Friends: Question: Not trying to be racist or anything, but why do black people get offended when a white person says the n word? |
- Question: Not trying to be racist or anything, but why do black people get offended when a white person says the n word?
- Question: She wants to be friends again?
- Question: Is my friend being fake?
- Question: What's something that I can do with my friends?
- Question: Why do guys think they'll be raped in prison?
- Question: My best friend is hanging with someone else?
- Question: Am I being safe?
- Question: How to be friends after banging your best friend?
- Question: Am I being mean?
- Question: My best friend replaced me, what should i do?
- Question: What happened to me??
- Question: Frenemy situation.. what would you do?
- Question: What are some benefits of having your own little friend circle instead of hanging around with the popular girls?
- Question: Can you lift and carry her over your shoulder?
- Question: How to ease anxiety for new job?
- Question: How to get best answer?
- Question: I hate this girl and i hate myself for that.?
- Question: Give a number to her?
- Question: Do you go to different bars or the same one where you know bar staff well and regs?
- Question: Got drunk and embarrassed myself at party?
- Question: Is my friend trying to figure out my sexuality?
- Question: Being likable?
- Question: Do you think his wife is going to get suspicious now?
- Question: My roommmate uses the bathroom way too often.?
- Question: I have a friend that no one likes. She's insecure and kind and I'm the only one she has but because of that I get shunned. What should I do?
- Question: My friends think I'm blowing the off; not sure what to do?
- Question: So I have a huge dilemma, I have 3 best friends we ll call them friends A, B and C. Here s what transpired:?
- Question: Ugh, annoying "friend", someone please help?
- Question: Nowadays, do "friends" really have sex, or are they considered "lovers" when they do it?
- Question: I dont know why i enjoy making my friends hate each other and breaking up friendships.?
- Question: Does this sound like a fun school project?
- Question: My Friend Had a Secret Party Friendship Gathering. Only me Was Un-invited.?
- Question: Is it pathetic to be in your mid-20s and still have issues socializing?
- Question: Having friend trouble and need advice?
- Question: Am I wrong for telling my friend the truth?
- Question: I think my brother's friends like me? Idk?
- Question: Hello my friends?
- Question: How to make fun of a lesbian girl? (should be funny and not too mean)?
- Question: How to cheer myself up? (foreign exchange student away from home)?
- Question: What's wrong with an adult texting someone underage about best-friend type of topics? Why would it get the adult in trouble with the law?
- Question: My best friends mom hates me for no reason, what should I do?
- Question: Got drunk and embarrassed myself at college party?
- Question: Do I need to let things go more easily?
- Question: Can you help me?
- Question: Does this guy look dangerous to you?
- Question: My neighbors are worried about me?
- Question: Someone at my job accused me of having an intimate relationship with my boss. We don t have that type of relationship, but a witness says?
- Question: My best friend and I broke up, what should I do?
- Question: People assume I am happier than I am, so that makes them jealous?
- Question: Is sneding nudes zina?
- Question: Why do younger girls like me?
- Question: Should I be concerned that the father of my 2 kids (no, we're not married) still talks for long hours with a girl he used to love?
- Question: Why do younger girls like me ?
- Question: How do I deal with harassment?
- Question: Should I add an old friend from jr high when I am grown now?
- Question: What should I do about him?
- Question: My two best friends are now a 'thing' and its causing heaps of drama.?
- Question: My friend is anorexic and her parents won t do anything.?
- Question: Am I dateable [I'm a guy]?
- Question: Bridge hangout?
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 05:40 PM PDT I was at my friends house and we were both on our phones, and my friend was showing me a meme and saying it out loud. Basically his neighbor, who is black, was outside and heard him say the n word. The neighbor then started yelling at both my friend and I. It got to the point where my friend's dad came outside, and asked what was happening. My friend told his dad he was showing me and meme and saying out loud. HIs dad tried to explain to the neighbor that he was just reciting something he saw on social media but the neighbor did not believe it. OS my question is why is it ok for them to say it to each other, because I have heard this same neighbor call his friends that word, but white people can not even mention anything about that word around them? |
| Question: She wants to be friends again? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 05:37 PM PDT I ended a 5 year friendship because the girl lied to me & backstabbed me. She knew I had feelings for my ex again, yet she decided to go after him anyways. The whole time she was insisting they were just "friends" even though she was acting awkward about it. When I caught her lying the first time, we fought and she sobbed insisting that a guy isn't worth our friendship. She said she'd cut off all contact with him. When I caught her lying again I officially ended the friendship. Not too long after our friendship ends, she gets with my ex. I've let go of the anger towards her, and I don't like my ex anymore. But I'm confused because now she wants to be friends again. Should I add her back & explain that the friendship will never be the same? Or continue to ignore her & move on with my life? |
| Question: Is my friend being fake? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 05:30 PM PDT I've had know this guy for over 10 years. But I feel like recently he is acting fake. I asked him why he doesn't come to my apartment to come see me no more and he says he is busy, but then I I look at his FB timeline and he is tagged in pictures with who I refer to as his "real friends." I call and text him on his phone, but he doesn't respond. The phone rings and goes to voicemail where it says his voicemail is not set up, so I know his phone works. He only communicates with me on Facebook messenger. He texted me he loved me on FB messenger and said he was coming to see me,but didn't come. When I asked what happened to him, he didn't even offer me an explanation he just texted me a big thumbs up. The past two years he has had birthday celebrations and I have called him in the middle of getting ready, but oddly he did not invite me. My mom recently died and he came to the funeral, paid for drinks for my family at the bar and for our bowling (something my family did to take my mind of things). He has a male friend and helper who works with him on various jobs and this person stays in the same apartment complex of me and outside of working, he hangs with him and I believe scoops this person up for jobs but can't come by to see me. |
| Question: What's something that I can do with my friends? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 05:01 PM PDT My friends and I have always found ourselves out of ideas when it comes to "bro let's hang out but what exactly do we do" We're all under 21 so bars are out of the picture. Thus, leaving me no choice but to search the web for "things to do with friends" Most of them have stupid things like "make friendship bracelets" Any ideas anyone? |
| Question: Why do guys think they'll be raped in prison? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 04:47 PM PDT In movies guys think they'll be raped in prison why? are the other prisoners gay? do woman think they same way? |
| Question: My best friend is hanging with someone else? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 04:32 PM PDT I m not try to sound petty, but my best friend for 2 years It s hanging out with another girl and telling me she s busy. Today she told me she couldn t hang out because she had to do summer reading and then she was on the other girls Snapchat story definitely not doing summer reading. She s been hanging out with this girl for the entire week and we haven t hung out for two weeks. We always watch Game of Thrones together and this is the 3rd week in a row we haven t watch it together. |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 04:26 PM PDT I wrote a guy in prison over some prison pen pal type deal, my mom and sister are freaked out over a prisoner having our adress. In my most recent letter to him he asked to have my phone number which I gave him gladly along with a couple pictures of me, which he also asked for. He told me when he gets out in 10ish months he wants to travel the states. I looked up his information and he was busted for robbery and auto theft. NothING super bad I'm just a bit anxious now. Am I being safe eniugh? |
| Question: How to be friends after banging your best friend? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 04:13 PM PDT |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 04:06 PM PDT So I met this girl in psychology class in college. I don t have any friends at my school so I decided to talk to her and gave her my phone number. Today I found out she is in my Nutrition class. She called my name and I was startled when I saw her (I didn t even remember who she was). Anyway she just texted me. (Probably needs help with assignment or something) I m not the close of a friend with her. But I m just completely over it and I used to be afraid of being alone and not have friends. Now I don t care. I just wanna Finish my career and start working already. So I just wanna focus on school. Should I talk to her or is it ok to just blow her off and leave her on read when she texts me. I am annoyed that she texted me and I can t say I was happy to see her. All I was thinking was great 😐 |
| Question: My best friend replaced me, what should i do? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 04:04 PM PDT We're both 14 (males) we've been friends since we were 8 years old, he was being bullied and i stood up for him and that's how we became best best best friends. He's the only friend i had and i was the only friend he had, but this year everything changed. I started getting bullied too this year by the same boys that used to bully him and like a couple of months ago i saw him hanging out with them at lunch break and i was upset about it because why would u be friends with the people who bully your bestfriend and bullied you in the past?!? And when i asked him why did he do that he said that they're nice and i should stop being an a**hole to them and i said did u forget how much pain they caused u, he said people change. YES people do change but they're still a**holes!! So i was like ok if u want to be friends with them i dont care. I got it off my mind but he started getting cold and distant. One day at gym class they were making fun of me and throwing my glasses around and he was there laughing with them, that's when I stopped talking and Trying to be friends with him. He wasn't just my best friend, we spent the whole time together, traveled together, we even got matching tattoos before all of this happened. He texted me 5 minutes ago "Hey" i dont know if i should text back or just ignore him and move on. |
| Question: What happened to me?? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 03:36 PM PDT I have an online friend (my only friend) whos a girl my age. She is really great and we have a lot in common, I even like her. I used to tell her everything about myself and tell her whenever I felt upset, and we'd talk about it. But recently when its appropriate to talk about myself, I have a personal experience to add to the conversation, or Im upset, it makes me really uncomfortable to say it. Its really getting in the way of our conversations and I cant think of anything to say to her. I get jealous so easily, get angry at her, Im super possessive, etc. My thoughts sound exactly like what the stereotypical abusive boyfriend sounds like, "I want to know everyone you talk to, everything you do, dont talk to your friends..." the list goes on. I am so guilty and I feel like she cant understand what Im going through because she has tons of friends and nice parents who support her. I dont know what happened or what to do. I just feel so guilty. |
| Question: Frenemy situation.. what would you do? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 03:23 PM PDT Here's my situation: I have been living in London for the past year, about to move back home to the US in about 2 weeks. Before I left, I was really good friends with someone. I even started to date her boyfriends best friend, so we were always together. But maybe about a month leading up to my move, things started to change and she started acting weird and shady, and would just make these nasty back-handed comments. I just ignored it. And since I've been gone she just hasn't been a friend. Doesn't call, doesn't answer my texts or calls until days later, and with one word answers. When I went home to visit I stayed with my boyfriend, whom she lives with, and she acted like I wasn't even there. My boyfriend and I are both in her wedding party, but I don't even know if I can tolerate her and how she treats me anymore. I feel like she's toxic and I don't want to deal with it. But our relationships are so connected now and I don't know what to do. I guess my question isn't very specific... Just looking for advice as to how to deal with someone like this delicately without ruining other relationships in the process. Or if anyone's been in a similar situation what did you do? Sorry this was so long, lol, thanks in advance. |
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| Question: Can you lift and carry her over your shoulder? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 02:44 PM PDT She weights 54. 5 kg or 120 pounds and is Kim Kardashian |
| Question: How to ease anxiety for new job? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 02:20 PM PDT I start my new job tomorrow and already have anxiety. Do you guys have any tips on how I can prepare? Your comments are helpful! |
| Question: How to get best answer? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 02:09 PM PDT |
| Question: I hate this girl and i hate myself for that.? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:53 PM PDT hi im a girl. i used to have a best friend who betrayed me. now theres this girl who resembles her a lot. she reminds me of the past. so i hate her. i know i shouldnt. how can i change that? |
| Question: Give a number to her? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:50 PM PDT please rate my looks from 1-10 honestly..tks |
| Question: Do you go to different bars or the same one where you know bar staff well and regs? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:33 PM PDT I'm a people person and I love going out and seeing live music. I've been going to the same bar now for a year because I got to know the bar staff well and regs. Also there is 5 different bars on that block that's walking distance. So If I get bored there I can go somewhere else. I just prefer to go to the same one. |
| Question: Got drunk and embarrassed myself at party? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:27 PM PDT So I got invited my roommate to his frat party and everything was going good until I drank way too much and pissed on the floor in a corner of the room. I then sent my other roommate who was also there in the frat a snapchat of a selfie of me saying I pissed all over the floor. He then told my roommate who didn't get super angry but was just like"You better not tell anyone". I feel so awful and humiliated. Idk if he'll ever invite me out again. He didn't seem mad this morning, but how should I handle the situation? |
| Question: Is my friend trying to figure out my sexuality? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:24 PM PDT I'm female and never told her that I'm bi. I am actually attracted to her. We're coworkers. I haven't shared my sexuality to anyone at work. When talking about cheating partners and whether or not you should inform the person being cheated on, I told her that if someone were doing that to me, she'd better come tell me! She said she'd do something (burn down the house? I forget) to my "boyfriend or girlfriend". The latter part was said quietly, hesitantly and shakily. I acted nonchalant. Jim: False, I get hit on by men quite a bit. |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:24 PM PDT English isn't my native language, so stay with me. So it took me while and have become myself. It have taking up hobby's, politics, economics, social discussions and reading about early mentioned hobby's. And I like talking about all this subjects and I am funny. I base that on the responses I get. I can talk with people and we can have fun, but generally I do something too screw it up. I know this sounds weak and it is, but I cannot help it. I just get triggered by some things and I don't get made or something. I just get fired up, I guess you could say, and honestly I kind of like it, heated discussion. For me politics and that kind of stuff isn't depression, I talk about like I talk about the weather. But many don't see that way and we app and we talk when we see each other... But I don't get invited or do people want to come when I invite or when I say lets do this or that. When it is a group thing, I am 26 and still in school, I do get invited, but I am not really welcome. How can become a more likable guy? |
| Question: Do you think his wife is going to get suspicious now? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:00 PM PDT I have been friends with a married man for a few months now, although I've known him for over a year since he used to be my boss. We usually carpool to and church, me, him, his son and our mutual (guy) friend. One time, he took me home just the two of us because he had to get to work and couldn't get both me and our mutual friend home and get to work in time, so he had his wife drive our friend home. Nothing happened between us, I promise. Last Sunday, it was just going to be the two of us on the way home again, but his wife forced their son to go with us, even though he didn't want to. I've been ill all week and weekend, but was going to try to go to church today. My friend told me last night he wouldn't be able to take me, but that his wife would probably give me a ride if I was feeling up to going and to text him in the morning to let him know. This morning, I texted him and told him I still wasn't feeling well, so to let his wife know she doesn't have to worry about picking me up. It's not a total lie, as I wasn't feeling all that great. It's just I have no idea what to talk about with her and plus, we make each other uncomfortable, I can tell. Do you think she's going to get suspicious now since I declined now that she was going to be the one giving me a ride instead of him? And yes, I do have feelings for him. I keep them in check, though. |
| Question: My roommmate uses the bathroom way too often.? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 12:57 PM PDT We live in a 2 bedroom apartment with one bathroom, which is connected to my room in a way. My roommate uses the bathroom way too often (he does number 2) and it's become a daily thing. Is this something I should confront him about and is it a huge concern? |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 12:57 PM PDT I can give more details if you need them, but basically she was a terrible person a few years ago, and she caused me depression, social anxiety, and anxiety in general. The year after she became a kind and understanding person, but nobody liked her. Because I hang out with her people make fun of me and bully me. I feel horrible whenever they do that. I have opportunities to make friends and heal my reputation, but my friend is the only thing in the way. Because she was the most wretched thing on earth a few years ago I really wouldn't mind, but she's changed and now she's in the same position I was in. Please help me. |
| Question: My friends think I'm blowing the off; not sure what to do? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 11:12 AM PDT Before I go anywhere I have to clean up my room, the bathroom, stairs, and hallway. And I really suck at cleaning. I always clean on the weekends because I'm super busy during the week with school sports and clubs. But I make plans during the week and then I have to cancel because I thought I'd get done with cleaning but don't. I feel bad. |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 11:05 AM PDT Friend A invited me and friend B to an event in his hometown over the weekend about a month ago. Friend C also lives in that hometown and he and Friend A are not on good terms. Friend C is also mine and Friend B s best friend and we hate having to go back and forth because want everyone to get along and be together as one friend group. So friend B took it upon himself to invite friend C over to try and patch things up with Friend A. However, friend A wasn t having it saying he refuses to see him and does not want to hear what he has to say. So here I am caught in the middle of Friend A vs. Friend B/C and both sides are telling me to stick up for them when in reality both sides are at fault and now friend A is claiming I don t care about him as a friend because I didn t tell friends B and C off when that is totally false and now a month later he still won t let it go and put it in the rear view mirror. I need some help here because I have no idea whose side to take considering friend A is being totally immature but Friends B/C were inconsiderate going against the wishes of Friend A. What is everyone s opinion? I ll provide more info if necessary I love all 3 of these guys to death and I don't wanna go against any of them and it would make things 100x easier if we all could sit in the same room and talk about it instead of gossiping back and forth |
| Question: Ugh, annoying "friend", someone please help? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 10:33 AM PDT I am in 7th grade, the first day of school is tomorrow. There is this girl, I have been pretending to be her friend since the beginning of last year. She gets mad very easily for NOTHING, one time I saw my best friend in the hall way, so I smiled and said hi, she threw a tantrum and yelled, "YOU NEVER SMILE AT ME AND SAY HI!" And everytime after that when I see my friends, she will drag me away from them. And also I am pretty good at art, sometimes during free time I will draw and people occasionally compliment my art, well she always takes out HER art immediately and shows off and says "well I drew this" or whatever, her art isn't even good to be honest. She is a spoiled brat, she is SO annoying. She has ADHD I know that is not her fault but she should actually TRY to act normal. She thinks I am her BEST FRIEND when I haven't even known her that long. She never showers, she also wears hello kitty shirts etc at this age! She will randomly say "can I have a hug" after throwing one of her tantrums so she just hugs me in public and it is really embarrassing. She is not popular in school, and I can see why. I really HATE her, I do not know how to deal with her anymore at this point. |
| Question: Nowadays, do "friends" really have sex, or are they considered "lovers" when they do it? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 10:16 AM PDT To me, being lovers is a step away from friendship and when you have made love, you are no longer friends but lovers. I suppose that if you fall out of love you could still be friends, but that would be a complicated friendship. Sex without love, I guess I could understand that--not even lovers nor friends, but just users. |
| Question: I dont know why i enjoy making my friends hate each other and breaking up friendships.? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 10:06 AM PDT |
| Question: Does this sound like a fun school project? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 10:05 AM PDT The girls in my high school class were assigned a class project to learn about the boys in the class. We decided on this project. We would have the guys in the class write on a piece of paper what they would most like us girls in the class to do for them. They were not to sign the paper. They each would put the paper in a box. Us girls would take the papers out of the box one at a time, read them to the class and then we would try to guess which guy wrote each paper. Girls, does this sound like a fun project? Guys, what are some of the things us girls can expect you guys would want us to do for you? |
| Question: My Friend Had a Secret Party Friendship Gathering. Only me Was Un-invited.? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 10:03 AM PDT My Friend Had a Secret Party Friendship Gathering. Only me Was Un-invited. Its Ok if i wasnt invited, but what hurt me is THEY DID NOT TOLD ME AT ALL. They even status "Were real friends" which I wasnt even tag. Does that Mean Am not part of their true friendship? I mean why do they have to say "True friends that always together at any event" Then I wasnt even informed. Does this mean I was fooled? |
| Question: Is it pathetic to be in your mid-20s and still have issues socializing? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 09:51 AM PDT I'm 24 and it seems as though everybody is already set with their friends. I think it's my own fault I'm in this situation because of how weird I used to be growing up. Had I acted more like a female and had more female interests, I would already have a set of female friends from high school & college. At this point, I am starting to give up hope because it's about to be 2 years since I've had a friend (the other former female friend I had just stopped talking to me with no explanation). I think I'm the problem and not the other women because this happens almost everywhere I go to be social. I made a theory that because I dress and act a certain way, other women find off-putting, they will ignore me & refuse to get to know me. I don't want to be stuck befriending men who secretly want to be more than friends either. Please don't say "don't change yourself" and "you should just be yourself." They are irritating things to hear (at my age, at least) because people don't like me and who I am. Yes, I am in my mid 20s, but in less than 10 years, I'll be 30 years old and I will still have the same issues if I don't change some aspects of myself that's off-putting. My problem with male friends is how I hate being the only girl everywhere I am. Even at work, I'm the only woman and I have no sisters nor female cousins living around my area. I hate the constant attention & special treatment I get from men. |
| Question: Having friend trouble and need advice? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 09:50 AM PDT Okay so basically, I have a friend and when I met him I was unhappy and going through some things. I wasn't the best friend to him, but now things have gotten better for me and I feel better. So about two weeks ago he blocked my number and all after we had a small argument, and I talked to him yesterday. He thinks I haven't changed because he chooses to focus on the past rather than the present. I care for him and value him as a person but he's done shitty things to me and I looked past it. So he should be able to understand that I wasn't in a good place and that's why what happened before happened, it was never malicious intent to not be a good friend. I decided to give him a while to try and get over it, but is there anything else I could do? |
| Question: Am I wrong for telling my friend the truth? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 09:45 AM PDT So 10 years ago a friend, Gale, slept with another friends, Cindy, boyfriend. At the time I wasn't friends with any of them so I didn't care as much. Cut to the present, I've become friends with both of them. A couple of a days ago I was reading this article about cheater which reminded me of the incident 10 years ago. I spoke to my friend,Gale, who slept with my other friend, Cindy, boyfriend about the incident and told her to tell Cindy about it because she deserves to know. Gale said no and then told me to tell Cindy myself. I asked her if she's sure she's OK with it and she said fine. So I did. Gale apparently told me she no longer wants to be friends and I lost her trust. I can see why she was upset but I asked her many times if I should tell Cindy. I wish I wouldn't have saif anything but I believe everyone should know the truth even if it stings a little. Cindy and Gale are still friends. Cindy was upset a little but was glad she was told. She doesn't like to hold grudges so she's fine. Gale on the other hand doesn't want to speak to me because I "snitched" even though I asked her before. |
| Question: I think my brother's friends like me? Idk? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 09:43 AM PDT So I'm 13 now and I'm chubby, I have a afro because it runs in the family and I have 2 older brothers. My brother who is 2 years older than me has some frends who bullied me back when they went to my middle school. But since my brother plays football his friends are starting to stare at me and recently one of his friends patted my lower back. I'm confused if they like me now or still make fun of me. Not a while ago I walked my German Shepherd and a group of his friends came to me and started calling me little princess and these weird names. My dog Shiba barked at them and the laughed away. I don't know what to do! I'd like to say some if his friends are fat |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 09:21 AM PDT Hi I'm from south america, I discovered this site, i think is a good idea to practice my english in yahoo answers, I can speak little english but i need more fluency, can you help me with this, i would like made new friends, can you recomended some site wher I can interact with persons from English speaking or if you would like can you help me to practice my english. Thanks bye, |
| Question: How to make fun of a lesbian girl? (should be funny and not too mean)? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 08:58 AM PDT |
| Question: How to cheer myself up? (foreign exchange student away from home)? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 08:58 AM PDT I m on a foreign exchange until the end of the year in Brazil, and frankly, I m having an awful time. The city where I am is dirty, dangerous and full of crime. The university classes are poorly organized and the teachers don t do their job very well. I ve been here since March and I can only go home in early December. I would love to go back home now to give myself a break, but airline tickets are way too high. I m trying my best to keep my spirits up, but it s hard. My hair falls out in chunks here, I have problems sleeping and with acne breakouts and allergies. I ve been robbed at gunpoint twice since being here. I miss my family and friends terribly and while I talk to them every day via Whatsapp/Facebook/Skype etc, I don t want to keep bothering them with my problems here. I try to treat myself by going to the movies or to the park, eating my favourite foods and doing things that i like to do, like going to the gym or drawing. But I am constantly uneasy here. I never feel safe here and I haven t been able to make too many friends. I know it s only a few months to go, but I am so tired of being here, I would love to go home right now. How can I keep up enough strength to keep going these next three months? I m scared this is going tohave a permanent mental effect on me. Please help. |
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| Question: My best friends mom hates me for no reason, what should I do? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 08:22 AM PDT It started two years ago,keep in mind we were either 9 or 10.This one girl got jelous of me and my best friends friendship.She would try to turn my friends against me.Me and my friend didn't have any drama,it was me and this other girl,my friend stopped being my friend because she was also really good friends with this other girl.This girl has a step dad,who is best friends with my friends mom.So my friends mom picked the other girls side.My friend kept telling her mom that this other girl started everything,she wouldn't listen.The drama wasn't even bad and my friend had no drama with me,it was all with the other girl.This girl has made me want to drop out of school.She is a very bad influence for everyone.Luckily she moved a year ago.My friend and her mom are no longer associated with them anymore because they found out that the girl was no good.My friends mom still continues to hate me for no reason,even after she knows what this girl is like.I've never done anything bad to my friend or her mom.My friend yesterday asked her mom if she'd give me another chance(cuz I "apparently" did something wrong) her mom said no.Her mom hasn't even talked to me and I have never even went to their house so her mom doesn't even know what i'm like.If she met me she would like me.Me and my friend can't even hang out.We hang out at school even though her mom doesn't want her to.Her mom doesn't even want her to text me or call me.ITS BEEN TWO YEARS AND IVE DONE NOTHING WRONG.What should I do??? |
| Question: Got drunk and embarrassed myself at college party? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 07:51 AM PDT So I got invited my roommate to his frat party and everything was going good until I drank way too much and pissed on the floor in a corner of the room. I then sent my other roommate who was also there in the frat a snapchat of a selfie of me saying I pissed all over the floor. He then told my roommate who didn't get super angry but was just like"You better not tell anyone". I feel so awful and humiliated. Idk if he'll ever invite me out again. He didn't seem mad this morning, but how should I handle the situation? |
| Question: Do I need to let things go more easily? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 07:50 AM PDT I have a friend who seems to be constantly trying to pick fights with me. She will insult me, and I will usually just glare at her and roll my eyes and then we laugh it off, but she does this a lot and seems to want to get a reaction out of me. She also tells me about all this irresponsible stuff she does like drinking moonshine a stranger gave her in public (we're both 2 years under legal drinking limit as well), and if I tell her that maybe she should be more careful, or give her any less than an enthusiastic response, she starts screaming at me and telling me that I'm lecturing her or 'mothering' her. She then points out all of my flaws and tells me how judgemental and mothering I am. We have this major problem on rare occasions, but it seems to be getting more frequent lately. Today she sent me pictures over snapchat of a police chase that she and some other people were involved in. It wasnt clear from the pictures if she was actually being chased, or if she was following right behind and going with some cars that were being chased. She does exaggerate a lot and make up parts of stories to make it more interesting. Im going to hear the full story when I see her next. Should I keep my mouth shut and nod along the entire time? She's the kind of person who believes it is a person's responsibility to tell their friends when they've made a mistake, and has cut off a couple of friends when the first got a drug dealing boyfriend and the second became a stripper. |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 07:38 AM PDT my friends are all super pretty and i feel like i'm not.... sometimes people think they're me when they send pictures on my accounts to people or when they post something on my story... but when they find out it's not it makes me feel really bad about myself. i don't know what to do anymore i want people to tell me that in beautiful and gorgeous and stuff. but no one does. |
| Question: Does this guy look dangerous to you? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 06:56 AM PDT |
| Question: My neighbors are worried about me? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 06:47 AM PDT I'm a 23 year old male who currently lives with his parents. I'm an introvert who has only 1 friend that I hardly hangout with. I'm unemployed and still single, but not a virgin. Most of the time I'm at home and rarely leave the house unless I have to do something. However when I do leave the house my neighbor stares at me, they try to be sneaky about it by peeking from the curtains. Everyone where I'm from knows that I'm isolated. I asked my neighbor politely and told them that I'm okay. I never really did fit in, I tried to do some hobby but didn't fit in either. The last girl that I was supposed to date called me a loner. |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 06:28 AM PDT i confided to them about it. But i haven t at all. My boss determines who he believes, but i have really no proof. I don t wanna lose my job and my close friendship i have with him. how do i defend myself? |
| Question: My best friend and I broke up, what should I do? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 06:23 AM PDT We were friends for a really long time, ever since I moved into my new town. Another girl started hanging out with us and it was good, she started off being really nice, but then I noticed my best friend leaving me to start hanging out with that girl. I don't know if she thought I was jealous or something, but I would later hear from another friend that she was spreading around rumours that I was being clingy, I was going through some tough times during that month with family and was clinging to my friends for support. The final straw was our biology project. A classmate and I finished our portions of the project while my "best friend" had not. She kept texting me saying "oh, don't we need to finish that project" to which I sent her what she still needed to do, which she didn't do. We ended up getting a 0 on the project which she accused me of sabotaging and we haven't spoken since. We started senior year 3 days ago and I have a class with her where we both have head editor positions where we have to work together. It is really awkward and I don't know how to interact with her. I think she hates me? We have similar friends, so at lunch we ended up at the same table, and I left to go sit with someone else. I heard from a friend that her and the girl that she left me for were talking **** about me after I left. I don't know what to do, I don't want this awkward interaction to continue. I feel like I should text her but idk what. Please help. |
| Question: People assume I am happier than I am, so that makes them jealous? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 06:13 AM PDT Can adult women be this immature? I have friends and family members who assume that since I project a positive, happy persona, that I have it all. I am not half as happy as they think, but why should I go around crying about my problems and telling everyone the truth about the way I feel? Because I have not burdened them with my problems, they avoid me and assume my life is perfect and that makes them feel threatened by my "good fortune" that really isn't there in the first place. I can't win. |
| Question: Is sneding nudes zina? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 05:38 AM PDT So i had a girlfriend about a year ago which i fell in love She always insisted on recieving my nudes but i kept refusing but at a time i was watching alot of porn amd got really horny and decided to send her some. But since then i have been feeling deep regret,depressed, i cant sleep comfortably,i havent been sleeping well, and so on. The thing is i have tried tawbah and done all my prayers but i dont know of it will get accepted by Allah swt. But recently we had this huge fight which ended up in a break up and my nudes getting sent to all her friends EVEN MINE (she also has gay friends) and i dot want to get sins 24/7 whenever someone looks at them. Im never getting into a relationship ever ive learned my lesson. But what should i do ? I mean i tried tawbah but now since theyre on the internet idont know if ill be getting sins 24/7. Im a good and decent son i pray all my prayers, i get good grades. I shouldnt be here, please help, what can i do? Is sending nudes zina? Is sending nudes zina? |
| Question: Why do younger girls like me? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 04:24 AM PDT I'm 15. Why do younger girls always talk to me, check me out. They're 11-13. Some even asked me if they can hop on my bike with me, so I can drive them home... Some just stare all the time. I remember how 2 younger girls were playing truth or dare. They were forcing each other to do stupid stuff infront of me(including sexual) It gets annoying when very young ones do that. But girls my age or a little older don't do that. I've just been told hi 2 times by a group of girls. Some stare,glance at me or smile. That's mostly it. Why is that ? Am I really that bad that only younger girls flirt with me ? |
| Posted: 27 Aug 2017 02:50 AM PDT I know he had deep feelings for her. But it went wrong bc he lead her on and then she turned the tables and crushed him. They fell out for a while, got back cool and she tried to get back with him. He turned her down because he'd started seeing me. But they still talked for a few months after that until they fell out again. So after a couple of years of no communication between them, they ran into each other recently. I found out that they've been talking for hours almost every day dor the past month. He works at a zoo so he has a lot of time to talk while working. He said that it's friendly and they always got each other's sense of humor. |
| Question: Why do younger girls like me ? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 02:28 AM PDT I'm 15. Why do younger girls always talk to me, check me out. They're 11-13. Some even asked me if they can hop on my bike with me, so I can drive them home... Some just stare all the time. I remember how 2 younger girls were playing truth or dare. They were forcing each other to do stupid stuff infront of me(including sexual) It gets annoying when very young ones do that. But girls my age or a little older don't do that. I've just been told hi 2 times by a group of girls. Some stare,glance at me or smile. That's mostly it. Why is that ? Am I really that bad that only younger girls flirt with me ? |
| Question: How do I deal with harassment? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 02:04 AM PDT So a while back, I had a geoup of friends and this particular girl was a very toxic person. She spread lies about people, etc. We eventually cut her out of the geoup and everyone has her blocked. However, this girl has now started contacting my family and friends over facebook telling them I'm in danger and that she wants to speak with my mother. My mom has her blocked but she has always found ways around it. I have her blocked on everything, and she's gotten her friends to leave nasty comments on my instagram, and her friends message me on different accounts. We even had one of my moms friends drive all the way to our house to see if I was Ok. She has been contacting all my mom's friends on facebook and has caused alot of panic and worry. Advice? My mom has considered contacting the police, but she figured that is girl couldn't suffer any actual consequences. I do have her blocked, and Ive actually had to remake multiple accounts to try keeping her and her friends out. |
| Question: Should I add an old friend from jr high when I am grown now? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 01:52 AM PDT My only friends are my husband and my mom. I use to have a best friends from like 6th grade to 8th, I moved states but got to visit her a few times until 10th grade. I'm 20 now and no longer have her as a friend because I made a new fb a while back. Should I just get over it or should I add her? Like I said, I have no friends. Would she think it is weird? Also, we are totally different now- I smoke weed daily (she's against weed), she gets to go to college because she has money (I had to drop out because of money). I kinda want an Xbox friend and she use to totally be into online gaming. I hate talking online to a bunch of strangers because most of them are men. My husband always tries to push me to be friends with his friends's girlfriends but I like people I am familiar with. Should I get over a friend I had when I was younger and try to make new ones? She lives in a different state as well so what's the point, I can't go shopping with her or anything. Also, come to think of it I think the reason I stopped being her friend is because I messaged her about what was going on in my life and she responded with a very small response >:( wtf. Oh well, whay do u think??? |
| Question: What should I do about him? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 12:51 AM PDT I have a close group of 5 friends. We celebrate birthdays together and used to be very close. My one friend (lets call him S) has been out of town since past month but he is returning tomorrow. Meanwhile only three of us are close now and one of my friend (lets call him M) is not so close with us anymore. We were given a group project today where each group should consist 3 members and the due date is only next month. S and M are friends since grade six and we are undergrad students. So S doesn t know yet about this project but he will know tomorrow. We thought maybe S and M will make a separate group since they are very very close. But today the minute the project was assigned M chose to work with class topper (lets call her A) and her friend. Now A is a topper but she is very rude. She constantly shouts, shows her anger, is too greedy and shows off too much about how well she studies. Even when M was with us, he used to say so many bad things about her. But now he literally asked her to let him in her team. My friends and I have already made a team thinking S&M would be together. I feel so sad for S. And I am so angry at M. Just 2days ago he was saying bad things about her, but now when it comes to marks he is ok to work eith her. How can some people be so selfish? It is bugging me so much. |
| Question: My two best friends are now a 'thing' and its causing heaps of drama.? Posted: 27 Aug 2017 12:06 AM PDT So i have a best-best friend that ive known for years and years and i love her to bits (lets call her katie) and i have a really close other friend who ive know for about 2 years vaguely but over the last few months have become best friends (lets call him alex) so there are other friends in the group but out of all 6 of us myself, alex and katie are really good friends. Anyway, alex and katie are now a 'thing' they arnt dating but may as well if you know what i mean. I think theyre the cutest and wouldnt want to do anything at all to affect their relationship. Over the weekend me and alex have been together watching another firends football game and another day watching the mcgregor fight. About 4 people have asked katie and myself if me and alex are a thing, or if me nd alex are dating. now, i dont feel that way about him at all but i get the feeling its upsetting katie. I have asked her about it and she said its ok, its fine and she understands that we are just friends and i would probably beleive that if it wasnt for the amount of people that are asking bout me and alex. I feel she is doubting our 'friendship' the more people talk to her about it. I dont know what to do other than stop talking to alex and its killing me. best friend break-ups are the worst and i miss talking to him and hanging out all the time. especially since katie never seems to invite me over or want to do anything with me unless i make the plans first. |
| Question: My friend is anorexic and her parents won t do anything.? Posted: 26 Aug 2017 10:37 PM PDT My friend is anorexic, and her parents won t do anything. She does not want to get help as she keeps insisting she is fine, and I d like to help her but I am incapable. I need help, as we are both under the age of 18. I was wondering if anyone knew a way to get her into an anorexia rehabilitation center without parental consent, or if there s a way anyone advises me to try. |
| Question: Am I dateable [I'm a guy]? Posted: 26 Aug 2017 10:08 PM PDT http://imgbox.com/4XriUNhD |
| Posted: 26 Aug 2017 09:41 PM PDT So my two friends who I know well found a bridge we wanna hang out on it ( just hang under and talk no drug use none of that) It s very small no taller then 12 feet. It s in a public lake were allowed in but there s a small fence blocking our path (I ve seen people kayaks and swim near it So my question is this, is it against the law to hang near it (no signs telling us we can t) |
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