'm just so embarrassed! |
| Question: Why does my little sister abuse me? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:26 AM PDT I have a little sister who abuses me. I am forced to babysit her and when ever she doesn't get her way, or something is worse than she expected, she takes it out on me. I have a hurt eye (she hit me in the eye), scars (she gives makes me bleed and I pick at scabs out of habit), bruises, and a sore back. She throws things at me (and remote for the TV is her favorite so far). She cries when I finally snap and yell at her and threaten to call military or mom and dad. When I do end up calling mom and dad, she blames the entire thing on me. She's 7 years old and I am 13, I thought it was a phase when she was younger, but she never grew out of it. I have called my parents so many times when it got bad, that they say if I call them again for her little fits, they will take away my money for the day. I don't know what to do, I have tried to talk to my friends and my other sister, but my friends don't believe me, saying she is a little angel and my other sister says its my fault. Whenever I take care for my little sisters health and safety, she yells at me to mind my own business. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Question: I think my brother may have touched my friends inappropriately when we were younger? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:20 AM PDT when I was in 5th grade (I guess about 10yrs old) two of my friends swore that my brother would sneak into my room at night and touch them when they would sleep over at my house.he would have been 20 then. it bothers me now because I don't know if this is true. I don't understand how he could touch them without me waking up. he has never done anything like that to me and he is otherwise a good brother. but it makes me not want to have people sleep at my house anymore. I just don't know what to do..this was 6 yrs ago so should I just let it go? I don't want to tell someone if it isn't true, and I don't want him to get in trouble for something he may or may not have done 6yrs ago. he's 26 now and about to get married. I dont want to ruin his life by telling my parents but I want to get it off my chest. should I confront my brother about this? if so, how? |
| Question: Caught watching porn for the first time!? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT I, a male, 14, watched some porn on my cousin Bro s computer for sometime. I always watch it on incognito mode, but I think this time I watched it on the normal now and forgot to delete the history. I think he saw it cuz he is indirectly telling that on phone. He also watches porn and also masturbated. I m sure he is not gonna tell that to my parents but he s gonna surely whack me and maybe he would stop me from using his computer. Feeling very scared, can anyone give ideas of how I can escape from his scolding, please. |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 11:00 AM PDT My sister is 20 years old, her boyfriend 22 I believe, and a year or so ago she kept having him over a few times a week until it eventually turned into him living here. There was no permission asked from either my mom or dad, or me (23 y.o.) if it's okay for him to live with us. He basically shares our home, our living space, our kitchen and bathroom to do what he wishes, and he gets to sleep with his girlfriend comfortably. I've brought it up to them that he can no longer live in our home, but my sister thinks that because they are both contributing to rent, they have the right to do as they wish. I mean no disrespect towards my sister, but it is clearly a fact that they are dirty, they do not pick up after themselves, and they leave a mess wherever they go. It is uncomfortable. My mother has lost all authority over my sister, as she is getting older and working every day, she is tired. She lets her do as she wishes. My aunt thinks it is, without question, wrong, a young woman to be behaving in this sort of way. My dad only allows it because of the well-being of my sister; he does not want her to "live out in the streets" if we were to kick her boyfriend out, because she will follow. And I, a college graduate fighting my way through to make a career, still living with my mom and only able to contribute to rent seldomly, think that it is intrusive and invading the space we as a family call home. We live in an income-based housing community in Jersey City. I need advice. |
| Question: I ran over a cat with my car .. what should i do now ? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 10:59 AM PDT i was driving and i almost reached home but found a cat while i was parking , i didn't know what should i do but i expected it to ran away , i got distracted so i even hit the curb ( but found no damages ) .... i feel so bad now because i hit the car and ran over the cat ....i feel like i will not able to drive these days at least... what should i do to feel better ... and should i check the car ( as there may be damages that i can't see ) ? |
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| Question: How do i get off my brother's locked home screen? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 10:44 AM PDT so my bros and i share a macbook air and my older brother always locks it on his screen so i can't go to my screen. my little brother says that there are some keys you can press (not the password) and the screen will be unlocked, but he refuses to tell me. help?! |
| Question: My grandmother just threw the most valuable item I have in my life!! Please advice!? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 10:44 AM PDT Hello, I went to the University of Michigan Health System to have some advice from a doctor, I had to do a surgery in my left foot's lower bone, After I went back home I saw a bottle in the trash can, When I looked closely I yelled "WHAT THE F*** IS THIS?!", My mother just came up to me quickly and asked me what's up.. I showed her the bottle and it's my expensive body lotion, I had that as a gift set from my girlfriend, she passed away... I literally cried. My grandmother was alone in the house and she knows that this was a gift from my girlfriend, she knows very well.. my mom asked her about the bottle and she said "There was flies and they kept stinging me, I was itching all the time and I used the lotion to stop the pain." I kept calm.. till she said "This lotion is worthless, why would he keep it, his girlfriend gave him the cheapest brand and it didn't stop the pain". After that I flipped the table that she had her tea at.. I went to my room and locked myself, didn't know what to do. I rushed and visited her grave... My grandmother keeps messing with my stuff, and she's so disrespectful to me. When I talk to my parents about her they yell at me sometimes with an excuse "she's old". And if I talk to her directly she starts crying and tells my mother stuff I didnt do. I'm sick of that life.. When she sees me drinking an energy drink or an alcoholic drink (such as beer, vodka cocktail, rum..).. she gets it from me and throws it, I am a F***ING ADULT. Advice please.. |
| Question: Can I move to a shelter out of state? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 10:38 AM PDT Right now, me and my mom are having a lot of problems at home. My dad starts fighting with her for no reason and he get this psychopath mood. My mom and dad have been married for 20 years and she had enough with the fights and insults. I even developed depression because I have seen my parents fight a lot. Anyways, my question is if I could move to a shelter out of state? I want a shelter to help me and mom, but not in the state that we live in because my dad is going to easily find us. We want to disappear for a while, not letting anyone know where we are going. For me, moving to another state is going to be much better. We live in the state of Wyoming and there's so many small towns, so it's going to be easy for my dad to find us in the state. That's the reason why we want to get a shelter out of state. Is there any websites of phone numbers that can help us with this situation? My mom doesn't have a job and neither do I. Only my dad. So if me and my mom leave, then we will have money problems. If you can give a website or phone number, then I thank you Because I will finally get freedom if we get out of that house. My dad thinks that buying us smartphones clothes and shoes is going to make us happy, but that's not true. |
| Question: Guys, I have a concern:'(? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 10:17 AM PDT My relatives are living with me, in my own apartment, it sucks coz my cousin doesn't know how to drive yet, so I give her a ride to work every night, sometimes around 1 AM because she works night shift. I can't say no because she is my cousin, or maybe I'm just being so nice, but deep inside of me, it's a hassle huhuhu, sometimes I ask myself "when the fck is she going to learn driving??" My time is being used up, I go hangout with my friends at night, and I tend to go back home just to give her a ride!, please help me how to deal with this terrible situation |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 09:55 AM PDT I don't know if I should be calling myself a nature person when my mum has insisted that she nurtured me in the past, but I think they are forcing me to be on nature's side by denying me my indoctrination into the Catholic Church and having the right ideas, beliefs and attitudes. I could have gotten my indoctrination if I just came with my parents and siblings to an indoctrination center instead of choosing to stay home, but I chose to stay home since I didn't realize they were going. I was blacklisted afterwards since I wasn't with them I wanted the get the ideas, beliefs and attitudes - not just Bible studies and Catholic rituals. I was baptized Catholic as an infant, but raised away from church like my siblings. |
| Question: I caught my mum reading my diary AGAIN and I went absolutely livid? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 09:48 AM PDT My mum is so f*cking annoying when it comes to my diary. I've caught her reading my diary SIXTEEN TIMES in the last one and a half months. Whenever I catch her, I go ballistic at her. I keep going on at how she doesn't respect my privacy, but she's all like "honestly I don't care". Sometimes I even kick her out my room and slam the door violently after yelling at her. My diary is very private. Some of the things in there are very sexual. About an hour ago, I came back from my friend's house. As I went into my room, and I caught my mum reading my diary AGAIN. I rush towards her, grabbed the diary out of her hands and yelled "CAN'T YOU JUST F**KING STOP READING MY DIARY? IT'S PRIVATE, AND YOU NO F**KING RIGHT TO READ IT!" My mum then said "I have every right to read it, and how dare you swear at me. I am your mother!" I said, "I can swear at you as much as I like UNTIL YOU STOP READING MY F**KING DIARY!" Then mum said, "I will never stop reading you diary, you b*tch!" I got so angry, I slapped her in the face and pushed her on the floor. I then said "now get out of my room and stay away from my diary! I can do much worse than that." My mum then called me "vile scum" and I said, "f**k you, you wh*re!" What should I do? Did I really deserve to be called 'vile scum'? |
| Question: Am I being unreasonable? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 09:34 AM PDT My step daughter wanted to go to this ridiculously expensive Private college for a BFA. I told her dad he would be a fool to cosign for any loans. As it was going to cost $120,000 for a Bachelors of Arts. So she convinced her mom to help her, her mom saved up 8,000 for the first semester. So my step daughter went to college and her 3d day she wants to leave already! She hasn't even started class, just moved into the dorms and says she is depressed and has anxiety. She comes from a sheltered town, never lived alone before, pretty spoiled imo, she is 5 hours away from her b/f. I think it's completely ridiculous wha the is doing and her father is babying her saying she can do whatever she wants, leave or stay! What is everyone opinion on this? |
| Question: I despise my mother's husband? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 09:31 AM PDT I wanna say I hate him, but because that's not really a word that I use often I'm gonna just say that I don't like what he did to my family. Me, my sister, my brother and mother were happy before he came into our lives; we went out a lot, we talked more and we actually spent more time then we ever did as a family. We actually liked how our lives were before him, we were happy and he ruined that. When my mother first introduced us to him he seemed like this great guy, he made her happy something we clearly couldn't do. Because he lived in California we never really met him in person only through video chatting. He came to visit us about twice, the 3rd visit was a move in. I really did like him, my mother explained to us that he was gonna make our lives better, happier than it was and I believed her I really did. So as time past we got to know him a little more, now keep in mind I'm very good at reading people. And I got the impression that he wasn't this guy he portrayed himself to be. He's immature, so full of pride, a lier and a narcissistic dick. We were always arguing because I found him very annoying. It got to the point where every single thought of him made me sick. I mean all I could think of was what could my mother possible like about him, he acted like an 8 year old little boy trapped in a grown mans body. He is a coward and a lier; he made me seem like the bad guy in a lot situations. He ruined my life and I will never forgive him for that. |
| Question: How to convince my parents not to shift to another country? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 09:15 AM PDT Next year i'm going to another country for further education (i'm in last year of high school) and my parents are applying there for PR visa. I've always thought I'd finally be independent in college. They're very overprotective and strict, so much that sometimes i can hardly breathe in the house. i looked at college as a way of escaping them and at the same time pursuing my dream career, but now they're crushing that hope of mine! they told me its because of lower tuition fees(for citizens) but it feels like its also because they don't want to leave me alone. whereas i desperately need to be alone, as far away from them as possible! they've done so much for me and love me so much i don't know how to tell them that i want to be away from them for a while. i don't want to break their heart or anything but i need my freedom as well! how do i break it to them? what do i say? |
| Question: My sister called me inconsiderate and disrespectful, and my mum agrees with her? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 09:11 AM PDT My mum has a very severe migraine. She's had it since Tuesday evening. Me and my older twin sister are looking after her. About 15 minutes ago, I went into my mum's room to ask me if she was ok. When I went into her room, unaware that she was asleep, I said "are you okay mum?" I then heard my mum jump and she said, "You scared me." I asked if she was asleep, and she said "yes, and it's your fault I'm awake again." My sister then came involved and started shouting at me. She called me "rude", "inconsiderate" and "disrespectful". I then said I'm neither of them things. And then mum said, "oh yes you are. You are really being rude, inconsiderate and disrespectful. Now please go away and leave me alone!" As I left, I heard my sister sniggering at me. Was I really being rude, inconsiderate and disrespectful? |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 08:25 AM PDT I cannot handle living with someone who acts like someone is always out to get them. My dad thinks his girlfriend is cheating on him with his friends. Whenever we go out somewhere he always says cops/detectives are watching him and following him whether we are driving , eating in a restaurant,shopping or even getting gas he always tells me that " he is not playing around" and "they are going to kill him" . At night when I was about 7 or 8 years old he would shut off every light in the house and look through the blinds with binoculars, if I turned on a light so I could go use the bathroom or get a drink of water he would freak out and get very mad . He doesn't work and all he does is run around with his tweaker freinds. He is very aggressive and whenever I say anything he always says " why are you purposely causing problems for me " and his most famous one " I'm going to have a nervous breakdown" he uses that one more than twice a day. We don't live in the best neighborhood and the house is very dirty and there's holes in the walls everywhere . I think my dad is on drugs, all of my family on both sides has told me he used to do meth and I don't think he has stopped . I don't want to live with him. I have to but , I can't take it much longer . Please give me some options . Btw my patience ran out with him a few years ago . I am currently 15 years old and my mom passed so she can't help. |
| Question: I told my mom and dad that my cousin molested me and i am talking to cps today!?!? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 08:25 AM PDT I am super scared. I have bad social anxiety and am scared i might say the wrong thing, i am talking to cps specifically about what happened. Please does anyone have advice. Idk if i can do this. |
| Question: Last minute birthday gift? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 08:15 AM PDT Today is my sisters birthday, I'm 13 and she's 18 today. Our birthdays are a week a part mine is next week, she always gets me something for my b day, so I don't want to not give her anything. I love diys so I looked on Pinterest for ideas but I couldn't find anything that she would like. I don't have any birthday cards. Usually my mom goes to the store buys clothes as a gift and makes me put my name on the birthday card. She does this for EVERYONE in my immediate family. She wanted a Jeep Wrangler (which I'm pretty sure my dad is getting her.) an air board and money. I don't have money for an air board and I don't have money at all. No one ever takes me to the store so I usually shop online but I can't wait 3-5 business days to revive her gift. What should I get/make her? |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 08:13 AM PDT i hate her so much she came into my room and then complained about a few hairs on the floor then she read my bank statement without asking me and wouldnt give it back and then she said that my contract was going to stop soon and i said okay then she said she wouldnt pay for my next one even though i remember we had this conversation a few days ago and she kept saying she didnt and shes made me so angry it litetally drove me to tears and i absolutley hate her and shes such a **** and idc if shes my mum shes so ******* stupid |
| Question: I'm throwing up and my parents don't care? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 08:11 AM PDT Around early afternoon yesterday, I began to feel pretty queasy. At around seven, my back really started to hurt and my stomach was killing me so I went to bed early. For the rest of the night I couldn't sleep because my stomach was hurting that bad, so I took a bath, ate some fruit, drank water, and took some Tylenol. When the bath finally started working at around four am this morning, my dad came in yelling at me to get out saying he needed a shower and that he couldn't be late for work - even though he has a bathroom in his room. Then he yelled at me some more for getting the floor wet and asked why I had to be so selfish. After he left, I hopped in the tub and the pain worsened. Finally, I went to my mom. I really needed some kind of comfort. She instead told me to go back to bed and get over. When I finally threw up at around eight this morning, she told me it was my fault and I only have myself to blame for being sick. What am I supposed to do? She's already telling me to do my chores, babysit my sister, etc. And I just can't. |
| Question: Roach problem at my parents house? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 07:29 AM PDT Growing up, we had a roach issue at our house. It was old house and my parents could not afford anything better. Now they live in a new home (its still old fashioned) and the roaches have come back. My mother does nothing about them. Its bad because I live away so when I do go to their house, it would be nice to be able to stay over, but I can't because its so bad. I'm no doctor, but I feel like thats a sign of mental problems like depression. They just don't care. What can I do other waste money trying to fix it? Cause thats all it will be, a waste of money |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 07:26 AM PDT I don't care what you all say, iPhones suck!! They are the worst phones ever!! Samsung is way better! iPhones are 4 years behind in technology! Haha! |
| Question: Why is my deaf neighbor so rude,nasty,selfish? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 07:15 AM PDT She told me that it is how her parents treat her through life [Why do parents get rid of their child with disabilities & keep their so called 'normal' kids? My neighbor tells me her parents parents were mean to them, but yet she visits them. It could be like this 1 story where I read that parents cannot afford to keep the kids due to the cost of the kids equipment they need, so they turn them over to the state. But why deny them love? Also it may be both ways [some parents may feel sad on how their kid turned out? Some could be the kids fault too. I am her [neighbor] only friend, because no one wants her. She is annoying & spies on people, she wants me around 24/7 & calls me every day then she cannot here me. My family [my mother passed on 11/28/97 & my dad passed on 5/26/14 so not it is my sister & I (my dad had payee of guardianship & now switched to my sister)] wants me to stop being with her, but she tells me the only way is for me to move or die [kill myself [do not want to kill myself as I do not want to go to hell]!]. She e-mails me every day/chats too & keeps wanting me to go out & do things with her, & when I do she says 'your not leaving'. Also her computer friends told her to break off with me, but she did not want too so they broke it off with her [She used 1 woman to use as advice & then tell her, nasty]. So what do I do? Thanks & God bless |
| Question: I am 10 and a half and my parents are getting divorced? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 07:14 AM PDT So i am a 10yo, white boy with blonde hair and green eyes, around 4'3 feet tall or a little bit more than that, and im skinny, i don't know my parents at all i know is that they were 16 and 17 when they created me.. And i was going to be aborted but instead I was put up for adoption, my new mom is never around so my dad likes to use this time to mess with me because im so small and i cant defend myself, he punches, flicks, hugging me really hardly ,kicks me , pulls on my hair and keeps touching me to make me feel uncomfortable, i sometimes think he is just playing around but is just too aggressive, but sometimes he really does hurt me, but i dont think he can help it, but i feel he isnt trying to be like that, he tells me im his prized possesion and that i am his and no one elses and tells me that he loves me and that im a cutest boy out there and he will always love me, that made me feel happy because i know he doesnt try to be mean, my parents are getting divorced and my dad told me he was going to keep me because i was fun, but im kinda scared to stay with him because he is agressive and sometimes weird and sometimes mean, he likes to drink the same alot and he becomes mean and tries to hurt me, but i will always love him, bur the only problem is how agressive he is and he sometimes scares me im really scared and dont know what to do, does anyone know? |
| Question: Don't want to visit my real father. Yet I feel I have too.? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 06:49 AM PDT So I'm going to visit my step fathers parents, and since I was very young, around 4 or so, I knew them and loved them. I don't really know my real grandpa and grandma from my biological fathers side, my real father back then did not really treat my mother well and neither did he care to much about me. My grandma and grandpa however did. Truth be told though, I haven't seen them in a a really long time, I did visit them a few times, but I just feel like a stranger, they of course are happy to see me. I don't know why, but I am glad in the knowledge to see my step fathers parents, but I dread the idea of visiting my real father, who lives with my grandma and grandpa. Everyone is expecting me to visit them since they don't live far away from my step fathers parents. What should I do..? I kinda wanna close the chapter with my real father since, I hardly know him nor do I really respect him for the things he done in the past. He is trying to make up for it, I saw that from the last visit, but I cannot help but feel, nothing but these dark aura of the past, as much as I try to leave the past to the past. But every time I go to visit, this past gets resurrected. Edit: To make the situation even more awkward then it is, I have a step sister there, who is actually pretty sweet. She never did do me any wrong and she looked up to me even though we meet for the first time when she was already 14. I got along really well with her, and I would really like to visit her since she keeps asking me when I will visit her. However she lives with my real father and grandma and grandpa, so I cant exactly go down to them and say I only wanna visit her. |
| Question: My girlfriend was a prostitute to save my lif? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 06:37 AM PDT I'm 18 and I was with my ex for three year we have a beautiful baby boy together. Three years ago I was a different person I was a drug dealer (at 15), I took drugs, I was in and out of young offenders till I met Tammy, before Tammy I'd never had a proper girlfriend before, I'd slept with 19 girls prior to her but I was her first person she slept with. When i got with her I stopped selling drugs and stopped taking drugs I loved her so much then when she had our baby I got a job (building and construction worker) everything was going fine. Until a man I owed £3000 to came out of prison and he was going to kill me, so Tammy went behind my back and slept with 8 grown men (through prostitution) to get the £3000. A few days later after her being distant from me, not being able to kiss me, have sex with me etc she finally admitted what she'd done. I told her i couldn't be with her, I'll always love her. She was sobbing saying how sorry she was but she'd rather do that all over again then our son live without a dad. This girl is the love of my life she stopped me going to jail, she stopped me dealing and taking drugs and she gave me my beautiful son. I want to be with her but I can't get over the guilt of her sleeping with 8 desperate dirty men to pay for my mistakes. Tammy is beautiful everyone knows it and I was her first and now she's had to lose all her self respect by sleeping with strangers for money. What would you do? How can I get over the guilt |
| Question: Easy breakfast in bed? For kids? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 06:23 AM PDT Hi there. There is a special occasion for which my brothers and I want to make breakfast (preferably in bed) for my parents. I m only 13, and my brothers are younger. For the sake of them, I would prefer not to use the oven. Can any of you suggest an easy breakfast that kids can make? |
| Question: Mature serious family problem? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 06:22 AM PDT I'm 23 and i got my own business. I never went to college. I make 80-130k a year. I been running my business for 3 years (exclusive clothes). It hasn't been easy. Sometimes i even only get 4 hours of sleep due to working on my site. I have a cousin he's 21 & we always hang out. He's the opposite of me. He works at t-mobile and goes to college (wannabe thug). The thing with this cousin is he always brings me down. I will give you some examples but there's more. He will go like "Don't you wish you can go to college and make a career to be future proof". He will also ask "how's business?" all the time (i just stare at him thinking ugh good). He once told me "You need to loose weight or no girl will bang you". I also bought myself a 2015 benz. He started talking smack once he saw the price tag like "Oh too expensive only a fool would buy that" while he rides the bus to school. He's one of those dudes who thinks he's hot stuff because he goes to college. One time he even told me "Get off that computer for one second and go chase some girls since i know you don't get laid often". I just reply to him like "Dude you work 9 hours a day and you get bossed around then you still need go to school for a decade before your like me" and all he say's is "wait till i get out of college you'll see who's king and your just a hater you know i'm be a king soon". I call him "college thug" to piss him off. I just want to get your opinion who's the hater? |
| Question: Is my kid being lazy? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 06:18 AM PDT My 11 yr old son would blatantly lie to me about homework or what really happened in an argument with anther kid. My son would also find excuses to not pick up after himself, and when I confront him he gets an attitude and huffs and puffs, rolls his eyes sometimes, and gives me the excuse all the time "I forgot". He has a hard time in school, his excuses: because he "can't remember" or "I don't know", mind you he uses this excuse all the time about everything. I'm a single father and college a student, I don't have time to give in to him all the time, what does a parent do in this situation? It's very frustrating and I have this fear for my son that he would use these excuses for the rest if his life. |
| Question: Dad wont pay for my university what shud i do? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 05:52 AM PDT Read the story: My father is an indian and my mother is english I always wanted to be a petroleum engineer but my father forces me to become a Doctor . but i chose to become a pet engineer this is the second yr of engineering he said he wont pay me anymore and kicked me out of the house plz help me Engineering is tough shud i get an part time job right now i am living in my friends house so any idea what shud i do i live in U.K |
| Question: Mourning fathers death? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 05:48 AM PDT Im 24 years old and my dad died 4 months ago due to pancreas cancer. A year after he was diagnosed with the dissease he got surgery and died shortly after because of an abces releasing toxic fluids in his blood. I still live with my mom because I worry about her being on her own and we try to make due but recently I have been starting to feel angry ALL the time. I wake up angry and my mom only has to nag at me once to do the dishes before I explode. I also have arguements with my boyfriend a lot. I feel very bad about snapping at everyone but it's like I can't help it. Everything just annoys me and pisses me off and I don't know what to do about it? I feel like my dads death was unnecesary because they sent him home 4 months after the surgery saying he was fine and a week later he was dead. How can I reduce my anger? Reading or playing computer games like I used to doesn't work because if someone says something to me so I lose my concentration I get mad again. |
| Question: I want to die painless? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 05:14 AM PDT I dont care anymore I want to die and there are many ways to go about it but what is the most painless way. No one cares if I die even my mom told me that She doesnt need me and always tells me to leave the house. My bio father I DONT EVEN KNOW WHERE HE IS I saw his fb account and I saw he already has another family I hate this ******* life I wish I just had a normal family wherein my mom and dad are happily married All I have is problems I hate the stupid cycle that we get problems then we get more ******* problems I dont want to live anymore I want tonend this worthless stupid life |
| Question: I miss my mom, I can't take this anymore? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 05:00 AM PDT My parents have divorced when I was about 9 years old. I didn't like my mom's new husband and my dad told me a bunch of lies about my mom, so I moved to him. But as I'm getting older (now 17 y.o.) I'm realizing I've done the worst mistake in my life by going to my dad. I realize it was the best think she could do when she divorced him. This isn't a functioning house hold and I basically hate everything about living with him. I've realized everything bad he told me about her, that's made me hate her at the time they were getting divorced, were lies. And now I feel like **** because all these years I could have been with her are gone. I miss her every day and I miss my small brother, and to not think about it I'm constantly distracting myself, I can't listen to my thoughts anymore, because if I do, I cry. I can't bear this anymore, I miss her so much. I see her just a couple of times a year and I regret every moment I'm not with her. I'm the most unhappy I've ever been. I can't just move in with her, I can't just ask her, after everything that's happened. She doesn't pay for anything for me and I would feel so bad if I just came and wanted money from my stepdad, as I've not been very nice to him in the past. I feel like she has her own life now, she's always busy, because she and my stepdad want my brother to be a hockey player - that's very time consuming. Also If I were to move in with her, I would have to change schools, which may seem pointless just for 2 years of school. |
| Question: My girlfriend sold her body to save my life (10 points best answer help)? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 04:35 AM PDT I'm 18 and I was with my ex for three year we have a beautiful baby boy together. Three years ago I was a different person I was a drug dealer (at 15), I took drugs, I was in and out of young offenders till I met Tammy, before Tammy I'd never had a proper girlfriend before, I'd slept with 19 girls prior to her but I was her first person she slept with. When i got with her I stopped selling drugs and stopped taking drugs I loved her so much then when she had our baby I got a job (building and construction worker) everything was going fine. Until a man I owed £3000 to came out of prison and he was going to kill me, so Tammy went behind my back and slept with 8 grown men (through prostitution) to get the £3000. A few days later after her being distant from me, not being able to kiss me, have sex with me etc she finally admitted what she'd done. I'm heartbroken and devastated, the only girl I've ever loved and the mother of my baby has done this to save me!! I've still been going to see my baby and I've kept what tam done a secret from people i havent told anyone but I dont know what to do. I love this person shes my everything but I seen her yesterday and all I could think was whether she enjoyed it or whether she hated it the whole time. I dont know what to do, she said shes sorry but she has nothing to be sorry for its no ones fault but mine for having an addiction which resulted in £3000 debt. Id of rather be killed then know the love of my life has done this to help |
| Question: My dad having child pornography? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 04:20 AM PDT First of all, pardon my english. I dont know what else to do and who should i talk to i looked at my dad pc and saw a shady files and i clicked it im a bit shocked cause it contained a child pornography. It has 5-6 clips and i watched it i saw a very young girl aged between 12/13-17 years old having sex with men aged 30-40 years old. Im certained that girl is way younger than me because im in my 20's . I closed it and i saw a private browser, i googled it and i know what it used for. I told my brother about it he asked me to deleted it but i dont want to because i dont want my dad to know that he got caught. Now i feel like i want to run away from home and ive become a menphobia lately. I dont want to tell my step mother cause shes so dramatic and they just got married around 5 years. I hate my dad i hate all men out there. All men at my work, they r married but they flirt with young people and talk about nasty sex stuff all the time. I felt sorry for my step mum and all women out there. They dont know what their husband do behind them. Please help me how to deal with this. I love my dad before i knew about this. But now, all i want to do is run away from him, please dont tell me to report this to cop or fbi, i dont want to destroy my family but i dont know what else to do. How i wish i never know about this. :( |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 03:51 AM PDT I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and we're madly in love and talk about marriage, mortgage, kids etc. I've been having doubts though. It may sound terrible saying this, and I feel like a horrible snobby cow even thinking this, but his family are very poor and mine are quite well off, so I feel I will often resent him and his family in the future. For example, my mum will be giving me a deposit for a house and his parents will give us nothing. I know this is not his fault, but I just feel in the long run it will begin to bug me and I will start to resent him. Also it doesn't help that I don't like his mother, and the thought of having to have her in my life forever makes my blood boil. I don't know what to do, I love everything about him, I just wish he had a different family. Am I just wasting our time? Is love enough? Or does financial security and things matter as well? |
| Question: What Is m'y oldest cousin? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 03:15 AM PDT |
| Question: Serious mature family problem? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 03:04 AM PDT I'm 23 and i got my own business so i'm my boss. I never went to college. I make 80-130k a year. I been running my business for 2 years (exclusive clothes). It hasn't been easy. Sometimes i even only get 4 hours of sleep due to working on my site. I have a cousin he's 21 & we always hang out. He's the opposite of me. He works at t-mobile and goes to college (wannabe thug). The thing with this cousin is he always brings me down. I will give you some examples but there's more. He will go like "Don't you wish you can go to college and make a career to be future proof". He will also ask "how's business?" all the time (i just stare at him thinking ugh good). He once told me "You need to loose weight or no girl will bang you". I also bought myself a 2015 benz. He started talking smack once he saw the price tag like "Oh too expensive only a fool would buy that" while he rides the bus to school. He's one of those dudes who thinks he's hot stuff because he goes to college. One time he even told me "Get off that computer for one second and go chase some girls since i know you don't get laid often". I just reply to him like "Dude you work 9 hours a day and you get bossed around then you still need go to school for a decade before your like me" and all he say's is "wait till i get out of college you'll see who's king and your just a hater you know i'm be a king soon". I call him "college thug" to piss him off. I just want to get your opinion who's the hater? |
| Question: I'm 13 and want to live with my dad please help!!? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 02:37 AM PDT OK so I'll try to keep it brief. Both my parents meet my basic needs and more, the difference is my mum is manipulative and her boyfriend hates me, verbally abuses me and my mum, shouts etc. he doesn't even have a job or anything. I'm meant to be with my parents 50-50 but it's more like I'm at my dads 80 percent of the time. I'd like to make that 100 percent of the time but since there is no evident proof of anything as to why I want to do this I can't tell authorities. I've thought I going to a counselor since this has been going on for years (since I was 6) and is the cause for my long term insomnia, suicidal thoughts etc. but my mum won't allow it. I feel safe at my dad's. My dad has agreed to keep me full time. I know other people have it A LOT worse then me but I just heard my mum's boyfriend say he's going to slap me if I keep being 'ungrateful' (not in the joking way, I'm serious). If you need more info then please ask. I really need an answer, if you've had personal experience or just know a thing or two about the law that would be AMAZING. |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 02:26 AM PDT I went to a family party a few weeks ago and literally all my family was there. I'm quite close with my female cousin and we usually hang out because our dads are brothers. I decided to hang out with her. A few hours and drinks after and we started to dance and have a laugh. Suddenly our other cousin (who is male) came and danced with us. I was feeling kind of like a third wheel as they were dancing so I sat down and had another drink. I looked across at them and they were like sexy dancing. After we finished dancing, he was really flirting with her. Calling her beautiful and things I was weirded out by the whole situation & so was my female cousin. I'm going to another party soon and I know for a fact that he'll be there and so will she. I'm worried they'll ditch ditch me and flirt somemore? Is flirting with your cousin even aloud? |
| Question: I want my room I'm 14 and still sharing with a 10 year old..? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 02:15 AM PDT Get your popcorn ready cause this might be long.. OK so I I've in a huge apartment and my stepsisters finally moved back with her mom.I have been sharing a room with my brother ever since he was freaking born ok? So I took the spare room as an opportunity to try to make it mine.I'm a teenager and all i want is my own privacy somewhere to go when all i want is peace and quiet with no nagging from him.but my stepdad along with my mom keep saying no. I have been having nothing but frustration with the year going by my brother has been acting like a brat to be honest every time I try to get the room clean he starts whining like a 3 year just cause be doesn't want to clean ,he doesn't care for it cause he knows I get the blame for everything and anything .I want a room as a way to express my self and I can't even explain the reason why cause if I so much as bring that room. up they give me a no.it's almost been a year and nothing has been used for that room I'd give anything to have a room of my own.. a way to get away from all the blame I get the irritating whining of a full grown eight year old. I know this might sound stupid but I cry to myself cause if I have a room I realized I can finally have some way to express myself in this God forsaken house I can't even be who I want to be cause if I even talk about something I eventually get yelled at for something I don't even know what's going on..please help me all I want is a room and living here just might be bearable.. |
| Question: How can I deal with this? Posted: 27 Aug 2015 02:13 AM PDT I'm 18 year old male working a full time job and attending college classes in the mornings. I currently live with my mom and her boyfriend. My mom's boyfriend has been purposely making my life hard. He charges me rent to live there. Occasionally he tells me I have to pay more than I agreed to because he needs to "make ends meet". I can barley support myself as is. He refuses to let me get food from the fridge and denys to give me shelf space to put my grocerys. He won't even let me drink their water. He's constantly calls me names and targets his aggression towards me. He constantly calls me lazy because I frequently take naps (working full time and attending college will do that.) He's very rude and disrespectful to me. He will insult me without provocation. I tried talking to my mom about behavior, but this just made her angry. Telling me that " if I'm not happy I should get my own place." What can I do in this situation. Should I try working things out or should I just leave? |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2015 02:01 AM PDT the father kids are in their 20's |
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