I'm in love again! I'm a very good looking successful business owner and I've been with some of the hottest women in my community. I probably had over 100 women in my life. I recently fell heads over heels for this one woman. She seems to be my perfect match. First time I saw her I said to myself, this is going to be your wife. Sex is amazing. She is funny and down to earth. Would it be crazy for me to propose to her. I told her I love her already and she told me she loves me. I'm worried that I am just looking to get married and start a family because my clock is ticking. I will be 40 in three years

My husband had a picture of his or is sticking out and it was under Instagram. How can I find out who he send it to ir if he posted on his Instagram wall? Can you post stuff as private?

Speaking from experience, it would seem that females are more damaged than men from their previous relationships or they were just born that way. They do tend to break their baggage on to the next relationship. Could you ever possibly marry someone who's damaged goods?

I feel like marriage is just a contract like man provide money or material good and in return women give men their body. I know it is very cynical way of looking at it but right now I can't help but to think it this way. Men want beautiful wife. Women want men with money and high social status of course good looks are plus too. I would like to hear your thought on this topic.

(some mother in laws find such jokes amusing but some mother in laws find them irritating)

My wife always being naked in home when she gave birth. My baby is 1 year old. It's a girl.

My kids dad is a sheriffs deputy. His schedule changes every 6 months and I have always just had to roll with this change, making our visitation schedule change every 6 months. I am wanting to file for a change in visitation to have it be week on week off for more stability. How likely would a judge be to grant this? I know their dad wouldn't be on board with it because I have asked him about it before. Any input would be appreciated. Thank you!

Hello, I am a young professional who works as a medical device sales rep. I met my fiancé in the hospital where she was working as a physicians assistant earning roughly 90k a year. We live in Cincinnati Ohio so that's a decent wage for one person to bring home alone. I always felt very confidant and happy because we made great money and could buy nice things and take nice trips, etc. However I always liked knowing I made more money than her. Recently she has decided that she wants to become an anesthesiologist. She will be making $300,000+ a year. When she told me she was going back to school to do this I freaked out! She said we had plenty of money tucked away to support our lifestyle while she was In school. I however am so wrapped up in the fact she will be making about double what I make that I've actually moved out and I'm thinking about ending our relationship! I realize this is not normal behavior , however has anyone gone through this before? Will it pass? Any help appreciated. Dan

8 years ago I married the love of my life. Long story short, I came home one day and she was gone. A few weeks later she hits me with divorce papers. I signed them and moved on with my life. 3 years ago we cross paths, reconnect romanticly for about 6 months. She apologising and explains and i forgave her. After 6 months she cuts contact with me out of the blue. I move on with my life again. Yesterday she contacts me saying shes in rehab and she wants to make amends. At this point I still have love for her, but thats dwarfed by the anger and hate I feel towards her. At this point ive got a world of bottled up emotions and i want to just let that anger loose on her. But she says shes in rehab and I feel like doing so would cause her to relaps. So shes stirred up all this pain inside me and I cant do anything. Its eating me inside. I go from wanting to hold her hand to wanting to vividly get all of these thoughts and pain off my chest. Has anyone dealt with someone in AA or rehab? How to you deal with them and the pain theyve caused you?

We sat there for 1/2 hour. The drive is a half hour for us and 20 minutes for her. There is no cell service but enough to text out so we did and no response. So we headed back home. An hour after meeting time she texted that she got a flat tire and we needed to bring him home. I'm not about to drive back there after just wasting gas. She should have texted at the meeting time and we could have worked something out. I took pictures to prove I was there because now she is threatening to call the cops. What do I do? Should I have waited longer?

My husband and I have been married for four years. Both families don t like each spouse and their families. Both families argued constantly when we got married and had a baby. It s like Romeo and Juliet. I want the fighting to end. Should I divorce my husband and make everyone else happy? Or should I stay with him despite what everyone else thinks? I love my husband.

I know he can do better than me and he deserves to be happy. We married too young. He will stay because he is a guy of honor and keeps his word. But I see how he can be happier with someone else and not me. He'll be hurt at first but happier in the long run.

My wife and I were having issues and I hit her. She hit me back and broke my nose and ended up running back to her country with our daughter. While she was away she had an affair with her ex who ended up dumping her after only 3 months. SERVES HER RIGHT LOL I admit she's always been faithful, but my accusing her constantly probably sent her into her ex arms. I am now talking and seeing a woman and my wife caught me telling the woman on the phone that I love her. I don't want to leave my family, but I will continue talking for hours on the phone. The woman I'm seeing is also married and is being abused by her husband. I know my wife won't leave because I'm the sole provider. Am I wrong for feeling good that she's feeling the same pain I felt when she left me alone for 6 months?

This goes to the men.

I also do not want my wife to find out that I am having an affair. I have yet to bring up the idea of divorce with her because she still loves me and has no idea I think she is unattractive, in fact, repulsive. I am worth several million dollars and the money is tied up in "illegal" overseas accounts in Switzerland. If we get divorced the IRS could put me in jail and I could lose all my stock in foreign opium markets. Additionally, my wife could take any remaining money and I would have nothing left for bail as my parents are deceased - died in the Cold War. What should I do?

How did you meet you spouse and how did you feel the first time you met them? Like, did you get a certain feeling about them even then?

We have 3 very young kids together and have been in a pretty decent (so I thought) marriage for 7 years. With having my 3 kids so closely, I gained a bit of weight and he lost a ton of weight. His excuse for this was that I teased him too much about his weight and he just wanted some complements. He swears he never actually did more than read the comments. I m devasted. He is a wonderful father and we haven t been super romantic with 3 monsters and full time jobs, but we also really didn t have any obvious problems until this. He did this when the kids and I went away to visit relatives. Am I naive to believe he didn t actually cheat? Is this divorable? What is best for my kids? Also complicating matter further, I make a ton more money, and would have to pay alamoaney, that I can t afford AND we own 4 properties together. Above all thst though, I was happy with him and love him. But now we have no trust...help me...

I am asking because money is tight and I am trying to see if there is a way to financially hold it down until I file for divorce.

My girl friend is a very open person with a bisexual attraction. We've been together for almost two years and we have a very loving and wonderful relationship with each other. I'm wondering though if it's normal for my girlfriend to be ok with the work I do for a living. For my profession I do modeling and I model for sensual nude art. I model for professional European artists who do paintings and sculptors. The art work I model in is very sensual within it's nature and the purpose of the art is to capture the beauty and essence of sexuality between a man and a woman and also between two women. I normally pose with a female model for an art session and other art sessions I'll pose with two or three female models. Now I don't mean to get too explicit, though I wanted to mention that the artists believe that in order to make the art look as real as possible, to bring the art to life, and to bring to the art it's true meaning and message, I have to actually penetrate ... though we don't continue on with the act. So essentially the artists believe that penetration is very necessary for artistic purposes. In case if you're wondering ... yes, it does take a tremendous amount of patience and self control to keep the work professional. As I've already said, my girlfriend is very much ok with the work I do for a living. She even likes to visit the art studio at times to watch me model in art sessions. I asked her if she gets jealous watching me model in sensual nude passionate poses with other women. She tells me it doesn't bother her at all, but instead it turns her on a lot to watch me model in the type of art I work in. I'm just very surprised that a girl can be like that. I'm just VERY surprised about this and not sure what to make out of it. What's going on here? lol I'm not complaining here, just to let you all know. I'm just wanting to know how a girl can be like this, that's all. I'm just trying to understand the mind of a female. Is it even possible for a man to understand the mind of a female?

we've not been married long (we're young) and I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do as a husband when she gets into arguments with her brother. hes 2 years younger than her (& 4 years younger than me) and they have a confusing relationship - one week they are best friends, next week they want to kill each other. shes cried to me about some of the things he's said to her (weirdo, evil, sly) so I don't know if thats a hint that she wants me to defend her. the problem is her brother has a bad temper and can get violent. not with her, but I've heard numerous stories about fights he's had inc. fights with things like metal pipes and bricks. he's also been to jail. im not saying he's a psycho because he's not. he's OK with me, I been out places with him and he's friendly with me and other people. but that could change if I did something he didn't like. what do u think I should do? I think I would like to leave the arguments for them to work out but I don't know if that's what I SHOULD do. I would ask her but I'm scared she'll say she wants me to defend her. Cowardly I know. But I don't want a fight. I'm bad at fighting and an arrest would ruin my career. Her brother doesn't have to worry about it ruining a career because he has no ambition and will be manual working til he dies I know without a doubt he wouldn't ever get physical with her. I've seen evidence that he does have some morals.

I have been in an emotionally abusive marriage for many years. The last 14 out of 17 the worst. He makes the money and I cannot work because I have two disabled children who are dying. He doesn't care about the decisions I make for them and just wants me to let them die without medical interference. He calls me horrific names and has been a complete hypocrite when it comes to religion. He is two faced. He forces me to have sex with him and doesn't care. I don't have the will anymore. It is easy for everyone to say get out but I can't leave due to my kids and he lies to police when I call them telling them that my bipolar is making me delusional. I had a breakdown several years ago and he recently told my daughter about it and how I tried to kill myself. I was in the hospital for weeks. When I got released the first thing he said to me is that the house needs to be cleaned. I could go on but this sort of sums it up.

Me and my fiance are debating wither or not to lease are car before or after we get married. Would it affect our credit scores now that we are married?

I think my husband is cheating on me. We had an argument and I moved out for 3 weeks. I think he did cheat on me while apart and still is. I have checked his cell phone. I have had a friend follow him to and from school and work. I have checked bank/ credit card records. I found a bag from a lingerie store in his car. It has been in there for 2 weeks. I am running out of ideas how to catch him. I have even come home early from work to see if I can catch him. I even think he is on to me and is messing with me just to annoy me. Please help give me ideas. It is riving me nuts.

re Bangladesh J.Ws breaking the law if they marry a girl under 18 ? Obviously not, as these 13 &14 yr old girls would have a wow of a time in Jehovah's Paedophile Paradise. This artical says: " Her father supported her education but her mother saw nothing wrong with child marriage as it has been a norm in their village and community and thought it would be best for her." Link > http://www.msn.com/en-au/news/world/the-%E2%80%98saddest-bride-i-have-ever-seen%E2%80%99-child-marriage-is-as-popular-as-ever-in-bangladesh/ar-BBmcYHJ?ocid=mailsignout The 'saddest bride I have ever seen.' Child marriage is as popular as ever in Bangladesh www.msn.com On her wedding day 15-year- old Nasoin Akhter looked "melancholic," according to photographer Alliso...

I mean if both have to work during the week and spend time away from home during the week. I mean if your home is very close to where you work and her home is close to where she works. That's why.

And it's not like he was investing it on himself, there was just no money to be invested. You had kids too young, or you took on more debt than you could handle, or there just wasn't enough money coming in; but now that you and your husband were in a good financial situation, he starts showering you with things to make up for all the lost time. So how would that make you feel (assuming it was wanted attention and not him imposing his ideals or his preferred lifestyle on you)?

We have custody of my husbands 4 year old son. Labor day weekend is his Exs weekend. The papers say she either gets him at 8:30 am or after school on Friday. He doesn't have school that day but my husband and I work. Considering we meet half way, which is 40 mins away, neither can get him their till 4 (she lives an hour and a half away). The mom is throwing a fit, but I don't know what to do when we both have to work! Help!?

My husband and I have been married for 6 years and have been having marital issues due to his negative behavior. Lately, I have this feeling he may have feelings for an ex. He always talks negatively about his ex wife, currently talking about how she bleached her hair and how hideous it looks, about her current relationship with a guy he used to hang out with (roommates at one point) and he didn't seem too thrilled about it at first. She works at a restaurant here in our town. Just recently, my friend and her husband wanted to go to the same restaurant and he didn't want to go initially. He said he was worried her boyfriend would show up and try to fight him. He told me that he ran into her months back at the grocery store, that she was overly friendly with him. He still has pictures of the two of them and notes she would write him. She gets brought up a lot. I know she's part of his past but something doesn't feel right. Also, we shared an Apple ID between his iPad and my iPhone at one point. Earlier this year he asked me if I could see what he browses on the Internet, asked me to make it to where I couldn't. I looked up how and did it. I finally asked him about it yesterday and his reasoning was because, "he could see my phone calls, messages and didn't want to delete any of that stuff off of my phone" also "he deletes his browsing history because he heard somewhere that it makes the iPad run better" and he didn't want to delete my browsing history.

Last night I found out that my husband was sending dirty pictures to a girl and talking with a girl about a week ago. They only did this for a few hours before my husband stopped. I was looking for a picture of the lake from a few days ago on my husband's phone. There was an album titled "Kik" with one photo of my husband naked. I asked him about it. He said he had no idea. Right after, he left to go to the gas station to buy cigarettes. I went out to the garage about 45 minutes later to find that he had drank an almost full bottle of bourbon, so I made him come in the house. He sat down in the living room and when I tried to get him to go to bed, he just mumbled that he had "****** up." I made him go sit down on the bed and asked him what he meant. He said that he had talked to the girl and exchanged pictures with her but after that he had ended it because he knew that he had messed up. When I asked why he lied to me and why he didn't just tell me this to begin with, he told me he was afraid. By the time he had said all of this, he was sobbing and every other sentence out of his mouth was how sorry he was. I don't know what to do. This is the first time anything like this has ever happened and he didn't actually touch a woman, so is it grounds for divorce? What do I do? Please help me!

My mother in law is always talking bad about me and I have never done anything wrong to her I have always been good to her. She told me husband the other day that she didn't understand why I didn't drive to work that I'm 28 and should drive myself to work. The thing is we only have one car and our work schedules don't match so my husband takes me and picks me up. She is making a big deal about this she knows our situation but continues to put me down. She doesn't do this to her other son and his wife she treats them like gold and us like crap. I don't know what to do no matter what I try to do for her it's never good enough. Why is she acting like this?

During 2yrs we have both gone through a lot His ex wouldnt let him see his son because he wouldnt follow the rules that she set Including him choosing between 1of us Shes dated several guys during these 2yrs & shes introduced them to their son Ive met her and even though shes insulted me in many ways Ive never answered back to her or anything in that matter because I love my fiance & am close to their son so i find that disrespectful for both of them Times where she wouldn't let him see his son for mths because she would find me my fiance and their son together I've known him since he was about 1yr old & I play with him he gets excited when he sees me runs and hugs me & kisses me Ive never hurt him and Ive never tried parenting him in any way because Im not his mother or father Im about to graduate from college have a job never gotten in any type of trouble Now that she knows were engaged she said if it was ok for me to be around & let him be a father It has only been a wk and now she is saying that Im not allowed to be around his son and my fiance when theyre together. She mentioned it will be about a yr or more before Im allowed to be around them both. It gets me upset because for 2yrs Ive been hiding &putting up with all the rules because I love my fiance & I dont want him to be taken away the right to be able to see his son Im tired I don't know what to do anymore cuz now Im his fiance & even with that we have to follow rules coming from her. He does not have full custody because he is military therefore he is contany out of town. I've talked to him about how I feel like this is unfair and he answers me by saying that if I want him to lose his child I just found out that she wasn't the one. She said that her parents were the ones whom thought it wasn't right for me to be around their son. Then she said what do you want to do be a father or a husband I don't know what to do because my fiancé is now telling me that if I do anything or fight against this that it will be my fault if he doesn't get to see his son. I am so tired of it this has happened for two years. And I love him and his son with everything I have but I can't understand why my fiancé is not fighting agains her if she doesn't have the right to do that. I've told him that she does not have the right to do that and he answers with a "do you want me to lose my son?" Idk what to do Am I the one that is doing wrong? I've told him I am tired of her drama and that I am hurting by all this but he tells me It just needs time but then again I've waited two years because I was not enough. Now that I am his fiancé why do I still have to wait?

and its a week before her wedding i moved with my dad months ago. If my mom doesnt get married i want to move back with her because she will be alone. Should I

I know for sure they would if I was willing. I'm not willing to, but it amazes me how they claim to be happily married & yet attempt this. It makes it where I don't trust men being faithful in a relationship. A woman should just cheat also if this is the way they are going to be. Many women I've talked to feel the same way. Do it first before it's done to you. Maybe some of you aren't hit on because you're not attractive. I don't give on any vibe at all that I want them to hit on me. Try to think rationally.

I'm not married yet. Just asking for future reference. If someone is good with saving and finances, are they less likely to go through a divorce? Opinions? Personal experiences, anyone?

My wife has been acting strange lately. After we had sex last week, she came to orgasm before I did and asked me to stop before I reached mine, said she wanted me to wait. Them when I asked her for a handjob the next day, she refused, I had to beg her until she finally agreed, but afterwards said that was the last handjob I'd ever get. When I asked why, she said because it did nothing for her and that it dampened my desire for her. I tried to convince her otherwise, but you have no idea how stubborn and bossy my wife is. She and I only have sex about twice a week and we do make out in between and she gives me oral, but she never lets me finish, yet she almost always requires me to finish her off orally. Last week, she asked me if I masturbated and said how she hated it and I also saw on her iPad the other day that she was browsing something called male chastity devices on Amazon. When I introduced bondage to the bedroom once, she never lets me tie her up, yet she loves to tie me up and get rough, smacks my balls and stuff. Is she just a naturally bossy person? How do I deal with this without getting into an argument with her? Should I just accept her for who she is? Why am I a wimp for wanting to get a long with my wife? It's so easy for you to just throw out divorce as a solution. I love my wife and she loves me, we're just different personalities.

My wife and I were having issues and I hit her. She hit me back and broke my nose and ended up running back to her country with our daughter. While she was away she had an affair with her ex who ended up dumping her after only 3 months. SERVES HER RIGHT LOL I admit she's always been faithful, but my accusing her constantly probably sent her into her ex arms. I am now talking and seeing a woman and my wife caught me telling the woman on the phone that I love her. I don't want to leave my family, but I will continue talking for hours on the phone. The woman I'm seeing is also married and is being abused by her husband. I know my wife won't leave because I'm the sole provider. Am I wrong for feeling good that she's feeling the same pain I felt when she left me alone for 6 months?

I went to my pastor to get some guidance regarding my spouse who abuses me. I forgot to mention that if my spouse asks what I talked to him about, to please not mention the issue and keep it confidential. My spouse went to talk to the pastor today to inquire what I was there about. Would it be likely the pastor would tell my wife what I talked to him about?

How can A abusive person watch on the news a story about an abusive spouse and make the comment " that guy is a abusive piece of crap" when he does the same exact thing as that person does?

Now they are on vacation together. He apologized me and promised me that finish their relationship after the trip. I love him but can I trust him? Is it reasonable that I trust him? I am in very very bad situation. I don't want that my daughter will be the child of divorce. We live in the middle east and divorce not good for woman. "Sorry for my weak English."

I know a married man who's wife complains of his addiction to porn! He can watch for hours and hours. And tells the wife complaining "It helps me relieve from stress... but I have no interest in other women." Although I don't buy it, it's hard to give advice on wife when I could be wrong with my personal opinion. I find myself hard to agree on his excuse of just trying to relax and has no interest on other women. I personally think it's insensitive of him to his wife's feelings. The wife on the other hand, I find a bit off as well cause I told her she needs to make sure he's aware of her being really uncomfortable about his watching porn. She said "I have told him. But I guess it's better than him actually getting it and doing it with other women than just watching it." But I can tell, poor lady is so heart broken of his husband's strange addiction to porn.

He's always accusing me of cheating. I would never....How do I get him to stop accusing me???? It's driving me crazy!! Thanks for your help!! We've been together 17 years. I've never cheated. He has..... His only reason is because I act shady....cause I'm a few minutes late from work every once and a while and I get busy at work and can't call him exactly when he wants. He has full access to my phone and computer. He's even put spy apps on my phone that can hear and see me. My phone said I was a block form work the other night so he thinks I skipped work. I told him I can get my time card to prove I was there he said ok get it!!

So my husband and I haven't had sex in about 2 weeks and I know that doesn't seem like a lot but we used to have sex almost everyday and we do have a one year old but we would usually do it at night and now he doesn't even really want to hug me and this recently started happening he is in the military and has deployment coming up and all that and this is his first deployment but he says he's stressed with that and all the bills he has to pay which is understandable but intimacy with your significant other is an important part of a relationship I would think so I don't know what should I do? He says he will be fine but I feel like he's un attracted to me so what should I do am I over reacting??? Please no rude comments I'm really upset about it.

He told me that he stayed in with his dad all night but I know that he was at a bar and then an unknown house until after 1am. I told him I trust him but I want the truth and he tells me that I'm paranoid and he was at his dad's house. I know he wasn't though. What do I do?

We were arguing, & I said something I guess I shouldnt have said & he pulled me by my arm & I was yelling for him to let me go, then he kind of threw me on the bed, I sat up & he stood over me holding my arms down, with one hand on my neck, but it wasnt that tight. He threatened me with some things I'd rather not repeat. I said "**** you" then he slapped me & I kind of shrieked and woke up the baby up. He let me go & said "don't talk to me like that" Then he left & came back at 3 am, drunk. I was already in bed & he got in next to me & didnt say a word. Then in the morning he apologized & said hed never do it again. I didnt call the cops or tell anyone, this was 6 days ago, my face isnt red anymore. Theres really no proof that if happened. Today he slapped me in front of our daughter for "nagging him". These slaps are...really hurting but I dont know who to tell or what to do because want to... interfere with his job. I dont really have anywhere else to go. My family has pretty much disowned me for having sex before marriage. I moved to where hes stationed 3 months ago after I had the baby. I dont know anyone here or what... his commanding officer will do or say if I mention it. I dont want to have to go back to where I was, & take his daughter away from him, but I dont want him to him keep hurting me. I love him & I dont want to have to leave. Should I change how I approact things or what? I just really need some adivce. I'm 18, hes 21, & we've been wed almost a year.