I am 14 and i have a friend in collage who is 20. I tell her a lot of person stuff and she really listens and try's to help. We tell eachother we love eachother. She tells me sometimes that she's worried and she says it will be ok. When friends say I love you to another friend do they really mean it or is it just one of those things you say?

I'm a shy person and I find it hard to deal with those people who talk too much. Like I rather do my work in peace but they insist in engaging in a conversation with me. It's too tiresome for me being around such an energetic person, being an introvert! How to deal with such people or at least get along?

Ok so we both volunteered for a community service project this summer and that's how we met. We didn't often work together but when we did it was always fun. My last day was yesterday, and I know if that wasn't my last day we would become good friends, but now I'll probably never see him again. I found his Facebook account though. -Should I friend him or would that appear stalkerish? -How long should I wait before I friend him so it doesn't seem like I've been stalking him? -If I friend him would it be bad if I messeged him? Sorry for all the questions I just dont know what to do. Hahahaah ....

My friend is 17 years old. He had a girlfriend, but he broke up with her. He told me that he likes this girl. But he keeps telling me things about her. He just got so upset that she has a boyfriend. They were getting to know each other, I meant my friend and her. He's been crying for so many days. I can't do anything to fix it. I would just rather not be his friend anymore, because it's bothering me and I don't want to do that. So how do I make him get over it.

Ok so I was at the gym and all my friends were making fun of me and picking at my muscles saying how small they were and stuff even tho I workout a little and it pissed me off but I didn't do anything about it. Afterwards we went to play basketball and one friend held me down and the other tried punching me. It was really easy to avoid, and I could have punched the hell out of the one holding me for him to let go but I didn't want to hurt him. So they punched me 14 times because ''birthday punches'' even tho my birthday was 10 days ago. And also they call me a rat and other mean stuff. I try to not be their friends but my best friend is their friend and they are always hanging out (well not always but a lot). Please tell me what to do, I really need help. I don't want to hurt someone by punching them, but they will all fight me back. It's only like 2 people.. And they play football.

He stole my stuffed Kermit the Frog. I know it was him. I know that he was capable of it since he also stole someone's iPhone. Yet when I see him, he's still just like, "Hey man, how are you doing?" and pretending to be my friend. What should I say to him?

Well I just cut off my two bestes friends this summer the first one because she basically doesn't care about no one but her boyfriend and the other one I just cut off today because she's been acting different since she start hanging out with both of our ex bestfrewn but now I have no one and school starts back sep 8th The 2nd girl is my bestes friend though because I tell her EVERYTHING I cried to her and she's just always there...but I guess i just want to be too myself for a while

Up. Now let me remind you, these guys are my best friends. They said they wouldn't help me in such a situation and run away. I'm Sikh so were extremely loyal to friendships like risking your life for one another. Then another question came up where if one of them was on their job(movie theater) and I snuck into a movie and no one knew, one of my friend said he would rat me out. I'm not sure if what to make of this. These guys have been my friends for years and I feel as if I shouldn't be anymore. One of these guys I've been knowing since freshman year of Highschool. I just graduated.

Hi, I'm kinda at a point where I don't know what do and I think that the best advice would come from people who I don't know lol. Anyway I'm at a situation where I'm in a rutt in my life socially. To give a background, I've been in high school for 3 years now. I did have quite a lot of friends in my first year but bit by bit I've dwindled where I really only have 1 or 2 friends. I know a good few people but they really think of me as really quiet and boring. Im very self conscious and usually the slightest bit of conversations I have with people all I think about is what they think of me. Anyway, I'm so sick of it and its driven me to almost depression. I know a fair amount of people who are living how I want to live. They have many friends and they head out every week or so to party's or downtown. Im trying to encourage my friend to try and be more outgoing but he's so reluctant and its almost at the point where I think we've grown apart. I just don't know what to do. How do I become friends with these people and so they actually like me as a friend. I'd like to add that please don't give the old fashioned advice. I'm a teenager and the social interactions these days are so different. Everything resolves around how you come across online and in real life. I'd love to get advice from people in or around my age. Thank you

As it's the summer holidays my friends an I have all gone abroad with our families. Obviously I got them something from the country I went too. But the thing is I had to get them at the airport so they cost a fortune. In the end I got three packets of sweets for €2 each. They are about as big as 4 mini haribo packets combined individually. I was going to give one packet to one group of friends, one packet to another and the other packet to another. The thing is all of them have got everyone their own present. So now I'm worrying that they will think I hardly spend anything on my friends when I go abroad and that I don't think that they are worth An individual present! I know that I seem petty and I'm worrying over nothing but it's just really bothering me and I need some advice!

okay so i realized i can keep a convo going and i can talk to people pretty easy but its hard to find peopel to talk to. my problem is i cant put myself in the position to talk to people... i can talk to my roommate fine but he's always out with his gf and my friend from hs is busy with football. (not to mention when i hang with him i feel like an outsider cuz i aint on the team) so yeah i feel like everybody i see has a group of friends already. and its only the second day. classes havent even started yet... please help give me some tips all i ever do is walk to the main center and look around then walk back to my dorm and go on the computer for a while and repeat lol until there is an event. i keep my door open but nobody really says whats up. i am serisously contemplating dropping at semester and going to community college... and its only the second day. please and thanks

or even a regular friend.. I haven't socialized in a long time due to personal reasons..and i was getting bored of being by myself and doing nothing+ realized that my social skills were awful and need to be fixed I don't know what sort of person I want to hang with though. I lost interest in people before because they ended up being really untrustworthy and treated me like dirt But I hate being alone all the time too also my parents are overprotective and don't want me to get taken advantage of. They think I'm better off without friends

I have two friends that ive been hanging around for about 4 years. Im a sophmore goin into junior year of high school. Ive always acted like kind of an idiot, done stupid things, but all out of fun. I think they think im still like that and they always find ways to look at the past and all the stupid things ive done and laugh at me about it. But im trying to change now and be a smarter, more mature, chill friend. How do i do that with them not always looking at my past and making me upset. I also jerk off to them, i have this weird fetish macrophilia and ive taken pictures of their feet and keeping it a secret and making up fantasies that they crush me with their smelly feet. I jerk off to one of them each night but i havent really told them. The first part is really whats important though

My friend is quiet and shy --has some social anxiety. I invited her to my sleepover, making sure to tell her how many people would be there and who all she knew. She seemed chill with it. Then she got to my house and literally hid. She talked with my parents while my friends played video games. She watched youtube with my brother while we watched movies. She sat in the living room while we hung out in the bedroom. I tried to get her to come and hang out, but she insisted that she was fine...When she finally joined us, she wouldn't play any games. Didn't want to watch anything. mostly was just on her phone. What should i have done? Is my mom right in saying i should never invite her to a sleepover again???

We were doing a bonding activity for work. I was right behind me and I felt I was going to fall so I asked if someone could help me. He grabbed my hands, interlocked our fingers and pulled me so I was pressed against his back. Since then I catch him looking at me.

I have been with my girlfriend for the last four years. We have done everything together. There has not been a single day since September 3 of 2011 that we haven't talked to each other. We met in highschool and wow what a blast it was. We've dated all through college and the day before Senior year she ends it. We spent all summer apart while I went to work. She helped me through my parents divorce, the death of a first pet, we lived together for two years, and we have two dogs. She kept one of the dogs and that alone is a lot to handle. I got home from the summer and she didn't feel the same way anymore. I live in a small town where there is only a few things to do and places to go, so I always will run into her. I suffer from chronic depression. I have been to doctors and been prescribed countless medicines and nothing works for me. She was my best friend in the entire world. I thought she was my soul mate and the one for me. I am not a social butterfly and get really bad anxiety from being out in public. My classes only have 5-10 people in them and they're all men. I am four hours away from home. I am truly terrified of ending up alone. I have talked with family members and nothing helps. I have slept 3 hours in 7 days and I have ate less in a week than most eat for an appetizer. The nights are terrible. I was weighing 140 at the beginning of summer and I have lost 23 pounds. I moved in with a friend to help but it is too much to handle. I am so lost.

I'm 15, a hs sophomore (in the U.S.), and I have ALWAYS tried to be as outgoing as possible. Up until I was 13, I was never around anyone but my family (kind of hard to explain, but I usually only saw other people once a month, usually relatives), and I wasn't one of those people who just jumped into society headfirst and started making friends. I was in a private school first (bad decision, cliquey, kids had known each other a long time), then went to public high school, and that's where I've seen most of my problems. I'm asking this because I genuinely want to know, why is it that people say I'm quiet?! I volunteer several hours a week helping children and adults who have physical and mental disabilities, and I always try to strike up conversations with other volunteers, and the kids when I am asked to. I've introduced myself to a lot of workers there, but I'm still known as "the quiet one". I was in a sports camp, talked to all the other kids, held up a long conversation with the teacher several times, and then the next day another instructor asked my mom why I "hated being there". I had actually been having a great time, being really outgoing, and they though I was incredibly quiet. I've introduced myself to a lot of classmates, and am still laughed at when I can't find a classmate for group work, because my school is really social and people tell me they don't want to do group work with me. Please help me! I feel like I'm in a separate world from everyone else!

Will I ruin his birthday >:)

Okay so we have been best friends sense birth and were as close as it gets. buts shes a complete *****. she always makes fun of me and she has the worst attitude problem ive ever seen. everyone i know tells her she has an attitude problem but she doesnt believe it. shes so rude to everyone what can i do because if i even say stop calling me names or something she gets so pissed off. and our parents our best friends so its not like i can not be her friend anymore so what do i do!!!???

I'm 29 year old to meet new friend close my age there any safety website to meet new friends have some one talk too

Hi! I have a very tough decision to make and I really need help. I want to move but I also want to stay at my school. Here's are the pros and cons. If I move, I get a better house, I have a better chance of having a better life and friends BUT I could become a loser at the new school and could risk getting bullied, left out, or getting it worse than I do now. If I stay here, I keep all my friends, I won't have to adjust to new things, BUT I would have to stay living in this gross apartment complex with my family since the houses in our town are extremely pricey and I would have to keep getting slut shamed and I only have two friends and they treat me like complete trash and always fight with me and threaten to ditch me.There my best friends and I'm so scared to lose them. But I also want to leave all this drama behind and move away and become a new person. I won't have any rumors like I do now about me or drama or frenemies, its a fresh slate. But I could end up making NO friends and getting bullied like alot of new kids and that scares me so much. I was super popular at my school until stuff happened, (not to brag) but I am pretty and I have nice clothes if that will make me look better at a new school? But I also have depression, insomnia, anxiety and social anxiety so i dont know. Please help! Should i stay or leave? And if i leave, ADVICE FOR BEING A NEW KID!

So I have this friend and I met her a almost a year ago. She was really nice to begin with but then she slowly showed her true personality. She's a total ***** who has no respect for anyone, talks trash about everyone, and starts fights over nothing cause she is pretty easily angry. She also follows me around and I feel like everyone thinks I'm like her when I'm definitely not. So my only issue is i dont know how to not be her friend cause if I tell her straight up she'll probably start rumors about me just to make herself look innocent so i dont know what to do. Please help

I honestly need some help right now. I started school last Wenesday and it was terrible. I wasn't in the same class as my friends and I hate all my teachers. I tried to ask my parents if I could transfer but they said ""that's life"" that's true logically, but I feel so hurt that I'm not in the same class with my friends and it's hard for me to make new ones...Getting through school is waaay harder without a friend I'm so just so stuck and lost on what to do.

I'm thinking of having a party for my 14th since Christmas is the only holiday I don't have a dance competition in so I wanted a big party but I don't know how many people, to invite at the moment I have 50 25 girls 25 boys but that's at a push since some of the girls I've not spoken to all summer holiday and them well be in different classes next year so idk about that or I could like 40ish which I think is a few more girls than boys but that's all people I know pretty well I was hoping for it just to be dancing so book a hall for a couple of hour cover all the walls with these big cheap rolls of paper and buy some spray paint in neon and just decorate with that as for food and drink, food either a couple of bowls of crisps or none at all and drink just bottles of coke sprite fanta me and my friends all have our own beer but some people coming don't/can't drink so we wouldn't have it on display for their comfort as for music my best friend has an enormous pair of speakers so we can just use that and get lasers and lights and things all from friends or Amazon would this work/is this a good idea??? Orr should I try and think of something else for my group of four to do? my group is all girls though and there all my best friends who are guys I really want to see as well?!?!?!? WHAT TO DO, I'm so sorry for any spelling mistakes I've taken out my contacts and my glasses aren't on me right now

Hi.I am super stuck on this one and i don't know why my parents are thinking the way they are thinking. We have 4 car's and they are pushing me to get one (i don't want a car that bad since we have 4) My argument is that since we have 4 car's i do not need one, bikes get better mpg, for the amount of money you could spend on a car you could get a higher quality bike, i don't get out of the house that much, so i only need something for school/work, also i am responsible and have been driving for 2 years and never got into a accident of any kind. There comeback is that i need the experience of buying a car. i don't get it

He used to be a very bright guy we met in childhood when my mom introduced me to her friend's son. I was 5 at that time and he was 6. He was a very bright person and I remember we spent lots of time together when he was older. By the age of 8 I had to leave to another country with my parents. He gave me a present which was an angel and told me to protect myself myself he also told me he liked me more than a friend. But being such a young age I never had any thoughts that he liked me and didn't pay any attention to him. By the age of 12 and when I was 11 he told me that he loved me in a jokingly way. By then I had feelings for him too but I played it off cool. Then I started to see his bad habits when we invited me to come with him to the museum he wondered off somewhere leaving me with his mom for which I was kind of mad because I had other things to do and I thought he would at least walk with me. Now I'm 14 and he's 15. He hasn't spoken to me for 3 years and has gone all badass.. he doesn't even think of me as his friend anymore although I was always there for him when people bullied him I gave him strength it was true I had always been video game obsessed but I was also a bright person at sports. The only thing that happened with me was that I lost all of my great communication skills and developed a slight complex while talking with people where I'm really shy due to people bullying me in another country.. I'll write an update because I'm out of space. I know I might have lost him to other people and I might have lost him because of me having to move to another country due to the reason my parents got a job there.. but what I'm saying is I haven't done anything wrong I've been always there for him.. he never got attention from anyone apart from me back in those days but I just didn't think of him as I think of him now I didn't even know he liked me.. Another thing is.. when he started getting attention from other girls he completely changed.....he's a cold person know thinking he's so cool and that he owns the world just because he got lucky in his new school...it's true he's actually a really good looking person but I've never though his personality would change so quickly because of other people.. he used to smile everyday but now his photos are barely a smile only a smirk on his face... The thing that hurts me the most is that he doesn't support me like I supported him he doesn't even acknowledge the fact I was his best friend and that I was there for him....nor does he speak to me anymore he's become a completely different person..I saw him last year when I was back with my family.. but I didn't want to confront him, he didn't even see that I saw him so I didn't tell my mom and we didn't approach him...

We've hung out for over 6 years but for the past two years I've wanted to end it. We've had sleepovers, gone to concerts and she was even at my dad's funeral. She is sweet and naive. There is nothing wrong with her perse it's just I don't want to be friends. She considers us best friends but I never felt the same. We see each other maybe 5/6 times a year because I make excuses. I am by no means a best friend but she has like no other friends. Honestly I am just antisocial and never wanted a best friend we don't even go to the same school. I told my mom I wanted to end it a year ago but she said I was cruel and heartless. My 'bff' is a very insecure girl and she always tells me about friends at school who dumped her and how they all secretly hate her. I do care about her feelings but our friendship feels so forced on my end. I don't know how to end it because she's done nothing wrong and I know this will crush her... I am not an *** this relationship is unhealthy I have extreme social anxiety. I am no good for her. She has many. Problems j can't disclose. If I was a horrible person I wouldn't ask for advice on how not to hurt her feelings.

I'm a senior in high school and I'm a little shy but I still have friends a lot of people talk to me and hang out with me at lunch but they never invite me to parties or to hang or anything. I'm 17 and I've never been to a party or even had a girlfriend how can I get out of my comfort zone and enjoy myself?

Ok, so we're a group of 8 girls. We're all different from each other. We have very few things in common but somehow we stick together. Anyway, one of them, who suddenly appeared in the group, is copying us. There are two of us who love bands and supposedly now she 'likes' them. We were assigned to write about someone famous and she told us she would write about Sleeping With Sirens even though she doesn't even listen to them. Then there's 3 of us who love anime. And now she's saying she loves it and she's all asking us what anime she should watch next. Then there's one of us who loves Korean drama and guess what? Yes. She watches it now. She says, "I wanna go home now to watch my k drama." She heard my friend say that she would dye her hair purple and now she's gonna do it too .-. Now she even likes her crush!! I want to tell her to stop with the copying and just be herself but I feel like I'm too nice XD I feel like we would like her more if she shared with us what she REALLY likes. We all have different tastes and we're all really good friends. At an attempt to make us like her, she's making us DISLIKE her. Oh the irony. Her cousin also has like emo-ish hair. Hm now SHE has emo-ish hair.

I know he likes me as more than a friend and I like him, but we've both recently gotten out of relationships and I don't want to start another one yet. So I want to get him something that shows I value his friendship, but not something a girlfriends would get him. Any ideas?

I'm a senior in high school and I'm a little shy but I still have friends a lot of people talk to me and hang out with me at lunch but they never invite me to parties or to hang or anything. I'm 17 and I've never been to a party or even had a girlfriend how can I get out of my comfort zone and enjoy myself?

So im a sophmore and i have trouble making friends. Its not cuz im weird or anything its cuz im kinda awkward and am afraid of talking to new people

There's a girl who I can't stand in my friend group. The easiest thing to do would just be to avoid her, but I can't do that. She's in my group of close friends, and I like everyone in my group except for her. She and I used to be friends, but she never was really even nice to me. But all of a sudden she started kicking me to the curb. I still have no idea why she did that but she seemed to become obsessed with everyone else in the group (maybe to make me feel left out?). Anyway, so I asked around with a few people who were "friends" with her, and they all said that she gave no explanation as to why she unfriended me and she was very vague about it, probably meaning that SHE doesn't even know why. A few of these people said that they have always thought that she was jealous of me (I know that sounds very conceited). So the new school year is now coming up, and we're going into high school. I would like to remain friends with my group, but I realize this might be hard. I have a couple of classes with her and I know there's going to be awkward tension between us. I don't want any drama or enemies so I'm not going to be mean to her. I don't want to become good friends with her per se, but I would like to be on better terms with her so we can at least talk. I could really use some advice on how to convince her that we can be mutual friends. Thanks :D

want to write a story but I'm wondering if this is too much/ too busy for one novel. It's about a teen girl who has died and went to Heaven and was told her little sister would join her soon, so the teen,Kurisu escapes Heaven Because Kurisu is socially awkward she talks Itsuko into coming with her. Itsuko's organs were donated when she died in a car accident due to a "will" Itsuko left . Itsuko had a friend named Jun who needed a heart transplant which is why Itsuko made that will. Her older sister Chihiro now holds resentment towards Jun and Lia, who introduced Chihiro and Itsuko to Jun. When Itsuko arrives back on Earth she will see the good and the bad that her will left. (Her other organs went to other people, she'll meet some of those people. Kurisu and her little sister Mayuri were in a fire and Mayuri's body was comepletely burnt but she was still alive. Kurisu was brain dead after part of the roof of the burning house collapsed on her head but her body only suffered minor burns. Both bodies were recovered and in a last ditch effort to save Mayuri they transplanted her brain into Kurisu's body. This procedure is very new and doctors knew it would only keep Mayuri alive for a year before the body rejects the brain (Until then they'd use a treatment that allows the brain to trick the body into working for it be the treatment is temporary.Mayuri knows but Kurisu does not Kurisu and Itsuko look after MAyuri at school and Itsuko learns about whather will did and Mayuri

I don't have friends. I'm scared and really shy to talk to people. I get hurt easily. How do I be brave? I feel so lonely.Sometimes I even cry from loneliness. Please help!!! I'm an Indian too.

i became friends with a boy a couple years older than me recently and he's always sad when i text him, he also cuts sometimes. i used to selfharm so i sorta know how to help but i do not want to let him down because when i said id help him, he told me that everyone says that to him and everyone lies! when i selfharmed one of my friends helped me and it was the absolute best thing. i want to help my friend feel better. :c serious answers only please!! thank you!

My best friend have been friends since we were 14. We're both 24 now. A taurus and a cancer, so we get along amazingly and we are very much alike in every single thing and have a the same views, etc. Anyway, we were thinking of moving out of state. Would you recommend moving in with your best friend? (We're both female, btw)

Ever since elementary school I've had anxiety whenever I had to socialize and throughout my life i've only had about 2 friends (I only talked to them at school) each school year. My parents always tell me I need to have friends (I would if I didn't always have an anxiety attack whenever I actually have to talk to people.) I want to have friends, I'm going into my second year of high school and I feel like this is ruining my high school experience. I dress normal for the people at my school and I always look neat and clean, so theres no reason I shouldn't have actual friends except that I'm shy and have social anxiety! I really need advice on how to get over this, I could ask my parents to take me to see a doctor so I could get a medication but then that involves counseling and therapy and I have anxiety when I have to go to counseling. Please help.

i am a father of three and I enjoy anything outdoors my three kids are my like I was a firefighter for twelve years and don't miss it all that much I do however miss the being off a lot and helping people I have always been a people pleaser and will die that way in sure I have some goal for gods plan just don't know what it is uet

My friend is an attention seeking whore girl. Ever since I've known her she's dressed goth and I always tried to make her dress like a normal person but she says "it's just not right" ugh. Anyways I spied on her once and saw her self harming and it made me angry because she has no reason to be sad. I then looked through her notebooks (she's homeschooled) and she talks about how she misses her parents and sh*t and how she wants to die because she feels like she's worthless (she gets bullied but it's really not that bad) and I found out she was raped countless times but it's her fault for trusting every douche she meets. And I spied on her again and saw multiple self harm marks and cuts and bruises on her and I just couldn't be friends with her anymore. She talks about this stuff to her emoish boyfriend and he feeds into this sh*t. If she was a true sufferer she wouldn't be talking about this stuff. I suffered worse then her yet I'm not attention seeking. What do I do? Oh and she's 14 and I'm 16.

Basically she was bossing me around and I felt like whenever I was around her I couldn't be friends with anyone else or she would be mad. So I confided in a group of my other friends because I was really upset and one of my friends told her that I'd said bad things about her. We had a big falling out right before school ended and I haven't seen or spoken to her since June. I've learned my lesson of course that I just shouldn't say a single thing to anyone because they will betray your trust eventually, but my main question is, seeing as we have a lot of classes together and we both join a lot of the same after school programs, how do I approach her/deal with the situation? I don't want to be best friends anymore and she doesn't either I guess but how do I deal with the awkwardness or make it so that there are no more hard feelings? We spoke about it and I apologized but things won't be the same of course. She's friends with some of my friends so what do I do?

I don't have many friends because I would much rather study at home, hoping to become a professional someday. The friends I do have do not live near me so we talk over fb/ig PLUS we have been friends for years. It is really difficult for me to make new friends because I don't like putting myself out there. And when I do, people usually have their own group already or think I'm unwelcoming. In other words, I don't fit in anywhere and wonder if I ever will.

A lot of my friends are Gemini, libra, and Virgo

A few months ago, I was in a tough situation and had to relocate for my job. It was tough affording rent to find an apartment close to my job so I got a roommate to help pay rent. He was an old friend of my brother's who was in a similar situation as me so he agreed to live with me, so even though I didn't know him too well, I gave it a shot. Anytime we're home at the same time, he refuses to speak to me. He usually locks himself in his room and anytime we cross paths, he won't speak to me. And when I do see him, he's always just in his underwear or a speedo. Here's where it gets really weird: He takes all the labels off the food in the kitchen and re-labels the food with black marker with my name. My first name is Corey. Here's a few examples. On the peanut butter, he took the label off and re-labeled it "Corey's Premium Peanut Butter". On the ketchup, he labeled it "Corey's Country Style Ketchup". On the mustard he labeled it "Corey's Yellow Mustard". And on the back of the mustard, he made up a story and made his own label saying "Corey's Yellow Mustard has been serving the community since 1947. Corey believes the customer is always right and he always strives to make the perfect mustard". My girlfriend came over last night and all the food was re-labeled and she was really freaked out. So what should I do? It's to the point where I'm afraid to try to speak to this weirdo.

I'm really worried about it I haven't had to make new friends in 3 years.so I'm wondering if u did and how u went about it I'm really nervous.

I was best friends with this girl for about 13 years.. When she moved in with her boyfriend she suddenly kept away from me.. Everytime i would call she would say she hangs out with her sisters friends now and never invites me.. she would never come to anything i invited. Worst thing she would start being catty with me..and make fun of me in a joking way.. I just didnt hear from her for a long time and accepted the friendship was over.. all of a sudden i started gettig bombed with emails, phones, etc,, she showed up at my parents house saying shes pregnant and wants to contact me.. I just never replied. is this bad or ok? I tried talking to her in the past on why she ignores me and did i do anything, never got an answer.

I've been at high school for almost a month now and it's making me really lonely. None of my old friends go to my school. I do talk to people but I usually keep to myself.. The problem is school isn't even that bad. All my days are pretty good but then I get home and feel so sad. I don't even know why. It might be the fact I dont have any one to sit with at lunch, but I like that because it means I have no homework. Clubs are starting next week and a lot of them are things I like. Do you think joining these clubs will make me feel less lonely? Also I'm not even close to failing so do you think that's a benefit of being lonely?

She's always questioning what all of us 4 kids are doing, she never gives us any space even if we are going to the bathroom she stands outside the door asking what we are doing as if we are all on drugs which we aren't! We can't even lay in our rooms by ourselves without her barging in asking "what are you doing?" None of use even have a history of doing anything awful and she still walks around like a prison guard.

My friend sometimes has a habit of saying embarrassing things about me in a group and then she will insult me and then play it off as a joke and say 'only joking, love you really' One time it was me, her and 2 other girls in our group and I accidentally said something embarrassing about my life and she repeated it in a mocking way saying that she would never say that and then laughed and the other two girls laughed and she then played it off as a joke I'm also really tall and I'm the tallest girl in our group so when we were all sitting together I couldnt fit my legs under the table so the other girls said 'it's because your so tall' but she said 'you're so lanky' in an agressive way Sometimes especially if one of the girls comes up to me and hugs me or lots of people pay me attention she will walk ahead of me aggressively and I have to catch up with her. Sometimes she will obsessively follow me around at school though. When it's just me and her on our own she is nice to me Why does she call me lanky in front of others?

My best friend and I have pretty honest relationship. We're opposites but we can talk about almost everything. She is more optimistic and extroverted and I am more introverted and a huge pessimist. Basically, we are like Martin Hart (her) and Rustin Cohle (me). When we liked the same guy we agreed on what to do, although it was me giving up on them both times because I either liked somebody else more at moment or wasn't that interested while she was almost in love. So as you may see, communication is not a problem for us. Still, the other two times when I said that I really liked a guy, she put her energy into befriending him/them as soon as possible. Next time we saw them she hogged their attention which she didn't do before. If she liked them, I'd know. Plus, she has a boyfriend. She didn't befriend them to help me either. If she did she'd feed me information and stuff. Now she turned the guy I liked into her male bff and I feel uncomfortable trying anything with him. I had pretty bad and similar experience before so this might be me being overly cautious or something is actually going on. If this happens the tired time, I'll talk to her but for now I'm at loss.

im going for a weekend out of town with my friends but im really depressed and not in the mood.i dont want to be a debbie downer but i really cant bare to fake being happy what do i do?

So my brother and his freinds always steal money from me last week my brother and one of his freinds said they were going to a church fund rasiar and my brother said he needed money to borrow I didn t want to let him borrow it but my mom made me and then it turns out he didn t go to a church he and his friend went to mcdonalds and spent my money for food and he still hasn t paid me back. Also him and his friend take paint ball guns and say if I don t give them money thell shoot me so I have to give them money also some Times they just walk into my room and steal it I can t stop them becaus they are older and stronger. Also last week I was on the Xbox and he comes in the room and says get off my Xbox it s not even his it s both of ours. This doesn t just happen one time they take money grime me about once a week and other ****... WHAT DO I DO?!?!?

My friends all are really nice, and when I see them at school we talk a lot, but if I text them asking them to hang out with me they ignore it. Every. Single. Friend. They answer any other texts, they just don't answer THOSE texts. I am an extrovert and I don't like staying at home. What should I do?

I have like 6 friends at and school i have 9 friends from teens social night. I have alot of friend from school on facebook Can you and me any clubs and any places i can meet new people outside of school? I have 3 friends from karate

Ok, so there's friend A and friend B. I have been friends with them both for 6 years now. Friend A and friend B have known each other for 14 years. The past 6 years the three of us have always been a trio and are so close. However, this year they have been excluding me so much and it really hurts me! They have went on holiday with each other's families (twice!) and are going to parties etc and not inviting me along. They are going out with people and not inviting me. Friend A was looking at my snapchat friends and went 'Oh, some of them are mine and friend B's friends!' That really hurt because it felt like I wasn't allowed to be friends with their other so called 'friends'! They both got asked to prom and I didn't so I didn't go. Now I feel like I am just pushed to the side a lot and I've cried many times over this! I feel so excluded! However, I am not the type of person to just throw them away and make new friends, it's not something I would do! I love them and would do anything for them! And I'm also not the type of person to confront them about the situation because they'd tell me I was overreacting! Please help me, I hate feeling this way. We're all 17.

School sucks and I go back from Summer vacation on the 25th of August What should I do to have the most fun before I go back I mean I have alot of Outdoor Opertunities cause I live in the Mountains well more like the foothills of them And I dont want to waste these days can someone give me the best ideas??

Ok I hang out with a group of friends only at lunch (we are all girls & are in 8th grade). In total 8 girls, including me. I'm mostly quiet because none of them share the same interests as I do and they are really into drama, which I'm not. Most of the time they don't include me, only one person tries to but on random moments. It seems like they are all close to eachother but I'm just there. When they do include me, they look at me as if Im a shy puppy. If they were to truly know me, they would know that Im not so shy. I've known them since elementary school and I dont know if I should stick with them threw highschool and try to open up more or go to a different school and try to meet new friends.