I Love My Husband and He Loves me very much, and this is just a question ask out of curiosity. I would appreciate it if no one made any rude or inappropriate comments. so my question is that My Husband can be watching TV, or seeing a commercial, watching a movie, or even see a woman pass by when He's out and He will get aroused/turned on by the person/thing that He sees. He never EVER watches pornography, and He is a very loyal person in general especially in our marriage. We are both Christians and love each other very much. He never gets a full erection but He will just feel things physically in His body/uk what for different periods of time, it can be for a few seconds or minutes on end or however long it takes those sexual physical feelings to go away. Is this normal? Please no one be rude this is just a question ask out of curiosity and nothing more.

Okay so no dirty or rude comments. I Love my Husband very much and He loves me too. I don t know much about these kind of questions, and I ve asked this question before but I didn t get many answers so I figured I would re-word the question. My Husband will get aroused/turned on by different things such as a scene in a movie, a commercial, something on television, or even someone He sees when He s out. I m positive it never turns into an erection and He never EVER looks at pornography, but He will just feel sexual feelings in His body/you know what for all of those things I mentioned. It can last in different time periods, sometimes it will be a few seconds or sometimes it can probably be for minutes on end or however long it takes for it go to away. Keep in mind I m not talking about an erection I just mean that He feels those sexual feelings in His body and uk what. Is this normal and is it alright?

About 5-6 months ago, I was editing the privacy settings on my mom's facebook account (I'm the one who set up her FB account in the first place because she wanted one and doesn't "understand technology"). Well, when I was doing that, I discovered her cell phone photos privately sync to her facebook account (but don't post unless she requests to). I was scrolling through some photos and I found photos from HER cellphone of her and her coworker in bed naked and kissing. I confronted her in tears, she told me I couldn't tell my dad and all of their problems in their relationship (i.e very little to no sex, no fun in their marriage anymore, etc.) She told me to not tell my dad and that she would stop and work on their relationship. I WARNED HER OVER AND OVER at that point that if I find photos again, I WILL tell dad. She said yes she understands she wouldn't do it. I just went on her fb, and BAM photos of that same guy washing her car and a screenshot text between the two of them of my mom telling him that he made her very happy. She calls him "sinta" or sweetheart. I don't know what to do. My parents have been married for 20 years and I know my dad would divorce my mom. My mom depends on my dad financially - she's just a waitress and this guy is a bus boy. I'm 20 years old and an only child btw. I'm devastated and don't feel sorry for her. My dad cares so much for us and yes he's focused on finance, but that's because he cares about our well being. I spoke to her this morning and told her I knew that she's still been spending time with him outside of work. She denied it, said they are just friends, that they haven't had sex since a long, long time ago and that they are over. That her and my dad's marriage is much better. She started yelling at me and getting angry and telling me to warn her if I tell my dad so that she can "prepare" and she started packing her bags and she texted me while I was at work to think carefully before telling my dad because it would crush him and she knows him and that she loves him etc. etc. Making ME feel guilty and putting the pressure on me that I have to be the one to tell him and that the blood is on my hands for a potential divorce if it occurs. Of course she spins it making me think I'm the bad guy, I overreact, I misinterpret everything, I'm the one at fault if i tell my dad.

un señor debia una deuda muy grande pero no la a pagado y quieren embargar la casa por que el firmo un contratro , pero se fue de ahi y solo viven sus hijas y su esposa (estan casados por bienes separados) y la casa es del señor y se encuentra en ejido gracias :)

My ex lives 8hrs away from me, my family made the trip and served him. However, he refused to sign any other document. The only thing he did is going in front of a notary with the person who was serving him. He said he will read them and send them by mail, I honestly doubt he will. Is there a way I can continue the process without him? What should I do now? Will I need a lawyer to continue?

When I was young I was adopted and had my last name changed. Since then I want to change my name back to what I was born with, and my fiancee is fine with this. So, is it possible for us to both change our last names to my birth last name at the same time? Or will I have to submit my name change first then she can accept my last name at the time of marriage? We are in Idaho if it matter. Thanks!

I'm a 30 year old guy, married and I want sex everyday, my girl gives me every other day but is not enough for me and I don't know why. . Is it normal? Serious answers please. ..and how many times is normal in a week?

I'm a 27 year old woman that is afraid to be in a relationship because the fear of getting hurt. I know marriage has it's up and down and it takes work. But how can you tell the person you are with is the one?

i hear it over and over again women talking about he has money or a good job, no wonder so many marriages fail. were is the true love?

OK, my dad, OK technically my stepdad married my step mom about 2 to 3 years back. And she and him had an argument and now she wants to divorce him. She wants to take half of the house. My question is can see. But before ask here are some details.OK, my grandfather bought the house for my father and us (step dad) before the marriage but after they married they moved it into my stepfather s name after a Merr my stepfather s name after they married. They had a large fight and she wants to take half. She is mentally unstable and physically threatened me and my fiancé. Not only that when she gets into her angry fits ( which is often ) she breaks and through stuff . But recently she has poped several holes into the wall. I have some documentation that she is not that much . Not only that but during the marriage she had stayed with another man she had moved in with her daughter and stayed with another man when they were still legally married . We live in the state of Florida . So my question is is there way we can keep the house without taking half? I just need some links and some opinions on what to do and to keep the house this woman really is very abusive mentally and physically and very crazy I feel as if she only married my step father for the home

I'm a woman, I'm not that into fashion or being sexy or too feminine. I don't wear makeup. I wear my ugly face like a badge. But I don't see what's good about being ugly except that I get ignored more (and I like that since I'm a loner who loves solitude) and dislikes talking to humunss. I can't get a boyfriend/husband easily. Never had a serious one. I am often treated worse than pretty girls, just walking down the street. I notice men will be less well mannered when they see my face Lol But if I was gorgeous I know that those same men would stop in their tracks to have manners.

Hi so I'm in a cuckold marriage with my wife of 5 years I am 29 she is 26. My wife has cucked me since before we were married. Just so you know cuckolding is where the woman sleeps with other guys that are normally much better hung than the husband. The bull in the relationship has said I must find other ways to be intimate with my wife and instead give her oral sex. My wife agrees and says she can hardly feel me (I am 3.5 inch) What should I do in this situation?

I'm talking about a woman being past marriage age, as in no longer desirable. I'm 34 and I have had rotten luck with guys all my life... even when I was 15 and young and beautiful guys just wanted to use me. Instead of allowing them to, I went to college and learned to speak languages and play instruments, hoping I was on the right path to a rewarding career and marriage to a kind man. Now I'm 34, single, and in a dead end job. I can't seem to change my luck at all. I feel like I'm past the age where a woman's looks go bye bye and I can tell from the way that people treat me that I'm getting old and ugly... guys don't even hit on me anymore or even attempt to use me for sex so don't try to deny it. I was reading in an online forum which puts down American women and promotes foreign brides (nothing wrong with interracial marriage, but I resent being stereotyped just bc I'm American) and this man claimed to be 60 and married to a 26 year old Latina and he said that "the wife's getting to that age where it will soon be time to trade her in for a newer model." That implied that I'm a. a withered old hag and b. that if you're a woman, all that matters is your youth and looks. If 26 is the age where men dump their trophy wives for a younger girl, then I feel hopeless. Is this a typical school of thought? At what age do most men leave their wives for younger women (the woman, not the man). And men... when are you planning to leave your wife or divorce her so you can get a younger bride? When she's 25? 30? At what age will you stop loving her or being attracted to her?

I don't get what the point of that is. What if you get married and realize you're not sexually compatible? Idk maybe things were different back in the 40's

If you knew an 18 year old girl who spent time talking to a man she met over the internet who was in his mid 30's and then he married her and they have 5 kids now.; how would you feel about that? If she tells you that she doesn't have a education and has been stuck in house with the kids since she married what would you say or do to help?

Trying to figure out different ideas on what to do for the day for my husband. We have an infant this time around with us, so I'm trying to think of things that we could all do as a family, since our sitter backed out on us last minute. We don't have a lot of money to spend on gifts or things to do, so I saw the idea of doing a treasure hunt, but what fun is a treasure hunt with no gifts at the end? lol. Any cute, creative ideas to make the day special for him? :)

.My husband & I have been together about 4 years. I am the only woman he has ever been with, which makes him kind of insecure&jealous a lot of the time.He has a hard time trusting me, but I've always been loyal to him.One evening my sister was over&my husband decided to leave&take our dog for a walk.She thought that was weird that he would leave at midnight to take the dog out.I explained to her that I always see someone swinging on the swings late at night at the school across the street.A week later I ask him about this mystery swinger, my husband says to me that he has talked to the person who swings late at night.It's a younger girl who lives with her father&cares for him, but he is very abusive.So she goes to the swings to swing&get away.Red Flag!Long story short, he tells me that he met soeone else(I'm assuming its the swing girl. In May we get into a huge fight and he moves out.The day after this happened I missed work. When I went in the next day I told my boss that he left me for someone else, which he said he did&he served me with divorce papers. Its now August&we have agreed to work things out. So, my boss offers him a job. During his interview my boss interrogates him about our marriage. He puts me on blast & tells her that I lied and he would never look at another woman. He still wants the job. What do I do? He is sooo wrong, right? Regardless if I lied or not, I am his wife. He should have my back. Right or wrong? I think he should find his own job.

or husband/wife because...? fill in the blank.

in bed.

( one belongs to her other sister which was been looked after by her Mom). The money is being withdrawn from our joint account. Why is my Wife feeling she has to be responsible for her sisters actions, even though the 8 yr old ( wife says " she still is my flesh and blood" ?

For weeks he kept saying he just wanted to stay home and spend time with his family aka me and the dogs, and everything I suggested, he shot down so i planned on just spoiling him all day and making his favorite meals and movies. He gets a call today from a friend from out of town who wants to go skateboarding and now that's what he wants to do literally the entire day (8am-8:30pm). I know it is his day and he should do what he wants, but am I being selfish for being hurt and upset that now he is changing his mind last minute? p.s. not to mention, we have only ever spent 1 holiday together (4th of july 2014) because he was either on deployment, duty, or working. Kingsfan - When he originally brought up the idea I said of course, go ahead, because I thought he meant he would go during the day and come home for dinner and a relaxing evening... then I asked what time he would be home and that's when he informed me of 8:30...

Doesn't he love his wife enough? Why did he marry her? Does he want to divorce her?

We have one child together and have always agreed on having 2 children, even since before we were married. But, now that we have a child, he's magically changed his mind and since he says 'no,' that's the final answer. So, I eventually said "okay, well I don't need 2 children to be happy, since I love our child, but I want you to get a vasectomy and I will get my tubes tied, so that we can ensure we don't accidentally conceive". Well, he refuses. He thinks that I should get my tubes tied and then we will just call it a day, but I don't think that's fair, especially since he's the one refusing to have a second child and not me. Am I wrong for being upset about him 1) not wanting a second child and 2) having me be the only one to be "fixed"? Yes, we're still young and I'd say we're in a very happy, loving marriage and have been for 4 years now. Our current child is 1 and I wouldn't want another child until he was around 4, just because we will have our school loans paid off by then and it'd just be a little better off, which is always welcome. I've asked him if he was unhappy with me for any reason and he says he's just happy with how our family is now and doesn't feel like another baby would make us any more or less happy.

I am not from the EU. but I have been living here for about 10 years. i do not have an European passport. i met a very nice Russian woman. She is wiling to spend her life with me. But i think one of the reasons for that decision is that she wants to have a European passport and she think i have a British citizenship. So she a gold digger in a way. Should i tell her the truth and lose her ?

what do think about this cheater

.. after 2 whole years of her not being in contact with you due leaving you for reasons you understood but you could help your heart break and you cried yourself to sleep upon her doing this to you at the time she left you. You didn't always treat her right, because you were going through hard times but you knew she forgave you and loved you immensly. What would she have meant to you? And would you still think about her? @talia: haha no this isn't your ex but your situation is very common and good on you for treating yourself right at least!

Alright. So my wife and I have had a rocky relationship for about 3 years. About 8 weeks ago I found out that she was having a relationship with someone she met online. There has never been a physical relationship and they have never actually met. The entire relationship has been online or on the phone. So about a week ago, my wife sent my a very emotional email apologizing for everything and agreed that she would stop talking to this other guy, while we attempted to work things out. The only problem is I know she is still talking to him because I have checked the cell phone usage for her line and verified it. So what should I do? Obviously she isn't serious about working on things if she is still talking to him, right? Should I confront her about it and if so should I mention that I have checked the cell phone usage?

He is using affectionate words for a few of them, too. He does not divorce me so I am fine with it. Does that mean he loves me the most. We have one kid. He once swore that he did not cheat on me. He is always in his office working till late hours. He works in a company and I visit him there, too. It is just online exchange of e-mails.

I have been married for 11 years now. My husband are three brothers. At the time of our marriage they were very young. Last year one of the brother got married and had a baby in May. This year his last brother got married. I have noticed lot of change in my inlaws behaviour towards the new daughter in laws. They are more linient and flexible towards them and they had huge expectation from me in terms of almost everything. One thing I have a huge conflict with my husband is that when we go anywhere and the kids are with us he never makes an effort to leave early so not to disturn kids bed time. I was the one who always used to be very firm on routine. Now his brother has a kid and he would leave the party as soon as he is done. I admire this habit of him because his wife doesn't have to make any effort. In my case every time I used to remind my husband that we should get going he used to get annoyed. Seems like that our kids are not that important to him. Everyday we have an argument over this and my biggest complaint is what is he afraid of.

...normal sexual life. But I wanted to ask, what could be her reason. Why she does not like it?

I have been married for a few years and have kids together. I have started to really take care of my body. Now my wife thinks I am doing it for other women. I love her with all my heart and only want to be with her. Yet at times they bring this up. Don't get it.

I have 2 beautiful kids with my ex husband. We ended things rather quickly rather than trying to work through things. I recently got remarried. My ex isn't with anyone. After my ex had a very scary accident, I realized I think I still love him. Now it is all I can think about. Whenever I am around my current husband I just want to be around my ex. What would be better for my kids? Stay in this marriage or try to work it out with their father?? I am so confused. Please help.

My husband is very sensitive, sometimes too much. His parents (whom he now has an estranged relationship with) sheltered him in a negative way. He may look tough, tall, fit, good-looking, but he is sensitive, silent in a crowed and under confident, only opening up to people whom he is close with. He used to be obese when he was a teenager, one of the reasons he says, he didn't have confidence and was quiet in school and even bullied and only opened up a little in college. His under confidence still carried on even after he transformed his body during college. He only shows his tough and aggressive side, when he is pushed to the limit of anger (he is actually hot-tempered), I heard from one of his long time college friends that he beat up a bully in class, after being annoyed over a small matter. He even beat up a drunken man who starting yelling at us, just recently when we were returning home from dinner. He could have just ignored as the guy was drunk and only take action if the guy got physical. But, If he's upset, to the point where he is stressed out, sometimes I feel like he treats me like I'm his mother, he'll cry on my shoulder. I love him and want to help him become stronger emotionally. I married him, because he truly treated me right and is the type of man for a true lifelong family relationship, but his sensitive nature is the only disadvantage, as I want him to be a strong man, to hold the fort. Any better ways from my part that I can do to help him?

Now he wants to relocate 3 children, one is 9 and going to local school for 5 years already, kids have local friends family school is good - daughter is working two partime bookkeeping jobs, her ex is going to school.....is there any way a judge would say they are better with him?

Situation: A guy I know is cheating on his wife. He has always done this whether it's sex/text/sexting. He always gets away with it. He makes the girls fall for him hard and bc of that they don't want to tell his wife. The ones that have confronted his wife, he makes them out to be crazy and just lies his way out. For a while he was doing good with not cheating but for the past two years its been nonstop. This year alone there has been 5 women and this 5th one right now is my main concern. She's actually an awesome girl and she's in love and uncomfortable with cheating but she doesn't know how to leave him bc she doesn't know his true colors. The wife is pregnant with their 3rd son and she knows there's unhappiness n wants to work on it) He won't leave her unless she says she wants to bc he doesnt want to pay child support and she is his comfort zone. He is leading the girl on just for thrill. 1. Anonymously, tell his wife with proof even tho she is pregnant and wants to work on the marriage. (she doesnt know hes cheating) 2. Anonymously, tell the girl what he is and leave it up to her to end the situation. Bc she has no idea that hes playing her for attention No more answers please. Yahoo doesnt leave enough room to explain everything to make sense

I got divorced in 2013 and I could not afford a lawyer at the time so I agreed to allow my ex's attorney to handle everything. BIG mistake. Would I be able to get my own attorney now and do a modification? We have 2 children together and I want to move closer to my job which is less than 50 miles away from the county I am living in now. What would be the steps I would have to take in order to be able to move?

I would say 16-21 is ideal for women and 17-24 for men. Everyone should be married by 25.

My husband keeps finding fake personal accounts I never made or used and he is ready for a divorce dont want to loose him to under false pretenses its not right and I want it stopped or help to prove its not my account that its fake s nd never been used by me.

How long into your relationship did you have sex? I keep hearing if you move too fast things will break

I've been married for 3 years and have a son who is an year and a half. My wife is morbidly obese (before and after the child), very moody and lies for even the smallest of things. I am not physically fit and perfect but I am conscious about my health and weight. She weighs about 25 KG more than me. We had issues in bed as well, because of her being so overweight. We both have rarely had satisfying intercourse. My lack of sex is making me watch more and more porn. I end my relieving myself either watching or in the shower. I feel horrible. I should be giving that love to my wife but I end up satisfying myself. Makes me feel like I dont love her anymore and I am selfish. I have tried talking to her over and over again but it ends up being an argument. she expects me to pacify her everytime she get ticked off by some stupid small thing and I am unable to do this everytime. It's overwhelming. I want to have good sex with her. Want to make her feel and understand how much I love and care for her. I dont want to sit and keep watching porn and stare at pretty looking girls fantasizing how good they would be at bed. It's not me, I dont want to be like that. I am ready to take pills just to keep an erection and have sex with my wife but doing that repeatedly, will that bring us close to each other? We want to have a better sex life but these complains and these issues put us off. I want to overlook them and still let her know that SHE IS WANTED by me. Looking for some advice.

Last evening, I came home and my wife was with her friends at the table, making small talk. She said, "Hey you." And I said, "Hey gorgeous." I went over, I put my hand on her shoulder, a little close to her breast, and bent down and kissed her neck. It was a kiss, but I also bit some of the skin with just my lips. And then, I lifted my head up like nothing happened and asked the others about how they were doing and what-not. My wife had a slight blush on her face. And I noticed that when I lifted my head up, one of her friends smiled just a bit, but the other one had a small smirk on her face. I was wondering if what I did was wrong. There's a very good reason why I do stuff like this, because I do it all the time. First off, I was really hesitant to get married. I had a knack for having no fear of going from girl to girl, and I had a reputation as a "player", but I abandoned that when I met my wife. My previous relationships taught me the power of suggestion. You have to plant ideas in the brain of your partner. I think a lot of couples go straight to a few minutes of foreplay and a few minutes of sex and that's it. I think it's important to let ideas grow. When I did that to my wife, what I was actually saying to her, in front of all her friends was, "Imagine where else I would have put my lips if all these people weren't here." And she would have thought about that until after they left. And, the second they left, we were all over each other, for hours. I don't want to get a bad reputation with her friends. I was just wondering if my behavior would be defined as "inappropriate". Sometimes, I might just make out with her for a few seconds. It's just how I am. I like to give her the impression that I can't control myself around her. Was what I did okay?

He isn't leaving but he says he doesn't want to be here half the time. He won't have another child because he says you don't know what will happen in the future. He has to control his feelings. We could have a great marriage if he would just let go and be happy.

So I met this amazing guy. We like each other a lot and we're planning for me to meet his parents. The problem is I'm not a mexican, I'm divorced, I have two kids and he is way younger than me. He loves me but I'm worried about his 45 year old mom and his 48 year old dad. I'm 40 and he is 27 this year. He's also the eldest in his family... And I really feel like I robbed the cradle. Should I hold off in meeting them?