For my wedding party, I'm having one of my best guy friends stand beside me in my line, but I have no idea what he should wear! On the grooms side, he has a few of his female friends, and they'll be wearing black dresses. However, I have no idea how to coordinate so that my guy friends matches my side! Would a matching colored collard shirt that matches the bridesmaids dresses work? I don't want anyone else to be in white besides me, so a white suit is out. Would it be look better if he also wore what the groom was wearing? Thoughts?

OK, so my best friends is a male, I am female. It was a 2 year engagement and I've always asked when I'm gonna get my invite in the mail. He told me that no one has gotten it. He's told me that weeks ago. Fast forward to today and I know that the wedding is coming up in september and my boss is asking for over time. So I ask him, when is it, because I need to know in order to plan. He directs me to an elaborate website with all the wedding info plus wedding party bio. I immediately think that this website did not appear overnight, his other friends knew about it, and why didn't he send me this "invite" weeks/months ago.. He tells me that he thought I knew the dates (I did not, and even if I did, that does not equate an inviite/ RSVP). I told my sister and she said, basically, I wasn't invited (jokingly). But its truly how I feel. Am I over reacting?

I thought I was going to have about 200 people at our wedding and now it is about 65. Me and my fiance had a falling out with his mother and father, since we refused to loan MORE money to my future brother-in-law. Now his entire family is not expected to come besides a few people like his grandmother. Now I have paid for a venue with enough space for a 200 person wedding (I had 140ish reservations at the time) and now I have an estimate of 65 from my maid-of-honor (she called to get dinner choices since we didn't get a caterer til this week and everyone in his family except his grandmother said they now weren't coming). His family was the majority of the invites since I have a small family. The wedding is in two weeks. How can I make the venue seem more appropriate for the crowd?

Does the marriage license go on record ,files or does it go on record after when u get it sign ?