Marriage & Divorce: Question: If your partner wants you to pay back for everything that does for you...what does it really mean? |
- Question: If your partner wants you to pay back for everything that does for you...what does it really mean?
- Question: He wants kids and I don't?
- Question: My husband is looking for job when will he get it?
- Question: I had to abandon my kids do to problems with my husband. What can I do through the courts to get visitation rights?
- Question: My family is in need please help?
- Question: Why do people rather ignore you then apologize to you when they done you wrong?
- Question: Is it okay for Husband to get turned on by other things? Ex:Movies, women,photos,commercials?
- Question: What can someone try to do about a spouse who won t work on relationship issues?
- Question: My husband sees me only as a mother to his children and someone to have sex with?
- Question: What would you do if you found out your boyfriend/husband was a rapist?
- Question: If you "couples" rush into a "marriage" so quick, or plan to- watch the '1967 comedy' "divorce American style"....?
- Question: How to get my wife to open up in bed?
- Question: Women when married do you like your husband to initiate sex?
- Question: My husband of 12 years keeps putting off chores and it's causing problems in our relationship.?
- Question: Hey I was wondering if my stepdad adopts me and him and my mom brake up eould he be able to take me away?
- Question: Steps towards divorce.?
- Question: Need input on Middle Eastern/Arab Culture for a friend.?
- Question: Threesome help?
- Question: What's a good woman to do when she's in a no good marriage?
- Question: What are the effects of divorce?
- Question: I am getting a divorce. I have 3 children from artiificial insemination.?
- Question: What age did you get married at?
- Question: Boyfriends ex wife?
- Question: After a year of being legally separated... What would make my wife try to suddenly start over? It was her idea to leave me.?
- Question: Why would an American man be upset?
- Question: Can my teaching salary in Korea support both my husband and me?
- Question: My ex husband and I are back together. BUT just one issue!?
- Question: Men: Aside from sex what can/does your housewife do for you that helps you relax after a long day at work?
- Question: Hottest, Weirdest, Proposals you've done?
- Question: Should they get a divorce?
- Question: What age did you get married?
- Question: Why do men always say they need a break and then leave and file for divorce?
- Question: What is the purpose of marriage?
- Question: What's the first thing I'll need to do when I'm trying to file for a Divorce. there are no kid's no Bank Account and cars or anything.?
- Question: Afraid parents may get divorced?
- Question: Is dating for 4 years long enough to get married?
- Question: Would storing your money in an offshore or Swiss bank account prevent having to split the money during divorce?
- Question: Why aren't you married yet?
- Question: Why do women want to divorce so often?
- Question: I'm 20 and I having sexual urges and I don't know how prevent it? I'm waiting for marriage and that's why I feel guilty about it!?
- Question: Husband cheating with a woman, I found out about it, he wants to work it out but won t answer my questions. What now?
- Question: I just told my husband I wanted a divorce.?
- Question: As a married woman, would you cheat on your husband or have you cheated on him?
- Question: I want a divorce from my husband but I don't know where him or his family moved to?
- Question: I have a 4 year old and I have been raising him for two years since my husband disappeared. How can I get a divorce?
- Question: My Wife wants a boob job, should I support her?
- Question: Is this abnormal...?
- Question: Why is my wife such a *****? I do all the cooking and cleaning and pay the bills and anything else. She almost never wants me to touch her.?
- Question: I think my friends wife wants to have sex with me?
- Question: Should people be given a maximum of 3 divorces only?
- Question: Is it ok to call a divorcee "miss"?
- Question: If a couple with twins is divorcing, and they have agreed to each take custody of one child, will either parent owe child support?
- Question: My wife says she doesn't want to stay married but I love her?
- Question: Why is it OK for men to be men because "they're only human"?
- Question: My husband planned surprise visit to home after long time, I came to know it from his frnds. How to surprise him now in return tomorrow?
- Question: Recently married and depressed?
- Question: Is my husband lying to me?
- Question: Un-attracted to husband... What should I do?
- Question: Help me pls?
- Question: Everything is so hard for me.. .Can you recommend me for what should I do?
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:51 PM PDT Please explain clearly and in detail. Thank you all. |
| Question: He wants kids and I don't? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:40 PM PDT We are talking about marriage and the topic of children came up. I am vivid on not having kids. He said he's fine with not having kids, but I feel like my gut is telling me he is comprising for me. I know I won't change my mind, does he still think I will? Will it hinder our marriage? |
| Question: My husband is looking for job when will he get it? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:35 PM PDT |
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| Question: My family is in need please help? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:32 PM PDT Wife laid off Friday and I'm out of work due to l4 back injury. Kids need scool clothes in 4 weeks, I am in desperate need |
| Question: Why do people rather ignore you then apologize to you when they done you wrong? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:27 PM PDT Worse is when it comes from your 4 year boyfriend. He rather tell me i hurt him because i did not accept what he did to me. And now he literally is ignoring me and we leave together. Does that make sense? |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:21 PM PDT Is it normal for my Husband to get aroused by commercials,movies and women he sees when He's out? I'm newly married and I don't know a lot about these things. Sometimes it can be for a minute or sometimes it can be for 5 minutes. I was just wondering if it was normal for Him to have these feelings. By all means we have a great sex life too, but I was just curious if that's normal for men. I'm asking because some people say one thing and other people say another but I've never really asked openly like this. Please no dirty comments and don't be rude. |
| Question: What can someone try to do about a spouse who won t work on relationship issues? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:17 PM PDT |
| Question: My husband sees me only as a mother to his children and someone to have sex with? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:54 PM PDT My husband and I have been together for nine years now. We have two children. But I feel as though he just sees me as a mother to his children or a piece of meat, someone to have sex with. He always chooses to hang out with his friends instead of me. He invites his friends over, and then him and his friends to spend all night outside and I am stuck inside with our children, one who is an infant. I don't know what I can do. I love hanging out and having fun with him but when the kids are around, it's like he wants nothing to do with me. He just wants me to take care of the kids while he has fun. But then when night time comes around, He wants me to be all about having sex with him. What can I do? |
| Question: What would you do if you found out your boyfriend/husband was a rapist? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:50 PM PDT I'm just thinking about the people that go to prison and what happens to their family? |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:44 PM PDT It will give the TRUE HINT what "marriage" WILL lead to-esp. if you both don't make a "perfect-couple". |
| Question: How to get my wife to open up in bed? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:24 PM PDT We are newlyweds, and she grew up in a conservative family. She was taught sex is dirty, shes been pretty open minded so far but i feel like shes holding back. I dont expect her to be a freak in bed, but i want to know if shes enjoying it or not. Most of the time shes so quiet that i kind of feel awkward. I also would like her to initiate sometimes, i just dont like asking her when shes tired and cant really tell whens a good time to ask her for sex or how to. Shes a really good wife, she always has sex when i ask, cooks, cleans, works, and cares for me, i want to know if im pleasing her, and right now its kind of hard to tell, because she never complains or has anything to say about sex, i feel like she thinks its a chore, and i dont want her to think that. btw we both are each others first and were virgins when we met each other. we have been together for 2 and a half years and married for about 3 months now. |
| Question: Women when married do you like your husband to initiate sex? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:14 PM PDT Sometimes makes me feel that she may not want it as much as me. When it's down to business it's great for both but would be nice if she initiated it. Might be an awkward convo |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:10 PM PDT I really want to hire junk haulers to clean our garage but I don't want to piss him off. Our garage door has been broken for almost two years now. I live in the Northwest and I have to deal with scraping frost in the winter because our huge garage is junk full and I feel sorry for pests getting lost in there. He's not lazy. But he only likes to do things he likes. He also make tons of money, is smart and good looking. So I onlh want to know if my situation is normal. |
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| Question: Steps towards divorce.? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:59 PM PDT Hello. We want it simple. No kids. No fights. No debt or payments. Just sign and get done with it asap. Where do I go to do it and how do I do it? What are the steps? I live in Idaho. Thx! |
| Question: Need input on Middle Eastern/Arab Culture for a friend.? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:18 PM PDT I need help understanding part of the Middle Eastern and/or Arab culture for this question. I have a friend who is trapped in an unhappy/unhealthy relationship where she is staying put simply for the kids, more specifically her daughter. She tells me that is she leaves her daughter will have a less likely chance of ever being able to get married to someone once she comes of age (in about 12 years). She describes to me that arranging a marriage will be difficult for the daughter because the potential suitor's family will look badly upon her for being from a broken family. Is this really true? Will she and any future suitor have a more difficult time being together due to a broken family? I mean the daughter is coming from a highly educated family...please help so I can help my dear friend in her situation. I mean she obviously know more being from this culture, but I find it hard to believe that in this day someone would judge a girl based on her parents and if she left her daughter would have a difficult time marrying someone. |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 06:03 PM PDT My husband of 19years and I are in the swinging life style it's not something we do with everyone we see lol but a very select few .by the way we always use protection. Any way my husband likes to watch me with other men we did it a few times with men and everything was ok. Than we met this guy at the club and we hung out and we had sex ,we had sex at the club 3different times at the club at twice we rented a room with him. Now I'm falling for him and can't stop thinking abut him.he said he's attracted to me and we talked on the phone a few times with out my husband knowing we both said we missed each other .now I want to see him secretly. Why am I acting this way when I love my husband there are no problems in our marriage. We have three beautiful girls .hes a great husband to me. What are these mixed emotions |
| Question: What's a good woman to do when she's in a no good marriage? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 05:35 PM PDT I try talking to my husband without a fight but it still ends up that way. he has been out with Prostitute's. then back with me. not because I wanted him to but because he Raped me, as I sleep he knows I don't sleep that well so when I do sleep I have to take something that make me sleep. sometime I stay up night after night because I don't know what he will do to me. I asked him to fix me a cup of coffee after drinking it I became very sick as if he had poison me it came right back up.. once I asked him why did he marry me and all he could say is because I wanted you to be my family. never once has he said because I love you. I need to know how the heck can I get out of this marriage before this man kills me. no fun and games please I just need real help. other than that I'm just goin |
| Question: What are the effects of divorce? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 05:31 PM PDT |
| Question: I am getting a divorce. I have 3 children from artiificial insemination.? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 05:28 PM PDT The first child was born before we married, the other 2 after. My husband is now on drugs and has never had much to do with the kids. He bacame abusive and I decided I wanted a divorce. Now he wants to have the kids all the time and is trying to turn them against me. He tells my 5 year old that I am a bad mommy because I have to work during the day and cant be home playing with him all day. Can I keep him from having the kids at all? What are my options? |
| Question: What age did you get married at? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 05:11 PM PDT Are you a male or female? Are you still married? How long have you been married? Do you wish you were still single? |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 05:11 PM PDT Okay me and my boyfriend have been together for over 3 years we have a baby on the way. He has a child with his ex wife. So we see each other every weekend which doesn't bother me I am fine with her we talk and are civil with each other. My thing is I dont want to hang out with her like as far as im concerned if it dont have to do with the baby I don't feel it to be necessary for us to be around each other. Im not trying to be hateful or rude but to me going out and spending the day with her and her boyfriend isnt my idea of fun... I think that if it was their childs birthday or a holiday then that would be more understanding to me.. I just want others thoughts on this. Am I worng for thinking like this? What do y'all think? |
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| Question: Why would an American man be upset? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:47 PM PDT Why would an American man be upset? Because a British woman that lived in the United States did not want to respect his legal parental rights under US law over her child from birth until child custody ends at age 18, she gave birth in the UK. Her child that is born in the United Kingdom is not allowed to visit the United States until child custody ends at age 18 |
| Question: Can my teaching salary in Korea support both my husband and me? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:40 PM PDT My husband and I are thinking about going to Korea for an adventure! I currently teach and think it would be a great experience to teach English overseas in Korea. My husband, in his stay in Korea, would be working on his online bachelors degree. I know when you teach english in Korea they provide free housing so that is taken care of, but food and extra activities, would my pay support two people? |
| Question: My ex husband and I are back together. BUT just one issue!? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:29 PM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:26 PM PDT just trying to get some idea's because my husband has been super stressed lately. any suggestions and even some recipe's you find tasty for dinner would be welcome. what I already do for him: rub his feet with lotion when he gets home. have dinner on the table change all our daughters diapers' feed our daughter put her to bed dress her. clean the house sex. |
| Question: Hottest, Weirdest, Proposals you've done? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:17 PM PDT Just want some ideas from you guys quick pts! Either your man was doing you in the woods looking at the stars with a camp fire and pulling an expensive ring out and proposing or other hot weird stuff like that comment below lol |
| Question: Should they get a divorce? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:17 PM PDT My friend and her husband split up in July. They have a son and she is currently pregnant. He has a daughter from a one-night stand they had at the beginning of the relationship. They have remained of good terms and she has moved on. However he has just got home from a long trip abroad. They both love each other very much and she thinks if her new relationship doesn't work out she could go back to him. She's asked my advice, but I haven't a clue what to say so I'm hoping you can hope me. Should they divorce or wait a while? Thanks |
| Question: What age did you get married? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:01 PM PDT What age did you get married at? Are you a male or female? Are you still married? How long have you been married? Do you wish you were still single? Dear Anonymous: I'm almost done with my bachelors degree in college and looking into marriage as a possibility, thank you. Just because I'm curious about marriage doesn't make me high school age. Dude... stop spamming my question. Grow the f**k up. I have a fake account? You're the one answering my question with two different accounts! I reported you. If you don't have a fake account, why don't you just undo your anonymous? Go bother someone who actually cares about you. Thank you Yahoo for removing one of his/her answers! Lol Iove how this a**hole thinks he's all that liking his post up with his fake accounts. Thank you for finally revealing yourself Ashley, what other accounts do you have? I would love to report those too. Lol you do realize "Ashley" that you are making yourself look like what you called me? I find it hilarious, actually. Keep entertaining me with your immaturity. Go ahead, make yourself look like a fool. I wouldn't be supersized if you were 12 years old. You act like a kid. Deleting your answers doesn't erase them. Yahoo already got the report in full detail. Lol keep acting like a child and watch as reality hits you one day. |
| Question: Why do men always say they need a break and then leave and file for divorce? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 03:57 PM PDT |
| Question: What is the purpose of marriage? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 03:47 PM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 03:35 PM PDT We have no house together, everything was in my name from the start. Should he be able to walk away with anything . please help me if you can? we have only been married for a little over a year and seven months.. |
| Question: Afraid parents may get divorced? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 03:29 PM PDT |
| Question: Is dating for 4 years long enough to get married? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 03:00 PM PDT My gf has been bringing it up a lot recently that I have not proposed. She said I guess I am waiting on something that will probably not happen. She then said I should have done it by now since we have lived together for 4 years and have graduated college and have good jobs. We are both 29. I was thinking we could probably get married when we are 35 or 40 so that we don't rush into things. |
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| Question: Why aren't you married yet? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 02:55 PM PDT and what you waiting for? |
| Question: Why do women want to divorce so often? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 02:52 PM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 02:33 PM PDT Well I'm religious so that's why. I played sports when I was kid not anymore though,However I still work out every few days. |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 01:20 PM PDT So, I recently lost my Mom (in April) and my best friend in May. I ended up hanging out with friends for support because my husband is quite quiet and not very good with emotional support. Most of the time, my husband and I stay in and watch TV, During the grieving process I felt like I needed to be visiting more friends to get my mind off of things. At first I wasn t inviting my husband to come with me because he usually doesn t like doing things. After a few weeks, I would tell him I m going to a friends house to watch a movie, swim etc, and he would end up texting me later saying he was going out, which was quite out of character for him. SOOOO , I started thinking he was getting tired of being home alone so I would invite him and he would decline. Then of course, the truth of it all comes out. He s been hanging out with a woman who is a customer of mine. I confronted him, he tried to deny it and then he admitted it. He said he s been there "more than once but less than ten times" He said it was nothing physical. He said he fixed her computer a couple of times, helped her move furniture around, and was at a get together she threw in the backyard. I ve asked him how he got invited over in the first place, what times he was there and for how long, and a few other questions and he refuses to answer them. I told him I don t know if I can get passed it if I don t get the answers and he still won t answer but he says he doesn t want to split up. What are your thoughts? |
| Question: I just told my husband I wanted a divorce.? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:14 PM PDT What now? Do I just call a divorce lawyer and start things on my own? I have a feeling he won't make it easy. |
| Question: As a married woman, would you cheat on your husband or have you cheated on him? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 12:09 PM PDT I'm 16 years old, and I'm obsessed with stories of women cheating on their husbands and boyfriends. I'll find a story on the internet, and I'll google more, and at the end of it, I'll be really, really depressed. My dad had an affair a long time ago, and it still haunts me. It's made me completely terrified of the idea of any kind of relationship. I really need help dealing with the obsession and the sadness that goes along with it. I've learned a lot from these stories. Women cheat when the sex isn't good, when even a single emotional need isn't fulfilled, and if they're always serial cheaters or they're "bored". It's horrific. I've always been taught that adults are "mature" and all that. But, to be honest, maybe 18 or 21 are just arbitrary numbers. I've been reading a lot about seduction and psychology too (specifically The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene). I've realized that the majority of people are completely selfish. They have no real desire to make someone else happy. Selfishness is the driver for most people. People get married to not feel alone. They have kids to spread their genes. And they cheat because they have "needs" and they have the unbelievable audacity to believe that those needs should be fulfilled by default, regardless of whether their partner's needs are fulfilled or not. Women seem to do this more. Men cheat, but it's usually out of idiocy. But with women, it seems a bit more calculated. Why can't people just sit down and tell heir husband that they're unhappy? The other person has their own problems. Maybe that's why your relationship is going through a rough patch. The plan right now is to just go from girl to girl and have a time cap on relationships (about 2 or 3 months). That way, I can avoid being hurt. It's seems like too much of a risk to get married or have kids or stay with a girl too long. I'm not going to go through what my mom did and I'm not going to put my kids through what I learned and observed. Am I overreacting? Please, don't tell me that I'm being "immature". I've done lots of research. I just need some perspective and some feedback, ideally from women out there? Thanks! |
| Question: I want a divorce from my husband but I don't know where him or his family moved to? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:36 AM PDT My husband and I have been separated for almost 2 years now but I have been raising my four year old by myself since he has left with his family somewhere else and is nowhere to be found or contacted. I don't know where his whereabouts are, but I want a divorce and I want to be a single mom raising my son, not married to a runaway. How do I go about this? |
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| Question: My Wife wants a boob job, should I support her? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:28 AM PDT So my Wife and I have been married for 15 years. We have 3 beautiful children together, the oldest being 13. We were quite young parents, she was 26 and I was 27 when we had our first child (a girl), then we had our second 2 years after (a boy) and our third 4 years after that (another girl). She is currently 39 (if you couldnt do the math) and is 40 in September, and we have started to talk about what she wants for the big 4-0! I'm not being arrogant, but I am quite wealthy after taking over my fathers business, and therefore I am able to buy her nice things. She is a lawyer, so therefore she can buy me nice things. She is absolutely beautiful, and I have loved her since we met in High School. She has a big ***, but her breasts are not big (No idea what her size is). She told me that she would like a boob job. I thought she was joking at first and so just dismissed it, but she is deadly serious. I hate the idea, as I love her the way she is, and wouldnt like her to become 'fake'. However, our sex life has decreased since our second child. We still have sex, and enjoy it, but I feel like if she got a boob job it could spice things up in a weird sort of way? Something new to explore. I don't want to sound like a bad man though, because I love her the way she is, and wouldnt change anything for the world. Thoughts? |
| Question: Is this abnormal...? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:18 AM PDT My husband doesn't get to spend much time with our 3 year old son. But when he does want to take him on his own I get paranoid and HAVE to know what and where he's going. He doesn't want to tell me (probably because I'm insistent on knowing) but I at least want an idea of what he'll be taking him to do... is this normal behavior for a mom? Lol thanks! |
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| Question: I think my friends wife wants to have sex with me? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 11:13 AM PDT Me and a younger friend of mine at work named jim have been golfing buddies for several months and I've been to his house a few times. Every time I've gone his wife is wearing some revealing top with very small tight shorts that show all of her legs. She always asks me if I want something to drink but she never askes him. She will be sitting on the couch or something and every time I've looked at her she smiles at me. I saw her in Walmart once with some other woman and she gave me a big hug. And she is very well endowed and she pressed her breast all up against me when we hugged. I was also at their house for dinner and Jim went to the bathroom and I told her a dirty joke to kind of gauge her reaction and she laughed and smacked me on the leg. I know it's wrong but she is very attractive and exotic. She is like half black and half mezican and like ten years younger than me. If she tries to initiate sex with me I don't know if I'll be able to say no. Should I just stop being friends with him for the sake of his marriage. Should I tell him that his wife is going to cheat on him. Jims a great guy but he's only 23 and seems a little naive if he can't tell that his wife is planning on cheating. What should I do. |
| Question: Should people be given a maximum of 3 divorces only? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:51 AM PDT And the forth time they are banned for life from marrying . This will curb people divorcing on stupid stuff and gold diggers marrying for money and other scams. |
| Question: Is it ok to call a divorcee "miss"? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:49 AM PDT Her last name is now her maiden name |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:15 AM PDT One twin is a boy with special needs (autism) who receives SSI benefits, and the girl has no known disabilities. I understand that the parents have it in their power to arrange things outside of court, but what if one parent decides to be "ugly" about things? Will the parent raising the son with special needs be able to take the other parent to court demanding child support, even if the son is receiving SSI benefits? The question was about child support, not about whether it is okay to separate twins or not. Having to divorce is awful, having to consider separating the children is even worse. This is Yahoo Answers and I'm not going into a million details about the situation. I just hope someone has some relevant input about the original question, which was about child support in a "special circumstance" divorce. |
| Question: My wife says she doesn't want to stay married but I love her? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 10:11 AM PDT We have been married for three years and a half and have had quite a lot of disagreements in this short span. I admit that I have been verbally and physically abusive to her in the past but I am seriously working towards getting my anger in control by getting into anger management counselling. For the past few weeks, she has been saying that she wants a divorce as she doesn't love me anymore but she is still living with me. I don't want her to leave and would go to any extent to make her happy. Everytime I try to talk to her, she says she isn't mad at me but simply doesn't want to continue with the marriage. How do I help her believe that I will change and I can be the husband she always wanted. I am into therapy. Please, I can't live without her |
| Question: Why is it OK for men to be men because "they're only human"? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 09:41 AM PDT But it's not ok for a woman to feel insecure about it? It's only human to feel In secure when your with someone, and they check out other people. It's awkward to be in that position especially when you take the time to look good and all he wants to do is look around. And especially if the other girl notices. I don't mean wearing a face full of make up or any in my case, or fake hair, nails and all that. I look good without all of that, but I may wear a cute, sexy but tasteful outfit and do something extra special to my hair something like that. Why am I not allowed to feel insecure in those situations but "boys can be boys" like it's nothing?Why are their so many double standards with men? Men just don't know how hard it is being a women in this society or just in general. |
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| Question: Recently married and depressed? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 08:33 AM PDT 27/f recently married my bf a little over a year 32/m. I feel like he only married me bc I'm pregnant. He wouldn't do it before so obviously I feel that's why. It also bothers me that he won't put it on his Facebook (not one pic or mention of me on there other than we're in a relationship which most can't see), and didn't want his mother to put it or any pics on hers bc his ex wife of ten yrs ago would see it. Why even be concerned with what she sees? He said bc his mom just wanted to post pics of us to 'get back at her', but they had a nice wedding--we didn't even have a wedding, just got married in the pastor's yard. So it doesn't make sense his mom was trying to make the ex jealous, if anything it'd make her feel better! Now I am down and depressed about everything. Saddened by the fact we wouldn't have married so soon if I wasn't pregnant and he seems ashamed of me in front of his ex. Any thoughts |
| Question: Is my husband lying to me? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:29 AM PDT This morning I was with my step daughter in the bedroom, she was painting my nails and accidently got nail polish all over the carpet. I grabbed my husbands phone as it was on the table and mine was in my pocket to find a way to get nail polish out the carpet in a panic. I opened his Safari app and the first thing that came up was a porn hub link... My heart sunk. There was several tabs open with pornhub videos. Some were even from today and yesterday when I looked in his history. I confronted him and he won't admit it, he claims he has a virus on his phone because his email keeps getting porn spam... I find it hard to believe a virus has opened pornhub videos with things that my husband would watch, the titles in the video pretty much match my husbands kinks. He still is denying it and I'm trying to believe it... We have an active sex life, we have watched porn together so I would rather him be honest. It's the lying that's killing me. If he's going to lie such a small thing, how am I meant to trust him? All day he's been acting odd since I confronted him, he bought pizza, he did all the tidying up, he's extra affectionate and it makes me feel like he's trying to cover his actions even more. I'm so frustrated... Am I over reaching or should I believe that it wasn't him? We don't have any teenagers or adults in the house so it Can't be someone else. |
| Question: Un-attracted to husband... What should I do? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 07:24 AM PDT I feel so bad to even say that but I just feel like we've drifted so far apart and I have no attraction to him whatsoever. I'm a personal trainer, I love eating healthy and working out and being in shape. I wasn't always in shape but I lost a lot of weight and completely changed my life. My husband resents that and even told me he's "jealous" of how much weight I've lost. He always makes insecure comments about me going to cheat on him because I look good or if I get a text for Someone he'll say "who's that, your boyfriend". I know he's just insecure but it really bothers me and I've told him that but he still does it. We have nothing in common. I like to go to the gym or run and be outside. I've asked him to join me but he always has an excuse and never will go. He's very obese and I've tried to get him to make changes in his diet and exercise but he doesn't care. His only really hobbies are going out to eat and shopping. All he talks about is money, his job, and material things. We just have nothing to talk about and I can't remember the last time we had a meaningful conversation. I am not sexually attracted to him. It sounds so messed up but I just do it out of compulsion and wait for it to be over. I'm trying to start over and remember why I fell in love with him in the first place but I'm just so empty in this relationship. Anyone ever have moments like this? I've felt this way for probably a year now. |
| Posted: 02 Aug 2015 05:16 AM PDT I'm living in iran ,in iran who girls have sex can't marrage , is in different countries like Europe girls cant have sex? Or they can have sex and marrage |
| Question: Everything is so hard for me.. .Can you recommend me for what should I do? Posted: 02 Aug 2015 04:31 AM PDT My husband has a job and I am just staying at home. I feel guilty because I'm doing nothing the whole day. |
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