im a white guy living in los angeles and based on my personal experience asian women are extremely hard for me to find a date with. i had easier success with women from other races, but all the asian women i approached came off as standoffish and disinterested. and no, i dont have a fetish for asian women, i find all races attractive

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Just wanna see who likes what and why

I have no confidence in my looks but how do I get some cofnindece???

We're getting results on Tuesday, so I'll try and talk to her on the day or at least look to see how she feels about them. Then if she's happy I'll send her a message asking her how she did. When we were at school we didn't talk that much cause we had different friendship groups but we did flirt once or twice and she was just confident, beautiful and intelligent. I just wanna talk to her and see what happens. Good way to do it? Not weird at all is it?

There is this girl at work that I am interested in but I never let her know verbally (and I don't plan to tell her verbally right away). I think I have shown interest over the past year. Recently she had me examine her back (by picking up her shirt up to her boobs/bra borderline) for some rash she had. I have a feeling she obviously trusts me for allowing me to do that (and, no, I wasn't going to do anything stupid). I know I was nervous inside but I know I didn't show it when looking/feeling her back. Do you think grabbing her hand and asking her out would make it easier for me? What is eating me up inside is the nervousness. You thoughts, please? ... And someone we both know told me she was single. And, I might also add that we have hung out once alone at a concert and another time in a group. ****** Thanks for your help! -Josh

Read carefully. I'm 34 never had a girlfriend in my entire life hahaha. Athletic and been so my entire life. I'm just very shy around the "girls I like". For awhile, I saw this girl at my gym. I didn't stare at her like some creep. Just noticed her innocently. She was training with her friend who was pretty too but I had my eye on her. Then one day, she came up to ask me something about if some water bottle was hers or mine. Now it was obvious it was hers and she was giggling. . She left it by the machine a machine away from where I was. Not too close. She caught me off guard as she was the most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on. Reminds me why I love redheads most. She gotta be early 20's too. Im still into prime women. all I did was shake my head no and went back to my thing. She is physically perfect. The next day, she was walking past me as I was heading into the building. I got that feeling I was being looked at and in the very corner of my eye I could tell she look irritated. Why? Dudes her age talk to her do why should I? Recently, i went to walk past to a curl station and she must have seen me in the mirror walking by and looked over her should clearly in my direction during her rest set. I saw in the corner of my eye. My childhood was crap and made my adulthood underdeveloped. It's been over a year and a half and she still glances at me. Shouldn't she have a boyfriend by now?!?!?! I'm confused.

it was in May and we were really drunk and I regret it so much and would take it back if I could. my boyfriend thought I still was a virgin and waiting like I was in the beginning of our relationship. well all of us and our friends were hanging out tonight and I got into an argument with my boyfriend's best friend as I do a lot and it got heated like it never has before and he was saying some mean stuff and my boyfriend defended me and he all of a sudden goes, "Well at least I didn't have sex with my boyfriend's best friend." I couldn't believe he said that and my boyfriend said, "What?" and looked at me. I said, "I don't know what he's talking about." And he goes, "Oh, you want me to show him the pictures...or our texts? Your choice." I said, "Stop." and was hysterical crying. At this point my boyfriend was freaking out pacing back and forth. I tried to hug him and saying how sorry I was and he told me not to touch him and then called me a slut. He stormed off to his car and I followed him and said, "We were so drunk and it was so stupid it meant absolutely nothing I'm so sorry." He turned around and said, "So you made me wait for 6 months for nothing? All this time when you secretly screwed my best friend? I've loved you and been so patient. I've only treated you with respect and this is what I get? You sleep with my best friend?" and left.he won't answer my texts or calls. I know what I did is really bad but there has to be something I can do.i love him and he hates me

Like by limb i mean is it natural like we have eyebrows and we make gestures, is it that or is it just to notifiy humans as well?

Do a lot of percentage of kids in highschool lose their virginity. I am almost 22 I never had sex yet. I am afraid I never will.

So it was my first day of school and I was in a sorta rush to my class and there was this guy, I'm pretty sure he was in one of my classes but I didn't know his name shouts at me "Don't you have a twin sister?" which I do but she wasn't there at the time. I said yea and he asked my name and I said it and so just to keep it casual I said, "What's your name, again?" and he said his, then he randomly asks if I have a boyfriend, to which I nervously just said no like an idiot. I should have said yes, but I didn't. I do, however have a crush I am interested in, but forgot to mention it. After I said no he started walking closer to me smiling asking "Can I text you?" And I had my phone in my hand at the time so I didn't want to come up with any lame excuse. I didn't want to say no but I was panicking almost, so I said "I really have to get to class" or something like that. Thank goodness his friend walked by asking him how he's been and I said "I really have to go" and I speedwalked all the way to class and his friend said 'oh sorry' as if he knew he was trying to start something, and this guy just says "ok cya around" or something. I avoided that entire half of campus since trying to avoid him, and thankfully didn't see him. But what do I say if he approaches me again without sounding fake or rude. I really do like someone else but I don't want that to sound like an excuse. What are examples of things he would say to me and things I could say in reply to avoid him getting my #?

I have a friend who has a girlfriend. I have a boyfriend. But sometimes I cant tell if he is interested or not. We smoked together once, and he wants to take acid together. Just the two of us. I'm not opposed to doing this as friends Im just curious as to what the chances are that he just wants to be friends. childish question. Just wanting to know what responses I get!

Lately I've just been feeling really bad about myself... Sorry for the awkward picture, and I hate to fish for compliments, but I just feel like I really need a boost right now. Thank you :) I'm thirteen, by the way. I know I'm still growing, but...

There's a girl i don't know her name but she talks well has pretty hair thats her real hair which is rare atmy ghetto school idk how to approach her and start a conversation since its only 1 class and shes across the classroom

Hi, so in a nutshell, this guy and I are both going to high school juniors, and we've liked each other since 9th grade. The thing is I always knew I shouldn't have liked him. After convincing myself we weren't going to work out for a multitude of VALID reasons, I stopped liking him towards the beginning of 10th grade. He, however, is still in the puppy love stage, and I find it both incredibly endearing/flattering and heartbreaking. I figured if I just gave him the cold shoulder he'd stop, but he only mopes about it for a week before I feel guilty and say hi to him. Before I arrived, he went thru a slew of heartbreaks and got very attached to his now-exes. I think he misinterprets every friendly (& strictly platonic) gesture I give to him afterwards. While I should be blunt about it at this point, the thing is I can count the number of conversations we've had on both hands, and we were both super shy in front of each other although he's very extraverted. We never really had a chance to properly get to know each other. I wouldn't feel comfortable reaching out to him and say something essentially along the lines of, "Hey, we don't talk, but I know you like me. I used to like you back but not anymore." I don't know what I should do.

Just turned 38 years old and still a virgin. I always wanted to have sex with someone that I actually love and eventually end up marrying. Should I just have sex to get it over with? I am fine being a virgin, but I am sure some woman may have a issue with it. Let me know what you think? Thanks.

There's this cute guy in my Spanish class and I keep catching him look at me at I really wanna talk to him after class but I don't know what to say or even how to start talking to him

Im starting to like my female best friend more than a best friend. We have been close friends for 10 years, each year we have grown closer. We have never dated or hook up. We have always meet up for dinner. We always have talked and know whats going on in one another lives. She has invited me to her family gathering and her family adores me, and so as my family like her as well. She was supposed to move to Memphis but she postponed it. There was a time when we both were single on Valentines day she said Ill be your valentine. There was a time when I needed a woman to pretend to be my gf she said she would be honored to. She is moving up town she asked me to help her dad move her big stuff. She posted pics of our drinks on social network and she posted my text i sent her which she said it was the best. She used the term if you and I dated, i told her if i date you, Im dating you for me, she smiled. Is she interested in me more than friends?

I have a bad habit of not replying at all if a girl texts me something like "haha" or any other short text. I usually see it as boring and if shrug it off by not texting them back. Am I wrong for doing this? Short texts annoy me so much!

A while back I stated how my crush quit talking to me at school and I had moved so I thought I was never going to see her or talk to her..... The greatest thing happened, she added me :D so I'm guessing she never threw the paper where I had wrote down my email (this was 3 months back.) It was a new Facebook she posted how she just graduated she only has her family as friends, then me.. she's quiet and anti social but was really open to me I guess because I came at her in a nice way and gained her trust. Now that she added me I don't know if I should message her or have her message me, since after all, she made it clear she was avoiding me.. maybe focusing on school? I also don't want to look like an idiot and let her think it was okay it hurt me but the bright side is she still wants me in her life. . Please help thank you!

In my perspective it makes me feel like if he's watching porn he'll want sex even more when I'm not around. He said would you rather cheat on you? And he says he watches it when I'm work . I saw on his history he had asain porn and big **** I'm neither of those. I don't get it.

Her parents only think were friends and thats it. A part of me wants to tell them, but it would be better if they heard it from their daughter and not me. I love her so much and I want to be apart of her life more. Help please.

I am only 14 years old but I am actually pretty decent at mixing and think that I can try to make some money. The problem is I can't mix at clubs since I am not of age and I am a bit shy, any thoughts on what I can do to get my first job?

PT boas muito resumidamente conheci uma rapariga a 11 de janeiro de 2014, falamos por mensagem e chamada durante 9 meses parando 1 mes ou outro pelo meio e tendo outras pessoas embora nos tratassemos como namorados e nao conseguissemos parar de falar um unico dia. em setembro mudei de escola para perto dela assim que nos vimos ainda nao houve um dia em que nao a beija se sempre que estamos juntos, temos uma relação de 10 meses e ela traiu me com o amor da vida dela no 3o mes mas eu pedoei pois gostava mesmo dela e apartir dai ela nunca mais quis saber dele porque viu o que podia ter perdido.passado isto fui no fim do mes de julho(2015) passar 3 dias fora traí a como que para me vingar embora nunca tenha feito por isso e ate ja o tivesse evitado antes, mas pronto.nao lhe contei e num desses dias faziamos 10 meses mas como nao lhe liguei à meia noite (e ela estava ate a vomitar e com dores de barriga etc) ela ficou muito ****** . quando vim quase acabamos ela saiu de minha casa a chorar e eu ja nem ligava e ela contou me que tinha conhecido um rapaz no bar da praia e tinha ficado proximos sem acontecer nada.acabamos por nao acabar e voltamos a ficar bem e ela nao liga ao rapaz mas quando lhe disse que ia de viagem 7 dias para o sitio onde esta sempre a minha crush de verao tal como o ano passado ela mandou lhe mensagem a dizer que eu ia embora 7 dias.turns out, nao fui com medo que ela me traisse no entanto ela jurou pela sua vida que nao o faria mas pediu me muito mesmo para*

i was dating a girl couple week ago , we did some dinner and alot of talk . i love that feeling she give me , i am in love with her . so one day i dated her out well planned , i brought a bouquet and asked her to be my girlfriend , she say yes. after a week later , she told me she had something important to tell me , then when we met she said she wanted us to be friends and i havet touch her heart yet. i was disappoint , but i respect her choice and i went to bar and have some beer. she asked me where am i, i told her i was at bar with friends , i can tell her lied but she is one i never wanted to tell lied. after that we never talk again like a months , i text her , she did't reply . before we been together i promise her to bring her to a college couple run , she told me she really wanted to go , but that time the college was't really announcing it ,today i went to they web page and it can registered now. but should i keep my promise ? i called and text her she didt reply , should i just send her a link to the website?

When my boyfriend was over I lighy was dragging my nails across his back and it seemed like he got extremely turned on by it. Do guys actually like this ?

Hey guys! So I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now and I'm 21 and he is 20 the past year or so has been pretty rough on and off. Whenever he gets angry he just breaks up with me and tells me to leave and go back to my parents house which is pretty far (we live together) and he just always calls me names like I'm a b***h or something and it really hurts to hear these things from him. He says I always complain but it's because I'd like for him to spend time with me. He's always on his video games or watching videos on his phone. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I break down crying all the time now but i just love him and I've tried leaving I can't. I try talking to him and he just doesn't communicate. I don't know how a "normal" relationship is suppose to be. I'm just not happy and I wish it was easy to leave but he just always says such hurtful things to me now. What do I do? How are relationships suppose to be? Sorry this is so long

im 14 and girl i want to shave my legs but whats the right age?

So I liked this girl but she had a boyfriend. They broke up a month ago and they've only dated for around 3 months. So is it fine if I ask her out or should I wait another month or two. Btw we're in high school.

He has been sleeping with another woman for nine months.

If yes, why. If no, why do you care? If indifferent, what are your reasons for either way?

I'm only 5'4 and im doing growing (im 24). I have alot of trouble attracting girls. I mean I do get the occasional girl liking me but its never that pretty, fun, cool girl that i'm hopelessly falling for. Its always someone i'm not interested in. I also notice that tall guys always seem to get the beautiful girl while short guys miss out and end up with less attractive girls. This really gets me down. Do I still have a chance at winning over my dream girl whose very pretty, kind hearted and fun to be around or will I have to just settle for a girl who will accept me while tall guys get the girl they love?

Ok so me and my girlfriend are both 18 and we lover each other. Any who we are both virgins and we was about to have sex then we got caught. The next day she says that she didnt want to do anything but she did just to make me happy and the fact that I got her in the mood. and that she finds it hard to say no to me at times so she wants to break up so she can get sometime apart from us. I dont really want to go in too much details but everytime when I go to her house we get freaky and she says that I'm the reason for it and she cant stop me from doing other things than kissing because its hard to say no to me she only do it to make me happy. I really love her and I dont want to break up what should I say to her to change her mind?

I think she wanted me to make a move and got offended when I didn't . . . she is pretty cute but also a little bit flippant at times . . . it was at the end of a date where the goodbye could have been a hug, or maybe a kiss, and I think she was peeved she didn't get the kiss, or I didn't read her signals to go for it . . . but the ghosting? That seems a bit harsh. All the dates were fun and going well up until the non-kiss hug-goodbye incident.

Should a guy be embarrassed if he gets a b*ner in front of his mom? Thoughts?

She is playful and smiles but looks away when I smile back. Usually you can smile at a woman. She was playful with my scars. Maybe she does not like me or two is attracted. When I say thanks see you next time she doesn't say anything. But she tells me to call her by her first name giggling. Very casual but awkward.

We text for 1 month and hung out 3 times. We're both in college. Everything was fine till Saturday when she mistook a text that said 'ok..' and took it as attitude. I explained and later apologized but never got a text back after it and she didn't text the next day. She said she would be busy so I didn't text either. The next 3 days I tried texting and seeing what happened and no text back and she blocked me on Facebook and Instagram. What happened I mean I realize we're not going to date now after being ignored and blocked like that but I don't understand what happened and if I should even try texting her anymore after some days pass or just leave it alone? Multiple people have told me without me even asking that she keeps saying she wants somebody to do stuff with.

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My boyfriend said that his way of joking is not wrong. He told me he wanted to break up. I thought he meant it. But then he said he was joking. Do you think it's wrong or right to joke like that? He also said when I say "FK u" to him jokingly is not ok. He compared those things and said it was the same. I'm like joking about dumping someone is like joking about people being dead but they're not dead. Do you think it's right to joke like this?

I'm thinking of this music video where like garden hoses or something that looks like garden hoses attack everyone (no it's not Sail) it's for a rock/punk band. My friend recommended the band to me years ago and we can't remember what band it was and all I can remember is part of this music video.

I'm a 19 year old Hispanic girl and 2 customers at work have asked for my number (of course I didn't it to them) also when I was in the parking lot, twice 2 guys have hit on me and always mentioning my body and I just find it so scary. When I was walking to my car once, one guy literally got into the parking lot and started driving next to me telling me that he'd like to take me home and "wife me up and treat me right," I thought it was disgusting and I was scared for my life. To be honest I'm not even attractive, I have acne on my face and I'm really fat so why??? And literally it's only been black men who look like 28+ who hit on me. Plus lots of people have told me that I look 15. Why are some men so creepy? didn't GIVE*** it to them

My ex called my bestfriend and she told her I liked him he said no she dosent and started saying he don't know me that I was with his bestfriend and then he started saying I was b***** and saying f**** that b**** ?

Well, this is a question about being single and dealing with feelings that you know can't be returned. But first. A little background. I'm 17 years old. I'm bipolar. I can be the nicest guy you know one day and a massive dick the next day. I have a despicable temper. (My temper has landed me in jail. Several times.) But if you just take time and effort into knowing me, you fall in love. Because I love to help people with everything. People always say "put your needs ahead of others." I really have no needs. I'm low maintenence. I just need 3 large meals a day, (I'm a pretty big dude.) Some space to run around and be active, and a place to sleep. I don't usually go to parties or clubs because I'm lazy. And don't really feel like getting dressed well. I generally wear sweatpants and t-shirts. I've had a few crushes in the past, but in efforts to not seem overly clingy I actually become incredibly distant. To avoid seeming clingy I never initiate a text conversation. Or a conversation. At all. I mean, I'm not a bad guy (not abusive, cheater, etc.) But I'm most certainly not a "nice guy". I have no idea what I am. So now I'm just really confused, and somewhat upset about being so confused.

Why does he want me to get bangs? Should I do it? I wouldn't mind getting bangs and I was thinking about getting them before he said anything but now I feel like he wants to change me. Am I being paranoid?

So, there was this guy on whom I had a huge crush on last year where we met at this international event. I found him incredibly hot and honestly I thought he was younger than his actual age (35+). When we spoke, we met on professional terms and wanted my number or e-mail ID so that we can keep on touch for work, I gave him my e-mail ID. Later that night he mailed me and said the usual formalities, ending with asking for my number, which I gave. After a few weeks/months, he took my skype ID for skype meetings, which never took place though, just little bit of chats. He is a faculty of a university, and I am studying in another university (I am in my early 20s). I got to know from an external source that he's married and his wife teaches in the same uni as him. I haven't heard from him much at all during that time. He once replied to my skype message, then didn't last 1/2 times. Recently, we reconnected.... He was online, so I knocked him at that time. He replied, had quite a chat, and he was back in his country. When I mentioned that I was away for a while in the US, he asked me my purpose of visit, and to let him know if I go to N. America again, so that we can meet up again. He only mentioned his wife's name once, but didn't say she was his spouse, I asked him. It even turned out. the wife's father is a faculty in my uni :O :O and he knew this!! Few days back, he mailed me for an opportunity to apply somewhere. We had a long chat on skype within a few days after. He mentioned once that he wants to meet me and get to know me more. He was impressed seeing my CV and achievements afterwards, mentioned again that he wants to get to know me more. He again mentioned afterwards that he wants to get to know me more. At one point he said, that it's unfair that we don't know each other much, so I might not get his humours and all. He then added that I seemed to understand his humours, we connect and all. When we talk, it's like we knew each other for a long time. He asked about our "special bond" and asked isn't it "too comfortable"? I had to reply with a," I build good connections with frinds, colleagues and clients.. as written in my CV" I remember last year that a few friends saw him checking me out. We started out formally, and now this. He even called me a "wonderful distraction" and "dangerous", "evil", "dangerously many things" in a funny way. While saying goodbye, he said,"ciao bella" and "have fun pretty one!" After there was an accidental call on skype from my side due to touch screen issues, after an hour we were done talking, I apologized instantly and said the truth that it was an accident due to "touch screen issues". He obviously did not believe it -_- started off as,"missing me already?", "you don't have to give excuses", "let's see next time whether you magically appear when I think about you" and all that.

Well my coworker and I are really close friends and well I started to fall for him. We always take our lunches together and when we're together or around other people he's really touchy. The problem though is he's 25 and I'm 18, I don't see 7 years as a big deal but he somewhat does. Whenever we're together we're practically glued to each other and I've even slept over his place, (nothing happened) I just want to get that what if feeling away... How should I tell him? Or should I not?

We already agreed to go out but haven't set time yet. My message is either: 1) Hey! Zoo tomorrow @ (time). Meet me there. I look forward to seeing you...and the lions. :) 2) Hey! Zoo tomorrow @ (time). Meet me there. I look forward to seeing you :)

We haven't really talked in 2 weeks, he hasn't texted me in that time. I texted him the other day saying 'i miss you' and he said the same back and i added a smiley and then he put a kissy face. Is he bored with me because we never hang out much? I don't know he always would text me more often but he doesn't really much anymore. We met online and he said he wouldn't cheat. We have been together 4 months now. If he wasn't interested do you think he would tell me? Any advice?

I recently got a job at a fast food restaurant. One of my coworkers is a pretty cool guy who I thought was really nice when I met him. A few days ago he says "you re 19 right" I say no I m 17 and his face is like o.o so I ask him his age and he laughs it off saying he doesn t remember (my guess is he s in his 30s) and he asks for my Instagram. He comments on one of my pics saying to follow him back and refers to me as sweetheart. I get a direct message from him shortly after with him saying he d love to talk to me and he wants my number. I didn t respond but he knows I saw it... What the **** do I do cause right now I m getting mad creeper vibes from him ^.^

All my life I've been SUPER Skinny-Fat. Even in high school but I still managed to keep a GF. A year out of high school till now (I'm 21) I've gained ALOT of muscle and into Bodybuilding.. Skipping to the point I'm 6"2, 240 pounds. I have a Very good looking face not to brag and I often get hit on a lot. But not by My type. I like skinny girls, short 5"1-5"6'ish. Instead I'm always attracting "the opposite". Are smaller girls intimidated by a Big guy is that the problem?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 19 months now and my 18th birthday just passed. I dropped a few hint here and there of a couple, not so expensive, things that I liked. I also told him I d be even happier with a home made percent. But still 2 weeks later still nothing. He does have a job and he is very musically talented so he could have wrote a song for me to show he cared. At least something My feelings are hurt not about the money but because he didn t even care. Is it bad that I m upset? Or am I just being a crazy self centered girlfriend.

I'm paying for a relationship that only lasted less then a year....she wanted a baby before her time is up...I'm so stupid for falling for her crap...Now people if you don't believe me on this next thing.....long story short she for her own selfish reasons does not want me to be the father to my son....sounds crazy but.....it's real can anyone help

I love my girlfriend a lot and I know she loves me to, we have already talked about our future and we both want the same things but every time she gets mad she wants to break up and I don t want to lose her but idk what to do

A girl I've been dating wants space from me and when I asked why, she said she wanted to do things with other guys like make out with them at parties. That's as far as she would go with other guys she said and then she said she'd get back together with me after a few months. This broke my heart so bad and I don't know how to cope with this because I loved her so much and I am so depressed. Any kind of help regarding what I should do about us and how to get over this huge emotional roller coaster would be greatly appreciated.

my first time was with a girl who was 15 and i was 17 she also looked older.