I provide the best for my family we took 3k dollar vacation's my kids wear Jordans and designer clothes, my baby mother cheats on me, I'm not respected, I'm the sole provider my BM hasn't worked in the 10 years we been together. But I'm not in a position to move on my kids need me because she has no earthly idea how to care for them or want to she just wants them for the money! What do I do I've prayed and prayed and cried and cried because this is what I prayed to God for a family but I didn't expect this! Smh

I am only 19 but it seems like now days people have babies or move in together at a young age. I'm afraid I will never get married!

I just got a message that my betrothed, the princess of Ireland, had a baby with one of my vassal lords while we were supposed to be married. I want her and the dog she calls a lover executed immediately, but I don't know how. As for the child, is there anyway I can send it into slavery, the dungeons forever or give it a horrible life? Like forcing it to join take vows with the church or make it a front line soldier in my army? I want the fruit of her cheating to suffer for her sins too.

my husband passed away with a massive heart attack while I was in the hospital with a blood clot in my leg. I am truly trying to find a reason to go on but the pain is just to much. I can't eat or sleep I cry all the time and I think about is being with him. I am not afraid of dying at this point I am more afraid of living. I do have children and grand children and some pretty great friends, but I don't want to be a burden to them. I feel so lost and I don't know what to do

I went back to school to finish my degree last year and had attraction/chemistry with a professor. He'd always ask my opinion about the class and we'd talk about life, work, etc in office hours. He'd always look at me with this kind of admiration. Since Ive finished my degree and need a letter of rec., I asked him. Yesterday I went to his office and I was wearing shorts. He looked me up and down and stared at my legs. He is married. Why would he intentionally stare at my legs in front of me?

My mom has been married to my stepfather for almost three years now. My biological father is an alcoholic and was mentally abusive in the sense that he had issues with his anger and called both me and my mom terrible names when he was drunk. I felt extremely isolated and anxious with him around, which was for most of my life. Anyway, my stepfather flies off the handle all the time. He frequently calls my mom stupid and other names that I d rather not repeat. Now, I understand that people in relationships argue, but this seems like something more than typical arguing. It just doesn t seem like a healthy relationship to me. I was wondering if this is a sign of mental or emotional abuse or if it s normal and I m overthinking it. If so, I have no idea how to stop it.

So I only have a ged and spent my 20s depressed with low self esteem working minimum wage. I finally got my act together and signed up for college. What was stopping me always was math. I got pregnant and I let my mom convince me to get an abortion. I was 26 I want to know why I'm still slow at this age. I had the opportunity to move in wirh my boyfriend but since he told me to get an abortion, I did it to spite him. His mom was happy, but to me that wasn't enough to convince me. My told me either stay at her house but have an abortion, or move out and have it somewhrre else. I just want to know why there's so many girls that will do the option of moving in with boyfriend and having it instead of my odd choice of aborting it and staying with my mom. I'm also going to school now so if I do get pregnant in the future, I will have a career. Unlike when I was pregnant and only working minimum wage. Sometimes I think I'm retarded and slower than people my age because I'm already 27 and most have kids and don't live with parents anymore. And I not only chose to not move out, but abort my first pregnancy. Am i retarted?

even husbands who married blonde girl always want another blonde because we are much sexier looking. How could brunettes trust their husbands when they always hit on girls like me at work.

I gave my ex wife a necklace before marriage. It belonged to my great grandmother. Now, I'd like to have it back because she's no longer my wife.

However, I suppose that I have come to love her despite her many flaws such as her colostomy bag and her histrionic personality disorder. Only beta losers marry women 30 and over. Real alphas marry women between the ages of 16 and 20 when they are the most fertile. I feel lucky that I've had a girlfriend for a year now and don't want to risk being single if I break up with her and have no sex at all and no chance to procreate. However, I can't shake this feeling. My friends on $luthate are laughing me and saying that I never stopped being a beta since I am not marrying 20 year old virgin who has youth, virtue, optimal fertility. What should I do? Leave her? Should I go with my heart and marry her or should I be logical and leave her. Its really a big gamble and I need help deciding from experienced married men on here.

I don't understand the concept of alimony. I understand if the woman stayed at home because the man did not let her work. However, if a woman or man earn less than their ex, why is it the duty of the ex to make sure they continue to live the same lifestyle? It makes no sense whatsoever.

I am educated enough to have a job but i want to be a housewife. How to convince my husband to let me be a stay at home? Is it wrong to want to be a housewife?

I lost my orginal wedding band. I ordered a new one for our 18th anniversary. It came in 3 weeks early. I gave it to my husband and told him,when he gave it to me to tell me something special/romantic. Our Anniversary was yesterday, he gave me the ring and said "Happy Anniversary " nothing special/romantic. That's the only thing I asked for and he wouldn't even do that.

My allergies towards cats keep getting worse and they're to the point where my eyes are extremely itchy and water, I can't breathe, I break out in a rash, and I'm just plain miserable. Last time I almost went to the ER because my inhailer wasn't even helping the breathing after 2 hours. I have tried everything and nothing works; we even constantly vacuum up after the dumb cat because he sheds really bad. He refuses to get rid of the cat partially because of the kids but we've talked to them and they understand. We also have other pets too so it's not the end of the world and like I said, they understand and are okay with it. No allergy med helps even ones from the doctor and did I mention this cat doesn't understand the concept of a litter box despite being 10 years old? I want to tell him it's me or the cat and ask how much he loves me if he lets me suffer

They lied about the amount of sex partners in their past. Otherwise they have been a great spouse and life partner. Is this a deal breaker and why would they lie to me about this?

I met a guy who seems really nice and sweet and a good dad. However he's twice divorced, has three kids form two different women, and got divorced both times when his kids were all still very young. He is always at his kids schools events and seems like a great dad. He even goes and eats lunch with his kids at school. He's always putting Facebook photos up of him and his kids doing stuff together. The only concern is his relationships histories, he doesn't seem to work (has a back injury) has a lot of lawsuits against him for money he has owed and not paid and also was arrested once for stalking and domestic violence.(it was a really long time ago) but he seems like such a seeet guy and great dad. He asked me out should I go out with him?

Look I know it's wrong and that it should just stay within my thoughts and I should stay away from the b/f ... I'm just curious to know if anyone else has gone through a similar situation and what did they do or what was the outcome? How did they deal with it? Did the b/f like you back?

My husband started a business with the financial help from his parents. The business is basically owned by them and my husband is more or less just an employee. He has no say in the business whatsoever. I work with him, to help cut costs, and most recently I quit after finding out that my sister in law was getting paid the same as I was, even though I work almost 70+ Hrs/week. I feel betrayed, and taken advantage of by my in laws. We are now closing the business, my MIL was thrilled because she never wanted it, but a few days later she called me to tell me how stressed out she is that they won't have money for their bills after the business closes, something I didn't want to hear about, because I'm dealing with the same stress on my end. I spoke with my husband and he has decided to work multiple jobs to help them financially, he also told them we would live in one of their homes and take over the bills at that property so they wouldn't have to worry about it. They won't be living with us, but my sister in law will. With us going from living in a small apartment to a house, I know the bills will be a lot more, my sister in law won't be working, and it will fall on my husband and I to sustain the house, eventually just my husband once I'm too pregnant to work. Point is, I'm really starting to dislike them, I resent them for all the things that transpired while the business was operating, and now with all the financial stress I feel by my MIL.

Even though we are on the same wave emotionally & intellectually, I still find myself not being strongly physically attracted to her and think that my needs are not entirely met because when I touch her in certain places, she says "it tickles" and turns away or tells me to stop touching these pars of her body. This makes me feel uneasy. So thought about meeting other women through one night stands, etc... with whom I can get only these needs met, and still continue my usual marital relationship with my wife who will fulfill all my other needs as usual. Is this a reasonable plan?

My wife and I have been officially separated for over 7 months now even though she has been wanting to end it for much longer. Our marriage lasted over 16 years just to give an idea of how long it's been. Being alone most of the time besides when my kids are with me is beginning to be too much lately. Would you think that getting out there to start dating would be a good idea?

I look at guys all the time and fantasize about sleeping with them. I have never had a gay relationship and do not really want to, but I can't stop looking at them and wondering what it would be like. Am I weird?

A year ago I found few pictures in my husband's cellphone. He was posing normally with another woman maybe in a hostbar. Then after that I found videos of a woman doing things to him(no sex) another things. Latelly i found pictures of himself naked, I dont know if he sent them or not. Usually he refuses to make sex with me. He enjoys to watch porn, or do things by himself. He rejected me so many times and the times he want I gotta do all the work because he says he is lazy. He is lovely and hugs me a lot, if i kiss him with passion he clean his lips so he likes to kiss me on the lips (like kids) instead. I dont trust him but I love him. He says that he loves me but I really dont know what to think about. I was waiting to be with him for so long and expected another things. I do my best but usually he says im wrong so my self esteem is going sown day by day. He wants a baby, but I dont want it because I am scared if his behavior will be worst. I never cheated, Im always there for him, Im lovely and take care of him and his things very well, I really dont know what is wrong. Sorry it was a long read.

It seems like most women would rather date/marry a guy who just sits on the couch all day and plays video games instead of a man who goes out and provides for his family and takes care of his children and is a good role model and father. A guy who tries to be a good husband to his wife and cares about her deeply and works out to keep in good shape and stays healthy and dresses well and still tries to impress and romance his wife. Instead they just want some slouch of a guy who lives in his man cave and never does anything and ignores her and the kids and smokes cigarettes and gets fat I see it all the time with women my age (mid-late 20's) who would rather date a man child than a real man. Guys who play world of warcraft 12 hours a day, guys who still live with their parents, don't have a drivers license, etc

My wife and I have been married for 8 years. 2 years into marriage, everything was nice. She was caring, loving, and supportive. Something changed within our 3rd year into marriage and I'm not sure what or why. The change started with the occasional "look" she gave me the eyes a lot, but I just shrugged it off. Onto our 4 and half year of marriage, she started to become more verbal, she would say very critical and mean things, to the smallest things such as my driving, and to the biggest things such as my job, friends, and family. Things just got worst from there on. Closing into our 5th year of marriage she started to get physical; she would start throwing things, punching, and kicking me. I would just put my arms up and let it finish. This tantrums usually last about 1-2 mins. Needless to say this has been going on for awhile now. I asked her if she wanted to see a doctor or a psychiatrist, but she always says no. I love my wife, and I don't wan't to see her get hurt, but I'm afraid one day that I might end up saying something that I would regret.