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- Question: My mom doesnt want me to be a virgin anymore wtf?
- Question: I suspect that my dad may have sexually assaulted both my younger and older sister, but i do not have proof, how do i approach this?
- Question: How to get a bad mother kicked off housing...How to get a bad mother that abuses food stamps and cash assistance kicked off state help?
- Question: My dad went through all of my stuff?
- Question: My dad molested my sister!!?
- Question: I'm not sure if I can handle having a job and going to school?
- Question: How to tell your parents the job you want?
- Question: Help!! My parents hate me?
- Question: Am I a bad kid?
- Question: How to not have an "attitude" towards your mom?
- Question: Qué os parece esta imagen?
- Question: Can I get my dad arrested for telling all our neighbors that I'm special needs kid?
- Question: My mom ripped up my grow box?
- Question: What is wrong with my mom?
- Question: What do you do when your mother says she doesn't want you?
- Question: When you do a favor for someone, is it wrong to expect something in return?
- Question: Child custody and Visitation?
- Question: My dad humiliates and hits me and my brother is starting to do the same thing.?
- Question: How to handle someone who always has to have the last word?
- Question: Would u ever want to see your bio dad if he wasn't around your entire life & owes over 100 grand in back child support?
- Question: Is it okay for me to be irritated/annoyed/angered by this?
- Question: What are some things i can do for fun?
- Question: How to deal with parents?
- Question: What to do about a family member that steals?
- Question: Any ideas on how to find my real father?
- Question: Would u want/let your stepmom around your newborn if she doesn't like u & treats u badly?
- Question: Should I live with my dad?
- Question: My little cousin and I sort of talked to strangers online, how do I get my dad to believe my side of the story? She is 13, I just turned 16?
- Question: Is my mom a bi*ch?
- Question: Mom won't let me bring my phone upstairs?
- Question: Would I be in the wrong?
- Question: Why why why?
- Question: I hate my life?
- Question: Am I spoiled?
- Question: What do I do?
- Question: Why have I always been the less favored child?
- Question: My family has fallen apart help me?
- Question: My dad is divorced with my mom but today he said that he wasn't gonna do anything for us and we were on our own?
- Question: How to convince my parents to let me stay home alone for over a week?
- Question: How do I gain my privacy at home?
- Question: Please I need help!! Its important?
- Question: Why does my aunt think she can just "get" respect?
- Question: Live in another country and being far from family?
- Question: My mom won t allow me to do clothing DIY and I don t know what to do!?
- Question: My older sister just saw me naked and im so embarrassed!?
- Question: It's done. Please help me.?
- Question: Having trouble socialising with my cousins?
- Question: My mom thinks I'm "too obsessed" with my looks?
- Question: My brother just barely graduated from high school and doesn't know what to do. How can I help him?
- Question: Is my half sister a pedophile ?
- Question: I had s** with my brother.?
- Question: Why am I still single?
- Question: My muslim dad is being unfair. How do I handle this situation!? Help!?
- Question: Why do people judge me for not being able to get along with my older brother?
- Question: Should I "divorce" my mother?
- Question: Is it bad that I want to have real sex with my 6 year old cousin?
- Question: Need some advice?
- Question: Work ethic vs Obnoxious?
- Question: What do you do when you feel like your family is the problem?
- Question: What's my dad's problem and why does he act like this?
| Question: My mom doesnt want me to be a virgin anymore wtf? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:12 PM PDT has this happened 2 anyone? btw im only 16, can she be arresyted for wnting me to have sex? |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:09 PM PDT It has come to my attention that my dad, who is my role model, may have inappropriately touched both my sisters (im the only boy). Besides something my little sister wrote in her diary and then my big sister's confession to me that someone touched her but she doesnt know who, i have no evidence. Now, i am not convinced it is him but he has said things before like "dont let her (random girl) stay here alone with you because she may call out rape or something" and when my parents got divorced he told my sister that he was probably going to be accused of touching her, also he is extremely defensive when it comes to conversating about molestation. My older sister tolde that she was touched sometime between kindergarten-3rd grade, and she stated that it was in my dad's hometown so it could have been someone related to us. Today, my sister is going to talk to my mom about it and i think there may be some sort of convention with my sisters and parents. Please someone talk to me about this, i have nobody to talk to and my world would be destroyed if it is true. I dont think it was him because there is evidence proving his innocence and evidence suggesting that someone loosely related to us did it, but now im struggling to function properly with my family and i can barely eat or talk with them. Any advice could really help me. |
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| Question: My dad went through all of my stuff? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:00 PM PDT I went on a trip with my mom to visit colleges over the weekend and, when I got back, my dad had cleaned out my room and rearranged everything. I have depression and my therapist told my parents that it hinders my drive to do things, so he claims that he cleaned my room because he was trying to help me. I think that he was trying to go through all of my stuff and clean it because he was bored and he didn't want to look at the mess. I had alcohol hidden under my shoes in my closet that I payed for and he took it away and locked it up in the wine cellar. I understand why he took it away (bc I'm a minor), but I'm embarrassed and upset that he went through my things. I also have diaries and underwear laying around everywhere and he just went through all of it and dumped everything into piles. He half of my books without asking me and just dumped them in a big bin and took them to my cousin's house. I feel violated. I understand what they were trying to do, but it was too far. Am I being unreasonable? I don't know what to say because now he's mad that I'm ungrateful. |
| Question: My dad molested my sister!!? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:57 PM PDT After 15 years my sister finally told her secret. My dad molested her severely times, it started when she was 15 years old. She s 30 now. I don t want to live at my parents house anymore because my dad lives here and I m digusted with him. I have 6 siblings and only two of us still live with my parents me and my sister. She s 17 and I m 13. Right when she turns 18 she s leaving (in two weeks) I already hate my life and will hate it even more when she leaves. My other sister is worried for me and wants to steal me so I can live with her. But she can get six years in jail if she does because she s not my parent. Can my dad get thrown in jail for molesting his daughter or can we get a restraining order from him? Can my older sister become my graudian?Please help! I just want a happy life and be away from him. |
| Question: I'm not sure if I can handle having a job and going to school? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:54 PM PDT I'm 16 and in May, I got my first part time job after school. I worked 4-10 pm Monday - Friday, and 12-7 pm on Saturday. My one day off is Sunday, but that's kinda a lost cause since I have to spend pretty much the entire day cleaning, doing my laundry for the week, and catching up on homework. It was really exhausting. I get home from school at three, then I still have to shower and change into my uniform. On the week of finals last year, I had to stay up until 2 or 3 am studying because I just didn't have the time during the day anymore. Then summer came around, and it was great because I could sleep all day, and not have to worry about going to work until 4 pm. But I don't think I can handle an entire school year working and going to school. I only did it for two months last year, and like I said, I was exhausted. I have to be up for school at 6 am on Thursday, and won't have any time to just relax until 10 pm. That's a really long day, I don't know how some people do it! I can't quit because 1) I need a car. 2) I need money for college. 3.) I just like to have money to spend on clothes, food, and stuff like that. Honestly, I like my job. I'm a cashier, and I enjoy talking to customers. I just hate feeling so tired all the time. I just need advice. Did anyone else struggle with having a job in high school? |
| Question: How to tell your parents the job you want? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:29 PM PDT so i want to be a game director. im not sure how my dad will react to it. im not worried he will be mad its just i dont want him to think of it as a joke. he says he doesnt mind what i want to do but im now worried because awhile ago he asked me what i wanted to do and i was still figuring it out so i just said software developer. he was fine with it but later said i should do something more sound like a lawyer or docter. another reason im worried is because we are completely different. he likes cars i like games he did terrible in school im a straight a and b student. im really nervous to tell him because i dont want him to think less of me. thnx |
| Question: Help!! My parents hate me? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:27 PM PDT Hello everyone, I am a 14 year old male, and I have a diaper fetish. But my parents call me gay because of it. Instead of diapers or underwear, I wear plastic bags, I put my legs in it and make holes for my legs. I fill it with toilet paper, and I have a diaper. I wear it all around the house, but I'm tired of my family judging me for it, now they are mad at me because I pooped in it, yes. Don't judge me. And flushed the whole bag down the toilet. Now I broke the toilet. What should I do? How can I get them to accept that I don't want to use the toilet. I want to either use a bag to poop in, or a diaper. Thanks In advance! Best answer gets 10 points. |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:24 PM PDT My parents split when I was 6 on the day after Christmas. 2 months into divorce my mom married some jerkwad that we'll call Jeff. Jeff was a pig. He lived in a trailer and has two kids. He's a milk man and doesn't make a lot of money. My mother, being a stay at home mom for 11 years, was forced to take a job to support us kids. There are four of us. I'm the youngest. When they got married, the two step kids sorta kinda moved in and we had to move. To cut Thai short, my mom had to take a job that started at 6:00 A.M and ended at 11:00 P.M. At a nursin home. My stepdad starts work at 12:00 A.M. And got off at 3:00 P.M. Since my mom was stay at home all my life, she helped me with chores. I had no idea how to do them. Jeff verbally abused me and my siblings and I became reclusive and independent for seven years. I was forced to grow up far too early. I have a chronic illness and I tend to stay in my room. This has mde me extremely introverted. I'm often times ride to my parents. So my mom is very soft, she was the only one I had as my brothers tried to stay away from the house. I developed a sever anxiety disorder because o have issues with my stomach that causes me to be feeble and weak. Jeff thinks I fake it. I grew up disliking him and I'm in Eight grade now. I'm home schooled and my mom stays at home due to her illness. Am I a bad child or was Jeff a bad parent? |
| Question: How to not have an "attitude" towards your mom? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:18 PM PDT My mom keeps telling me that I need to say "Yes ma am or no ma am" and then she says I m gonna get grounded if I say it with an attitude. Like I ve had a rough child hood and she s not making it any easier. So how do I say "Yes ma or dad" without an attitude because I swear I feel like to her I do everything wrong. So help me please! |
| Question: Qué os parece esta imagen? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:18 PM PDT |
| Question: Can I get my dad arrested for telling all our neighbors that I'm special needs kid? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:13 PM PDT So I've had a couple incidents with different neighbors since we moved into this house months ago. My most recent incident was this morning that the neighbor man stared at me as I walked past. So I ask what he's staring at. And he called me cocky and rude with no manners. So I just said come out of your front yard and say that to me again, then I rattled his gates and pretend to try and grab him through the gates. And he went back inside his house. Then a couple hours later I went back home and my mom and dad were all pissed at me. Saying the neighbor came to our house to complain about me. And he brought 3 other neighbors from different houses as well. And they all have problems with me. And pretty much said they want our family to move out, cuz this a nice neighborhood until my family moved in. LOL! It's a ghost town. All these foreign people buy houses then only live here for like 1 month a year. And my dad said he had to tell them I was special needs so they should be more tolerant. He has no right to tell them that! And that neighbor said I shook his gate and growled at him. I didn't growl at anyone! And my dad has cause me more problems. Cuz he toad those stupid neighbors to come to our house whenever they have problems with me, even small ones. Wtf. Why would he encourage them? Especially since they complaining about him too. That they can hear him and me yelling at each other several times a day and that he drive too fast and his car too loud. I want him arrested He should of toad them to get off his property. Cuz these people are clearly very pathetic and need to get lives. How can they hear all our noise when the houses is like at least 100 metres away No that man have problems. He complained about my dogs going in his yard. Accused us of being bad owners. Then we discovered that it's his kids who take my dogs from my yard and put them in their yard to play with. So his kids trespass, not my dogs. Then he stand there staring at me, like he owns this street |
| Question: My mom ripped up my grow box? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:08 PM PDT I made a grow box to grow different varieties of plants in, it was cardboard with foil and a exaust to let heat out of. In the past i was caught growing weed but since then ive been taught to grow legal plants and today i had my box in my attic space when my mom went in it and saw it she ripped it up then started getting all mad. I worked so hard on it and actually thought it had future usage And just to see it ripped up like that really did a number on me. The whole reason i decided to grow plants was to fill in this lonesomeness my lizard use to fill but the second lizard i was gonna get my mom wasn t able to get because of money issues and i actually thought things would change once we moved butapparently not, ive put in effort to change but i feel like nobody else is changing. Idk if this is a question or if i just want to vent but now i don t see a need for me to change when she isn t changing. I even told her she could look in it everyday to see there would be no weed in it to at least have some kinda trust but i wasnt given a chance. |
| Question: What is wrong with my mom? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:03 PM PDT She never cleans, and on the days she doesn't have work, which isn't very often, de never wants to do anything. She works constantly. She just took another job, that adds to the already full schedule. I don't know why she feels the need to take so many jobs, and never be home to be with her children. Do you think there is something going on that maybe I don't know about? I'm always doing all the cleaning, and when ever I ask her to help me, she calls me a brat and a "pain in the ***" What can I do to help her be happier? |
| Question: What do you do when your mother says she doesn't want you? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:56 AM PDT Today my mom said that she didn't want me to go anywhere with her and basically said she doesn't want me anymore. This has happened ever since I was seven and I'm twelve now and I'm so upset she even slapped me so hard one time because I didn't sweep my sister is fifteen and she gets to sit around and do nothing while I'm up doing every chore there ever freaking was. She makes me so angry over the weekends now I pray for school to come back because it's the only break I get and she yells at me like once or twice and hour and I'm tired of it i don't know wha to do anymore please help |
| Question: When you do a favor for someone, is it wrong to expect something in return? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:55 AM PDT Family member or not is it wrong? My brother got extremely mad because I didn't want to do him a favor after he let me borrow money, I didn't even ask him for the money. |
| Question: Child custody and Visitation? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:50 AM PDT My sons dad just served me with papers for visitation and custody. My son had lived with me since he was boring but now he s seven months and He wants 50/50 custody. My son has not spent the night over his dad s house because it s not suitable for a child. He had parties every weekend. And a house full of people. All the time. My house I don t have people in and out of my house. I don t drink around my son. His dad as only been able too come take him for the day and I ll pick him up around 8:00. He ll come get him around 8 o clock in the morning. I have been trying to co parent with him and take it one step at time with the end result being him being able too stay the whole weekend with his dad like every other week but he continues to show me that his house isn t safe. he partyed alot while i was pregnant but he told me he wouldnt have none of that around are son while hes there but i witness tonight and a few other night people having a party at his house with smoking and drinking and smoking at his house while my son is there. hes not subjected to those type of things while hes with me. i know i choose a wrong person too have a baby with but i cant change that. i know he has just as much rights as me. i just want my son to be in a safe enviornment. My sons father is also in the miltary and he works long hours everyday and they send out of town alot. he only truly has time for him on the weekends.the military is unpredicatable i really fear that i will lose my son |
| Question: My dad humiliates and hits me and my brother is starting to do the same thing.? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:33 AM PDT My mom had to leave the country when I was 3 years old and so I was left alone with my dad and brother. Ever since I was about 5 my dad has been hitting, and pinching me for the littlest reasons such as losing a pencil,or not knowing how to tie my shoes and so on. As I m getting older things have gotten worse now I can t say anything because if I do he ll jump on top me and threaten to beat me up I m scared I don t know what to do !!! both my brother and father are always telling me how useless I am, and how I m not going anywhere in life, they have even called me a whore before even though I have never even spoken about boys infront of them. I have a little sister and when she gets hurt he hits me for not knowing how to take care of her. He also says it is my responsibility to look after her. And my brother doesn t help me he always punching me and making fun of me. Please I feel like I can t continue to live like this, but I don t want to call the police because they will take my baby sister away . |
| Question: How to handle someone who always has to have the last word? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:29 AM PDT Let me start off by saying I m pretty smart, I m interested how everything works so I spend a lot of time on the internet looking up how things work. My step dad is pretty smart, but he always has to have the last word and if it s something I know about I ll chime in and say something, but it always seems like my parents are discrediting me because they re smarter or older than me or something. To me, I don t know why but anytime he speaks I m just automatically annoyed because he always has to add something. I m a little bit of the same way but I only add something if I know what s being said is wrong. Seems like my mom always listens to him over me. Or her own opinion. It stinks :/ |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:20 AM PDT my bio dad used to beat my mom.. even when she was pregnant with me. she left him & ended up getting with the man i call my dad. he raised me from the time i was born. i love him more than anything & i think of him as my real father. well here we are.. im grown now (23) married & about to have my first child. look who comes out of the woodwork & contacts my mom on facebook.. bio dad. he messaged her & told her he wanted to come see me & asked if i would let him come see me & my baby when i had him. my mom asked & i said no. my mom kind of acted like she wanted me to talk to him & it upset me a lot. my big brother (same dad) wont have anything to do with him. i don't even know this man. i cant believe my mom for feeling sry for him. i have a dad & its not him. what would u do> |
| Question: Is it okay for me to be irritated/annoyed/angered by this? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:17 AM PDT I'm fourteen years old and I have family in another state. I recently went to go see them. My aunt and my cousin live with my grandmother and grandfather. My aunt, cousin and grandmother came to "watch" my brother and me while my parents went to eat dinner. They took us to an arcade. I was pretty much pacing back and forth by the end of it. I couldn't handle the insanity! My aunt takes about a million pictures of my cousin. Fine that's understandable. But later she posts them onto an Instagram page. All of this is done so that my cousin can become a model. My cousin is pretty, very very pretty but she is not model pretty. My cousin is two years younger than me. She wears extremely inappropriate clothing sometimes and yes the pictures of my cousin in inappropriate clothing is posted onto Instagram. I read one of the comments on her picture. "Hot" and "So sexy" both from a man probably in his forties!!! My aunt does not see what she's doing my cousin. Heck she even wants to do it to me! First of all, I'm not model pretty. Second, I'm fourteen years old! I can't stand it. But do I really have the right to be angered by this? It's her life not mine. I know I seem like a troll (if only) but unfortunately it's true. |
| Question: What are some things i can do for fun? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT I am 13 I don't live in town so i can't go anywhere None of my friends live near me My parents don't want me using electronics anymore My little brother and I always argue so it needs to be something I can do alone. I read a Out but my parents think o spend all my reading time on my iPad for some reason. I mean I read a lot not out Thank you so much MsBittner! I will definitely be trying out some of those crafts! |
| Question: How to deal with parents? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT Let me start by saying I'm interested in how everything works so I'm always on the internet looking up stuff. Anyways, my step dad always has something to add when I try to say I know about anything. Hes smart, but so am I. It seems like him or my mom always try to discredit me because they say they know or something when I feel like they don't. Help :/ |
| Question: What to do about a family member that steals? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:10 AM PDT I have a sister that resides in the same household as me. I currently work 2 jobs and is saving up to get my own apartment. Lately, my sister broke into my room and steal random things such as lotion, incense, and air freshener. At first I though I misplaced the items until one time I came home and found my $300 beats headphones were missing. I had a strong feeling she stole them. I caught hell to get them back because she denied taking them. My father always takes up for her. The final straw came when I was off that day and when I was in the kitchen eating breakfast she went into my room and stole $480. I was furious. I immediately told my parents and they kept on insisting she doesn't steal. I told them $480 just didn't grow legs and walk away on their own, despite the fact that she was only person in the area they still defended her. My question is if I put a video camera in my room and record her stealing from me, can I call the police and show them the evidence and have her arrested? |
| Question: Any ideas on how to find my real father? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 11:09 AM PDT Looking for a way I can find/meet my father without the elaborateness of a Detective lol. I know his name, that he used to work for Fed Ex, and that he paid child support for 18 years. My mother won't be any help so, any ideas? All help is appreciated. |
| Question: Would u want/let your stepmom around your newborn if she doesn't like u & treats u badly? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 10:59 AM PDT im about to have my baby & my dad came & took me out to lunch the other day & he brought up how he wants to come see me & baby at the hospital when i have him.. which is fine of course. then he added "& u know michelle is gonna want to come" (michelle is his wife of course) i really don't like this woman. she treats me horribly but tells my dad she loves me & would never treat me bad. she knows my dad wouldn't put up with that so she is very fake around him. i don't want anything to do with her & either does my husband really. i think my dad would be a little upset if i told him i didn't want her coming with him to see my baby. does anyone have any advice? like whats the point? she doesn't like me & she makes it very obvious. |
| Question: Should I live with my dad? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 10:49 AM PDT Im 13 and currently live with my mom but she hasn't stayed one night with me in over a month. She has been drinking and everything. I wanna move to my dad but I don't wanna leave my friends. But everyone is saying I'm not safe with my mom. What do I do? |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 10:43 AM PDT My cousin and I had this app called kik, and she gets a lot of chats from strangers,when I asked her why she gets so many chats, she introduced me to flirt, so I made a second account to see how this thing works. I made an inappropriate name I can't remember to experiment. more than half the chats I got came with nudes from guys I didn't expect this, I'm pretty naive and I don't know too much about kik, When I got those nudes. I deleted the conversation or blocked them, I did not expect almost 100 chats! I expected maybe 5-10 chats. But I talked to some people, like I said hi, or what's up, but as soon as they asked for nudes or even a pic of my face I deleted the chat, my cousin on the other hand, did not delete them and she sent pics of her face and I think her boobs too, but I'm not sure. I did this for ONE night, the very next morning, I logged out of the account and went back to my normal account! I'm not like that. Her mom found out and her parents punished her. Her dad called my dad and told him about it and how I was being inappropriate too. But my cousin told her dad that I was up late at night sending bad messages and pics to strangers when I wasn't, she also made it seem like I had been talking to strangers for weeks when it was just one night for a few hours. But since my dad already heard that side, he doesn't believe me when I say that I Didn't do anything bad He is very disappointed in me and he should be, how can I get him to believe and trust me again? |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 10:35 AM PDT My mom doesn't let me play video games at weekdays and SOMETIMES lets me play on weekends but she lets my sister go on her laptop all week for as long as she wants, is she a bi*ch? |
| Question: Mom won't let me bring my phone upstairs? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 10:18 AM PDT For the past 4 years my mom will not let me bring electronics upstairs. she never says why she just says no; and says its her rules. (I'm 15 years old) and now whenever she catches me with my phone upstairs she takes off another month I won't be allowed to drive. it seems unfair, because my room is the only quiet place in the house where I can be alone, but she never lets me. it's extremely unreasonable and unfair and I can't take it anymore. she makes way too big of a deal out of it and it just makes me so mad she won't let me. and she never will side, or even tell me why. she's taking away my freedom and just doesn't understand. |
| Question: Would I be in the wrong? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 10:12 AM PDT I live with my aunt and uncle with whom I've been living with since I was 5. I've always have had a good relationship with my uncle. On the other hand me and my aunt don't really have a relationship, other than exchanging greetings in the morning and cooking sometimes that's as far as it goes, it even felt like she didn't want me in the house growing up. She never bought me shoe nor clothes all provided by my uncle. Anyways I got a part time job in March and she asked if I could give her $50 every two weeks to just to "contribute" so I agreed. Lately she's been on my case about it. She spent $300 on shoes and socks for her kids when they have too many shoes and then calls me to ask for $50 for the phone bill.and it's c really annoying I bust my butt and I only make 7.75/hr. I feel like just giving her nothing for ever. Would I be wrong |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT Why do my inlaws block me then like five months later unblock me and then block me again ? |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 09:52 AM PDT It seems like I'm so friendly, nice, caring. I have been like this for my whole life giving people all I had and nothing in return. I don't expect anything in return when I'm doing something, but those people who I helped are know living live and haven't thanked me once actually they just stopped talking to me and just left. Everybody does this, I hate it, then the only time people notice me is when I give up, or I quit being nice! Seems like the people who don't care, only care for themselves get more respect than the people who do. They only notice you when you're not helping anymore or doing anything. I quit being that nice person who wanted everybody to have a good life. I have no faith in humanity anymore. You people don't deserve respect if you can't even be thankful for it. Like seriously all the people I have helped are all high in life and just left me, and I'm in the corner alone. I guess I should just care for myself and nobody else |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 09:28 AM PDT I'm 14, female, and my parents own a small business. We live in a very large house with 4 bedrooms and 3 baths. When I was really little we had a maid who would come every once a month because my parents had just started their business and they didn't have time to clean the house. I have a medium sized room and we live in a suburban area just on the outskirts of town. I feel really spoiled because this morning my parents woke my brother and I up screaming about how the house was a mess. the maid we used to have told mom and dad that we were spoiled because we left our toys out around the house.We do chores around the house like sweeping, mopping, doing the dishes, laundry, vacuuming, and washing tables. We have a pool. I have 4 older siblings not including my twin brother but they all moved out because they're a lot older than us. We get all of our needs met like food, school stuff, clothes, etc. I feel guilty about all the stuff we have because my parents were really poor growing up and they think Ethan and I are lazy little turds. I try to get the best grades I can and I'm known as the quiet, responsible, smart twin. My brother is the funny, likable, sporty, "manly" twin. My fear is that I will fail and become a spoiled little brat. I'm trying to be as accurate as possible and honestly I think I'm spoiled. I'm just curious about what you think. (P.S we all have iPhones and my brother and I bought the x box and wii with our own money. Idk if that factors in at all.) |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 09:28 AM PDT I just want a new life. I hate my life and everything about it. My mom just said that I'm a big fat *** person and that she's embarrassed to call herself my mother. My sister calls me fat, everyone calls me fat and ugly and everyone in my life abuses me. The only place I feel like I don't get called names is at school. I just want to die, I'm never happy and when I try to be I can't because all of my memories are sad. I just want to die. What do I do? I hate being fat, ugly and worthless to the world. I hate being depressed :( |
| Question: Why have I always been the less favored child? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 09:19 AM PDT Ever since I can remember, my family has always favored my brother over me. While this is normal in most families (apparently), it's also the same in life as well; I'm never favored by anyone. In fact, I'm a senior in high school and I haven't had a true friend my entire life. I have acquaintances, but never a person I'd consider a friend. We don't hang out outside of school, and sometimes I'll introduce an acquaintance to another acquaintance, they'll develop a true friendship, then leave me with two less acquaintances. I was shy as a kid and have been trying to talk more and "come out of my shell" the past few years, and while it's worked, my brother always tells me it's like I missed out on learning how to socialize and make friends as a kid, and me trying to now is like watching a small child who's just leaning. Even my old acquaintances, who I considered my friends as a young kid, all talk to my brother now and act like the years we spent together never even existed. (I know this is minor, but for example, even my old "friends'" parents follow my brother on social media, and when I request to follow them they decline/don't accept). Even my entire family/cousins prefer my brother: my brother is the favorite cousin and my own Aunt doesn't talk to me. There are some days when I get depressed and wonder why it's me who's always been the odd person out, forgotten, and not favored. I seriously don't know what I ever did to deserve this. Any advice is appreciated. |
| Question: My family has fallen apart help me? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 09:14 AM PDT This is long but i hope you take the timw to read it. Okay so I'm 14. Me and my family (except my dad) are smart, Christian peaceful people. However my dad is atheist, constantly gets drunk and likes to verbally abuse my mother and my family. She doesnt however throw him out because he is the outcast of his family. He is always swearing at us or about us. It's awful. Ever since I could remember I was always told how it was because of my sake that my mother has to keep him here although they aren't married and practically hate each other. Peace isn't really existent at my house. To other people we are a normal loving family but behind closed doors its awful. Just today my dad had to open the door for my brother and he started swearing and cursing at him. So my brother (who just turned 18) lashed back and stuck up for himself because my dad is always taking cheap shots at him so he lost control and now everything is so tense. My mom is dealing with breast cancer and by the grace of God she'll be fine but she doesn't get peace. Even now as she's going through it. I need your help. I need someone who understands who can help. I don't know what to do. |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 09:04 AM PDT Well it all happened today, and I have no idea how to take it right now I think it was about them arguing about something really small, and I have no idea on how to take it |
| Question: How to convince my parents to let me stay home alone for over a week? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 08:37 AM PDT |
| Question: How do I gain my privacy at home? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 08:19 AM PDT Well. Few months ago I've been caught spending $400 dollars on a video game that I got addicted to. I know that's my fault but ever since, I have no privacy at all. We now have hidden cameras in my house. Everywhere... also the bathroom. My phone is being monitored and every site that has entertainment is blocked. Next week my dad said that he will block my computer as well. This is driving me crazy... I know this happened all because of me but I regret my actions and I've already apologized a lot of times. My parents accepted my apology and I've been able to refund my 400 bucks. They call this my punishment. Now it's my 3rd month living with no privacy. The only place I feel safe is at my school. But now my parents won't allow me to stay afterschool. This is driving me crazy and I sometimes feel envious towards people who suicided... |
| Question: Please I need help!! Its important? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 08:16 AM PDT Long story short:- My step dad lives in uk, me..my mom..my brother live abroad. And our ILR expired due to inability to go to UK because of some personal reasons. Now the thing is my step dad cheated on my mom, and now he wants a divorce from her.. But he is willing to call me and my brother to UK to stay with him. Now my brother doesnt want to go because he dsnt want to leave my mom.. So its like my step dad is willing to call me alone ..but.. He is living with a women i m not willing to adjust with, So its like a conflict for me. I want to go, but I dont want to go,, My reasons for not going is that i dont trust him and I am not sure if i ll be safe with him.. and my reason for going are :- better place, good earning prospect, better education.. I dont know what to do. Please help!??? i dont trust him because of what he did to my mom. otherwise we had an ok relationship..never called him dad, but when we use to live with him, he use to be fine with me..but i find him very arrogant and proudy... |
| Question: Why does my aunt think she can just "get" respect? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 08:07 AM PDT Ok. This is some DRAMA! I'm thirteen years old and I live with my aunt, she is 20. When we were younger we would call ourselves brother and sister. But ever since she turned 19 she thinks I'm her nephew now, which is true, but it's weird. But we still act like brother and sister. When we are arguing she will start cussing me out and I yell back and totally stump her and out of nowhere she's like, respect me, I'm older than you.. When literally two months earlier she got so mad because her parents wouldn't give her 10$ that she took their keys and DROVE off with their car saying she was gonna kill herself.... lmao ... And also once we got into a fight because she TOTALLY disrespected me when I was on the phone with my friend, she came into my room and cussed me out and took my fan while I was on the phone, later on that night we ended up getting into a fight, because she cannot keep her anger contained.... And throughout that fight my grandparents ARE SCARED of my parents so they were trying to tell me the fight was my fault, even though it wasn't. I could easily get my aunt kicked out of the house but I chose not to... My aunt also kept saying, "RESPECT ME" she kept on saying that over and over after every sentence of her cussing at me.... Like, she's so disrespectful to everyone, and I'm not joking I have STORIES where she slammed the door on my grandmas face because she wouldn't give her the car keys. Why does she feel like... she has the RIGHT to say I have to respect her |
| Question: Live in another country and being far from family? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 07:25 AM PDT So my boyfriend and I are planning on getting engaged next year. Right now he is in USA finishing school. I live here with my family. Well he won't be done with school for another 4-6 years. Once he's done well move to Abu Dhabi where he'll work. And I just really started thinking about the distance. We've been together over 5 years. Been long distant for 3. And the thought of being far from my family kills me. What hurts the most is in the future when/if we have kids. I'm very close with my family. Especially my mom. We've been through a lot together with my abusive birth father. And idk. I know my mom will be so hurt. Any advice or tips or anything ?! I'm desperate. |
| Question: My mom won t allow me to do clothing DIY and I don t know what to do!? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 07:07 AM PDT Ok, so last year I brought up the idea of upcycling my old clothes to clothes that I would actually wear. My mom said okay. I told my dad about the idea, and he told me that he ll bring up the sewing machine to the office for me to use. My mom came into my room while I was sorting through clothes and she told me not to even think about remodeling the old clothes, that my clothes are fine. I asked her why can t I. She told me I have perfectly good clothes. I despise most of the clothes I have! I m a freshman in high school and she still expects me to wear Justice and Gymboree! I don t know what to do. I really want to remodel a ton of the stuff. I ll even buy the extra fabric and threads if I need any! She started scolding my dad when he told me that later today he s setting up the sewing machine. I have a feeling she doesn t want me to grow up. She won t even let me buy some clothes that I do like, even with my own money. I really need some advice, I don t want to be that chick in high school that still wears clothes from the 5th grade. Thank you in advance! |
| Question: My older sister just saw me naked and im so embarrassed!? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 07:05 AM PDT I was taking a shower and left the door open, None was home.. Suddenly she came and saw me, yelled at me.. what should i do?! |
| Question: It's done. Please help me.? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 07:04 AM PDT My mother has had Lyme Disease for 10 years. My father mentally abused us. I'm afraid to give too much information in fear I'll be taken away from my dear mother plus I have two younger brothers whom I love very much. I want to know if there's anyone I can call or do anything to help out our situation. Thank you. |
| Question: Having trouble socialising with my cousins? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 06:46 AM PDT All my cousins on my mum's side had a "cousin get together dinner" thingy, since we haven't seen each other for a long time and of course I was invited too (this happen quite awhile ago) and I felt left out because I am very shy. I had tried to make a conversation with an individual cousin, but he was interested in what the others were talking about. So I tried to listen to their conversation and hopefully join in, but I don't even understand their jokes and half of the things they talked about. However, that dinner is over now so phew, but now there is going to be a family dinner so the same cousins will be there and there are no kids me age. BTW I'm 12 and all my cousins are 17 and older. |
| Question: My mom thinks I'm "too obsessed" with my looks? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 06:29 AM PDT I have curly hair, and I struggled with it for years. Finally I've found a routine and products that work for me. Sometimes I spend kind of a lot of time on my hair, but I find it kind of meditative, knowing that I'll be rewarded with bouncy, healthy curls. Well my mom is constantly up my *** saying I'm "too obsessed" with it, and if I don't stop then she'll stop buying me products (I'm 14, so I can't pay for them myself because I don't have a job). I also like fashion, skincare, etc. but my mom thinks I'm too obsessed with those things too. She literally thinks that doing anything to improve your appearance is conceited and a reason to be yelled at. Do you guys have any advice for me? Thanks. |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 06:09 AM PDT He does not want to go to college, lose weight and get healthy, find a job, or change is uncaring, poor, lazy attitude. There is lot more he is not doing but these are the main reasonable things he could work on. How do I help him get out of this funk??? |
| Question: Is my half sister a pedophile ? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 04:33 AM PDT When I was a little boy around 8-10 years old. My half sister, who was around 19 at that time, always told me to show her my penis or she wouldn't take me outside to play. As a kid, I did not feel ashamed and let my half sister see it. But then she began touching and rubbing it. She even told me not to tell anyone. Now I'm 21 and I feel pretty disturbing . What do you think? |
| Question: I had s** with my brother.? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 03:56 AM PDT I'm 18 now. Back then i was 7 or 8 and he was in his teens 15~16. I didn't know what we were doing , i didn't know it had a name , i didn't know anything except that it was pleasurable for him and he enjoyed it but i had a gut feeling that something wasn't right cos he told me to keep it a secret and not to talk about it to anyone and he always made sure he does it with me when there's no one in the house..We stopped after a few times and he grewout of it. But once my younger brother saw us, i thought he would not understand and forget about it by now. Now years after i myself had forgot about what happened but today while i had a small argument with my younger brother he said " don't act so respectful of yourself, i know what you and my brother did"..i still defended myself and said that i was a kid back then and i didnt know better..but I'm questioning myself is it really not my fault? But i had no knowledge..I hate that i was born with 4 brothers. |
| Question: Why am I still single? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:25 AM PDT |
| Question: My muslim dad is being unfair. How do I handle this situation!? Help!? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 02:18 AM PDT So I am not muslim myself but my parents are. Especially my dad.. I joined a wrestling school like a week ago when they were out of the state and I told my mom about it and she didn't care. It didn't matter to her at all. But just now I mentioned how I have training tomorrow and my dad freaked out and said its unislamic. Like I don't care because I don't believe in islam but my parents don't know this. Anyways how do I deal with him? he even tried to pay me back what I already spent on the training sessions .. I really don't want to give up on this... I feel really depressed that's why my mom is okay with me doing this She didn't even mention this to my dad until I brought up her waking up early tomorrow to drop me off. I am 21 like I can make my own decisions... What do I do? Please help :( |
| Question: Why do people judge me for not being able to get along with my older brother? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:59 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I "divorce" my mother? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:34 AM PDT I m asking this because my mother is toxic to herself and everyone around her. She is a selfish, spoiled woman who is 50 years old and still acts like a teenager. She always has to be addicted to something. Whether it be drugs, food, technology, anything. once shes hooked its all she cares about. She was addicted to drugs during my early childhood. She stayed in her room 24/7. I had to stick my face underneath the door and scream for her if i needed her. She never came to the door. My granddad died when i was 6 and he left me 2000 dollars for college. She stole it. She never cared about my grades, never made me clean up after myself(she didn t clean herself), never taught me any life skills. I started smoking pot at age 11, just like her. I eventually grew into a lazy, careless teenager who was expirimenting with drugs, just like her. I didn t try in school, my GPA was 1.5 and I m so ashamed because I like to think of myself as a fairly intelligent person. I had no motivation. Just like her. I hate to blame her for my mistakes but kids do as they see, right? I ve lived on my own since age 16. Now I m 18. I am so lost, and I don t know what I m going to do with myself. My mom refuses to come home and help me with the basic things i need. I was hired at McDonalds but couldn t work because she wouldn t take me to get my ID. I need many things from her which my 75 yr old grandmother cannot provide. I think I should cut her off. All she does is hurt me. |
| Question: Is it bad that I want to have real sex with my 6 year old cousin? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 01:22 AM PDT Ok so she isn't really my cousin, were not related at all.. My mother is just really good friends with her mom and so we all decided to call her my cousin.. She is the sexiest little girl I've ever seen, there was this one time when she came over so my mom could baby sit her.. She went to my room to watch TV and she fell asleep shortly after that.. When she was sleeping I kissed her and pulled down her shorts and panties,, I slowly licked her pussy and started to eat her out.. She tasted like good, I put my tongue as far as I could in her vagina.. But that's all I did.. I want to have real sex with her like where I actually put my penis all the way in her vagina and *** in her.. And I also want to eat her out and put my tongue in her vagina when she's awake so she can actually know what it feels like.. Can anyone tell me if this is bad and wrong or if it's OK!! |
| Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:41 AM PDT me and my mum just had a big argument (for us because we never fight). We used to be really close because I only saw her rarely (parents divorced). Now i am at her place full time because I didn't want to be with my other parent. We have grown apart and I don't respect her that much anymore as I feel she is more obsessed with her boyfriend. But yea I am 14 so still sort of dependant on her and I really dislike her right now also I just don't know who to trust anymore as I don't like my friends also she called me a *****, brat, snobby etc because I was being ungreatful (I agree because I don't eat her cooking, its bad) but I wish she wasn't so harsh and I sort of feel that I should shut her out of my life now? |
| Question: Work ethic vs Obnoxious? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:24 AM PDT My son just started a new job. His boss gave him a project she said he needs to get it done by September 24th, he started jn June and got it done on Aug 1st. He handed her the work and it was in excellent condition and he said she gave him the creepy look face and didn't say much. I think maybe he crossed the line a bit and should have waited some time. He also shows up to work 25 mins early. He works so hard but I think he needs to calm down he is only 23 years old. Why is he obnoxious? Do people find him creepy? |
| Question: What do you do when you feel like your family is the problem? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:15 AM PDT I love my family but I can't trust any of them all they do is hurt me and bring me down and try to put me in a box basically always trying to down me. I feel happier when I'm not around them but thing is I have to be around them that's the only way I can afford to go to school so I basically shut myself in the room all day to avoid them. But o feel that doesn't help either. |
| Question: What's my dad's problem and why does he act like this? Posted: 30 Aug 2015 12:12 AM PDT When my sister and I were four years old, my dad would shift from being super nice to really mean and unpleasant. He would say that he loves us. But the next day or so he would yell at my sister and I for no reason and throw things around our room. He looked down on me a lot when I became diagnosed with a physical and mental impairment. If I did something wrong he would always call me out on my mistakes and ask me if I took my medication. Through out high school right after my parents divorced, he would always trash talk my mom and put her in the bad boat a lot, he would also tell me he misses me but I never believed he really meant it because he has lied to both my mom and me in the past. He makes fun of people too if they look a certain way. I feel like he only calls me when he needs something and he always talks to me like I'm stupid. He thinks about him self more than the emotional well being of his own children. |
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