I've been in love with my happily married friend, for a couple of months. We're pretty good friends and see each other every Sunday and sometimes during the week. Keep in mind, I used to not be able to stand him, only because he was my boss. I was very negative and we didn't get along so well (although he claims he didn't think we didn't get along haha). He has always flirted with me so I guess the attention sort of got to me after a while and I developed feelings for him. As we've gotten closer as friends, I have fallen completely in love with him. When he walks into the room or pulls up to my house, I can't breathe lol. I've spent time with him and his wife and I know they're happy together, but they also don't seem very affectionate and I get the feeling that they do love each other, but it's the whole marrying your best friend thing. I can't tell that they're IN love, but they've also been married for many years. She was actually his first real girlfriend. I don't want to ruin our friendship and I certainly don't want to jeopardize their marriage. I keep wondering how he'd react, though, if I confessed my love to him. I would hope it'd stay between us and that we'd stay friends, but obviously I am VERY aware nothing would happen between us. It's just difficult to not be able to get it off my chest. I honestly think he'd be very surprised to hear it, given that I previously loathed him lol. P.S. I am 26 and he is 37.

My parents are on the brink of separation and have been fighting with each other for years. My brother is a trouble maker and that is kand of a catalyst for my parents to get into an argument. They have tried marriage counseling but it didnt help at all. I feel that if a person of the law with authority can come and try to help my parents communicate they might get along again.

I have been with my husband for 8 years. We have a 7 and 3 year old. Our marriage has been rocky. He always picks fights with me and gives me the silent treatment. I always want to talk it through see why he is upset and how can we fix it. But he never wants to try until he sees me upset because of his carelessness, then all of a sudden his happy again and wants to be with me. Its like im in a bipolar relationship. I have given him so many chances its not even funny i feel degraded and unappreciated. I finally left beacuse i cant take it anymore and he still doesnt take me serious. Its been a week since i left him and he calls and calls. I answered twice since this week. He tells how i need to come home and he loves me but in a very manipulative way i know he doesnt believe im tired of our situation. I need guidance on how to make him realize im serious this time i cant live like this anymore. We have 2 boys and my 7 year sees us fighting I dont want this for my kids. How should I deal with this situation?

We are getting married and we have alot of animals already 6 bunnies, 8 guinea pigs, 1 dog, 1 chinchilla, 1 lizard and a baby.

Currently I am working full time, in school full time and we have a small child. My husband doesn't work right now. We get into daily arguments and he criticizes my parenting and says I don't "help enough" with my daughter. I love my daughter so much but she's a handful, and with everything else I'm just barely getting by. I feel guilty for this but I'm physically exhausted. Once I finish school it will greatly benefit all of us, so I think my husband should give me a break and let me sit down a little longer if need be in the evenings. Today was my day off and he got mad because I didn't chase my daughter around as much as he did......really? I'm exhausted and trying to juggle everything..all he has to do is watch her and clean. Is my thinking all wrong? Because he makes me feel like a bad mom and that I'm not doing enough.

If you marry someone who has children from their previous marriage do you financially support their children even if they get child support from their parent and both bio parents are alive, well and working. What about moving in together? Do you see your home and move to the other side of town to be with them even though you don't work close to there but they refuse to move elsewhere because of their kids schools and their ex likes the location too.

So long story short.. In April of 2016 I started noticing my husband had weird behavior he would be out more with his guy friend who is also married. He wouldn't eat all his food I would make him and lastly we slept in different rooms. At the time I was 5 months pregnant by him.. He was becoming more and more distant and it came to a point where I got tired of it.. So one day I called him so we can talk in person and I told him why he was acting that way he told me I was being a ***** all the time and I wouldn't let him breathe.. So I told him if he wasn't going to get it together to take his clothes and leave and he did.. But prior to that day I had told him if he was seeing someone else he didn't want to admit it till I finally made him spill the beans he said he was just talking with this younger girl she was 19 at the time he was 28 at the time so we got separated for 3 months and it was hard especially in my situation but we had to co parent for the sake of my son.. And in July of that year he would call me and say he missed me if I wanted to have dinner and I said no! He kept insisting other days sometimes I would ignore him.. And he was with that girl still.. So he broke up with her I guess because they never got along and he found out she was a big hoe in Mexico. And he moved back in to our house which at the time I want living there so we started seeing each other after I found out he wasn't with her anymore.. Then he eventually convinced me to move back in and i did

So my boyfriend recently moved in with me so we could be together. His wife came over unexpectedly yesterday with his 3 kids age 13, 8, and 5. She brought them by to see their father but I believe it was just an excuse to see me and what I looked like. She ended up going off on me and telling me I ruined her life all because I couldn't keep my legs closed. She started crying which made the youngest child cry and I knew the oldest one knew what was going on and I couldn't help but feel guilty. I made her leave because I felt very uncomfortable.

Is it ever ok to not go to the majority of these things with your spouse? Why?

Hi there, I m 27 years old. I ve been with my husband since I was 16, but we ve only been married for 6 months. I just found out that he s been cheating on me for 2 months with his secretary, whom was also my friend and his best friends wife. I had my suspicions, I would ask him about it, and he would deny everything. We ve been talking about about it and trying to figure things out, but their stories don t match up. I know for a fact (cause she told me) that things were not that great with her husband and they were fighting a lot, and were not being intimate, my husband claims she would come over to his desk to seek comfort. But she is denying that and said he was the one who was making moves on her. Either way, I will never know the complete truth. How do I go about trying to trust him again?

his arm around the woman's waist and kissing her on the cheek? Think about women he thinks are attractive. Are you comfortable with that? My wife is a hugger and some guys kiss her on the cheek and tell her she's pretty. When I say I'm uncomfortable with it she say's,don't be silly. She would hit ceiling if i did that.I don't think I'm being silly for feeling that way.

When I said why, she said that's just a signature move between him and her as friends

A control freak, married and trying to scam me out of money.(Predator) No money given, even though he asked me to commit Insurance fraud and asked for loans. How do I trust again? I am Wiser today and forgave myself for falling for his lies,allowing it in the first place, but how do I trust again? It took a long time to realize I was the victim and yep I felt like a fool. Please don't call me names or beat me up. I'm human...

I have been going thru personal issues and am now talking to a therapist. My wife said to me: if something was wrong I am the person to tell you. Everything is fine. Last month she wrote me a text saying I am a great son/father/husband and it makes her sad seeing me this way. She said she will do anything to help. Meant a lot! Since we have had kids or relationship has been distant. Normal part of life I have heard. She was honest with me and said she puts the kids first. She said they are young and loves every minute of them. I get it and the day will come we have more time for ourselves. My question is how do I stop worrying? I will being this up in my next season.

My husband and I have been married 8 months . He is an amazing man and I love him, but he has terrible temper and can be extremely over jealous at times. We got into a huge argument about him staying out late the night before. The argument carried on u til the next day. We we're riding in the car and we were arguing my husband starting speeding doing over 90. I told him to pull over because I didn't feel safe and he started speeding even more telling me it's the f***** freeway he is not pull over. I got so frustrated and yelled telling him to pull over. He yelled to the top of his lungs saying " I'm not pulling over so shut the f*** up and ride" Disclaimer* my husband never curses at me nor uses profane language only when he gets super mad. So I pulled out my phone to text a close girlfriend of mine to go out later that night to give me and my husband a break from each other. My husband then snatched my phone and threw it onto the highway. I have never seen my husband this angry before, but he has his moments. He is so over protective, jealous, and controlling over me. The next morning he came and apologized with gifts including a new cell phone but Im so over this . I love him so much but I don't know if I can live my life this way. I most certainly don't want to end my marriage but I don't know what to do... advise needed please. Please be nice Side notes: I'm 26 and he is 34 We have no children yet Besides this high tempered side to him he is Amazing. He has never hit me

my My husband loves kissing my belly instead of my lips and neck.. can it be a fetish?

What does that tell you? I already know the answer even so he keeps on denying it...that hes not over the *****. But I'd like to get other opinions and what all I should do about it...I've already asked him to delete them and he won't right this second...He never tries to make things better between us by doing the little things that would help our relationship...why is that do you think?

About 3 weeks ago my friend's husband very menacingly told her how he could strangle her and no one would ever find the body. People on Answers said if 1st time no big deal, just a marital squabble. Now, 3 weeks later he laughingly tells her in the kitchen how easy it would be to just poison her food. Thoughts, please. Thanks everybody for your answers. I have been telling her to please report it to the police and let them give advice.