Family: Question: Would guys date a girl with a child?

Question: Would guys date a girl with a child?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 02:18 PM PDT

I know this is the last thing I should be worried about, but I'm pregnant and I left the dad because he is psycho and I'm planning on getting a restraining order. The problem is I'm only 18 gonna be 19 when the baby is born and I'm stuck wondering if I will ever find a man in the future. I'm not ugly at all but I'm just wondering if I'll ever have a chance at finding love again because I don't think a guy wants to take care of another mans child. I don't ever plan on getting back with the babies dad I was already losing feelings for him before I fell pregnant.

Question: My brother threatened to kill me?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 02:06 PM PDT

Okay so im a girl, and im 12(almost13) and my brother is 19 (almost20) for my whole life he has runined it. He hits me hard against the head and hits me all the time if i "cross him" and ruins just about everything. . He gives me these rules that i cant shower after 10AM, I cant have social media, I cant wear shorts, I cant eat in my room, ect. if I break it, he usually gives me a beating sometimes i get bruises and red marks against my arms and they hurt so much. . Ive mentioned it to my mom, but shes so dumb and wont actually kick him out. moving on, today i got some chips from the store and i wanted to watch a movie in my room and eat them, so I did. Of course, he walked in when i had a handful of chips in my mouth and boy did he get angry. He punched me three times against the head and told me to put them away. I did and then he said the most darkest thing i have ever witnissed in my life. He said "ever cross me again, i will end you. I have already given you enough warnings, Call the police? It wont matter because youll be dead by the time they get here. You'll be carried in a bodybag. " and then he hit me some more. Then he said "Tell anyone? I will poison you" he lowered his voice into a whisper and smiled. "Scared?, you should be. I wanna poke your eyes out right now" Please help me, what do I do? he's moving out in a year but i don't think ill make it . Im writing this while crying hysterically and shaking.

Question: Someone know about pain of a mother?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 01:42 PM PDT

Is like I have a big rock on my shoulders,and a knife in my heart,and my soul is away.What can I do,I am so sad.when I prey it helps me a lot,But often I see mothers with their kids,and I remember things.I think I can start to visit and help other kids from orphanage.

Question: My brother doesn't have to start school until next Tuesday. I started today. How do I get over my jealosy?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 01:35 PM PDT

Question: My Mom is mad I am travelling to see my step-Mom (my Dad's widow). How do I get her to not be mad or to understand why?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 01:34 PM PDT

My Mom hates her with a burning passion just like she hated my Dad with a burning passion.

Question: How to take my sister out of my life?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 01:05 PM PDT

My younger sister is horrible to me. She treats me and makes me feel completely worthless and i've tried so hard to be a good sister to her but she continues to treat me horribly. And i just don't get it. EVERYONE likes her and prefers her over me, my family, my coworkers, EVERYONE. I just don't understand why she is so well liked. It's so hard to watch everyone adore this person who treats me like crap. I've decided that i don't want her in my life anymore because of how horrible she makes me feel when i am around her and i don't want her negativity in my life anymore. The only problem is that i have 1 year left until i move out and until then i have to share a room with her, go to school with her, and even work with her-and I don't want to quit my job, I love my job.-I just don't know how i can manage to take her out of my life. *and the reason why her opinion matters so much to me is because everyone adores her and no one cares about me even though I try my hardest to be nice to everyone.

Question: I feel so depressed around my parents??

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:47 PM PDT

Basically my mom and dad wont let me do a thing. They are so stric and there are so many rules to follow. They wont let me decide anything. My dad always says Im ugly the Days I feel Good and pretty. I dont know wtf his problem is. My mom always comments on everything I wear and do. I hate going out with them. Its just so boring. I Get so depressed when Im around them. I always listen to them And do everything they say. Whenever I try to talk to them og comment on them, they'll they Im a bad person. I feel so miserable and depressed and helpless when Im with them. They make me wanna hate them so much. I Remember my dad push me once agains the frigh just becuz I was showing my arms. He tells me that I will fail in everything. I just wanna move out tbh. I dont wanna be like this. But they make me hate them. We have nothing in commond. We always have dumb arguments. Im a 16 yr old female. Im just so sick of this.

Question: What would you do if your wife began rolling on the floor with hysterical laughter after your teenage son beat you in a arm wrestling match?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:34 PM PDT

Question: I need advice and someone to talk to?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:33 PM PDT

I had a fall out with my Dad and my stepmum and I had to stay with my grandparent's for a while. I've been with them for over 2 weeks now and I have made up with my Dad as he has came to see me and I have apologised to him and spoken to him about everything that happened. However my stepmum is very angry with me. They have my phone and I have not been able to have it for all this time. I haven't spoken to my stepmum since i left. However i did write her a two page letter explaining how sorry i was and i gave it to my Dad to give to her along with a big chocolate bar. My dad said that he would tell me her reaction to it but he hasn't. On the phone he told me that i will have to just "deal with it when i go back". When he came over last week he was constantly texting her whilst we were having our conversation and kept saying that she is so angry with me and not ready for me to come back as it is the holidays and she will be stuck with me there whilst my dad goes to work. But i have been away for over 2 weeks now- close to 3 weeks. And i go back to school next week. I literally feel like he choses her over me and that she will be in a mood with him if he takes me back. They have been together for 10 years, since i was 5. Anyway she is even more angry with me because she has been through my phone and read all of my messages. I have had enough time to think about what i did and i regret it all but she's not even giving me a chance to apologise and explain myself to her. Pleasehelp

Question: I'm 12 I've had a hard life my my and brother to we were homeless all my hope ended when my oupa died I'm so sad I've always been sad why?!?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:30 PM PDT

Question: I think my grandpa is abusing my grandma?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:28 PM PDT

My grandpa is a very aggressive person. I'm pretty sure he is also racist. He is always talking about how places are flooded with Chinese people and how he didn't want to take me and my brother somewhere because it had to many Chinese people there. I wanted to go somewhere today, and my grandma said she would take me, and when my grandpa read the reviews on the place he said to me grandma "I said no and that's the end of it. When the kids are here I'm in charge" this caught me off guard, but my grandma didn't seem to care.

Question: My Mom had a fight with her mother for not protecting her from a sex offender as a kid. Was she wrong to ban her mother from my graduation?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:27 PM PDT

I have been mad at my Mom all summer. She banned my grandma from my high school graduation last June. I wanted my grandma there. My Mom used the occasion which was MY graduation and not hers to get back at her mother for a mistake she made 30 years ago. The sex offender is long gone (my Mom's older step-brother). He killed himself 24 years ago. So am I right to be mad? Was my Mom wrong to use me and my graduation as a punching bag at her mother? I understand keeping the sex offender away but not anyone else and the sex offender is long dead even before I was born. Also how do I get over my anger at my Mom so I am not still mad at her when I see her at Thanksgiving and Christmas?

Question: Worried about my mom?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:14 PM PDT

My mother's always tired nowadays. She's in great shape for a 49-year old, but almost always needs someone to lean on when going upstairs. She's had issues with anaemia in the past, and eats a lot of ice (which she says doesn't affect anything). Does the ice make it worse? She's also telling me to "take care of your siblings no matter what", that kind of scary talk. I'm really worried about her. Obviously I've suggested going to a doctor a billion times but she says she knows what she's doing, and asked me to get her pomegranate and that she'll go to the pharmacy. Is there anything I can personally do to help her at home? Any help would be so appreciated.

Question: I have a complicated situation please don't judge, read the details below but I'm dating my step sister?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:13 PM PDT

My mom died when I was 5 my oldest brother died when I was 7, my older brother died when I was 11. My dad got remarried when I was 8 and my stepmom brought her daughter from a previous marriage. I'm 19 and my stepsister is 18 we kind of started flirting and we are now dating. I really care about her and she and I have been dating for about 2 months. We made out drunkenly at a New Year's Eve party and things died down for a while but then in June I had a car accident and our parents were on vacation and she had to pick me up from the hospital and watch me since I had a broken elbow and ankle and concussion. We flirted and she held me since I wasn't feeling well and we agreed we had mutual feelings for eachother. Also is this a sin? My step sister isreallya firm follower of Reform Judaism.

Question: I want to live with my dad but my mom says no?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:04 PM PDT

So I am almost15 and have been living with my mom forever but since the divorce i have been living with her (in her custody) for 4 years as of this august. We moved away from our old town and three hours away from my dad. I have been really struggling a lot with being away from home. I visit my dad once a month for a weekend including most holidays, spring break, winter break, and practically all of summer. My mom thinks living with my dad is a bad idea because she thinks she is the better parent. I have been thinking very hard about living with my dad since i moved away unsure of how it would be but now I have completely made up my mind. I had a very long over the phone (texting) conversation with my mom about it but she said no. So she says i can t but multiple people have told me that I am of age to make my own decision but i know i will have to take her to court. I have decided to wait out one more school year before I take her to court I m not sure what to expect and what i should say and do to set up this court date because when i looked it up a lot of the things that were stated i could not understand. My mother and i have a bad relationship and this town is unsuitable I want to graduate at the school where my dad lives. I just don t know where to start once i decide that i m going to take her to court or how to do any of that. If any one could give me a good understandable explanation of what to do please answer

Question: My brother is taking Math 115, but I got placed in Math 104...?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 11:49 AM PDT

Question: Is my mom getting involved with her live-in help? What is going on?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 11:33 AM PDT

I go to a private college out of state and my mom(divorced for 5 years) lives at home with my 12 y/o sister in a 'college town'. Since I've been gone, she has had 4 different girls living in my old bedroom. They take my sister around and work as office assistants for her realtor business. All have been 18-23. All have left under bad/mysterious circumstances. I was in town for spring break and was staying at my grandparents(more freedom) and came by the house and caught my Mom in a fight with 'Tracy' who lived in my room. She called Tracy a 'little whore' and told her to get out. I tried to contact Tracy to ask her what happened but she would not call/message me back. My Mom won't go into detail except to say she did not want them in her house anymore.

Question: My step sister will not stop bragging about her self. She will not stop bugging me. And she thinks she knows everything?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 11:10 AM PDT

Every time I try to shut her up she cries? What do I do?

Question: Why is my mom always so mad at me?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 11:02 AM PDT

i will usually be with my mom and she never fails to get mad about anything (for example) she will ask if i want to go to the pool with her and i say no and then she just gets mad at me and yells. i think she just wants attention because she will change a situation to get people sad for her so they will do things for her etc.

Question: A real life Romeo and Juliet situation!?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 11:00 AM PDT

Okay, so long story short I have basically been stuck living with my Parents since I had a stroke. Recently I met a guy online that they highly disapprove of. Because of this, they will not let us meet in person finally and be friends. Because, they believe we want more than friends. Truth be told I am not sure and just want to gage how I feel about him in person. However, they are actively preventing it. If, as an adult(I'm 33) I decided to go somewhere with him anyway. Upon my eventual return home, they'd definitely seek guardianship or make my life even more of a living hell. For "disobeying them," pretty much. I need a solution, all I want to do is FINALLY meet him!!

Question: My Parents are Making me Homeless?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 10:15 AM PDT

I'm a 38 year-old single woman who had moved back in with my parents a few years ago because I was done working. With a useless degree, I wasn't getting job offers that paid me what I was worth. And I refuse to work for minimum wage. My parents had allowed me to come back and live with them, under the conditions that I at least try to look for something to chip in on the housing costs. But I balked, telling them I needed a "10 year Plan"- that would enable me to just rest and get my thoughts together, and then after a decade I could either take over the house when they pass away, or try working online part-time. This all came to a screeching halt when my father announced last week that they were selling the house. I lit up, expecting him to say they had bought a bigger place. Excited that I might finally be getting a larger room to help hold all my paintings I like to dabble in, I was shocked when he dully informed me that him and mother are using the money to move into an assisted living home. Both are almost 70. "What about me? Do I get to come to?" I asked, my voice hoarse. "Gale, you're almost 40. It's time you grew up." My mother said this almost snarky. I was boiling mad. "What about the 10 year plan??" I cried. But they didn't listen. I am stuck living with friends up north. I told them I would never speak to them again, but they seemed not to care. They threw away my inheritance on their own selfish needs! I'm about to be homeless. What can I do?

Question: Sister problems, help.. i don't know how to deal with them?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 10:13 AM PDT

When I was in Elementary school, my sister would usually tell my mom and dad, "Gabby is doing terrible in school!" When I would be getting good test scores, but at the time we didn't have grades yet so I basically couldn't prove that I was doing good. Middle school comes along, and I get straight A's in 2 quarters, the other half I had all A's and a B. So my family would always brag about me being the "smart one," but my sister always just *HAS* to ruin success. Even if they're family. Since she claims she learned about everything in the Elementary school, she was asking me questions that I didn't even know, and I had a right to not know. Because I never learned it! And it just makes me feel so bad about myself... Please don't say to just "ignore her" because it's not that simple. She also says that I'm ugly and that I should focus more on how I look than homework to mom and dad. Like she wants me to be just like her. Since I'm black, she trained her hair to become straight, so she told me to train my hair to be straight. Then she goes natural, now she's telling me to go natural. Like please, can't she just ever be happy for me? Just because I don't look like her or know the things that she knows today, I'm only going to the 7th grade in 2 weeks, so I kind of have time to learn all of that stuff. She would always bad mouth me to my mom and dad too. I never want to say "I'm ugly" or "I'm stupid" again. I can't even go a week without being sad. Because of her.

Question: How to stop my mom from gossiping about me and my siblings?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 10:05 AM PDT

So my mom for years has apparently had a hard time telling what kind of information is okay to tell. One of my siblings became depressed and to just some random person at her church I've never seen her talk to, she told them all about it. She is almost 18 too, so she shouldn't be treated like that. Also, she told them about some very painful stuff in our families life (I won't tell what, because this type of thing comes back easily) and she told. Even if they are close friends, you shouldn't tell people a person's private things, especially when that isn't what defines them.

Question: My mom threw out my computer.?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 09:40 AM PDT

My mom threw out my pc as punishment for not talking to my brother even though I talked to him mid week and last week. Theyre both so annoying also before u call me spoiled I bought my pc with birthday money it was 120$ and it was 10 years old had no problems I used it to play csgo and such. What should I do? I played online because she wouldn't put me into sports. I wanna leave her she so annoying. She always says I don't do anything which I do and She constantly complains I'm so triggered writing this doesn't help she got married recently and have to live with my step sister and step dad both of which are lazy *****.

Question: Dealing with an angry sibling? Tips?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 09:06 AM PDT

A friend of mine (21f) and her sis (18f) never seem to see eye to eye. My friend's sister is literally a bundle of negativity, she's yelling and cursing 24/7, won't accept any advice, frequently lashes out at her other siblings, and exhibits heavy symptoms of a narcissistic personality. My friend is tired of always trying to calm her down but having it backfire, or even when she gives her what she wants in hopes of having her cool down, she lashes out even more. She refuses to go to therapy, and my friend and her family have accepted this but what I wanna know is, are there any tricks in psychology or a specific behavior pattern that my friend can adopt to not let her sister's negativity get to her? other than removing herself from the room of course, as the negativity is too much to handle whenever they interact.

Question: What to do about my mom?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 08:28 AM PDT

I currenty live on my own and my parents live down the street but the thing is they never visit and they only text. Whenever anything comes up like i need advice on my car or something broke in the apartment - they dont want to offer any advice and they wont respond to texts knowing you might need help. I never ask for any money just advice but they dont want to offer it. One time i had to go to the hospital and they told me to take myself. If there is no emergencies - my mom will text like we are great friends, But its always about what she bought or her vacation. I am starting to get sick of it but i dont know what to do for them to get to the point that its sort of rude. What would you do in my situation? Am i just overreacting?

Question: My brother was a felon, a druggy, a womanizer, and a scum. However, he has gotten his life together. How do I know for sure he has changed?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 08:21 AM PDT

I want to forgive him but I want to know first he has changed.

Question: Example of family stability goal?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 08:06 AM PDT

Question: Do you think conversion therapy could help my lesbian daughter? Is there any medication?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 07:59 AM PDT

I just learned my 16 year old daughter is a lesbian and I am not okay with her decision. I would do anything so she can be normal again.

Question: My mom doesn t buy me anything useful?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 07:37 AM PDT

My mom is glad to buy me the new Xbox or new shoes but I dont want that stuff. We dont have any food in the house and we have to walk everywhere because we dont have a car. She s not poor she makes more than enough money each week to buy me and my sister non important things. And when I try to tell her to save her money and buy food or a car she yells at me. She says "I m the mom your the daughter not the other way around. Your too spoiled and you let it get to your head" and a bunch of other horrible things

Question: Do I need to owe my brother back for this thing?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 06:54 AM PDT

So last Saturday our power went out because of a storm. we had nothing else to do. so my brother and step brother went to the gas station to get candy and drinks. He asked me if I wanted anything and I said I didn't. 15 minutes later they came back and they brought me a mountain dew that I didn't ask for. now my brother says I owe him $1.89 when I didn't want anything. Yes I did drink the mountain dew but I didn't ask for it. to this day he still says I owe him. Do you think I owe him or do you think I should give him $1.89 for a mountain dew I didn't ask for?

Question: My uncle is an alcoholic and my mom is keeping it secret is this OK?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 06:08 AM PDT

He is in rehab right now. My mom gossips about everybody except her blood family she keeps their things a secret when all she does is gossip about her children's in laws or even my stepfather's family. He is in rehab but still being mean to his wife.

Question: My Mom is always cutting my Dad down to me (they are divorced). How would I respond in a way that gets her to stop but doesn't escalate it?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 06:07 AM PDT

Question: My sister is a mean 24 year old bully. Do adult bullies ever change like child bullies or should I just discount her as a sibling anymore?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 06:02 AM PDT

Question: What to do for my aunt on her birthday she just lost her son i wanna do something special any ideas?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 05:29 AM PDT

My 18 year old cousin was murdered 2 months ago he was saving a women and her child from an abusive husband when he was shot in the head. My aunt is still very broken up over this because he was her only child her birthday is on friday and I've been saving money for the past month i have 800 dollars saved i wanna do something very nice for her and my parents are giving me an extra 400 dollars so 1200$ any ideas of what i can do for her? I want to spend the whole 1200$ on her because i feel very sad for her i am 16 so something that will be enjoyable for the both of us thank you

Question: A relative that I didn't like has died. Am I a bad person for not being as upset as I should be?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 05:01 AM PDT

A relative of mine has died recently, we didn't have the best relationship and we did not speak too much but we were close when I was a child. Over the years as I got older she looked down on my mum and I, she could be very rude and hurtful, the sort of person you have to watch what you say when you're around them. I've lost other relatives and been really upset and cried, with one in paticular, but with her I'm struggling as she hurt us so much, maybe because she had more money, I don't know. I feel sad for her children and partner, but I don't feel upset myself. Does that make me a bad person?

Question: Just need to know does it sound if my sister wants or is trying for another baby or no and I'm just paranoid? Pls read?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 04:43 AM PDT

My sister that's 42 and her husband with her 3 kids ages 18 to 6/8 and our sick father live with me. For right now I'm the one holding everything together working etc., now for some reason my sister keeps the box of condoms in our hallway closet upstairs. One day I drop the box when getting something and they fell, I remember putting 9 condoms back in the box and I've notice for sometime the box hasn't been touch and I went to look today and there's still 9 condoms. The thing that freaks me out is that it's obvious they're having sex, my sister is open to me and I know she isn't on any birth controls out all in pills or implants etc. I heard her daughter a few months ago said to her please no more kids after the youngest hit her in the eye and I heard my sister say what are you crazy. She always tells her oldest you're going to have 5 kids "soon" sometimes she says in a joking way, recently she has been funny at times sounding like she's ok with another one YET at the same time it sounds like she is done for good. In past she has said she's done, she has a herina and she gets scared, she take cares of her kids and she feel if she's going crazy sometimes.... right now personal stuff has been going on and it isn't the time to bring any of this up and I'm not trying to be nosy it's just when you live in s small house with your family and you notice stuff and you're the only one supporting the family (her husband works) but I'm the main one doing everything there's just to much.

Question: What is the best way to contact Child support Agency (CSA) in UK?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 03:54 AM PDT

Question: Any ideas on how to make my mom happy?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 03:39 AM PDT

I'm 25 year old female. I come from a broken home. And I am the type to run away from problems. When my family is having a crazy argument I just hide in my room. I tend to just walk away and not face anything. When I see someone I love crying I go away because I can't bare to see it. I am barely starting to realize that my mom is so alone and I feel terrible that I haven't been there for her. My father use to abuse her. They still live together but just do not speak anymore at all. My sister verbally abuses her. I am the only one that hasn't done anything bad to my mother but I feel horrible about not being there for her. I was too busy soaking in my own problems. I should have been there for my mom. I am nice to her I give her a hug when she comes home. I eat with her. but I feel she deserves so much more. I noticed I don't spend much time with her. Any ideas in where I can take her out or how to make her feel special.

Question: I hate my mother in law?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 01:06 AM PDT

She is a very toxic person. She is very rude to me and my mom. She is sarcastic and a bully but when people return her favours she plays the victim. When I was really ill and was admitted to the hospital, my husband asked her if she could take care of our baby so we could rest and she said no. Because she has been so terrible we didn't come visit her very often. She complained about us to her mom - my husband's grandmom and had the grandmom call my husband many times to tell him how sad his mom has been and that she was crying. I feel like she is just trying to make us feel guilty for not coming over to visit her. Crocodile tears. I just don't want to see her at all but I feel like if I don't, she will only complain about us more to everyone else in my husband's family and makes them hate me. What should I do please?

Question: I cursed at my mom?

Posted: 29 Aug 2017 12:09 AM PDT

My mom and I had a huge fight (not physically) and I lost my sh*t and just yelled "F*CK YOU" at my mom. After the fight I did apologize to her but I still feel so bad for saying that because I realize how rude and a brat I was being. Help?? I just feel so bad I can't stop thinking about it despite apologizing.

Question: Can children hate?Or are they raised to do so?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 11:45 PM PDT

Question: Wills in mo?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 11:15 PM PDT

hello so my mom passed away serveral years ago and my dad recently. they made a join will years ago ..but my dad hand wrote a new one shortly after my mom passed since my sister basicly bailed on us ,wanted nothing to do with my dad unless she needed something.now I took care of both my mom and my dad .he left a Harley bike and trike to me and the house soley in the second will .but we didn't know how to file it correctly or witness we though I could so I did. so courts don't want to use that one.they want to use the old one in wich still the bike goes to me but the house goes to both and it was before he got the trike ... what am I to do now. its kinda bullshit that she bailed on the family yet still get rewarded for doing so.i got more than enough witness to back me up on everything what do I do this is in Missouri by the way

Question: Should Your Mother Be Like This at 18?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 10:35 PM PDT

Hi, i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been dating for about a year now. His mom still insists that she picks him up from every party even though he can just uber (if he's been drinking). He has his licence obviously but sometimes she would rather drive him places. He has to ask permission to leave the house, he's not allowed to have sleepovers at his friends houses. His mom is really sweet so its hard to tell if theres something odd going on, his older brother is in college and basically spent his senior year inside a room playing video games and never saw friends and now is struggling to adapt without his mother in college, his 2 oldest brothers i don't know much about. Is this behaviour normal? Should she be treating him like he's 10 when he's 18? What can he do to fix it. It is also really affecting my attraction towards him and i can't explain why? My brother is my boyfriends age and he gets his school work done, plays football and then hangs out with his friends and girlfriend. He never had to ask my parents and sometimes won't come home the entire weekend but never gets in any bad situations (keep in mind my parents are australian and we have a really laid back parenting culture) so thats all i can compare it too.

Question: Is it fair for a father to only be allowed to spend time with his child only at the child's mother's home?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 10:10 PM PDT

The child's mother will not allow the dad to spend time with his child outside of her home, she will not allow him to go pick the kid up and bring the kid over to his house

Question: Why does it seem like people get more sad about their cat or dog dying rather than their human family member?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 09:47 PM PDT

This is why I've debated buying pets when I get a place of my own. Because it's like when they die, it's so sad and heartbreaking losing a cat or dog after so long of having it. Especially the way I felt after loosing that car I had for the first 14 years of my life who passed in 07. Anyone?

Question: Why is my sister always copying me?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 09:29 PM PDT

My older sister is always copying me and it's getting really annoying. Like, I would show her pics of my boyfriend and she would try to pose like him in pictures (its obvious). I told her he was a nerd and she tries to read to get herself smarter and started playing video games and watching anime. She also started calling herself a nerd. I hinted that he watches GOT and now shes gotten into it. She doesn't know him but tries to copy him? wtf. Also, if I get my hair tied up a certain way, or get a certain piece of clothing, i'd find one from her that's similar a few days after.

Question: How can hemolytiv auto immune disease get cleared?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 08:57 PM PDT

Question: My friends mom was being extremely rude to me?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 08:51 PM PDT

Ok so my friends mom asked me if I was ready for school to start and of course I don t want to go back so I say no cuz I really enjoyed my summer. She started yelling at me saying I wouldn t go anywhere with me not wanting to go back and she told me I spent two months on vacation and me not going back shows I m stupid. I m in all honors courses including AP courses, I was simply just saying I wouldn t want to go back and be overloaded with work. She then said I shouldn t be friends with her daughter and stormed out of the house? She has no humor at all and that was so rude. Thoughts?

Question: My dad doesn't care about me?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 08:09 PM PDT

As a little girl, I got everything I wanted. I was daddy little girl and I lived in my own fairytale. As I grew older, I started realizing how my dad would treat my mom. He never showed compassion towards her, he never asked her how her day was at work, he would aways yell at her if his food wasn't ready (my mom was really scared of him), he's possessive and extremely jealous over any guy that speaks to my mom. He talks bad about my mother to his friends, has threatened her, and has cheated twice. A couple months back, my parents finally got a divorced because my mother couldn't take it anymore and I would have to be there for her. My dad has a horrible attitude and because of that no one in my family likes him or is scared of him. He's abused two dogs in my life just because he's been stressed or they do something wrong. I always gave my dad a chance to change, I been such a good daughter to him, get good grades, attend a university, I work two jobs, and I'm always home. I have four siblings who used him for his money and took away a lot, a lot of money he has worked for. Sometimes my dad would give me attitude for no reason, and make me feel bad. I even told him I felt like committing suicide at some point because of all the trouble he would cause at home. I almost dropped out of college but decided not too. idk what to do anymore, because honestly I feel like i never really had a father. he's just there for financial needs.

Question: I hate my family so much?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 07:05 PM PDT

I hate them. They've never abused me or bullied me but I hate them. They don't listen to me. At all. And then complain I don't speak to them about anything. Like it's there fault, theyve made me feel ashamed about how I felt on certain things but then yell at me for not communicating to them. Like i take pills for my depression and I tell them this pill isn't working at all, and is making me super anxious and they don't ****** listen to me because it's only been 3 weeks. **** you. They always tell me to say if this pill is working or not and I say it on like 3 different pills and then they don't listen. Like I don't care,, I like making them upset now because they deserve it. They let my brother and step-sister be disgusting pigs until I do it. But it's okay for my step-sister because she doesn't clean after herself but they do it for her. because since her illness is psychical it's valid and there but when I get unstable and violent and manic it's me being annoying and behaving badly. I'm so angry. How am I supposed to speak to them?? They never listen. Even when my therapist or anyone tells them how I feel they basically dismiss it. Even when I finally speak to them they ignore it even if I'm persistent??? How am I supposed to talk to them??? Please help me???

Question: Do you think it was wrong I yelled at my sister for being depressed all the time?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 07:04 PM PDT

I just think she needs to grow up

Question: Why does my mother do this?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 06:04 PM PDT

I'm not going to lie and I'm going to be honest: I hate my mother. I'm not going to explain why (trust me I have good reasons), because that's a whole different story. I don't think I could explain it to myself. Anyways, my mom is always a b**** to me. I ask her politely if she could at least try and clean our extremely messy house and she refuses and insists that I clean it. Before you know it, we're in a full blown fight where she tells me she doesn't consider me as her daughter and I'm yelling that I wish she was dead. We had that fight today. Then later at night I can hear her crying in her room. That's when I suddenly start feeling guilty. You know, I try being nicer to her and stop telling her that I wish she was dead and stuff. Oh and then suddenly, she's being the old selfish and self centered person she always is and I start being extra mean to her to make sure I hurt her. And it's a cycle. It happens every single freaking day and I'm so sick of it. You think she's cleaning up the house for her family but then you find out that she's doing it for her friends who are coming over. You think she's changed when she really hasn't. Why does my mom start fights with me, when she knows that it's going to hurt her later on? Call me stupid if you need to because maybe "she was caught up in the moment" or "she was too angry" or something. I don't love her anymore. She's hurt me way too many times. She's lost my trust. We may be blood related but she is not my mom. You don't know my mother. You don't know how she's treated me. She's said worst to me. I actually do try to clean our 3 floor house but it goes back to being messy. I'm sorry P.L. I know you're trying to help but you absolutely don't have any idea who my mom is. It's not unusual for ME to cry after an argument with my mother. I think she owes my family an apology.

Question: Am I being selfish?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 05:58 PM PDT

I wanted to go to a fall out boy concert, and I asked my parents if I could go.They said I had to work for the money towards it. I was fine with it, and started doing it. I brought it up to my sister and she said she would bring me and pay for it.Brought up to my parents,, apparently they bought tickets and we're gonna surprise me for my birthday but the downside is that they are beinging my step-sister because they felt bad because she likes them so 4 people are going.this makes me angry because I was excited to go with my sister because we barely do anything together and I had the fob concert planned basically. Also fob means everything, and to just bring my step-sister ruins it more. I barely have fun doing anything with my step-sister because she goes against everything people say, everything has to be her way and she flips out if you don't listen. it's ******* horrible. She's spoiled. And I don't have a good relationship with her in my viewpoint. Also my parents ruined it entirely. It was gonna be my first fob concert, and now I don't want to even go because im already anxious and four people are going and my ******* family's basically going and I wanted to go with my sister. I don't want to be rude but I just don't want to go anymore.The magic or whatever is ruined. I feel like **** because I don't want to go.I was excited for it before my parents took it in there own hands.please are my feelings valid? Or am I being spoiled and selfish?

Question: My Mom's 2nd cousin got drunk, crashed a car, and killed someone. He served 4 years in jail for it. Does this make Mom from a dysfunctional.?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 05:51 PM PDT

Does this make Mom from a dysfunctional family? An alcoholic family? It was her 2nd cousin so not a close family member and I have only met the fool once. kobe: Tell that to my stupid mother

Question: My sister is like the devil. She is bossy, bully-like, insulting, rude, and all about her. She is disliked by everyone on the family. How...?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 05:50 PM PDT

How do I handle being around her when I have to see her like holidays? I saw her tonight and I wanted to punch her ******* teeth out but obviously I would never ever do that. Ty----she won';t go to church, that is another sign of how bad she is. I don't literally mean she is satan, I just mean an all around bad person who has no excuse. No bad childhood, no mental illness (unless narcissism counts), no developmental problems, etc....... My Mom always uses her period as an excuse but she can't always be on her period.

Question: My Mom still lives with her mom?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 05:34 PM PDT

My mom has been living with my grandma her ENTIRE life. She still asks her for money, advice, etc. and acts like a child. My Grandma still treats her like a child aswell and gets worried about her if she comes home late at night or something. It is the most unhealthy and pathetic relationship I have ever witnessed. My Dad had to divorce my mom because her mom was always around and meddling with their relationship. My Grandma and mom have NO friends, only eachother. Every single one of my moms friends were my Grandmas friends too and they would always hang out together... My Grandma has been financially supporting my Mom for her entire life and my Mom is basically still a child... What is wrong with them?

Question: Parents found out i vape?

Posted: 28 Aug 2017 05:28 PM PDT

Today my parents found out i vape and now they are probably mad at me and theres nothing they can do. Im 19 and a senior in high school so they cant really say anthing to me, but face the fact i do since im always stressed from school, work and sports and its really the only thing i can do to get over stress. Like come on im a grown man i can do what i want. Also I moved into my grandpas house in june now they want me to move back and i told them no im not moving back and then brought up evidence i do vape from e juice bottles i have and now i feel like moving into a friends house if they force me to move back. Since they know i do it now i feel like stopping communications with them, because i really dont want to move back since i have problems with my brothers and parents that was the reason i moved to my grandpas. I dont know what to do if they have me move back it will be a big argument and whatever happens im not doing it or ill jist move into a good friends house. me and my friend been planning to move in a apartment for a year also join the military because we both have the same reasons to move out, but we still have a whole year of school. Im also getting really pissed off about the fact that my mom came in my room and nosing around my stuff like wtf! Right now im just driving around because i know they will try to talk to me at my grandpas and i really dont want to hear the bs.