Family: Question: How can I gain independence from my parent? |
- Question: How can I gain independence from my parent?
- Question: Is it normal if i don't feel that i love my parents ?
- Question: Should I still see my father as a role model even though he cheated on my mother?
- Question: Should I play high school soccer or go to the gym?
- Question: If you had less than a week to live, what would you incorporate within a letter to leave for your young child?
- Question: Motion to change venue?
- Question: How can I help my 8 year old from being so tired and irritable?
- Question: My mother is okay with living a life of poverty?
- Question: Grounded for a year for no reason?
- Question: Close family and friends stealing things from your home?
- Question: Am I coward for not moving out of my parents house?
- Question: How can I convince my mom to give me my birthday present early?
- Question: Ladies: Did you ever hit your husband with a rollin pin or frying pan or know someone who did?
- Question: How do I answer questions that my 4 year only cousin might ask? General kids question?
- Question: Why is my mum werid?
- Question: Is what I'm doing technically manipulative or no?
- Question: Moving out at 18, honest opinions?
- Question: PLEASE HELP! My mom is going to prison, is this my fault? I'm turning 16 and she might kick me out for good, what do I do, I have no one?
- Question: How do I persuade my mum and step dad to let me keep my phone at night?
- Question: How do I persuade my mum and step dad to let me have my phone at night?
- Question: Wonderful.. Everyone should hail their lineage.. And now do you have a question?
- Question: Am I aloud to call the cops on my Brother?!?!?
- Question: Want to move in with my dad but not sure how to tell my mom?
- Question: My elder sister is very hot-tempered and verbally abusive.She sometimes hits me and I am unable to defend myself.How do I stand up against her?
- Question: My mom is obsessed with Facebook?
- Question: Help me quit smoking cannabis PLEASE !?
- Question: What would be a worse torture method to endure?
- Question: Family issues?
- Question: I pee in bottles and let it ferment in the window until it's ready to burst then I drink it is this normal?
- Question: I'm 13, I hate my life. I want to quit, what should I do?
- Question: Can my mom get arrested for something my brother did? He is under 18?
- Question: My moms mom is having trouble PLEASE HELP?
- Question: My father in law is on my last nerve.?
- Question: My sister and I are identical twins, why do boys like her they don't like me :(?
- Question: Moving out of my moms house?
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- Question: Im 16, female. And don't know how to fix my life, i need help please. :( Advice, or anything?
| Question: How can I gain independence from my parent? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:27 PM PDT I am 20 years old- going on 21. I'm in my senior year of college and live with my mother who is a single parent. I love my Mother and know that she wants the best for my life, but I feel that she is not allowing me to make my own decisions. Even though I'm almost 21, I don't feel like I'm an adult at all. And in my mother's eyes, I'm not. She feels that because I'm living under her roof, I am not an adult therefore I have to do everything her way. I completely understand her point of view, but when I try to move out, she doesn't want me to leave. I don't want to hurt her, but I can't keep living here with her if I want to be an adult. My family is very religious, and I don't want to be judged for doing what I want. I'm trying to live up to these standards, but it is so hard sometimes. I feel so sheltered. I don't even have my driver's license yet. It is the struggle just trying to do anything on my own without her telling me what I should and shouldn't do. I'm still striving to graduate and get my driver's license and my career and everything else I need, so I can be free. Anyone have advice on how I can separate myself from my mother and live my life the way I see fit? I know I need some courage and strength to do this, but I just don't know what to do and how to go about doing it? Please help! |
| Question: Is it normal if i don't feel that i love my parents ? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:11 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I still see my father as a role model even though he cheated on my mother? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:10 PM PDT My father cheated on my mother a long time ago. But ever since then, it's so obvious that he doesn't put any effort into their marriage because he spends most of his time either working or golfing. It's so obvious that they're still married to each other because they want to look good to family and friends and my mother takes care of my dad financially. They are the 2 most superficial people I have ever known and I'm ashamed to be related to them. But should I still honor them even if they don't honor themselves? |
| Question: Should I play high school soccer or go to the gym? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 01:02 PM PDT I'm 14. I'm 5'9" and weigh 145. I've lost interest and feel as if I'm not as committed. I haven't been running for the season, and I have pre-season starting next week. Plus I've already been to the pre-pre-season (which doesn't matter) My mom thinks that I should play, since she thinks I have "commitment issues", and that I'll end up weighing 600 lbs when I'm 30. (Which is obviously bull crap, though as much as I hate to admit, I am kinda physically lazy, but always get things done and I'm a hard worker) Another reason I play soccer is for the respect. My dad loves that I do it (and it's the only sport I play other than basketball since I quit baseball, which is his favorite sport) And I don't want to let him down. And, my sister is like a super softball freak that travels all over for tournaments. HOWEVER, over the summer, I think I found something I really like; weightlifting, exercising etc at the gym. The guy that trains me is awesome and really cool. He makes it all fun for me and it feels like it's something I wanna do. My mom thinks I'd be a waste of time for the soccer team since I suck at running (despite my footwork), and believes that I should've committed more, which I digress. Plus it's not like I won't be doing anything. Me and my friends are active. I also play basketball, hunt, do archery, and many other physical things, So what's more healthy, and what should I do? Soccer is losing for me right now, so if you choose it, you should back it up. Thanks. |
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| Question: Motion to change venue? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:51 PM PDT I live in California, I am being summon for child custody and support in New York. Can I file a motion to change venue. I never step foot in the state of New York. Can afford to go there. |
| Question: How can I help my 8 year old from being so tired and irritable? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:48 PM PDT My daughter is so much like me. If she doesnt get alot of sleep, she is very irritable. My problem right now is that she gets up early for school and then comes home and is so sleepy and cranky. I have moved her bed time back to 8 and it still seems like she is exhausted by the time she gets home. She cant function until she takes a nap and then by the time she wakes up, its time for dinner, homework and bedtime routine. I really want to keep her in extracurricular activities to keep her involved with physical fitness and socially as well. She starts softball in a few weeks and I am concerned that it may be too much. Any advice for this single mother? Is there anything that I can do to help her from being so tired all the time? |
| Question: My mother is okay with living a life of poverty? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:42 PM PDT I'm not sure how to talk to my mom anymore. She lives in the projects with my 14-year-old sister. While I have a full time job and my own apartment in a private house, my mom's kept her living standards waaaaay low and does not want to get out of the projects (she has 2 part time jobs and barely makes her bills). I told her I hope my sister shoots higher for her future and is a better success than both of us...all she said is she's not worried about my sister's future - she just wants to know my sister comes home on time every day and does her homework. I don't know how to talk to her...she's okay with her living conditions and the low expectations of my sister's future. I'm in my mid 30s and my mom is in her 50s, I know she's "set in her ways" but she refuses to talk or plan for a better life for my sister. Conversation always goes back to this and then goes nowhere. I love my mom - I just wish she wanted to better her life and my sister's. Am I being too harsh on her or being too concerned and should mind my business? |
| Question: Grounded for a year for no reason? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:42 PM PDT So about 5 days ago, my dad grounded my brother and I for a month because my brother and i were arguing. Now, that is already too over the top. My dad is very mean and abusive already, a month ago he broke my pinky because I forgot to turn off the light in the bathroom after I was done. He is also always forcing me to do 100 push ups in the morning and 2 more hours of exercise in evening. So today he caught my brother playing on his ds and he grounded both of us for a year. A year. And I didn't do anything wrong. He just told me, like he always does, "one f*cks up, we both pay. I can't talk to him about it because he will hit me, and I'm not looking forward to calling the police. Should I just wait it out, or what? |
| Question: Close family and friends stealing things from your home? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:11 PM PDT My family and I moved from a decent middle class neighborhood to a really upper class neighborhood a few months back. Ever since, people have been stealing my things! I had a 2 pound bag of Starbucks coffee beans disappear. Now I can t find my daughters $40 leotard for gymnastic. She said her cousin had it, when she came over last weekend, and it has been gone ever since. I ve turned my house over trying to find it. My grandmother was even bragging to my mom and aunt, telling them that she looked at our bank acct info when we weren t paying attention. Seriously?! This is how family treats me?!?! We have a nice house because both of us worked our butts off to be able to afford it. We didn t get a sum of money and weren t born into it. I m starting to feel like my house is a free for all, take whatever you want! My husband wants to invest in a camera system and record everything. What would you do? Everything valuable is under lock and key. My grandmother is lying. We do all of our financial transactions online, and the bank papers we do have are locked up. It is the point that she would say that. She isn't welcome to stay here anymore. I don't want to get everyone upset if only a few people are causing it, and we don't want to accuse without proof. Cameras are looking like a good idea. :) |
| Question: Am I coward for not moving out of my parents house? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:05 PM PDT I'm what you call "Daddy's Little Girl". I grew up with him doing everything for me and as a result, I'm 27 years old and I'm scared to be independent even though I want to be. (I've never paid my own bills, EVER) And I can tell my dad doesn't want me to be independent. He loves having that control over me and telling me what to do with my life.. I feel like I'm his puppet. There's a big part of me that wants to move out of my parents house but a lot of people would see me as a Princess because he and my mom take such good care of me. It's driving me CRAZY because I want the independent life but at the same time, I can't deny how good it feels to not deal with the money struggles and normal struggles other people go through. I don't know what to do!!!!! I don't know the steps to take towards moving out. I know my mom wants me to move out too but she and I have issues too because she's jealous of my college opportunities. I'm just at a total loss right now. |
| Question: How can I convince my mom to give me my birthday present early? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 12:03 PM PDT My birthday is in a week and I Kinda want one of my presents early. And please don't say "Just wait". By the way I do know what it is |
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| Question: How do I answer questions that my 4 year only cousin might ask? General kids question? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:53 AM PDT I am the youngest untill my cousin so I dont know how to act around kids? What do I say if she askes me about the warts on my hands or about something I dont want to answer? |
| Question: Why is my mum werid? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:44 AM PDT When i told her I was going on a date with a guy (im 19, not like im 14 years old) she acted all werid, like she wasnt happy for me or like she was suprised? But when my brother (who is 18) went on a date she asked heaps of questions, wanted to see pictures, asked if he liked her etc etc. She never did any of that with me, she never asked how he was or if i liked him. If she did she would know the fked up **** he said to me and why I didnt see him again because he is a complete psycho but she never asked if i am still seeing him. Why? Theres so many things about boys i would like to talk to her about but i feel UNCOMFORTABLE talking about it. My mum and dad are divorced as well so maybe she not the best person to get advice from anyway. If i were to get serious with a guy, i would honestly feel embarrassed taking him to meet my mum, she is very anti social doesnt have many friends, maybe 1. Even when i said i was going to uni, instead if being happy for me she fkn yelled at me and got angry for me wanting to go to university wtf!? It wasnt until like 2 months later she said 'i dont care what you do, u have to do what makes you happy' is she trying to make me feel guilty? And when we have a conversation, all we talk about is HER. She only talks to me about her work. THATS IT. She never asks how my life js in terms of friends, boys, life in general etc. The only thing she asks me is "how was work" when i get home and i say "It was oK" because there is nothing else to say. |
| Question: Is what I'm doing technically manipulative or no? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:32 AM PDT So my boyfriends mom doesn't like me. When i am at their house i always overhear her asking my bf when I'm going home, blaming me for something random to him, or yelling at him for borrowing the car to take me out. To my face she acts nice but also drops hints that she doesnt want me there. So what i do is pretend i have no idea, i pretend to think she loves me like a daughter and i act like i really like her and act like i think she's nice. You're probably thinking "why? what's that gonna do?" Well the reason i play dumb and continue being sweet is because i feel like my bf will feel more inclined to take my side if things ever got bad. I feel like he and everyone else will see me as sweet, innocent, cute and vulnerable if i look like don't pick up on the hints of hate and continue to see the best in people. I think it's the way that will lead to less drama. But IF there is drama I'll just be the clueless innocent girl caught in the middle and my bf will probably choose me and be mad at his mom for picking on me. Is that manipulative? Will it work for me the way I'm thinking it will? What are your thoughts? |
| Question: Moving out at 18, honest opinions? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:17 AM PDT I'll be 19 in December. I work two jobs, making a total of $300 a week. And I'm going to college but since I got full ride and then some of scholarships I'm getting about $7000 a semester that I can spend on whatever I want. I'm very responsible, know how to cook and do laundry and all the other household things. I was valedictorian of my class and in 9 months at age 19 I'll already have 5 degrees from college. Also in six months I will have already paid off my second car which cost me $5000, so I'm pretty good with my money and a hard worker. My family drives me absolutely insane and I really just want a place of my own. I wanna live within about 20 miles of my family though because I do love them. Where I live I can rent a house for about $400 a month and with an income of about $2000 a month not counting my car payments and insurance. However my family all think I would never make it and that I'm too young, have no idea what I'm doing etc. does everyone else think, should I move out? Whats an estimate of how much just me in a 1 bedroom house would cost in bills and groceries? I don't really know what to expect there. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:12 AM PDT Ok, so I'm sorry if I get personal, but right now I really need help and advice and someone to talk to. This is a very long story, but I'll try to keep it short. As a kid, I never fully got the support or attention I needed from my parents, because I was the middle child. Because of this, I barely spent time at home and hung out with my friend and her family instead. My mom has always been physically abusive whenever I make a mistake or disagree with her. I'm not allowed to have an opinion, if it doesn't match hers. I was always jealous of my friends and their families, because I've felt for a very long time like I don't have my own. In 8th grade my mom flipped out on me for a small mistake I did, I left food on the table (because I thought people were still eating and no one told me I had to clean up). My mom started screaming at me and threatened to hit me. I've been physically hurt by her since I was a young kid and I remember wanting to kill myself, because I was feeling like no one loved me. So as a 14 year old girl, I didn't know what to do, I wanted to get help, because I was tired of all the verbal and physical abuse so I told her that I was going to call the cops ( I was young and didn't know what to do). She got even angrier after that and chased me into my room and kicked me out. I lived at a friends for two days and then she told me to come home, but she threatened to kill me. That was my breaking point so I eventually did call the cops cause I felt so unsafe |
| Question: How do I persuade my mum and step dad to let me keep my phone at night? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:09 AM PDT I had a letter home from school about a mentor but it was meant to be just to help me and not a bad thing but my parents saw it as I wasn't trying and they have made me hand in my phone at half 9 for over 2 months and they said it is going to happen until I finish school. I have asked for a chance but they said no. I am 16 and think I should be trusted or Atleast given another chance. My dad also pays for the phone and bought my ipad aswell as I have to hand that in aswell. What should I do? |
| Question: How do I persuade my mum and step dad to let me have my phone at night? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:06 AM PDT |
| Question: Wonderful.. Everyone should hail their lineage.. And now do you have a question? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 11:03 AM PDT |
| Question: Am I aloud to call the cops on my Brother?!?!? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:27 AM PDT I am a 14, almost 15 year old boy. My brother age 19 has anger issues and is set off by the smallest things. Today, my brother hid the TV remote from me and my sister who were watching tv, then he walked outside to smoke for about ten minutes, came in and made some food, then when he asked for it he said no he was done watching our gay *** **** (jersey shore). So i unplugged our cable box so if we couldn t watch what we wanted, neither could he. That caused him to dart down the stairs and kick and punch me. He is a lot bigger than me. So I called both of my parents who are at work and are unable to do anything abput the situation right now. Should I call the police if this continues? This is not the first time it s happend. My parents always threaten to kick him out but it never happens, but i m thinking it will this time. He is into drugs so my concern is him getting acess to weapons and harming my family, and I. |
| Question: Want to move in with my dad but not sure how to tell my mom? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:16 AM PDT I'm just tired of living with my mom. She's done a lot of messed up things (past and present) to me, my sister, and my dad and I'm just really fed up with her attitude. My parents have joint custody of me so we'd have to go to court to get it changed if she says no. I'm 16 as well and go to college at the end of this school year so I think I should be allowed to choose who to live with. Any suggestions? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:15 AM PDT My mother doesn't intervene in these matters and never takes my side.I have sunk into depression.I even once tried to commit suicide.I am 15 years old and this abuse has taken a toll on studies.My sister sometimes acts really nice and loving and protective but at other times she abuses and dominates me.I cant retort back when she insults me because then she sometimes starts to hit me.What should I do? |
| Question: My mom is obsessed with Facebook? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT My mom is on Facebook for about 3-4 hours a day. She constantly asks me or my sister to take pictures of her or us as a family. She'll take embarrassing pictures and post them. I talked to her about it and she said since I was a kid (I'm 16) I have no rights to tell her not to post a picture of me. I really don't like knowing that she's telling random people (friends, family and some strangers she met) my stories. Like if I told her I was depressed. She'd tell EVERYONE. It wasn't until I started crying that she finally stopped. Now, she is always on it (even when driving)! It's even getting worse.. She ignores me and my sister. If I tell her something while she's on Facebook, she doesn't listen. I have to keep calling out to her until she looks at me. I don't know anyone who's on Facebook more than her. I want to confront her about how I feel, but I'm afraid she'd yell at me. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should go about it? |
| Question: Help me quit smoking cannabis PLEASE !? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:07 AM PDT So this might sound ridic to most of you but this was my last option so please give a hand. I was a really joly kid, my parents give me everything like the best education in private american and swiss schools, I had a girlfriend who kind of ****** my life up, the next one being the turning point. I started to rebel against family because of the first one, started smoking at 11, drinking and ******* hookers by 12, smoking weed and sniffing coke by 15 as a heavy regular user. By 16, I was really ******. I got arrested in school for exortion, trial just finished now and I'm doing good. Even though I had the dough from my parents, I had the greed for more and started hustling. Started with a couple of keys of weed, then when to quick dough on china white. Funny enough by 17, got in the industry, made enough dough to drop out of high school and live till now.Was an angel to my mother, now she calls me a devil. I love her very dearly for always being there for me, I know I have been a great shame in the name of my father and mother. My parents had envisioned my future so differently.. For 3 years I've been abusing narcotics, and only now have I understood I'm ******. I quit everything but the weed. I went through health issues such as GERD and burning 2 holes in my stomach causing me to spit blood for a period of over 3 months. That scared the **** outta me, quit everything but the weed. Now this is the only thing and since it is, I smoke like 5-10g's a day of really strong ****. Help me quit please! I speak from the heart! |
| Question: What would be a worse torture method to endure? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:01 AM PDT A. somebody taking a gun, and shooting off your fingers one by one B. somebody strapping you child to a pole and burning them alive right in front of you eyes, you are forced to see the flesh melt off their bones, you are forced to hear their screams. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 10:01 AM PDT My dad is an amazing person but he can lose his temper quickly. He shouts at me when I ask for a snack to eat, he moans at me for doing what I love (video games) and I keep on telling him that I want to work with games and if I play them I will get to know what makes a good and bad game. He is sort of like this with my siblings moaning at my 3 year old sister when she makes a mess, forces my brother into all these football camps when he doesn t want to do it even though his passion is football and my other sister is told to cut down on the amount of outside time she has and when she does stay inside he moans at her. What should I do |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:58 AM PDT Sometimes my girlfriend will pee all over my face and I will drink it women's urine is much butter it's sugery. |
| Question: I'm 13, I hate my life. I want to quit, what should I do? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:37 AM PDT Firstly, I'm a girl and my mother wanted to name me Fatima but my grandmother wanted it to be Taha and after fighting a lot, my grandmother won. Plus, my father has essential tremors from birth because his mother have it and now I have it, my father knew that the genes would come in his children and they would have to deal with it their whole life, so why didn't he think that he shouldn't marry and reproduce, I think he's very selfish. Now I'm in 9th grade and I'm 13 years old, and I've never ever ever met any girl who has an "opposite gender" name or any single human being who has essential tremors and all of my friends, cousins, family and every body I have ever met makes fun of me and I'm sick of telling them again and again, I'm ******* tired of everything. But even with essential tremors, my writing's still no 1 good in my class. I hate my life and I'm tired of it, I'm thinking to change my name but after that it'll be really very awkward and people may even make more fun of me and essential tremors? They have no cure. I know every body has problems but they have those "private problems" of which nobody really knows and nobody makes fun of them. I am sick and tired of everything and people picking on me each day. I want to quit everything and rest in peace forever. What should I do? :( (Note: I made this account with a fake name to hide my identity) |
| Question: Can my mom get arrested for something my brother did? He is under 18? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:30 AM PDT He has a gun, not a proper gun but it is powerful enough to kill someone maby. And today or someother day he shot a cat and a nusery window, can my mom get arrestes since she bought it? Please help, my mom hasnt done anything wrong though |
| Question: My moms mom is having trouble PLEASE HELP? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:11 AM PDT My moms mom is hallucinating and not making sense and my mom is afraid she might die I m afraid what my mom might do if she dies because something is really wrong... How could I help her cope if she dies maybe some advice from other people that have had their parents moms die; please help :( |
| Question: My father in law is on my last nerve.? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:08 AM PDT We made a major move to another state to live with him, he painted this picture of how this would be beneficial to both parties. We would share the cost of living so that we could save money. The house is paid for no rent or mortgage. So we have been here for 3 months and he has yet to get a job or be productive in ANY way! We pay all of the household expenses plus our own and even paid for the current tags on HIS car so he could get a job.... He is so rude, he eats over $700 worth of food in 2 weeks, wont clean anything and watches my every move... I did not move here to be under lock and key or be his live in made and chef. I have have 3 kids 6,4 and 2 months to take care of and home school! He ease drops on my conversations to the point that I have to put music on loud and close my door to have a conversation. He is only in his 50s and is capable of working. Any time my husband has mentioned anything to him or refuted his opinion (he likes to tell us how to raise our kids) he gets very confrontational and threatens to kick us out. We have drained the savings we had and have not saved anything more due to the living situation.Not t mention his complete disregard for our wishes, we only wanted internet as we don't watch tv or use a house phone... he got cable and a house phone that WE pay for, We don't even get to use the tv as he spends ALL of his time in front of it My husband is the only one working and dose not make enough to support us all...I don't know what to do! |
| Question: My sister and I are identical twins, why do boys like her they don't like me :(? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:07 AM PDT There is a guy I like in our class, he pays more attention to my sister but we are identical twins. I'm not mean or stuck up. |
| Question: Moving out of my moms house? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:02 AM PDT I'm 20 years old, and my boyfriend of one year and his grandmother have all welcomed me into their home. While I know things could be worse at my house, I can't help but complain about the situation. My mother is a really hard person to live with. Everything is her way or no way. She's never been very loving and she constantly complains that I'm only ever home to sleep. My curfew is midnight so most of the time I work and then my boyfriend picks me up and we spend the day together. But she wants me home all the time to do her bidding. Clean up after her and her girlfriend and their 7 year old son. Babysit so she can go out and "have fun". But if I do anything like that she'd tell my whole family that I'm a delinquent and that I'm ungrateful and want to move out to do whatever I want. She'd turn my whole family against me. I don't want to fight with her, but I'm tired of the situation at home. What should I do? How should I talk to her? |
| Question: How to get my mom to stop being mad? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 09:00 AM PDT So, we went out to get bread and we went to a little corner store and she told me to go see if there were any good types of bread and i asked her why she didnt want to get out of the car with me and she told me she didn t want to be embarrassed if there wasn t any good bread and leave without buying anything, as a joke i said haha, lets get in together and be embarrassed buddies and she got slightly mad and she said get out of the car we are going in together since you are too lazy to go alone, so we go in and i didn t like any of the bread types and she got mad we left and she called me stupid but no one really noticed when we went in/left. she hasn t spoken to me but when she has she speaks to me in a really mean tone. help anyone? I ve tried talking to her but she tells me to go to my room! |
| Question: How do I tell my Mom I want to live with my Dad? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:59 AM PDT My parents divorced when I was 5. I am now 14. I have lived with my Mom for 9 years. My Dad is in the Navy and often has to move to other Navy/ Air Force bases, which are usually far away. He is currently stationed in Maryland, I live in Illinois and it is 16 hrs away. He was previously stationed in Oklahoma which is 8-10 hrs away. Unlike other kids that get to see their mother/father every other weekend, I only get to see my father every 6 months. In my mothers household I feel like I'm invisible, and its just depressing here. I mostly spend my nights crying myself to sleep, but anytime I bring moving with my father up... My mother all of a sudden thinks that I just want to move with him to get out of responsibilitys (I have the same responsibilities at my dads house). I love my Mom, and I know she loves me, but it doesn't feel like it. I love my Dad, and I know he loves me, and it actually feels like he loves me. I'm not invisible there. I actually mean something. Unlike my current living situation. In shorter words I am sad at my Moms house, and happy at my Dads. I would hope my Mom would want me to be happy. I am literally starting my first year of high school tomorrow.... When is a good time to ask, and how should I ask her in a way she understands? |
| Question: Is it wrong to fight back against my abusive brother? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:50 AM PDT I live with a verbally, emotionally and now verbally abusive brother. College is a year away, and I'm planning on moving out, despite my parents who try to hold me back from doing what I love. I was wondering, is it wrong to fight back and stand up for myself against my abusive brother? I always tried to do what's right and keep everything locked inside, but it's getting harder and harder with every abusive episode he throws at me. How can I keep everything locked away until it's time to leave? I don't want to be a spoiled brat and defend myself. I'm not allowed to see a therapist, and my school councilor doesn't do anything. EDIT: Sorry this question was vague. He says things like I'm worthless, fatass, a piece of ****, my writing and art are "emo pieces of ****", calls me a ******* autistic, and whatnot. As for physical, he beats me with his fists or kicks me, or uses any object within reach to hurt me with. He digs his nails into my skin, saying how much of a fatass I am, whatever. He broke the lock on my door so I can't lock myself in my room. He speaks in my ear like he's taunting a little child. EDIT 2: My brother is 3 years younger than me, but he acts like he's a drunken 21 year old. |
| Question: I was caught masturbating? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:44 AM PDT I was at my older sisters apartment and she was at work, then i started masturbating (outside of the bathroom) but then she came home early and i quickly ran and got a towel, but it was obvious that i was masturbating... Then she saw me and started laughing and saying ****, then i ran and locked myself inside of the bathroom... She needs to take a shower and I'm not coming out. I dressed inside of the bathroom but then I heard her telling it to someone on the phone (because she's a jerk) I'm not sure if it was her husband or our mom. I just lost all of my dignity and I'm bummed out as I was never caught before... I could have ran the the bathroom earlier when she was unlocking the front door and said i was pooping but I freaked out... Im all shaken up :( what do I do? |
| Question: Husband no more Vary sad want to suicide? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:33 AM PDT My husband no more. I am very unhappy want to suicide. What are ways to keep away from such thoughts?. nobody with me to give Santvana |
| Question: How many living grandparents do you have? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:27 AM PDT I have two they are my father's parents |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:18 AM PDT My boyfriend and I have been together 6 years. He's a police officer. I was a pharmacy technician. I'm 23 he's 25. We had to move 2 hours away from family 3 months ago. His parents keep hounding for me to get a job. I left my job, family, horses, cows, and dog. We go home every weekend. I don't want to get a job because I'm afraid I won't be able to go home every weekend because our schedules will clash. This spring he will be able to transfer closer to home so we will be moving back. I don't know if I should get a job if we're going to be leaving in 7 months. I'm a farm girl. Living without my animals and the land is killing me inside its my life. I can't imagine not going home. It makes me depressed. His parents are mad because I'm not working or paying for anything but the way I see it if I chose to stay back at home he would be paying for everything by himself anyways. I'm thinking about putting my app in at the farm store that's near by but then again I have doubts. I don't know what to do. What do you think? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 08:12 AM PDT When I was 12 and my sister was 11 we started going through puberty, and we started to become very touching. Well one when We had to share a room I touched her butt and Breast when she was sleeping, this happened two other times. I feel really bad and I wish I could take it back, but I don't know What to do. So if you could please help it would be much appreciated. I know I messed up so please don't be rude. |
| Question: Do you think fathers abandon their kids because of debt/money? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:59 AM PDT people talk about the emotional side all the time, but what about the financial? I have people in my family who went to crime/drugs because they didn't have enough money...why wouldn't that be the main reason? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:45 AM PDT Me and my mom got into a car crash around a year ago while driving to school in the morning. A guy T-boned our car while going 75 mph (10 miles over the speed limit) I blame myself for the car crash because the only reason I didn t take the bus that morning is because I had a robotic baby project I had to take care of over the weekend and I didn t want to damage on the way to school so I decided not to take the bus. I came out with some bruises but my mom broke her pelvis in three places, some ribs, and her right arm. She was in a nursing home and in a wheelchair for 4 months. She can walk now but she can t work at a normal job and doesn t get disability. She cries in pain every night and I blame myself so much I feel like I ruined her life... |
| Question: Birthday gift for my 14 year old nephew? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:30 AM PDT Is that too old for Legos? He's in the Boy Scouts and likes comics. |
| Question: Is what my brother is telling me true? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:08 AM PDT I accidentally caught my little brother j - - king off. He told me he read in the Weekly World News that each time he did that, it raised his IQ. Could that be possible or is he feeding me a line of bull? If it is true, he is going to be a genius. Could this be why he is so smart? |
| Question: Should I tell my mom about this? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 07:02 AM PDT I am a high school girl. My school is a short distance from where my mom works. Sometimes after school I go to mom's work place and wait for her to get off work in the company cafeteria. Mom is the only woman employee at this location. While I was waiting for her, I met and became friends with a lot of her co workers. They are some really great looking guys. Several of them told me "I see where you get your beauty from. Your mom is gorgeous." Some of the most hot and sexy guys there told me "Your mom would make a trophy wife". Anyone know what that means? Is it a compliment I should tell her about? Would my mom want to hear what her fellow employees are saying about her? |
| Question: Is it possible to have a functional family and be active duty? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:53 AM PDT |
| Question: 18 and my life sucks....? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:52 AM PDT Well 5 years i came into high school very athletic... i made the varsity soccer team and the varsity cross country team! I was very fit ran a 5k in 19 minutes which is a really good finish for my age and also got invited to represent usa in cross country race in hawaii but was too expensive. I had perfect grades which led to me taking a sociology course at university of arizona for free....i had alot of friends but then over the years my life started to die down. I began to care alot less for my grades which led to me getting a 23 on my ACT where all my friends got higher and all got accepted into great schools senior year. I stopped running and got 10x lazier and gained some pounds. Went to college just because someone from my school was going as well we went as roommate and that guys sucks ***... joined a frat they were cool but mostly *****.... i gained like 25 pounds, failed 3 classes, got 32 credits and dont know what to do with my life ...my family says im not taking advantage of this opportunity so told me to transfer out because of loans.... i havent filled out any applications to go back to school and its pretty late ... it sucks family members used to cheer me on telling me im great with a bright future, but now they make fun of me for being fat and transferring to a 2 year college.... im 18 some friends who dont chill togethr no more, no girl, no clue yo do with my life and 170 at a height of 5'5... life sucks and well im scared with whats coming |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:45 AM PDT For 2 years my friend and I have been amazingly good friends. He was like my other half. We went to the same college, had the same job, world views, morals, interests, taste in music. We spent most of our time together, and planned to go to the same uni and spend a year travelling. He'd stayed at my house for weeks when he'd had trouble at home and we told each other everything. We literally had the perfect friendship, no arguments ever. I cannot do it justice. One night I did something stupid. We'd been out drinking together and he passed out but I was still awake. I don't really know what drove me to do it, but I took his phone and transferred photos of his girlfriend over to my phone using Bluetooth. This is not something I would do sober. I would not take the risk of something like that normally. I have never even looked at his girlfriend in that way. Before I went to sleep, I started to sober up and realise how horrible what I'd done was. I deleted all the photos and put it behind me. Please see the rest of my answer here http://freetexthost.com/vg4y5ll6ke I ran out of space - it seems Yahoo have reduced the character limit. Thanks for any serious help! This relationship meant the world to me and I don't want to lose it over one stupid mistake - although I know I deserve it. |
| Question: I want to live with my dad!!!!!? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:31 AM PDT my mom and my stepdad all live together, I only see my dad every other weekend. my 4 year old sister, my 3 year old sister, my 5 month brother and my step sister who also meets every other weekend (11) are at my dads with my beautiful step mother. they are moving and when they move I want to go with them. and most people want to move with there other parents due to family problems but I have a lot of problems. I don't do well in school and I am bullied. my step dad is never home. and my mom everyday as soon as she gets home drinks a whole bottle of wine. there is never a sober day with her. I told everyone at school I'm moving and all my sisters. I'm even stalking on Twitter to see my new classmates. I'm thinking that this is the chance to start over and maybe even get Honnor roll for once in my life. or even close to Honnor roll. I'm scared to tell my mom for many reasons. 1) I don't want to ruin or relationship 2) she will say no even tho I'm not asking her I'm telling her. 3) she will get violent and scream at me. one morning I was going to tell her and I even had my suitcase on the side of the house in case anything happened and I needed to leave. please help me!!!! |
| Question: How come it's so weird, crazy, & creepy to get a tattoo of your niece and/or nephew? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 06:15 AM PDT I'm not having this problem, I'm just curious. I don't even have any nieces or nephews. It's because, I always hear people say this & when people ask for tattoo ideas for their niece and/or nephews on hear people answer "it's weird or unusual & you shouldn't be getting their names tattooed on you." "The only ones you should be getting are your own children." They talk like the aunt or uncle is a stranger or a pedophile. It just doesn't make any sense to me. It's a total different response when it involves the persons biological kids but when it's like a niece, a sibling, or a little cousin etc., it's creepy. They're family just as much as the parents & the same goes for nieces & nephews. |
| Question: I told my mom everything when I got high...? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:50 AM PDT So I got high for the first time yesterday and I felt really upset and wanted to go home. I got dropped off and my mom started asking me questions and I told her everything, all while crying my eyes out. She just told me that she delt with this befor with my brother and to just not do it again, but I kept telling her that I would never earn her trust back. She told me that I had a free-be because she knew I would never do it again and that we would talk tommorow. I asked her it to tell my dad or my friends parent but I think she I'll and I am panicking right now. I am waiting for her to come back from work and I am kinda freeking out, can you help me? |
| Question: My parents are retards the country is retard? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:48 AM PDT My dad is extremely stupid and so is my mom both of them are retards. The rest of the family are selfish pricks. Only the two of them actually cares about me but both of them are knuckleheads their teachings harms me more mentally than they do good. |
| Question: Should I break up with my bf because his ex gf is still close to his m and sister ? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:11 AM PDT It really bothers me. Makes me feel as though I'm.not good enough and also like doesn't his ex have no respect for his new relationship ...I can't . |
| Question: What is the best way to deal with a grieving parent before leaving for college? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 05:03 AM PDT About two months ago, my grandmother, my mother s mother, passed away. Her death was a really strong blow on both of us and we both have our really sad moments here and there. Besides brief grief flare-ups, I have been doing alright - going to work, hanging out with friends, being productive, etc. I have had a past of drug-abuse and self-harm, however this hasn t re emerged in this period, so it s safe to say that I am doing pretty well. I am also heading off to college in about two weeks, away from home. My mother is a different story. I am always waking up in the middle of the night to hear her sobbing, or lying on the floor. She has changed a lot and has started to hate her job. She s been more sensitive and almost bipolar, seeming fine one second and then switching into a rage the next. I don t know what to do. So far, I ve tried to be there for her, listen to her, and do what I can to cheer her up and spend time with her. I am so worried about her that I am considering not going to my dream college and settling for something in my home city. If anyone can offer any advice on how to help my mother or if I should go to a closer-to-home college please let me know. All I want for her is to be happy again. |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:51 AM PDT Ok , it's been weird between us since I got pregnant! ( husband adopted and only son).my father in law texted message like " wish ur child will treat you the way you treat us" I was no even 12 weeks pregnant ...we kind of let go and moved on , after my son was born we drove 5 hours to see them and spend time as a family .my son was on the floor when their dog growled at him, I immediately took my son my husband asked that the dog could be kept in an other room , 2 minute later the dog was kind of crying so my father in laws ask his wife if she was gonna to let the dog in she did.... My husband and I decided to take my son for a walk even tho it was raining an kinda cold , as it seems that the dog wouldn't allow a baby in a room anyway as we walked out the mother asked if we wanted a blanket I said yes only to found out later that it was a dirty dog blanket! Anyway we left the next day and decided to keep distance , we have moved abroad and haven't seen them much . , until last week when we came UK for school holiday decided to visit them , 1 year since we last saw them ... I felt that they don't care still , they have took us for dinner but the dad rushed us as the football was on! When we return to their place , they both sat dad with news paper and football on! No interaction , like they see us everyday .... It cost us a lot of money to visit and it's far and I feel they don't really appreciate us! Any thought am I being weird? Just don't know how to act anymore... Thoughts? X |
| Question: What should I do to get away from my sister and my cousin? Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:48 AM PDT I can't leave so please don't say take a walk, and they follow me around everywhere. What should I do? |
| Posted: 12 Aug 2015 04:43 AM PDT i have never met my parents. I was brought up by my grandmar in New Zealand. We moved to australia. When i was about 12, one day when i was at school, she moved back to new zealand and left a note on the door telling me, and wishing me luck in life. Since i have been homeless, kidnapped, drugged, raped. I've had to steal to survive. I've had depression, and tried killing myself more time then i can remember. I have lived off friends, and been in and out of homes. My ex partner go me hooked on drugs, but got our house raided and got locked up. Since i have been trying to fix my life. I'm 16 now, i found a nice family, they took me in and enrolled me into school, i got cleaned up. I found a partner, and we were together for a month before the family kicked me out. His family let me move in and now i don't know what to do. They don't treat me like their own, so i cant ask them for help. i have to do it on my own, and my partner doesnt have a job or a car or do anything. Someone stole my passport so i can't get a job. Centerlink wont give me money because of my age. I can't do anything. I just need advice on how to clean my life up, i want to go somewhere in life. I dont wanna depend on my partner, i want to fix it on my own, but i just don't know how. |
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