Ever since I was little, I have had the same dream over and over again, but the dream is like a flashback of what happened. And ever since that bad thing happened, I've blamed myself for everything. I've been bullied all my life and everyone I love either leaves, dies or ends up hating me. Because of this, I find it hard trusting people which then leads to my "friends" falling out with me because every friendship needs trust. I try explain to them how I feel but they don't get it because they haven't been in my shoes. I suffer from severe depression and have been seeing a counsellor. i constantly ask my current friends If they hate me because all my other friends ended up hating me. Usually, my friends hurt me. And I can find it hard making new friends. I have social anxiety as well so it doesn't make things better. I want to tell my friend about my past but because I don't trust people easily, I'm finding it hard to find a way. How do you think I should tell them? Like in a quiet place? Face to face or over text?? I don't'the know which way is the simplest. Please help me xxxx

There was a group of us who were all best friends. I mean we were close not like these phony people. so 2 of my friends were together with another girl and went on a ride. The girl asked to pull the car over because something was wrong with the mud flap. when my friend got out to help the girl she started shooting her multiple times. The girl chased her and gunned her down. She then hopped back in the car and told my other friend he needed to take her to new york. Afterwards he came to my dead friends mom and told her what happened. now i'm just blown away. I'm so upset because i want to hate him and i can't. How do i cope with this? The trial is at the end of the month and I'm supposed to talk in court and i jus dontknow where to begin.

Hi I am starting my first year high school soon with none of my friends from middle school.i am wondering will there be people like me who are with no friends from ms ? And also I would like to sit with the cheerleaders and popular kids like before at middle school . How can I tell if there a cheerleader or popular the first day? Without asking and sounding wierd of course

Me and this guy named Tom were supposedly friends. We worked together on the same team at this finance company for the past year. We were having issues on the business side of things the past few months. Tom said I can't work with you anymore Ryan. I am still at the same company as Tom just recently moved to a new team. Tom took a vacation from work at the finance company right after telling me in a very brief phone call that we can't work together on the same team. He hasn't been in the office for 5 weeks. I called Tom to ask where we stand and if we are still friends or what. He wasn't answering my calls or text messages for the last few weeks that he was on vacation from work from the finance company. This is the first time that I have ever showed up somewhere unannounced. Anyways I showed up at his family restaurant unannounced and Tom says to me right when I pulled into the parking lot I feel like I am being harassed right now and I am borderline going to call the cops. Then I said to Tom while sitting in the car, that I just came to hash things out face to face. Tom said we can't work together than I said so are we not friends. Tom said if that's what you want me to say. Then I got out of the car and Tom said I don't have time to talk my family is yelling at me to go pick up supplies for the restaurant. I then told Tom that he never explained to me how things were going to be. Tom then apologized to me for not explaining things and calmed down. Update: Me and Tom spoke for like 30 minutes while standing in the parking lot. Tom said we just need to separate our teams from a business aspect. Tom asked me who would I liked to be work with in the company. Then Tom says I will find you a new team. The conversation took a pause and I stood their 1ft away from him and just stared at Tom in silence. Then Tom put his arms up motioning for me to go give him a hug. Tom then asked me if I would like a bottle of water. I said sure and he went into the restaurant and brought me out a cold bottle of water. Then Tom says I will still invite you out to family events like my birthday party, Christmas parties etc and then Tom said we will definitely go get dinner and a beer together just not right now at this very moment. Then Tom gave me a side hug and Tom said are we good? That happen at the very end of the 30 minute conversation in the parking lot. Tom claimed the reason we couldn't work together anymore was because he needed to see instant results on the team and I wasn't providing that so he wants me on another team. Tom claims it was nothing personal. Based of all this and what he did at the end could it be he wants to be friends but doesn't want to work together in business? To the Yahoo answers community :please help thank you all so much

Ok..... so... the first day of highschool is in 5 days, I've lost all my friends. I'm really awkward to talk to, I want friends but I'm so bad at talking to people and making friends. My first day of highschool is in 5 days I'm really scared I'm gonna get lost, made fun of, embarris myself, or get punched in the face. My stomach hurts literally when i start thinking about it.. any tips? (not going to a counselor or something lol...)

Si los amigos de mi novio me caen mal y asen cosas k no me gustan y el las ase tambien pero solo cuando esta con ellos yo no kiero que el siga andando con ellos que debo hacer ?

OK I just started this private school all and ride the bus too but reputation is excellent I'm a straight student never got in fights or anything and I get honor rolls too and plus I became very popular at my school So here's the problem me and friends started this job being class room helper's it was great at first but now I hate my F***** Job we are in this class were these two little B****** ones 8 ones 9 All they do is fabricate lies and snitch on us to their teacher and then worst they talk about us our job is to help with them with their class assignment's and everything most worst their Boy's and we almost lost our job because of them . but Sh*t gets even worse we now have GYM with both them there name's are Alex and Michael but Michael isn't his real Name is PATRICK Michael Butler both of them lied to my guy and told him me and my friend carol called him a asshole which was a bull face lie after they do their dirty work they want to befriend us do you think we should befriend them our jobs is too keep professional and do our duties which we always do . I'm a very sweet guy but I don't take no sh*t off nobody I would never work with younger kids again I can deal with high schoolers and middle schoolers better Comment among yourselves but Be nice about it✌ thanks Guys 😉😉😉

Lately I can't stop overthinking about my friendships.. I constantly feel they don't like me and there annoyed at me and they talk about me behind my back, but too my face there lovely? I don't know what to do or how to stop feeling this way.

I honestly want to tell him not to come back to the house. He is bothering me and saying rude comments before he leaves under his breath and the come over all the time. I am saving up to move away. What should I do?

My best friend in the whole wide world is always saying she's a better driver than me so ******* much that it gets annoying. I am a good driver. (Neither of us have ever driven a car, btw, and we aren't old enough to get our licenses. I live in a private community and I have a golf cart.) When I try to be, I really am a good driver. However, half of my community is made up of people who only summer here and live in the nearby city. I got into an accident today and it was very likely that both the other passenger and I would have been killed had we hit the post at the other angle. (We r both fine, and though my parents were mad, they are fine now and are going to get it fixed later this year.) I tell her this, and she doesn't say she's so sorry that happened and is so happy that, although I am heavily bruised, I am okay, she says how she's such a better driver and it never would have happened if she was driving. She always acts like she's better than me, and honestly, it's because she is overly cautious at some points, and then sometimes she'll just do really reckless turn arounds in the middle of the road but she thinks that proves skill. Honestly, she just acts like she is better than me. However, I can't not be friends with her because I had a big fight with this other girl and all my old friends hate me. I'm just very confused on how to get her to stop being so full of herself without pissing her off. BTW: The reason she thinks I am a bad driver is because I drive like a normal person instead of hugging the side of the road, that I don't go around the sewer gate things because that's not normal to do and you don't have to do it when you're not hugging the side of the road, and, because my neighborhood is extremely unpopulated, I'm not afraid to change the direction I'm going at intersections. It doesn't matter anymore tho, because we can't drive for the rest of the summer, and I doubt I'll be able to when it gets fixed. Still, she feels the need to state her superiority.

We used to be best friends. We were so much alike and I felt like they were the only important person to me. But we got in a fight. I thought we made up when we both apologized but they blocked me for no reason. They don't wanna talk to me. And I can't stop thinking about them. I've tried to get my mind off of them but I just can't. Should I visit a therapist?

I got my schedule for my sophomore year in high school a few days ago. I happen to only have a few friends, as I am a very shy person who doesn't talk much. Just so happens, that this year, I'm alone for every single period, even lunch. Any tips on how to make new friends and what to do at lunch? How should I become more confident?

He is willing to take an embarrassing picture to make up for what he did wrong. I need great ideas lol

My friend has been doing drugs for the past 2 years now and he says its alot of fun nd haps you get rid of troubles . He is my only guy friend that i can trust what should i do ?

Ok so....me and my ex friend Melody Had a fight a month ago. It was very petty but it was over my ex and how she talked to him everyday but barely texted me. She even made plans to hang with him and have him sleepover her house and stuff. I know what your thinking "teenage problems" but oh well. I know I'm wrong because we not friends over a boy but I think she is more wrong. Then my Best friend Hailey was over my house the other day and Melody was acting like Hailey was so wrong and was so "fake" for hanging with me. I really want to text Melody and say **** off you hypocritical ***** but nah. Melody also said she didn't like my ex but when I told his ex friend that she denied it. I was a little instigator. Haha. But just tell me what you think of the petty situation. You can say bad things about what I did too. (Even though I barely did anything just cut Melody off for doing me wrong.) anddd btw she didn't think she did anything wrong. And i'm kinda scared because I think Hailey will rethink our friendship because Melody is being such a ***** to her because Hailey is best friends with me. And my other "best friend" somehow turned on me because Melody said something to her about me.

When I heard that Bobbi Kristina Brown died two weekends ago, I started crying. It was so weird. I was basically crying because she seemed like a nice person, and I'll never get to meet her. Also because she was only 22 and didn't get to really have a life. I'm not that much younger than her either, (I'm 19) and it just made me sad. I'm just wondering if it was normal for me to cry or am I just too sensitive? I'm always finding myself crying over people I never met or wasn't that close to. I just get really sad that they died.

me and my friend have had difficulties in our lives for some of the same reasons . He got into drugs and once told me that i should do so as well . Should i or should i not ?

I have two friends I'll call them m and s m is always together and never left out but either s will invite her somewhere and they post photos of them it makes me feel left out and bad should I be friends with them

I have always been a very shy person and I don't have many friends. Can you please give me some suggestions or tips on how to talk to people and make friends? I feel really isolated and embarrassed because I really struggle with making friends. School starts soon and I really want this year to be different. Thank you

Me and my friend are like brothers and have been friends for 9 years. I'm 17 and his sister is 15. I don't know why but I just started liking her about three years ago and I can't get over her. Please help!!

Just recently, I got into a fight with a girl. I'm not a fighter and I was taught to be a lady & not fight. I was set up and the girl started hitting me so obviously—I defended myself. I lost.. and I was really humiliated. I was caught offcaurd and just not ready at all. Now, the girl wants to fight me again for a 'better video'. I keep telling her no, that we faught.. and now its over. I'm currently in enrichment classes; and fighting in school is not an option. She said if I dont fight her again she will fight me when school starts and get me kicked out of my higher level classes. I have no idea what to do. There is no way of getting out of it. Its so severe to the point where I feel like ending my life is the only option to get away from it. Shes harrassing me and I dont understand why she cant leave me Lone. Please help, bc I'm so close to ending my life

I want to make friends with people in my classes and dorm room.

I met a girl a few months back at my work place. She often goes there for food and I just so happen to like her. She's cute. Anyway, every time she comes around we always say hi. I think she's interested because she always has that smile on her face, and she always looks at me. Yesterday, I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she quickly said sure and I gave her my number. She said she was going to text me but she still hasn't. I don't even have her number to text her. Is she not that interested?

Okay, so it is summer and I usually hang out with my girl best friend Chloe. But she s at her dads house for the rest of the summer. (BTW I m 13) My parents don t let me have friends come over nor can I go to their houses. So I m very bored so I want to go outside sometimes. I have 2 brothers so can t really talk to someone except my mom. But my parents won t let me go outside since they re only 4 boys in the neighborhood. My parents say "oh you really don t wanna hang out with boys", then just change the subject. I mean I ve even knew one of them for almost 10 years, 2 are my brothers and one just moved here. I know nothing will happen because my brothers are very protective of me. So I really don t know what to do. My parents let my brothers text and hang out with all the girls they want, but I can't even go outside? I just look on social media and see everyone from school just doing stuff like going on vacations and having sleepovers like all summer, and I've ask over and over if friends can come over and they say no. I dont even bother to ask why they won't let me. I had a Chloe over about a few months ago and that was the first time I've EVER had a friend over and she's only come over about 7 times after that. I mean I've been to birthday parties but if it's a sleep over I have to leave early. I don't know what to do cause I just want to be happy sometimes and I love having friends of both genders. I really don't want to date right now either so I don't know what to do.

We're both 14 year old girls and lately she's drifted into the wrong crowd of people. Boys in "gangs" she acts as if she's such a 'badass' by saying she drinks and smokes and was an alcoholic when she isn't. She talks to boys older than her for attention, and she disobeys her parents which causes her to get her phone taken away 10000 times a week. Of course I always try to help her, and I do say I'm good at advice for my age but it's as if everything I say goes over her head. She'll listen for the moment and then it'll seem like she forgets. She'll preach to me about how she doesn't deserve to be treated bad by potential lovers and stuff knowing how she acts attracts these low life boys.. The way she acts really irritates me but noting how she's my best-friend I don't want her to walk around looking stupid but it seems like my help doesn't work. What do I do?!

So I was in a group with some people and I became close friends with a girl and her brother. We all got along really well and I kinda had a crush on the guy. That group ended in March and we talked about all of us meeting sometime but I got super busy with school, getting a job, family issues, and I never called them. Now it s August and I feel really horrible about not calling them and I ve meant to call them a billion times but I have a lot of phone anxiety and I get really anxious every time I try to call. Any advice on what I should say? Plus I have no clue when the best time to call would be... I m thinking they may not even want to see me anymore :/ I d really appreciate any help! Thank you :)

If you met a girl very hot like megan fox looks and she had banged your cousin before she started dating you would you still date her???? say she's a good girl and likes to please you =) and takes care of you not no bs women. Like she's legit.

one of my friends who i talk to pretty often made a new facebook account about a month ago because her old one was hacked. She added everyone she had on her old friend list besides me, she even added people she wants nothing to do with and people shes never even talked to. But not me.. i know she knows i have an account because i had her on the old one and i never changed my username. she finds people to add by scrolling through other lists so i know shes seen my account im just confused as to why she hasnt added me? i dont want to add her first because not in a bad way but she told me she always has these wierd rules and guidelines in her head that she goes by. While most other friends just add each other reguardless. Thats why i think theres something up and i dont want to make it awkward. Should i take this personally? And should i do anything about this? i know this sounds petty and silly but im just not sure

We are both 17 and she is very good looking. I've always realized how pretty she is but I was never jealous of it until recently. She and her bf just broke up and a bunch of my male friends suddenly started telling me how attractive they think she and asking me if they should ask her out. I was venting to my bf and I said something along the lines of "why do they all like her anyways?" and he said " because she's pretty". That made me feel really bad about myself even though I know my bf loves me and doesn't like her that way. Is there a way to deal with this jealousy so it doesn't hurt our friendship?

Whenever Im upset or I have a problem he just changes the subject or looks at his phone and he does not comfort me or anything.Yesterday I went to eat with this girl I loved and he was supposed to come but he said he could not come at the last minute and I was too shy to talk to her and it turned out to be a disaster so I messaged him about it and he saw the message but did not say anything.Its like he does not care about me.

People make fun of me because I'm 'easy to pick on' I allow it and laugh but as soon I stick up for myself they say I'm too serious and can't take a joke. It's really frustrating and leaves me helpless because I'm labelled either way

Recently I just move from a school which is situated in a area of high crime rate to a rich poshy school in the city. I have made friend with people at this school and the group I hang with are seem to be the most popular kid in the school. The case here is that my friend are calling me a pussy because I won't go out at night with them or drink or smoke, this is because I just turn myself around, before this in my old school I am a drug addict who party all the time and love to start a fight, people in my old school area hated me because of my attitude and my personality. Since I move to my new school I just focus on learning and strive for the great of my future but the only thing that really bother me is that my friend are calling me pussy because I don't go out nor wanting to start a fight. I told them already that I don't want no more problem because I have experience a lot in my old school from being beat up by 6 people to getting suspend, since I told them this they still think I am a pussy still, I told them that none of them would even last 5 minutes back in the area that my old school is situated but all they did is laugh at me. Is it because they never experience any of this and they are judging me

Every morning my friend's mom drove me to school and she told my friend that she loved her every time we left the car. I was just really confused to why she said it everyday. Growing up, my parents weren't the hugging kind or the type to tell me that they love me. Don't get me wrong, I know that they love me but they really aren't the affectionate kind of people.

Ok, get this, our group of Bros are doing a bowling tournament to determine the draft order of our fantasy football league. All the Bros were on board to do. The accused Bro of the bro code violation said he was on board a week prior. It has now came to the day before bowling and he said he had to cancel with us because he wanted to be with his gf. It is clear that he violated the golden rule of Bros before Hoes, how should I handle it.

I owed my friend £15, I owed her this as she paid for me to enter a race, a race that she said we would both do together and motivate each other. Another one of our friend was doing it too. The race day came and within 5 minutes it felt like she ditched me, as they both ran off whilst I was walking. I then said to her a few weeks later I'm not paying you back because she forced me to do it when I really didn't want to and said to her I would prefer not as I don't have the money, I am also a Muslim and missed a day of fasting during Ramadan which I am partly to blame and I felt like I wasn't part of a team. I understand that if my friend had done this and didn't pay me back I would be upset. However I do not work or have money of my own, she works and she does work hard but works 5 day's a week at £7.72 rate, a mere £15 would not bother me if I was working what she was. But she would rather lose our friendship over £15. I feel like I should of paid it back, but I didn't have the money and it wasn't worth it, and I could've done something else with that, whist that £15 would of sat in her bank.

I donT even have a darn camera or a a phone other than my LAND LINE,I'm desperately trying to come up with some money, I's needed for my dear friend he needs a lotion to help his skin cancer from spreading and going deeper, his brother died from this...tthis lotion costs almost 300.00 dollars and his medical won't pay.so sorry to bother anyone with this , i['ll figure out something.... thank you,sincerely JoAnn M. Johnsonhis name is Jeff B Comiskeywe live in Anoka, mn 55433thanks for letting me vent!!!!

Okay so a but about myself I am 18 years old and I have aspergers syndrome. as you can imagine it's hard to make/keep friends. My best friend well she is the only one who truly understands me and loves me for who I am. However I have been having a problem I tend to say/do things that hurt others even though I don't intend them too. with my friend I have a problem with self obsession I am very self conscious and do not like myself. Due to these short comings I tend to lie/and be in grumpy moods so much so that I tend to lash out and when my friend is around she always leaves feeling used and upset. I love her and well I don't want to lose her out of my life is there anyone else out there who has gone through this who might have some advice?

Let's get this straight . My friend is a really good friend but very annoying at times . Today , he was very annoying and he was just repeating what i say and he was making fun of me . Obviously as a joke . But i really didin't take it as a joke. So i tried to hack his email account . After a good hour of trying his favorite foods / drinks , i managed to break the password and get into the account . At this point , i went a little bit too far . I changed his password on steam , league of legends , origin then i logged out . After a hour , he called me on skype and he was telling me "Dude someone hacked my email" . I started acting like i didin't know anything about it . So i was faking a reaction . Now he ended the call and i feel really bad for him . What can i do to feel better? Please serious answers Thank you I resetted all the passwords . But there's still a problem . He locked his account on steam and now he doesn't know how to unblock it . He also had 500$ worth of games... Alright guys he managed to get his account back . Yep Thank you for all the answers

So we always make plans but they cancel last minute.2 weeks ago we were supposed to go to starbucks but one of them canceled but the other agreed to go but she totally stood me up and never showed up.Then me and my friend planned to go see Paper Towns but she canceled the first time and then we planned to go and see it the next week but she cancelled yet again so today me and my other friends were gonna go see another movie but she made the lamest excuse and said the weathers bad which is so untrue its just cloudy and its not like we were gonna walk to see it I could've drove both of us there and she cancelled.I've spent most of my summer doing stuff by myself cause everyone is cancelling and school's about to start and I just don't want this summer to go by wasted.I so just wanna get out of here and move somewhere far away and start a new school and get new friends.So why do my friends always cancel on me?

I had severe depressio a year ago after that i feel what others go through my friend was crying and i started crying... Suppose im reading sad things.... I feel sad i dont know if its called an empath ...or epathy ...but someone told me souls connect if one is crying tje other too ... I feel like its true but at the same time im skeptical because shayateen wraps us all around and i dont want to currupt my faith in allah... So i need help what this thing is ... It hurts alot...

I m 15 and a sophomore in highschool. Military parents

She's a terrible listener, if you talk to her she just cuts you off and takes over the topic if it reminds her of something. She is a jealous person and she calls other people jealous and stuff, when really she's just insecure. (I'm not saying she's ugly, I think she's pretty.) She brags soooo much and goes on and on and you just don't know how to reply to that, added to that she lies as well and a lot. For example: Talking about her dad being a doctor and it's amazing and all that and everyone treats her amazingly at the hospital for it, she overly exaggerates everything and is very inconsiderate. The reason it's a problem is I have to spend a lot of time with her and it's just pissing me off. I'm always nice and listen to her thoroughly and she just does not do the same. Her attention span is down the drain. How do I deal with this? Please serious answers only.

My family and friends don't really talk to me anymore I feel lost and alone I'm really worried about my future.

Some backstory~ I used to have a friend, who we'll call Opal. Opal and I were very close, even considering ourselves best friends at one point. We went on lots of shopping trips, one of them being to Goodwill, where we playfully argued over some 5 dollar white converse shoes. I had brought money, and she didn't, so i ended up buying the shoes. Skip forward a year, Opal and i got in a big fight, and ended the friendship. But over the course of 6 months to now, we are on much better terms. Even speaking to each other occasionally. Now i thought, as a peace offering, i could have a mutual friend give Opal the shoes. Should I do it? Or should I keep them as a reminder of all the times we had?

How to I take good pics with my phone people ask me all the time why I don't upload more pics on social sites.. every time in out especially when I'm hanging out with friends or at school I get loaads of compliments. When I look in the mirror I look so good but on my phone noooope

I am 19 years old going into community college to finishing my accounting certificate but decide to do a different career that is Information Technology. As a person I am very introverted. I would not go outside of my house or anywhere this summer besides school because of people. People would stare at me and makes me having social anxiety. I just feel uncomfortable with myself and not confident. I got no friends rarely only some i know but haven't got much contact . I tried applying to jobs and i got interviews but was not successful with them. So college is pretty much my last option on getting a job. I want to travel and do something this summer but i have no car, no money, and my social anxiety is keeping me back. What do i do?

I'm awkward because I was extremely sheltered and over protected as a kid. I want to be an outgoing social butterfly! I actually got a customer service job at a grocery store to try to come out of my shell more. It's not helping. :( Is it because it's a small grocery store? Would a different job like waitress be better? How can I be a talkative outgoing person!?

In my reasonably sized friend group, everyone always has something good to say about me. They always compliment me, they laugh at my jokes and always want to do stuff with me. I'm the guy that has to pick certain days of his week to spend with each friend just to keep them all happy. But honestly... it sucks. I hate being the most sought out friend. What little free time I get, people get offended, acting like I'm personally avoiding them. When I choose to hang out with someone expecting to have a good time, they're often the one being entertained by me. Hell if I'm not entertaining them, I'm stuck listening to their problems and giving them advice. I guess what I'm trying to say here is, it's exhausting. I don't get to just sit back and relax with friends and laugh at their jokes or complain about my issues, it's always the opposite. I don't even know if this is a legitimate complaint. But, does anyone else ever feel this way? Like... over depended on by those surrounding them?

I recently joined facebook and I noticed a lot of my friends there have pictures of them which are not selfies, hell, they're not even looking at the camera. A lot of pretty and spontaneous pictures, while mine are either selfies or a lot of people posing for a picture one of our friends takes. Should I ask my friends to take pictures of me without telling me or something? Man, this is embarassing...

If I play a game that I really like and there is a lot of good recommendations and ask her to try it she will straight up say no. If I ask why she just goes "I can tell I wouldn't like it, it looks stupid." It really wouldn't bug me if it was just one or two movies/game/etc. that she said this to but she says it all the time. It is so annoying.. it has literally driven me to the point where sometimes I will stop talking to her for a while.Is there anyway I can get her to try somethings?

so i just moved to a new city and will be going to a new school on the 24th and have a few questions. 1) how quickly do you make new friends? 2) where do you sit on the bus the first day when you don't know anyone? 3)whats the quickest way to make friends? 4)will people be judgmental of he new kid?

I met this girl at work driving buses. Whenever she passes me going the other way she waves, usually she sees me first. Few weeks ago she was parked at a bus stop and I was coming towards her and as I checked my right mirror I noticed her waving at me, but in a slow way with a soft look at me. Also on that day when overtaking my bus she looked back and waved at me. A couple of weeks ago we met at the bus terminal on the way to the toilet and she said "hi how are you" and asked me how my disciplinary meeting went and when would I be getting transferred to her depot. She would then talk about her getting into trouble for speeding by management. We were talking for about 5 mins. She said she was running late and needed to use the toilet and had better go. I left to go outside and she then came out after using the toilet and on passing me to get into her bus said she had bad hay fever, again as if initiating something So few days ago she was coming towards me on her bus and she pushed her hair up but acted like she didn't see me and ignored me. So yesterday we both pulled up at bus stops on other side of the road from each other and she looked behind over her shoulder at me and waved. I looked at her but ignored her. So she waved again and again I kept looking but ignored her. She then looked puzzled and waved again and I smile laughed because she kept trying and she then had a little smile and drove off

Ok theres this guy in hs and hes popular hes fun and outgoing hes loud and hes seems to always challenge me like when we were in the lunch line hes was all like bro i bet i can eat all these plates Hes always goes to the gym and i see him He dresses with snapbacks and pop fashion Im quiet dont have many friends i go to the gym im into martial arts and i play basketball and football sometimes but yeah im attracted to fun things only i like partying with indie kids and underground music i choose alternative fashion Were complete opposites but were kinda into the same things should i

We met in 6th grade she's was shy and sweet we became best friends.Then I got to know who she really was,she was all over the place and really bad.But i said i'm not going to stop being her friend because of that.We sleepover at each other's house and things like that.Then 8th grade came and she was wayyy out of hand.Every time I turned around she was with a boy making out in the corner and things. She told that this boy fingered her in 7th grade but didn't want to tell me because she knew I would of been like oh my god you need to be careful blah blah blah.She also told about her experimented things.Once she came to my house and my cousin was there he's the same age as us.He's a girl magnet and i told him to stay away from her.So I went outside for a moment,came back,and they were freaking shoving their tongue's down each other's throat.She did it again when he left and I told her to leave I was really mad at her and him. So like an hour ago she she lost her virginity and it was amazing and said I should try it one day.This girl has gone crazy she's only 14 doing all of this.Her mom doesn't have time for anything because of her job and her dad isn't home often and her older brother who is 20 something doesn't care about what she does. How can I help her since nobody is?

Is it weird that I'm actually dreading my 21st birthday? Like everyone else is so excited for it, but I can't help but feel like I'm getting old and I'm not mature enough for my age. I can't help but feel like I can't be goofy with my friends anymore or do the same stuff (movie nights, beach days) because so many of the people around me my age are all trying to act so grown up and getting engaged and pregnant and what not. Like I feel like my days of just being able to do silly stuff and just have fun with friends is over and it's time to start acting more mature. And it's not like I don't handle my responsibilities( I work and go to school and play sports), but I just can't help but feel guilty or immature when I want to just be goofy and have fun with my friends like I have been in previous years. Basically everything I do makes me feel guilty because I feel like I should be acting more mature