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- Question: Dating your second cousin?
- Question: Am I Emotionally and Mentally abused? Can I get taken away from my parents?
- Question: I'm hated and my dad like my sister and not me?
- Question: Assaulted by family member?
- Question: Ex roommates. What to do?
- Question: I m a step mother to a 3 year old & we are going through the custody battle she hasn t kept her over night in about a year and.?
- Question: How can I tell my mum I am a boy?
- Question: Do I owe my ex an explanation?
- Question: We started out perfect and I started cheating multiple times, coming home late for years I did this. 3 months ago she cheated im hurt sick?
- Question: We are Grandparents (GP) of an 8yr old GS.His Mother never spent much time w/ him being single and working full-time so he spent a lot?
- Question: Does he love his fiancee?
- Question: What do you know about Ben Bangma?
- Question: Her Husband says he's In love with me. She's an Inspirational Speaker and Relationship Builder. So?
- Question: How can i commit suicide without any pain?
- Question: Have I betrayed my manager?
- Question: Why do people say that marriage is good for everyone or even most people?
- Question: Feeling singled out?
- Question: I had sex with this older man should I go visit him again.?
- Question: Hi im thishan ..my best frined is tharaka but he is these days angry with me.so im very peinful.what the am i do? plz help me.?
- Question: Any swingers in Hamilton Ontario?
- Question: Why couldn't my girlfriend hear girlfriend here me but someone else could talk to her?
- Question: When you view a loved ones body can they hear you...it looked like my brother was crying?
- Question: Do you think someone is rude because you can't get to the door that second when you have a child, especially when they are being paid?
- Question: Should I try to mend things with my ex ?
- Question: How to love someone who was once in an abusive relationship?
- Question: Why do i agree on everything and don't have an opinion on my own?
- Question: Sex in Jannat (Que for Muslims)?
- Question: My ex and his wife invite me over to their holiday/special occasion functions but when I arrive they treat me as if I'm unwelcome.?
- Question: Walked in my parents room?
- Question: Got Cheated Twice But still in the Relation?!!! Very Serious....?
- Question: Ex playing games, won't let me see our son?
- Question: My sister commited suicide. How I deal with it?
- Question: What do you think of all this ? Do you think she still loves me,?
- Question: What is this girls deal, girl logic? This girl I met In a college summer class says she single and flirts with me, I get curious?
- Question: How to tell my meat-eating boyfriend I want to go vegan?
- Question: What race has the most racist people?
- Question: Really homesick and Im starting to cry. Help!?
- Question: How to convince my dad?
- Question: Why do I have to feel upset over something I have no control over?
- Question: Unconditional love or "hell is other people"?
- Question: What can I do?
- Question: Am I being too critical of how my fiancé treats my dad?
- Question: I need help dealing with my long-term boyfriend's new family issues?
- Question: Should I talk to my mom? I think shes cheating or seeing a different guy?
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- Question: I just found out i have a brother. how do i found him?
- Question: What should i do now!!!I want to move on and forget about her!!!our friendship is dead?
- Question: Should i get intimate with him?
- Question: Opinions on this?
- Question: If you are engaged to someone do u count as immediate family?
- Question: I'm in love with a man I known for 6 years but he is married?
- Question: How to start a love affair with a gorgeous work colleague?
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| Question: Dating your second cousin? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 03:06 PM PDT When i first heard my aunt is dating her second cousin i was confused , they re married now and a happy couple and they re kids are perfectly healthy . But when i look up the questions on here about that .. people call it incest , I mean incest happened in the bible . I don t find it wrong at all ! I mean , if it s the love of your life what s so wrong ? Why are people so hateful and call it gross ? I wonder alot , Answers anyone ? Btw!! They live in the U.K |
| Question: Am I Emotionally and Mentally abused? Can I get taken away from my parents? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 03:03 PM PDT I feel really on edge whenever my parents are home or when I leave my room. Recently they told me that reletives were staying, and since they always stay in my room, I asked why they had to stay here. My mother called me selfish, since another reletive is already staying in my brother's room and my little brother had to sleep in my older brother's room. But I always have to give up the only place I feel comfortable. I try to bring it up with them that I don't like to leave my room and they say they don't want me to become 'an anticocial hermit'. They constantly tell me that i need to go outside more, even though I hate to leave the house, and their only arguement is that the whole family is fat and we need to exercise more. My mother also says that if I go outside my pimples will go away and my skin will get better. I feel like killing myself, and I even self harm, but they don't think that it has anything to do with them, and all they do is send me to therapy. They even bribe me to participate. I constantly feel put down and they call me fat, but get me ice cream? I always have to tiptoe around them because I don't know what they'll get mad at, and if I tell a joke, they yell at me and turn it into a lecture. If I say i'm joking, they tell me that they can't tell if I'm joking because I always have a rude tone. My mother is bipolar and i think my father has anger issues. Should I tell my Therapist? Or should I call CPS myself? What'll happen to my siblings? Please help. |
| Question: I'm hated and my dad like my sister and not me? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 02:22 PM PDT Dad likes my sister but doesn't like me. I am blamed for anything. Why my dad hates me? Yeah i did which is why i edited the question. Don't answer my question if you gonna leave crap answer. If you don' get the question don't answer it! i added a update for a reason. |
| Question: Assaulted by family member? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:31 PM PDT I have been assaulted more than once and I feel like I'm making a big deal out of it because it's not like it was rape but I don't know and this particular assault bothered me because it was my cousin he came in at 3 am and started humping me and I could feel his penis I don't really know if this is assult then he started feeling my butt and I was face down sleeping but I woke up when I felt this and I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want it to be akward because if he knows that I know then it will be akward and I don't want family drama and this happened in June and I just started thinking about it and then he kept on trying to take off my shorts and I rolled over and pretended to be waking up and he ran then he tried again and I sat up but he already hid and the next day he was acting like nothing happened and I started sleeping on the couch downstairs in the opening so if he tried again someone would catch him,I don't want to tell any adults in my family because I don't want any drama and he is 16 and I was 14 at the time(2 months ago).Am I overreacting and I also don't want to tell because then I won't be able to see my aunt and I like her.Also my dad he might take me back over there because that's where he stays when he visits me and I don't want to go back but I don't want to tell. What should I do? |
| Question: Ex roommates. What to do? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:28 PM PDT Had folks living with me that put holes in my wall disrespected me and alot more crap. But when they moved out they left baby stuff and left owing me money. That was roughly 6-7 months ago. They text me last week wanting the stuff and I told them not until I get my money. There's a whole lot to this situation but I'm not gonna go into it. What's y'all opinion? What should I do? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:16 PM PDT Hasn t even wanted to be in my babygirls life for a year and a half!! It s tearing me and my man apart bcuz the only reason she wants to try and take my daughter from us is bc she wants my fiance back. It s not fair to my daughter bc she calls me mommy and is scared to go over there!! I m an emotional wreck my man is distancing himself from me and I don t know what to do!!!!! Help please???? |
| Question: How can I tell my mum I am a boy? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:30 AM PDT |
| Question: Do I owe my ex an explanation? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:23 AM PDT Hi, my ex and I have been broken up for over a month.. I miss him terribly but we had a really bad relationship we only fought he hit me 2x and choked me once but i moved past it and forgave him. However I went on vacation for 2 months and while away I realized that he was abusive including emotionally and i realized that he was no good for me. He was 26 working at Walmart living with his mother and dealing drugs while I am getting my bachelors degree. I decided I deserved more and broke up with him through text while I was a month in into my vacation telling him that all we do is fight and we have different life goals and I deserve someone who treats ne good and he s not what Im looking for. He told me he had bought me an engagement ring while I was away but we still broke up and I have not talked him to him since... However now Im back and hes been calling me from different numbers since I blocked his and Im wondering if I should just talk to him and explain to him everything or am I just just looking for a way to contact him since I miss him? What should I do? I love him and I miss him terribly but I dont wanna fall back into this cycle. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT I talked to her so bad my mom started crying. I verbally abused like crazy bc talking down to her made me feel good. I was telling my friends n my mom I was done with her. We weren't even talking. Not having sex either. HFir 7 years shes been there for me n my son. I cheated a lot through out the years and 3 months ago she stayed out all night and confessed she had been hanging out with this guy. At first she Denied having sex with him but later cinfessed that she did Then she said she didnt. I keep asking got his number and he said they didnt she just wanted to piss me off. Months passed she say they were just cool. I finally called him and he said yes 1 time just like she had said at first. Then she confessed and cried the next day saying she was a disgrace. She wants to work it out but idk. What do u think? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:34 AM PDT of time with us. We allowed our daughter to move in when she had no place else to go. We had fight and she punched me in the back as I was walking away so I, as she claims "assaulted her". She moved out that day and we haven't spent time with him for 62 days now. . Our daughter texted her Dad the other night to ask him (just him) if he wanted to meet her and our GS for dinner. He declined b/c I wasn't included. Our daughter sent another text to her Dad telling him, she didn't want to put him in the middle, but I'm crazy and unstable and she 'will not allow me around her son.. Should my husband go to meet with them so he can see his GS, or should we stick together.to show we believe what she's doing to our GS and to us is wrong? We both miss him something awful. Thanks so much, you input is much appreciated. * your |
| Question: Does he love his fiancee? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:27 AM PDT This man started cheating about a month before he got engaged and has continued to cheat. He sometimes says that he "has to be good" or that he shouldn't but he has continued. Could he love his fiancee and cheat on her? |
| Question: What do you know about Ben Bangma? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:59 AM PDT Why is her husband telling me he loves me and that his marriage is over.? Question-(Why Can't she help her own marriage?) I don't hate her or anything.. I don't push him to leave her. I'm not sure I would want that anyway. I have been married twice. Plus My 2nd husband cheated on me with the other woman then married her. I never loved him he was just a rebound from my first marriage T He calls me 5 and 6 times a day. Texts me constantly and we have never had sex we decided to wait so he can prove how much he loves me. |
| Question: How can i commit suicide without any pain? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:50 AM PDT Im really going through a big trouble. My family hates me. I've stopped studying. My life is gone. I dont wish to be alive anymore. Please help me to die. |
| Question: Have I betrayed my manager? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:03 AM PDT So my manager has been helping me a lot lately for career opportunities and he is simply a great guy. But today I got to speak to a manager from another department in my company who has a much bigger network. So I asked her te help me for a specific opportunity, that my own manager wasn't able to help me with. It was impulsive as I mentioned that my manager wasn't able to do it, but that maybe she could help me because of her connections. (The two managers are befriended, not rivals btw) Somehow, just seconds after I said this, I felt as I had betrayed my manager! I've a light form of social anxiety, always afraid to offend people, so this was a biggie. So, did I betray him with this? |
| Question: Why do people say that marriage is good for everyone or even most people? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:02 AM PDT 50% of all marriages end in divorce and many of the other 50% are miserable or have a cheating spouse. See: http://www.apa.org/topics/divorce/ My dad and mom stayed together all their life, but they secretly dislike each other. I am all for having a temporary girlfriend for sex and pleasure however, but marriage doesn't even work for most people. |
| Question: Feeling singled out? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:01 AM PDT Do you ever feel like you're singled out? That everyone hates you or dislikes you and makes fun of you? Like you're the laughing stock? Like you were always the odd one out and will always be that way? This is how I'm feeling right now. Can someone gives me some words of advice or something to help cheer me up? |
| Question: I had sex with this older man should I go visit him again.? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:08 AM PDT I'm 28 and I had sex with a 41 year old but I don't know if he actually enjoyed it he never said he did or didn't. We live in different states and he did ask me when would I be back to see him after we had sex. I asked him if I could come and visit him anytime I wanted and he said yes. We are not in a long distance relationship we are just friends. Besides the good sex I like being around him. We met for the first time in June and I want to go back and see him in December. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:54 AM PDT he is like my brother. |
| Question: Any swingers in Hamilton Ontario? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:23 AM PDT |
| Question: Why couldn't my girlfriend hear girlfriend here me but someone else could talk to her? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:01 AM PDT So I called my girlfriend today early in the morning and everything was fine, but i tried calling her again because i forgot something and all i heard her say is hello then silence. after about 5 seconds I hung up and called her back to her being frantic. She said a black man or someone called her with my number and was speaking with her to which she hung up. She got this call from this person while i could only hear my girlfriend. so i'm confused is someone pulling a prank on my? how can someone be using my phone while i'm using it to call her? did my phone get hacked? |
| Question: When you view a loved ones body can they hear you...it looked like my brother was crying? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:26 AM PDT |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:46 AM PDT My mother in law babysit my little girl on the 2 days that me and husband's work schedules overlap. She watches her 12 hours a week, and we pay her. When she gets to the house before I leave for work she will call me to let me know that she is outside. I usually am at the door time she calls, because she is impatient. Well yesterday she came 10 minutes early. So I took my child in the kitchen and gave her medicine, water, and a snack. So we went back in the bedroom where my cell phone was. We were in the kitchen maybe 5 minutes. So I got in there, and saw she had called 3 times. So then I went and open the door for her. Then I went back in the room. My husband was calling then. I answered, and she said his mom was calling him because I wouldn't let her in. So then after that I see I have 2 voicemail. They are from her. The first is nice. And then she leaves another one a minute later. She says that she is at the door. And that if we didn't want her there, then she was leaving and going home! I comforted her about it and asked her why didn't knock. She used to have a key. But she was always walking in without knocking. And would come in while we were gone and take stuff without asking for it. So now she does not one. Later she came and said she was just upset that her satellite TV was turned off. She doesn't have a job. She was getting free access because she never turned in her satellite boxes. This was the first time I had gotten to the door late every. So this was crazy. |
| Question: Should I try to mend things with my ex ? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:34 AM PDT So I dated this girl 2 years ago for like month. It was a rebound relationship for both of us so afterwards we remained friends. (Even tho it's been rocky), We have not talked in a year before 2 months ago when I asked if she wanted to get some lunch. She said sure and we actually had a good time. So when I was in town last week (because I live outta state) I asked if she wanted to get together again she said sure when she had some free time I was still spending time with another "friend" so he ended up spending time with us. I felt that we did not have a good time (because most of the time my "friend" was with us. And because me her and some talks about the past which I felt was silly. I later texted her saying that we should not talk anymore she then flipped out and starting calling me delusional (cuz I guess my "friend" told her i said we were together for 2 years starting drama) she actually said some really messed up things and I did as well. It really come outta nowhere and I did not even know she was so angry at me. Anyway looking back I kinda want to mend things with her and end things on good terms but I don't know if I should and I should hair move on. I feel that it's silly stuff and I actually care about her so I don't want to end things on bad blood especially over silly drama and on false pretense. Any advice ?? |
| Question: How to love someone who was once in an abusive relationship? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:34 AM PDT I finally met the girl of my dreams but she recently opened up about being with a man who abused her for at least 4 years. After she left that guy, she found a guy who was good in the beginning but as years flew by he became a scrub. He never went to get a job, always took her money, ate all her food, took her things & was just a bum overall. She met me & now she has no trust in men & she seems very unsure although, I know she wants to be with me but she's scared. I got a job, 3 cars, 2 houses & I could give her anything she desires. I'm a man, I know how to cherish a female. I was raised around woman so I understand them so well, I just don't know what to do with this lady of mine. I would never even think about trying to hurt her physically, mentally, verbally, or any of that. I really adore her & wanna just take her away with me but she's scared. I don't mind waiting on her, she'll come around when she feels like it, I get that. It's just gonna take some time for her to step out her comfort zone & I understand & respect that. I'm just asking for some tips, what are some things I could do to earn her trust & love? Even when I do get her love & trust who will I be able to keep it? Don't get me wrong, I know how to make a woman fall in love with me (I am not cocky or a duche bag I'm just saying) I know how to maintain her love but it's just this woman has gon' thru hell & back & I just don't know what to do for her..... |
| Question: Why do i agree on everything and don't have an opinion on my own? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:05 AM PDT I'm 21 year old guy and introverted as well. For the moment i don't have much going on in my life. Just going to school and spending the rest of my time at home due to the lack of friends. Everytime when someone asks / propose me something i'm fine with it. When i meet up with someone from my class for an groupassignment tell say "we'll get togheter at 2pm ok?" and i'll just answer everytime with something like "ok fine by me" (because i have all the time of the world i don't see a reason why i should propose another time or date) Same goes if my mother ask what i want to eat. I'll say "I don't know, you can choose whatever you like. Its all the same for me" Now it's starting to annoy people that i don't have a opinion of my own and that i agree on everything they propose. I really don't know what i can do to change this. Does anyone has any advice? |
| Question: Sex in Jannat (Que for Muslims)? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:37 AM PDT I wanna ask that will there be sex in Jannat or not? There will be "Hoors", so will we have sex with them or not? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:32 AM PDT I would like to add: I submitted this question before I was ready, hence the period with question mark. I wanted to ask: How can I politely tell them that I want to celebrate holidays and birthdays for our son separately. |
| Question: Walked in my parents room? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:59 AM PDT I was gonna go get my brother to go sleep with me but the door was locked. He was already asleep long ago. Then i hear the door open and I go inside the room and just see my mom covering herself as I walk in while my dad went to the restroom. That was when I realized what they were doing. I just said I'm gonna get him to sleep with me and she said no. How do I get this awkward situation handled. I blame myself entirely I am 17 if that matters |
| Question: Got Cheated Twice But still in the Relation?!!! Very Serious....? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:50 AM PDT My Girlfriend and i are in a relationship for 3 years. We are thinking for marriage in future. She cheated me twice in four months. Once she slept with a guy whom she knew for very long. And second time She Video chatted with a guy who she knew from 1 month showing all her body. I still forgive her for my love. But she is still ignoring me and don't give me proper attention. What should i do?? Am i doing right or wrong? |
| Question: Ex playing games, won't let me see our son? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 11:02 PM PDT I have a 4 month old boy with my ex, she moved hour and a half away within days with her new bf. She usually meets me half way Tuesdays but she blew me off after we had it planned, for no reason, blocked my # too. I think her bf is doing all this, making it as hard as possible on me. I've called from other's phones and left voicemails n messages saying I will drive all the way to get him, even if it's for the day. I leave next week so I might not see him for at least a month. Plz what would you do? If I show up asking as nice as possible to see my son like I have been... ? :( |
| Question: My sister commited suicide. How I deal with it? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 10:49 PM PDT I don t know why but i haven t cried since it happened but i can t eat and i have a feeling in my chest that won t go away and I m burning up. I teased her a lot so maybe it was my fault but she also had a fight with her friend. What if it was my fault? How do I ask for forgiveness and how do I make things right? Please help |
| Question: What do you think of all this ? Do you think she still loves me,? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 10:08 PM PDT I'm 16, mom & her friends (elana & Dona) instruct Dance everyday. We have a very close family bond. I'm really close with Dona, she always supports me, I love her a lot, we have a special bond.. Recently Dona got madbecause she couldn't get the dance moves as quick as mom & elana; so she got mad at elana, Dona now feels she doesn't deserve to be on stage. She hasn't come to Dance in 5weeks, she's over exaggerating, we love her so much & have tried everything for her to come back but she's not. 4 days ago I texted her "wanted to say I love & miss u so much! Been thinking about you, I hope your doing great!" She put "aww I love you & miss you too!đđđ" (I know she's serious when she says that because she's a very serious, hardly shows emotion kinda lady, who Is very straight up!) today she wasn't on my Facebook anymore, turns out she blocked me, mom & Elena. Why'd she block me?? Anyway, today I texted her saying how much I missed her & love her, how I miss her always (playfully) yelling at me & waving at me, how I hope she's doing good & im always thinking of her. She put "I miss you more! I hope everything's going good for u, looks like ur going to have to find someone else to take my place.. always remember Hun that no matter how hard things get, always be the best, most positive person u can be!đđđ" I said "no one will ever take ur place! u will always hold a special place in my heart" do u think she thought it was weird? I hope she liked it, any advice on all this? |
| Posted: 11 Aug 2015 09:55 PM PDT And look her up on social media and under her profile bio, it states " my life is school, my bestie and my MAN, and she only has pictures of her on her profile and she doesn't state that she's in a relationship on there and there is no guy telling her she loves him etc on her pictures. What gives, is she leading me on or what? |
| Question: How to tell my meat-eating boyfriend I want to go vegan? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 09:28 PM PDT I am already a vegetarian, and for the most part I have been avoiding all animal products in my own meal prep for a few months now. My boyfriend is a meat-eater, never gives me a hard time about my choices but I know it's not his favourite thing in the world purely for convenience issues (eg certain restaurants won't cater for me that he would like to go to) I was hoping to make the switch to veganism but wasn't sure how to bring it up and gage his reaction- also I have my hesitations as we both live at home and I don't want to be a burden on his family during meal times... I need some help and advice |
| Question: What race has the most racist people? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 08:57 PM PDT |
| Question: Really homesick and Im starting to cry. Help!? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 08:52 PM PDT So I'm going to the beach with my neighbor for about a week. At first, I was excited, but now that it's almost time for me to leave, I REALLY don't want to go. I get homesick really easily and I'm starting to cry because I don't want to go, but I don't know what to do! If I call and tell them that I'm sick, I don't think they would believe me. Please help me! What should I do? |
| Question: How to convince my dad? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 08:28 PM PDT How do I convince my dad to let me use men's deodorant? All of the women's deodorants smell like perfume sprayed in my nostrils and none of the unscented brands work for me. My dad says that men's deodorant can't be used by a woman and even went as far to think I was transgender! I know if I go and buy it myself he'll either see it or smell it on me and then have a fit. Any advice on how to persuade him? Thanks. ~Jennifer |
| Question: Why do I have to feel upset over something I have no control over? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 08:11 PM PDT OK so I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years. He was recently separated from his ex wife when we got together and at that time they had a 6 month old daughter. I was 18 when meeting him and he was 20. We start dating and about 2 months into our relationship I find out he had cheated on me with his ex wife... And she was pregnant with his 2nd child. Anyway I chose to stay with this guy because he is the first guy I have truly ever loved. He was a good liar and actor because he continued to cheat on me 6 more months into our relationship and I was finished. He promised he would change and be the man I "deserve". I have always felt like I'll never be anything special to him because he has already been a husband and a father to a girl and now a boy. So there's nothing I can't give him he doesn't already have. Since he chose to stay with me. I have got to meet the kids and everything. However I still feel as if I am never going to be anything special. He is my basically my first everything. Now that we are serious in our relationship we both agree on marriage. But he says he doesn't want anymore kids but I want children of my own. I will love his kids even though one is a product of cheating I will not take that out on an innocent child. I just want to have kids of my own. I get so depressed when I think of my future if I can't even have children. All I have ever wanted to be is a good wife and a good mother. Am I being selfish for wanting this? |
| Question: Unconditional love or "hell is other people"? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 07:55 PM PDT A famous philosopher once said one is forced see himself/herself as an object through the eyes of other people, so others is hell to oneself. Does one feel MORE COMFORTABLE in the presence of other people or just himself? i.e. the presence of other people's love make you feel more comfortable or love actually stifle you? |
| Posted: 11 Aug 2015 07:50 PM PDT My sister has moved out and taken her son with her. She's living on a sofa in a trailer with 4 other adults and at least 2 other children. She has no job and has called every other day asking for food or money. Worried about my nephew I've given her what I could, so have my parents and her ex. We recently found out that the adults in the home are swingers that are into BDSM, and had started including my sister. The neighborhood they are in is scetchy at best and they have been threatened by the neighbors for having guests over that they didn't like. They threatened to burn the house to the ground. I'm terrified for my nephews life and well being but I can't seem to get anyone of authority to listen to me because in just his aunt. What do I do? I just want them safe or at least him back home where he is fed and taken care of. |
| Question: Am I being too critical of how my fiancé treats my dad? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 07:16 PM PDT My dad and finance don't always get along. My fiancĂ© will say Hello to my dad and engage in a conversation he initiated , when he comes over our house, but will not go out of her way to engage him. My dad can be a very stubborn, critical, and narcissistic person at times. And he is always quick to pick out other people's faults. This infuriates my fiancĂ© and me at times too. Lately when he comes over my house I have found that my fiancĂ© mysteriously goes upstairs as he is about to leave the house. I have a feeling that she is trying to avoid saying goodbye. He will usually yell upstairs "goodbye" to her and she will respond with goodnight. Am I being over sensitive here? She always makes it a point to say hello and goodbye to my other family members and friends but not my dad. I was always raised to say goodbye to a guest with a handshake or kiss on the cheek. My fiancĂ© knows this is the protocol But seems to avoid it with my dad. I called her out on this and she said she is not avoiding him. Do I push her on this or let it be? |
| Question: I need help dealing with my long-term boyfriend's new family issues? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 07:11 PM PDT I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We moved in together after less than a month, & have always been close. We have been through a lot of rough times, from him being told he had cancer twice (he didn't) & me almost dying in a car wreck, which he helped me recover from. We moved across the country together & have always had our up & downs (we have always been with people in the past who let us be in charge) Over the past year he has been on & off depressed/suffering from PTSD/not wanting to leave the house or be in contact with anyone regularly other than friends from the gym that he would still ghost on for a month+. We recently found out that his ex wives kid, who he always assumed was her new husband's, since she was cheating with him throughout their relationship/then married him when my bf found out/&he adopted the kid...is actually my boyfriend's. He is now saying he wants to move across the country (not where we met) to be with his child & co-parent with his ex. He says he has no interest in her since she is unfaithful. He also says I cannot move with him until the kid has been re-adopted by him since his lawyer says a relationship will mess up his chances of getting the kid back. What are our other options to not be separated for a unknown period of time/across the country because of the lawyer's advice about the kid? We are both scared and upset, and need advice. He will not be living with his ex,just in the same town. |
| Question: Should I talk to my mom? I think shes cheating or seeing a different guy? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 05:57 PM PDT For a few months me and my sister noticed my mom has been different, she's been leaving the house more and coming home at nighttime when she should be home around 3. She has a lot of friends but she only talks to this one guy when no one is around and she talks REALLY quietly. I understand that people don't like it when others take their phone but me and my sis used to be able to go on it and do whatever and it was like that for year but now if I touch her phone she quickly snatches it away. Also the other day I was picking up my sis from her friends and she told me to get out and knock on the door and when we got back in the car she was on the phone talking really quietly and she NEVER talks quiet even in the phone she's usually super loud, also she accidentally pressed FaceTime while trying to hang up and what popped up was a mans face!!!!! I really wanna talk to her and ask her some questions because I can't imagine shed cheat on my dad, they're not the closest couple but my dad would never do that he's actually asked her several times if she's cheating and she denied it all... Should I ask her too? |
| Question: Do you love being the caregiver or the kept for? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 05:57 PM PDT In a love relationship? |
| Question: Can you Help me with my Situation? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 05:12 PM PDT I really want to forger this girl i use to like! I wanna get her out of my mind Well back in 2008(i was a 13 yr old) i met this girl in a grammar classroom after school i was there because i accidentaly left my books inside the classroom earlier. so i went after school to recover my books and she was standing outside the classroom and she help me get the door open(she asked the next door teacher for the key), so i recovered my books and the girls was really beautiful. so during that time 2008-2009 everytime i saw her i had palpitations and i felt very nervous i had a crush on her. i never talked to her and told her anything.because i am very shy around girls and also later that year i found out she was the grammar's teacher daughter that teacher was very strict and bitter i was afraid of her. And I Became a homeschooler. so i studied through online and mail educational programs. i was doing really well in homeschooling until in november 2014 i suffered a small streak of anxiety and depression. that streak made me search for her online.and i found her. she was a succesfull youtuber so i started watching her videos and my old feelings for her returned. but Last week i saw her facebook page and it said that she was in a relationship with a guy who studies chemistry in the same university as her this made me realize that this girl isnt for me. but at the same time i feel kind of sad because i had a small crush on her. what can I do to forget her? |
| Posted: 11 Aug 2015 04:57 PM PDT ConocĂ a esta chica al entrar a la escuela. Al principio me hablaba para preguntarme por tareas y eso (es lo Ășnico por lo que me hablaban, tengo muy pocos amigos) Aveces me contaba cosas de su vida, tenĂamos hobbys similares por lo que era agradable hablar con ella En la escuela nos juntĂĄbamos, bromeamos entre nosotros, le ayudaba con las materias. Fuera de la escuela, por chat conservamos, siempre me mandaba mensajes, vĂdeos, etc. preguntĂĄndome por tareas o de algo que querĂa compartir, desde que llegĂĄbamos de la escuela hasta la hora de dormir (me llegaba a desvelar por ella) DĂas pasaban, y sin saberlo, yo era tan feliz de haberla conocido. Me sentĂa diferente, siempre querĂa hablar y estar con ella, me preguntaba como estaba ella, ese tipo de cosas, pensaba "estoy enamorado" jamas me habĂa sentido asĂ por alguien. La verdad me cuestionaba en mi interior si realmente estaba enamorado. Me di cuenta que me enamore perdidamente cuando deje de preguntarme y empece a "elegir" estar enamorado de ella. Aunque llego un punto donde nos empezamos a distanciar, ya no nos tratĂĄbamos igual, solo me hablaba pidiendo ayuda por tareas, algo que jamas me gusto, sin un hola o sin un adiĂłs, hasta pareciendo que ni en visto dejaba mis mensajes, no nos hablĂĄbamos entre vacaciones, aunque estamos en el mismo grupo de amigos, siento que a mi me trata diferente ahora, como que no le importo nada Simplemente desearĂa mejorar las cosas y tambiĂ©n, tener la oportunidad de decirle lo que siento. |
| Question: I just found out i have a brother. how do i found him? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 04:37 PM PDT so my mom told me that she gave a baby away 6 years before i was born. he'd be 32 now, maybe lives somewhere in ny? maybe his name is sean? the hospital she had him in is closed and she went through a private lawyer, not an agency or orphanage. |
| Question: What should i do now!!!I want to move on and forget about her!!!our friendship is dead? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 04:29 PM PDT So I confess my feelings to my girl best friend(twice, also did it last month) and sadly I got Rejected, she told me she doesn't wanna be in a relationship right now, that she cares about me and she only sees me as a friend.everyone is telling me to move on,forget about her and distance myself from her but what they don't understand is that she's one of the most important people I care about this world, and I always want to be there for her no matter what,I love this girl so much that I just can't be mean to her but I'm also tired of trying.She knows that I like her since the first day we met(2 years ago) and from what I heard from other friends is that she sees me a a friend but she gets confused sometimes..it's really awkward now!,she try to talk to me yesterday at work but i ignore her( not because i was mad at her but because i was to shy to talk to her).This morning i try to apologize to her, telling her why i ignore her yesterday but she didn't really care(she reply with a "okay") then i told her to please give me something to think of because i didn't know how to reply to her answer, i want to be her best friend and to to start( repair our friendship) over again but she told that she can't give me something to think of and it's all on me.when i read that, i felt so cold but i told her that i want to keep friendship but she just ignore my text after that. What now? should i just ignore her completely and forget about all this or should i try to repair our friendship!? how should i act towards her!!?? honestly if you ask me, i want her to regret her rejection! to feel the same pain I'm feeling right now!!! and show her what she lost!!!im just tired of this. |
| Question: Should i get intimate with him? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 04:27 PM PDT I have been talking to this guy for 4 months now, he clearly wants to get intimate. He says he loves me but i have mixed feelings about him like i don't love him. I don't want to give up my virginity yet i am 23 and he is 25 but he's been intimate before. I just may want to experiment maybe do anal or oral. I haven't done anything but kissing and i think he has done everything, so should i try it even though i don't love him or should i wait? He sent me a picture of his area and i sent one of mine. |
| Posted: 11 Aug 2015 04:13 PM PDT I was with a guy for 6 years. I broke up with him because I decided to pursue medical school. I found it hard to maintain both so we broke up. I left my hometown where he is from. He now has a new girlfriend and I heard from mutual friends that she went to hangout with them. While there she asked for photos of me to see what I look like. She also told them she couldn't find anything about me online ( I don't have any social media accounts) and that no one knows where I am. Is this normal behavior or is it a bit strange. I haven't asked anything about them and have tried to move on with my life. ?? Why does she care? I also was told he told her I was fat and ugly. I don't get why someone who i was with for 6 years would say such hurtful things? |
| Question: If you are engaged to someone do u count as immediate family? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 03:36 PM PDT So im engaged and my partners aunt passed away and i new her but the father of the aunt is paying and doesnt no who i am he had arranged it for immediate family only and i wanted to no if i count so i could attend ? |
| Question: I'm in love with a man I known for 6 years but he is married? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 02:11 PM PDT |
| Question: How to start a love affair with a gorgeous work colleague? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 01:42 PM PDT Hi guys, I am infatuated with a gorgeous work colleague. It is a woman so beautiful I don't have words to describe her. From what I see externally, she is kind and of a sturdy intelligence; a competent worker and a reliable person to have in your team. She is all I ever dreamed of. Unfortunately she is married and have 3 little children. I have strong reasons to think she have a sturdy love for her husband. (As you see, I used twice the word "sturdy" because that is what's characterize her mostly). I suppose the rest of her life is already written in 5 words "and they lived happily ever after". But I have so much love and romance to offer to her that I think she needs me to break her happy and loving family and to give her an adventure which will fulfill a lifetime. Even if it will be a short time adventure (my most lengthy love relationship lasted 8.5 months), I think it will worth all the effort and the pain of the foreseeable outcome. Thus, I ask you for an advice: how should I proceed to obtain my goal (I mean a love affair with this woman). I have no experience in seducing married women and, as a principle, I never start a relationship with a colleague. Please, spare me idiotic answers such as "you should not …", "a bastard like you seduced my wife ...", "it is wrong …", "think about the children …". I know it is morally wrong and I also know a man should never break a family for his infatuations. Her husband would be right to shut me. But I decided I rather gladly go in hell for her and now I try to elaborate a plan to obtain her. As I have no experience and no useful ideas, I ask you for help. I have an incentive: I'm a spare time writer, so if your answer is witty, it certainly will be a part of my next book (you never know how successful my next book could be). Please try to understand: my life - which is the most precious thing I have - would be worthless without her (as a matter of fact, it is already). Bless you. |
| Question: How do I tell my parents that I watch Dan and Phil? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 10:58 AM PDT So I've been watching Dan and Phil for a while now, and as some of you know, THEY WROTE A BOOK. And I really want to buy it, but I'm not sure my parents will let me. You see, they're very Christian and I'm not sure they would approve the stuff Dan and Phil say or do. Mostly Dan. So...how do I buy the book??? Do I tell them? and how??? |
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