Marriage & Divorce: Question: Why cant people just pick a spouse at a young age then make it last forever, none of this Tinder crap? |
- Question: Why cant people just pick a spouse at a young age then make it last forever, none of this Tinder crap?
- Question: If you had nothing to lose, what would you do?
- Question: Is it fair for my step dad to expect my mom to reimburse him for costs of selling our house?
- Question: Did your parents get divorced?
- Question: Leaving an abusive marriage ! Help .?
- Question: Buenas noches quiero saber que tengo que hacer para casarme en cuba siendo residente americano? que papeles necesito?
- Question: I'm seeing a gentleman in his 50s and we haven't spoken in a little over a week?
- Question: My heart is so broken right now and I don't know what to do?
- Question: I caught my husband of 8 years sleeping with my best friend! I'm utterly devastated and don't know how to feel, help.?
- Question: Ok, how common is polygamy? How many of you are into it?
- Question: I slept with my husbands boss!!! PLEASE HELP I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?
- Question: Do you have a much older husband?
- Question: See in-laws too much?
- Question: Husband and wife repair business. He does repairs she does office. Is it all his money because he does the repairs?
- Question: Does an American man have the right to complain?
- Question: My husband walked in on the gardener and I having sex!?!?
- Question: Pushed my husband and he punched me?
- Question: Brother-In-Law comes over too much, is it inappropriate?
- Question: Would you marry a woman who had been married four times?
- Question: I just found out that my wife of 4 years cheated on me. Keep her and fix it or dump her ?
- Question: My husband is being accused of touching my daughter.?
- Question: Do not want to sell family home?
- Question: Would u marry a man who cheated on his wife?
- Question: Can I move home while my husband goes to school?
- Question: Divorce with a newborn in state of Virginia - advice?
- Question: My BF said he wants marriage and kids but needs to establish financial security first with in a year or two. what you think?
- Question: Why would a man in his early 50's get married?
- Question: Wife told you that she'd moved on but doesn't want to divorce. She got pregnant by another man, didn't tell you and had sex with you?
- Question: I need help with taking initiative in my marriage. There's no matriarch, but there's no patriarch either. 14 years of anarchy. How to fix?
- Question: My ex husband and I are good friends, but stops talking to me when he's dating?
- Question: How do I deal with my wife's sister at an upcoming family party?
- Question: Husband didn t get me a birthday present. What should I get myself?
- Question: Is there a (Time Limit ) on what is considered real love?
- Question: We started out perfect and I started cheating multiple times, coming home late for years I did this. 3 months ago she cheated im hurt sick?
- Question: If i get divorced from my husband he is a vet can i apply for a va home loan?
- Question: Why is it always the other woman's fault? She stopped sleeping with him. Talking to him and showing him affection. And!!?
- Question: Does my husband have a good argument?
- Question: State of Florida. If my boyfriend and I get married well they calculate my income on his child support?
- Question: If I was married for 2 years or less and divorced within 5 years am I eligible for survivor benefits?
- Question: Hi im 21 my bf is 29 we are suppose to get married this month. im nervous about the fights also will our age difference be a problem? help?
- Question: I can't stand my husbands family and want them out of my life! Advice please!?
- Question: I feel so lonely?
- Question: My wife focuses on my faults... to a fault.?
- Question: Any assistance for people housing ex-inmates?
- Question: Am I rushing things talking to him about marriage and kids ?
- Question: Why is it that mostly wives who are outgoing and lively are battered or bludgeoned or beaten up by their husbands?
- Question: Do women condone other women cheating?
- Question: Husband gets pouty and retreats after we have a discussion.Knowing he's angry makes me glad.?
- Question: What did your husband have that made you marry your him and not the other ones?
- Question: I know my husband likes boobs and he knows i'm a bit insecure about my body coz im a bit chubby but that has nothing to do with him being?
- Question: My husband lies, makes promises he never keeps. He has an excuse for everything, all the time. He claims to love me? I don't believe him?
- Question: Is it unreasonable to expect my wife leave a party early with me because I have to work?
- Question: I am a almost 49 year old female. I just found out from my husband that i have orgasms in my sleep. I sometimes wake up afterwards unaware?
- Question: My husband blames me for every fight. He starts fights and finds an excuse to leave. He won t go to counseling or do anything to change.?
- Question: My husband is highly addcted to porn and when i am ask about it he get anger. also he is looking at other women when he is with me.?
- Question: How often do married couples have sex? Also about how long does it last?
- Question: Did you get to marry your high school or junior high sweetheart?
- Question: Should a wife be jealous of a nanny?
- Question: How do I know if my husband is cheating?
- Question: Seeing my husband after the separation?
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:00 PM PDT U put in your personal info into your phone. And it finds u nearby matches or something. Damn it, haven't u ever heard of opposites attract, people? Better yet, have your parents arrange the marriage if u cant avoid having parents and being raised by the foster care system. In that case try speed dating |
| Question: If you had nothing to lose, what would you do? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:29 PM PDT So, I am 23 years old and I work in a factory. One of the forklift drivers caught my eye from the moment I walked in the door. He is 35, has 6 children between him and his wife of two years, two Great Danes, a home...did I mention he s MARRIED? He s got it all and here he is at work hitting on me. About three months into our friendship. He s asked me things like, "Is it possible to love two people at once?" or he tells me all the time that he loves me and that he s not going anywhere. I realize this is him making a huge mistake and being unfaithful to his wife, but I can t help my feels. I feel like I should feel guilty, but he s the one who if putting himself into this situation. I have nothing to lose. Even if he didn t see a future, he s still looking for friends with benefits. (We have kissed each other and touched each other with mutual intensions.) In other words, he is still technically cheating on his wife. To feel guilty or not to feel guilty? 😐 HELP |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:20 PM PDT My step dad asked my mom for a divorce a few months ago and we are moving out at the end of the month. They don't really have any assets other than our house so they aren't getting divorce attorneys or anything. He's covering the cost of their divorce. He has been (for the most part) amicable with her since he asked for the divorce and has let us stay on his insurance and continue living there until we move out. Although he has been reasonable as of lately, this has definitely not been the case throughout most of their 11 year marriage. He has been verbally and emotionally abusive to my mother and I both. He has abused me physically at times and is a profuse alcoholic. He has verbally berated my mother so much that she thinks this is a normal. He feels threatened by any hobbies or friendships outside their marriage. He has put us both in many harmful, embarrassing, and scarring situations over the years. He has threatened her with divorce multiple times now and is always accusing her of cheating. They are going to be selling our house soon and there is still some major work to be done. He expects her to reimburse her for half of all costs going towards remodeling and or a realtor if he even decides to hire one. My mother makes less than $18,000 a year and he makes upwards of $60,000. She does not have insurance. We won't make much money off the house because he has made spending decisions such as buying a brand new car every year that have damaged his credit. Ran out of room! Sorry for such a long question. Anyways, my mother is not even asking for alimony. Considering that she agreed not to hire a divorce attorney and isn't asking for alimony (and the fact that he makes nearly triple the amount of income that she does), is it fair for him to ask her to pay him back for selling/fixing up the house? |
| Question: Did your parents get divorced? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:14 PM PDT I just wanna see that other people have gone through this too. How did you deal with it? |
| Question: Leaving an abusive marriage ! Help .? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:07 PM PDT I want to leave my marriage, im mid 30s year old. My husband is almost 50. We been together 10 years, he was a sweet loving man until the day we got married.. He started drinking, and we argue everynight, i have two kids, one is 11 the other is 15. My kids both have nerve problems, so it affects them big time. Ive tried to leave before but i keep go back no matter what hes done. If i leave, he takes my car, physically touches me during arguments, calls me fat and worthless, i cant have any friends. Females or males. He thinks i will cheat on him. He still talks to his ex wife, shes late 50s. He gets so drunk he doesnt eat, and just falls asleep in our living room, plus he friends with all the police so that isnt much help. He gets me fired from all jobs if we divorce .. He stalks me .. The whole nine yards. My 15 year old is trying to help me get out, but i cant get my head straight, and suggestions ?! I need much help as possible . |
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| Question: I'm seeing a gentleman in his 50s and we haven't spoken in a little over a week? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:38 PM PDT We've gone on six dates, lunch or drinks, we have variety. We've spoken about what we want, casual.... we just wanted to get to know each other. We alternate who contacted whom, so it was equal. Last time I contacted him and we went out for lunch, and he asked me if we were going to have sex, so I said yes. We did things in the car... it was hot. Then, we left. That was thursday 2 weeks ago. On the following monday he sent me a smiley face. ... but thats it. We usually wait 3 weeks between outings, so I guess it's still within that time frame, but we go back to work next wdnesday and will see each other anyway. I sent him a text asking if we are taking thing to the next level (i.e. sex) or staying much friends. He's also been out of town, his kid is on leave from the army... a lot going on... I'm trying to stay positive. |
| Question: My heart is so broken right now and I don't know what to do? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:38 PM PDT I was with a man who was going through a divorce and I had no idea that he had another woman on the side that he proposed to before his divorce was final. The woman he proposed to was already married herself and now they get to go be happy and I am so miserable right now and I know I deserve it but how do I move forward |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:25 PM PDT I'm 29 years old and my husband is 33. My best friend is the same age as I am and we have been best friends ever since the 3rd grade. I'm so close with my best friend that I named my one year old baby after her and got her named tattooed on my wrist. Last week I came home from work early and caught my best friend and husband having sex. I'm in so much shock and my husband has told me that he 'loves' her and has been sleeping with her on and off for the last four years. I have kicked my husband out and haven't spoken to my bestfriend since. I cannot describe the agony in my heart right now, I feel so empty and guttered. The two people that I thought cared about me couldn't care less. I don't understand how my husband could do this to me when I thought that we were so in love. I want to never see my husband ever again but I still have love for him, please help me or share your stories, I need support right now as no one in my life understands. |
| Question: Ok, how common is polygamy? How many of you are into it? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:12 PM PDT I'm curious as to how people even get started in polygamy. Do you just desire it the same way that people desire monogamy? Are there any of you that hated the idea and somehow you ended up in a polygamous relationship anyway? Personally I don't agree with it. Even though I'm part Nigerian and my father grew up with 14 siblings and 3 mother's. I felt sorry for my grandma. I wonder if she ever knew how it felt to be special to one man.I want a man who only wants me. How do you feel about it? |
| Question: I slept with my husbands boss!!! PLEASE HELP I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:00 PM PDT It was at one of my husband's work party and we went to the back ended up having sex. I'm so embarrassed and afraid that my husband will find out. I find his boss very attractive and feel like a terrible person. I'm a woman that made a vow to god and have committed adultery!!!!!! Please help me!!! Am I a bad person!!?? It only happened once! |
| Question: Do you have a much older husband? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:27 PM PDT I have been with a much older man 25 years older (29 & 54) Everything is perfect between us. People who make assumptions about us are wrong. We are happy and in love. However, he has been married & divorced with 19yr old son. I have never been married, but I have children from a long term relationship that ended badly. We are pretty serious and have discussed marriage. I am completely wanting to commit....but of course occasionally peoples remarks get to me...although I think some have hidden agendas just to break us up..is it really that bad being married to an older man? I just cant see it, we get along so well. If you are or were married to one, how did it work out for you? Are there things you wish you had known or thought about prior to marrying someone significantly older? I am in love and trivial things dont matter, im looking for more of the deeper issues. im probably overthinking due to some peoples comments but im curious! |
| Question: See in-laws too much? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:15 PM PDT Now I've been with my husband 5 years. We recently got married about 2 months ago. I've always sorta had an issue seeing my in-laws too much. My husband knows that. I've told him multiple occasions. He'll improve but than fall back into his old ways which irritates me. When I worked every weekend I didn't mind seeing them for an hour or two on a Saturday but recently they've either been at our house every single weekend or every other weekend (the only ones I get off). And it's not a couple hours, we see them, it's Friday night, all day Saturday, and all day Sunday. And it's not just his parents. It's basically siblings, grand parents, aunts, uncles, and cousins that get together. I've grown increasingly irritated with my husband because I feel like we haven't had much time together as newly weds. He says we don't do anything so why not go out to hang out with his family which consist of him going off and hanging with the guys while I'm stuck with whoever is around. I'm pretty much the only one that hasn't had a kid so I feel sorta left out a lot. (I tell my husband this and he rolls his eyes like I'm over reacting). If they're not talking about all the new babies or having kids they talk about stuff that I don't relate to or find boring. Besides hanging out with them often. They call and text him CONSTANTLY. Like daily. And it's not a 5 minute things. It can longer than an hour!! How do I handle this? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:09 PM PDT Should be man and woman (not married but together and in business for 20 years) He says I do not bring in a paycheck to help support the household. I work everyday doing the bookkeeping and the billing, dealing with customers etc. Just for moral reasons is it really all his money? Should I go get a job just to hand my paycheck over to someone else to do what I do? |
| Question: Does an American man have the right to complain? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:08 PM PDT Does an American man have the right to complain? A European man says that his American wife is a piece of crap because European women told him so. He says that any women on planed earth that a European women says is a piece of crap, is a piece of crap and there is noting that she can do to prove other wise. |
| Question: My husband walked in on the gardener and I having sex!?!? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:52 PM PDT Hello, I'm 40. I have been married to my husband for 20 years and have two children together. The gardener is 20 years old and has been working for me since he was 15, he is very attractive. I have always been attracted to the gardener and I tried to shake off the feelings but couldn't (please don't judge) One day when I thought my husband was at work I invited the gardener inside, we had a few drink and well, one thing led to another and we started kissing eachother. Pretty soon we ended up in the bedroom and started having sex, it was great mind you. Well as we were having sex I heard a noise downstairs but thought nothing of it because like I said, my husband was suppose to be at work. I was yelling and screaming because I was having a really intense orgasm and for some reason I looked up and there was my husband.. I was in shock and he started at me and started screaming, I watched as tears welled in his eyes. He ran out of the room and I was going to go after him but wanted to let the gardener finish. After he finished I chased after my husband but he was nowhere in site. It's been 3 days since this disaster has happened and I feel terrible, as I write this sobbing on my bathroom floor wrapped in the foetal position, I don't know what to do and I feel so stupid. Please help me |
| Question: Pushed my husband and he punched me? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:12 PM PDT My husband does MMA and is extremely strong. He is always emotionally and verbally abusive. Lately I have been feeling very fed up with his words, yesterday when he cussed me out I slammed a door which then in return made him hit me hard with a pillow to my face while i was laying in bed fast forward hes still cussing me out and poured juice on me and then i pushed him when i pushed him he backed me into the wall and punched my arm... is it my fault since i was physical first with pushing him? |
| Question: Brother-In-Law comes over too much, is it inappropriate? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:10 PM PDT Out of the blue, my wife's brother has been coming over to house a lot. Basically every other day or so. I didn't mind it so much at first, but it's really starting to bother me. On multiple occasions, when I get home from work, both he and my wife are hanging out in our bedroom. They walk out when they hear me come in the door and say they were talking and catching up (how much catching up is there when you see each other almost every day?). Lately he has started to cook meals in our kitchen, but only for the two of them. It's like he ensures theres never enough for me. When I confronted my wife about this, she says she thought I ate before I came home, and that I need to not be sensitive since her and her brother were really close as kids. Is this normal, and what advice do you have to deal with this? PS. Just realized this is really long. Sorry about that. I've just become incredibly frustrated by this and she just doesnt seem to understand how it bothers me. |
| Question: Would you marry a woman who had been married four times? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 03:53 PM PDT |
| Question: I just found out that my wife of 4 years cheated on me. Keep her and fix it or dump her ? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 03:51 PM PDT I just found out that my wife of 4 years cheated on me. I had to drag it out of her on suspicion on 1500 text messages last month to a person I never knew. I absolutely love and adore her. Our marriage has some slight bumps (as many blended families do), but we had amazing sex, and our adult time was the best. She says she ended it, and wants to work on fixing our marriage, but I am not sure if I can ever trust her, after she betrayed me. What should I do...Work on it, or Dump her?? |
| Question: My husband is being accused of touching my daughter.? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 03:23 PM PDT My daughter came to me and said her step father touched her on her butt while she was sleeping. I don't know if she is telling the truth because a couple months ago she told her school that me and my husband we're mean to her and take her tablet away and make her clean. That put me in a CPS case and she is always asking me to move away from him because she feels she don't get any time with me. My husband swears he would never touch her and thinks this is her last option to get him out the house. Idk who or what to believe ??? |
| Question: Do not want to sell family home? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 02:49 PM PDT The ex wants me to sell family home NOW, even though our son is 16 and still lives at home. It has been 8 years since the divorce and never have received child support. I have also made all the mortgage payments for the last 9 years. What can I do. |
| Question: Would u marry a man who cheated on his wife? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 02:13 PM PDT I'm dating a man who's seperated and cheated on his wife |
| Question: Can I move home while my husband goes to school? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:42 PM PDT My husband and I recently moved out of state so he could attend grad school. I could not be more proud of him. I packed us up and drove us almost 2,000 miles. I have severe anxiety and depression. I knew this move would be hard away from my family and friends, but it's proving to be too much. I have even entertained suicidal thoughts. With constant communication and frequent trips to see him, could I make our marriage work long distance while he finishes school? Thanks in advance. |
| Question: Divorce with a newborn in state of Virginia - advice? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:29 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for two years and we just had a baby. I m looking to get a divorce because I recently found out he has cheated on me with 5 different women throughout my pregnancy (that I m aware of). My issue being, I currently do not have a job and I dont have any family I can rely on for help. My husband works at the jail and is about to get on at the police department. He says that if I leave or file for divorce that he will get full custody of our daughter because he makes more money and that he has a respectable position within the community. I cannot let this happen. I don t know what I would do without my daughter. What can I do? After I found out about the cheating his whole personality has changed. He curses at me and belittles me - but yet he does everything in his power to keep me from leaving. And he says that the reason he cheated was my fault! That I wasn t attentive enough to him but only a few months prior to all this he said I was clingy and needy! It s like the most bi-polar thing I have ever heard. I honestly don t know what to do! I ve never imagined myself in this position - especially being betrayed by him!!! All of a sudden he s just changed! |
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| Question: Why would a man in his early 50's get married? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:29 PM PDT Especially since he hasn't ever been married before this. Not to mention that he has been single all his life. Does aging make men complete morons? The loser is practically letting some women suck him financially dry at this age |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:18 PM PDT My wife and I have 3 kids together. Last year, she started to work because I was forced to retire. She's about 23 years my junior. She lost tons of weight ever since we stopped being close and when she got a job. First, she wanted an open relationship. I couldn't stop her so she did what she wanted so he dated other men. We are pretty well off. I made tons of money while I was working and my mom is a millionaire too. Anyways, she wouldn't divorce me because I have a huge pension that she could get if we stay married long enough. She also work for the school district so she gets free medical for herself... But her other excuse is it's cheaper if we stayed married. I gave her my house and I live in another house two hours away. I would baby sit for her and even stay in our house together so she can go about her open relationship. However, I realized that she's pregnant and I realized the child isn't mine. Yet, here she is... She initiated having sex with me. I'm upset because I just don't feel right having sex with a pregnant woman who's child is not mine.How would you feel. I love her but I'm so mad! |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:12 PM PDT Veterans, forget anything I've told you in the past. I want to talk about how I affect my marriage for a moment. I am a coward. I'm afraid of hurting my wife and I'm afraid of becoming no better than her father who emotionally and mentally abused her. I don't have a history of this, and I don't have any intentions that would go this way, I am simply just a coward afraid to take power despite it offered to me one hundred times. I'm worried it will go to my head. Today we will be firing my wife's best friend who was our in home nanny for the summer. I expect this to leave a bad taste in our mouth because she was so lazy and inexcusably irresponsible (no disability but acts like she does - no diagnosed mental health issues). After we fire her, my wife will have NO more friends. None. Prior to this, I had no friends because of jealousy issues my wife had and because they demanded too much time of me away from my family. After she has no friends left, I'm expecting depression to follow to mourn her loss. How do I take initiative to help us in the next chapter of our life and not let her dwell on the past? I want to lead the family and take us all on a new path; one that will work better than the one my wife had us on (anarchy and rebellion). Besides being bossy, or buying a motorcycle and joining a Ted Nugent fan club, what should I do to gain confidence and take the leap? |
| Question: My ex husband and I are good friends, but stops talking to me when he's dating? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:44 AM PDT My ex and I had our ups and downs after we split up, but settled down to a good friendship. We talk frequently and try to do things together with our daughter. But when we falls for another girl, he is so fast to tell me we can talk anymore about things unrelated to our child. At first I was understanding, but I'm starting to feel down right offended. I've never done anything to make him think I would ruin his relationships. He always calls me when he has troubles, but is so fast to push me away. I don't know what to do about it. Help |
| Question: How do I deal with my wife's sister at an upcoming family party? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:20 AM PDT In a couple of weeks, my wife and I are going to be hosting a 40th birthday party for my wife's brother at our house. My wife's parents, brother and his wife along with their kids, and my wife's sister will be there. My wife's sister will be the oldest sibling there. My wife's sister also loves to take pictures and thinks is is her Constitutional right to be able to photograph our kids. I don't like this but my wife takes her side because she is afraid her sister won't a. baby sit our kids and b. will go into a depressive episode and do who knows what. I really want to confront her, but my wife is insistent that I don't. I don't want to spoil the party, but I also don't want to take any crap from my sister in law. What should I do? |
| Question: Husband didn t get me a birthday present. What should I get myself? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT We ve been married for just about two months and today is my birthday. My husband just finished his semester and started helping out my parents on the farm for harvest while applying for work.So he hasn t been working the last few months with demanding school schedule and I have been the one earning the money. BUT today is my birthday. And while he planned a cute small activity last night, he did not get me a birthday present. And I am trying not to get my feelings hurt. He said he was going to take me shopping tonight for my birthday present (which is my absolute least favorite birthday activity because I HATE decisions and I HATE spending money on myself). So long story short, I am a little disappointed with my birthday today. So I am going to buy myself something good. I don t really have a budget. Nothing crazy! Something under $300. So any ideas on what I should get myself? What is one thing that you really want right now? I'm surprised at how angry this mad people! I guess I should add that I haven't told my husband I was upset. He hates my indecisiveness and told me to come up with something I want before tonight. And $300 is at the high spectrum I just threw that out there.. I get that it may seem childish to want a birthday present. But since I haven't bought anything for myself in the past few years besides groceries and underwear I figure it's about time to dip into what I've managed to save a little. |
| Question: Is there a (Time Limit ) on what is considered real love? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:02 AM PDT I mean my aunt met her husband and aster a month married. 32 years later still married. So why do people say you have to be together for like years to be (IN Love) or (Love) Someone? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT I talked to her so bad my mom started crying. I verbally abused like crazy bc talking down to her made me feel good. I was telling my friends n my mom I was done with her. We weren't even talking. Not having sex either. HFir 7 years shes been there for me n my son. I cheated a lot through out the years and 3 months ago she stayed out all night and confessed she had been hanging out with this guy. At first she Denied having sex with him but later cinfessed that she did Then she said she didnt. I keep asking got his number and he said they didnt she just wanted to piss me off. Months passed she say they were just cool. I finally called him and he said yes 1 time just like she had said at first. Then she confessed and cried the next day saying she was a disgrace. She wants to work it out but idk. What do u think? |
| Question: If i get divorced from my husband he is a vet can i apply for a va home loan? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:51 AM PDT |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:41 AM PDT If the wife is to busy to notice something is wrong, why should I feel guilty. He came to me and said he loved me. And before you start preaching to me, my husband left me for another woman and Married her. |
| Question: Does my husband have a good argument? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:04 AM PDT My first husband Joe was the ultimate "fix it" guy. If there was something wrong with the house, car, computer, etc he would fix it. My parents grew to rely on him to fix anything that went wrong. He would never take any money for his work for them even when it cost him to buy parts to fix something. Joe assured my parents that our divorce would not effect their relationship with him. He would be happy to help them in any way possible. This give them great peace of mind and he did indeed do a lot of work for them after our friendly divorce (yes a friendly divorce is possible). My parents decided it was time for them to show their appreciation to Joe for all the years of help he had given them so they bought him a new car. That is when I had an unexpected problem. My current husband thinks my parents should buy him a new car also because he is "Family" and Joe is not. My current husband has NO skills to fix anything. He has never done anything to help my parents. My parents never mention Joe to my husband and I don't either but he keeps asking about him. I tried to explain that was just my parents saying thank you for all of Joe's help. He is not buying it. He thinks he deserves a new car. Does he have a valid argument? |
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| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:45 AM PDT we fight over little stuff and we make it into big arguments that make no sense were suppose to get married this month.. also everyone says that our age is the main problem i thought we were fine but people are just so quick to put us down.. we talk and say to each other were fine haters are going to hate but its getting worse.. we have 2 kids but their both from other people so yes were a mixed family...our kids get along great they are growing up as sisters.. everytime we bring up breaking up we think about our kids... are we together for our selfs or our kids?? |
| Question: I can't stand my husbands family and want them out of my life! Advice please!? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:14 AM PDT My husband and I have been married for nearly 3 years now and have an amazing little boy, who is going on two. We have a pretty good relationship. Other than I cant STAND his family! They are completely awful people. The past 3 years have been some of the best & worst of my entire life. In 2 short years I was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes (autoimmune disease. Not to be confused with Type 2) then Graves Disease (thyroid disorder / sister disease to type 1 diabetes / also autoimmune) and then later they killed my thyroid with radioactive iodine so now I have hypothyroidism. During this time his family has been unjustifiably rude. I'll make a short list. I'm looking for advice or if I'm in the right to cut them out. 1) when I was in the ICU recently diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes & my husband & I miscarried twins, his sister was calling him telling him to come install her kitchen cabinets. She wanted them done immediately not caring about my health or the fact we just miscarried. 2) his mother & same sister as above, decided to create a relationship w/ his ex girlfriend (one that never existed before) shortly afterwards. His mother will write things about how beautiful she is on social media. 3) his dad when I was extremely ill tried to force my husband & I into going to his bday party (even though he never makes it to ours in fear of seeing his ex wife) & would say if we didn't go, despite my health, "he would cancel the whole thing." There's more but not characters. Pls help |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:46 AM PDT I'm married but I'm feeling so lonely . I feel like I need someone to talk to and tell me how beautiful I am . I'm feeling so vulnerable . My husband is hardly home and when he is, he's too tired for me . I'm crying while I'm writing this because it just hurts so much . What do I do? |
| Question: My wife focuses on my faults... to a fault.? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:37 AM PDT We ve been married for 6 years and have to awesome kids. As a whole, we would be amazing together, but she has been increasingly short, cold and unaffectionate with me. It finally came out this morning that she s constantly frustrated with the fact that she has no faith in the idea of my succeeding in anything. I struggle with my weight and gained even more after an injury in the military. According to her, if I say I will do something like stick to working out, she expects me to fail. Or if I say I will start a new project, or whatever, I will fail. She ignores the fact that I work my *** off everyday to provide for our family, and that I forgo her short comings and only focus on her success. I just don t know what to do. I have women tell me all the time that my wife must be a lucky woman... why can t she see what they see? |
| Question: Any assistance for people housing ex-inmates? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:31 AM PDT My brother-in-law was in prison for 18 months, but got out early on good behavior. He is now living with my husband and I and we are struggling to pay our bills with him being there since our bills and food budget has increased. He does not have a job even tho he has been looking for one. He has been living with us for a month and a half. Is there any assistance for my husband and I for housing and feeding him? His parent are both broke so please do not tell me to ask them for help. |
| Question: Am I rushing things talking to him about marriage and kids ? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:13 AM PDT I don't want to get married or have kids right now but it's a thought for the future. I bring it up a lot with my boyfriend and he says he thinks marriage is pointless , doesn't think about it & isn't sure about having kids. I asked him about our future and he says he takes every day as it comes. I find this so frustrating because I feel like am I wasting my time. He says I'm being too intense. Things are good and He says he's happy as we are right now but I need to know there's a future (marriage/kids). I'm 22, he's 27 been together 2 years |
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| Question: Do women condone other women cheating? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:08 AM PDT I came across this story recently: http://goo.gl/bA20lX It baffled me. I just don't understand this woman. I was hoping for some perspective. I was wondering what other woman thought about this. What would you do? Do you condone what she did? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:34 AM PDT When my husband and I have a discussion that I show him how he was either rude, disrespectful, etc., instead of going with it, he typically lashes back like some teenage rebellious child and sulks and retreats. This actually makes he smile because it's so infantile. I've been through these episodes so many years that I'm not moved to care and so I shrug off his behavior. I feel it's his way of trying to get me to apologize and swoon all over him like the past, in order to make him feel okay. But I don't and I give him his old medicine he gave me for years. |
| Question: What did your husband have that made you marry your him and not the other ones? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:27 AM PDT It s interesting that many wemon here point that their husband can make them laugh,is it a bonus then?lol no one talked about his looks, does it really not matter if they are good looking? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:04 AM PDT Atleast interested of exposing my boobs during sex. He doesnt even try. And that makes me wonder why? Is that wierd? Should i be worried about it? |
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| Question: Is it unreasonable to expect my wife leave a party early with me because I have to work? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:15 AM PDT We are attending a party, band, drinking and dancing. Wife's very attractive, loves to dance and will even dance alone. That doesn't bother me that she dance I often dance with her and have a great time. I do trust her" I think" but I know when I leave and the more intoxicated everbody gets the hounds come out and will make their advances. I will admit that it adds stress knowing that. She knows this but insist on dancing the night away. Should she respect my feelings and leave early with me, or is it not fair to her to leave while having a good time ? In addition the stress she makes it home safely. |
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| Question: How often do married couples have sex? Also about how long does it last? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:57 AM PDT |
| Question: Did you get to marry your high school or junior high sweetheart? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 11:53 PM PDT You guys still together after all these years? |
| Question: Should a wife be jealous of a nanny? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 11:25 PM PDT I just hired one. She is super hot, young, and dresses to kill. My wife wants to fire hire. But I say, bring on the thong!!! |
| Question: How do I know if my husband is cheating? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 11:16 PM PDT |
| Question: Seeing my husband after the separation? Posted: 11 Aug 2015 10:03 PM PDT My husband and I separated in November 2014. He wanted the separation but I didn't. During the past 9 months, I've visited him 3 times. Each visited, I only stay less than 5 days. We live 2,300 miles apart. (I moved back to my parent's house) The first 2 visits was horrible because he wants a divorce and yet he wasn't ready. The 3rd visit, he decided to give our marriage a "chance" at fixing it. He didn't want to see marriage counselor, he didn't want me to move in, he didn't consider me as his wife but his "girlfriend." And he is happy with the long distance relationship. I wasn't happy and I expressed that to him, and he thinks that I'm whining and complaining. 😢 This is my last visit to TX. During the past 9 months he has not visit me, send me flowers, card, nothing. While I send him care packages, letters, clothes, shoes, card, food, and I had the cupcakes delivered to his apartment. I did the best that I could on fixing our marriage while living apart. He wanted space so I gave it to him. This visit is making me so nervous. I'm flying tomorrow's morning and I'm so scared. He is going to give me his answer wether we should get a divorce or live in together as husband and wife. My heart is pounding so fast and I'm so scared. There's no cheating, lies, or stealing. We lack in communication, intimacy, and spending time together. We got married young at 20/21. We have been married for 8 years and no kids. What should I do?! I can't sleep. 😢😢😢 |
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