I'm 28 and I have been talking to this older man online he's 41 I've always been into older men. So I initiated sex with him he never tried to come on to me. At first when I told him I wanted sex with him he was hesitant and didn't want to go through with it. He and I aren't in a relationship we live in different states. I was persistent and finally got him to agree we met up in June and had sex. After we had sex he asked me when would I be back to see him. I was expecting him to leave afterwards but we talked a little and he asked me When would I be back to see him anytime he said I could. That was in June do you think he would still meet up with me? I think he watches me sometimes on Facebook but I notice he follows women on instagram. I'm not trying to be in a serious relationship with this guy but I do like him. But since he follows women on instagram he probably doesn't like me after all?

The guy I have a crush on snapchatted me a selfie of himself and I replied like 10 min later saying "omg hii" and he opened it and hasn t replied. Did I do something wrong?

I know this is kind of a strange question but I just thought I'd ask it the other day. We had sex the other day and she looked like she was in a lot of pain when I was doing my thing in her Vagina. But I know this sounds stupid, but why would she be in pain? Does it hurt for girls?

It needs to be sitting on a stage for a play but its never eaten and I want it to last through the whole to month run. Is there a spray or something?

Do you bleed when you are having sex for the first time?

Most girls I've talked to at school or asked out have told me I'm around a 3ish Some girls have told me I'm unattractive It makes sense considering I've never even texted a girl or been on a date. And I have bad features, big nose, weak jaw, big ears Anyway I'm looking for a real rating - be brutally honest (I already know I'm around a 3 so i wont get upset). For reference: 3 is kinda ugly, 5 is average, 7 is pretty good looking, etc Also if you could, leave your age as well I'd like to see what girls my age think. http://s1348.photobucket.com/user/shadow12111/library/ug

Okay so I have a huge problem when it comes to girls and my relationships. I'm a 20yo guy and well I always settle. Constantly I mean all the time. I don't ever really pick girls that are abusive or cruel or anything (I did once but that's a long story) I just pick girls that I'm not attracted to in any way physically, mentally, etc. Okay so I have a type of girl that I love. I love tattooed girls, they challenge me and they are always very stimulating to be with since the ones I have met have a passion for art like I do. Well here's my problem, I never pursue these women ever!!!! Not one time have I ever pursued the type of girl I want. See I don't have any tattoos and I automatically assume a suicide girl type of a woman wouldn't want me since I'm not a rebel or anything of the sort. I'm alternative I am very much neo-Victorian and steampunk involved I'm not "mainstream" but I'm not tattooed, mean, and bikerish. In fact I'm a very sweet and nice guy. The thing is when I settle I end up hurting good girls because I'm not attracted to them in any way. In fact I broke a sweet girl named Kelly's heart because I wasn't stimulated or challenged by her. Dating her was like dating a catatonic. Or I settled for a girl named Bailey (the mean 1) who cheated on me and broke my heart and was abusive. It's just I'm constantly afraid to get what I truly want but i'll walk from here to china to get other people what they want but i'll just settle when it comes to me. Should I just give up I hate to use this analogy but women can use it for men too. It's like I want a Cadillac but I shop only at Toyota. Two totally different brands, models, and everything. I never settle when it comes to my education or my career but I do when it comes to women. I just think I'll never ever get my tattooed lady. Is this true or should I just give up? Help? p.s. id o date for personality too so please don't get all PC with me.

I work at a burger joint and was wondering which guy was the first to piss off his wife or girlfriend and eat dinner on the couch and decide hat it was a thousand times comfier than eating in those shitty wooden chairs

Alright guys I need advice. Okay so me and this girl have been talking for a long time. Her and I got EXTREMELY close she legit knows everything about me and my secrets and she's told me secrets that she's legit never told anyone she said that I'm as close as a brother to her. Anyways a month ago she out of a relationship with a friend of mines.. They broke up because a lot of bad stuff was going on I between the families. So she does like me and I do like her but the problem is she said that she's not ready to go in a relationship yet.. So I asked her why and she said because she still has feelings for the kid his name is Mina. So i asked her like do we even have a chance together she said yes but it's a tie in between Mina and I. The thing is she doesn't realize that her and Mina will never work out again because the stuff that happened in between their families are really bad, but she still has feelings for Mina which annoys me. They've been dating for about 8 months and they broke up and it's been over 2or 3 months now and at this point idk what to. I wanna win this girls heart I really do, her and I are EXTREMELY EXTREMELY CLOSE you have no ideas how close we are... I love this girl to death and I wanna be with her she's legit my sister but idk know what to do to win her heart. We always text and hangout and all but I feel like there's more I can do. I guess that question is how can I win her heart? I really need advice on this one but I just don't know what to do..

So my friend Marc threw a birthday party for me. I am the guy in the Bruce Springsteen T-shirt. Marc's sister is next the blonde girl. Judging by where she is, could she be into me? She also seems to laugh at some things I say. https://imgflip.com/i/pz3xf

There's this guy that I see at work a couple times a week. I always see him in passing usually and the past 5 or 6 months maybe, he's been putting a lot of effort to try to talk to me at work for the little time we have. Sometimes for about an hour. For awhile I was wondering if he was attracted to me because of that & me noticing other things that he does. Just from our talks, he hasnt dated in a long time & admitted that he is kind of scared because of all the drama and disappointments that has happened in his life before. Which has made him really judgemental of people that he's interested in. He'll find things about them that he doesnt like and then hate them he says. To get to the point, I did have a crush on him for awhile. I decided to tell him one night & I was terrified because that was my first time doing that. I felt pretty stupid. But he said he thought so, & that he likes me & is attracted to me. And said how he couldnt date (which I didnt want to either) but he'd sleep with me if the opportunity ever came up. I felt the same too. The next time I saw him he was really sweet & the same. And then these last couple times Ive seen him, I noticed a difference. Almost as if he's trying not to talk to me the same anymore now. Usually when I see him, I just wait for him to say something to me. He'll say hey & that's it. Now I feel really upset & hurt. I want to ask what's going on but I don't know how & am scared to say anything. What should I say?

Just reaching out and going to explain my current life situation and see if anybody can give me guidance or help, any comment is appreciated thank you. im 19 in college, normal guy, well sort of. Problems i have with myself/life is. Im not social enough, i feel like nobody wants to text me, i have nobody i can call my close friends, i feel like people call you there friend in front of your face and snake on you behind your back, i have no girlfriend and i lost my virginity to a girl i didnt like just because i felt i was losing out. I have times when im at a party and i feel ver sociable, THen i have times where i feel nobody wants to talk to m, no girl is intrested in me and people dont want to be around me, but its weird. People have told me im cool, and people have told me im a cute dude, so is it all in my head? i dont know, im just tired of not living a fufilling social life. Often at parties when nobody talks to me or when i try to start up a convo and it goes nowhere i get depressed, and talk inside my head the whole night and want to cry, asking myself, why cant i talk to girls like him, why cant i have a conversation like him. And each night this happens i promise myself the next night wont be the same but it ends up being the same for the most part. I feel people look down on me and do not realize my full potential. At times i feel like i could be the most socialable, talk to the most girls, and be the life party, but people quickly shoot down that hype because of their first impression of me. I have dreams and goals, and inside my head i talk to myself and i know i can do it all, be sociable, get girls, acomplish my dreams, do well in school. But in reality it all falls apart, and i end up crying everynight because of my unfufilling life. Anybody have anything they can share? how to get over this feeling, or get over this at all?

My cousin took advantage of me during summer & kept touching me while i was sleeping. Im 18 & he is 26. He lives out of the country so i was visiting. He is my first cousin & its so weird because I was so close to him. I woke up every night to him touching me & kissing me all over. When i got back to my country/home I havent been able to sleep. I can barely sleep at all. I told my boyfriend but not everything. I just told him that my cousin took advantage of me. I sometimes dont even want to hang out with him & i keep canceling because i feel broken & uncomfortable with myself. I feel bad because he is starting to get mad that i keep blowing him off but i dont even know what to tell him about how im feeling. He is such a sweer nice guy & i feel like im hurting him. I feel broken and disgusted with myself that my cousin touched me. Ik you guys probably think im being stupid and over reacting. I just dont feel happy. & i think its so ****** up because its my FIRST COUSIN...

Hey super bored so kik me at brandontheman971 possibly even a new friend/more And yes I am single

I've been with my girlfriend for 11 and a half months now and since the start of the month she's been constantly feeling like I don't love her anymore, or that I don't love her as much as I do. I don't know what keeps bringing it into her head. I love her to absolute bits and I tell her that every single day (and when I say things like that I mean it) and don't turn my back on her in any situation. A few weeks ago we were talking and she said that I've been giving the impression that there was something off and that I wasn't telling her, then she asked if I was flirting with other girls because I had been seeming distant (though I haven't been flirting with other girls and I hadn't been trying to be distant) and that she had been feeling like that for about a month. It's literally like every few weeks she'll ask me if I still feel the same way about her or that I seem distant or something like that, though I reassure her that I love her to absolute bits. How can I reassure her that I still love her as much as I do and that I'm not trying to be distant and that there's nothing wrong going on with me? It's almost at the point where I'm considering breaking up with her because I feel that she doesn't trust me To add to that last part - it's not that I want to end it with her, but I just feel like she doesn't trust me for some reason and that upsets me. I know she loves me to bits, she's went out of her way to tell me this countless times and I feel the same way about her, but it upsets me a little feeling like she doesn't trust me Also, it's not like I don't give her attention. We see each other nearly every day and I give her my full attention and treat her right (her family, particularly her sister, always says it's lovely how I treat her with respect and make her happy)

I'll try to make it brief. We dated exclusively for 7 months, agreeing not to see other people and he became my boyfriend. He told me he loved me and then shortly after that he broke up with me during an argument because he needed to 'focus on himself'. I later found out that he had been seeing his ex on and off the ENTIRE time we dated and continued to do so after we broke up. I'm deeply confused because he always said that I was so out of his league and that he was lucky to have me. He told me I was the sweetest girl he'd ever been with. After speaking with his "ex", I realize that she is very insecure and immature. All they do is argue and make one another miserable, they can't even get along for a week. He always said being with her was stressful and I am the opposite of everything she was. I also know that I am more physically attractive. He once said he couldn't attach himself to me because he was protecting himself but anytime I asked what he was protecting himself from he couldn't answer. I was an i credible girlfriend who always encouraged and supported him and my love was unconditional. Even now that I am not IN love, after everything I still love him as a person and want him to do well. I was so good to him and he said that I was constantly. I never would have hurt him or abandoned him. I just can't understand what he was thinking.

I'm a freshman in high school and I started about 3 weeks ago. Going in to high school I knew no one so my main priority was to make friends. After being in school for a while now I found out I prefer being keeping to myself. Now no one really is talking to me that much any way but I still prefer being by myself. Now understand im not anywhere close to being shy. I've joined about 5 clubs and can keep a conversation. But if I'm walking in the hallways or at lunch I choose to be on my phone or do my homework. I'm honestly just curious if it's bad not wanting to sit with people. Now realize I haven't been asked to sit with anyone so take that into consideration

I'm a sophomore and he's a senior.. we met last year because we played the same sport. Whenever I'm around him he does weird things that make me wonder if he might like me (like he asked me if I went to prom like a week after and I KNOW he knows I went because he liked my picture on instagram and we made eye contact at the party!) but the other part of me says I don't have a chance with him because he's popular and plays football. I'm popular in my grade and I'm pretty but we're two years apart! I know I look old for my age but still. A friend saw us talking and she told me he looked interested but didn't know if he was just being polite. I am tired of waiting around and he graduates this year. I know I need to tell him, otherwise I will never get closure and will be forever plagued with "what-if's.." I don't want to do it now because I'm scared he'll tell people and it would be so embarrassing for me. This is hard enough for me as it is.. I almost never open up to people like this. If I end up telling him, it'll have to be near the end of the year. I'm just so terrified thinking about it! I'm sweating just imagining it :/ Anyone else with similar experience, PLEASE help with advice or support or tell me what to do.

Hello guys! So, I ve met this guy 3 weeks back on a random coincidence (me and my friend went to pick up something he sold her over a website at his place) and I found him really symphatetic and somehwo we kept in contact and he asked for my whatsapp. Since then, we ve been talking everyday, writing each other really long texts (little letters if you will) and it s something neither me or him have ever done before ^^ The thing is he lives kind of far away, and I haven t seen him ever since. But I am going back to that city soon (in like 3 months). I think he likes me , and we talk about really everything, he said he d like to skype too and gives me cute compliments but doesn t openly flirt with me ^^ We already made plans on what we should do together when I visit again. Should I continue to talk to him or not, I like him as well >//< I wonder if this would work since he lives away. Guys give advice, what should I do, and how to make this whole thing more interesting for both of us till we meet again :)

So yeah, the girl is in a relationship. First a bit of background: This is a HS dating question. This year I'm a sophomore in HS, and have actually considered dating. The girl I like is a senior this year, but we've been good friends for the past ~1.5 yrs. The girl has a boyfriend, and he doesn't treat her right. He doesn't help her with anything, insults her, and just mistreats her compared to how I feel she should be treated. She could do better. He is a junior this year, so I know she'll date a younger guy. They've broken up ~4 times in the ~1.5 yrs I've known her, but they get back together everytime. I've thought this thing through too many times, but I need another perspective. I've got maturity, as I've convinced many people at my school into thinking I'm a senior or junior just by actions. It helps that I know a ton of seemingly useless facts to make myself sound smart. So, after that, onto the questions. 1. I've been good friends with this girl for quite awhile, even hanging out with her on a few occasions, think I've got a chance? 2. She keeps making up with him after every breakup, so is it because she feels no one else is interested in her? 3. If her boyfriend insults her, and doesn't do anything nice for her. Why does she stay with him? It just irks me seeing the way she's treated by him. 4. I have done everything her boyfriend hasn't, aka act like a gentleman to her, and am getting the feeling that it's interesting her, but how much does doing this really help?

So basically it was the first week of school and there was this guy. He has really blue eyes and that got my attention. But the main thing that really got me interested was that he held the door open me. Not like he walked in front of me and held it as he walked forward. But he saw me and he opened the door and stood to the side holding it open as I walked through. And we made eye contact and idk it was really sweet. It happened twice and now I look forward to seeing him. But I don't even know his name !! Lol what should I do?

I have been going out with my boyfriend who is 41 years old and he let me know that he never had a girlfriend before me and in fact I was his first kiss at 40 and that he was waiting to have sex with someone that he actually loves. He said that he was waiting for the right one and found that in me and that he loves me. I know how I felt when he said this but I am just curious to hear back from other women. how would you feel?

I need a eye catching, or maybe odd, headline for a personals site. Something that would get a woman to do a double take and click. I'm 6ft 3in tall, mixed race. I'm a male looking for a female. Thanks .

There's this kid I sort of like. He says he doesn't like me, but, whenever I see him, he always looks at me. When he's around, he's always doing something weird. He has smiled at me before too. I think he also treats me too. But i'm still confused! I'm going home in two weeks and Iive about three thousand miles away. I really like him. Does he like me?

I am not wanting to bash men, but I hear lots of people say that men can't be faithful or that it is hard work to be faithful, but if a man truly loves a woman is it really that hard to remain true to her and only her?

Hung out with my best friend (who I like) 2 weeks ago and we sort of discussed what it would be like if we really tried the dating thing. He said he wanted to take me on a real date and that us dating would workout because our personalities go well together and that he'd spoil me. I realized after that day that I have such deep feelings for him. I called him a few days after to hang out after he didn't respond to my message and he said he was having a bad week and we'd hang out next week. I asked what was wrong and he didn't want to talk about it. He's pretty much blowing me off and its driving me mad. Should I just understand he's going through something or just forget it because he isn't as interested as I am?

Whether she's got a great body and face or not so much of either.. Or a great head on her shoulder.. Why would a guy stand her up on a first date. I have had a bad date once but have never been stood up but I know drop dead gorgeous girls and some just average girls who've been stood up and it's sad to see this happen to any woman. What's your opinion?

I want mine turned off. I was not deisgned for dating. It's not my thing and I don't want to deal with the complications it may pose. This is pretty much the only thing that wrecks my happiness. If it weren't for the existence of dating, sex, and romantic relationships and this desire, I would be completely happy. An analogy is, say you're bad at baseball AND you hate it. In that case, the solution is to just not play baseball. There's nothing wrong with choosing not to do certain hobbies that you a) hate and/or b) are not good at. The problem is, one can't actually do the same with dating because of this intense romantic/sexual desire, so intense that choosing to resign like this is actually the worse option. In other words, I really do NOT want to date or deal with the complications dating and the participation in romantic relationships will pose. I've pretty much never dated and been unwanted by girls my whole life, but I know what's in store because of the abundant amount of time I naturally spent on the internet the past few yeras, and have seen how brutal this dating game can be. Very dangerous. What makes it worse, is the sheer amount of expectations people have, just makes it even more difficult for someone actively dating to maintain a healthy self-esteem. There exist so many "red flags" and reasons to get dumped over. So one has a choice: either endure these harsh brutalities or resign to having unfulfilled romantic/sexual desires. Unfortunately, because the romantic/sexual desires are so strong, the first choice actually ends up being slightly better. Another factor contributing to this evaluation is the fact that we are conditioned to put great value on relationships and sex and have become central to society, so not partaking in it, makes it feel as if one is missing out on a huge part of life... In my Take here, I describe these brutalities to a reasonable depth and also explain that I have even done quite in the past in terms of attempts to date: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a21684-respect-the-brutalities-of-dating I tried talking to girls, initiated conversations, asked girls out, tried online dating (swiping at least 75% girls to the right), and still got absolutely NO RESULTS, not even a female friend. Moreover, as my Take discusses, even after that basic level, there are many other complications and brutalities to consider. Sorry, this was the link: http://www.girlsaskguys.com/dating/q1658777-is-there-a-way-to-switch-off-one-s-romantic-sexual-desires

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I don't know what category to put this is, because it has nothing to do with dating or family members. There's just this person that sets off a signal in my mind, and it's not a good signal. I don't know how to describe, but I'm sure somebody has had this happen too, you just dread seeing this certain person or thing. I just want to know if I'm just being irrational, or if my gut instinct is something I should really listen to. AGAIN, THIS QUESTION ISN'T ABOUT DATING SOMEONE. It is just about someone (some people) I have a weird feeling about.

There s a guy who I met before summer, and we became friends quickly. He texted me until 4am every night for almost a week, complimenting me sometimes saying we could be best friends and always kept the convo going... But I m a guy too, and can t tell if he s gay or curious. He hasn t had a girlfriend and he is kind of awkward but he s so cool, and I can t tell if he might be gay. The signs that I picked up (not sure if they re actually signs) are that he called a guy ugly randomly, complimented me quite a bit, texted me like we ve been close forever, and thats about it. So does it seem like he might be gay at all? Or am I just being dumb?

I live in the South, and it is close to impossible to genuinely find a white girl that's interested in dating me. I am attracted to them, and I would love to marry one. The only problem is, they all turn me down. I am not super ugly or anything. I know how to communicate and ask questions (have a decent conversation). I seek many of them in the grocery stores, and they all live around a college near my area--my father received his Phd at the same college. What's a good solution? It's hard enough being introverted (as it is), and conjuring up the will power, to do this on my own. I am pretty upset. I dress nice, I smile, I actively listen to them, and I be myself.

do you think its a good idea to get a gift that is something you would like. like perfume, nail polishes, makeup, flowers, clothes, and stuff like that? i cant really pick boyish style gifts that would be nice. i can only pick things that i would like for myself

Ok I need help deciding which phrase I should use for my hoco proposal to my close friend/crush who plays basketball. There is a pretty good chance she likes me back. So which phrase?? phrase 1: "don't box me out! Be my hoco date and I'll always set a screen for you! " Phrase 2:You may be #23 on the court but your #1 in my heart! HOMECOMING?

why cant they just tell you that they will call or text you back later or that they are busy rather than ignoring you? i hate that and im just sayin...

I've known this boy all my life Im now 19 and he's 18 we were on and off for a couple of months and I ended up dating another guy but ended it.....now all I cAN think about is my ex. He supposedly has a gf now and while they were together he texted me on snap saying that he was extremely sorry for how mean he acted when we were together b/c he was looking at old screenshots in his phone. Then I see him in person and he was staring at me hard and would quickly look away when I caught him. Then I went to go speak and he was nervous and smiling really hard saying it was good to see me. Later on another day I texted him just to say hi and the first thing he asked was if we were still cool? I said yeah and he was glad and said good. Our families are close and we actually spent the day with them last week and he was very distant and nervous....this reminded me of how he acted when he asked me out. So does he still like me ? What should I do? P.s he's extremely shy

I'm 21 and I've never been in a relationship or even kissed a girl before. Ther are times when I want a relationship/relationships with girls, but the feeling sometimes just goes away. I'll check out books at my local library to learn how to act around girls and everything (because I literally don't know how to), but then I kind of give up. Is this healthy or normal?

tradtional dating- meeting person of opposite sex and hanging out intention of being in relationship, and knowing them better friend to lover approach- being in their circle, never being direct. hiding intentions, attract them indirectly, by charming them, saying witty things, also through playing mind games like playing hot and cold, sending mix signal, creating triangles, seeming interested one day and uninterested another, seeming desirable by other member of opposite sex, maintaining mystery, Doing unselfish deeds to lower suspicion... and finally making them fall in love with you which of this two is better ?? Update: the second approach gonna have lot of emotion engaged in your target,...First one does not have emotions engaged the strategies i describe in second approach is what makes someone have crush on you, we all had crush when we were in highschool

I have a girlfriend who I care about and love very deeply. However, I got with her in my senior year of high school, and I moved out to college away from her. I'm close enough to visit her from time to time, but I don't know if either of us will have the time to see each other. It doesn't help that she has overly protective parents and a heavy work and school schedule. We barely saw each other this past summer because of her heavy schedule. We've even started texting a lot less. Here at my college, I met this girl who's really pretty, has a great personality, and is so much fun to talk to. But, she has a boyfriend back home as well. But, she said she doesn't know how long her relationship with him will last. But, she hangs out with other guys at this school as well, some more than me as well. So I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I'm starting to become less attracted to my girlfriend who I hardly saw before college even started, and more attracted to another girl I can see and talk to almost every day. However, even if she breaks up with her current boyfriend, I'm still not guaranteed to go out with her since she has other options more readily available to her. I feel like I'm in a lose-lose situation. I just kinda wanted to vent my feelings. Any thoughts?

So I am 15 and I was wondering if you guys think speedos are attractive? Since I just bought one and wear should I wear it at?

I was in a relationship for about five years, on and off, but we broke up almost one year ago. My ex and I were looking to get married and move in together, we were best friends, had good relationships with each other s family, and spent every day together, but through the years we went through a lot. A ton of arguments and me not being ready to man up. She gave me chance after chance. We broke up and I went through a depression (even trying to kill myself), but we decided to try and work it out. That didn t work, so we broke up for good. Even after our final break up she tried to come back, but I tried to pretend I didn t care and I have not heard from her since then. Lately, she is all I can think about and I am really starting to miss her. I love her with every bone in my body and I would do anything to work it out. I just don t know what to do. I ve been thinking to call her, but I don t think her number is the same, and she moved houses. I really miss everything about her and I just want my woman back.

Guy one is sweet, funny and sincere. Sometimes he can be a bit boring, unless we are talking about something he likes and that usually is a hard thing to do. Guy 2 is funny, creative, and optimistic. He can make me laugh even when im feeling mad at the world. He likes to see me smile and he is always honest with me. Guy one can do those things but i feel that i have to push it out of him but i dont want to give up on him. Guy 2 has a few tweaks to but im not gonna give up on either.

So I was literally just sitting down on my bed thinking about this girl and magically she texts me and it really surprised me but this doesn't really have anything to do with it. Anyway she started texted me and I've dated this girl in the past, but we kinda split and haven't talked for a good 2 years, we managed to get some classes in high school together and so we spent time. Well she started texting me about how she liked me alot and wanted to hang out. Well we started talking and I noticed how she was acting and it didn't really seem like the girl I remembered. She said she would do anything for me and how she was crazy for me. Well we went to a football game together, hanged out, had a good time. We hugged and left. Well the next day I started talking to her and she said she just wanted to talk. I didn't really catch it so I just acted normal and then a day after that she sent me a text saying im annoying and she doesn't want anything to do with me. I asked if we could just be friends and she won't even respond. We kinda give each other stares in our classes but we don't speak. Why did she do this I don't really understand. Is there a way I could atleast get her to be my friend and talk like we used to?

We were talking about organizations. I brought up siemens. Because of the way the name is pronounced, my girlfriend's mom thought i said semens so she started hitting me and wouldn't stop so i pointed my finger at her and told her really aggressively "don't you ******* touch me" My girlfriend's dad grabbed me and pulled me out of the house.

(I have really experienced more than he has I have traveled to the other side of the world, moved out of state thousands of miles away to go to college where as he stayed local, he also is more of a homebody, never went out to party drink or to strip clubs, etc.) He also actually started hoing back to school for a new career at 37, so in that way we are kind of like starting at the same place in life). If you answer no please tell me why, if you answered yes would it change your mind that the 42 year old male has only good intentions and in fact is a virgin and was waiting all this time for the right one. I think I need to state that because many times people will assume someone is being taken advantage of.

I was talking to this guy he 18 and I'm 15 he texted saying can I **** I'm like yeah cuz we have before so he comes over and I suck his dick he asked do I like it I'm like no because I'm not even into this guy and I don't like sucking dick but then he slaps me hard and I push him away and tell him to get out my house he says sorry but I still tell him to leave and he doesn't he slaps me again and starts taking my shorts off I push him away but then he pushes me on the bed the next thing I know he is in me I'm pushing him off and saying stop but he not listening then he starts to choking me hard and I can't breathe for a minute he tells me to stop fighting back I'm like no get off and he slaps me again all the while he's calling me a ***** and saying my pussy weak so I'm like leave but he's still ******* me I'm telling him to stop but he just keep going harder I try to get up but he forces me back down and pushes self bak in me so here's my question this happened over the summer btw but he has been texting and calling as of Friday saying stuff like "where are you " , "you home" , "Aye" . And has called me twice I did nor respond to any of his text or calls but why is he even like doing this if I'm "weak" or not good like I'm confused the last words he said to me when he left was " u weak "