We are a huge Marvel family, we have watched every single movie. My brother watches them as well. I think that now he is older he is starting to understand the concept of "guns and shooting" and death. Lately he has been so paranoid, he's been freaking out and crying and having meltdowns, saying awful things like "What if a man comes into our house and shoots you and I'm left alone?" My Mom and my original Dad are divorced, so me and my sister spend half the week at each house. My brother is my stepdad's son, so him, my stepdad and my mom are frequently alone. When my parents go out, he has uncontrollable meltdowns where he just walks around the house crying with his face in his blanket. I went through the same sort of thing, but I was super good at covering it up and I only had 1 or 2 anxiety attacks where I wasn't by myself. It has gotten to the point where my parents can't go out, let alone use the bathroom. We stopped letting him watch movies with guns/violence etc. but this kid is out of control. He is preventing my parents from living their lives, and all they do is argue over it. Is this a phase? Is it OK to put a 7 year old in counselling?? On meds??

im in school and stil looking for a job all she does is make fun of me and yell at me for my problems which are social anxiety. im also depressed now because of how cruel she is being. i have no friends so no one to rely on emotionally now that shes cut me off. i would kill myself if i had the courage. she just says anything to make me feel useless now. i told her being mean is not helping me and she jus said "im not being mean im just not standing for you behavior" (shes talking about the fact that i havent gotten a job) what can i do to make her realize being mean is just making it worse and harder for me to do anything?

its a year long that my wife is not talking with my sister. she always tell me to not to attend any family functions at my sister residence . even its a "Raksha Bandhan" a Hindu function of brother and sister attachment " if i attend somehow she create scene at home that the thing i never want . what to do plz suggest

I m a 14 years old and have a bit of a problem...... My dad and mom are apart my mom lives 4 hours away from my dad and family in a tiny town we moved about 5 years ago during that time I visit my dad on three day weekends, holiday, and summer. Last summer I attempted to stay with my dad when summer ended and started my eighth grade year at a private school I was happy that only lasted a week before my mom had the cops come and take me out of school and she took me back to her house well a year has passed and I still want to live with my dad I don t want the same thing to happen that happened last summer no matter what I try the judge keeps ignore if my letters! What do I do?

Okay, here's the problem: I have an uncle who has pretty bad anger problems. What should piss him off doesn't, and what shouldn't does. When you push the wrong button, he will blow up at you and will take up to a week or more to calm down. He's never calmed down in less than a day, which is bizarre. He always gets mad because of a small mistake. He was driving me and my aunt somewhere, and his iPod nano was charging in the car. When I got out of the car, I accidentally knocked out his charger, so his ipod didn't charge or something. This happened a few days ago. He just found out today, and yelled at me, called me a little sh**, and all that. He's gone as of right now, but he never just yells at you once. He yells multiple times before he's somewhat satisfied. He's still muttering foul things about me. I'm really mad at him but I know he's looking for a fight. Every time I've been yelled at by him, I've cried a ton. And I go back to my house and I don't talk to him for an extremely long time, at least a few months. Not because I take what he says personally, it's because I can't handle yelling. It scares me. All my life I've been surrounded by angry people. It turned me into a sensitive person. Is there anything I can do to help this? I want to remain calm during times like this. I feel uneasy and my legs get shaky when I know I'm going to be yelled at soon. Also, any tips on dealing with my angry uncle? He's overreacting and nobody can calm him down.

It was a few days ago, my brothers friends were at my house. One of them sort of liked me and would always try to hug me but I would push him away. He was sat on me and there were lots of pillows around. I felt him touch my legs a lot, I tried to move. He began to finger me, I had clothing on so it wa over my clothes. I squirmed a little, I didn't want to say anything because my brother was there. It didn't last long, I kept trying to move but disguise it so my brother didn't see. I eventually managed to get up. I keep crying about it, I tried to stop him, I'm too scared to tell my parents because he's the only really good friend my brother has. I don't want any hurtful comments just some advice and reassurance. I'm really scared to ever see him again. It's gonna stay with me forever, I really wish it didn't happen. I never try to lead him on. I really hate myself. Lastly I'm 14 and he's 16.

Hi, I do ballet and my ballet leotard is really high cut on the side. My ballet teacher is really mean and makes of fun of people when their panties are visable at the side. She said no undies, or get a thong. I'm 13, and my class ranges from 11-14. I need to ask my mom for a thong but I'm worried she'll think I made this story up to get one? How should I ask her? Also, I'm really shy and good at school amd stuff so I don't want her to think I'm a slut. Last year I asked het to take me to vs pink and in front of my brother and dad she said I wanted to go to a bra shop, I'm worried she might humilliate me again

My brother is always embarrassed to tell people that he watches them. I personally don t think it is strange at all. When I ask him why he keeps it a secret he tells me that its a little kids show. He plays with his neighbors who are 4 & 5 years old. They play wild kratts and octonauts together all the time. I never thought about it then but now I do see why he might be upset. He doesn't get along with kids his age and prefers playing with younger kids. He is obsessed with science, especially animals. The reason why I ask is because he keeps asking me if he is strange or weird. He always wonders if he is too old for the shows. I try to comfort him but he wont listen. SO he wont listen to his older sister, I though he might want to hear the public's opinion. So what do you think? Is my brother weird?

Being the oldest, I watch them all the time (no dad, mom goes to school). They don't respect or listen to me, though why would they, I'm not their mom. They verbally attack me (I usually ignore them well enough, typical sibling stuff). But what really gets me is how violent and malevolent they are. They lie to my mom often, to get me into trouble, they delete my files, rip up my drawings and paintings, intentionally break things and make messes just before my mom gets home. They both are very violent, I've had a knife pulled on me while doing the dishes, almost broke my nose from having it slammed on the floor, my hands have been smashed into the floor while I was picking up glass once, and I've even had my lip split so badly that the cut scarred over in a lump after my sister hit me with a glass until it broke. I am so physically and mentally drained that I am starting to feel like I don't want to care about them anymore, and it's scary. Do they hate me, or am I just intolerant? Does anyone have any tips on coping with this, or better yet solving the problems? I don't want them to hate me, and I don't want to hate them either. I'm really just stuck... I'm turning 15 in a few months, I'm female, my mom is rarely home because of school, I can't afford family therapy or otherwise. And I have tried talking to my mom who's deemed me a pathological liar and attention whore, despite the evidence. I don't want to stress her out anymore than she is, either. Can anyone help me?

I'm 15, I understand that I'm young but I'm very mature for my age and very responsible. I graduate this year, I already have my license, own car, I never go out and do anything at all but I was at my family's house all day and didnt leave until 12:20 I didn't plan on being out that late but I really just lost track of time. My parents and I never talked about a curfew because I rarely go out anywhere. Now I'm in trouble for being at my family's house past 11 it wasn't like I was out partying! am I overreacting or are my parents just absolutely crazy? Where I live the Juviniles on probation curfew is 1 am. and the age for that is 15-17

He seems to have feelings for me though and has been reaching to get my attention really badly. Yet he has all these other chick's around him and he chooses to sleep with whores? What would he treat me differently does he like me or just see me as a friend. Why would he prefer a prostitute for sex?

My Grandfather was in the hospital for a long time and he has really bad blood circulation so his legs and feet are filled with water and very swollen. He walks with a walker. My Grandmother takes care of him. He can t sit on the couch because it s too soft so he goes in his bedroom to watch TV because there is a chair in there he s is in there almost the whole day except for breakfast, lunch and dinner and to go to the bathroom. Everytime my Gtandmother goes out to runn errands. He goes in the fridge and eats things he s not supposed to. As soon as she leaves he comes into the kitchen and goes in the fridge and eats things he s not supposed to. He can t drink milk but the second she left he got some and I was standing right there. My Grandma specifically told him to stay in the bedroom until she gets back and she told me to watch him and I did. I told him he s not supposed to do that and he says just a little bit. Then he tells me don t tell Grandma but I have too. What do I do?

Cus i'm. Really. Jealous. And angry. at the same time cus i'm. Over at my sister's. And my 2 year old niece is over too and my sister. Is paying. More. Attention. To her and not me i know she's a baby but. I want. Some. Of the attention. Too

My parents are divorce and I've been living with my mom for the past few years. I visit my dad daily, like every weekend and school breaks. I moved school because I was getting bully, my mom and i relationship was horrible, and i didnt feel welcome at my old school. I moved back to my dad but he doesnt have my custody. The school I'm going now was fine and it was where i grew up with all my old friends but the education was horrible. I had to self-taught myself and it was super easy for me. I want to move back but im too scared to speak up. My dad side have ask me many time if i want to move back to my old school. i told them no but i dont know what to say or tell them i want to move back since i dont see my mom at all anymore. my mom and i relationship have been alot better now.

My little brother is five years old and it doesn't matter what I do (from handing him clothing or tucking him) if I don't say it in an energetic voice or whatever (I guess he supposes I'm angry??) he starts SCREAMING and he holds his face and cries "OWWW" even if I didn't touch him!?! Then if my mom is home she will run up and start screaming at me and would never believe me. Why is this happening?

Putting it simply, I'm stuck. I'm the oldest, my mom is at school, my dad's a dick. this in itself isn't a big deal. My family had been in disrepair ever since I was little and it's just something I've grown up in. However I'm getting older, not significantly, but yes. I am turning 15 I'm scared. I already struggle in school, and I need to get a job. Anyone know a site or anything where I can find someone recruiting? My siblings hate me. They fight, and no not like normal siblings. Being very violent, I've already almost broken my nose, had my lip split to the point of major scarring on behalf of having my face beaten with a glass cup, as well as had a knife pulled on me, etc. all curtesy of my younger siblings. I handle them both well enough. I am not their mom, and they know that. I have no control over either of them, and in the event that I do tell my mother, she always spits at me, exclaiming that I am a liar and I should invest my lies in my writing (I roleplay, family often makes fun of me for living in a 'fantasy world'), I am often pitted with too many responsibilities to handle coupled with my subilings, something my mom can't comprehend, as she is always furious for the mistakes and lateness of my duties. No, I'm not treated like a slave, and I know my mom doesn't like putting responsibilities in me, and I now I'm a ***** and I could do better but I'm honestly so emotionally and physically drain that I don't know what to do. [[ Continued Below, sorry!! ]]

Me, (I'm 15) my mom, my 8 year old brother, my 1 year old brother, and grandma live in the same house. Like 1200 sqft house with 5 of us. Only 3 bedrooms. Our AC in our house just went out and we live in South Carolina. My mom doesn't have much money nor does my grandma. I don't have much money either, to fix the AC it cost $850 and that's like, way out of our ball park. But most people say its best to replace the entire unit which is in the thousands of dollars 😖 can anyone help me and my family, how to make money? How to get money? We're struggling bad and can't sleep at night. It's horrible.

Today I bought a new pair of pants and shirt. I was on my way to the run some errands and I hadn t seen my brother in 3 weeks and the first thing he said when he saw me was: "where are you going like that?" He then proceeded to say: "I know those pants are in fashion but they re so ugly." As if that wasn t enough already, he added: "and that shirt is a little short don t you think?" In a mocking tone. What is more this whole scene took place with one of our neighbors, and I feel like he ridiculed me and was very disrespectful. He then said: "we ll talk about it when you come back home." This was just so rude and offensive to me, I mean he was downright acting like a possessive boyfriend. I just walked away and when I came home I told my parents about the situation and demanded he apologize for being hurtful and insensitive. He refused and told my parents to start educating me better. I m so infuriated and I don t know what to do. What do you think?

This is tough to explain. But i really need help. My mom went from ukraine in 04 to america to get money for me and make sure that i have a great future. She left my dad even though he never hurt her. And my biologicals dads mom stirred some things up. He was very upset. Now my family wants me to meet him. And i dont want to. They say hes the nicest man ever. But i still dont want to. I dont know why, i just dont want to. My mom says if she ever does die before i get a house and a life. (Basically before i get to the age of 20 or so). That i would be legally belonging to my biological father. I am so upset right now. My mom swore on my grandmas and grandpas life that he is the nicest man ill ever know. I believe that. However i do not feel comftarable meeting him. And i do not believe the whole story about what happened. I have no idea if it is my grandmas from my dads side fault, or my moms fault. Also the last time i was in ukraine 3 years ago. My dad was scared to come and meet me. His mom (My grandma i guess) came and passed on 700 dollars that he has been saving for me). Now 100 dollars is what a doctor earns a month in ukraine. My mom says he is a great man and he loves me very much. I am sick and tired of all this bs. I dont want to meet him and thats final. I didnt come to visit ukraine for crap.

Seems my daughter's upset because my son touched her boob, which my son says is an accident. I just want to relax and enjoy my vacation here at Club Orient.

I told Mom, and she seems clueless how to deal with it. What should we do about this?

So my mom and my twin sister and I were in an argument. Honestly the whole thing was about something pretty stupid and right now I wouldn't be mad if this hadn't happened. So we were there arguing in the kitchen and my moms friend was at the breakfast bar and she gets up and screams at us "I've heard your mom complain about these and now I'm sticking up for her." or something like that and I was taken back. She started yelling at us and my sister and I were just finishing putting away the dishes and not listening. To me, that was NOT her place to do anything. She wasn't looking after us, my mom was standing right there, and she's not my parent or anything. I just feel like she was in no position to scream at us and call us rude and stuff. Then my mom didn't even say anything to her. We went upstairs after that cause we didn't want to be around them and we heard them talking about us and our "immature ways" for 10 minutes. Like talking about us is immature if you ask me. What do you think? Was it right for her to yell at us?

it was totaly a acident but she think i did it on purpose and she told my dad and mom what do i do?

So I'm 14 and my bf is 14. We've known each other For 2 years and we've been dating since last year and We love each other so much.last year he wanted to meet my friends so when my friends had a sleepover with me I snuck him in. then my "friends" told my parents. Since then my parents stopped liking him (they didn't know we were dating btw).Then another day I snuck out cuz he needed to give me a book I gave him and my parents Caught us. And well months later, turns out I was pregnant. By him. We used protection and everything and we only did it once and I still got pregnant. And when I told my parents this year it killed them of disappointment.And that's when they officially started hating him for good. And yeah I know they have many reasons to hate him too. the months went by and disappointment turned into happiness and everything was going good. It seemed as if my bf and me were maturing and getting ready to be parents.but then yesterday he texted me saying he wanted to feel the baby move and talk to the baby so when the baby is born, she could reconize him. And since my parents don't allow him to come by himself I snuck him in during the day. But then my mother came to get lunch and she saw him hiding.Now my parents don't let him anywhere near the house,they're not gonna let him see the baby,or have any type of bond with her,if he does come close to me my dad will call the cops. I feel so much guilt,sadness and anger.Please help me. What should i do to make this better?

I'm 13 years old boy almost 14 and mom won't let me move alone to another room (Currently I am in living room with my laptop), whenever I tell her "Can I move with my laptop to another room so i can speak to my friends on skype?" She tells me to just speak in the living room and tells me that my brother wont annoy you, but it's not that, i am a shy person and when i want to speak to someone i need some privacy, your probably thinking "How do you know she thinks your watching porn" well because: 1-I caught her staring at my screen while she was passing by 2-I was on my tablet and she snitched it off and checked what I was looking at. 3-Sometimes she allows me to move but temporary but always have to say that "Remember, watching bad things is a sin (We are religious)" Back when my dad was here (he is living in another place) he allowed me to move and now i miss that feeling. P,S: It's not about calling too, i also record videos and need a quiet place so there is no background noises REALLY I didn't expect that most of answers are going to be by ***holes. in here we don't have private rooms or move away (We do when we are married) I am not american/european so. I am smart for my age (Atleast what I think) and know what's wrong and what's right, atleast that's what my parents taught me to be, can any "Wise" people actually answer this? don't tell me this is normal because i have never seen a mom doing this before.

I am 15 and will be turning 16 soon my parents will not allow me to get a job because they feel it will get in the way of school. Suddenly this year they say I have to start paying them back for things. When this started I only had CHRISTMAS money so basically i gave my Christmas money back to them. I know I owe my parents my life but this is changing our relationship I am afraid to talk to them or ask them for something, it is like they want me in debt. I say that because one time I had money so I got my hair done at a salon when i was done I found out my Mom paid for it ( Behind my back) and that now I owe her I gave her the money I had but the price somehow went up and i am in debt to them. Another time I was told I can not hang out with my boyfriend ( inside my house) without paying them first so he can't come inside the house. My parents always said you can not put a price on fun but now there is. My Dad said originally i could pay back in chores ( which i believe made sense) he said every week I would receive money for doing the chores and pay them back but in the long run start having money for myself. When my Mom found out about this plan she was not having it and wanted actual cash. Now I can not leave the house without paying.

My mother always read books. When we were kids, she'd be reading and although we were standing right next to her or calling out to her, she "wouldn't hear" us. She would continue to read until eventually, she'd look up from her book as though she'd forgotten we existed or couldn't hear us talking. She'd look at us like she'd been in a daze or something, saying "Huh? Oh. Did you want something?" Mothers, is that even possible? Can a mother be "so engrossed" in a book she wouldn't hear her 2 young children trying to talk to her while they stood right next to her?

So my sister was gone for 5 days visiting a friend in another state and my mom is going for a 2 hour drive to pick her up and for the past 5 days I thought me my mom and my dad would spend time together but we only went for pizza one night then went back home. Also, I asked my mom if it could just me me and her at the beach and she said no bring your friends. So today, my mom asked if I wanted to go for the 2 hour drive and I said yes because I have nothing else to do, and I thought it would be fun but then she rubbed her face and was like "never mind" so I thought she was joking and I was like "what time are we leaving" and she's like "marissa, you're not coming." and I was like "what you asked if I wanted to come" and she was like "I screwed up I shouldn't have said that" and I said "why can't I come" and she was like "stop I have a bad headache" and walked away. it hurt my feelings pretty bad I don't consider myself to annoy her or anything but I don't understand why she doesn't want me going with her

Okay so I live with my brother and his fiancee and we have a house on the bay down the shore. Well my brother is home working while his fiancee and I came down here to the shore house. Now I'm not supposed to use the boat without one of them being here with me. However my friends and I wanted to go fishing and I figured this would be a good time to show them I can do it myself. Well I was wrong and I crashed it. What do I tell my brother's fiancee when she comes home from the store.

So my grandparents in Texas have pretty much raised me my whole life since my mom died when I was 6. I was living in Tennessee at the time when she died, but they moved me to Texas after. anyways, my cousin told me about the high school here in Tennessee, and I really wanna move here, but I feel like my grandparents in Texas would be upset with me if I left, because they've done everything my whole life. my friends have also told me that I should stay, but I really feel the need for a fresh start, but I can't make my mind up. if it were you, what would you do?

it's been years now when my mom passed away due to colon cancer. i still feel the pain. there are times when i wake up in the morning, i still imagine that when i get out of my room and go to the dining room, my mother would be there greeting me and serving me my breakfast. i miss her so much. i still cry myself to sleep, wishing everything is just a dream. i dont want to talk about this to my dad, he wouldnt understand and i feel like i'm the only one who understands myself and my pain.

Hi my name is Ryan I come from a small place called I'm 15 I suffer from Autism I live with my parents there kind and nice most of the time but it comes to bits it changes around my dad some times threats to hit me and slabbers about me in nasty ways some Times I make mistakes because I have autism when that happens he starts to get angry and threats to hit me push me and slaps or hits but not in the face it's either the arm or leg today I was not feeling so good so I had to use the toilet i blocked it by an accident but he doesn't seem to care if it was an accident so what should I do about it

When I was 11, my mom was married to a man that was my step dad at the time. Around this age, my step dad had sexual molested me for a few months, and it became a police investigation when my parents found out. My mom and him divorced a few years later. He didn't go to jail, he has another son (my little brother). So sometimes I have to see him on account of my brother (like a birthday party or something) but the past few weeks he has been very creepy towards me and saying stuff like he misses me and wants to talk to me and when he found out I moved out of my mothers place he said I could live with him? Its starting to make me very very uncomfortable and honestly a little unsafe, and I'm not sure what to do. My dad thinks I should tell the police but I don't know yet. I guess I'm just looking for an opinion. Anything helps thanks.

6 months ago back in February, me, my mom, stepdad, 1 whole blooded brother. and 3 half siblings moved to Florida. Me and my whole blooded brother have not been able to get a hold of our biological dad since we moved from another state here to Florida. We visited him on the weekends since our mom and dad divorced back when we were like 5 or 6 years old. We haven't been able to contact him in the last 6 months. I've tried calling him, emailing him, looking for him on social media. But nothing. Its like he disappeared from the face of this earth. He's not paying child support and never really has ever, my mom said that he's just a sorry loser who's willing to ignore us since he isn't paying. Someone please help me. Is he ignoring us, or is he dead? I've contacted him so many times in 6 months, but he won't pick up or return my calls. Help me! :(

My sister owns her own company, she's very outgoing loud, and Dosent let anybody tell her what to do literally... But sometimes she gets drunk, or does something that pisses off my dad, and he will call her yell at her (not bad) and she will cry, say "I'm sorry daddy" and just stay silent. Not even my mom can do that to her, why is my dad the only one that can do this????? It's not like he's gonna hit her lol

My husband says i am overreacting. He says his son asks everyone for money. His son is 19 year old with full time job. So i responded back to my husband and said "going by what you just said that means its okay for your son to ask you to ask my father for money because he asks everyone around him?" And then my husband responded "I dont know what you are talking about". I told my husband that i considered it being disrespectful to ask someone he doesnt know for money especially my father. Husband says i have to understand because he is still a kid. I said he is considered young adult then he responded back to me saying he is a teenager. This poor attitude has been going on ever since he was a little kid. Yelling and cursing and be mad if no one gives him what he wants. I minded my own business everytime i see this attitude comes from him because my husband said to mind my own business. Now he says he becomes my business all of asudden

So, about a month ago my parents bought some basketball shorts for me. I asked if they can take them back because i didn't fit me. So they take them back to the mall, and i wear them for about a month or two. Im soon going to boarding school so i have to choose clothes that fit, and are goood for next year. I throw away the shorts, and theyre being annoying saying "we bought you these and now you're dont want them" Im just like "they look awkard and weird on me i dont want them... "So they get all mad and weird and ugh

My mom is overweight to a point where she's becoming a diabetic, she's having heart problems, and she's beginning to have knee problems.My grandpa passed away last year from diabetes I know my mom is heading down the same path.Me and my whole entire family have tried everything to get her to change her ways but she won't listen to us, she gets mad, like so mad she drops the divorce bomb on my dad. She needs to change her diet and exercise.All she does is walk for 5 minutes and then she's done.Sometimes she lies. She goes out to eat at Arby's without telling us. She always tells me she'll go running with me but whenever I ask her she tells me "but I just sat down and I wanna watch tv" she works in an office all she does is sit down.We went for a bike ride one time and we weren't 3 minutes in before she was like "I'm too tired" she wasn't even sweating.She can't hold a diet though because the rest of the family eats like pigs too.I'm willing to give up all the junk food.My dad, I'm pretty sure, is willing to do it.My older brother and sister though...probably not.None of my family member (besides my mom) are over weight except for my sister.I don't want that to happen to me or my brother.We need to change.I want my mom to lose weight.I want her to be healthy.She has no will power though.She thinks like "oh if I eat like 4 sugar free Klondike bars in one day I'll be eating healthy and I'll lose weight" somebody please help me

My mum can be a very sweet and thoughtful woman, but i don't agree with certain thing s she does and frankly i hate her for them. the biggest thing is her way of discipline. i'm 17 years old and my mum beat me really badly to the point where scabs were forming and i lost a small patch of hair on the part my head that she hit. the reason was because i was skipping school (i skip school because i hate the subjects that i took because she wanted me too) . I know that i can be difficult, but at the end of the day it doesn't justify hitting your child like that. I almost always accept defeat and do whatever she wants me to, but i feel so miserable because it doesn't make me happy. she threatens me by taking away everything i have and worked hard to buy, but it doesn't change anything it just makes me angry. I'm British African so since i was little, i always thought beatings like that was normal and that it was a punishment that i deserved. She never said she was sorry, she just made up stupid excuses. I feel sorry for her because she's a widow and she tries her best, but lately, I can't look at her the same way., instead i just feel annoyance and hate and i kinda want to slap her across the face and i think she can sense my hate.. How should i handle this situation?

My mom has the absolute worst temper and I'm more of the person who takes and takes and tries to be rational until things have gone too far. My mom has a serious shopping/spending money problem. She spends a lot of her money on herself on things she doesn't need and rarely uses. Please note that I'm not asking her to be a martyr and return all of her money to the family. She has also been out with her friends and husband multiple times early after work to do things that she wants to do. For the past two weeks shes just been in a terrible mood to everyone except for my stepdad. Meanwhile I'm taking a driver's education course which is required to get my permit. (I'm old enough to get my license but in my state you must have you permit 6 months prior to getting your license) Not to mention I need it to complete my driving course which my grandmother is paying for. Okay so my mom specifically has pushed me more than anyone to get behind the wheel despite not having a permit. I have told her repeatedly that I'm not comfortable with her pushing me but she continues to do so. Now she wants me to drive on the interstates? Not only is this a dangerous to travel, but its illegal. So last night I just went off, I told her how I felt about everything from my permit, to how she doesn't listen to me or respect my opinions and normally blows me off. She proceeded to call me nasty things and told me to burn in hell etc. I already apologized but to no avail.

This is tough to explain. But i really need help. My mom went from ukraine in 04 to america to get money for me and make sure that i have a great future. She left my dad even though he never hurt her. And my biologicals dads mom stirred some things up. He was very upset. Now my family wants me to meet him. And i dont want to. They say hes the nicest man ever. But i still dont want to. I dont know why, i just dont want to. My mom says if she ever does die before i get a house and a life. (Basically before i get to the age of 20 or so). That i would be legally belonging to my biological father. I am so upset right now. My mom swore on my grandmas and grandpas life that he is the nicest man ill ever know. I believe that. However i do not feel comftarable meeting him. And i do not believe the whole story about what happened. I have no idea if it is my grandmas from my dads side fault, or my moms fault. Also the last time i was in ukraine 3 years ago. My dad was scared to come and meet me. His mom (My grandma i guess) came and passed on 700 dollars that he has been saving for me). Now 100 dollars is what a doctor earns a month in ukraine. My mom says he is a great man and he loves me very much. I am sick and tired of all this bs. I dont want to meet him and thats final. I didnt come to visit ukraine for crap.

My mom and dad got divorced about 2 1/2 years ago. My dad used to run and bike ride and exercise. Since the divorce, my dad has been living in a tiny, single bedroom apartment. I stay over about once or twice a week, and I usually sleep on the small loveseat couch. I also clean his apartment once every other week, just for the money. Anyway, for the past year or so, my dad has gained a lot of weight, has stopped exercising, and eats/drinks junk and beer. Honestly, the whole situation is pretty depressing. One day I decided I would try and turn things around for the better. I cleaned his apartment extra thoroughly, I went grocery shopping for him and threw all his junk and replaced it with healthy food, etc. When he got home, I told him it was time he got his life back together. I told him he was gaining weight, that he needed to exercise and eat healthier. No more fast food or junk food. He just laughed. Instead I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. Well it's been three weeks and today I am cleaning his apartment. I was taking the trash out when I saw a large Taco Bell fast food bag. My heart dropped. I came back inside to check if he had made any sandwiches with the stuff I bought him to make sandwiches. No slices of bread were gone. The lunch meat hadn't been opened. I don't know how else to get through to him. I can only think of one thing to do, and that's to threaten that I won't stay over anymore unless he gets his life back together. Any advice? Thanks

Hey everyone, So, with the recent news about marijuana being legalized everywhere, at dinnertime I discussed with my parents why marijuana should be legal (medically) and stuff like that, because of this and that. So out of nowhere my mom asked me suspisciously today "Have you ever smoked pot before?". I was like "Oh ****" and immediately said no without even thinking. Both my brothers smokes pot and she knows that. I'm kinda the third child, you know, "the third time's a charm!" kinda thing. However, I've smoked pot before, with my friends and such. I've only smoked 7 times throughout a whole year, and I try not to overdo it, at all. I just think its fun, I enjoy it, and it brings me and my friends together, rather than drinking where you're completely mindless. Anyway, I think she knows, and I really don't hope she does, because the last thing I would do is dissappoint my parents... What should I do, and what do you guys think? And now you might ask "How do you know she is gonna be dissappointed?" well, after I said no, she was like "Good". And she doesn't really like the whole marijuana thing, I don't think any parent does honestly. So yeah, anyways. Help!

I don't live with my mom, I live with my dad and my step mom. I never ever saw my dad when I was little because he never bothered spending time with me or anything. Then in 6th grade I became depressed. One day I attempted suicicde and my dad found out. My step mom pressured him to get me a therapist and he told the therapist that I was only pretending so I could make him look like a bad father and I told the therapist that I didn't have to pretend he was already a bad father. My dad got tired of me and he sent me to my moms for summer vacation and my depression went away I was extremely happy, my mom said my age (14) was a good enough age to go out until at least 10 and that it was fine that I could have a boyfriend. even though I didn't live with her she knew my feelings she knew everything and she understood me and my decisions. I told her I wanted to stay with her but she said I've already created a life where I live so I listened to her. I came back to my dads everything started all over again. I decided to fix my relationship with my dad and the therapist told him that all I need is go out and live my life. He won't budge, I'm basically a prisoner and even though he's a bad father I still love him because it just comes naturally, I love: hate him. I told my aunt she says I should talk to him about it but I know for a fact my dad won't listen me and my step mom somewhat get a long but she talks about me behind my back sometimes and my dad does a lot too.

My nephew, age 13, asked me about life. He is intelligent and inquisitive. I don't believe in sugar coating stuff and leaving people with unrealistic expectations or unprepared to handle real life situations. He was asking about love, why some people are nice and some mean and how he should conduct himself. I told him to never be mean, be respectful of others and let no one disrespect him. Then I told him humans, by nature, are selfish animals and therefore he must always be careful. Hold your heart close to your vest, never trust anyone and never place the needs of other before your own. This may sound selfish, but if you do, most will take your kindness as a weakness and use it against you. My sister was very upset. Was I wrong to tell him how things truly are so he can protect himself properly? You're right. I should have emphasized it's only my opinion. And tell him others may feel differently. It's funny I don't where the trust and goodwill from childhood gets lost. I am middle aged and like most have met and dealt with many people from all walks of life. I can truly say out of all those people, I have only known one that was honest and truly empathetic of others without an selfish motive that ended up injuring those around them.

so i have this family friend we call my cousin, she is 9 and she has recently been doing some things. we have been hanging out with her mom alot and we go out and shopping and to the pool and everythings fine when i babysit her but whenever we get in the car she gets sad and makes a drama scene. she will just sit in the back until we ask whats wrong and she will say how she hates her mom and her emotions change so qucikly. one minute she is fine the next she is crying cause she claims her mom and dad hates her. and so i thought maybe its when we are around to get attention?? but her mom told me she does that at home too. but we have no idea whats wrong with her and why she gets so upset at random times to nothing. her mom doesnt want to hear from the school that she has adhd or anything.. what do you think?

I am 13 years old and my mom just told my dad to leave. There is a reasoning behind this. I woke up an hour ago or so and heard police outside our house. State police. There was also a helicopter. They told my dads friend who was at my house at the time that they found a marijuana plant growing in our yard (we have 14 acres) My dad set everything out with the police and didn't get arrested. When my mom came home a little bit ago, my dad told my mom that he was the one that was growing the plants. My mom told my dad to leave, forever. My dad packed his stuff in a garbage bag and left. This all happened a little bit ago. I don't know what to do. Will he ever come back? Will my mom forgive him? I don't feel just mentally different, I also feel physically sick. They fought sometimes but I never thought something like this would happen. Help. :( I tried talking to my mom, she said she would never let him come back. And i was wrong, my dad was caught by police. He has to go to court tomorrow. I can't see him. I tried everything to convince my mom to let him come back home, but she still wont let him come back. She said she might get divorced. Now I really don't know what to do.

I'm 20 years old and to keep this story short, I found photos of my mom and her coworker having sex. I confronted her the first time, asked her what was wrong with the marriage for her to do this, she told me there wasn't enough sex and love in the marriage and to never tell my dad. I told her she had to work on this, to do marriage counseling, but she said no to it and that she would try to work on it with my dad. She never even owned up to it and said, "Yes I cheated, and I apologize for it." She just demanded I delete the photos, never tell my dad, and that she would stop. I check recently (8-9 months later), and find photos of him washing her car, him sending a selfie to her, and her telling him how happy he made her one day. I confront her, she yells at me to delete the photos, tells me the marriage is fine, that she and her coworker are just friends and haven't had sex, and to never tell my dad. I ask her to show me texts between her and her coworker, and two months ago she and him send pics of each other to each other. She tells me those were just small favors and deletes the messages. She even has him in her phone as "Sinta" or sweetheart. I haven't talked to her at all since then. I hate her, and I don't think I ever can trust her or talked to her ever again. She cried on the phone asking if I still loved her, of course i do, but I couldn't even get myself to say it. I hate her, and I don't know what to do now. I'm going to a psychologist at my college now. I love my dad too. I've talked to her before, I gave her a chance, and told her I understood her pain. I gave her a chance, and she still cheated, again. I don't trust her. I hate her. I love my dad so much and I have always despised haters. I don't think I can ever get myself to forgive her. I'm just stuck in my ways of hating cheaters, even if she is my mom. I tried to help, and I'm sick of it. I hate her, and always will. I will never forgive her. You think my dad doesn't have issues in the marriage? I'm the one he confides in on the weekends about his financial stress. He can never talk to my mom about finances and living in this expensive area because she doesn't understand and he's the one that does it all. I'm the only one that gets it, while she just screams and yells and acts like a baby. She yelled at him for telling her he wants to finish off paying the student loans before a trip to Europe.

So I'm at my dads house for vacation for the week. I feel pretty good because it's the one place where people don't judge me. But in a few days, Imm going back home where I'm emotionally abused 24/7. When I was 8, I tried suicide. It failed, and I tried suicide 2 more times when I was 10, and 14. This is all because of emotional abuse. Like I'm called a ***** all the time, if I'm hurt then no one cares. They yell at me if ai knocked something over. My mother is the most abusive. she'll slam a desk or wall if she gets mad. The whole family is so dysfunctional. Even I admit I've probably fed into the drama. I really want it to stop though. I'm not legally old enough to move out, and I just really don't want to go back home. I often think of killing myself brutally. This is all because no one really supports me, instead they just beat me down and tell me that I can't do anything, and that I'll never make it in life with my dreams. Also much of my family is dead from cancer, so my family is so minuscule. I don't know what to do. Please help. :(

Ok so my 23 year old sisters Drew and Alyssa watched wwe and I guess believed that it was real and wanted to try it out on me! They weigh 210 and I weigh 103 they double team me and it's really not fair! They slam me onto the ground jump off the furniture onto me when I'm on the ground all sorts of stuff! I really hope they will grow out of this trend or whatever it is. Like it really hurts I think I have bruised ribs and such. Why do they team up on me and just punish me?!? It's not normal thing is it?

Ok so I have 2 older sisters drew and Alyssa they are both 22 years old weigh 210 lbs and get off at work at midnight, just some background info. I am 12 years old and weigh 103 lbs my sisters aren't fat just a little big chubby but not to fat. They come home at 12 and I'm asleep by then because I don't like staying up early they will come into my room and both sit on me until they feel like getting up. Sometimes they will fart in my face to wake me up and it's really gross! One time Drew layed directly on top of me and alyssa right on top of her that's 420 some pounds right on top of me! They were literally crushing me! Why don't they just let me sleep?

I'm a twin myself, I just wanted to know how you get on with your twin? What's it like for you?

If I'm shouting Yahoo! should there be two exclamation points? Not important, that doesn't count as my question. I need gift ideas for two people who are going to be married next July! They're my sister and soon to be brother in law. They love beer, wine, golf, tv and movies, other married couple things. I need a great gift for them because they've done so much for me! Don't give me any of that bs silverware set answers, I want to be impressed. Don't let me down Yahoo, not again. You already have a year ago with my math question, I failed my test and ultimately everything else since then. This is my chance to turn it all around, and it starts with you. Maybe it's how I was raised, having high expectations only to have them shattered by a dropped fly ball back in little league. I was in right field Dad! I wasn't meant to have to do anything! When will you let it go!?

hello everyone, I am 17 and I have 3 little brothers aged 5, 10, and 14 and I wanna know how many of you people give your little brothers a piggyback ride, I give them piggyback rides all the time Share your stories and say how old they are

He alway reprove and yells because the trifle thing. Small detail stupid thing.... Ex: my mom late to buy his food. My mom make food that he does not like it. And act like a stupid no class idiot if someone doing something he dont like....Etc in home and in public... In the past he said im a bad son and no class . He said he will take a knife and kill me because i get mad when he talking nonsense non-stop and angry when my mom late for buy his pizza.... Today : i give my friend the weapon i did not use it in a long time. He said he will give me money but i say No . And my dad get mad will me . He said he give me money to buy it . But i said it is mom money not him and i does not use it anymore. And he start talking non sense.... How Its expensive ( yes but useless and old), He said if i does use it then leave it alone until broken . He angry because i give it to my friend without money. He said he will never talking with me if i dont take it back. And wwhen my mom at home: he said im no class . Bad son and how he raised me alway thinking about me lollllll L ... Lolll yes he feed me but when im as a child he hit me because stupid thing ex: i turn off tv that he are watching . I touch his stupid moto. I creaming when he sleep. Update: Update: When im 13 year old: He caught me watching porn and he yells me ... Somebody at my home and everyone know it....i feel very bad and cry so much ... The time pass and i think it is old story and he is my dad so it's okay but now i really hate him. I use his food all day but....i cant love him ... I will try but i cant he is sucks Update 2: Update 2: Today in front of the mirror i think...your face look like him... You are used the face and body from him... He give your mind but you hate him and you dont want use anything from him...i want kill myself . I was stress and angry now... Some time he seem really love dad... He buy for me food and smile Update 3: I have tell him some time he made me upset but he say: it is your job not me!!! You are my son . And im your dad !!! Now im 20

My dad and his mom are first cousins. My Dad's mom and his' moms' are sisters. Really need to know. Thanks

She's 12, and she asks incestual questions, laughs obnoxiously, talks too much, gets too close to my face thinking it's funny but it makes me feel really awkward. What's her problem?

So I'm staying with my aunt and cousins since my mom is on a business trip. My mom gave my aunt $537 to spend on food for me,my siblings and cousins. My aunt went and spent $106 worth of shopping at Walmart for the house. This was on Friday night. The food ran out on Sunday since my aunt bought unnecessary junk food and my cousins have been hiding food in their rooms. We've been living on fajita bread and Nutella since then. My aunt should have about $400 dollars left for food but she has no more money for food and refuses to spend her own money. The rest of the money she spent on household items. There's no food and I'm starving. All I had for breakfast was hot chocolate and there's literally NOTHING else. Even the fajita bread ran out. I texted my mom about this but she hasn't replied. Also,if you read my previous questions you'll see that my cousins have been picking fights with me and trying to kick me out. What should I do,I'm starving?