So here's a little story . I'm a 14 year old boy and i lived with my mom all these 14 years . I didin't thought anything will happen till now . Like as usual , i came back from school , changed my clothes , did my homework and i started playing some games on my computer . Then my mom came home and she told me that she found a boyfriend . I then felt a strange feeling in my stomach . They've been going out for 1 year now . And here comes the part that i don't like . My mom got pregnant , born the baby and grew him . And now i don't get any attention from any of my family members . They all just look at the baby and talk about how "cute" it is . I don't like babies , you can blame me for that . I tried everything to get attention . And when i get attention , guess what ? My parents make jokes about me . Like how should i treat my little brother and stuff . I feel like moving out of my house . I just can't support this anymore . All these "cute laughs" and these "cute screams" i just can't take anymore . I plan on moving to my grandparents . They are very nice to me and accept me as long as i want in the house . But the part is my parents don't even let me go in their house . What do i need to do to get rid of this ******* feeling . It's been haunting me since the baby was born Please don't make me a horrible person or anything . I just want some advice . Thank you .

I feel inferior to everyone in my life. I believe that my friends are better than me, they talk, they socialize, unlike me. I am jealous of my own mother and I'm ashamed to admit that. She's just such a wonderful person, the one in a million kind of person. I'm jealous of her personality and character. I feel insecure about everything. I've never been good enough for my mother, my affection wasn't enough, she needed a man beside her, I wasn't good enough for my father, I wish he would just care. He talks to me like I'm just another person, not his god damn daughter. Daughter is just a formality. I don't even know him anymore, I guess I never did. I am jealous of other people's parents, that they're together. I am jealous of my step sister, I've always felt like she's better than me at everything. I love my brother dearly, but I wish he would just stop being so manipulative and money meaning everything to him. I am jealous of everyone.

My dad is almost 80 and still working full time. My parents helped me through college and supported me all throughout but are still in debt mostly because of it. He has always been generous and selfless and very loving. I'm 22 and just graduated college with a good full time job. I'm currently making a little more than my dad. My dad is not asking for help, although he would appreciate it. The rest of my family, however, is asking me to help and sees my job as the answer to my dad retiring. I have been wanting to move out for a couple years now. My parents are a bit controlling and I really would like some independence. I have a boyfriend who I love very much and he loves me, but we live 25 miles apart and it is hard to see each other without one of us doing a lot of driving and criticism from my parents. This has been hard on our relationship and me moving out would really help us out, which has already been postponed multiple times due to my family. My mom doesn't like him which is another strain on our relationship. She'd be very disappointed if I didn't stay and help. She'd see it as my boyfriend being more important than my dad, and said she would have a hard time forgiving us for that. I'd like to help. I know moving out would help out since they're supporting me anymore, but my family doesn't see that as enough since I'm making so much. I'd be so sad if I ended up losing my boyfriend because I stayed, but I'd be sad if my family was disappointed in me for leaving.

You know, as an uncle, to want to make sure she's safe, she has the best in life, she has everything she wants/needs, & make sure she's happy etc. Also, is it normal to not want niece to grow up?

Both me and my mom want to move but my sister doesn't. My sister stays with my grandma and never sees my mom but my mom says she won't leave without her. I really hate living where I live and desperately want to move. I want to talk to my mom about moving again but I don't know what to say.

My ******* uncle. I live with my grandma and I pay half the bills. He recently left his wife. I paid for his train ticket to get here, under the terms he would stay with his girlfriend like he said. Today my grandma calls me and says for me to get ready to get his stuff out the trunk. No way in hell is that happening. She did this without even asking me!! She says she'll sleep in my room. There is only 1 bed, and no way am I sleeping on the floor. How do I handle this? I'm done with her family members!! I'm super angry right now, can't think straight. Too many times I've been screwed over by her family members, and I've had ******* enough.

My sister threw this toy and it hit my brother, he started bleeding from his forehead, but my mom cleaned the blood and put a bandage on the mark. But he still occasionally yells in pain like every five minutes. Is he okay?

My sister is part of the Quiverful Movement within Christianity (what the Duggar family is part of.) A few months ago, we stopped talking to each other. I had been given them money for awhile, but then she told me she thought I was a negative influence on her children. So I cut her off. I don't like being told that I am not good enough, but money is. But we have tried talking again, but now she keeps, IMO, making fun of me. She got one of her daughters a little vacuum that sings the alphabet or something when you push it and both her and husband told my niece that it was a present I don't want her to have. I never said that. I don't have anything against vacuum cleaners. And she keeps texting me cartoon strips that make fun of single or independent women. I don't want to stop talking to her again, but I don't know what else to do. I tried talking to her, but she just tells me I'm overacting to jokes. She hasn't asked me for money (yet) but it's hard to be around her when I feel like she's constantly making fun of me

Ok Idk what happen but me and my sister were drinking than we both Woke up in the same bed naked we didn't freak out we just look at each other and did it again and I like it she wants to do it again and so do I is that wrong or normal

I am 13 years old, and my boyfriend is 16. Yes we have an age gap. :/ When we do have the baby, I will be 14 and he's going to be 17. We both live in Florida. He lives about a block away from me. He's over everyday, & almost every day we stress about how we're going to tell my family. I have 4 brothers, I think they would actually get over it eventually. My dad is somewhat strict & already get's mad over little things, but I know this is a big thing and I'm scared on how we'll take it. My mom is very understanding, and I want to go to her first but I don't know how. My friend died back in March, I've been very down about that because he committed suicide in such a tragic way and killed his 6 year old brother too. I've wanted to end my life, but I feel like this baby is saving my life. And that the baby is being put in my life for a reason. My boyfriend tells me everyday he doesn't want to be a deadbeat dad and wants to stay in mine and the kids life. We've made sooo many promises. I trust him. Hes going to get a job, and I have a 30 dollar allowance every week, (going strait to the baby.) and I have money saved up on my own card. My family is huge and I always do have baby sitters to go to. (Brothers all have girlfriends, my cousins, aunts.) I need some advice, I am over thinking so much. :(

I'm 21, female in college and I have depression. My brother is 17 and the complete opposite of me. I spent my highschool years as the outcast, didn't go to prom and started taking antidepressants. My brother is in ROTC has millions of medals and a girlfriend and everything I don't. My parents won't admit him being better than me but he is. A major fight we get in now is about driving. I didnt get my license til I was 21. My brother got his at 16. I got in hundreds of fights with my family who refused to let me drive alone yet my brother is allowed to without question. He even refused to give me the keys, hiding them from me when I'm home which is why I try to stay at college. Recently my grandma has been placed in the hospital and my grandpa needed someone to drive him home because he's in a lot of hip pain. I offered to do it and he agreed in front of everyone only to refuse to let me drive claiming he'd let me take over if his pain got unbearable. Its embrassing and humiliating, my family thinks better of my brother than me. I can't get mad because they remind me of my depression every chance they get, though the main thing they want me to do is let things go. I don't know what to do anymore and I become angry every time my brother talks down to me and refuses to let me drive a car thats not even his.

My dad was always a workaholic, still is. When I was a little girl, my parents were divorced. Well, my dad supported me financially, anything I needed, I got. Unfortunately, he was so consumed with work, he forgot that I also needed my dad on an emotional level then just financial. Well, now I'm in my twenties and we have more of a father/daughter relationship but he won't let go of what happened in the past. Whenever I wish him a Happy Father's day or get him a card he says, "I don't deserve that. I wasn't there for you like I should have when you were little." I have let that go years ago. Especially since he has been more involved ever since I told him how I felt when I was fifteen. How can I help him let go of his guilt? Is there anything I can do?

So this morning my Mom woke me up and told me that her and the rest of my family were about to leave. I was still a bit tired, and I m nearsighted, and she had a floral dress on, but I didn t notice at first. It all just kind of blended together and looked like a solid color. Anyways she told me that I had 2 min to get ready, s I was running around to get ready and I just threw on a dress. When I got out the door and in the car she got pissed off and said I was wearing the same dress. If you look at our dresses, they are the exact same cut but completely different floral patterns. However, because I know how she is I offered to go back inside and change my dress. My Dad just pulled out of the driveway and started driving. Now my Mom keeps glaring at me and she said she s going to do it all day and that I took something from her today, and I ruined her day. I m just so annoyed. I offered to fix the problem even though I don t even think it s a big deal, and she s being extremely rude.

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and we're both in our senior years in high school. She doesn't have a very good life at home and neither do i, so we spend alot of time together because it makes everything else easier. Her father is in the military and recently moved to arizona for a new job, and she wants to go to college out in Arizona and I know that it would be better for her and I both to get away from things for a while. My dad is constantly making me feel guilty about how much things cost (Ex. I tore my acl and need therapy to learn how to play sports again, my knee isn't 100 percent and he doesn't want to keep paying even though money isn't a problem, and if I want to continue I need to pay 1000 a month for my pt myself) I feel like I can't ask him for anything without him making me feel guilty about a price. Is there anything I can do to make paying easier? Is there any other options? I can't take it at my home for much longer and I definitely cannot be without my girlfriend, we have a strong relationship. What do I do?

I'm 13 and I hate my life. It's a pretty long story so here it is. When I was 2 my mom and dad got divorced and my dad moved out and I stayed with my mom. Within the year my dad met another girl and married her and I despised her. She hated me and she still does. Thy had two kids, a boy and a girl who I love with all my heart. They are my half brother and sisters. I used to go to my dads every other weekend but my stepmother was cruel to me. She would call me names and such. So I just stopped going. I miss my dad and my brother and my sister so much and I haven't seen them since January. I still text my dad but I really miss him. In 2013 my mom moved us to Maryland and I loved it their but in 9 months she moved us back to where we were. I never wanted to leave the amazing friends and school I had behind but she made me because it was all so she could date this guy who I extremely disliked. We built an apartment on my grandparents property and that's where we live currently. My mom is always yelling at me and calling me names and smacking me and at the same time my grandfather hates me. He does the same except he doesn't smack me. I've considered suicide multiple times. I have really bad anxiety at school and at home. My mom accuses me of losing things and makes me search all night and won't let me sleep... Even on school nights. I want to get out but there's nowhere to go. My mom calls me a retard and a psycho and so does my grandfather. They call me fat and lazy. Plz help

I'm holiday , and she just gets bad moodswings , like slamming doors having hissy fits telling me to piss off , having a go at me when I try to help , saying she hates my brother. I'm just scared that she will kill me , sometimes I think it's because she has had too much to drink or is tired but no tonight and I have to share a bed with her. I have no dad around as my parents are divorced. I'm very frightened I think she might loose the plot and kill me in the night. She only like this on holiday not at home

My mother's boyfriend is growing weed on the back deck. She condones it, and despite what me, my dad, and law officers have told her, she refuses to believe she's wrong. Dad has taken me until I feel safe, as mom confronted me about talking to dad about it. Is there any way I can convince her that she is wrong? I know I've been asking lots of questions, but this is what my account is for, so it can happen a lot.

My mother lives in my bedroom with me, and recently she's been doing some really shitty things like kicking me out of my own room on Sunday nights because we 'made a deal' (not important atm). That means I have to sleep on the floor in the living room. My father's room connects to the living room, and due to my insomnia and the fact that we're on summer break, I don't sleep much at night. Because of this, he screams at my sister and I to clean our rooms/move back into our rooms- but I'm fed up with my mother being in there. Every time I bring up her maybe moving into my sister's room while my sister's away at JobCorps for the year, she gets pissy and acts like I said I hate her and I want her dead. She literally says to me after the fact 'its like you dont want me here' and has often stated that she has considered leaving us with our father, which would be one of the worst things to do considering he's an alcoholic. I'm tired of the bright lights of her laptop and cooler, and the fact that she smokes in my room without an ashtray or opening a window. I'm sick of hearing her in the middle of the night when I'm trying to sleep. I just want her to move out of my bedroom, I'm fifteen and living in the same room as my mother is embarrassing and very inconvenient when I want to have friends over. How do I ask her to move out of my room without giving her the idea that I want her to go to hell or some ****?

my boyfriend moved in he lived with us for five months he was seeking employment and finally making progress when I had a go at him one day for falling asleep on the sofa in the middle of the day (he does have type 1 diabetes) I had had a terrible day and seeing my washing soaking wet on the line outside made me furious as he had been out for cigarettes but hadn't brought it in! He then said that my eldest who had recently finished her GCSEs could of gotten out of bed to bring it in too! He'd been for an interview then came home and fell asleep , I stuck up for my daughter then he started speaking loudly that he'd had enough of both of my girls lazy behaviour and hated their rudeness towards me and expected me to give into their demands all the time he said they rule this house not you ! By which time my 14 yr old (who has ADHD) came down stairs to defend her sister and her self screaming at him saying nasty observations she'd made of his behaviour I felt unable to side with either of them as they both were right and my boyfriend walked towards her to get her to her room as he wanted her to calm down ( she felt he chased her up the stairs to her room ) where her sister intervened and asked him to leave her alone and get away from her I was stilled stunned into silence not knowing which way to turn down stairs, he continued arguing with my eldest then he finally came down stairs in a state hoping mad , my girls meanwhile crying upstairs of course I went up to support them and then drove him to the train station , we are seeing each other but not living together now I just wish they could all make up but none of them will plus my mum and brother hate him now 😕 I only see him when my girls go to their dads once a fortnight now , my question is I feel depressed with everyone hating him it hurts me deeply i want a future with this man but am worried my family won't forgive and forget he says things about them that I don't like to hear as well .

if he died tomorrow i wouldnt care. He has let me down so many times, he cannot be trusted, i just genuinely cannot stand him at all. If my parents died i honestly would never talk to him ever again. My parents can tolerate his behaviour but i dont care if someone is causing me problems i cut them off idc how close they are to me. I am a nice person and i do no deserve to be treated like a fool. If i was my dad i would have kicked him out a long time ago. hes like in his mid twenties too and i am like 20 still at uni. I wish i was the gandhi type to just forgive but i do not tolerate these things you know

We are both in our late teens and his sister just turned 20 but it is really easy for both of us to see that their parents treat her better than him. It's hard to watch them always putting him down and asking him to do things when she is sitting on the couch on her phone and he is actually doing homework or something of importance. I don't know what to do and it really isn't any of my business but it kills me to see him upset all of the time because of this. She really is a spoiled brat and I have been with him before she was of "legal" age (18) so the age has nothing to do with it. Is there advice I can tell him or just something I can say to him that will make him feel good about himself? Is there any advice I can give him to talk to his parents about this if he wanted to? I always say that things will get better when we get out of college and move in together it just kills me to see him like this and I also don't want him to hate his family which he is starting to do.

I saw my sister push her daughter today. Her daughter bumped into her and my sister pushed her. I'm worried and I think she might even be doing more to her. Is it legal?

My daughters husband recently fell ill and passed away and i came over to find her crying. I explained to her that he was just a man and that a man is similar to a work horse. When one dies it is ok to be upset but in the end you just get a replacement. I explained that this is how it was when her father passed away. She became hostile and told me to leave and never return, telling me that I was the cause of every marital and dating problem she has ever had. I just want her to keep things in perspective, what do I do?

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he was a cheater (at least 3 times!) and verbal abuser. Anyway, I saw him recently at a party and he cornered me in a hallway. He started getting agitated and then said we "had to get back together." I said "no" and started to walk away when he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls with my pointed cowgirl boots! After I rocked his babymakers, he fell down and puked while I stood over him and asked him if he could taste his nuts. His face was priceless! I guess I nailed him so hard his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad about what happened but he is now saying he never mess with a girl again and he even wears an athletic cup all the time to protect his remaining family jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" since I sent his nuts to "nut heaven." Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power over male weakness (guy's nuts are so vulnerable and they need the extra protection). Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? The nuts? The cup? Both? The more names and ideas the better! Be creative! Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over.

So my brother just got married, is his wife the only one who counts as a sister-in-law, or do her brother and sister count as my in-laws too?

He thinks that because I'm 13 I can't be stressed, which isnt true. And he always has to be right and he argues over pointless things and is the most annoying person anyone will ever meet. I can't wait to turn 18 and get out of his house. My parents are divorced but my mom lives in a different state and I don't want to leave the few friends that I have. Do you guys think It's "impossible" for me to be stressed just because of my age?

I have a younger sister who is 8 years old and she has been acting really weird recently, she has been sneaking into my room while I'm sleeping (even if i lock it she unlocks it with a paperclip) and she goes through my stuff and reads my diary and goes through my drawers and stuff like that. She also says really rude and nasty stuff and then tells me not to tell her dad (she is my step sister.) Also recently a couple times I have knocked on her door and walked in her room and she quickly hides her IPad and I ask her what she was doing and she always says she is watching a show. Recently I saw her watching a video of two celebrities making out and right as I made a coughing sound she hid her IPad again, I know I shouldn't go through her IPad because it would be invading her privacy but she is acting really weird and she is only 8.

Okay, so to start off my cousin is almost 50 years old. He's tried to touch my boobs before and I wouldn't let him and I believe he's tried to molest me. Let me remind you that I'm only 12, and this isn't a troll, because I tried to say this before, but someone said I was a troll and no one believed me. Well anyway, today I woke up and my cousin likes to "joke" with me. So he said while I was sleep he came in and took pictures of me, and remember how I said he tries to touch me inappropriately? I think he may be taking pictures of my private parts. And I wouldn't know it cause I'm a heavy sleeper. Anyways, I asked him can I go through his gallery, and he was kinda iffy on doing it. He finally let me, and there weren't any pictures of me, but he might of deleted them. I'm scared to go to sleep now cause he might touch me or take inappropriate pictures of me. Please help guys, I'm scared to tell anyone cause I'm really embarrassed and don't want to cause a scene.

Me and my sister were playing a game on one of the computers that have a floppy disks and one day she grabbed my dick.

Okay, so simply put my mother is overbearing.... I am in my 20's and have two children and a great husband. Recently, my mom moved in with us to help us save money... Since then, things have changed drastically in my household. My mother and I fight almost everyday because of how critical she is toward my parenting. She was a single mother to three kids. My situation is different but she still thinks I'm a terrible mom. She insists that my toddlers sleep with her in her room, because she doesn't like that the attic entrance is in their room. She feeds them only junk food and gets upset when I tell her "I'm not a frycook, I don't cook to order, and I'm not cooking my kids separate meals." She is also very critical of the fact that I don't make my husband's lunch. He has never had an issue making his own lunch for work... but my mom has an issue with it. PLEASE HELP! How can I tell her she is driving me crazy without fighting. Every time I put my foot down and tell her that something is my choice she nags me until I change my mind, or involves other people and tells them how I'm a terrible mom since I dont care about my kids since I'm not doing things the way she wants.

It's gotten so bad my brother is like Dudley from Harry Potter. He gets to be spoiled, lazy and mean to me. I get blamed for everything and when I tell my grandmother she's favoring him she denies it. I cry a lot because of her, she doesn't do anything while my brother physically beats me. Help!

My daughter is 17 years old, and she is a quiet girl at school who tries her best and she is currently doing a levels, but at home shes a complete nightmare. I have tried threatening her that I'll kick her out, I'll take her gadgets away, she gives me and her father grief, even hes an alcoholic for the past 28 year laters, I think my son is taking drugs and my daughter and him are close. I've tried to please her and him both. She's lazy, she refuses to do anything, she claims she was depressed for over 3 years. My daughter is an angel at school whereas at home she has taken her moods out on me. Her behaviour went downhill when shes became 13. I don't know what to do anymore she cries when I shout at her and makes me out like a freak that hits her physically, I think shes jujst an attention seeker, I'm so stressed, I'm looking after my dad who is ill, and I try to be a good mother but my daughter says she prefers my dad because he listens to her unlike me.

Ho una vita di ***** , sto passando dei monti difficili .Mio padre mi minaccia e dice che me ne devo andare di casa,quando li gira inizia a picchiarmi, dice che non se ne frega niente di me.Mia madre é esaurita! Non ne posso più, voglio scappare di casa ma non so dove andare.

So the other day we were at my soccer tournament. It was the second day and we had to stay in a hotel the night before. My dad got ahold of my moms phone while she was sleeping and I didn't know until morning. My mom walked into the bathroom and my dad started yelling (not really like a yelling whispering) and he had found out my mom sent pictures of herself in a dress to a man she met on online euchre (she's addicted to the game and they exchanged numbers) They started to fight and then eventually stopped and we're really good around each other all day during my soccer tournament even on the 2 hour car ride home. But after that they weren't yelling in their room they were discussing and there was a lot of crying. My mom then eventually came out and sat and watched tv with us for a little but then my dad called her back in and started yelling. She came back out and grabbed the computer. I had no idea what they were doing but I'm a snoop so I woke up early this morning and checked that they were searching her email and had deleted everything in it. My dad had to leave for a business trip this morning and ry have been calling each other every once and a while and again (I'm a snoop) my mom has been texting her mom and her sister to find out what to do. I haven't been able to see any of the texts but I have a feeling it's bad. My mom has said they are working things out and everything will be ok but I'm not sure about that anymore. what will happen to my family? I'm 13 btw My mom has been hugging me all day saying it will be alright and she keeps on crying. Do you think hiding a divorce?

So l yesterday I was online getting free samples of stuff and I ended up getting over 50 things and over the next 2 to 10 weeks everything should come but once she found out he became really upset.She says she doesn't want random things coming to our mail but I don't get it why is she mad everythings free.Why I she upset?

I had a very abusive father. He hit me till I was 16, spit in my face, called me worthless, and would fly off the handle if I ever made a mistake. I've been in therapy for 7 years, and I'm trying to heal the scars that he gave me. I recently got out of a bad relationship, and I'm so blessed that now I see it. At first, I would cry myself to sleep. I loved him very much and was going to marry him, but the more I think about it, the more I see that my ex was VERY similar to my father: emotionally manipulative, selfish, and hot-headed. Please, please, please tell me how I can avoid marrying someone like my father? I truly don't want to be abused for the rest of my life.

Ok so I want to talk to my mom about divorce. I know kids can't really make adults do anything but we can give them advice. So my mom and my dad divorced ever since I was five. And then when I was nine she got me a step dad. And no I don't like him. His family is so rude and low class and really weird and just yuck. Meanwhile my REAL family are all high class and highly educated fun people. My grandma and grandpa got full 4 year college scholarships so they are really high class. :) And my stepdad is so poor and broke too. He can never afford to eat at a restaurant and even when he does its McDonald's. Meanwhile our family makes almost a million a year. Minus the huge savings they have. My family all have very good jobs. I DONT KNOW why my mom is still with this person. It makes me nausea whenever I think of them. And I want them OUT of my life (well, they were never really in my life but you get the point) in my culture class is really important. I cannot stand someone like that. It his crap needs to be over now. know my grandparents dont really like him either but they don't really show it because they are well educated. So how should I talk to my mom about this? I am 16 years old now. Those garbage doesn't deserve to be with us. Yuck. I'm sure no one would want this either. This is annoying the crap out of me so please help! THANK YOU SO MUCH I APPRECIATE YOUR THOUGHTFUL ANSWERS! :) have a nice day! :) Just a few days ago my mom randomly told me that you aren't the same as you used to be when you were younger. I said why, and she said I used to tell her everything especially things that botherd me but now I don't tell her anything. I think this might be a hint. And also my mom isn't with him because of live. Trust me. There's reasons to it but I chose not to say it it's quite personal. :) And I want them out because they are getting my mom in a really bad situation. I meant to say love*. Sorry typing this on my phone it's really hard. See this involves so many personal stuff it's hard to tell what's really happening. But trust me if my grandparents don't like them, then they a re right. Maybe my grandparents are the ones I need to talk to. But I understand why you guys would call me materialistic. It does sound this way by its really not. Anyways thanks to anyone who's willing to really answer this question :) I meant to say it's hard to tell YOU what's really happening. Ughhh next time I'll type on a computer instead. Lol

Im 16 and shes 11. When we're left home alone, my mom tells me im left in charge and that my sister has to listen to me. My sister is always going outside in the front yard after my mom asks her not to and when i tell her to come back in she makes me chase her around and refuses to go inside and tells me that i dont tell her what to do. It gets to the point where i have to pull her inside and then she starts crying and tells my mom i hurt her. Other times when im sleeping or doing school work she starts playing the piano very loud or singing and screaming and when i tell her to be quiet cause i want some silence shes like "you dont tell me to shut up you b***". Im getting so tired of this. Shes only 11 and thinks she can do what she wants. She has no respect towards me at all and loves to annoy me. If this is what raising a kid is like then i sure dont want any kids.

Should I send him to a militery school or let his asswhole father take him an deal with him? I started to gettin text messages today with people askin about a video on my Face Book page. I didn't post any videos. So at brake I went to the brake room an got on the computer an found that my stupid idiot son had posted a video he recorded in secret of me when I was deathly sick with food poisoning a couple weeks a go! The video shows me havin diarea all ovar the floor, in the wastebasket an in the toilet, havin to vomit all ovar the floor an in the sink an in the toilet, lettin out terrible gas an belches. When I saw it I immediate went in an deleted it an then left work early, got home an whipped his a-s-s until he won't be able to sit down for a month. He said he thought it was FUNNY, how could someone having terrible diarea an throwing up an passing gas out of both ends be FUNNY? After he got whipped he got grounded for one year. I am going to take his TV an video games an tablet an every thing out of his room, their will be nothin in their but his bed an his closet. He will start readin the bible every day until school starts an then will do his studies an after there done he'll read the bible some moar. Then after the year is up I am either sendin him to militery school or to live with his son of a ***** cheatin lyin fagit asswhole father.

My ex has never wanted our child. He kicked me out right after I had our baby and I raised her alone for years. His mother was always VERY overbearing and demanded he get a paternity test. After, she demanded he see our child and get custody. He was 25 and filed when he saw how much child support would be with no custody. Last year, his mother died. Our child is now 10. He has pretended to play a father role for years while his mom took most care. Now, when our child goes over to his house, he shows no interest and she can tell. When I have her, she follows me around my house. She clings to me and asks me to please be with her at all hours (I can't even use the restroom alone for 1 minute). She states she is lonely, hates her life, and wants to die. I took her to a psych and therapy only helps until she leaves. Then, she is asking to sleep in my bed, making up fake illnesses and so on. Question 1: Should I pursue this legally to get him out of her life because he is doing severe damage by ignoring her entirely and withholding love. Question 2: Can I ever show her enough attention by doing double the work since he does nothing? I literally have her at my feet every second and have even gone part time at work to pay more love and attention to her depression. Thank you very much.

So Today My Younger sister said She wants to play Dress up with me,I didn't agree She complained to my mother that I have beaten her and now I have to obey whatever she says My mom is going out for a few weeks its only me and my sister now if i do anything wrong she will tell my mom. This is what she said:- 1-I have to dress as a girl 24/7 2-She thinks I might hurt her at night so my hands will be tied behind my back 3-I can't use the bathroom I have to wear Diapers 4-She is going to take me out dressed as a girl etc etc Please Tell me what should I do? Update: I have my hair tied in Pigtails and She has painted my nails and now she is selecting a dress and a skirt for me IS THERE ANYWAY TO GET OUT OF THIS? Update 2: P.S:-My dad is abroad Update 3: I am a boy Update 4: She was suspicious,She said she is going shopping and I have to stay at home when she left I tried to leave but she caught me,She tied me and blind folded me and locked me in the room But I am lucky I have my Cell Phone with me I somehow managed to cut myself loose but I don't know what she will do next I called Child Protection services but no help they are not taking me seriously I am reposting this People think I am trolling but I'm not I really need help I tried to disobey my sister but she faked an injury and sent a picture to my mom now I definitely have to obey her I had escaped earlier today now she will punish me and tying me up Nylon Rope and If I don't obey she will duct tape my mouth and blind fold me too Plz Help me or leave me alone

So I'm 13 year old girl. I get very good grades at school, I don't smoke and drink, I don't do drugs, I never make any problems, e.t.c. However, my parents don't allow me anything: They don't allow me to go to school alone, they always drive me there. They don't allow me to go anywhere without them, they always pick me up from school. When they bring me home, they even leave no keys for me, so I can't even escape from my house. They don't allow me to have any friends, especially boys. They don't allow me to drink energy drinks, soda, eat chips, e.t.c. They don't even allow me to have a cell phone, they always check my history, but that's not a problem, because I can remove selected items. It's just very annoying. They never give me any money and even don't allow me to have. I feel like being in prison. I even want to escape but the problem is I don't know how. Any help!?

I once caught my sister on my computer looking through pages I visit when she forgot to clear one thing from the browser history. She often comes into my room pretending to get something, but she leaves with nothing. The printer's only connected to my comp, so she borrows mine to print (while I watch over her). She once minimize the window to open a new one via the desktop icon after searching for it for over 10 seconds. She once opened and used the incognito window I purposely minimized before she was allowed access to my computer to print. She once had to access her eBay purchase history. She acted like she wasn't aware that I'm signed into MY account (since it's my comp) and clicked on MY purchase history. She acted like she "forgot" how to sign out of an eBay account just to see my purchases for a longer time. She scrolled my entire phone camera roll after seeing one picture on it. She eavesdrops on my convos with others and has the nerve to ask things regarding a conversation I had with someone from days ago. She used to always use my computer at night time until I password protected it and only allowed a Guest account to be used. After my computer became password protected, she made attempts to try to get on it by making excuses like, "I need to print something." There are so many other things I won't list. Is this paranoia or is she seriously spying? I really believe it's the latter. What can I do about this? She'll just deny everything if I confront her. Adding on about the desktop icon and incognito tab, she once borrowed my comp to help my mom with something. Instead of opening a new tab like she used to do, she purposely used the only open tab. After she finished she closed the window and stared at my wallpaper for 5+ seconds. She never wants to use incognito when signing into her accounts when it's easier since incognito lets you to sign in without signing out of previous accounts. I think she wants to see my accounts and my top pages. I'm 21 years old and she's only a few years older than me.

I'm going to be 17 October 13th. And i had to confess and tell my mom I had sex last November. I didn't even want to do it. I told my ex no and he wouldn't take no for a answer. Now I'm afraid my mom will take any and every privilege I have. I've just gotten privileges to hang out with friends and finally get out of the house. But now I have a feeling she is going to take all of that from me. She's extremely strict and I'm scared that I'll get beat because of it. How can I keep her calm to where she won't hurt me? Because I've been beaten before and I'm terrified. Is she over reacting about me having sex even when I didn't want to?

I don t want to live with my Uncle anymore i want to be with my mom again.

not getting anything for her newborn arrivals and everyone else did and not holding it against him? Even though she said she was going to hold it against him. He is my favorite son and became accepted by white people.

OK so long story short, I can't say I love you back to my mother. She has done so many things I will never be able to forgive or forget. I never talk about them to her. (please don't suggest it) but I can't say I love you to her. Whenever she calls from work she always says I love you to me and I always just say OK or see you later but I literally can't bring myself to say I love you too. She gets really upset because when I call my dad (parents are divorced) I always tell him I love him. In a sense I do love her because she's my mother, but I'll never loved her the way I did when I was younger. The only reason I'm asking this is because I would hate for her to call me and tell me she loves me and I just say 'ok' and then get into a car accident or something. I don't know. I just can't say it back. And she is upset about it. What do you suppose I do? I can't talk to her about why I'm upset at her. I just can't so please don't suggest that. I do a lot of nice things for her like clean the house for her and make her food but I just can't say I love her. What to do? Thanks

We are on vacation and he forgot his and he asked if he could use mine. I was disgusted he would even ask this, first of all I'm a girl and second its roll-on! But now he's mad at me and won't even talk to me. I called the front desk at the hotel and they said they didn't have any.

So yesterday my brother and I were arguing and he said that I was so ugly (he would rate me a 5 out of ten, ten being the best) and weird that even my mom thinks so. I hate it when he does that, bc I have no other defense. It makes me feel so stupid. I'm 13 girl and he's 12. I know I shouldn't care and listen to what he says, but it's so hard. His friend said that I am ugly but he didn't even defend them bc he didn't want to argue with him!! He makes fun of me because I have like three pimples on my face that aren't that bad. And he says that my lips are too puffy. I hate it, tel me what I can do?? Pls help!!! *tell I tried politely asking him and talking to him about it. He always promises to stop, but it keeps on continuing I tried talking to my parents as well. No luck Also, pls tell me: am I truly the ugly/weird one? Or he just saying that? But the thing is, what if I AM ugly? And he wasn't just saying that? He always says that he swears to God that I am truly ugly, and he is not insulting me. A lot of my friends say that I'm really pretty, gorgeous, and such. Are they just trying to be nice even though I did not ask for their opinion on my looks?

My stepdad makes us clean out his coffee cups. He leaves the coffee in the cups, doesn t rinse them out, and it became so bad that the liquid coffee (with half-and-half included) formed into a clump and we couldn t get it out of the cup. He also leaves them in his car until spiders live in there. This is disgusting and my siblings and I can t stand cleaning them. Is this unfair?

I, personally, think that is such a crock of ****. Whenever I tell people I don't want to do any of that, they get so shocked & it's, I don't know, blasphemous to say that. It's soooo much pressure to worry about that & if I don't do any of that I'm automatically a failure. People make it seem like in order to be "complete," that's what you have to. Also, there is more to family than just husband, wife, & kids(maybe a family pet).

so this b**** keeps snitching and telling my parents that i did something I didnt do. And my parents believe her and yell at me and punish me. What should I do about this? I would run away but I fear the cops will arrest me cause im under 18.

I'm a 48 year old man who can't take poop by himself... I was always used to my mother and father being near me when I poop, but they went out and now I'm stuck.. I've been holding the poop for 7 hours, some of it even came out and now is in my pants(by the way, what should I do about that?), and I've called my brother and he told me to take the poop by myself, but even if I somehow do do this, who will wash me and dry my behind? Please help, I'm about to explode!

So here it goes my parents will do fun things with me and be nice for a while and then get me into fights and blame me for **** I am not even the cause for. They also threaten to break my things I PAID FOR and have and they don't give a ****. I don't see my friends parents doing this. My Dad always switches sides first he is on my side saying what the **** is wrong with my mom then he turns around when my mom wants too start **** and then yells at me and threatens to break my things then I just sit there and cry not knowing what to do. I have severe anxiety idk if it is caused by them or not but when my mom is being nice I open up to her and my parents are getting divorced soon and I told her how my Dad scares me too a point I don't want to say anything back. They have also called me worthless and your nothing and etc...... So I just want your guy's preference are they jerks do you agree with me that they are jerks and have your parents done similar things btw I am a 15 year old male.

My dads side of the family are alcoholics, they are really bad. I am 14 and get to see my dad around once every 2 months due to his drinking. My grandma is even worse. Last time i saw her I brought up college (because im a freshman) and she thought i was an idiot and laughed for hours. She one day emailed my mother asking if she could see me. my mom wanted to be nice so she relied with yes. My mom didnt know she was taking it seriously. They made plans i didnt know about and now im forced to see my grandma who bought me a hello kitty shirt for christmas. She scares the living crap out of me. I am going to be alone with her too. I dont ant to lie to get out of this because she is going to die soon and i cant live with that guilt, but im so afraid to be around her alone. What should i do?!?!

I just turned 16. For my birthday my parents gave me 2000 dollars and I spent it all on an Alienware computer. My parents didn't seem mad they seemed pretty happy with it, but when I told my friends they said that I should of spent it on other stuff. Did I spend my money badly? (Btw I don't have a job)

I am 23, finishing up college and working. My little sister is 14 and lives with my mom. She doesn't have a job, or a decent place to stay. She recently bought a little one room storage house and put it in the woods for her, my sister and my 9 year old brother to live in. No lights, gas heater or anything. She won't accept any help from family because she thinks we're questioning her parenting abilities. Growing up, she was very abusive and kicked me out of the house several times and now does the same thing with my sister. My dad has tried to get custody of her, but she didn't want to go because of our stepmom. I've asked my mom before to just let the children stay with me while she gets everything together, but she claims that I'm a terrible influence, and that she won't send her kids to be with me for extended amounts of time. Now she's threatening to never let me see them again, which she's done before, for two years. I've considered just taking them, but I don't want to go to jail. My little brother is by another father, but his dad has never been in the picture. My dad has offered to send me the child support money instead, since its clear she's not really using it on the kids, but to do that we'd have to take legal action. Anyone have any idea how I should go about this?