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- Question: How do i tell my dad i don't want to go to his house anymore? (serious)?
- Question: Am I paying a fair amount of rent or being ripped off?
- Question: Why are older sisters so mean to little brothers?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me go to Australia?
- Question: I'm sick of being treated like ****?!?
- Question: My parents are bullies.?
- Question: How to convince strict parents to let me go camping with a friend of the opposite sex?
- Question: What do I do about this punishment presentation? Who is right in this situation?
- Question: People make fun of my mom?
- Question: Do we look alike? I am on the right and my cousin is on the left. My uncle and parents think we kind of do but I don't.?
- Question: What is wrong with my uncle Lester?
- Question: Should i tell someone about this?
- Question: Girls mature problem help?
- Question: Annoyance towards my dad?
- Question: Are we relatives or something? Help?
- Question: Do I Contribute Enough?
- Question: Why must my parents be so hypocritical and insecure?
- Question: I'm seventeen, I want some space!?
- Question: Is it fair for my mom to blame my sister's misbehavior on me?
- Question: My sister is 5 years younger than me, I'm 44. She makes comments to me that it's too late for me to get fit. Is it?
- Question: Dealing with people who always want to pick fights?
- Question: So my school is apart of a consortium and I want to pledge at our "brother" school whom we have several activities with can i do this?
- Question: How do I tell my parents that I dont like my sister?
- Question: We're basically homeless!?
- Question: Did I make a mistake?? am really going crazy !!!?
- Question: What happens if your last name is spelled wrong in a public system?
- Question: How cope with in-laws and their perspective of me?
- Question: I hate my mother so much that i wouldnt care if she died?
- Question: I want to be a vegan, but my mom doesn't support it?
- Question: Girls night in ideas?
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- Question: Unhappy with life at home and (future) school. Please help?
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| Question: How do i tell my dad i don't want to go to his house anymore? (serious)? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:22 PM PDT I'm 15 and i don't like going to my dads. Don't get me wrong, i love the guy, he's a great father if he's not drunk (which he is every night). And i know he loves me, but he calls me every day at least 10 times a day just to talk, like im a friend and he wants to tell me about his day and stuff. Some call s last up to an hour and i don't want to talk on the phone for that long. I've dreaded going to his house for 5 years now every time i go. I wouldn't mind seeing him maybe for lunch and a movie or something every Sunday or so. But i don't want to see him as often as i do. Please this is not me ranting about my father this is a serious question, I've wanted to be away from him for a long time now and after spending an entire month at his house I've about had it. I don't want to hurt his feelings, i tried telling him i didn't want to come over a weekend and he said he was going to take my mom to court and call the police if i didn't come because it was the law for me to come to his house. But i feel like i am old enough now to decide if i want to be miserable or happy. So how do i tell him i don't want to go to his house anymore? |
| Question: Am I paying a fair amount of rent or being ripped off? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:22 PM PDT My husband passed away back in december and I could not afford the rent alone where we were living so i moved back in with my parents until I move out of town and share a place with my two cousins my parents charge me 500 in rent and 80 of that goes to my cell phone which is fine but I do most of the cooking and she does the laundry because she like it a certain way she does the cleaning but if I make a mess I clean it and the rent I pay her doesn't go to bills and I get that she can use it for what ever she wants but it should be going to bills and food because I have to buy my own snacks and essentials which I don't mind doing but when I try to put actual food in the cart like some meat or things like that she gets mad puts her food items back saying she can't get them now cuz of me saying it's my fault cuz I'm putting food I like in the cart she gets 2 thousand a month between her and my dad and my 500 in rent shes crying she has no money buys very little food each month and if she doesn't buy enough to last the whole month too bad for me and my dad cuz she refuses to go back to the store doesn't want me going with her to the grocery store so I won't put a couple of things in the cart and when I tell her to cut the rent in half and I'll buy my own food she's so money hungry she says no and laughs at me like it's a joke do u think paying that much rent if it's not being used on bills or crys when I put food in the cart and she gets mad is fair of her or no |
| Question: Why are older sisters so mean to little brothers? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:15 PM PDT I know and have heard of many older sisters who enjoy tormenting their little brothers for no reason. My own older sisters used to as well. They like to dress their little brothers up in dresses and put make up on them,or they like getting them in trouble. Why is that? Guys usually treat their little sisters very nice and if they don't their looked at as if they've done something wrong. Even sisters who are teenagers or adults do this. Why is it? Even girls back in my high school would often talk about liking to get their little brothers in trouble. |
| Question: How do I convince my parents to let me go to Australia? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:14 PM PDT I am 16 and next June I want to go to Australia after my exams to see my family who live over there. I have a job and can afford to pay for myself. I think they will just think it is one of my crazy plans that will never come true but I really want to go and I can stay with my auntie and have an amazing time. How do I convince them to let me go? |
| Question: I'm sick of being treated like ****?!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:14 PM PDT So I'm 13. My little "brother" is 8. He's always belittling me and calling me names like "mentally sick" and "retarded." And then when I tell my parents, they just say,"Well he's only a baby. He's still learning!" I'm so sick of that phrase. And after calling me "retarded," he then tells my parents that I kicked him in the face and stuff that I never even did. I'm sick of that little brat. What should I do? In fact it's so bad I would rather shoot myself than live in the same house with him. |
| Question: My parents are bullies.? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:14 PM PDT My parents make me upset beyond words. People like them are the reason for war, for hate. Today I had a long argument about their racist comments. I was so upset that I started crying and they called me a psychopath. They asked me how I could be so upset about something like this but it makes me so angry that they are like this. I have told them not to say anything about their opinions around me but they still preach about how we aren t all equal when I m there just to piss me off. I just want to leave and never come back to that horrid house. I can t stand them. They don t know how to be nice people and I just don t know what to do. I don t think I can stay here much longer. They drive me insane. Does anyone have any advice? |
| Question: How to convince strict parents to let me go camping with a friend of the opposite sex? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:13 PM PDT I had plans to go camping with my friends, one girl and one boy, but my mom's not letting me go because of my guy friend. She said she'd let me go if I was only going with girls. But here's the extremely hilarious and ironic part, I'm a lesbian, and as for my guy friend, he has a boyfriend. My friend and his boyfriend are also going with us along with another gay couple but I can't tell my mom that because she's homophobic. (And of course she doesn't know I'm a lesbian either) But is there any way to convince her to let me go? I've already told her that my friend has a girlfriend but that still didn't do anything. We're all starting college soon so that's why we wanted to do something before we leave off to college and probably not see each other until spring break. We're just going camping for one day and the campsite is only a 35 minute drive from my house, but she's still freaking out. |
| Question: What do I do about this punishment presentation? Who is right in this situation? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:10 PM PDT Alright, so I'm 17 years old and I'm staying with my dad for the summer. my cousin had lost our house keys so we were stuck waiting outside for my dad until he came home from work. some friends waited with us and we decided to just go to a nearby store to wait it out. i asked my cousin to text my dad for us, since i had no minutes. halfway down the street my stepmom calls and freaks out that we arent home even though she was on a buisiness trip in new brunswick. We turn around, go home and wait for my dad. my cousin got sent back to toronto early, and my stepmom and dad said i wasnt allowed to go on the family vacay to disney. it got to a point where i didnt even care anymore. ive never liked my stepmom and my depression makes me not want to do things anyway, but they kept flip flopping and telling me i had to show them i was willing to work to go on the trip. i agreed to do some sort of presentation to show them i'm serious(even though i could care less because the stress of dealing with them isnt even worth it to me). I'm just doing it so the fighting can stop, but ihave no idea what to present, what to say...etc...I'm already grounded for a week and i'm just very confused and upset...advice??? |
| Question: People make fun of my mom? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:08 PM PDT I'm 15 and my mom is only 30. She's my biological mother. Most people found out and give me a lot of crap about it. What should I do? |
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| Question: What is wrong with my uncle Lester? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:03 PM PDT Is my uncle sick in the head or somethin? We went into his room once and found a stash of unmarked video tapes, so we viewed them and they were videos he made of stuffed animals having sex. I talked to him and he admits making stuffed animal porn movies for kids. wtf? |
| Question: Should i tell someone about this? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:01 PM PDT My thirteen year old cousin was given hickeys by her boyfriend and when her dad (my uncle) found out he physically grabbed her by her hair, pushed her into her bed, hit her and then started yelling in her ear calling her a skank. I know it's disgusting since she's only thirteen but her dad's actions are beyond okay. She told me not to tell anyone this happened because she's scared. I feel like i should tell my parents or something though? Any advice? :( |
| Question: Girls mature problem help? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 01:01 PM PDT I'm 21 and i'm a gentlemen. I got the personality of the 40 year old virgin guy but minus the fact i'm no virgin haha. I'm dating a 19 girl old girl. She mentioned she just got off an abusive relationship (this was a red flag). The thing is she's very cold. She doesn't treat me good. Sometines she makes me NOT feel like a men. I feel like i'm too soft/pussy for this girl. If i tell her not to do something because it's a bad idea she still does it. Also she likes to make me feel bad. For instance let's say you was dating a guy and this guy will tell you in public infront of many strangers "yeah babe you need to get bigger boobs" or "you need to loose weight" all in public. She will pull off similar stuff like that in that type of level. She's even said "You think your tough, but your not". She also claims she's a "virgin" so we haven't even slept and it's been 8 months of dating. All my friends told me she's using me until something better comes along or a "bad boy" comes along. They told me when this bad boy does show up he's going to beat her up and show her who's boss and she will instantly fall in love with that guy because she's already used to them type of men. I'm no type to beat up girls/scream at em or a puzzy "bad boy". She knows i won't beat her up or treat her bad which is why she does this. Should i be tougher/threaten her oe just dump her????? Some girls like this type of men. I already tried the talking to her nicely and she goes "your so sensitive". |
| Question: Annoyance towards my dad? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 12:58 PM PDT Hey guys.. something I would like to share with you, hopefully someone can help me clear my thoughts and feelings. sorry if it is a messy story, thanks for taking time reading it. I am 24, still living with parents and my dad is turning 60 this year. so I get annoyed by my dad quite frequently, it's hard to feel happy towards him for the last couple of months (or longer).. My dad pretty much doesn't listen, he gets mad very easily, and he doesn't do a lot in the house (not that I do a lot, but my has been home for the last 4 years, I work 40 hours a week). If i try to speak with him, he jumps from topic to topic, and I have to repeat myself a lot of times before it finally get sorts of in his head. What I don't like at all is that he gets mad at my mother so quick too (she does at him as well), but he lets her do pretty much everything around the house and she has a pretty bad lung disease.. I have asked him a lot of times to stop making noises when eating (like sort of with mouth open), it is so annoying, but nearly everyday I have to ask again. It's like he can't remember or something. I sometimes remember it's still my dad, but he is so unreasonable mostly. I do think my feelings and thoughts are sort of legitimate, I do feel conflicted and think I should appreciate my dad more maybe, maybe he isn't around for much longer.... I have no idea what to do or how to feel. It is not getting any better.. Please give me advice on what I can do.. Hanks |
| Question: Are we relatives or something? Help? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 12:45 PM PDT So I met this guy. His godparent is my aunt. Does this make us related or anything? |
| Question: Do I Contribute Enough? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 12:43 PM PDT I m a college junior who decided to come back home for the summer. As soon as I got back I managed to get two jobs; one factory job I work 8 hours at Monday through Friday and my old fast food job I work on weekends. My mom usually takes me to work but I also give her gas money every week. I put groceries in the house and feed her and my 17 year old brother whenever they want something. Recently she s started nagging about how "unappreciative" I am because I don t do much house work like washing dishes. I work hard every day! When I come home all I want to do is relax and sleep I don t even hang out. My brother does nothing all day but sleep and play video games and isn t expected to do any housework except take out the trash. does anyone else think this is a little unfair? |
| Question: Why must my parents be so hypocritical and insecure? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 12:27 PM PDT Honestly, everything they say contradicts their entire message. I've come to he point in which I'm tired of listening to their problems and the gossip. I'm a freshman in high school now, my parents barely give me any privacy or fun. I didn't go on my senior trip or to the schools final dance. My friends ask why and I make up some excuse. They talk about how it's for my own safety blah blah blah. School is the only fun I have, I depend on it for the little freedom that I could clasp.they truly put me down at any given time. Pointing out every flaw calling me dumb and other hurtful names. I know this seems like nothing but they've done this for years. Then they use me as a trophy to their friends and family saying of she's an honor student she achieved this and that, yet they call me dumb. I don't understand it. They even taunt me about my weight, I get no helpful comments just these negative ones. I know I'm not perfect I know I have flaws, but aren't they supposed to come to terms with those flaws? I don't know what to do anymore about their hypocrisy and insecurities I'm at my wits end. What can I do? |
| Question: I'm seventeen, I want some space!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 12:24 PM PDT I'm seventeen, I want some space! I feel smothered by my parents. I don't know how to explain it, but just picture a little bird wanting to spread her wings and fly. Okay, so maybe I can explain it better than that: I don't want to go everywhere with them because what seventeen year old wants to go EVERYWHERE with mom and dad? I don't want to go to Legoland. Please, do not make me go to LEGOLAND! When you go somewhere, like to the movies or just out to the beach, I don't always want to go! Sometimes I enjoy having the house to myself. Why can't they understand this? I'm sure they didn't spend every waking moment with their parents. I know for a fact they didn't. They had friends, which I don't. That's embarrassing to admit: I'm seventeen and haven't had a friend for years. I sometimes wish I had my license and my own car so that I could take off. Does every seventeen year old feel like this? You want more independence and freedom? |
| Question: Is it fair for my mom to blame my sister's misbehavior on me? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 12:18 PM PDT I'm 16 and my sister is 13. My mom says that my sister's complaining about her clothes and stuff is my fault, when I don't even do that. My mom still insisted it was my fault that my sister misbehaves and stuff, but how is it even my fault? |
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| Question: Dealing with people who always want to pick fights? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 12:06 PM PDT I live with my parents and both of them are always fighting for reasons beyond their control. I am in college so moving out is not an option right now but my mom is always picking fights with me and my dad. She always has to be the "correct" one and if we have different opinions she starts a fight. I would like some advice as to how can i deal with this, how can i talk to her when she wants to pick a fight, (not like oh tell her it bothers you because she doesnt listen she promises many things and always repeats them) i accept this is how she is so how can i just basically "ignore" her anger or how can i stop it from bothering me so much? also since she and my dad are always fighting about their families my mom always wants me to side with her but at times she is also in the wrong, i dont pick sides just to pick sides i tell them both where they are right or wrong but if my mom is angry at my dad she wants us all to be angry at him as well and gets mad when we talk to him. |
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| Question: How do I tell my parents that I dont like my sister? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:39 AM PDT I live with my dad and my stepmom they had two children together one is six and the other one is 5. I don't really have a problem with the 5 girls I mean she's just so you know monkey see monkey do but it's really a six year old and that's probably the biggest problem of my life right now. She's so spiteful she goes out of her way to make me and my little sister annoyed angry you know she makes the younger one cry all the time and she even threatened to kill us because we don't give her what she wants and she said to me that the little one she's too nice and she doesn't want to show the time so should kill it with a knife in my parents like they laughed it off with a joke about it didn't really take it seriously leave and believe me when I told them the my sister threaten to kill us. How do I approach my parents with this kind of information how do I approach anyone with this kind of information and not sound crazy I mean I have evidence that she threatened to kill us with a knife she threatened to kill me with a knife by stabbing me in the stomach, or slicing my neck and she's only 6 years old. She screams as she doesn't get anything that she wants she hits me if she doesn't get what you want and she even those fit to other family members and she get the way of that people still think that she's cute people will say that she's you know the nicest sweetest thing you've ever met but they don't know that she does these things... how do I tell my parents that I dont feel safe? |
| Question: We're basically homeless!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:36 AM PDT Me and my mom are living with my aunt and her kids and she is kicking us out and we have no where to go. My mom has a car that cost around 4,000, but she doesn't have it registered. My mom and my aunt always argue, always. What can we do my mom doesn't work and she says to sell the car it would take too long. Please help I'm 15 years olds |
| Question: Did I make a mistake?? am really going crazy !!!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:25 AM PDT well I have a really confusing situation ..well Its about me and my brother ,our relation can be described like always have ups and downs all the time ,lately we fight a lot and quarrel ..anyways although we are both adults but I couldn't bear his annoying treatment with me and swearing words he uses at me so I intended to tell my parents "I know am adult am 26 " but I felt like telling them. Ended in a somehow a real hot quarrel and my mother shouted at him anyways I ended up blaming my self for telling them cuz I felt like the bad person here although I have been enduring for so long really ..and i feel our relation will never get better ..no matter how much good I treat him ..we end up fighting after a week or two ..thats why I told my parents about his recent fight with me so they scolded him ..yet I feel like the bad evil old sister :( what should I do am hopeless really . PS: I have asked so many Questions about MY problem with him here and there on net if you are asking :( really I want things to work out between us but am afraid hes seeing me as the bad sister ...he never feels that hes being so harsh and never acknowledged his faults ..it looks like am the only person whos blaming and blaming myself ..he just keeps adding hate for me instead of trying to be nice :( I can't believe there are brothers like him in this world ..are there ??? Just wanted to say it some where !! |
| Question: What happens if your last name is spelled wrong in a public system? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:21 AM PDT So when I was about in second grade my mom did a HUGE mistake amd spelled my last name wrong just a tiny bit. She put a Z instead of an S. So for about a year I thought my name was spelled the wrong way until my dad told me its wrong. My mom never changed it until highschool and now I just found out my name was spelled wrong in the dentist system. Is this bad will affect me later in life? |
| Question: How cope with in-laws and their perspective of me? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:18 AM PDT I may suffer from OCD, you can say, I'm really particular about how things are done in especially in my home. I can tell my in-laws take offence when I don't let them clean the kitchen(after dinner) or let them use a standard kitchen knife than my expensive knives. I can tell.by their attitude towards me. Its just last time I explain that certain pots can't touch metal, scratch with sponge, etc anyone with fancy kitchenware knows where I'm coming fro, and I still find scratches all over my pots and knive. They also always make a comment about me using the dishwasher. His grandmother will say to me she cleans better than a dishwasher. She's entitled to her opinion, I still find oily residue on any hand washed dish she has done. In all honesty I don't want his grandmother cleaning my kitchen because I want her to just relax and noT feel like she has to clean. I really adore her she's fantastic, just would prefer to keep the cleaning up to me. Now my question isn't how to tell them I'm the one in charge cleaning etc, I've made that clear to them. But now I can tell they see me differently and I don't know how to cope with that. They treat me like I'm ridiculous which it's rude. I'm very reserved about it and not very confortational but I don't want to seem any crazier to them than I already do. His grandmother called me a Gringa when she saw me put the dishes in the machine ugh.... |
| Question: I hate my mother so much that i wouldnt care if she died? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:16 AM PDT whats wrong with me |
| Question: I want to be a vegan, but my mom doesn't support it? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:15 AM PDT I'm 15 years old and really want to become vegan for both ethical and health reasons. But since i'm only 15 and don't have a job, i can't buy groceries myself. And I know it may sound selfish that i want to be vegan, especially since i don't have the money to help myself. But my mom doesn't support me. What should I do? |
| Question: Girls night in ideas? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 11:12 AM PDT I wanna have a girls afternoon at my house for my older sister and I. We're 8 years apart. She's 24 and I'm 16. We're not actual sisters, so I'm not always around her. I don't really know what her age group enjoys. Any ideas of stuff we can do to bond together? |
| Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT OK. So im 16 years old and have 2 jobs. I bought my own smart phone and car. I pay for gas, insurance, my phone bill, clothes, food, and any entertainment that i want. However, my parents looked at my bank transactions and got pissed off and said that im not responsible with my money. All they provide for me is shelter. (The bare minimum). Any advice for how to deal with the situation? Are they being unreasonable or are they in the right? I currently have $5,000 in savings. I spent $100 on computer games during a sale and they started freaking out on me. |
| Question: Unhappy with life at home and (future) school. Please help? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:56 AM PDT I've problems going at the same time. I'm lonely at home; my dad is distance; my mom died when I was 6 (now I'm 17). I have an older brother by 4 years and we were close, but he left home 2 years ago, and we don't maintain a good contact (long story). At the end of August I'll start at a new school which my cousin already attends and we're in the same grade. She has introduced me to her peers; at first it was ok, but then she told them about our family. I feel uneasy writing about it. My brother is probably gay; he left home for college (in another state) but also lives with a much older man. My cousin said it's for money and this hurts me, particularly when her friends make jokes about it. When he turned 21 my brother received inheritance from our late mom, and it's enough to pay for college and rent, so it's not for money. My dad forbids me to see my brother, and we're uneasy b/c of this whole thing (his lifestyle), so we only say banal things through texts once in a while. My dad used to beat him too and somehow it depresses me still although I wasn't beaten. I miss my brother so much and worry for him. The older man (around 38-40; I'm not sure) can't be good b/c who in their right mind sleep with a guy half his age and barely an adult. I'm afraid of school as my cousin and her friends will pick on me about my brother. I asked him to come home but it will never happen. What can I do to feel better about the future? I feel envious and resentful of those with a happy home. |
| Question: Im not such an idiot my kids are first? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:54 AM PDT Living in a camper is no fun when the fat sob is living it up I could never go back to him even after 9 years but it doesn't take away the harshness of holly **** what am I going to do |
| Question: How to tell my mom that I would like to meet my Biological father? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:44 AM PDT I am 15 years old. I would like to meet my Biological dad. Im afraid my mom will tell me that she would not like me to meet him till I turn 18 but I want to know who he is and a lot of other things but I most importantly need the piece of mind of knowing who my Father is. |
| Question: My dad wants my money ? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:40 AM PDT My dad has left us when I was about 7.It was really hard time.He didn't pay child support, he didn't want to know me.He simply left me.I was living with my mom and her new husband,who hate me even nowadays.So after graduation I got doctor degree and decided to set up my own business-medical technologies and etc.My business is really successful.I have everything I always wanted-nice house, loving family(husband who is quite rich too and wonderful kids) and job I adore.I help my mom financially and I try to help her whenever I can.So several days ago I received message at Facebook from stranger.We began to chat and then I recognised him-It was my dad.I haven't heard about him for 30 years.Firstly, we chatted and then he asked if I could "borrow"him 100 Euro.So I did.And he asked again and again . Finally,I told him no, because I have feeling that he simply found me just to get my money.Now he's writing me stupid messages like-"Sweetie,I love you and I always did.I have very hard time.I need some money.Do you understand it"?.So I simply began to ignore his messages.What do you think about this ?Should I ignore him again ? |
| Question: As a parent would you get mad over this? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:31 AM PDT I'm not a bad kid (I would like to think I'm not), I'm an average 15 year old girl. I go to school and get good grades (mostly A's and a few B's every now and then). Honestly, I don't have much a friends (maybe a good little group of them, around 7-9) but Im grateful for them. They're all really great and funny people. And last night, a friend called me around 2 am, I don't know why she called (mainly because I was too busy sleeping) but later I texted her and asked. She said because she was awake and bored so she wanted to talk to me. When I walked to get a drink, my parents just stared at me. Here was the conversation Dad: so who called you at 2 am? Me: my friend 'A' Dad: well why is she calling you so late? Me: she was awake and bored **i forgot what happened, all I remember was getting yelled at and lectured** but while they lectured me, they assumed I had a boyfriend and went off about what would happened if I did (guessing that's their way of threatening me) The reason this argument started was because my mom brought it up and assumed things. So as a parent, would you guys overreact over something so little such as this? Or were my parents blowing it out of proportion? |
| Question: Mum always threatens to hurt my pets? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:31 AM PDT Whenever my mother is annoyed at me (pretty much 24/7) she threatens to hurt my rabbits. For example, a second ago I was doing and chore - my mum shouted at me for "doing it wrong" and so shouts at me: "If I didn't love your rabbits; i'd kick them!" I am honestly worried that she would, she is practically insane. Like, literally. She started walking home, on the busiest road, by herself, over not getting a free goody bag from this event we were at. Like, how the hell does that make sense. I tell my dad what she says, but he just blames it on me, saying "it's your fault for annoying her. Have some respect". I worry for all of my pets, especially my bird, because she's so fragile S: She's even let my bird out the cage before, when all of the windows were open - as some kind of punishment? I don't even know, but then the next day she claimed she didn't go near the bird and didn't open the cage. What am I supposed to do? Padlock the guinea pig's, rabbits' and bird's cages? |
| Question: How can I stop my dad from getting married to his partner? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:29 AM PDT Ok so I really don t want to sound bitchy or anything but my dad can not get married. I was only like 1 when my mum and dad split up (they wasn t married). anyway my dad got this new girlfriend called Mary and they got together when I was like 7 or 8. She was actually a friend of my mums and I knew her from when I was little and I never liked her because she used my mum but that s a completely different story. Ever since they got together she s had this grudge on me for what happened between her and my mum. Mary really hates me and does everything she can to get me out the way so she can have my dad to herself. I know I sound really jealous and whatever but I can t help it she is really horrible At me all the time and my dad always takes her side but he only knows half of what s going on. I really don t know what to do and before anyone in the comments says it s just because u don t like the idea of your dad getting with someone else, that s not it at all, my mum is re married and I had no problem with that what so ever. I cant tell my dad what s going on because he will hate me and he s only just got custody of me after 13 years of trying (my whole life) |
| Question: Is it jealousy?is she bipolar? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:19 AM PDT I'm a 15 yr old girl and I have a pretty close friendship with my dad. Not so much with my mom for a bunch of reasons such as: -she makes me feel stupid -she's always rude and has a nasty attitude toward me for anything. (I could walk into a room and wave 'hi' and she would give an ugly look) <- it actually just happened a few minutes ago.. -I could just ask a decent question and she would just get irritated and look at me or just totally ignore me. -when my dad isn't around, she'll start an argument and hit me (I've gotten a black eye from her once) but when he is around, she'll cry and play he victim She does other things too.My older brother can relate to this to because we would have conversations about it like "what's wrong with her?" and things like that. Anyway. My dad and I get along pretty well. I tell him things (but not everything) and I like to hang out with him more. My mom sees that we get along so I think she gets a little mad. She will tell him lies just to get him to go against me. I remember she told him that I was being a b**** to her (when really, I didn't talk to her at all that day) so my dad yelled at me and told me that I need to treat her better. She acts like the victim. There had been times where she would 'cry' and blame it on me then my dad will go off about how I don't love my mom. I do love her, the things that she does is what I don't like. She expects us to be 'bestfriends' but then she'll do something crazy like this. |
| Question: Episode of Suburgatory with "You're Adopted Joke!" Is this funny? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:13 AM PDT I have two kids a daughter 14, and son 9. Yesterday my daughter was watching her favorite show Suburgatory and main family's oldest daughter played by Allie Grant convinced her little sister she was adopted by teasing her. The little sister was freaked out for the whole episode because she's convinced she's only one in family who has blue eyes and their for must be adopted. In the end Allie Grant's character never got in trouble, and thought poor kid, but my daughter thinks this was hilarious. Suburgatory is a great show with some smart writing, but what kind of lesson is this supposed to teach my daughter? Why didn't Allie Grant's character get in trouble? Now she might try this on her little brother. With clueless parents it's no wonder the little sister felt unloved, and her sister had the upper hand. |
| Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:13 AM PDT I honestly can't stand my mom sometimes. She is impatient, rude, and really hurts my feelings a lot. She calls my brother and I "rotten children" but when we joke around saying she's a "rotten mom" she gets all angry saying that we're so mean to her and she can't stand the disrespect. She says that "because I am your mother, I deserve your respect" and that really bothers me because she doesn't respect me half the time so why should I respect her? She asks me to do chores and i'll say "okay I will", but not even if a MINUTE passes that I haven't done them she starts screaming and saying how my phone is the reason I don't do anything around the house (even though I always help out when she isn't home, so obviously she doesn't notice I do). Or if she asks me to do something and I jokingly reply with "no way" or something she will take my phone away calling me disrespectful and rude. She has no manners whatsoever and is even rude to my dad too when asking (more like telling) him to do things. If I buy some type of shirt (with my own money) that she doesn't like she makes me return saying "I'm your mother and I don't like it, so you won't have it." I don't know what to do because she frustrates me so much and actually makes me cry so often, but every time I talk to her about this she says "oh shut up I'm a great mother." What do I do? I'm only 14 but I can't stand living with her any longer. |
| Question: Urgent!!! How do I cut my sister's fingernails while she's sleeping???!!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 10:10 AM PDT My little sister (10 years old) is not allowed to grow out her fingernails and I keep telling her to cut them but she won't so I'm gonna try to cut them while she's sleeping but I don't want to wake her up. |
| Posted: 04 Aug 2015 09:50 AM PDT I have been with him for 4 yrs. My son is 12 now. They have always had kind of a rocky relationship, because my son does not like to follow rules. I also have 2 other children that want my fiancé around. My fiancé has had a recent problem with alcohol, which has given my son more reason to dislike him. I feel like I'm the only one trying to keep my family together by asking them to get along, for my sake? My son has went as far as telling me he wants to move away, if I keep my fiancé in our lives. What should I do? |
| Question: Overprotective mom. Help? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 09:25 AM PDT I'm 18 years old and my mom is super overprotective. I start college in September but I'm not dorming. So I'm stuck living here which means I have to follow my moms rules and stuff. I'm not allowed to date or hangout with guys. My mom hates guys, she thinks they're all bad and just want sex or whatever. But I have hungout with guys behind her back. The less she knows the better. I just stay in my room most of the time. It really sucks and I'm getting tired of it. I have anxiety and depression which makes it hard for me to do things that involve other people,especially people I don't know. I really need a job so I can save up money and move out or stay at a friend's place. My mom will hate me forever if I leave but I can't stay locked up here. I don't know what I'm doing anymore. |
| Question: My mother thinks she didn't raise me well...? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 09:19 AM PDT I am a 16 year old girl and I have 2 older sisters and 1 younger brother. My dad passed away 2 years ago, so now my mom is a single parent. After dad passed away things were hard but eventually we got through it. However, things got even harder these past few months. There's this person who is taking advantage of our family but my mom doesn't want to admit that this person is not good for my family and that she is overly familiar with him. Whenever he's around I act childish because I want him out of the house, I know it's wrong but it's just sorta of a reflect. My sister does the same but she does this in the social media and this guy reports to my mom. We talked about this to our mom but she thinks we are just being childish and egoistic and that we have no manners. It's like she's taking this guy's(who me and my siblings know for sure isn't good for our family)side and not our kids. My sister literally told her that I was so depressed over this problem and I kept on crying everyday but instead she cried thinking she didn't raise us well and still picked this guys side. The problem is actually bigger but I can't write it all here. But my question is... How can I convince my mom that I'm better than this egoistic, childish person she sees me as? I love my mom and I don't like her thinking that way about me. She underestimates her kids, especially me. To be honest she never really showed me she loves me, she only calls to send me money(I don't live with her). Please help! |
| Question: If your loved one kills your child, What would you do to him/her? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 09:17 AM PDT Killing him/her is not an option |
| Question: MY LITTLE BROTHER IS OUT OF CONTROL?!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 09:03 AM PDT Every single day my little brother (10) gets into a tantrum, most of time he'll get into multiple. I like spending time with my 4 year old sister, but whenever he's around, he will hog her and keep her to himself. He is afraid to go EVERYWHERE in the house alone. The bathroom, basement, and even his room. He makes my dad to everything for him, as if he's his slave. Keep in mind he's 10!! He blackmails me all the time. For example, I mutter something. He will say "What did you say?" and I'll say never mind. Then he threatens he will call our parents and say I did something that I didn't do to get me in trouble if I don't tell him. He scares me so badly, and I don't know what to do. He has been bullying me since I was 5 (I'm 14 now) by smacking me, kicking me, and simply scarring me (literally and mentally). He hates me, and my parents all take his side just because I'm oldest. His threats scare me really bad. One time I was "bothering him" (not really) and he said "You better sleep with one eye open" and he called my mother and I a b**** twice. My parents can never enjoy vacations because of him. We want to go to Disney world, but he always wants to go back to the resort to play video games while the rest of the family wants to be in the parks. My parents tried taking him to a therapist, but he was saying how much he wanted to kill the therapist so so they stopped taking him. What should I do? |
| Question: I argue and fight with my dad all the time? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 08:53 AM PDT We don't have a good relationship. He works long hours so the time I see him is quite limited. I'm 17 now and have begun to express the opinions I have on different aspects of life. I'm not going to bore you with them, but I will say that my father is a very traditional white man (in terms of sexism, religion, etc.). He and I clash on almost everything and he constantly makes remarks such as "Men don't like women that talk to them that way" or "You won't get a man's attention acting that way". I've tried to explain that I don't care about that and that if a man wants to love and care for me, he has to respect that I am an individual with individual thoughts. This sparks fights between my parents and my father always says "Way to go (mother's name), you really taught her well. Really taught her to hate men." I also don't want to go to his family's church. I don't really like church and I view myself as a spiritual person already, I just view church as another money-grubbing and political area of life (not to mention the hateful things that my church likes to preach about). How do I stop arguing with him? He says my views are wrong because I am a naive child and will come to see his way when I have matured. I have always respected my parents and have always spoken to them with respect. I just hate that he doesn't respect my thoughts. I don't want this awful relationship and I constantly feel angry with him. Please, any help is appreciated. I apologize for how long this is. |
| Question: Would i be able to go to busch gardens with my boyfriend? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 08:29 AM PDT So im 14 and my boyfriend's birthday is the 22nd of august. School starts soon, so for his birthday he wants to go to busch gardens with me and some of his friends (all boys). His mom,dad and brother would be with us too. There plan was to leave on a thursday night, spend the night and the go to busch gardens all day friday so its easier then going 1 day. I asked my mom and she was comfrontable about cause she met his parents before. The thing is my dad. He got mad and totally disagreed with the whole time and is very pissed about it. He the decided i wasn't allowed to go. I feel bad fkr not being able to go because my boyfriend really wanted me to spend time with him before school starts ( going to different schools). I just wanna know what is your opinion on this. I feel like my dad just doesnt trust me at all. He always tells me how he thinks im not responsible and i wanna prove to him i am but he won't let me. I just wanna see if u agree with my dad or not |
| Question: Im 16 and dont want to live with my mom or dad?!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 08:09 AM PDT ive been living with my mom my whole life, but we had a falling out and i ended up living with my dad, who lives with his my stepmom( Ive known her since i was five). Now my dad is moving out and i want to stay with my stepmom... Do i have a right to stay with her? could we go to court? How old do you have to be until you can choose where you live? |
| Posted: 04 Aug 2015 08:02 AM PDT He alway reprove and screaming because the trifle thing. Ex: my mom late to buy his food. My mom make food that he does not like it. And act like a stupid no class idiot if someone doing something he dont like....Etc In the past he said im a bad son and no class . He said he will take a knife and kill me because i get mad when he talking nonsense non-stop and angry when my mom late for buy his pizza.... Today : i give my friend the weapon i did not use it in a long time. He said he will give me money but i say No . And my dad get mad will me . He said he give me money to buy it . But i said it is mom money not him and i does not use it anymore. And he start talking non sense.... How Its expensive ( yes but useless and old), He said if i does use it then leave it alone until broken . He angry because i give it to my friend without money. He said he will never talking with me if i dont take it back. And wwhen my mom at home: he said im no class . Bad son and how he raised me alway thinking about me lollllll L ... Lolll yes he feed me but when im as a child he hit me because stupid thing ex: i turn off tv that he are watching . I touch his stupid moto. I creaming when he sleep. Yes i have tell him but he said he dont care |
| Question: I wont ever forgive my mother for cheating on my dad? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 08:00 AM PDT About 5-6 months ago I found photos of my mom in bed with another man (her coworker) - taken from her cell phone. I confronted her, she told me to never tell my dad, and I told her fine but that she would have to work on the marriage with my father and that if I found any more photos, I would tell my dad. She said she understood and would work on it. I decided to check recently after a few months, and I see recent photos of her and her coworker - not sexual, but a screenshot text between the two of them where she is saying he made her so happy and a photo of him cleaning her car and a selfie picture of him sent to her. I confronted her yesterday, and she yells at me that they have not had sex and that was a long, long time ago, and that all they do is ask little favors for each other and that her and my dad are much better in their marriage. I told her I was going to tell my dad, but I decided not too, but now I've just given my mom silent treatment. I can't look at her. I can't talk to her. She'll never tell my dad. Ever. And of course it would be me the bad guy if I tell him. I can't even be in the same room as them. I'm going to my college counselor since it's free but now my mom is forcing me to be around her by asking to have lunch with her every Monday. I can't even do that without hating her and wanting to slap her in the face. I don't feel sorry for her and I hate her guts. |
| Question: How to deal with a toxic person? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 08:00 AM PDT I'm forced to live with my mom and grandma until I get into college which will be in two years. Anyway, my grandma is the problem- she always picks a fight with me, and knows that I have a short temper, and when she pisses me off (cusses me out, talks about my failures) I either scream at her like crazy or look like I'm about to murder someone. At this point, she smiles at me and runs to our next door neighbor to tell her to come and see what kind of a "monster" I am. So, naturally the neighbor comes running and gives me a lecture about respecting the elders while my grandma just stands there and smirks at me. I tried explaining to my neighbor what my grandma does, but she doesn't believe me. Nobody believes me. What should I do? |
| Question: My brother mentally and physically abuses me. Help!? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 07:58 AM PDT I'm 14 years old and he is 16. My brother makes me suffer on a daily basis. For example, I just sat quietly in my room yesterday and he came and choke me untill I salivated, and he said to me it's because he was bored. He constantly beats me up when his bored or nervous, like I'm his breathing punching bag. He beats me up really badly, I even had a black eye a few times as a result. It may sound disgusting, but he also attaches my face to his *** and farts on me (He eats beans beforehand so it would be extra-smelly). He does all of this every day. It doesn't help when I try to tell someone because everyone thinks of him him as a perfect guy: Hot, socially popular and excels in school, whereas I'm his weird, nerdy brother. He also rarely leaves any physical marks on me so it's hard to proof my claims, and when he does he threatens me beforehand to shut up or he'll make me regret the day I was born, and I'm really afraid of him. He became really sadistic recently. For example, a week ago our parents weren't in home so he beat me up (I bloodied from the nose as a result) then he sat on my face and put his legs on my chest so I couldn't move. Then he put an ice bag on my balls and forced me to hold it with my legs for twenty minutes, while he repeatedly farted on my face. Every time I moaned or breathedly loudly he punched my balls. I just can't take it anymore, he makes my life a living hell. I don't know what should I do to stop it, I tried everything! Please help me! |
| Question: I am already 17 but my parents still warn me from talking with strangers adult men? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 07:53 AM PDT When will they realize that I ,myself ,already became a man like those they warn me from I also wonder ,why they always warn me from men but never from women |
| Posted: 04 Aug 2015 07:44 AM PDT Okay so I tell her not to copy me but she does anyways... So I show her my favorite youtuber ihascupquake....and then that day she starts watching cupquake and I try getting her to stop but she won't!!! I found another youtuber Ldshadowlady and she is watching her right now and I want to slap her so badly!!! And please don't be one of those people that says she looks up to you....she doesn't she does this to annoy me cause I even told her it was |
| Question: Siblings? What will I call this new one? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 07:38 AM PDT So I'm a child from a divorced family. My parents got divorced when I was 10. She recently got married to her second husband. But he hasn't adopted me yet and nor will he ( i asked). My mom got pregnant with his child 3 months ago... will he/she be a step sister/brother or half brother / sister since we do not have the same father? I know if parents get married and the one had children with another person than your parent they are step siblings.. if one parent is yours and the other isnt then what is it? |
| Question: I am not letting my mother to be close to me? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 07:34 AM PDT I don't allow my mother to be close to me, to know what I really feel, think, want. I want to hurt her and stay away from her. I love her and don't want to do that. But when she calls I'm just so angry at her and cold and making everything to be distant from her. After all of that I cry and feel so bad that I do that but somehow I feel it's right :( When I was young boy I felt emotionaly distant to her (both parents) but we lived together so we were seeing each other everyday so for her it wasn't a problem. I felt it was a problem. But as a child I didn't know to listen myself and I just live with it disonanse in me from day to day. Now when I live on my own I feel she misses me but I'm resentful because I always felt bad at home and, what makes me more resentful - nobody ever noticed it. Like nobody really cared how I felt as a child. I don't know how to resolve this problem because when I see my mother I automatically freeze my empathy for her and DON'T want to tell her truth. After she leaves first I feel passionate anger towards her and after few minutes I cry that I am hurting her. What is going on? What should I do with this anger towards her? Please help |
| Question: I was rude to my parents and I feel bad. is this bad? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 07:30 AM PDT ok so I wanted to go to an event where all my friends were going to but my mother said mm no. because she thought it was unnecessary and I told them thye never let me go out and I acted as if I knew everything and she was stupid :(. I feel really bad................ |
| Question: My mum won't let me go to this concert? Posted: 04 Aug 2015 07:26 AM PDT Tickets for this concert me and my sister want to go to go on sale this Friday. I have the money to pay for both of us, but mum doesn't want me to go. She's allowing my younger sister to go though. I don't know why she won't allow me to go. I haven't done anything bad or wrong. I haven't failed any of my school subject. I'm a mature and trustworthy person. I've been attempting to convince her to let me go, but all I get is a straight up 'no'. I've even asked her 2 or 3 times why she won't let me go, but she refuses to give me an answer - most likely she doesn't have one. My mum is paying for my sister's ticket because she doesn't want me to go. I don't get why she doesn't want me to go. Would there be a reason why she doesn't want me to go? How can I convince her to let me go? I've been attempting to, but those attempts have got me nowhere. |
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