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- Question: My 10yr old brother sexually harass me?
- Question: I know parents can discipline their children but to what extent? I think this has gone too far.?
- Question: How did your kids surprise you?
- Question: How much longer will my wife go and take care of our daughter's new baby? Baby is five weeks old and my wife spends 10-12 hours a day there?
- Question: Is my mum the problem or is it me?
- Question: Can I get my dad arrested for grounding me just cuz I ditched him at the museum?
- Question: This is not a troll question. This is real and serious. I need advice on what to do next, on how to take things further and get what I want?
- Question: Should I rebel against my family?
- Question: What is it if your brothers and sisters hate for you their baby sister to have her baby after she is grown or before she is grown?
- Question: How do I get away from my family?
- Question: Is it time for me too move out im only 17?
- Question: How to deal with an insensitive family?
- Question: I have a brother who has failed me many times. I want nothing to do with him what is the best way to separate yourself from a family member?
- Question: I heard something I wasn't suppose too hear.?
- Question: Help my mom wants me to be a girl?
- Question: Help my uncle and dad raped me?
- Question: Mom tells everyone my problems! Help?
- Question: My Mom can't get over something dumb I did last year?
- Question: How should I handle this whole situation? Am I wrong to feel betrayed, after all these years? Should I seek his forgiveness or forget it?
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- Question: Any ideas on how to deal with control freak mother?
- Question: My mom is masturbating in front of me?
- Question: Sighs my sister and law wants to have sex with a 13 year old boy?
- Question: My mom likes to throw her religion in my face?
- Question: Dad thinks i spend to much time online?
- Question: Bad Birthday....need some help on making it better....?
- Question: How to get out of my parent's bubble (I'm 25 yrs old) without disobeying them?
- Question: Girls honestly would you?
- Question: I hate myself for feeling this way!?
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- Question: My mom is throwing me a surprise party that i don't want?
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- Question: Hello guys. I need your advice for my grandma.?
- Question: I cant do this anymore?
- Question: I share a room with my cousin and she is honestly such an add. I hate her. I have mental disorders and want to run away becUse of her. Help!?
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| Question: My 10yr old brother sexually harass me? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 01:11 PM PDT My youngest brother often are lil prevert, i am 19 years old he doesnt act sexual towards other family members but just me. He takes his pants off and underwear and shows his *penis* and try to push him away and call parents then he becomes a nice guy and goes away, then when parents away he talks about nasty things i even slap him once , every time i take a shower he tries to go in .. it feels disgusting why he is doing that he wont give up even if he gets slapped, punched or being shout to stop. also when i was sleeping today he came into my room and touched my private area i kick him out and slap him for being a prevert. my oldest brother who is 21 he use to steal my bras and underwear as well when he use to live in same house. i feel terrible i tried telling parents, they just told me to slap him if he does it.. they also told him to leave me alone and he got shouted by father from being a prevert. I also caught him once watching dirty stuff on youtube through his tablet . how can i make him stop? |
| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 01:05 PM PDT I have always loved my mother and been as kind as possible to her but I think she needs help. My little sister has a type of ADHD and sometimes she acts out. I know she should be taught not to do things but my mother really abuses my sister. She is 12 years old and she wanted to fix food and my mother wouldn't let her. So my little sister said "I'm not ******* six" and I know that she should be disciplined for that but I believe my mother took this too far. She threw my sisters head down on the hard kitchen floor and began to smack and punch her then pull her hair to hold her in place while she smacked her head and face. Then she pulked my little sister up but her hair and told her to go upstairs. Then as my little sister, (who was dropping tears on the floor) began to walk upstairs, my mother pulled her hair and arm, pulling her into the floor once again only to smack her over and over saying "don't touch or grab on to anything" and sent her upsairs again. My sister went, not talking or taking anything including her iPod. My little sister had an old first generation iPod and that is all my sister had, no toys, no other electronics, just that little Ipod that she watched youtube videos on. Well my mom took that and busted it on the ground until it didn't even have a screen on it. Now my little sister is in pain, may need to go to the hospital, and only has a bed and a dresser. What should I do and is my mom aloud to be doing this to my sister all the time like she does? |
| Question: How did your kids surprise you? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 12:57 PM PDT Like were they left handed? Were they good in drawing or sports? Did they have blonde hair when you thought they'll be brunette? I don't mean expectations, but like how they became one way when you thought another. |
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| Question: Is my mum the problem or is it me? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 12:51 PM PDT Long story short, my mum has always had problems with being addicted to silly things, if it's not one thing it will be another. Then last September her addiction to these over the counter pills nearly killed her and put her in hospital for 2 months, so she finally stopped taking them. But she's since moved onto other things, harmless food and drink but there's this compulsive need she feels to have them? Can't go a day without these things? We're about £20,000+ in debt simply because my mum is a frivolous spender but it's not really until I turned 15 (I'm almost 17 now) that I noticed it was such an issue! I had never really known that the money she had been spending was on credit cards, and because of that I do try and stop her from spending money on things that we don't need because it worries me so much that we're in debt. She spends £100 a month on these fizzy drinks she can't go a day without drinking (around £15 a week). When we mentioned to her that maybe it was a problem she started screaming about how we are out to get her, she "doesn't have to prove anything to us". My mum eventually said that I didn't love her, and she should just kill herself because we don't care about her--we don't want her to have anything good in her life apparently. I just find it really upsetting that she thinks that I don't love her, I'm really worried about our finances and her, she is constantly spending money on things that we don't need... am I the problem though? Just noticed that 15 pounds a week clearly doesn't equal 100 a month; it's actually bit more than that weekly! The cost varies every week o: |
| Question: Can I get my dad arrested for grounding me just cuz I ditched him at the museum? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 12:39 PM PDT We went to this museum about all them crazy surgery's they used to do in old times. Like amputations without anethetic and stuff. And they have a preserved operating theater where the guide man talks for a long time. At first I was interested with his talk. But then I got bored. Cuz there was these 3 guests who asked a million dumb questions and made lots of unfunny jokes with the guy. So that the whole talk became about those 3 attention seekers. So I toad my dad I was going to pee. But then I realized I was hungry so I left the museum & went to a restaurant and then I walked along the river. Then I went back to the museum and my dad was standing outside. And he looked like he was gonna kill me. His face was like this 😬 So I just started running back where I came from. And I swear he tried to kill me, cuz he ran after me and put his arm around my throat like a headlock and made me go with him to the car. Then he rant all the way home. I won't go into details on the rant. Suffice it to say it was all very tedious. Then he grounded me when we got home and said wait in my room until he's calmed down enough to hit me. Wtf. Can u see how crazy he is?!? All I did was go eat and walk for 30 minutes. He needs police intervention. He is not normal. He acting like I did something really bad or dangerous like swallowed a firework |
| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 12:30 PM PDT I'm a pervert I'll admit it. I am currently on vacation, and sleeping in my aunts house with my other aunt and my cousins. My aunt sleeps in the room next to mine, and one morning ago I found her sleeping with her door open with one titty out fully exposed. I got really horny and decided to take my dick out and play with her titty and take advantage of that situation, even though it's incest. I wanted to go further and maybe *** on my aunts titty or suck my aunts nipple or even titfuck her or put in her mouth but I was too nervous and afraid that she was gonna wake up. I'm glad I got to see her titty. She has pink nipples. What should I do to take it to the next level? How can I try and do that without waking her up? I'm afraid of the consequences if I get caught. Plus she has a husband, my uncle. But he's a soft pushover. Also I have an older cousin who's already married but is overweight. However even being a little overweight she still looks pretty and has fat in all the right places, she has a fat ***. She also has huge titties. She sometimes has to breastfeed my second cousin in a room, but closes the door. I wanna get in the room though while she's breastfeeding and suck on her titties, take my dick out and ask her to take my virginity, but she has a husband who isn't a soft pushover and I'm also unsure how to do this without my family finding out. This vacation most of my family has come to visit, and someone is always around so it's never just me and her alone. |
| Question: Should I rebel against my family? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 12:27 PM PDT -they intervene when they don't think the guy is right for me by threatening to kick me out (2/3 times they are wrong) -they told me which major should be my major in college but I did not enjoy the program and could not find a job afterwards -my dad physically abused me in the past -they don't want me to drink, even socially -they read my text messages and need to know where I am and who I am with at all times during the day Btw, I am 25 years old... My friend told me to rebel against them. Is this a good idea? What do you recommend? Is it understandable why I feel this way? |
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| Question: How do I get away from my family? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 12:06 PM PDT Ok so I'm 23, pregnant and with a 2 yr old and I already know I'm going to be judged. I live with my mom,step dad,and brother. They have always mistreated me my mom took out her pain on me and I to this day will never know why. My step dad and brother followed suit so when I was ignored for weeks by my own mother they followed. One time my step dad pulled my hair and I didn't know how wrong it was until I told my male cousin about it. One time my mother argued with me and they were both behind her ready to attack me. I been physically,emotionally, and mentally abused my whole life. I had to quit a job because my mother didn't want to babysit and I couldn't afford childcare. When I was a teen I was always called stupid, ugly, and every other word in the book by my mom. I was told I could never get a good man because I didn't exist so I believed I deserved worse. My mom is now blind and lost all feeling in legs so i feel obligated to stick around. My most recent job I paid half the rent, all the groceries, house supplies, and junk food. They bought nothing but a few groceries that didn't last. Whenever i confront them my moms true colors come out and I'm labeled as ungrateful to them now. When it comes to rent my mom goes crazy. What do I do my son sees all of this the only part of my family I know is the exact same so being with them is not an option. I've considered going to shelters because I really can't do this anymore |
| Question: Is it time for me too move out im only 17? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:55 AM PDT Im 17 my parents constantly criticize me and tell me what to do they allways threaten to kick me out I dont drive or have a job and I dont think I have any where to go please help im tired of this and just want to leave but afraid no job no car I cant drive please give me some advice please |
| Question: How to deal with an insensitive family? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:54 AM PDT I'm 16 (male) and my family sometimes I think go out of their way to be *****. I'm the oldest of 5 kids and I'm Autistic. I try very hard to do things normally, but sometimes it's really hard. And on top of that, I get the least out of anyone, and try to be grateful, yet my parents complain about me constantly. I can't even talk about the things that I like anymore because they make fun of it. They think it's funny, but really, it's hurtful. They don't seem to know the difference between jokes that are funny and jokes that are mean. And if I tell them that, they act like I'm being a baby. My dad especially. I try to do the right thing, and if I mess up even a little, they hold it over my head. Sometimes, it makes me mad and they act like I'm such a jerk. My dad was just telling me how I think the world revolves around me, which is utter B.S. And even when they apologize, none of them can apologize without an excuse to save their lives. I'm sick and tired of them. I'm tired of trying to do the right thing and having people act like assholes in return. What do I do? |
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| Question: I heard something I wasn't suppose too hear.? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:53 AM PDT My parents go to work before I go to school & come home after I come back. I decided to stay home & hours later I looked out the window and saw my mother's car pull into the driveway. Her & her co-worker gets out and comes inside. I could hear them having sex. (My parents room is right across from mine) Should I tell my dad or nah? |
| Question: Help my mom wants me to be a girl? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:33 AM PDT hello I'm 12 years old and a boy.thirteen next week and my mom I think wishes I was a girl. I've never had short hair. She always made my hair cuts long and she strokes my head like I'm some little girl. She still baby talks to me, I'm worried my mom wants a girl. I asked her if I coukd get a hair cut because I'm starting first day of school and she told me WHY DO YOU WANT TO CUT YOUR BEAUTIFUL HAIR? and it really upset me. I said I feel like I look like a girl. And she said I was ridiculous. My hair is past my shoulders and sometimes she puts it in a pony tail. It makes me so mad I get made fun of. My dad isn't around I never met him so I don't know who to go to for help. Should I just try to take her shaving razor for her legs and shave my head. Will that work? please help my mom thinks I'm a girl |
| Question: Help my uncle and dad raped me? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:24 AM PDT am I the only one who has experienced this? At the age of 10 I was watching TV in my room and they came in and started f*cking me. I won't go in to the details. This was 4 years ago in 14 now and I'm still scared to talk about it. Any advice? |
| Question: Mom tells everyone my problems! Help? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:21 AM PDT Really personal things, my facial skin condition, my skin condition on my arms and legs ALL in detail, my previous depression, my anxiety and panic problems, my medication, laser treatment - EVERYTHING. She doesn't just tell the family, she tells her friends who tell their kids, she was even discussing my anxiety meds and prescribed gel for my manky arm condition to MY BROTHERS FRIEND over dinner when he came to stay over. like, WHAT?! I don't want people knowing this, any of it. I'm a really private person anyway, why does she think this is okay? I have told her again and again to keep it to herself, she says "oh it's just gran, it's just good old helen, it's just this person I met five mins ago, it's just your brothers entire friend group" It's really embarrassing and I've explained it to her but she still does, I can't keep these things from her because my mum has to know because I'm a minor. What do I do :(? |
| Question: My Mom can't get over something dumb I did last year? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:20 AM PDT I regret doing this and it was a dumb decision, but last year I met a guy offline in a park in my town I made out with him and he wanted to have sex in the woods but I wasn't interested because he was too whiny about how ugly he thought he was and the next day he dropped me because I wasn't into it, my Mom found out because someone she knew saw us and she's still pissed off at me about it. I'm aware it was a dumb decision and I haven't done anything like that since or plan to but it was so long ago and only one time. I'm almost 20 years old |
| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:15 AM PDT My dad and i have a rough relationship. The year after i graduated, hr moved older stepsister and her husband into my room without telling me, excluded me from family vacations, and told me to leave after my little stepsister told him I was having sex with my boyfriend (even though I wasn't). The only person who would take me in was my boyfriend. After a week my dad told me I could come back, but I told him calmly that I was tired of being treated with subtle disrespect. Me being honest with him launched an argument that caused my sisters and relatives not to talk to me. Because I had to move out and start paying rent, I couldn't go to school like I wanted to. Now I'm 22 and engaged. It's awkward going to family functions now. My dad is paying for my younger stepsisters tuition and bugs me for not going to school yet, as I work full time. He doesnt seem proud of my accomplishments. He also chastises me for having different political and religious views. My fiancé and my dad get along, but when my dad is around his suburban, well-to-do friends, he acts a little condescending towards him. He questions us when we bring my fiancés son around family functions. I can tell he loves me, but it is a very timid situation and everyone sees it. My fiancé has been there through all of it. He thinks my dad is snobby and disrespectful, despite how nice he acts. He doesn't even think my dad should walk me down the aisle. |
| Question: Why do they do this? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 11:01 AM PDT My brother and sister in law never tells us happy birthday or hAppy anniversary or posts out picture on family trips , might as well be like we weren't there . We tell them happy bday and anni and post their picture , why don't they return the favor and they expect us to come to their parties but alwyS have some excuse not to come to ours so I stopped inviting . |
| Question: How to write about "Your world, and how that's shaped your dreams and aspirations"? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 10:59 AM PDT Nobody knows how I really feel at home. I don't like to talk about it, although I wish I didMy parents seem to always be against me when it comes to my 14 y/o sister who has already drank, done drugs, goes into my room to steal my beauty products that I paid for with my own money, like seriously, how fake is she? I know she does that bc she's not allowed to wear makeup yet, but she wears it anyway, but it's not like my mom cares, and SO MANY times I've told my parents to do something about it and it ALWAYS backfires, I should "share" with her, be nicer, and it ends up with me feeling defeated, useless. no matter how hard I try, nothing will ever change. I must sound petty, but how would you feel if EVERYDAY your brother annoys you by triggering every pet peeve you have, calls you stupid and tells you to leave already, go away to college, if your sister steals the only thing you have to vent, your journal, and shares it with a ll your cousins and friends, if she always steals from you, steals anything, and calls you "cellulite girl" or "fat", if you try desperately to tell your parents and it seems like they don't care and they say they believe you, but you know they probably don't. I'm the outsider, academically and emotionally. Sometimes I get so sad that the only thing that will pull me out is the chance I have at college. I know now that I have to move away for college. I don't even know if I should write this side of my life or if I should just lie for my college essay |
| Question: Any ideas on how to deal with control freak mother? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT No, really. She casually admitted reading my diary to my English teacher (in front of me, to boot). She keeps tabs on where dad spends his time and with whom, and she treats him like a child though he's 60 years old. She flat out called him her eldest child more than a few times, despite him being 6 years older. She speaks in derogatory terms about my siblings, tries to make sure my relationship with the is strained (they are of age≤ft home) and she gave details of my sister's failed relationships to acquaintances. She has no friends. The only social thing she does is spend fourteen hours a day non-stop on Facebook. She then goes on to rage about the house not being clean like we're supposed to clean for her. We're property. She casually assured everyone that my brother will help her with the business she plans to start, without bothering to as him what he wants. I had a state-given allowance of the equiv. of about 5$ (it's doubled now), and she took it because I have to "contribute to the family budget". Sure, she gives me money every day, but they are just enough to buy food at school. To save money, I'm pretty much supposed to starve, while 2000$ go in the Bermuda Triangle every month no matter how you add them (believe me, I tried). And then, I am accused of being the spendthrift. I could go on forever, but you get the drill. Any advice? |
| Question: My mom is masturbating in front of me? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT Ok so this is awkward but my mom is a very weird person. No I'm not insulting my mom But she is.I love her and stuffs but I think that this is overboard. My mom sleeps in my room sometimes,and whenever she does,she'll masturbate infront of me under the covers. She'll moan very loudy at night. And its ******* disturbing. The worst is she's talking to my grandma on the phone.this sounds really weird but its true.its like they are having lesbian sex through the phone.its not her mother or my dad's mother but its like a close cousin grandmother.i was pretty pissed of last night and there she is,under the covers calling and masturbating. I was so disturbed until I shouted to her to shut the hell up and slept on the couch. The hell must i do. She won't stop even if I told her too. She won't go in her room to do it.she'll just keep doing it in front of me. |
| Question: Sighs my sister and law wants to have sex with a 13 year old boy? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 10:37 AM PDT My sister in law has been acting weird to my 13 year old son what are some signs she would give him that could mean sex? |
| Question: My mom likes to throw her religion in my face? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 10:27 AM PDT Okat so I'm 15 going on 16 I am agnostic at the moment my mother is Christian and likes to wave it around my face and tell me I am one too but I'm not I do not share her views I do not share any of those views. Shes fine with me being a baby bat (goth) but she likes to try and get me to wear crosses and criticise my music taste which is mostly rock, metal, alternative and such and occasionally dubstep and nightcore when she listens to rap crap (no hate but I do not enjoy that music) and pop and all that ****. I'm looking at ways to get her to stop because I am so close to running away and saying **** this because I honestly cannoy stand being in the same house as her. |
| Question: Dad thinks i spend to much time online? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 10:09 AM PDT I am 17 and i am on summer vacation. I have applied for a job and am waiting for a call. I spend most of the day on the computer because that is what i like to do. I go on youtube, netflix and look at some colleges. My dad is always telling me to go outside and hang out with people. He does not understand that me and my friends text all of the time. idk what to do he is really starting to get annoying. Even my mom thinks that he is annoying when he is trying to get me off the computer. I do get exercise i mow the lawn and go on the treadmill for about 2 miles every day and i hate sports. He is not telling me to get exercise because he knows i get some he just for whatever reason wants me to get off the computer |
| Question: Bad Birthday....need some help on making it better....? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 10:06 AM PDT I m 13 years old and currently today is my birthday. I honestly wanted it to just be a regular day...but....some things got in the way. Currently I m in the middle-eastern area visiting my aunts with my family. Aunt A is the more violent aunt, the one that s always over-exaggerating and blames my mom. Aunt B is the Aunt that blames everyone else, but herself. Aunt A states "if you have legs than leave this house" Speaking back at her, I say "If you have a mouth than you should shut it" Bad move, she took a unripe banana and chucked it at my head, lucky me I got a concussion... But what pisses me off is that Aunt B comes up to me and states that it was all my fault... I never laid a hand on my aunts, but yet they re always yelling at me. Yet, aunt A always yells and talks to herself in an abnormal way. I even have evidence of it video taped....it s not normal....she s not normal. So now in order to cheer me up, my mom says that we should go out and relax (since it was my birthday). Aunt A decided to hide the keys to the car.... And to top it off Aunt A starts to call me things like a "cow" "slut" "whore" And when Aunt B comes in, guess who s fault is it? Well ******* me So here I m sitting, it s 8 pm. My uncle said he was gonna come over after hearing my mom s complaints. Oh god this feels like an over-rated soap opera. |
| Question: How to get out of my parent's bubble (I'm 25 yrs old) without disobeying them? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:53 AM PDT im 25 and i live with my parents - no other house, can't afford.. thing is they still control my life as if I'm 13 years old. do this do that - i wanna get out of this bubble but i don't wanna disobey them. |
| Question: Girls honestly would you? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:45 AM PDT I'm 20 and work at the mall. Two girls come often a blonde and a brunette. They both flirt with me. I added both on instagram and we been friends. The one i like is the blonde. I already asked her out and she's already catted on me twice by saying she's busy. The thing is she sends me kissing emojis and in love emojis but is scared to date. Also when i see her she's quite and rarely talks but over text she flirts. Just recently i found out she lied about her age. She told me she was 18 but in reality she's 16!. Do you think this is why she was acting weird? She could be scared etc. I got a feeling i might not be cute enough |
| Question: I hate myself for feeling this way!? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:41 AM PDT I have a terminally sick father and he's unemployed. My mom works day and night to make up for him not working, and I rarely get to see her, or just talk with her about things. As a result, she's very emotional and snaps very easily. When she cries or yells, it just breaks my heart. I know that if my dad wasn't ill, we wouldn't be in this situation. Here's where the sickening part comes in. I'm starting to resent my father for being sick, even though I know that it's not his fault. I love him, but I feel like he's starting to become like baggage to our family, not a fully functioning family member. My parents had relationship problems before he was diagnosed, I'm going into high school this year, and we're all moving to the next town over. Theres a lot going on in our family right now and I was just wondering if it was normal to feel the way I do. I hate myself so much for it- I feel like there's something terribly wrong with me. What do I do?! |
| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:38 AM PDT I m a person who would rather spend the weekend watching tv with their parents than with friends. I don t even like to sleep over for long. Because of this and my complete awkwardness around people I don t know if I ll be able to handle living in a dorm. I lack responsibility and I fear that without my parents guidance I won t get anything done. I was given the option to either live in the dorm or stay at home and just take the bus to school since it s only 45 minutes away. Even though it s not that far it still scares me. I want to try living in the dorms but whenever I try thinking about it my mind changes the subject and my heart races. What should I do? |
| Question: My mom is throwing me a surprise party that i don't want? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:19 AM PDT my sister told me my mom is throwing a surprise party in two days. i'm an introvert and freaking out about it now. she invited tons of people, and i don't have any close friends. all i wanted to do for my birthday was spend it with my family. what should i do?? |
| Question: How do I quit my nanny job? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:19 AM PDT I've been a nanny to this family for over 3 years. It had been a rough time for me to say the least. I have been extremely taken advantage of. When the mom says I'm off at a certain time, she doesn't get home or come out of her office for at least 15-20 past the time. When her and her husband go out for a date night, they are constantly at least 30 mins late with no phone call or text. The mom has horrible OCD and is constantly making up rules that are extreme (no farm as it's too dirty, no zoo as it's too dirty, no play dates, no texting, no tv, no breaks, etc). I get the no texting thing, no one should really text at work but she expects me to do a million chores(vacuum, dishes, laundry, sheets, etc) and while her kids are at my side. TV (in my opinion) is a great way to occupy kids for 30-60 mins a day so an adult can get things done. I also have a 6 year old son who isn't allowed to come with me. He is in school and before/after school care while I work. The mom doesn't even remember his name (I've worked here almost 4yrs). I barely see him because I'm so over worked. Anyways, I found another nanny job in a whim and applied. The family loves me. They are so laid back. They want me to bring my son. But they want me to start in a week and a half.. I have a contract with my current family but we never renewed. It says I must give 4 weeks notice or I will not be paid? Can she do this? If the contract was never renewed? Please help! I really want this new job for my son! |
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| Question: My mum called me a cow? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 09:08 AM PDT I was watching tv and my brother called me a cow for looking at him. Then I responded with"I'm not a cow u...." but then I got interrupted by my mum who responded to my dad with "did u just hear tha, she said she wasn't a cow,! " and they alstarted fake laughing. What should I do? |
| Question: Why are my parents putting me in the middle? I don't know what to do...? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 08:56 AM PDT There's some legal problem (the gov keeps sending my dad something about the state suing him for child support (?) and there's something about welfare w my mother.. I don't know the details but either way they're both saying they aren't responsible for it, and it still has to do w me) anyway so here's the thing I've I have two busses I go to my dad's whenever i want and i go to my mom's whenever i want (they're divorced) and they've never had a problem w this. Now my dada wanting me to tell people i stay w him, and my mom wants me to say I've stayed w her . I feel like i live w both of them so that's what I said. My mom isn't happy with this and i know she's mad at me (she tends to hold grudges too) and i know my dad isn't going to be happy with me either, although i think this works more in his favor. I think my mom can get in trouble for this or something. Again, i don't know exactly what's going on. I just don't know what to do... |
| Question: Hello guys. I need your advice for my grandma.? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 08:51 AM PDT My grandmother is 60 years old. She used to work as a waiter 20 years. But because she got old she can't do that work. Now she is taking care of older people 80+. She speaks : Greek, Macedonian, Serbian and a little bit of English. She was babysitter for kids and taking care for older people more than 15 years so she has experience. Now what she request is : 1. Finding a job as a babysitter around Europe, North America ( USA and Canada ) and Australia. also i haven't mentioned that she 's worked in Greece on traect and taking care for old more than 5 years in Greece. 2. She wants to marry to a person who is 80+ older that does not have kids or have ( more prefered not to have but it's ok if he/she has ) And by merrying him/her she wants to take care of him till his/her death. Now my grandmother lives in Macedonia and is taking care for a man and a woman 80+ older. What i request from you guys is to give me advice where i can post my grandmother's offer ( best free sites for jobs around Europe, North Ame. and Australia. thank you very much :) |
| Question: I cant do this anymore? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 08:24 AM PDT My cousin has had to be taken in by my single mom because her parents were idiots... But she's not that much better. This is going to sound terrible. I have alot of mental health problems, along with anxiouty that I take meds for. We now have to share a room and she drives me crazy! I've never hated someone so much. My mom took her in, and I let her move into my room and all she does is treat us like dirt. The other day, she hit her 3 year old brother who has autism! Who the he'll does that? She is so snotty and stuck up and rude. She is so mean. I want to run away because of her |
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| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 08:15 AM PDT I see this a lot around here, so I assume it's normal. But then I see these grandparents feed their grand kids and go without, because they can't afford their own. I've asked one why don't they let their (adult) kid(s) know, and they refuse. Someone said that it's this generation. I was wondering if they're right. . . ? My husband and I used to keep our nieces every weekend, because we couldn't have our own. But the parents were always very grateful. I'm just wondering if that's stopped, because what I see these days are parents getting mad at their parents for saying or doing something differently than how they're raising their kids. It kind of upsets me, because these grandparents are giving up their free time to help raise those c kids, and it helps to have a community traipsing your kids, rather than only your own rules. |
| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 08:09 AM PDT day, before i used to blame myself, of everything that happened, i wanted to take care of things and fix things and make everything and everyone around me alright. I have this fire inside me, burning hate towards the one who should have been the person i love the most, which iis my mother. I want to scream and break things, i want to run and never look back... my heart is weak and its hurting. It was different when i was a child. She used to be loving and caring, she used to care when her kid got sick or when hwas crying or when her kid was in need of anything... nowdays she doesnt give a ****, all she cares about is herself and money. Its killing me to fight her everyday, i spend my life in my room crying, mostly from guilt about the things i have said to her. But she DOES'NT CARE AT ALL. She tells me to move, to die. She scolds me in the worst way possible, you know what hurts the most? That i still love her. She made me do things I now regret, i lost my dad, friends and family because of her. I ended up alone, for so long i was depressed, i even took medication. I spent 2 years depressed in my room staring at the wall, each time i try to stand up she shuts me down and makes me fall. Im tired, i really dont know what to do anymore. I can't wait for the day that i dont have to see her anymore, the day that i dont have to be shut down by her anymore, the day ii can do whatever i want without wishing to die every second of the day. what can i do?help me plz :( |
| Question: How can I convince my mom to wrestle me? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 07:57 AM PDT I really like wrestling for fun, when it doesn't count, so I always like wrestling my mom. She always wins. I am 5'1" 75 lbs and she is 5'81/2" 155lbs. Her legs and arms are strong, especially her thighs. They are absolutely huge, and can squat maybe 400lbs. She can also bench me with one hand. She is 45 and i am 14 btw. She usually puts on a sports bra and short shorts and I wear basketball shorts and usually no shirt. She can pin me to the ground super easily, or put me in a headscissor and there's no possible way I can escape. Also a few times she has cradeled me in her hands llike a baby and throw me into the bed or ground. But she go doesn't wrestle me all the time, how can I convince her? |
| Question: What can you do if your sister in law is rude to you for no reason? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 07:45 AM PDT It's been like this since she and my brother were dating. I am 24, they're both 29. I have always been friendly to her, I gave them a very generous wedding gift, I get along well with my brother, there should be no issues. But for some odd reason she's very dismissive with me whenever we see them. She'll be very brief with me, and very animated with others. Take for example a cookout they had at their new house this weekend. I brought them a gift for their house, and she just took it and said thanks, then walked away. Then when my two cousins arrived (same age as me) she greeted each of them with a big hug and put on the nice act for them both. It's like this at every party, and I usually just try to ignore it. But I can't pinpoint why this is? Not that social media matters in the real world, but it's the same on there too. She's always commenting on other family member's posts and photos, but never mine. Just kind of odd she's so blatantly rude to me when I've done nothing but be kind to her? |
| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 07:25 AM PDT she even said "the kids really made a mess on things" |
| Question: I am always the "middle man" between my husband and his mother? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 07:17 AM PDT My husband, we joke that he was raised by wolves. But it's not very funny :( his mother was/is an alcoholic. She would neglect the children, was overly sexual in front of them (with their father AND other men and women), she attempted suicide in front of them on numerous occasions (including my husband's 9th birthday). When his parents divorced when he was 12, she was constantly moving residence to be with different men and expecting the kids to treat these men with respect...while letting them beat her to a pulp in front of them. He recently decided he just doesn't want to have anything to do with her. I have acted like a bridge between the 2 of them for years, mostly because (as bad as she is at it..) she has 2 grandsons. Well he hasn't explicitly stated he wants nothing to do with her, just stopped taking her calls. Now I have followed suit...but why do I feel guilty?? She's a flake, total alcoholic, I don't reeeally want my boys around her..but I can't help but feeling there was a better way to handle this? |
| Question: Do I have to live with my dad? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 07:04 AM PDT So Im 17. I live with my mom because my parents are divorced. There are a lot of problems at home, not physically- we just argue a lot. She wants to pretty much send me to live with my dad (which is pretty much the same as kicking me out). My older sister lives in the state that I do. Can I legally live with my sister? Or can my mom call the police or something and force me to go to my dad? |
| Question: What are some imaginary games can my 7yr old daughter can play by herself? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 06:57 AM PDT Her siblings have all grown up and married. So she has no one to play with when I am too busy to play with her. I am a single parent. Her dad doesn't live close to where we are living.. |
| Question: I'm 16 & never get privacy or freedom? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 06:44 AM PDT I get good grades at the new school I'm at, I'm never in any trouble and I never gave her a reason to not trust me . But she never lets me go out, I don't go out every weekend but my summer is almost over and I'm not going anywhere. And my privacy ! My mother took my door knob off last year because I slammed my door .. Ever since then it hasn't been fixed and all she does is bust in my room and never knock and its getting annoying and uncomfortable . her and everyone else . what can I do ?? |
| Question: How Do I Stop My Parents from Treating Me Like a Little Kid? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 05:51 AM PDT I'm 15 year old male teen. However, my parents still treat me like a little kid and it really annoys me. On Christmas, they still put presents under our home fit and claim that Santa Claus did it (I've never believed that he existed). They keep telling me that only bad students masturbate, who have nothing else to do. All of these things really annoy me and I try to ignore my parents, but they still do it. I even have a surprise for them on the new Christmas by not checking "Santa Claus'" presents, so they might understand that I don't believe in their fairy tales. So how can I stop them from treating me like a little kid? |
| Question: What should i do about my mother? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 04:33 AM PDT I know that mothers and daughters are meant to be like best friends, but at my house the things are different!! My mom always backs up my brothers no matter what they do, even when they shout or yell at her she still says nothing to them.. Because of her spoiling them they are becoming very rude to everyone i have talked to her about this many time but she always ends up shouting at me... Yesterday my brothers broke my stuff -just like they always do- so i yelled at them and when she heard she started shouting at me... I know every mother loves all her children but mine don't. Oh and don't think that my brothers are so young that she cares so much i have one who is 18 and one who is 10 and i'm 17... Help plz |
| Question: My relatives use my home as a hotel when I'm on vacation? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 04:24 AM PDT I'm a student in a very nice city for the past 2 years and when i go to my hometown for vacation a relative of mine uses my house for his own vacation. The same thing happened the previous year and they dont even ask me, they take it for granted and make plans with each other about living in my house without asking me. The particular part of the family never cares about me during the rest of the year, not even on my birthday yet they use my home for their personal comfort. I wouldnt mind so much helping them if it was a serious matter and they just needed a place for a couple of days but they use it as their own and it pisses me off. But they say its none of my business because my mother covers me financially for my studies and her relatives can live in my house anytime and for as long as they want. How am I supposed to cope with this? |
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| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 04:04 AM PDT guys my life is miserable ,i just turned 18 and my mom still treats me like a little kid i cant even go out not even to church bc shes crazy and idk what to do im trying to live a normal life and hangout with friends but she wont let me i hate it |
| Question: Regalo di compleanno? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 02:38 AM PDT Buongiorno a tutti. Sono una ragazza di 17 anni. Tra pochi giorni mia zia festeggerà il suo compleanno e mio fratello più grande ha dato l'incarico a me di fare un regalo anche da parte sua perché è andato in vacanza e non ha né tempo né voglia di cercarne uno.Mi ha detto che non vuole spendere più di 20 euro e che dopo mi restituirà i soldi. Il problema è che io il mio l'ho fatto (chiaramente ho speso meno perché sono più piccola e non lavoro come lui).Mi potreste dare delle idee per favore? Su mia zia posso dirvi che è un'impiegata amministrativa, non si trucca pesantemente, non viaggia moltissimo e non ha hobby particolari a parte sopportare mio zio e mia cugina. Che esigenze ha una donna sulla cinquantina d'anni? Che regalo compro? Io pensavo a un'agenda personale e una penna. Secondo voi è una brutta idea? Grazie a chi risponderà cortesemente. |
| Question: Am I living a normal life? Help... I'm confused.? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 02:18 AM PDT I'm sorry if it's long. Please read and understand my life. For me, I thought everything was going well until one day My school had this program that explains abuse. It says that being called names is emotional. Being hit is physical abuse. I get hit by a belt, wooden stick, metal rod, burning hot spatula and I get slapped. I even get burned when my mom or dad sometimes throws boiling hot water at me. I don't cry when they do this to me. I get called a loser, dumb, ****, *****, slut, ************, useless, worthless, unwanted child, and the worst of the worst. I also get told to kill myself so the world becomes a better place. But I am a good daughter. I think. I can cook anything like wedding cakes, croissants, macarons, consommé, and many other more perfectly. I do every housework, even the hardest ones. I also have 2 babysitting jobs. Everyday, I do the laundry, mow the lawn, fix our electrical and plumbing problems, I cook for my small brother who suffers as much beatings as I do, I clean the whole house, I mop the whole house, dust the basement and train on anything. I feel like everything my family has done to me is abuse but I don't want to lose them. I don't want my brother to face the same fate as I do. I don't want to have another family though. Even if I constantly lie in school because of all the bruises my parents give me, I still love them. What should I do? What did I miss? I'm sorry if I wasted your time. Please do help. What am I supposed to do? I don't want my brother to be abused. I don't want to be abused, don't want to get punch in the face when I try to talk to them peacefully and I don't want to kill myself anymore. But I also don't want to leave my family, don't want another family, and I don't want my brother to hate my parents. I'm completely helpless. Please help me by answering all my confusion somehow. Thank you for your time. |
| Question: My grandma keeps thinking about the bad things that make her sad? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 02:09 AM PDT Ever since I was just a child, every time I visited my grandma she would tell me about the story of her life (the bad parts always). Some times she even stopped at neighbours to say hello and it evolved into a tearful story telling. I can't even recall how many times I've heard about the same and the same things over and over again, I really want her to be happy and I stand for her but I can't just go through this every time I visit her, it's frustrating even more because I've been facing it as far as I can remember myself. I try to change her mind by telling her that things aren't as bad as she thinks, she tends to dramatize everything and never sees the good side. I just don't know how to cope with this anymore. I'm 20 years old and I've always been in the middle of the entire family to hear their complaints about each other, the past that happened when I wasn't even born, and being expected to take sides. I think I may lose my mind someday. |
| Question: I have a lot of random incest thoughts towards my little brother? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 02:02 AM PDT i sometimes want to act on them but I do t at the same time . Some times I want to touch his penis or sometimes I take what he says in a sexual way and I was wondering if that was normal or not or how I can stop it because I'm 15 and it kills me that I feel this way . I do not like my brother sexually but yet I still get these urges to touch . Someone please Tell me how to stop this or if it's a disease or something when I was younger I put it in my mouth when he was first born and I use to play with it but I didn't know what I was doing |
| Question: Should I cut ties with my family? Posted: 24 Aug 2015 01:53 AM PDT I am 27 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. My family has never met him properly but they are all prejudiced against him because he is an atheist and think that he means me harm, even though he has never laid a finger on me. I have refused to break up with him just because of their unjustified prejudices. My dad passed away last month. My family (my two sisters, mom and brother) comfort each other and blame me for his death because I made him so unhappy by choosing my boyfriend. Last week, I drove my mother three hundred miles to meet my siblings. I didn't want to stay because of all the friction. When I wanted to leave, my brother started hitting on my head with my handbag; I ran outside to drive off and he dragged me into the house and came at me with a hammer. My mom and elder sister intervened, but the younger one (she despises me) just stood by and did nothing. I suffered a mild concussion. I stayed overnight for fear of my life and left as soon as I could next morning. Two questions: 1 My younger sister is doing a PhD and I had agreed to fund her. She thinks it is my duty to fund her because "my money is not my money - I owe it to my parents because they brought me up". I am heartbroken by how she didn't even move while I was being attacked. Should I still fund her? 2 Should I cut ties with all of with them? This is a very difficult time for all of us. However, I cannot condone what my brother did to me and how my mom said I deserved it. |
| Posted: 24 Aug 2015 01:30 AM PDT My name is Yohanes and I live in Indonesia.... Most of my friends since childhood is very harsh to me. They always tried to relating me with John name (Yohanes in English translation is called John), one of the twelve Jesus disciple. They were always tried to make me good like John in a bible... It's so sick, I have to be pretend like some old wise men all the time... I'm not a good guy, and basically when they were trying to make me like him, I ended up become more hateful towards my own name... It's like a curse or jinx that I can't removed forever... Even now, at my age who is already 21 years old, some people is still comparing me with John name... It's so heavy... So hard to live a normal life under that name... I want to change it but I'm afraid my mom and my father will hate me.. (you know how hard to be born in Asia, some parents are a pushover and strict with their tradition) |
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