Bueno mi caso es. Tengo una relación de 6 meses los primero meses todo era bonito y buena onda,pero esto últimos días he notado un declive en la actitud de mi novia, el caso es que ella se fue a vivir para otra ciudad hace como 2 meses y viene cuando hay vacaciones pero he notado , que no nos tratamos como antes, ya no tenemos ni temas de que hablar y cada día nos estamos alejando mas y como es normal ya he empezado a dudar bueno me considero una persona muy expresiva y le hable sobre nuestra situaccion, que porque ese cambio de actitud me dice que nada que no pasa nada, así duramos 4 día en eso.hasta que me explico ella me dijo que tiene problemas familiares y esos problema la an puesto de esa forma , la trate de entender y le dije que la apoyo y todo y la aconseje en fin ella me prometió que cambiaría duramos unos días bien pero volvemos a lo mismo. y le he hablado mucho sobre nuestra situaccion pero al final volvemos a lo mismo ah y siempre soy yo que la busco y la aconsejo y todo. porque ella es de un carácter dura y orgullosa pero no se ya eso me esta cansando y hasta un desgaste emocional me esta dando no se si dejarla tranquila y esperar que ella me busque y vuelva a lo de antes o terminal con ella porque ya tengo dudas de que ella tiene otro y eso me tiene hasta con estrés. QUE HAGO? . posdata: yo he terminado con ella 2 veces y se pone a llorar y que me ama y eso. y también le he dicho que para que me sea infiel o no quiere estar conmigo que me diga que yo voy a entender y no tendré rencor que si en verdad me ama no haría nada eso. pero ella me dice que es fiel pero como quiera sigo con mis dudas

Some people have lied to me so much that now they re finally coming clean with the truth and I don t have any respect for what they have to say. I can t quite explain it, it s like I accept the truth but because it s coming from them it makes it lose all of its value. It s like I would rather not hear them say anything at all.

Hacia ya unas semanas que empece a sentir que ella me gustaba me pregunte a mi mismo que hago y decidi decircelo pero antes de hacerlo me eche atras pensando que no seria correspondido . La invite a salir en una semana y media porfavor nesesito opiniones :(.

Me & my bf were together for 3 years. He cheated on me with someone else & I let his sorry *** go. Well the other woman acts like she's mad at me & doesn't even want his family talking to me. She does not like the fact that his mother and family still favor me after all of these years. I have since then Marriedand moved on. What would cause her to still have an issue with me and she was the one who broke up my home?

We had instant chemistry from the moment we met. The intense kind that shakes you to the core. We talked about everything and everything and it felt incredible. He insisted that we go on a date and even though I was nervous I went. The date was a memorable one and very unique. He told me that we didn't have chemistry after the date and he went radio silent, acting like I didn't exist. Since then we have repeated a pattern re-connecting and not speaking and I always reveal my feelings and emotions and he acts cold. I had enough and cut him off, he contacted my co-worker and asked her how I was and if she would have me contact him. He never met her before, he just knew we worked together. He told me he thought of me often after that he missed me. I had moved on at that point but it all came flooding back when he said that. So yet again I opened up to him about my feelings and he told me he felt nothing for me. Why????

Answers I expect (and will reject): "It will never happen without counseling, get a divorce" Answers I am hoping to get (and will accept): "It takes a while but this is what you need to do while you wait [12 step program of how to grow a spine and detect forms of psychological and emotional abuse]." * * * * * I don't plan on earning points to ask more questions or create more accounts, this is pretty much the last question I need for a while. I know I already said I was going to leave but I think this question needs to be asked, especially since she found my new Y!A account and is pissed that I am getting advice again instead of allowing her aggression to control me. I still dont know how I am going to stop being controlled by her abuse, but I cant keep letting her use punishment and consequences to control me. That's how this abuse works, she has a list of punishments and games in her head that she can use to "make me think" or "learn my lesson" (basically so she can get her way), especially when she doesn't like my behavior. Her psychological abuse plays like this: Trash not promptly taken outside, "are you trying to win a world record to see how long it can stay full before I get mad". Her emotional abuse is like this: After telling her my feelings, "I don't agree with anything you just said, it's all in your head. You're the one hurting me" which twists it back ontobme and my feelings are INVALIDATED and now I am on the defensive. What advice do you havs for me?

I had to cancel an important dentist appointment this morning due to no sleep and excessive anxiety. I'm 18. My dad basically lost his ****, threatened to kick me out, and took my phone and computer. He does pay for them so fair enough I guess, but reasoning is a bit off. Keep in mind that I'm a good kid, only time I lose the phone is from anxiety-related events (so the punishment doesn't really match the action, IMO). Get good grades, don't drink/smoke/do drugs/act up/etc. I leave for college tomorrow morning and I'm totally freaking out. I had my packing list and to do list on my phone, and I calmly and politely asked my dad if I could see it real quick just to copy down my list, and he told me to go away and not to ask him about my phone or computer and that I had some nerve. My mom kind of understands but has no power over him. I'm getting so stressed that I'm forgetting things, and I know that I definitely am because I don't have that list. I'm very OCD this way and like to have all my ducks in a row. I'm actually sweating from stress/anxiety. This is not how I pictured packing/moving to go and it's adding so much anxiety on top of what I was already experiencing. I also normally like to wind down with my phone after a stressful day like today but that's secondary to the whole list thing. Just having it back would alleviate a lot of stress though. Any good tips on how to try and get my phone back so I can pack stress-free?? :(

Which side of their family is more deeply English in ancestry - maternal or paternal side?

My husband has a friend who doesn't have any kids or problems that are abnormal she always has a sob story about why things are not going right in her life and I just hate people like this she doesn't have a car and she moved and and didn't even have a steady job to pay for her house and no she wasn't kicked out and she quits jobs without a new one to start at and she dropped out of school because her boyfriend broke up with her I really just dont like her at all I find her pathetic am I being mean because I'm really tired of him always feeling bad for her?

so he was stroking my thigh and he slowly moved upwards. a few moments later he grabbed my waist. i do not know if it is because i didn t respond but what could i do next time. we are also FW FWB*

bueno me paso algo muy peculiar, estube durmiendo en la misma cama con un amigo pero no creimos que pasaria nada pues el es hetero y tiene mujer e hijo, de repente a altas horas de la madrugada me dan deseos de abrasarlo y lo hice, luego frote su pene y pues el se puso erecto, luego le di un muy buen sexo oral hasta que acabo, al dia siguiente los dos hicimos como si no hubiese pasado nada, dias despues le pregunte que le habia parecido lo que paso aquella noche y el respondio con duda que estaba mal que nunca debimos haber echo eso, aun asi seguimos siendo amigos nos vemos saludamos incluso trabajamos juntos, pero es dificil fingir que algo no paso cuando quisieras que se repitiera de muchas formas y aun mejor. pues en su respuesta se notaba un tono de duda, confusion, decia que eso no era normal, pero mi pregunta es se que le gusto porque de lo contrario no dejaria que te hagan sexo oral si no te gusta esa persona, pero su respuesta fue eso esta mal no es normal; estare haciendo mal, el estara confundido o el confundido soy yo, si le gusto lo de aquella noche?, no quisiera presionarlo y luego perder su amistad. que debería hacer.

Hello, I don't know where to turn anymore since no one i know will or can help. An old friend of mine is currently suing me for what appears to be nothing. I had a court date on the 23rd, but it was just him, his son and 2 of his friends in a room saying i was guilty. After this incident, i felt bad but thought nothing more of it for a few days. However, later on the 26th or 27th of July I was relaxing at home after work when i heard my front door (i rent an appartment in an appartment complex with a lot of appartments.) open and HIM saying he was home. I don't know how he has keys to my appartment, nor why he came by. When i tried talking talking to him he kept putting his hand in front of me (really fast and aggressively). I had no choice but to stand down and watch him make himself at home. It was terrifying. I believe he stole most of the cheese in my fridge and left marks on the remaining cheese - i believe he ran his nails across the cheese. As he was leaving he left several grease-stains across my walls and door, it took me nearly a day to remove the grease from the door handle to my appartment (it's a big complex). Anyway, after this incident i decided to talk to my landlord about this and why/how he has keys to my appartment(in the appartment complex). The landlord said that the appartment is in my name but my husband (WHAT? i'm not married!) came to pick up the other set of keys. Update: According to my neighbour, a man came by yesterday and rubbed something on my door handle. I did notice that my door handle was kind of greasy but i thought nothing of it. My neighbour believes that the person (who i can only assume is him or his green son) rubbed raw chicken on my door handle in an attempt to poison me. I do not know how to fight this menace. He says he owns my car? I cant find my registration papers Apparently some guy from Domino's pizza has been introduced into all of this? I went to the restaurant earlier today and rang the pizza bell for an order - when they pizzaman arrived to take my order i told him I was not hungry. The pizzaman rang the bell, not once, but 5 times. I do not dare to think what may follow the 6th, let alone the 7th toll of the bell. I decided to pack my things and leave the restaurant in a hurry but i can feel his son in the shadows. Who can help at this point?

My boyfriend & I have been dating for almost 2 years.. he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship & he s in his late 20s, I have a 5 year old & in my early 20s. We ve talked about it before & he just says he doesn t want more kids but I do.. I need advice idk what to do!! Ugh please help

Would you feel bad... Annoyed angry

I feel like if I can't be part of the ceremony i am just giving a $1000 gift especially when it is an inconvenient date?

Before you jump down throat. Please, here me out. I am 21 years old. I ve been in a relationship since December 2014 with my 24 year old boyfriend/son s Father. At first, when I met him he had a good job. His car had put him down weeks prior to meeting. I was still a full time student in college(18 at the time) he would give me anything I wanted and needed back then. Fast forward to 2015, he ran thru almost 8 jobs. It came out that he was receiving disability benefits since he was 13 years old ! He swears to this day that he had no idea that he was receiving those benefits. He claims his Mom was spending the money.( Yeah right) In 2015 I was pregnant. I worked for Bank of America. 40+ hours a week to provide for our son. He did not have job. He barely contributed to anything back then but was receiving that money and not saying anything. 2016, he barely worked he ran thru 3 cars. He lied to me every day about working. He even called me pretending he was on break ECT but the whole time he was at home. The money he was giving me for our son, I guess came from him borrowing money from people. Fast forward to 2017, I am in my own place, FT Student, and I volunteer to gain work experience. He s helping with his Son with his disability money. Which, I don t understand why he s getting it. There s nothing wrong with him. He s had the best of the best jobs. He just doesn t like to work. Sometimes I care too much and want to help him. What should I do?

My mom is sick and doesnt work, she is on disability. She should be on anti-depression meds but doesnt take it. I am basically the parent. I work and my boyfriend works. We both want to move out but we cannot afford much, maybe a basement apartment. If he moves in with me and my mom where we live now, there will be enough room because we live in a 3 bedroom. Does living with a bf/gf and their parent put a toll on the relationship? This will all save us money and he will be closer to his job. It makes sense but then again Im scared it may take a big toll. He understands I help my mom but on the other hand it is frustrating being a "parent". Did you ever live with your gf/bf and parents all together? My mom and bf both get along. Please any advice will help!

I am a guy and my parents are friends with a family that we have known for a long time and they have two sons that act like my real brothers since my real older brother is Autistic. Well anyway the oldest Adam and the youngest James have always been protective of me since my brother with autism can get violent when he throws a temper tantrum. Now I am an in college and I like to party and I study a lot but when I go out on a date they get all overprotective and I have never had sex before marriage and I am not planning to because I don't want a kid outside of marriage. Well three weeks ago I got drunk and when I told Adam about it he got so mad at me and he lectured me for about two weeks about it and now he makes sure I don't do anything stupid and he keeps his eye out on me. Then one time I was talking to James about me dating he said that he thinks I should finish college before wanting to date. Why are they like that with me?

A coworker wanted me to email him, but I politely declined because he's married and I told him that I didn't want his wife to accidentally see it. Now my coworker's ignoring me and no longer talking to me but we still have to work together in a factory. How do I deal with his hostile, distant, and negative attitude from now on?

I feel completely isolated and the job is not the position I accepted. I am not even working for the same manager or department. Work paid me 10K sign on bonus my main motivation for the job was money and nothing else. If I don't stay a year I have to pay that back. Now I feel like money is not everything I can afford to pay it back but I won't have much left. Also it won't look great on my resume my previous job I only stayed a year and 1 month. I had to threaten to sue my old employer to get everything he owed me so I don't think going back is an option.