Ok, So i'm 27 and My Wife is 24, we have been married for 3 years and have been together for a total of 7 years. I have known her since i was 12 and she was 9. Her mom is married (In case people say to nail her mom) Her mom was a Cougar when i was a kid so majority of guys can't blame me if they met her, anyways I started to have a crush on her when i was 15 (She is my mom's Friend), anyways...should i tell my wife about this phase that lasted like 2 months or will it be too awkward?...either way i feel guilty because she might think that i masturbated to her mom (which i did) but that was 12 years ago and i didn't know i was gonna marry her one day, she was popular and i was geek, help?

Okay so I fellin love with a man 15 yrs older than me I'm 18 hrs 33 and he just got his divorce from a 10 year marriage he has 2 kids we ant to get married in October but his family says the that he needs counsoling (he doesnt) they want us to call off the engagement and date other people and wait a year to get married or they won't be there for us I think that it's wrong that they are telling us what we have to do for them to be there for us we know what we have but they don't believe it's real I don't know what to do cause I don't want his relationships with his family to be gone but I think it's our choice

So I've been married for 6 years now and this year is by far the worst. My husband has so much trust issues and is always fighting with me so I have no choice but to take me and my two daughters away from the toxic mess. It's so draining I'm also 7 months pregnant and it's even harder to have to deal with him. He's happy one moment than mad the next. When we split up it would be for about two weeks he goes compliments other girls messages them on FB and I NEVER feed into it. than he's blowing me up that he's sorry he wants to change. He was just mad he loves me and our kids. So I go back to him thinking we're gonna be a family than he does the mental abuse all over AGAIN. He accuses me of the most craziest things and when I confront him on these girls he talks to on fb he says he was doing that out of anger. Honestly I just want to move on all this is childish to me how he's acting and I've tried countless times to meet his needs and make him happy and at the end me and our kids are without. So I left him again due to his accusations he didn't want me to leave but I couldn't take it anymore. He would wake me up at all times of night trying to argue. Just sad I have kids with this guy and we have one on the way. Why is he doing this to me? Especially with the girls calling them beautiful when it should be me and our daughters. Please no rude comments.

I been married to this guy for almost a year, I found out 2 weeks into our marriage he had an affair with his ex who he used to make me feel very self conscious about before we got married, that was the love of his life and he would not stop rubbing that on my face, I used to want to be her at times, he came clean one night after I got home from work and he was very sick he was crying all afternoon and I thought it was related to his sickness, he told me he could not do it anymore, one night he got extremely angry because I did not attend to an event that was important to him and he looked for her in revenge, they had sex and the affair continued, I spoke to her after to find out what happened, she told me he begged her to meet and she did not want to but then accepted, he cheated on his other ex with this same woman this is the second time he cheats on someone with the same person, when his mom found out she started posting things on the woman's timeline and turned her back on me, now I'm pregnant and I'm still hurting I thought the baby could save our marriage but I'm not sure how I will explain to my child his grandma can't be around, and the real reason behind it, I can't understand how he can say it was a mistake but it was a continuous "mistake", How do I know this won't happen again? How do I know he doesn't still love her? Why would someone make feel so self conscious and then cheat with that person, when he knew how I felt about her.

We have been through a lot this past year. He's not home right now. I was talking to him on the phone and told him I love him. He was quiet for a second and I asked him if he could say it back. I could tell he started crying and he said hes trying to say it back. Then he said it. We've been through a lot and we still are. He has a lot on his plate. Maybe he's just stressed about everything? He's had no problem saying it before...he just said it two days ago.

Ok yeah I have a boyfriend and he wants to see me later but my problem is I don t normally go out and I don t have any friends so it s not like I can say I m going to chill with the girls. I really like this guy but i don t know what to do. A little information on my marriage- I m filling for divorce but he won t leave me alone. He is emotionally and mentally abusive to me sometimes physical. I want out of the marriage but he won t let me. And I bumped into this other guy along the way and I really like him.

I'm a teacher and my wife is an admin assistant. I get summers off. I take care of everything while she's at work: laundry, housework, shopping, cooking. I make sure it gets done. She complains because I sit around and surf the internet. I'm just researching, surfin around, and reading news, nothing out of line. During the day, she will occasionally come home unannounced to randomly check on me. Murphy's Law, I'll be on the couch surfin. Whenever we get in arguments she says all I do is sit around all day on the computer. It makes me angry because I'm treated like a child.

My husband has been working out of state for the last month. He comes home every other weekend and then he s gone again. We have two small children, ages 4 and 1, and I feel a lot of anger and resentment towards him. I m angry that he doesn t call or facetime us often and I m angry that I have to explain to my 4 year old why daddy isn t home at night. I m lonely and I m becoming bitter. Any suggestions on what I can do to feel better and help my son? I ve asked my husband to call more and text more but it s like it s not important to him. I am always the first one to reach out.

What should I do?

and she is single, lives in another country and they never met as I read their emails they wrote to each other on my husbands computter, what should you do if you were me, we are married for 19 years and have a daughter.

I just want to get some friendly advice because I can't trust my own thoughts right now. I am too emotional and not able to trust my own instincts. I am married, my husband has cheated on me multiple times, and I stayed and tried to make my marriage work many times. I wanted to leave my marriage so many times, but I didn't have the courage. In the end, my husband admits he has a drug problem and goes to treatment, by that time; I was so far gone from him that I did end up meeting someone else. I care about this person, but obviously am willing to completely end things to save my marriage. My husband says he is a changed man and wants to make me happy, seems to repent for all he did to me. The lying, cheating… that has lasted over 6 years now. I don't know what to do…. Do I move on with my life, even alone or do I give my marriage another chance… taking the risk of losing myself again. I also don't know if he is acting this way because I told him the truth about meeting someone else and I wanted a divorce. He has cried a lot since then, and follows me everywhere, is actually nice to me. I just don't know what the right thing is anymore, but I am in limbo with my life, unable to grow or move forward. It's a terrible place to be.

He's not a bad man but it's getting harder and harder to have intelligent conversations with him after he's been drinking, which is every single night. He says he deserves to relax and I shouldn't want to deny him that. I don't know if I would mind so much if we could talk sensibly, but he gets "out there" anymore and our conversations get stupid. He's been told about it by his doctor, but of course, he says the doctor doesn't know what he's talking about. We've had many arguments over it and he says he's not an alcoholic and I am being mean. I have broken my promise after I've told him I wouldn't bring it up again, but it's very hard to keep quiet. His reasons are, "I enjoy it, I need to relax, I work hard, and don't you want me to be happy?" I've invested 30 years in this and couldn't be more unhappy. I asked him what is more important, us or drinking, and he makes a joke about it. He says he will have to think about it. It's now to the point where I am questioning myself. Am I being too hard on him or should I just let it go?

So, I saw a message in my fiance's fb messenger that I didn't appreciate. He was chatting with a buddy of his and they were talking about women. My fiance sent his friend a pic of a girl saying if he ever made his way out to the state she lives in she wants him. His friend said "you're married". My fiance replied back "no ring homie". Now how would you take that?? **And yes, he actually knows the girl. Someone he went to school with.

My husband used to be the biggest A** H*** I knew before we got married! I hated him and didn't want to marry him! We met in University. I belong to a middle class family and I am from a foreign country. My husband was born and raised in the USA. He belongs to a wealthy family. He is highly educated, and good looking, as well. But he was also very arrogant and self centered. He tricked me into marrying him. We had an arranged marriage. I heard his friend say that he won the bet! Can you believe it? When I confronted him about it, he said that he did make a bet to marry me, but now he really DOES loves me! He begged me to forgive him! Now he is the most sweet, kind, loving, and caring guy in the world. We have been married for 18 months. But I still don't fully trust him! You can't blame me! Anyways, why did he change so much?

I have a 9 year old daughter, and when she was four her mother and I split. We never got a divorce because I didn't want to see my ex too much. I wanted some free time so I didn't catch up with my daughter much, but every time I saw her she was very well mannered and polite despite being raised by a single woman. Now her mother is in hospital with terminal cancer and I have to look after my daughter. Well, now she is very moody and doesn't seem to want to spend time with me. She says she is upset that her mother is dying and that we don't go see her much, but wouldn't she be sad, not angry? My theory is that my wife cheated on me and had another boyfriend while I was travelling and he parented differently and thats why Emma is no longer well behaved. She probably even let her new boyfriend look after the kid while she went partying! I told my daughter this theory and told her I always knew her mother was a whore and she just stared at me for a long time and then ran to her room and slammed the door. Which means I was probably right. Should i go confront her? I went to see her once to ask for money (since i'm raising her kid) and she just kept asking where Emma was and if she could see her so I probably won't get much out of her but i should try, right?

He hates fb all of sudden and he says if i force him he will permanently delete his account. We got married previous month. Help me understand and what should i do :(

She says she doesnt want to have children with me because I already have children from my previous marriage and she says it will look bad and the kid won't be special to me, the kid will also have problems dealing with my kids, I dont have the money or time to have a kid with her and will treat my kids differently than our child, etc should I be offended by this?

My Husband and I have been together for 10 Years. The past 4 years he has been a over the road Truck Driver. I was on the road with him for most of that time but I had to have knee surgery. Sept of Last year he came off the road. He forgot out Wedding Anniversary he didn't get me anything for Valentine's Day my Birthday nor Christmas... He started cussing at me calling me names .. I found him talking to women that he met online in games then a few Months later found him talking to his best friend 18 year old Daughter. He tells me there's nothing wrong w it but he tells me he knows I'm cheating and I've never done anything to like that.. What should I do

My husband bites and suck on my nipple hard and nibbles on them and likes it when i scream and moan. He kisses my legs feet and my tummy. He makes me shiver with pleasure. He satisfies me a lot in bed. He watches my expressions when hes inside me and also smile when i moan. When im in kitchen he sometimes grabs my but and boobs and kisses my neck and hugs me from back. But he has never on his own said he loves me. When i say it he sometimes says back. He has said he is not that expressive verbally as he rarely watches romantic movies. Is he shy? Sometimes he stares at me and loves to maintain eye contact with me for a long time. Does he love me? Help

It's so bad, it's like torture for my taste buds. Her cooking belongs in a dumpster and I can't stand it. How can I tell her this terrible without being rude

My husband has a small substance abuse problem. My mother found out and took temporary custody. My husband recently went to jail for two unpaid traffic tickets. There is a court date coming up. My mother says if I move back in with him, the kids aren t coming with us and that it means ill be choosing my husband over our kids. Im not giving up on my marriage. I m ready to fix things. My mom is putting me between a rock and a hard place. Her intervening makes everything more difficult. What do I do??

I've had a crush on my manager since a year ago. We are the same age, 26. I am actually 6 months older. He married when he was 18. Don't worry, I respect his marriage. He has apparently known about my crush since last October. He has used my feelings to get me to do stuff at work, like come in on my day off, many times. Over the past several months, he has acted very harsh towards me. He'll flirt with me occasionally, but 9 times out of 10, he's a jerk to me. I guess he can't show favoritism towards me just because I am crushing on him, but it still hurts my feelings when he b*tches at me. Today, I made two mistakes around him and the mistakes weren't even really my fault. Of course, the customer is always right, so I am held liable, but I did what I was supposed to and still got it wrong. He said "you've made two mistakes since I've been up here. You need to stay focused. Every time I look over, you're talking with _____. You need to read back orders." I respectively, verbally fought back. We tend to respectively argue, a good bit. Why is this our work relationship?