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- Question: If my sister was dating my teachers brother? Help!?
- Question: Why is baby slobber cute, but adult slobber not?
- Question: Why does it turn me on when my step-daughter calls me "daddy"?
- Question: Should I spend time with her?
- Question: Are my cousin and I flirting?
- Question: My sister brought home a fake baby?
- Question: How can I get out of the house?
- Question: Does my stepmom like me?
- Question: Father checks me out but my mom won't do anything about it?
- Question: Im 13 i want an instagram but my parents dont trust me?
- Question: Why do i hate my mom and step dad?
- Question: Has anyone had a bad experience with kansas kvc or cps and how did you handle it?
- Question: My best friend is always criticizing my driving?
- Question: How do you think i should have responded to my brother?
- Question: Very very traditional mom, still tries to spank us, I'm a 16 year old girl!!!!?
- Question: I'm in love with my second cousin..?
- Question: Is it OK to hate my dad?
- Question: I hate my brother help please?
- Question: Is my daughter growing up way too fast?
- Question: I'm so angry I can't calm down.?
- Question: Why does my family talk about me and my siblings so much?
- Question: My parents arent supportive of me going to university in September (Please read)?
- Question: Do I have control issues regarding my in-laws?
- Question: My step son told me something is this child abuse?
- Question: Is my mom abusing me?
- Question: Why does everyone in my life feel the need to protect me and look out for me?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: I'm thinking about having children but I'm concerned with the type of people they would become?
- Question: I want to quit softball but my parents won't let me?
- Question: Am I a fool? My husband was being so mean?
- Question: When a cow laughs, does milk come out of its nose?
- Question: If I cooperate with the punishment my parents give me will it help or do you think they will be just as harsh as if I didn't cooperate?
- Question: Why should i go to america?
- Question: She blocked me off everything?
- Question: Am I spoiled?
- Question: What's the best way to get kicked out of church?
- Question: I currently hate my mum, can anyone help out?
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- Question: I don't want to live with my mom anymore?
- Question: Are all family members like this?
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- Question: I'm having a hard time accepting my parents divorce taking place right now; i'm 28. Why so painful?
- Question: How do i get my mum to stop screaming at me for every single thing?
- Question: Why does my mom dress modestly in public and at church but when at home just wears shorts and a T-shirt with no bra?
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| Question: If my sister was dating my teachers brother? Help!? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 01:18 PM PDT Ok. My sister is dating my gateway teachers brother. If they ever get narried, that would nake my teachers brother my brother in law. What would that make me to my teacher? Would he also be a brother in law, or something else, or nothing? Thanks! |
| Question: Why is baby slobber cute, but adult slobber not? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 01:08 PM PDT |
| Question: Why does it turn me on when my step-daughter calls me "daddy"? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 01:05 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I spend time with her? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 01:03 PM PDT I'm a 15 year old guy. My mother died last November and her birthday is this Saturday. There was is no gravesite to visit, my brother is leaving for Philadelphia and the rest of my family will be working. The only family I'll have is my dad. Anyhow, I asked my dad if my girlfriend could come over tomorrow but he said she can only come on Saturday (Because of his work schedule). Initially, I have was gonna ignore everyone and do my own thing. But, now I'm thinking maybe i should have someone. Idk. Should i invite her? |
| Question: Are my cousin and I flirting? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:59 PM PDT He's spending the summer in the country. I'm 15, he's 16 and we haven't seen each other in five years. I'm good friends with his older sister who tells me that he plays girls and doesn't do things just out of niceness, but he treats me differently, i.e. walk a mile uphill to get my glasses even though no one asked him to, refuse to tell me the scary story he's been telling everyone bc he knows I get scared easily, put a jacket around me when I was cold (and took his time adjusting it to make sure I wasn't cold). We had a family outing for a few days and I was in a prank war against him. When he'd use a water balloon against me he'd hold me closer to him than necessary, and tease me about how I'm lucky I wasn't wearing white like I was on the first day. He was spanking people with a wet shirt and when I jokingly told him to stop hurting people, he just did that little nod/smile thing, saying, "then come here." The trip was filled with a lot of "accidental" touching, teasing, and lingering eye contact, but the cutest moment was when we were leaving and our eyes met. We just stared at each other until he smiled this sweet, small smile that left me breathless. At that moment we were 10 and 12 again and I didn't have to worry about this. Now, he's leaving soon and I'm already attached. But that one smile that I KNOW meant something, made me forget about all of that... ...or I could be a sad 15 year old girl who finds her cousin hot, but I know that can't be it.. |
| Question: My sister brought home a fake baby? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:59 PM PDT So my sisters in hs and here we have a fake baby class thats mandatory (thank baby jesus I graduated a year before) now I would be living In a new house of my own but our family lifestyle includes us living together. But the problem is the fact this class has taking careof the baby for a month. Since you cant cuss or **** im pissed off about it cause I dont want her to get a bad grade but me and my friends have dirty humor when we play pc games. Also the crying, her room is sharing a wall with kine and the walls are thin as ****. Can I complain to the school or something to stop this? |
| Question: How can I get out of the house? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:57 PM PDT My step mother hates me. She told me to my face "I don't like you, I don't like being around you." She hit me yesterday and now I have a bruise but last night when she hit me she lied and turned it around on me but now I have some evidence My aunt said that I could live with her but idk if my dad will let me. Just overall I don't feel safe in my own home. And I'm always depressed when my stepmoms around. I'm a 16 year old girl. |
| Question: Does my stepmom like me? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:54 PM PDT Of course she says "love you" but is it really the truth? She could just be saying it because she kind of has too. Recently I've been doing things I do with my real Mom. I hug her, hold her hand and even put my arm around her. My stepmom normally doesn't react when I put my arm around her, almost ignoring me. Recently I've been wondering does she love me? I mean I love her as a Mom, but I'm really confused! Some signs from her tell me she does love me others tell me she doesn't! Now that I've been hugging her and stuff like that she doesn't hug me or hold my hand, I always have to be the one to do it. But I can understand that the man normally has to do those things to begin with. I really want to know if she actually loves me or if she is just annoyed or just straight out hates me! Thx |
| Question: Father checks me out but my mom won't do anything about it? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:46 PM PDT I am 26 and since I was a teen I noticed my father checking me out. It became progressively worse as I got older and now it's gotten to a ridiculous point. He cheats on my mom all the time and we all know it; he is almost 70 years old. He takes viagra and has girlfriends on the side. Him and my mom live together but don't sleep in the same room. I used to sleep in her room with her but stopped cause I caught him red handed staring at me while I was sleeping. Now I stay in my room and lock the door. He checks me out in front of people. I've seen him blatantly staring at my body up and down. He even stares when I wear sweat pants. If I cover my body, he still stares at my face. I could tell my face makes him excited. Sometimes he'll time himself and wait around just to get a glance of me. He does it to my sister as well and though we discuss it our mom doesn't believe us. I have yelled and confronted him a million times but he still continues to do it and being nice to him doesn't humanize me but just makes him worse. I moved out but my mom's refusal to get rid of him takes a toll. I don't go to family events or bbq's. Extended family thinks I'm antisocial cause they don't know the truth. I feel I now have to excommunicate myself from my family because he is there. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: Im 13 i want an instagram but my parents dont trust me? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:38 PM PDT hi, im 13 years old ive had an instagram account last year and ive had it for a few months.then i started posting well...sorta innapropriate pics on there and a few months later my parents found out and i got in big trouble all of my family and friends and their parents heard about it,i was so embarrassed. so now i know ill never do anything like tht again so i want a new account but this time i want to put regular modest pics of only my face and not my body.i just want to gain back their trust and show them i can be smart on social media. |
| Question: Why do i hate my mom and step dad? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:35 PM PDT Ok so all my mom does is work 12 hour days and thats it. When shes done she always has me do everything like mow or laundry and even cleaning the house because of my lazy messy siblings. My step dad doesnt have a job and never even tries to get one. He sits in his room all day smoking and its a mess in there. My sibs act just like him and since my mom will never listen to me i always fight with everyone. Ive told her that i would run away and stuff and i even said id rather be shot mercilessly than to live her with you. I dont regret it but i really juat hate everyone in the house. What should i do? I want to live with my friend but im stuck with my dumb mom... Btw im always working cause my step dad is too lazy to do stuff around the house. |
| Question: Has anyone had a bad experience with kansas kvc or cps and how did you handle it? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:34 PM PDT |
| Question: My best friend is always criticizing my driving? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:33 PM PDT I'm 17 (almost 18) and have had my license for almost 2 years. My friend is a year younger than me, and has only had her license for about a year. I am a good driver. My parents and family members all say so, and I believe that I'm very safe behind the wheel. Now, my friend is always a "backseat driver." She's constantly telling me how to drive, even though I passed my driving test with a perfect score. She just thinks she's so cool because she can drive a stick shift and I can't because I don't have one to learn in. And if I'm driving her anywhere, she always says things like "you should probably start slowing down" or "I'm scared for my life when I get in the car with you." She makes me so mad, and when I try to talk to her about it she gets mad at me and will start pouting like a child. |
| Question: How do you think i should have responded to my brother? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 12:15 PM PDT he's known i'm gay for a couple of months, and this one time i was telling him how i'm bothered that so many people use the wordfag, and talk bad about gay people. and he said "ahhhh, it's cool to be homophobic", and left. what should i have said? the fact that he was being soooo unsupportive was really annoying to me. to the point where i actually took offense. |
| Question: Very very traditional mom, still tries to spank us, I'm a 16 year old girl!!!!? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:59 AM PDT I'm way to old to get spankings, what happens if I hit her back, what then? She needs to stop the insanity. |
| Question: I'm in love with my second cousin..? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:47 AM PDT Okay so first off we are not the regular second cousins. I live in North America and he lives in Europe where my grandparents are from but they left 30 years ago! My grandfather from my dads side has a brother and his grandson and me have been in love since I was six and he was 9! I didn't even know we were second cousins until I was 13! Our parents are totally cool with us being in love but I just don't know if I'm okay with it myself! We currently live apart because he's still in Europe and we just really are in love. I've tried dating guys from multiple races but every single time all I can do is think of him! He's literally the love of my life but I can't forget that we are second cousins! Although our grandpas are brothers, my grandfather died way before I was born so I don't know if that helps. |
| Question: Is it OK to hate my dad? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:42 AM PDT Ok so I'm 16, male and currently in 12th grade. The thing is that i hate my dad. Whatever i do he will always says shi**y things to me. I am a straight A student and always get scholarships but now when I'll be going on college, my life is turning shi**y day by day and that's all because of my dad. I don't like to play sports but like to play video games and etc but my dad keep criticising. Be days go outside, be social but i don't wanna do that. The guys living around me are bad, and their company will make me worse. That's why i don't go outside to play sports and prefer to spend time alone. My dad has a dirty mind. He thinks that i watch po*n and masturbate and have sex with my sister because we are very close. Out of these things i sometimes watch po*n and masturbats just to relieve my sexual tension but i never thought of having sex with my sister because that's immoral and disgusting. My dad always prefer my younger brother over me and always treat him nicely even when is his fault. And when he do a mistake, he start to blame me that i haven't been a good big brother and if i was good them he wouldn't be doing this and that. And now when is turn to go to college be always says that he won't bear my expenses always tell me to get a scholarship. But the truth is that i cant do that now. The studies have gotten tough (BTW i have mathematics, physics and chemistry) and |
| Question: I hate my brother help please? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:27 AM PDT he is an arrogant ascholle he thinks he is better than me or he is trying to prove that he is better dont know why maybe he is jealous of me or dislike me,i am a girl by the way |
| Question: Is my daughter growing up way too fast? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:26 AM PDT My 13 year old daughter came to me with what she thought was a problem. She had heard her brother tell his friend on the phone that he was going to spank the monkey. She was afraid he was going to hurt an animal. OH MY GOD. How do you explain to your daughter what her brother was really going to do? I explained to her what he really meant by what he said. That is when I got a BIG SHOCK. She said "If he was going to j**k off, why didn't he just say so and then I would know what he meant". He does that all the time. I must also have a talk with my son about locking the door to his room when he does that. Is my daughter growing up way to fast. Parents, (and teenage girls) please give me some guidance? Isn't 13 to young to know about all that stuff |
| Question: I'm so angry I can't calm down.? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:18 AM PDT My cousin put a very heavy basket on top of my printer/scanner. He says I'm materialistic for geting mad. Yeah he can say that because he didn't buy it! I say he's frivolous& disrespectful. I can't even look at him right now, & I'm still angry. I walked away but I still can't calm down. I'm sick of telling him not to do ****. |
| Question: Why does my family talk about me and my siblings so much? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT They always talk 'bout us in a bad way but they wanna see us. I don't understand that... |
| Question: My parents arent supportive of me going to university in September (Please read)? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:08 AM PDT At the start of 2015 I applied to go to University. I thought my parents would be really proud because my mum has always told me ive got good brains and my dad is a high achiever. He never went to uni however. I was told by my school to apply for a student loan because there is no way most families or student can afford 12k upwards a year in tuition fees. I did this and got my loan approved. I was told unless I earnt over 21k a year there would be no pressure to pay it back (In the UK) I was wrong, my parents really werent happy when I got accepted in. My dad said I should be out working and earning and not studying. Im almost being seen as an embarrassment, my parents havent told other people im going to uni like my friends parents. The worst part about this is my boyfriend got accepted into the same uni as me and my dad said to him "Good on you lad, there's nothing wrong with getting more education!" Like are you serious? I told them that they wont have to provide for me due to my loan and my dad told me to cancel the loan and work to pay for my education myself. I have outright refused to do this. I told him we are no longer in the 1960s where people starve and burn themselves out because they want to get an education and he simply ignored me. In the past I have struggled for money and despite the fact he runs his own business he has refused to offer me a job there. I just feel like he wants me to struggle as his childhood was bad. What advice do you guys offer? Thanks. |
| Question: Do I have control issues regarding my in-laws? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:08 AM PDT My wife is one of four children. I am an only child. Her family is much larger than mine. Both of my parents have recently passed away. I am feeling vastly outnumbered by her family. When her parents and siblings and their children show up or we meet up with them, it feels like an invasion and they are trying to take over my life. I get uncomfortable because it feels like I have no control over the situation. I am at their mercy over whatever "cluster blank" event the gathering is going to turn into. It's out of control and seemingly never ends. Her father wants me to have him help my fix up my parent's house and my wife says "oh he is just trying to help." Now that my wife I have children, its even worse because my mother in law wants to see the grandchildren every weekend. Of course she does not see our children every weekend, but it seems like we are waiting for the call from her to come hourly Just recently, my wife's brother forgot it was his son's birthday and we were summoned to his house at the last minute for a party. Her older sister believes she has the right to photograph our kids anytime she wants and my wife gets angry when I try and stop her. These people are taking over my life. If I object my wife either gets angry with me or brushes me aside by saying "oh that's just them." A few people have told me not to make a big deal about this but I feel outnumbered and lost. Do I have control issues over this or should I let it all go? What should I do? |
| Question: My step son told me something is this child abuse? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:07 AM PDT Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and his son is 9 next week, he used to share custody with his ex but he has been living with us for 6 months due to his mum's alcohol abuse (social service and police have been involved many times) she hasn't tried contacting us for 5 months other than drunken abusive texts at 10am to 6pm. Anyway we are legally starting full custody proceedings and my step son has told me that on many occasions his mum has put her finger up her own bum and made him smell it and if he doesn't she will shout abuse at him. Is this child abuse? I know you're probably thinking what kind of family is this but we're actually a very well to do family and she comes from a well to do family although she is on benefits at the moment so I would rather no judgement passed on that. It is a very upsetting matter and he desperately doesn't want to see his mum again. Let me know what you think. |
| Question: Is my mom abusing me? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:06 AM PDT hi im 13 and i wanna know if my mom is abusing me because maybe im just being over dramatic but its really making me upset. i self harm because of it. my mom always calls me trash and swears at me all the time. one time i forgot to clean the kitty litter ( only 1 day) and she sold mt cat and i was crying because of that so she picked me up and shook me. she'll slap my face so hard it becomes numb. she'll say things like "go cry about it i wont care." im not a bad behaving kid and i get really good grades and clean around the house and everything but no matter what i do, i get in trouble. i once told my aunt that im scared of my mom and my mom found out i said that and she kept threatening to "give me something to be scared about" so is this normal or abuse?? |
| Question: Why does everyone in my life feel the need to protect me and look out for me? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 11:04 AM PDT I am a guy and I am the youngest in my family and my whole life everyone that i love feels the need to always protect me and be there for me. Even my close friend acts like an older brother and is always there for me and he always protects me from people who try to be mean to me. Its weird because when ever I misbehave or start acting out like if I Party too much people always tell me to behave like they are trying to protect my innocence. I am not mad or anything I am trying to figure out why people feel the need to protect me? |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:57 AM PDT Okay so I'm 15 years old and my mom has 3 kids she has a boyfriend she's been dating for 7 years I strongly DISLIKE him and my mom seems not to understand.Hes so disrespectful to me and my mom. Every time I try to talk to her about it she don't want to hear it. |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:54 AM PDT I have a complicated relationship with my brother, I guess you could say we are literally two sides of the same coin (polar opposites so to speak). Our personalities are radically different and how we handle certain situations is also unique. While I'm skinny yet considerate, my brother can often be described as muscular yet egotistic. When presented with a problem, I would stop and consider multiple angles/listen to both sides of the story before making a final decision, my brother on the other hand would do the more "normal" thing and just state his own personal opinion without listening to either side and then pass that off as law. My brother and I are so different, whereas I might cook food for multiple people in the house, my brother cooks only enough for himself. He also tends to disagree with everything I say, I think he does this deliberately; I seriously think he has a sibling rivalry/inferiority complex buried deep in his head. For example, I once said it's gross that it's house rules to eat food even it falls on the floor (so we're not wasting money), he says since I'm living here rentfree, I'm lucky to eat anything at all. I'm concerned that if I have children then they could become like my brother; we're biologically the same, but our personalities are so different. I want to raise my children to be considerate of others, but I'm afraid that they could have a genetic disposition to be... well, you can guess. Not to overstate the point, but another difference is that while I tend to think about the best solution that would benefit the maximum number of people, my brother would often prefer the solution that would maximally benefit himself. |
| Question: I want to quit softball but my parents won't let me? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:34 AM PDT I have played softball since I was a kid and I'm now a senior in high school. I'm good at it but I'm tired of it. My parents won't let me quit because I've played my whole life and I'm good at it but I don't enjoy it anymore. They tell me I need to play because it's my last year anyway but I don't want to. All of my friends either graduated last year or are quitting this year and they're the only reason I stayed last year. It sucks and every year I get a new coach that doesn't know anything about softball and we lose every game and it's not fun. I want to quit this year because I don't want to play in college anyway and I would rather focus on school and work more hours at work to save more money for college. I'm scared of my dad and what he's gonna say because he's very serious when it comes to sports and every time I mention quitting he insults me and says it's because I'm lazy. Any suggestions? |
| Question: Am I a fool? My husband was being so mean? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:29 AM PDT Background: both in our 20's 2 kids, our first child passed away as an infant 2 years before this started I had a rocky relationship start with MIL as she was fake to me( later admitting she didn't like me at first) and basically thought she was Queen as a grandma with rights to try and act like a mother to our first child, a daughter she never had. I didn't tolerate it . we kept our distances mostly. Fast forward, I quit my amazing, well paying job that I excelled at to become a full time stay at home mother after we got pregnant again. I devoted all of my time and loving energies to our new baby for a full year. I breast fed, cooked and cleaned sang and read stories. I lost my car in an accident, spent the money on needed baby items. I also lost my phone when i quit my job When baby turned one I was ready to share the responsibility with my husband. Also, I was done being without a phone or car and with isolation. I asked him every day for time to myself afterwork. If he helped it was passive/aggressive He hated it. On Mother's Day he ignored me, didn't say HMD barely said a word to me all day. Yet we go to his moms and he has gifts for her. I started thinking about getting a job and possibly leaving if things didn't improve. At the same time his work slowed and he stopped buying much for groceries. I went hungry and with breast feeding a baby I became dehydrated in the summer heat. One morning I woke up delirious believing strange things. He lies and has me commited |
| Question: When a cow laughs, does milk come out of its nose? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:25 AM PDT |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:16 AM PDT My sister and I snuck out last night to go to a concert together. We made it home a little after 1 in the morning. When we got home our parents lectured us and I ended up feeling really bad and crying. My sister just argued with our parents. Things were getting bad between my parents and sister. I didn't want to be in the middle of it so I just told my parents that I was really sorry about sneaking out and then I asked them if I could go to my room to have some time to think about the reason I was in trouble before we talked about it anymore. My parents gave me permission to go to my room and said that they would talk to me tomorrow. It is tomorrow morning now and I've been in my room because I'm worried about having to talk to my parents. I was thinking that it might help my parents be less mad at me if I make breakfast for them, hand over all my electronics before the get the chance to ask for them, write a note of apology and say that I'll accept whatever punishment they want to give me. Will my plan help? I honestly feel really bad and I want to make things up to my parents. |
| Question: Why should i go to america? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:07 AM PDT My parents are planning on taking me on holiday to america but i hear about , Gang Crime,Pedophiles,The Police, but in kind of scared |
| Question: She blocked me off everything? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 10:04 AM PDT My bestfriend of 8 years and I stopped being friends a week ago due to her negative behavior and the fact that even though she was cheating on her boyfriend, I supported her and was there for her and she did not appreciate it at all. They got back together and completely forgot I existed. Then when I confronted her, she would attack MY boyfriend saying he is mean to her. My boyfriend is the kindest human being, I wouldn't be dating him if he wasn't. I'm 20 years old and know who is right or wrong for me. I was offended that she was blaming him for our declining friendship. He has nothing to do with why HER AND I don't hangout. When I confronted her, she blocked me off all social media and now has gotten her siblings to block me as well as blocking my family as well. I have been there for this girl since day 1 and now I feel like I have been used. Should I text her again? Or should I forget about it Just to give more details, the friends she did have were my friends, so obviously she lost them too if she lost me so she has no friends now except her desperate boyfriend of 5 years who took her back after 4 times cheating |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:53 AM PDT My dad has anger issues and will call me a spoiled ****. I'm 17, turning 18 January. I go to online school I got my first cell phone earlier this year I do not get an allowance at all My chores include dishes, laundry, trash, sweeping porch, and scrubbing back porch My dad always says that he shouldn't have to clean up any messes he or anyone else makes because he has two 'children' (17 and 19 year old) to do all that for him If I ask for anything the answer is no but they will buy junk for me that I will not want and tell me I am still spoiled My brother has Xbox and Play station all to himself and the family has a Gamecube and a Wii U I have fancy furniture I didn't want I have to start paying rent next year No job No license No car And every year for my birthday my parents make me sit in a building while they go sledding because I hate sledding but they do it on purpose I don't throw tantrums unless my parents try calling me crazy or depressed and try putting me on pills after lying about them being a vitamin for my health (my health is fine and I already have vitamins) Am I spoiled? P.s. my dad threw a tantrum the other day and threw a bunch of board games and broke some glass and refused to clean it up. Does that mean he was spoiled as a kid? |
| Question: What's the best way to get kicked out of church? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:42 AM PDT My parents force me to got to church every week even though I tell them I don't want to go. So how do I get my butt kicked out for good. I don't want to be too disrespectful or look like a total a**. |
| Question: I currently hate my mum, can anyone help out? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:38 AM PDT I couldent fit it all in, so here is a pastebin with the whole question. Sorry: http://pastebin.com/rQqmLkzU |
| Question: Can my landlord extend a move out date?!? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:33 AM PDT Okay so hello, two weeks ago there was some family issues and my sister convinced my mom of taking my name off the lease(I live with just my mom but my sister is very spiteful and will hurt anyone to get what she wants, probably for my mom to move in with her so she can have a babysitter while she goes and gets drunk any ways that's another story) my move out date was the 15th (two days) my mom had told me we're both getting kicked out but she left to LA and hasn't packed anything but picture frames, so my guess is she said that so I can leave, im 19 and I won't have a place to stay but nothing less I want to talk to my landlord and get all the facts straight, if I do have to be out by the 15th, can j ask for an extentsion?! |
| Question: NPHC Sorority Questions? Advice needed! Very interested.? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:20 AM PDT This upcoming semester will be my sophomore year and I'll be transferring over to my dream school! I've been doing plenty of research on Greek life during my freshman year of college and have found myself to be extremely interested in Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated. I understand that I'll have to wait a semester in order to try and join the sorority because I'll need a certain amount of credits earned from the school, but I know I'm going to have to take that time to focus on school, getting involved in the school (I'm going to try to join a Black Student leaders club, a Naturalistas club, and a Future Business Woman club) and as well as getting to know the girls from the chapter. I'm extremely nervous. I don't want to mess anything up. I currently have a 3.2 GPA and I'm aiming for a 3.5 or higher this semester. My biggest concern right now is meeting some women who can help me out. I know very few AKAs... Thankfully, I know one girl personally who actually graduated from the chapter, but I don't want to seem awkward to the other ladies I know because I honestly barely know them. I've let them know that I am interested, but I don't want to go as far as asking for recommendations since they barely know me. I just need some advice. I need some advice on if I should start preparing an interest letter. I need some advice on how to let the chapter know more about me. I would like to hear somebody's personal experience about when they were still aspiring to join. |
| Question: My Parents Treat Me Like A Baby? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:08 AM PDT I've been living with my parents all my life which hasn't been the best. I always feel like I did something wrong and my dad always yells at me if I do one thing wrong. I'm often depressed and I tell them if I am. They laugh and say "don't be silly." As selfish as this sounds I cry really loudly when I go to sleep to show them I actually am depressed. Ever since I was 14 I wanted to run away forever. One time I asked for a YouTube account so I could play video games and share it, this is their response "No you can't have one because if someone says something rude to you, you'll start crying" ARE. YOU. KIDDING ME? I'm 14! I'm pretty sure if someone puts hate on one of my videos I won't cry. I'll admit though I am emotional but my friends treat me the same way they do with others. I'm crying while I write this, I need help. |
| Question: How Do I Go About Confessing This? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:07 AM PDT So, yesterday, I was "doing the thing" by myself and I tried sucking on my arms as a way to turn myself on. It worked, but I woke up this morning with a pretty obvious hickey. It's too low to cover with a short sleeved shirt, and the hot weather plus long sleeved shirts do not mix. I'm bad with makeup, so concealer wouldn't do the trick and grandma would find out I was in her makeup. So, I have one of two choices. Tell the truth and risk getting mocked, or stay silent and then they'll assume that when I go jogging I'm seeing someone. I'd rather tell the truth, but I don't know the best way to go about it. How do I do this? |
| Question: Punishment for teenage son who lies & talks back to mom? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 09:05 AM PDT My teenager is, overall a good kid for the most part. He does not get into trouble at school, with the law, or when at other people's houses. However, at home is a different story. He lies constantly to try to get his way, he lies so much it's become habit. For example, he stayed at a friends house. The next day I had to take him to somewhere in the am & said I'd take him back to his friends house afterwards. Long story short, he said his father (my husband) said he could go swimming at his friend's aunts house, my husband never approved it. My son lied to me about it then continued to lie when confronted with it. He lies from everything from eating someone else's food in the fridge to things like this. Also he is very disrespectful to me, telling me to shut up, it's my job to clean, it's just bad, for everything I tell him to do (chore) or everything I confront him about (lie) he has a smart mouth disrespectful comment right back at me. I would never talk to my parents like that. He's bigger than me & is old enough I can't spank him any more. Sometimes I'll say I'm about to smack your face, & he says then I'll just call the cops you aren't allowed to hit me (he was taught that in school). We've tried grounding him, but it does nothing but have him cause havoc in the house by being a brat all day long. I stick to it & keep him grounded, but it's a heck of a week & doesn't stop his behavior. What else can I try? |
| Question: Why does my mom hate me? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 08:54 AM PDT My mom grounded me for throwing my gum out the window and it makes no sense. And anyway,everyevery single day she tells me something along the likes of "shut the **** up" or "nobody cares." Today she told me that she would never do anything for me ever again and called me a *****. I did not even do anything rude to her.. I feel like she just deliberately makes me feel so horrible. Why am I such a bad daughter? Why does she hate me? Every single day I cry because of her. I messaged her how I felt and she probably doesn't care because she didn't bother to reply. Why does she hate me I just don't understand .. please help me. I'm 13 by the way.. I just want to pack my things and run away so that she can't hurt me anymore. Why why why does she hate me I can't take much more |
| Question: I want to help my sister. What do I do? T^T? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 08:45 AM PDT Hi, I'm 12 years old but I have a real problem here so please don't treat me like a child. Anyways, I have 7 year old sister that's a total rebel. She outgoing and sometimes yell alot but I still love her of course. The thing is when she does something really wrong and my dad get's mad he hits her. As far as I counted he hit her 3 times. One time was because she crossed the road by herself but dad pulled her out of the way. Another time I don't remember. And last time was because she spat on my face and I screamed.(Iknow..) My dad NEVER hit me. At all. I asked him once why and he said it was because when I was her age I actually understood my parents and I did what I was told. A good girl but Syd is different. Now to get to the point. Nowadays, every single time she does something wrong like spill her food on the couch or break a glass cup she has a panic tantrum and starts crying, repeating over and over again about how she's scared that one of us will hit her. I really feel sad for her and I don't want her to grow up like this. What do I do? :''( |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 08:31 AM PDT Im almost 20 and im still living at home. I have a job and i pay my parents around 600 a month. This isnt a requirement but they ALWAYS need help paying for something. Ive been doing this for three years now and its always the same. I give them thousands of dollars a year and i never see it again. Every time i save a good amount, they need money. Should i keep trying to save and stay with them or try to move out. I know i can live on my own, but i dont think they can keep up without me helping. They also have five other kids and are pregnant with another one. |
| Question: Looking for suggestions on bedrooms? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 08:30 AM PDT I have 4 children an 11 & 3 year old boys and a 6 & 4 mos old girls. We re moving into a 3 bedroom and I m trying to figure out with their ages who should go into a room with each other. I have 4 children an 11 & 3 y/o boys and a 6 y/o & 4 mos old girls. We just moved to Florida and are moving into a 3 bedroom and I'm trying to figure out with their ages who should go into a room with each other. 1. There are no laws governing this anywhere only recommendations. 2. It is recommended that if children have a min of 5 year difference in their ages they should not share a room together. 3. I'm uncomfortable with putting my toddler and 6 year old in the same room as she is beginning to notice the difference in bodies and is curious. 4. I also find it a safety hazard to have my 3 year old in with my 11 year old. What happens when he decides to put a lego in his mouth and chokes on it? (Yes he knows better but still a safety hazard no the less) |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 08:21 AM PDT My father does not care about my college education whether I complete it or not even though he suggested from the start, he would help me through it from beginning to end since I am majoring in his field or career path... so far he broken it beginning the second year and im a junior level now and still broken it My father pretends I don't exist in the household and other of his friends/family My father makes me file taxes as independent and made me sign loan money under my name/responsibility and makes me deposit every semester 2 grand in his account which I have no access to or knowledge whether he is gambling it or spending it lavishly like free money My father does not want to help me no more, even when I asked for his help or send him emails with questions on related to jobs or college class help My father is spending excessively on money on vacation and watch lot of tv like a junkie every day, like a depressed alcoholic would do... My father does not care whether I leave or die or done something wrong What should I do? |
| Question: Am i considered independent? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 08:08 AM PDT i am a 15 year old girl almost 16 next month! i have been pregnant in the past. when i was 14 so i moved in with my baby daddy but i had a miscarriage. He turned out to be abusive. My mom gave me my independency but she never signed any papers. Since he turned out to be abusive i left him in december and i was working and was renting a room at my aunts. My mom forced me to move in with her since she said if i didnt she would call the cops and say that my aunt was exploiting me... so i came to live with her in Pensilvania but we have had a problem and she tolled me she didnt want me eating in her house or eating her food. I tolled her i was going to leave but she threatened me with calling the cops but i thought i was independent since i was pregnant and had moved out before… can anybody tell me if i am considered independent or not? |
| Question: ROYAL FAMILY MEMBERS? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 08:04 AM PDT so my sister is 15 and she wants to know for no idea which reason if there is any 15 -21 years old prince or a royal family member , doesnt metter aboute the country , but from europe would be the best :) sry for my english bsc i am not from english speaking coutry i just moved to england :) |
| Question: My mom keeps bringing up the past? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 07:51 AM PDT I did something stupid and my mom has been acting on it ever since. Every time we have an argument she brings up the mistake and ties it into the argument. I can't talk to her because she think she is always right and if I don't do something her way she just yells at me. If I tell her how I feel she yells at me. Anything I do she yells at me and brings up the past mistake. I'm a teen learning and I understand I do stupid things and take responsibility for it but she didn't understand that. What should I do |
| Question: I don't want to live with my mom anymore? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 07:44 AM PDT Hi, I'm entering college and it is going to be a real struggle with money, and I have a job where I don't do anything, It's perfect study time. I'm living at home to save money and I was planning on getting a second job on weekends to help with paying, pretty easy job. I didn't talk to my mom about it because I knew she would say no, she thinks I'll be busy. Which I know I will, but she's never been to college, she doesn't understand the schedule, she thinks it's just like high school. She doesn't understand financial aid, or anything college related but when I try to explain she thinks I don't know what I'm talking about. She found out about the job and forbid me to even go to a job fair and check it out. I wanted to live on campus but it was too much and she was so sad I would be gone, when I'm like 15 minutes away. We tell each other everything. I can't anymore, She gives me no right to complain, she replies "You've had such a horrible life!" and mocks me saying I have no right to fell sad. She and my step father have also been having problems, enough to get a divorce but she won't do it because of the money, when she keeps complaining about him. He isn't a bad step father, they just don't get along well. But she complains so much about him, about my step brother and the entire step family! also my real brothers, I just listen because I don't want to be apart of it anymore. It feels so hateful in that house and I know I could live my grandparents if I want. Thoughts? She is also a good mother and I acknowledge that but in general, she is refusing to allow me make my own choices when I've done nothing to prove that I can't do that. Thanks for reading! I'm 18, for those asking. I'm very mature from everyone else I know my age. |
| Question: Are all family members like this? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 07:21 AM PDT So my birthday is in 2 days. Now I honestly don't care about presents, but I do care to a degree that my family members at least acknowledge it. My brother, sister, parents, and one grandmother all acknowledge it. However my other grandmom, granddad, 5 cousins, 4 uncles, 4 aunts, never even acknowledge it. The reason why it gets to me is because everybody else birthday is highly regarded. The year before they even forgot. I acknowledge their birthdays. If I had money I'd buy them something but I don't because I'm still in high school (this is my senior year) and I'd rather focus all of my attention on school rather than a job. When I was 12 years old (this was when it first started) my dad's parents decided to go to the beach on my birthday with my aunts, uncles, and their kids. My siblings, father, and I weren't invited. When they came back, they gave me nothing and never acknowledged that it was my birthday. After that the parties and birthday dinners stopped (on my dad's side of the family). Each year now I have dinner and cake with my mom's mom and her brother along with my mom & siblings. Every now & then I might get a present from my dad's mom but usually it ain't much. I see my dad though before we celebrate. |
| Question: Do my brother and sister have a valid argument? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 07:19 AM PDT I have a sister and a brother. When all 3 of us graduated from high school, mom and dad told us they would pay for any addition schooling we wanted. I chose to go to college. My sister chose to go to beauty school which mom and dad paid for and my brother chose not to get any additional schooling and immediately get a job. It is now 10 years later and at family gatherings we have this disagreement. My brother and sister want mom and dad to give them an equal amount of money they spent paying my way to college. Mom and dad refuse. They say they gave us a choice and we have to live with the choice we made. My brother and sister's latest argument is that I should give them the amount of money mom and dad spent on my college education because I am now very successful and I can afford it. I am not inclined to do that. Do my brother and sister have a valid argument? |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 07:03 AM PDT It seems like a dumb question; why so painful? Of course it's painful- it's the demise of a home I have known my entire life. The catch is my parents were never really happy. Most my memories with them are centered around abuse and being chronically unhappy together. However, my family is amazing. My brothers, even my parents. We are all super flawed, as you are, but I am surprised at how much I am mourning their demise. It's probably best, but it's killing me thinking of my dysfunctional family as being separated. I have had a dream about 6 times that my family is together and happy in the house I grew up in and in the dream, I know it's going to end. It's tortuous. Anyone else have trouble as an adult when their parents divorce? |
| Question: How do i get my mum to stop screaming at me for every single thing? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 07:02 AM PDT So I have a good mother, even if we don't have much money she buys me everything i want, she let's me go outside whenever i want and never punishes me. But there is one problem that i cannot stand. She keeps screaming at me for the absolute smallest stuff, sometimes will even hit me. Like for the most fricking useless stuff. Even when there isn't a problem she finds a reason to scream at me. Or just to provoke me, and when i yell back, and for most of the things i am sure i am right, and my father agrees, and then she says i am always the first one to cause problems, then keeps screaming at me. And she won't shut up. Even if i ignore her, or just stop talking she doesn't stop yelling. The hell man, i don't cause any trouble, i am a perfect student, i have never did anything wrong except accidently spilling water, sometimes there is food left on the table i can clean it, but she keeps yelling at me like i killed a person. I do not deserve this. She also doesn't care much about my GAD, and Derealization disorder. She says i am faking it. She doesn't know what i am going through, and yet she keeps screaming at me and i am feeling worse. What do i do? |
| Posted: 13 Aug 2015 07:01 AM PDT I'm 17 and I must admit I look but I know I shouldn't. |
| Question: Should I go to therapy? Advice please!? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 06:51 AM PDT My parents especially my dad have been verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive since I was a little kid. When I went off to college I decided to start fresh and never told anyone about my past. Finally my friends found out when my dad called me screaming and threatened me because I had a B+ in a class and forbid me from seeing my relatives(that I hadn't seen in over two years) who were visiting. They helped me and I finally talked to someone about the abuse. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and he knows that my parents were controlling and abusive. We moved in together a month ago and my parents have decided to have nothing to do with me and told me that I was a sinner and not welcomed in their home. I recently got a great job offer and my parents are not happy for me at all I feel like I will never be good enough. My boyfriend is the only one that I feel like I have support from and that I can depend on. I went to therapy once but it didnt help because I couldnt tell them anything about the abuse or else the therapist would have to report it. What should I do? I feel like its not fair to my boyfriend to have him as my only support but I dont know what else to do |
| Question: It's hot outside! What should I do?? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 06:45 AM PDT Well, i live in Wisconsin and it is usually ALWAYS cold and now it is supposed to be hot today (89 degrees!!). So, I guess it is kind of a big deal. But, the problem is that i live in a small town with no pool. my family doesn't have a pool. i have no one to go get ice cream with and ya...idk what to do....my parents work during the day so i would be riding my bike |
| Question: Christening card message?!? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 06:32 AM PDT To my beautiful Goddaughter ......, I'm so proud and honoured to be your godmother and I promise to always be there to support you. I wish you the best life possible and can't wait to share many memories with you. Hugs and kisses on your special day, ....... xx How does this message suit for a christening card to my goddaughter? |
| Question: Should I be doing chores? Posted: 13 Aug 2015 06:23 AM PDT I'm a college student who's home from school for the summer and is in the midst of transferring schools. Since I'm transferring in January, I'm currently looking for a place before school starts (and before it gets cold). Right now, I live with my mom, step dad, & my brother and sister. My step dad is now disabled and gets money from the government (social security) which is about 1600/month. That is more than enough to live on because the only bills he has to pay is electricity and cable. I work nights, so I don't get home until 10 or 11, however, he expects me to cook dinner, wash dishes, clean up, etc. when I get off work! I'm really getting annoyed by this because I'm the only one in this house that works and the adults of the house are just LITERALLY laid up all day while my brother and sister are in school. My step dad hasn't worked in 5 years and my mother has been a housewife the entire time they've been married. I don't know if I should be mad/annoyed since I don't pay to live here because it's basically free! I don't eat here, it's free to shower, I don't watch TV, and I only charge my phone once here and it stays charged at work. I just wish these lazy people would let me rest. |
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