Well to make a long story short im.not dominican my husbamd isbut hes been raised in aAmerica since he was 4.......in America I am a registered nurse here im currently not working due to lack of jobs in the area...my husband's family is from a very poor part of dominican republic....and since ive been here I experienced nothing but hell...his family is very unsanitary and disgusting......the town.is full of agressive prostitutes plus they hate me since I.am.an American and to them im.rich which im.not.....they are rude since im not from.there........just pure hell I need help to deal with this living hell my husband is not dirty and disgusting like them.but he feels nothing wrong on how dirty and rude these people are.....they can.basically do anything be dirty as they want but they are great in.his eyes I need help I feel like cant cope with this and ill have a hear attack young

in the state of Texas if you are command law and do not use any legal action to end your marriage for two years your common law marriage is thought of as non existent and is in no need of a divorce but if I filed taxes as married while we were together what do I file under the two years we are apart?

My wife and I got married this year. She's 25 and I'm 29. I have always wanted kids and feel ready now, but she wants to wait a few years. She has another year left of grad school so she wants to graduate and start a new job before having kids. I travel 50% of the time for my job. I am currently away for three weeks and my wife flew out for two days to surprise me. While she was here, she randomly started talking about starting a family. I thought it was odd and not aligned with what she wanted but she kept bringing it up. I told her we're newlyweds and should wait to conceive. Then she told me she went to her doctor and she's 5 weeks pregnant. She was really upset about the things I said about waiting to conceive when I didn't even know she's pregnant. I love kids and am excited to have a baby together but my wife keeps telling me that isn t how I "really feel." I think she's having trouble coming to terms with the way this will interrupt her life. I told her she might need to adjust her school/work plans but she said she doesn't want to talk about that right now. I have a lot of upcoming travel for work that I'll try to cut back on. My wife started to initiate sex with me but then stopped due to nausea. I told her that's completely fine and we could spend our time talking but she was exhausted. I don't know how to support my wife when she's not letting me be there for her and this is the lowest point of physical/emotional intimacy in our relationship.

I have known my wife for 7 years, we dated for 3 of those years and married for the last 2 years. She is an absolutely wonderful, beautiful, intelligent woman and I truly consider myself to be the luckiest man in the world just to be in her presence. None of this even takes into account everything she does--we are both doctors, yet she still manages to make homecooked meals everyday, clean, and we make love about 4-5 times a week. She is 35 and i am 36. But I always feel that I never show her how much I appreciate her. I'm always too busy to make dinner for her or clean around the house. I also feel that if I suddenly start expressing how much I love her, she'll think it's fake. She already has low-self esteem. She had a history of eating disorders and is now adjusting to gaining weight. She also doesn't think she's beautiful but she's the most beautiful woman in the world to me. What do I do?

Marriage has been a little shaky lately, 25th anniversary is coming up. Could use some ideas

I lived with my boyfriend or common law husband and his parents for a year we have been together three as a couple ans we filed as married on our takes because we were common law of we break up do we have to go through a divorce? we never signed anything or legally got married

OK I lved with my fiance of 3 years and his mother she helped me with my taxes. we did call eachother man and wife and and we did live together.. she put us as a married couple jointly because others considered us common law. is that legal in Texas

I've been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for five years but I really don't want to be anymore. No one is trying to make it work anymore and neither of us are happy. We've been this way for three years. I'm actually in love with another woman but my pride won't let me leave my girlfriend. I will be embarrassed to let my family and friends know that my five-year relationship has failed. What is more important in this situation, my pride or my happiness? What should I do?

I've been with my girl for 2 1/2 years I love her to death, she has my heart. Right now my girlfriend is a nurse and I'm working part time at phone company. We live in this small apartment together. My girl was sick all morning, I made her eggs for breakfast, her favorite and she threw up every where. I didn't know what was wrong I just thought she was sick. I wanted to stay home today but she insisted I go to work. I'm guessing she new it was more than a tummy ache. So she went and got a pregnancy test came out positive. So far I had only been at work for 2 hours and I get a text saying come home. Told my boss my girl was sick and he let me leave. Came home and she was on the floor crying with the test next to her . I just hugged her told her it was OK. Her first response was " do you hate me " I was shocked and said no her reason to ask that was a couple months ago I said I never wanted kids and would be devastated if it happened. I felt really bad and told her sorry. Right now she's OK she's just been sleeping all day. I've been up thinking about it and I can't accept it. I'm not ready to be a dad I'm only 23. And my girl she's to focused on her career and is not ready either. Need serious advice on what to do

We got into a argument i felt threatened.

First let me start by saying I'm horrible at noticing these things but my sister and mom both said she was flirting and was checking me out. I think she is amazing but that's beside the point I just can't wrap my head around why she would be, she has a kid with her husband and is planning on having another soon

he's really caught my attention within the last two weeks and i can't stop thinking about him. why???

described an ex who is physically the opposite of me. She sounds petite everywhere while I am curvy. On the one hand, I'm mostly fine with my shape and I do exercise regularly and am a reasonably confident person and my husband always said he likes my curves. On the other hand the way he described her was a little too graphic for me (no I didn't ask him to) in the sense that he sounded like he was reliving those experiences and maybe missing them. We both have exes so I accept that part but the details really freaked me out. Also, she had a boyfriend at the time and my husband said she got pregnant and he thinks it was his because sometimes he'd wear a condom but not always. He also said that when he was "with" her he thought "I could get used to this." I know this was over 10 years ago and I know he loves me etc but this has really thrown me. I had to tell him twice to just stop talking because he was pissing me off. Should I just let time work its magic or should I talk to him about how much this is bothering me?

My wife is constantly showing more affection to our two kids and never has anything good to say to me. I am constantly commenting on how great she is but she never pays any attention to it unless someone else says it. recently the children went on a trip with their grandparents for a week. I thought this would bring us closer. Instead of bringing us closer, she worried about the kids and obsessed over them not calling us 2 or three times a week. The love is fading between us. what should I do?

Hi this is chaitu mathews.my age is 30 and my wife age is 27. We got married 3 yrsrs back and now she is working with consultancy agency. She is talking regulary with her manager on phone,even personal issues. I hv observed that she is chating adult issues and other sex issues with her manager. Regularly both are going outstations by saying name of office. Can any body suggest that whats going on ? Is she really having sex with manager ? Or iam thinking wrongly ?

EDIT: More of an elopement/only them and the photographer.

__________ will never be faithful to you he F**ked me last month and will F**k me again he always comes back to me I'm his first black girl he's ever been with so i'll always be special to him Unless you like sharing D!ck with me I suggest you move on he's gonna get tired throwing his hotdog down a hallway anyways and hit me up again Ugly B**ch you have been warned!!! or should i write this " ______ will never be faithful to you he ****** me last month and will **** me again he always comes back to me and since you have like 3,000 kids your pussy is probably so loose it flaps in the wind!! you don't have any lips either so i bet you can't suck dick right i know how to make him *** in 5 mins from giving him head I have a tight pussy that he loves he's gonna get tried of throwing his hotdog down a hallway and hit me up again Your ugly *** has been warned"

I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. I'm in my late twenties and he's in his thirties. I have no kids and he has one. He was married before but it resulted in divorce 3 years ago. He has started discussing moving in together. We have talked finances and what we can and can't afford, etc, and providing a good example for his child. He says he is very much in love with me and talks about having kids with me. When I discuss the idea of marriage though, he says that he became very cynical of marriage post divorce but does not rule out the idea completely with me. i am extremely confused by the comment. Am I spinning my wheels? Is he feeding me lines with no real intention of a future?

Hi I been married for 15 years my husband and I haven't been together for the past 2 years he is in mexico and am in new york how can I get a divorce for low cost or no cost at all

I don't think he'd actually act on it because he's married and has a family and he's my manager. But he is pretty flirty with me. I've seen him look at my chest. He has "accidentally" brushed his hand against my butt a couple of times. I've been observing how he acts towards other female co-workers and he doesn't really flirt with them. Yesterday, a customer was saying something about a song and he goes "Love the one you're with" and I said "I don't love the one I'm with" and my manager was standing right there and the customer goes "you don't love _____? (my manager)" and my manager goes "Yeahhh she does!" in an 'of course' kind of way. Is he attracted to me? Should I just ignore it? I'm 24, he's like almost 35.

is it because they know marriage & divorce laws favor females financially? I'm so glad I never married.

This is a fictional situation. Lets say you're from New York on a vacation trip to Vegas. Lets say your wife got drunk in the middle of the night and spent all your savings while you were in the hotel room, $1.5 million total. On the road back to the airport, you and your wife are arguing. She is driving, and tells you that she wants a divorce because you are now poor and cannot maintain her level of luxury. When the argument heats up, she kicks you out of the car by using the cigarette lighter as a weapon. You're in the middle of the highway, and manage to hitchhike to the airport. You find out your wife already took off for New York and left you behind. You don't have your ID, ticket, wallet, or even spare underwear with you. Lets say you were talking to your problems with this attractive-looking woman, who you met at a long lineup at customer service. She just flown in from Chicago. She is gorgeous, articulate, funny, and educated. Clearly she has a thing for you, you have a thing for her, and she says she is single. She wants to get to know you better, and offers you a place to stay in her hotel while the police investigates your identity. But, you say you are married, and she says it isn't a problem. Should you take the offer if you promise to remain faithful? If it a problem to stay with another woman in this case if there is obviously a connection? Or, should you go to a homeless shelter, or sleep in the streets, where it might be dangerous? Edit 1: This question was fictional, but it was unnecessarily absurd for entertainment reasons. Yes, I've been to Vegas before. It was 14 years ago, and I stayed for 3 weeks. Yes, I've been to numerous airports, about 15 cities and 6 countries in total. No, I have never owned $1.5 million dollars. No, I've never lost my ID outside my city.

Ok so my husband went to Baker to Vegas 5 months ago. After deciding that i would also go he told me that one of his friends told him that it was just a guys trip. 5 months past and i did what many of us do and checked his phone. To my surprise he had been searching for strippers to come to his room, he searched for a swingers club (which single men are allowed) and also searched for ESCORT services. He swears him and the guys didnt do nothing. He in fact said that the guys wanted to have some girls over for a private stripper show but no one wanted to chip in so they ended up "not" doing nothing like such. My concern is that when he got back to town he swears that the strip clues conversation didnt even cross no ones mind. Up until now that i found out he admitted to have spoke about it yet no one fulfilled anything. I am bothered one by the lie and two about those escort ads he had searched up. He says his intention was not to hire sex yet nothing will make me think otherwise and that the intention was there!!!!! I was 12 weeks pregnant at the time and now confused. What do you guys think.....? :/

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am married when i was 18 years old .. I have 2 kids but am not happy in my marriage, My husband he don't show me love ,respect ,i really hate to live with him and I have a lot of friends around me and this time I am in love with my boyfriend I really love him what can i do??

my former wife left me 3 years ago and hates my guts. Last year I started dating this girl and when it got serious I told my wife to file for a divorce and she did and pretty much paid for it as I said I was going to pay her back the attorney fee and I got the last laugh. Now she got kicked out of her apartment as she lost her job and now works at Wal-Mart I heard and had to move into a bad neighborhood and get a cheap apartment. She's been calling me demanding money from me and says if I don't pay her $1500 dollars she would ruin my wedding next month. I don't owe her anywhere close to that. I wouldn't even pay more then $120 dollars to file for a divorce so she's trying to rip me off. My fiancé thinks we should cancel the wedding as she knows she is a psycho. She left me a voice mail last week and said "I'm going to show up at your wedding and humiliate your bride in front of everyone" I have no idea. she found out where the wedding is from my finance's friend. She was mildly a friend of hers but my fiancé's friends some of them know my ex very well and one of our bridesmaids told my ex where it was going to be...she's one of those that can't keep her mouth shut.

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With a heterosexual man? Would it be wise to get married?

Supposedly, it's normal for married women to develop crushes on others from time to time. If she is committed to her partner, how does she react to this crush? Does she generally ignore the person or does she flirt and check them out a bit, thinking it's harmless? Is she able to be friends with this person?

My husband and I met 11 years ago. We married a year later. I was attracted to his bad boy attitude and his playful energy. He was educated by the streets and I am a book smart nerd. He says that he was attracted to my calm demeanor and me mesmerizing smile. Fast forward a few years and his impulsive decisions are starting to affect our relationship and our family. Reckless driving and taking materials from jobsites. His playful energy soon morphed to self entitled manic fits. This past weekend a mutual friend of ours got kicked out of a house where he was renting a room for not paying rent(go figure). My husband asked if he could stay on our sofa for the weekend. I said that he could stay the night. Next thing I know my husband offers our detached garage for him to stay in. At current the garage is used for storage and playroom. My husband and I have been arguing daily about him taking the time to make our detached garage livable for another man. Problem is, there is a sink and a toilet in there but no shower. Which means that he has been showering in our master bathroom. So I set some ground rules and expectations. That he is to apply for food stamps so that he can feed himself. That he is to spend at least 4 hours a day looking for employment and when he finds employment or by October 1st(which ever is first) he is to pay $50 a week in rent. Between the hours of 5-8 he is allowed in the house to eat dinner with the family, shower, and use the house WiFi. This morning my husband allowed his friend to shower in our girls bathroom. We have 8 year old girls and the bathroom door does not lock. Then he thought it was a good idea to argue with me about the expectations that I set. That it is unreasonable for me to say that a man only has between the hours of 5-8pm to take a shower. I told him that it is unreasonable for him to change the rules and let our friend shower in our girls bathroom. I told him that he cannot enforce rules when he is willing to compromise. Next thing we know he will be wanting to hang out in the house. He is already napping in the middle of the day on our sofa when he comes back from cutting neighborhood grass.

32 year old woman dating man 19 years older that has adult children. He doesn't want anymore children at all. I still want children. Marriage being discussed. Is this a deal-breaker? Has anyone here ever given up on dream of having children for the person they love? Did it work? Well initially wasn't going to get involved with him due to age but it started off as platonic friendship then over the past two years it's gotten more serious. I didn't learn until after relationship had progressed that he didn't want more children.

Is it even possible? I heard that a lot of women cheat because the passion is gone. That terrifies me. How do I make that not happen?

My wife is home right now waiting on her new job to begin in a few weeks. My daughter (her step-daughter) is leaving for college next week and she wanted to go try for her license before she left. In our state you have to be on the car's insurance before the DMV inspector will take you out. The only people living in our home right now is me, my wife, her youngest son, and my daughter. Well, when I got home last night I noticed the insurance paperwork on the bed and I noticed that my wife had added her oldest son to our auto policy. I asked why since he hasn't lived with us in years. She said she added him so he could get his permit. He's 21+ years old and a convicted felon. He doesn't live with us because he refused to follow the house rules. Well, I'm sure by adding him that jacked up our rates. It's high enough as it is because her youngest son and my daughter are both 19 years old. She did not discuss this with me prior to adding him. How do I approach the situation with her without her thinking I'm just dogging on her son again? No, he and I don't get along but to know she increased our rates simply so he could get his permit is beyond me. He doesn't even have a car to drive and he's not about to borrow any of ours. As far as paying his portion, he can't do that because he has no job. He just walks the streets all day looking for handouts and free rides to places. A little more than a month ago my wife wanted to add our niece, her sister's daughter, to our policy so she could try for her license. The issue with that is that she lives with her grandparents (my wife's parents) and they have 3 cars at their house but they didn't want to put her on their policy to let her try for her license. I told her no. She just told me she added him earlier this year so she's been hiding this for months from me. Yes, I'm angry now. Why doesn't she understand that by constantly adding people to our policy is going to keep jacking up our rates?

We don t have a bag for his lunch we use a container and it sits in his hot car until lunch time.

I'll be turning 17 next year and I would love to get "married" to my boyfriend who is 19 . my mom told me if I ever found a guy that I really loved she would let me get married 💁 I know this sound silly but its the truth and NO I'm not trolling. Anyway he has already found a house and we're going to look at it this week and he has jobs (2) . and NO I do not want to get married just because it looks nice I want to get married because I feel in my heart he is the one I'm supposed to spend my life with . thank you I appreciate all KIND answers (:

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A copy of this question is in Psychology but I want a married person's advice too; preferably one who's dealt with their spouses anger successfully. My wife doesn't fight with friends very often since she rarely makes friends that disagree with her (being JUST like her is a prerequisite); so when she's fighting with someone it is normally me and she makes me angry too so it's a heated fight. But yesterday, after we kicked out her only friend who was living with us, I finally got to listen in on her angry thoughts; and boy does she have one hell of a temper! Her friend has no clue that my wife is angry, but to hear all the things behind her friend's back is both enlightening (now I know what she says in her head...) and scary (now I know what she says in her head!). And a lot of these feelings are things I'd never let bother me; they are small trivial things that don't help/hurt the big picture. Yet, here she is, all frazzled over spilled milk. She and I both agree that her temper is an issue but she's too proud to go into therapy. She went before and all they did was offer her pills and meditation (something a Type A personality doesn't have time for). So I am going to (cowardly) take on the task of trying to tame her inner beast..... But where to start? As a non-Christian, I don't have scripture to fall on to shame her. As a non-conformist I can't tell her to be a "nice person" and show her good role models. I have to attack this by correcting her thinking, but how? Definition of "sedate" linked here for those who think it means "to drug and make unconscious": http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sedate /// Words that can be used in place of the word "sedate": http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/sedate /// Yes, this update is for you swbarnes2.

Me and my friend, whom I've known since high school, went on a road trip together. Her and I are like sisters! One night, while at a motel in New Mexico, we decided to go out to this club. While there, we danced and got drunk. Later that night, when we got back to our motel room, we started watching this romantic comedy on tv. At some point during the film, and I don't honestly remember why, but we started kissing. The next thing I knew, we were both naked, and proceeded to have sex. The next morning, I remember waking up thinking: "Oh my god, I can't believe we did that." This happened 2 weeks ago. My husband and I have been married for 12 years. We're college sweethearts in fact! I've never cheated on him before, especially not with a woman. And I never plan to do so ever again. But I still feel guilty about what happened. Should I tell him? Incidentally, I've never had sex with a woman before, either. My friend and I talked, and she told me that she hadn't been with a woman since her college days. I know it was the alcohol that night that had a huge deal to do with what happened. It was a stupid mistake, but I still feel so damn guilty, even though my friend and I have agreed that this will never happen again. I don't know what to do! So I please ask for advice.

My husband works with several women, which is to be expected. But, he tells me whenever one of them hits on him. For instance, he drives a forklift, and yesterday he said one of the women needed a pallet and when he brought it to her, she started talking to him and placed her hand "pretty high up" (his words) his thigh. He said he told me because he didn't want any secrets between us. But, is he telling me this stuff to try to make me jealous? He also doesn't understand why I'm mad at him about this. He said he didn't push her hand away or tell her that was inappropriate. I told him he obviously doesn't let these women know he's not interested nor available. Thoughts? I don't know if he's just trying to make me jealous, or if he's just trying to be honest about everything. And that was just one instance I mentioned, this is an every day thing that seems to go on. I forgot to mention he boasts about it. This morning he said, "Damn, I have hot women hitting on me left and right.". I flirt with him all the time. We're just shy of our 1st anniversary and are still very flirty with each other. This is his response, "I tell u things that happen so u know I'm not hiding anything from u". We communicate just fine, I have talked to him about this. And like I said, he says he tells me so I know what's going on and he's not hiding anything. Just wanted another perspective on this. And if he needs more attention from me, idk what to tell him, most of my free time is spent with him. We flirt, I make advances, I compliment him, etc. lol, Hurricain for a second you had me wondering if that was my husband...up until I got to the 6 kids. OMG...no, we only have 2 between us. LOL @Ah Yes, I did ask him earlier today, how he would feel if some guy at work put his hand on my thigh...knowing I come to work with him every day. He said he wouldn't like it at all and understands how it makes me feel now. He said if she does it again he'll push her hand away. He also said if one tries to flirt with him again he'll tell her he isn't interested. We'll see....

So my husbands job has family functions and I usually take my children so they can socialize with other kids, and enjoy themselves, and I assumed my husband, and I would socialize together with his Co workers. After the first one I attented, I usually always regret going because my husband doesnt interact with us (his family). He'll leave me with the kids, to go socialize with people he sees at work eveyday. Don't get me wrong, that's fine, he'll but introduce me to a few people, and then go off. I don't understand why he invites us ad then gos off somewhere, and leaves me sitting for hours. I could stay home and take my kids to the park or something. I don't know any of the people he works with so I just sit other than introduction. So I go to one of the functions which will be my last, and a group of people are playing cards. So my husband sits in a chair with another girl. Hip and hip. I don't know who she is he never introduced me to her, she may have come with someone else but he knew her well enough to sit hip to hip with her. I didn't get angry, I didn't say anything. Because we were at a function. I still haven't said anything it's been a while and it's been bothering me because I tried to analyze the motivation behind it, I put myself in his shoes and wondered how he would feel if I sat hip to hip with a random man I don't even have the decency to introduce him to. I also didn't say anything but I wasn't sure if I was overreacting. Am I overreacting or was he wrong?

my husband acts like it's the end of the world when I won't have sex with him. Even if we had sex for the last two or three days in a row. How do I deal with his immaturity?

I can't stand my husband anymore. He talks to lots of women who he finds in online sites and from internet. He gives them his phone number. He even talks about beautiful models and search them online. His excuse is because I don't exercise more often. But I am not too fat btw. He was like this even when I was thin. I think he is bringing an excuse to cover what he is doing. I even spoke to him and told him I dislike this behavior and it's rude to me. But he didn't change his attitude. He says I am beautiful and I feel he loves me. But why is he talking to other women this much? How can I stop him or should I leave him? I am too tired of hearing him on the phone with other women all the time.

Hands-down 100% My husband Jason is one of the best man I've ever known in my life. Jason met his friend at the beginning of last year. He has no friends, he is not very social he's extremely shy as well. So when Terry came into his life we were both very thankful that he would have someone to hang out with him. Jason is a wallflower. At parties he's holding a beer in the corner of the room. Terry is extremely social, he's hilarious and a ladies man. Even though he was recently married he's extremely flirty with the girls and it was revealed that he's been cheating on his wife for quite sometime before they even got married. Jason were shipped Terry in every way that you could possibly worship someone. Even though he was doing wrong Jason looked up to him and wanted to be just like him because of how much everyone loved and was so fond of him. Jason wanted that feeling very much. For months without my knowledge Jason was bullied and called names by Terry because he wanted him to cheat on me and Jason refused. Jason is 100% a true blue loyal person and under normal circumstances would never cheat on me EVER. Terry knew this and because he was not happy in his own relationship went to work on mine to destroy it because of jealousy. Jason was bullied for 10 months before he finally gave in and cheated and started a relationship with another woman behind my back. This went on for four months without my knowledge. He had sex with this woman twice and is riddled with guilt. He is doing everything under the sun to make up for what he did but the damage is done. He wanted so much to be like this man and now he has done that. My husband is not a cheater and this has crushed us both. He no longer speaks to Terry. Had I known he was being bullied this way I would have put an end to the friendship. I just didn't know. He even gave him a list of girls to contact that would be into married men. This goes much deeper than I can say. Johnny for your information I was not updating you. I was trying to write the rest of the story but ran out of letters to say what I wanted. I wrote that right after this was posted. If you don't like my updates get off of my question. I asked what should I do. I don't need your added bs to go along with this. I am trying to figure out what to do for myself and my family. I just wanted to see how others view the situation. There is no need to be rude to me.

Aug 3rd my husband and I have been 2 years and he didn t do ANYTHING at all for our anniversary. We have children and he had asked the week prior if we could get away for the weekend of our anniversary BUT we both could not find a sitter due to everyone in the family being busy I understood that and wasn t upset but now I m just hurt the more I think about it bc he said well maybe next year! A special dinner ? A special lunch? Nothing??

We've had lots of rough patches for 14 years. The last few months have been great because we were so close to falling apart that changes have been made to make it work. But it seems it's not enough and it's too late. Four months ago, he said he wanted to divorce me. I was very upset that time and we tried again. However, his words were painful then and they still hurt. I convinced myself that this is a great idea. However, I want him to feel the same way by really drawing the paperwork. I already told him I want out but he always said no. I'm just hoping the feeling will be mutual. I'm just tired of both of us trying when it's goinh nowhere.

My husband admitted having a crush on my friend. I allowed them to spend time together assuming our relationship was secure. However, one night after a camping trip with my friend's family, he told me he was unhappy. I didn't go to that camping trip because there are times that I feel I could be more productive at home. My friend's husband was there so I didn't think there was any harm. It turns out my friend was about to split with my husband. Instead if riding in their RV, she drove in the car with my husband for I don't know how long. They spoke abour me, my marriage and all the personal problems we have. I also learned they text each other behind my back for supposed hiking trip... Cause according to my husband, my friend likes to hike and I don't (FYI- We hiked together). To add insult to the injury, my friend likes the attention and is dresses to kill when she comes over. Neither one apologized for the way they made me feel. I finally put my foot down. I told my husband I want out and I don't talk to my friend. But... am I doing this right?

I'm a year into mine and so far I hate my husband. He's abusive, disrespectful, controling, and spoiled by his mom. Doesn't help with his kids, stays on his phone all day and complains about his knee pain. We are going to counseling to work on his anger issues. But I'm wondering if marriage is supposed to be like this, a fight for "love"? I'm not sure if I will ever love him like I used to. In marriage, even after 15 + years together do you still feel the butterflies in your stomach sometimes? Or do you just deal with then like a irritating sibling? I'm not sure if my marriage is worth saving. I would rather be single forever if marriage is just to deal with someone.

He gets mad at me if I don t get out of bed late at night to make him food, I work all day..(he s out of a job right now) I come home I make him dinner and do everything else for him..10:00 will roll around and he will whine that he s hungry..he demands I make him something and I tell him I have to be up early for work he can go make something, well he throws a fit and says I starve him...I was at work today and he laid in bed all day and texted me complaining he needed food...I m going to completely lose it..we are starting marriage counseling next week, will it help?? Ugh.

I knew my husband had a small penis when I married him. I didn't think it would matter that much, but over time I have gradually it does not satisfy me either visually or physically, and I do fantasize about more well endowed men often. he's a 'grower' (versus a 'shower'). When flaccid maybe 2 or 3 inches tops. every time i see his shriveled up tiny little thing I get depressed. do other woman ever feel like this?