So my boyfriend has a daughter the same age as me (20) and we recently had a daughter together  (2M). Before that my boyfriend was dating someone same age as me & my stepdaughter seem to be fine with that. It's not that she doesn't like me it's just that when she talks to me she says that she is jealous of the family we're creating & that she didn't accept my daughter but on the other hand with my boyfriend she will portray herself as being concerned about our baby and it makes me look like I'm crazy. She is so clingy being the same age as me i see myself being more independent even if I'm not actually working. She will ask her father to give her money to go party when she has a good salary and nothing to actually pay. It bothers me that if I say something about her (not even in a bad way) my boyfriend will get aggressive and tell me not to mention the name of his daughter. I know they are close but entering this relationship I thought she was more mature, and as long as there relationship towards each other remains the same I don't think I can be happy. Should I leave? He won't even try to understand where I'm coming from. She doesn't live with him and I stay at my parents house for the moment cause of the new baby.

He's been in touch with me since we broke up over a year ago. I hadn't seen him in months & saturday night I saw him & sunday we went out to the park. He was affectionate like he used to be. He says he wants to see me again, but I don't know when to text him because we're not in a relationship right now. He said he would text me & said we could go see a film next weekend. But I don't know what pace to go at, in terms of talking. Is it better to keep it minimal?

And if you try to say something or actually engage they look at you funny.

What the heck is the pecking order?

Why would a guy who people say is happily married would say to someone else all the terrible things about his wife. also she would post on fb funny little things they do together. This happened to me. he complained she always spent to much money, she gained to much weight, he didn't like mentioning her around me and if he did he seemed disgusted by it. People knew he liked me too and told me. Lately he comments on things she posts but to me its more like a friend post. People tell me that he will always be a cheating person. We haven't seen each other since Thanksgiving. he hasn't made any advances except when he told me he would see me around and where he liked to hang out. I haven't done anything. I looked back on his fb page way before he met me and it was all about how he admired his wife and his kids. After he met me he never mentioned her and hated mentioning her but loved mentioning his kids. we did like each other but nothing happened so that's my question why would he Now he is also a church going guy but never mentioned it to me and never mentioned his church life. I honestly think his wife is behind a lot of the reason he doesn't come into where we used to work together anymore. He came in one day and avoided me, and only said hi to a few people then left in aeon the phone like he shouldn't have been there. Then one day his wife came in alone as well and glared at m. Now all over fb he's been acting differently and acting like to doting husband.

to date his best friend shawn, shawn stopped hanging out with him when he got into heroin but he told my uncle about it and was planning on coming around recently when my cousin got out of rehab when shawn got home from vacation it was too late and hes been calling himself a shitty friend, he has been in hysterics, there was a bonfire held at my cousins after the funeral and shawn was a drunk mess that night i had a dream where i felt like it was a visitation from my cousin he was talking so peaceful and calm and the dream felt euphoric, my cousin was talking to me and kept saying shawn is a good person, shawn is a good person and would shake his head in disbeief that shawn loved him so much and he had a huge smile, i was really tired and was fading out of the dream and my cousin looked at my in a really godly/ powerful way. with a really serious face and said be with shawn. trust me. be with him, be with him and he seemed frustrated bc the message he wanted to convey was getting blurry as i was getting deeper in my sleep so he kept saying it over and over.... am i crazy or could this have been a visitation???

Like why did this because a "thing" in the media that men love to mock women for? I'm not saying that in a complaining way. I'm just curious.

I was at best buy waiting in the mobile department and some young mom had her baby there and it was crying that loud, forced sounding full on cry. This went on for 15 minutes and I muttered to my wife " I wish that baby would shut the F up" I didn't realize the mom heard me and she goes off on me about how babies are precious, and how I am selfish cuz I don't have any kids, and how unfair it is that she has to be a single mother. I said stop right there lady, you made a CHOICE to have that kid. Theres always contraception or abortion. The look on her face was shocked. she packed up her stuff and left. I just don't get why me saying to my wife the baby needs to shut the f up was such a big deal. I mean, I do hate babies but whats wrong with hating babies

By the way he was married with his fat ugly wife and his little children

When your family always hangs with people who are like vegeta in character (see dragon ball z), and you want to avoid them but cannot get away from them how do you manage to survive when they're around?

Its been more than 10 years. sometimes i didnt know if i liked him, I was a young teen and he was older. He use to forcibly kiss me sometimes and soon we ended things. Last night i had a dream i was sitting next to him in a car full of people, suddenly he tries to get his hands in my pants. I did not like it and i was embarrassed others would hear me struggling to stop him.

In 2012, my fiance and I had started renting this old yellow creepy 3 bedroom house with the plans of moving into something better once we made more $. I'm 2014 my fiance started making great $, so I thought it would be a great time for us to find a new home but he had started making arrangements to buy the house that we were currently in.I was hurt that he made such a huge decision without me!He knew how I felt about that house in general and it was in a horrible school for our son to start school in.We argued to the point we didn't get along anymore. So,I cheated (which was wrong) & things had gotten worser btw us. We tried to work things out but he was hurt about the cheating,he stop respecting me. I had gotten pregnant w/ our second child and I just had enough of taking the emotional disconnection punishment along w/ ugly verbal fights. In 2016,I and tge kids moved out the homr into a nice apartment which was located in a better school district. Since I moved out we been co parenting and still doing the relationship thing but the oddness between us is still there. My lease is up and can't afford this place anymore,I'm homeschooling because our son needs individualized teaching to catch up, our daughter is turning one and our son misses him. He is offering for us to come back to the old house to be a family but I will be so unhappy. The house reminds me of all the ugly fights and the fact he still bought the house despite my feelings. What to do?

I'm getting a speaker from a technology store tomorrow, but I don't want my parents to find out. I might keep the speaker for the remainder of the school year, but once the year ends, and I bring the speaker home, what do I do? I want to listen to music through these speakers, but I can't without them finding out. Is anyone willing to help? I'm getting a speaker from a technology store tomorrow, but I don't want my parents to find out. I might keep the speaker in my locker for the remainder of the school year, but once the year ends, and I bring the speaker home, what do I do? I want to listen to music through these speakers at home, but I can't without my parents finding out. Is anyone willing to help?

I was so into this girl and had a great time being out with her. She was on t by the park so I decided to go meet her. I drove a good 45 min to see her. As soon as I saw her she was ending a phone call with someone. We started to walk together then she tells me that a friend of hers was supposed to meet her here because he hurt his ankle and needed some prescription Motrin. He called her back and she said she was walking in his direction so we looked in that area what he said he would be and he wasn't there. So her and I were gonna get some food and all of a sudden we see him there by the restaurant. This guy looked like he was on crack. He seemed to think he was gonna sit down and wr with us. She gave him the Motrin and then said listen we can't all eat together here. I got turned off and her and I just left the restaurant. She apologized to me for the awkward situation and said she never saw him looking all strung out like that and felt bad that I had to see that. So I said to her that I hope that wasn't an ex and she was like no way that's crazy. He's just a friemd but now she's gonna cut him off after that whole scene. I'm a little turned off by her now because of they type of people she's choosing to help and hang out with and I feel very disrespected by her like she had no regard that I was coming to spend time with her. I have no time for nonsense and people who don't have their sht together.

My dad and stepmom are getting a divorce, which I am happy about. I hate my step mom because she is verbally abusive and steals my dads money. But anyways, they are breaking up, but since they told us kids that they are separating, I have heard them having sex at least 4 times.... It is really disturbing me and I have no idea what to do. Does this mean they aren t splitting up? I asked my dad today and he said they were, but I can literally hear them right now. What s going on?

The only reason I know is because our friend told me. They don't want me to say anything because they don't want my partner to be mad at them.

He's a "southern gentleman" and I'm a southern woman that grew up being told to get out on the tractor with the boys, cut down trees, carry the logs and stack them and I spent more time outdoors building forts and climbing trees than being the well mannered girl I guess he thinks I should be. I'm young at 22 years old and not just that but I was taught to always respect my elders, but when a man tells me to move aside because I'll "hurt my lady parts" it takes everything in me not to say something about it. And when I'm busy doing something and he tells me "oh it's okay hun, I've got it." And then calls over his 12 year old son to help lift something three times his size I get pretty pissed off. I know in his house he makes the money and his wife cooks and cleans and good for them if that's what works, but I have a job and when I come to visit and he expects me to take his dishes for him and clean up in the kitchen with his wife while him and his two sons go shoot guns I can't help but dissapoint him and go outside with them. No matter how many times I insist I am capable of doing things on my own or even with my boyfriend of 3 years telling him to stop and let me do what I want the man still is set in his ways and I'm not sure what to do about it.

So she used to be my baby sitter and I guess I've always had a thing for her but it peaked once I became a teenager. I'm almost 18 and she's 37 but I really want her to give me a chance. I think she's gorgeous. I love her curves and Latina accent. I remember having my arm around her waist and her telling me she liked it. I'm sure she's caught me checking her out a few times but she's hard to resist. I don't mean to sound misogynistic but I just want a shot. I went to her apartment last month and we took a picture of me kissing her on the cheek and she's got this big smile she said I should kiss her which is why I did it. We also went to the beach and I was awestruck when I saw her in a one piece. I'm not sure how to go about getting more physical with her

One of my close friends threw a trunk party and he feels a way about me not attending. The party happened yesterday and coming at me about not going to his party yesterday. He made a facebook post about the party on friday saying he is throwing a trunk party inbox him for the location and information. I inboxed him on friday asking him about the location, he didnt respond or text back, so I had no idea where the party was. How do I show up to a party if i dont know where its located. How are you going to get mad at me about something when you failed to follow up. I did my part in the situation, i tried to be there for him. I used facebook messenger and it said that he read the message. I dont understand people, then im always in the wrong. What is wrong with my friend?

I am 24 years old. I Live with my Mom.Right now I am I dont have a Job and I drop out of college.I help My Mom by cleaning and taking care of The dogs.Each week I sweep and mop the house.everyday i take out the dogs for a walk and it's three times a day.I am trying to get a job but nobody would hire me.

So I had a friend who had a trunk party, he posted on facebook saying that he is having a trunk party inbox him for the location of the trunk parry. So inboxed him on facebook messenger and asked him where will his party be located. He read the message but didnt respond. So I coukdnt attend the party cuz i didnt know where it was. The party was yesterday and today hes inboxing me bitching at me for not showing up to the party. How do i show up to a party and i dont know where it is. I felt like I did my part in the situation, I lowkey thought he didnt want me at the party but he has an issue with me not showing up. I dont understand him at all. In another situation one of my other friends isnt talking to me at all. I text him and he isnt texting back at all. I went through a lot of rough times this summer and i vented to him, but now some positive things have happened and im trying to talk to him and hangout with him, I really dont understand people or how they think. I feel like i should just drop them i got good things coming up in my life and I dont have time for peoples stupidity.

two i can't help because they are at least a hundred miles away the other two i probably could visit but the graveyard is massive and i haven't been there in 20 years

Just because they look good

I want to make someone some type of gift that could be a token of positive "blessings" - good luck, protection, etc. Now I know that you can't necessarily prevent life things from happening, so I know this isn't going to be some "magic charm" that suddenly makes my loved one invincible. I just want to do this to show them that I do love them, care for them, etc. So as far as spiritual stuff is concerned, what would be some really good things to include for love, luck and protection? I would like the total size of the item to remain relatively small. I would ideally like for the person to be able to carry this with them everywhere they go if they choose to do so. Something that can be carried on them in a pocket, wallet, etc. (without getting lost) would be PERFECT! If anyone can help offer some item suggestions to include and maybe what kind of thing I should create with them (I do have a couple ideas, but I'm open to others)... I would be very appreciative! Also, the person getting it would be a MALE... so don't say a charm bracelet or something of that nature. Thank you so much in advance! I am also open to "spirit guide" things as far as protection goes. I know everyone has their own special angels and guides to help them, look over them, etc., but are there are universal symbols that could stand for protection and stuff? Is there a way to "bless" the item before you give it to the person so that it "starts working" immediately? I just want to radiate a lot of positivity, love, protection, etc.