Do you hang up the phone if they don't stop? They don't ever let you talk and yell all the time.

To make a long story short I been with my husband for 15 years through out this time he treated my like straight crap. He never come home after work which leads me to believe he was cheating. When he did he come home drunk and beat me . I couldn't drive he took advantage of that. For years things just went on like that. Well I remember everytime he beat or verbally abuse me I cry I remember telling him in the end you'll be the one crying. Well this is where I ask was I wrong so after the 15 years of getting treated like crap I went back to school graduated learned to drive got a job I meet a guy at work and I fell hard for him. Months before even meeting the guy I was done fed up I kept telling my husband to leave that I felt nothing for him I told him I was no longer happy and I hadn't been in years that there was no love left at all that with every punch he beat it out of me I had so much anger and hatered for the way he treated me all those years that when I saw I could do better for myself I just wanted him out my life meeting the guy made me even want my husband out my life even more but he wouldn't go no matter how many times I told him tried to explain so I went on with the relationship with the other guy while my husband was still there he finally moved out found about the guy after he moved out so was I wrong was I cheating I did try to end it for months but he wouldn't listen

My soon to be ex married 9+ year got his side chick pregnant left me for her while I was pregnant. Than decide to damage house so could not sell. I let him leave and file for divorce. He is asking to claim kids on taxes he was asking for some money from house, and see kids only few hours each week. 1. Am I crazy to say no you left it all or is that being petty

A friend come to me saying he is getting a divorce. Its the 4th time that one of my friends is getting a divorce, they share the same story: before they have children, they were lovebirds, once the children came the husband was not cared as much, the romance for him move aside, now she focus more on the care of the children, her love is for the kids, not for him, he needs love, she deny it, maybe because she is tired after taking care of the kids, need some sleep, don't have time to take care of herself that much, attending the kids is more important than her husband, the husband resent it, cheat on the wife and/or looks for divorce. I understand that it may be biological, romance is there to motivate us to reproduce, which is the main purpose of life, to continue existing by reproduction, once the objective is done, there is no biological need for romance, biology increase the love for the children to help them grow. if you have survived the post-romance era after the children are born, how do you manage to keep your marriage together?

Money house claim kids on taxes. Like you left and do the bare min on top of distroy the house so I could not sell. Lied more etc 1. Does karma really work 2. Am I crazy or is he

My n*gga was looking at this girl like he was already calculating child support. He said her p*ssy was wife AF. How much is child support anyway?

I'm Black, my girlfriend of 4 years is White and I'm considering proposing to her because I love her. However her family greets me with fake smiles and uncomfortable eyes and my family keeps pushing me to stick with my own kind. If these are the problems we face now, I'd just like some idea of what the future might hold for us if we decide to settle down with children.

Husband got so drunk he grabbed another women s *** in front of me. He is really sorry but I m not feeling it anymore. He just got caught in February calling another woman he considered a friend, baby, mami, and other pet names for girlfriend or wife. He spent the night at her house several times without my knowledge. He was suppose to give up contact but I just found out through Snapchat they were back in communication. He s just a liar and doesn t understand why I can t trust him. Am I wrong for feeling defeated?

I feel really bad. I had a terrible day at work and I started yelling at him for everything I could yell at him for. I told him that I'd be better off without him and that he bothers me 24/7. None of that is true. He said I'm sorry you feel that way and now he's ignoring me. I feel terrible and I don't wanna him to look for a divorce. What should I do

I feel like the worst person ever but my husband and I have been having some real issues lately and I've been really depressed. I feel unloved. His brother came by to drop off some food his wife made. I thought about cheating on my husband. Nothing happened he dropped off the food we talked in the kitchen then he left. I feel awful that the thought went through my mind. Does this make me a terrible wife to have had these thoughts?

In general, i think that the housewife would want sex a lot more than a working wife!

She makes about $30,000 a year. Let's say I make$75,000 a year. She pays for her makeup and phone bill, but she refuses to help pay for rent/mortgage, food, restaurants, and appliances.

and found a letter in the mailbox from a coroner from the state my ex was living in. They had no next of kin and needed information so I called and gave them the names of his siblings. I haven't seen him in 19 years and spoke to him during a divorce by proxy 17 years ago. We were engaged 2 years, lived together for 4, and separated fro two before the divorce. So I'd lived with him for 5 years only. He was a horrible alcoholic, secret cocaine user, and refused to go to AA even though I attended Al-Anon regularly for most of the marriage. He went to one marriage counselling session with me where I learned he used cocaine regularly, but only by the counselor's suspicion - the evidence, which he didn't want to admit to - surfaced later. Every day, including our wedding, with him was dramatic. Paying for alcoholc and neglecting the rent, quitting work or getting fired, cheating on me apparently, with prostitutes despite my appetite for sex, threatening suicide, and being generally obnoxious to me in public, lying at first that he wanted children with me, and then admitting he was infertile 2 years into the marriage. It was a rocky, unstable lifestyle.. I was working full time, going to school part time, and running 7 miles a day. We rarely went out together with our friends, but we did spend a lot of time together at home. His mother was abusive and I think he actually deep down hated women. I felt guilty when I left him but no longer in love for 2 years before. So...finding out that he committed suicide is really depressing, and I feel guilty that I couldn't him help years before even though I had him sent to a county hospital once for trying. They sent him home sooner than the 72 they're supposed to keep people like that because he said he didn't intend to kill himself but was instead "trying to manipulate" me because I was finally going to leave him, go back to our home state, and I had the plane ticket and my bags packed. I feel guilty because I'm not upset or grieving in the "right" way. But if I DID grieve that way, I'd feel like I was somehow 'betraying' my husband. My husband now is nothing like him, and unlike my first childless marriage, we have kids together and we've been together for 19 years all told. Out of all my past lovers, no one compares to the husband I have now, but my now-husband always seems - and with this news- seems a little jealous. He has no idea the hell this guy put me through, the sadness I feel for my ex as a person. I was never really in true love with my ex, but I loved him like any friend, rotten or not, that you're close to. It's just such a super weird sensation. I've lost people very close to me, and know that kind of grieving. This is just weird. I was really hoping and praying the last couple years that my ex had gotten clean and sober finally, that he'd married someone right for him, moved on to a happier life, and got right with God. Out of all the nasty stuff he did to me or was to himself, I pitied him because he was abused growing up. But the real reason I finally threw in the towel was because he admitted he'd been atheist all along, and that to me spelled impossibility for ever getting better. I'm a Christian. I stuck to my marriage vows to the point he was making me a sickly person, I was dragging down with him. Can anyone relate? Though I left him so long ago, I feel somehow responsible for his further downward spiral. He didn't want me to go. But he couldn't stop what he was doing. Or wouldn't. However you look at it.

For example, to help your mother or father or someone who is very close to you and needed some money...

My aunt hasn't been happy for almost her whole marriage with her husband for the past 14 years. They both cannot do anything to be happy again with each other and now is divorce is what she wants. However, my aunt wants to stay for her kids' sake. However, is this the right thing to do? I dont think this is healthy for her and her happiness. But what abt the kids? Should they stay for them?? Please list out reasons y she shouldnt stay for them. I want to encourage her to divorce her husband

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now and are very happy. When we were dating I had no idea how affectionate his mother was towards him. Anyways the last 3 months or so I've noticed how incredibly close my MIL is to my husband. Anytime we go to the movies the three of us or four of us (my MIL's husband) she's holding my husbands hand. Sometimes she holds his hand w/ both hands & will also kiss him on the cheek.. rub her hands through his hair, rub his knee, leg and just be all over him. I'm sitting there holding his hand too but I feel like it's a joke. Sometimes I'm so mad that I don't even hold his hand. Anytime we're anywhere she insists on him sitting in the middle and holds his hand. He tells her to stop after it's been a few mins. He also jokes about her needing to stop touching him so much but he never addresses it! I've told him multiple times how it makes me feel. He basically tells me every time to "get over it." He tells me how his mother is just a very affectionate person and is this way with anyone. (Granted she's like this with her other son, but her other son isn't married either!) It makes me feel like I'm competing for him and makes me very jealous / uncomfortable. I implied one time that it's super creepy and he got very disgusted at me implying it's like a romance. I get that she had a messed up childhood and needs and craves affection. But do you think this is normal? Thanks.

I use to cheat. My husband knew that before we got married but he said he didn't care about my past but I think he secretly had issues with it. He is always mistrusting of my motives or intentions. E.g if I say am out with friends he accuses me of cheating or going out with a man or he would locks me in the house and hide my car key & forbids me to go places. This causes me to feel trapped and I planned to leave so many times. It therefore happens one night he said he left but instead didn't leave but hid outside and saw me texting a guy who proceeded to sent me x-rated pictures of himself without my permission before I could erase them my husband stormed in, grabbed the phone and raised his hand to punched me in the face but instead thew me in a furniture and grabbed me by the neck with his hand raised accusing me of cheating. I thought how was gonna hurt me so I screamed for help and after further fights eventually got away and decided the marriage was over. But he was all sorry, calling me 62 times a day or more until eventually I moved back home but still a little scared of course although he promised not to hurt me again. But how can I be certain? I have now met a guy whom I like very much. He is separated and he promised me a place to live if I wanted out (not with him though) I want to be free but this is a marriage, how can I just leave. We don't share a child but both have outside kids... What should I do?

If you hooked up with one of your friend's gf/wife with neither you or them knowing who the other person was (it was dark) is that cheating? It was an accident.

Now settled with a provider guy after enjoying every sex acts with others n now decided to concentrate on materialistic things which only a provider type guy can provide? If this is true then whats the reason they do so i.e give maximum to the non committer n minimum to the committer.?

Wife went to a bachelorette party over the weekend, came back in the wee hours of the morning (no big deal) but i noticed she wasnt wearing panties and she left with some on. She claims she spilled alcohol in her lap and had to toss them or walk around with vodka soaked panties.

Backstory- My husband and I had our first child 8 months ago and I ve been a stay-at-home mom since he was born. When my husband and I argued, he would always bring up the fact that he s the only source of income for our family. That really got to me. I decided to get into handmaking items and turned out to be very good at it! I ve started selling them online, and it took off! I made around $400 in one order, and I thought that would make him happy. But I m not so sure what he wants. He s been acting like he s mad that I m doing this and he s made snyde comments in arguments stating "all you ever talk about is your handmade items" "all you care about is your handmade items" "just go do your handmaking items". I m confused. At first I thought I wasn t making enough time for him or neglecting him so I tried to spend more time with him but in his free time he only wants to play video games. He s an avid gamer with a 2 terabyte external hard drive and at least 50 games. He spends all his free time playing video games. I use to collect handbags before my son was born and my husband had said once "all you care about is your purses" and I stopped collecting handbags when my son was born and I had other finances to focus on and that statement made me feel guilty. So I compared the two incidents and the way I see it: he seems to get angry when I have any sort of passion or interest. He s being quite a hypocrite because of the fact that he plays video games 24/7 and can t be bothered.

My marriage has become meaningless... We married young for survival and sex, but now the marriage has lost its purpose and I'm sad. Let me explain: At 19, immediately after meeting my wife we had lots of sex like some young adult couples do; but I had no idea she was *NOT* on birth control. After she moved in I found out I got her pregnant. Desperate for cash, I had to support my son and my wife on a working class wage... At 22, after buying our first house and finally getting married, we had $33k in debt because of our poor choices, so we decided to bankrupt because Bush was changing the bankruptcy laws and it was the last year to get all debt wiped away with only a credit report blemish... At 25, we bought our second house during the housing market crash because we couldn't afford the 1st one. The 1st one went to foreclosure immediately after with little consequence to us... At 28, I lost my working class job. I became chronic depressed for 3 years before I could return to work... Basically, most of my 16 years with my wife (I'm 35 now) has been chaotic and a struggle to survive. And the sex life died after I got depressed... But for the last 4 years, after ditching all of our friends and being dual income, we are able to survive easily and have "enough" to live comfortably. While that brings my wife peace of mind, it's got me on edge. The marriage exists but its original purpose is gone, and we haven't evolved to give the marriage new purpose yet. What do we do?

I have to see my ex almost everyday I pick up my son she works at his daycare would it look bad if I had some one else pick him up so I didn't have to see her as much I feel like I see her in person way to often than I'd like to.

I feel like my husband does all the work except for when I'm preforming oral sex and when I do end up on top I don't move as fast as he does because it's a harder kind of movement. He ends up doing some of the work even when I'm on top. Is this normal? Do men like to do all the work? Tips please

i have a small baby.hes always criticizing and finding faults..hes always saying i am a evil person..hes says i should go for prostitution job..whenever he speaks also hes always angry at speaking...he saying im worth to be a prostitute

He and I are the same age, and although we had our differences and issues that led to our divorce, I wish him well. But I can't help but to feel a certain way now that his current wife is not even old enough to vote or purchase tobacco.

Hey guys so I need some advice. My husband blows ALL our money. 1) he has this rule he wants me to get up in the morning and make him breakfast and lunch, otherwise he takes the credit card...when I tell him I work full time too he says he don't care I can still make him lunch and breakfast or he'll just eat breakfast at the gas station and eat out for lunch.... 2) I tried making my own bank account, when he runs out of money he says "I need money for a pack of cigarettes" or "I'm gonna need money for lunch today" when I say no he just digs through my purse and grabs it! 3) He's maxed out over 2,000 dollars in credit cards....he hasn't started making any sort of payment on those in 4 months 4) I got paid Friday, and I said I only have 100 left after I bought food, household essentials, etc....we had 100 to last us 5 days he said I'm gonna need 40 of that 100 I said no if the baby needs formula I can't only have 60 and I'm gonna need gas for my car he says he always figures out new ways to find money....i sat firm on no and he ripped the money out of my hand and said he gets 40 Please help i don't know how to stop his behavior! Now we have no money tell friday!

Most of them are respectful and help him or I out with things but some just cause trouble, stealing things from us, refusing to leave when asked, stressing us all out, I end up being the one kicking them out, I tell the person and my husband the person I don't want the person back over and my husband says he agrees and won't let them over yet a few days later guess who's back with hubby acting like there's nothing wrong with it, do I have a right to be pisses? How should I handle it?

I was in my bedroom, on the phone, and migrated to the office so my husband could get to sleep. After like twenty minutes or so, I ended the call. I went into our bedroom and found my husband masturbating. No big deal. I said sorry for intruding (thought he was asleep because he has work). His response was, "what are you doing in here?!" (as if I had no right to be in our bedroom). And I told him that I was extremely tired and had work tomorrow. He got all angry and said "I don't give a **** what you have to do" and told me to go to the guest room for 15 minutes. I told him to calm down and apologized again. I was annoyed because I was very tired but I ended up grabbing my phone charger and leaving for the guest room anyway. He practically pushed me out the door. He came out of the room and called for me, saying he was done, but I was so tired that I fell asleep. I understand if he was embarrassed but he didn't have to be such a **** about it. He knows I don't mind if he masturbates and I will gladly help him if he needed it. There was no need for him to get so mad :|