Marriage & Divorce: Question: What would be an example of a public/structural Issue? |
- Question: What would be an example of a public/structural Issue?
- Question: Very serious question about divorced parents?
- Question: I'm luisa velez husband shes decease as of 2/18/2015 don't need emails anymore. thank you?
- Question: What reason is there to stay with a wife of 3 years with no kids who had sex with her husbands father and step mom in a threesome?
- Question: What would you do if you really wanted a child but your husband was unable to raise it due to his disability?
- Question: Is archie brewer cheating on his wife?
- Question: Is it okay for my fiancé/husband to talk to,text,or hang out with a girl he had sex with before,during,or after being engaged to you??
- Question: As a wife, can I refuse my husband?
- Question: Is a marriage in an Egyptian mosque counted as a legal marriage in the u.s.?
- Question: Ladies, what are you more attracted to? This or that?
- Question: Wife who has a restraining order on me cashed a check mailed to her address that was made out to me. It was under $500 can I do anything?
- Question: How long do you have to have sex for a guy to ***? do you have to thrust? for a long time?
- Question: How would you feel if your husband (28) was going to be the manager of his ex gf (19) one or two days a week?
- Question: Do you have to get an appointment in AZ to have a justice of peace wedding?
- Question: Do people even take marriage serious anymore? If you feel like you have to cheat just stay single and don't get married to hurt your spouse?
- Question: How should I let my family know that I'm getting married soon when I already have two sisters getting married?
- Question: Should I appreciate the birthday gesture from my ex husband or should I blow it off?
- Question: How do I file a response to divorce to deny ex wife's attempt at sole custody?
- Question: My girlfriend doesnt seem to care about me or our long term relationship i need some honest opinions please?
- Question: I m trying to stop swearing (at least so frequently) and I keep failing?
- Question: Can I put my lights in my wife name to avoid a switch hold if we want to change companies?
- Question: Meddling ex wife and friends should I take him back?
- Question: Husband wants unreasonable demands.?
- Question: Should a married man be calling the hospital room of a female coworker without his wife's knowledge'?
- Question: Can you force your spouse to put money in the joint account?
- Question: How long can it take to get a divorce in arkansas?
- Question: When is it necessary to refer to your partner as MY WIFE or MY HUSBAND vs. my man or my woman?
- Question: Can my husband s ex wife go after his pension that he didn t have at the time of divorce?
- Question: Can you file for divorce without completing one year separation?
- Question: My ex just got married, wants his wife to pick up our child?
- Question: Quick question for the guys?
- Question: What if i was 16 and that person groomed me and then married me?
- Question: Do kids ruin a woman's body?
- Question: If all men did dance, cheerleading, and gymnastics alongside women, do you think marrired relationships would weaken due to similarities?
- Question: Should I appreciate the birthday gesture from my ex husband or should I just blow it off?
- Question: Birthday idea for my Wife??
- Question: Husband unhappy about me traveling without him, cause for concern?
- Question: What can I do to fix my marriage and remove this person?
- Question: What would you do if your spouse behaved this way during an argument or discussion?
- Question: Rejection hurts… how do I get over that?
- Question: Would you rather win an argument with your spouse so you can feel good/validated? Or lose so you can understand life?
- Question: Wife doesn't want to ride says it's too hot .Should I go in the car with her or ride alone?
- Question: When two people decide to get married, is it more common for the newly weds to feel they found a "prize" spouse or a respectable spouse?
- Question: Should I move on from a man I am dating who desires me dearly but is emotionally abusive?
- Question: Wrong thing to do?
- Question: Is marriage a result of "winning" or is it the result of two classy people making the educated decision to have a monogamous partnership?
- Question: Get recent ex-wife a birthday present?
- Question: In a marriage, how often is a good amount for sex?
- Question: Why wife cheated?
- Question: Is it too much to expect my wife to do what a house wife does?
- Question: I like fantasizing and making my wife fantasizing she's sleeping with other men?
- Question: Are people really happy after divorce or is it just an act?
- Question: My husband doesn't trust me with our finances?
| Question: What would be an example of a public/structural Issue? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:56 PM PDT Divorce rate during the first four years of marriage is 250 out of every 1000 marriages How someone personally survives in war When one person is unemployed in a city of 100,000 When an upper class family moves into a home with an underground garage in order to avoid car theft |
| Question: Very serious question about divorced parents? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:56 PM PDT Hi. I have a very serious question that needs a really really honest and serious question. First of all, I am a 14 year old BOY. My parents are divorced for about 7/8 years now. I don't know about these divorce stuff before and now I realized something. My life has been really difficult with my parents apart. I have 3 siblings, 1 older, and 2 younger. My older sibling lives with my mom, which my mom is married to another guy, and he is nice. He is nice, and he also is divorced with his previous wife and has 2 kids that are about my age. I don't seriously know how to handle my life anymore since its already hard for me since i am in high school right now and we have been having troubles about it. I have been thinking about lately if my parents have been together since the beginning then these types of problems would not occur. Well I get how my mom loves her husband. My dad is single, and he is really into my mother! My mother sometimes asks me if i want them to get back. I say no because she would say that it cant happen because she loves her husband, which i can tell and it would also not work because my parents fight a lot. I just want to ask a question if they have a chance to get back because i hate seeing my family apart and leaving my dad's side or my mom's. Lets say they come back together because of me, i would feel really guilty. But i would also like it at the same time! Please help me! I just want my family together! I cant explain but it hurts me inside :( |
| Question: I'm luisa velez husband shes decease as of 2/18/2015 don't need emails anymore. thank you? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:53 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:16 PM PDT I can think of none but I have met many women who wouldn't disappoint in finding some rationalization for why he should stay or why he is at fault for what happened. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uGIx06WzAuw |
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| Question: Is archie brewer cheating on his wife? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 07:35 PM PDT |
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| Question: As a wife, can I refuse my husband? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 07:13 PM PDT Is it okay to never want sex again, be A-sexual, I'm too tired, it's work, I move my stuff to another bedroom..if he cheats on me is it his fault? Why can't he stay faithful and just..not have sex? |
| Question: Is a marriage in an Egyptian mosque counted as a legal marriage in the u.s.? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 07:12 PM PDT I want to marry my husband in Egypt at a mosque. He is Egyptian and currently lives there. We see this as the best option but is it counted as a legal marriage in the u.s.? we eventually want to move back and don't want to make anything more complicated than it needs to be. |
| Question: Ladies, what are you more attracted to? This or that? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 07:08 PM PDT to a man whose 5'8, bald but shaven, and is a registered Nurse? Or the guy whose 6'4 and works in a mail room on Broadway? Both are in good shape. The shorter guy was once and suicidal over a long term relationship that had a bad break up, but got help after he made an attempt. Even tried out for the Marines, but even though he was medically cleared he was taken out of training due to his past (lied to get in). Now hes using what he learned to help others in need. Hes very relax person, and knows how to make you laugh even when you know you shouldn't. Also is great with kids. He still lives at home but will move out in a year (cause student loans) after saving a years worth of pay. Nursing pays between 70 to 90 thousand a year in NYC. The tall guy has a small temper problem and smokes. Mostly copies any jokes he has from internet, and the shows he delivers mail to. He makes around between 40 to 50 thousand a year, and rents a apartment in Brooklyn. Went to college for two years, but hasn't done much with it, besides write a book that didn't sell well. I ask here since people who are getting married tend to be more mature and understanding than the younger crowd in Singles and dating. |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 07:02 PM PDT Still married no divorce or seperation filled. She deposited a check from sprint made out to me in her bank account she didnt sign it just put deposit only. In the past I have let her use my debit card and cash checks in her account if that matters. |
| Question: How long do you have to have sex for a guy to ***? do you have to thrust? for a long time? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 06:42 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 06:36 PM PDT My husband and I separated for a few months where he started dating someone at his work. At that time he wasn't her manager but he was training to be one. Well they broke up and we got back together. A lot has happened between me and this girl and I am just now starting to not hate my husband with all my being. I saw their sex tape and she threw a coke on me in front of my daughter at a restaurant. Well now he is supposed to be her manager for one or two days a week. I don't think I can be with him if this happens. I feel like I'm just now starting to get over things between him and her and this will completely ruin all the work I've done to forget everything. What do you think? |
| Question: Do you have to get an appointment in AZ to have a justice of peace wedding? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 05:32 PM PDT Basically what the question says. |
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| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 04:12 PM PDT Here's the situation...I'm in my 30s and live with my fiancé and son (prior relationship). We were originally planning to get married and then have children together sometime in the future. Recently we found out we're pregnant so we have firmly decided to move up our plans to marry. (NOTE: Marrying before the baby is born is VERY important to me and I will NOT be swayed on this. Please refrain from any snarks about sex before marriage, as my fiancé and I are both grown adults and very happy about this baby) We are very excited to get married very soon, prior to announcing our pregnancy at the beginning of the second trimester. We are planning a very small, quaint private ceremony next month (not much more than eloping) and hope to have a larger, more conventional wedding + reception a year or so later when we have more time and money. We want to get married and even if the pregnancy does not prove viable we still want to get married and try again for a baby. |
| Question: Should I appreciate the birthday gesture from my ex husband or should I blow it off? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:55 PM PDT my ex husband and I broke up 4 months ago. We had previously divorce but decided to try to make it work which ultimately failed. I left him again and have done ever precautions to erase the man from my memory. He was abusive to me in our marriage which led to our divorce. I'm not the type to hold grudges because the man have paid for his actions and was a completely different man the second go round. I just didn't love him anymore. A couple of hours ago I received a birthday card from him and a $40 gift card from red lobster, the card and nothing written in it. The side note included him saying just wanted to say a simple happy birthday in appreciation on how you treated me for my previous birthday. On his birthday I bought him a card, took him to the museum and the cheesecake factory. We haven't spoken since the split and when he tried to reach me I ignored him. Update: I forgot to mention he in the letter he also said that I can throw the card if I don't want it |
| Question: How do I file a response to divorce to deny ex wife's attempt at sole custody? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:44 PM PDT My ex and I have been separated for over a year. She moved to Maryland with my kids in June and sent them to live with me, in Texas, in December because she couldn't take care of them and they have been with me ever since. She recently came to Texas on a surprise visit and filed for divorce and sole custody after being gone for 8 months. I need to respond but the form I found online doesnt specify any custody arrangement I want. I am desperate to keep my kids with me in their home, but I dont want to sign a response that doesn't even ask about custody. Thr form says "general denial" and I dont know what that means, or if that objects to the custody she seeks. If any body has any advice, I would greatly appreciate it. |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:24 PM PDT Me and my girlfriend have been togather for 5 years now, we have always had our little bumps here and there, she says im to strict and she feels like shes dateing her dad . According to her if i ask her not to wear a top that shows to much belly or really short shorts im over reacting. Plus i work 12 to 13hr shifts so sometimes when i come and i see the house a little dirty i get upset not considering the fact she doesnt work or go to school. Now just 3 months ago we had a baby and it feels like things just plundged for the worst she doesnt seem to care about my opinion any more she thinks its okay to bring her sister into my home for weeks at a time not realizing that no matter how little she eats or uses the utilities that its an extra person i have to pay for. Or whenever we have an arguement she got the habbit of leaving to her moms house for days at a time, and when i have tried to tell her that we have to work things out for our son she doesnt seem to care she says its to late thats not the example i want to set for my child and i really do love this person idk what to do anymore i feel like my relationship is going down the drain fast |
| Question: I m trying to stop swearing (at least so frequently) and I keep failing? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:21 PM PDT My wife and I have been married for about 5 months now. She has told me for a long time that I swear too much and that she would like me to stop. I have tried many times to accomplish this but I have only been successful at quick fixes. I find it increasingly difficult to control my swearing especially when something really upsets me, this is when she is most upset with me for not controlling my language. I love my wife very much and I don t want our marriage to fall apart over something which should be so simple. But I just do not know how to do this in the long run. I grew up around swearing, (family, friends, movies, etc.) you name it. It s become so much apart of my vocabulary over the years and breaking out of that habit seems nearly impossible and even strange at times. Has anyone ever encountered something like this and overcome it? If so, your insight is invaluable and I d love to hear how you succeeded, thank you. |
| Question: Can I put my lights in my wife name to avoid a switch hold if we want to change companies? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:20 PM PDT |
| Question: Meddling ex wife and friends should I take him back? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:18 PM PDT I was 5 months pregnant when my ex started pulling away . He wouldn't talk to me and he told me one day he was dumping me. We had been together 3 years and were living together . I later found out a friend told him to dump me and his ex wife . He came back to apologise saying his friend admitted he was jealous as he couldn't have kids and his ex wife had an abortion and was jealous too but he's sorry he listened . I'm so hurt I'm struggling to forgive what he did . |
| Question: Husband wants unreasonable demands.? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:16 PM PDT We've been married for 10 months. My husband & I both have low paying jobs. We gross about $2000 each paycheck. He has a full time job that's pays $12 an hour. I have a part time job that pays the same. I do most of the cleaning & cooking plus pay the bills. We have no car & are in the process of buying 1 car. My parents drop us off at work & we pay them money. Recently he told today he would like for me to get a full time job. I told him we in since were getting 1 car. How is that possible when our schedules would conflict. My parents stated they will not take me to work anywhere else in since my mom works at the same place as me. My father cannot absolutely do it. My husband works early in the morning 6 days a week. Their are not many jobs that I can walk to around. I told maybe we get 2 cars I could find something better. I love my job & don't want to leave. We don't have degrees from college so the best you can find is something a full time job that's works you hard. I searched for job & didn't get any. I told him if I have to find a higher paying job then so does he. He complaints & says he doing everything he can. So am I. We stopped arguing & will have a car in s comments weeks. I know people on here will say car pool, that's usually only last until something hits the fan and people get tired. |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:15 PM PDT I don't know the woman and did not know he was friends with her. He had never mentioned her name in any of our conversations. When I asked him why the woman called him at 7:45am in the morning, he said he had called to check on her because she had Total Knee Surgery and she was just returning his call. He said she was out of it the first time he called. He said he had known her for over thirty years I feel like he stepped out of bounds and that a card from the 2 of us would have been sufficient. |
| Question: Can you force your spouse to put money in the joint account? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:12 PM PDT If your spouse works full time but you never see the money and he stopped putting the paycheck into the joint account, can you legally force him to? I know you can get support and child support in a divorce if that is the last resort. Seriously you need to divorce to get financial support? If you go to court and they get an order to pay you can. |
| Question: How long can it take to get a divorce in arkansas? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 03:06 PM PDT |
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| Question: Can my husband s ex wife go after his pension that he didn t have at the time of divorce? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Can you file for divorce without completing one year separation? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:30 PM PDT in Ontario, Canada |
| Question: My ex just got married, wants his wife to pick up our child? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:26 PM PDT My ex just met a woman and got married within a 6 month period. I have barely seen the woman who is now helping take care of my child on the weekends (part custody) and he wants me to list her on the school form as an emergency pickup. I don't know anything about her. She could be nuts. She won't meet me. If I do this, she can pick up my child alone at the school and leave. Would you sign it? Ty |
| Question: Quick question for the guys? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:20 PM PDT Why do men normally date and marry skinny chicks but then play the bigger girls with more curves? |
| Question: What if i was 16 and that person groomed me and then married me? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:16 PM PDT |
| Question: Do kids ruin a woman's body? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:11 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:09 PM PDT Part of the reason why marriage even works is because you and your spouse didn't have the same experiences so you could use the excuse "Well, men and women are different so you'll have to just trust me when it comes to men things". But if men and women WEREN'T different, but instead they were raised/cultured/socialized the same, how might that impact how they behave in a relationship as a married couple? Do you think they would argue over who gets to go to Zumba class and not watch the Baby? Or do you think one person would get bored and start watching sports and recreate the traditional dynamic? How do you think it would work out? Maybe my example was stretching it though; I guess imagine if girls did traditionally boy things like played football, soccer, basketball, mudbogged, shot guns (for you rednecks out there), hacked computers (for us geeks out there), and even went to the bar/club and pointed out who had the hottest body. Would you marry a woman like that? And if you would (because a woman she has a great personality/behavior), then what would you do if you were forced into submission by her in the bedroom since she was so masculine? |
| Question: Should I appreciate the birthday gesture from my ex husband or should I just blow it off? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 02:05 PM PDT my ex husband and I broke up 4 months ago. We had previously divorce but decided to try to make it work which ultimately failed. I left him again and have done ever precautions to erase the man from my memory. He was abusive to me in our marriage which led to our divorce. I'm not the type to hold grudges because the man have paid for his actions and was a completely different man the second go round. I just didn't love him anymore. A couple of hours ago I received a birthday card from him and a $40 gift card from red lobster, the card and nothing written in it. The side note included him saying just wanted to say a simple happy birthday in appreciation on how you treated me for my previous birthday. On his birthday I bought him a card, took him to the museum and the cheesecake factory. We haven't spoken since the split and when he tried to reach me I ignored him. Update: I forgot to mention he in the letter he also said that I can throw the card if I don't want it |
| Question: Birthday idea for my Wife?? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 01:51 PM PDT She is turning 26 on the labor day weekend, we are newlyweds (1 month) and of course, we just moved to Washington DC 3 weeks ago. I need help, she just started Medschoold so she has 80 new friends, but they are not as close to make plans with them; Im already working but don't know much people around my age, so that' why it has to be just the 2 of us. Needless to say we are on a budget now after the weeding. I need advise, I want her to have a good time that weekend, any idea could help. (day trips, restaurants, events, places to hang out, bars, etc) |
| Question: Husband unhappy about me traveling without him, cause for concern? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 11:45 AM PDT We have never had trust issues at any point. A single girlfriend of mine moved to a new city and has asked me to come visit for her birthday weekend. My husband's response was "I'm not comfortable with you traveling without me there" but I feel like it's more than just that? When I've told him I will be perfectly safe he just replies that he is still uncomfortable and can't she come here? He knows this woman, it's not an issue with her. But he just keeps stressing his discomfort with me traveling while he stays behind. Any words of wisdom to get to the bottom of this without sparking an argument? |
| Question: What can I do to fix my marriage and remove this person? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 11:06 AM PDT My marriage was going through problems. I emotionally hurt my wife. Another man from another country, India, took advantage of the situation and made me to be the bad person. He convinced my wife that I wasn't meant for her and that he is. He is now controlling my wife by having her send him money and cloths. He told her to break all communication with me and to avoid me. He keeps telling her to divorce me and to marry him right away. My wife really believes she is in love with him, that God has bought him to her life. I know I did wrong and I repent for what I did. I really do love my wife. We have been married for 15 years. We would have problems before and settle them, but now there a foreigner that has come in between our marriage manipulating her. What can I do to save my marriage and remove this middle person? Thanks. |
| Question: What would you do if your spouse behaved this way during an argument or discussion? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT My husband does things during an argument that make me feel so small and smothered and like I can't say what I really think. If we are discussing something and I don't agree, he spends the next several minutes or sometimes hour telling why I shouldn't feel how I do or making me feel guilty for my feelings. Then if I try to stick to my own feelings and be true to myself, by explaining myself more, he gets angry. He will raise his voice, and even point his finger right in my face. At that point I get angry. Sometimes I just stand there and let him lecture me, then go to bed feeling angry. Or, I stand up for myself and it gets ugly. Once I start to raise my voice even a little he will say, "you better watch the way you're talking to me and talk to me with some respect". Or he will say, "you better remember who you're talking to." How am I supposed to feel when the man I love says this to me? If I continue to plead my case, it gets very ugly and I am criticized: called bad names and called selfish, bad mom, bad wife, disrespectful, etc.... And he will start screaming at the top of his lungs and doesn't care that the kids can hear. Sometimes I feel like he really doesn't want to know how I feel unless it is in agreement with him. Thoughts and advice would be greatly appreciated! |
| Question: Rejection hurts… how do I get over that? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 10:18 AM PDT I was texting with a married friend almost everyday for about a year, and it got very intimate. He stopped all of a sudden, and he hasn't responded to me for almost 3 months. I've texted him several times, and I could tell that he has read them but no response at all. I feel so rejected and it hurts so bad, especially we have been intimate emotionally via texts and video chat. Why do you think he stopped? His wife lives in a different city, so I doubt she found out. BTW I am married too, and I guess we both are using this as an escape from our everyday routine. I crave our conversations, since we seem to connect and many times finish each other's sentences. I might have gotten addicted to this and fell in love with him. The fact that he's ignoring me now, I don't think he feels the same way, so this really hurts me badly. We never did anything physically because we live in two different countries, so this is all done via texts, but it messes me up emotionally. I fully understand that this is wrong in so many level and I would be hurt if my hubby is doing this to me, but I can't seem to get over him and think about him almost every minute. Any advice on how I can get over this feeling and rejection? Most of all, I want to forget about him and not have this feeling anymore, but it's sooo hard. Please help... thank you! |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 09:47 AM PDT I think this is what separates me from the rest of the people around me. I don't care if I win/lose a fight, I just want to understand life - more specifically how it works and what are the driving factors behind a person's behavior. The TED Talk I am posting with this question is a 10 minute video that inspired me about 3 years ago to stop competing to win fights with my wife and instead focus on the "Why did this happen" part of the fight... But I think I'm alone in this since people constantly make everything a competition and declare when there's an obvious winner/loser when we get into an argument. So is that the norm? Do people generally argue to win (or not lose)? Or are there more people like me than I thought? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JTN9Nx8VYtk |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 09:46 AM PDT Traveling to Arizona later in the week , we had planned on riding . Now she says " Oh , it's going to be too hot , lets drive ." I hate being locked in a sheet metal box for hours at a time . So what do you think ,,, should I just ride myself and meet her there ,,, or go in the car with her ? To the " Oh so clever Top Contributor " , we are neither " commuting " or going to " Phoenix . |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 09:20 AM PDT Subjective question, I know, but I am trying to figure something out. When people date, I know one of the major components is physical attraction. This attraction is filtered through our values/beliefs and how we feel about a person is bias (beauty is in the eye of the beholder). But which is the more common value/belief? A "trophy" spouse or a spouse that is morally upright? I'm trying to understand the "winner's mentality" this week and so far I'm striking out since no one understands it well enough to explain it to me... If anyone has insight on what goes on in a person's head with a winner's mentality (I get what I believe I deserve, no matter what) that would be appreciated. This question isn't about me or my wife, it is about another married couple who have "fell out of love" and flood their wall with a bunch of stuff calling the other person a loser. Clearly this is a winner's mentality thing since they both want to believe that they are some kind of prize, but I just want to know what the driving force is and how common these "winners" are in society... Is it an inflated sense of self importance? Is it a fragile ego so this is the lie they tell themselves? What exactly is it that drives these people? |
| Question: Should I move on from a man I am dating who desires me dearly but is emotionally abusive? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:54 AM PDT He has a very high profile job. We met two years ago and only started dating intensely 2 months ago. I have encountered several episodes of his ill-temper and it has become more apparent during these 2 months that we are dating seriously. It is emotionally challenging on me when he flares up unreasonably. Otherwise he is a wonderful, caring and generous man. Recently I have to move to another town on a personal mission and will not return for at least another 6 months. Everyday he would text that he misses and loves me. Then he is hot and cold and then almost becomes emotionally abusive. He is throwing an intolerable tantrum at me. He keeps questioning why I am not back by his side. I'm in a limbo as to what to do. I am not able to return any sooner to him. |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 08:22 AM PDT I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19 , We have been talking about getting a house for a couple of months now . He works and he is saving his money so when I turn 18 we would already have a house. 💁 now the thing is when i turn 18 im supposed to inherit money (a lot) & now im planning to buy myself a car/house . my point is i love him & i do want us to live together but i dont want to be under a man , I want to atleast be able to say i have my own. When i get my house i would like us to live together but I don't think it would be right because he is not my husband 👈 do you think this would be making the wrong decision? |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 06:59 AM PDT I'm sure it is both and it depends on the person, but what do you feel is the norm in today's social climate? |
| Question: Get recent ex-wife a birthday present? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 06:40 AM PDT |
| Question: In a marriage, how often is a good amount for sex? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 04:30 AM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Aug 2015 12:21 AM PDT She said she doesnt know why she did it , I kept asking her and she keeps saying she doesn't know, I asked her what she felt she said nothing I felt nothing my mind is blank, I have no feels im emotionally drained she said , she only slept with him once and didn't feel a thing but regret , nervous and scared and just kept thinking about me and that she ****** up and in her head she was telling her self to stop but she couldnt, not even on the drive to his house all she thought about was me and that she loved me and that she was wrong and to turn around dont do it but still did it, she even thought to herself wtf are you just leave but she coildnt , so they sat on his bed and he started kissing her and she said she was just shacking and nervous and just blankly staring at the floor she said she was just out of it , the guy took her clothes off and asked her how she wanted she said emotionless however, she didnt care , she says she doesnt know why she did it she knew it was wrong , she said she just laid there basically life less , covering her face and giving him fake deep breaths cause she felt bad for him, after he was done she got up and left to work, few days later she started sending him nudes until I caught her , I asked why she said Idk whu I did , inyelled at her why and she said idk maube the attention idk idk ******* know im just really sorry ,this was 4 days ago , and I asked her again and shes like Idk why, my head is empty and im emotionless, well she do it again |
| Question: Is it too much to expect my wife to do what a house wife does? Posted: 25 Aug 2015 12:17 AM PDT We have 3 kids. 2 toddlers and 1 teenager. I make 80k a year. All I ask her is to maintain the house, cook and care for the kids. Currently she hardly ever cooks and she ends up buying fast food to feed the family. She cleans every other day doing one or two task. When she watches the kids, she is either locked up with them in the room watching netflix or playing on her phone. When I get home she expects me to clean and to take care of the kids so she can get a break. She is complaining to me she is doing too much and is overwhelmed. She says she believes if she were to leave me that she could send the kids to daycare on the government dime so she can work. Also get food stamps and housing through the government. She believes if she does that she will be independent (in her mind). Not to mention she will also get child support from me. |
| Question: I like fantasizing and making my wife fantasizing she's sleeping with other men? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:34 PM PDT So for some odd reason I don't know why but I like making my wife fatasizing she is sleeping around she resists for a while but gives in and she really I feel enjoys it she starts playing with herself and she finishes early and I really like it. I am not sure why I enjoy her getting off to other men in front of me? I some days try to get her off and I do but it takes her longer but when it's other men I tell her about she loves it and often says she visualizes me playing with myself as she is being pleasured by another man. I really like it but can this be a problem later she was a virgin when we wed also. |
| Question: Are people really happy after divorce or is it just an act? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:34 PM PDT I don't have a problem with people getting divorced but I do have a problem with the ones who only talk crap about their exes. Also, they say they are happy they got a divorce. However, when they realize the ex makes more money, they slap them with lawsuit and ask for more money either by alimony or child support. But then,they still refuse to share custody with the father. Is this really making you happy? I'd say if you're divorced, do right by him and yoir children and be happy with what you have. Stop asking for money already. |
| Question: My husband doesn't trust me with our finances? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:25 PM PDT He makes about $130k per year and gives me allowance of $1200 per month. I'm a stay at home mom because we don't have a family to rely on to take care of our kids who are 8 & 10. I could work but when kids don't have school,we still have to rely on day care which can range up to $100 per day for both of them. It works out fine but I resent my husband for not trusting me. I am responsible for groceries and the necesities at home. My spending is between $400-$700 per month (from that $1200 he gives me)depending on our needs and kids activities. I save the rest in our joint account where my allowance goes. He has a 2 bank account that I just don't access because I know he'll get mad. I noticed that there have been past due bills and bills that don't get opened on time.I used to open them but we always get into a fight so I stopped. It's been like this for the past 12 years.He tells me I have access to everything but he only gave me access when I told him how unhappy I was with how one sided our finances is. At some point, he told me that our houses don't belong to me because I didn't pay a cent. I gave up my career for him and moved for him. I worked for about several years but never made close to what he made bec I took care of our kids Anything I made I either saved in my retirement or invested in my kids college fund. As we grow older, I've become so unhappy with this. As a last effort, last month, he wrote all the password and account # in our safe. How would you feel? |
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