My husband and I paid for our own wedding cheaply. We didn't use a hotel because it was expensive. MIL had a disability and we made sure the venue met her needs. She went from walking to using a scooter during the engagement. We didn't know about the scooter until a month before the wedding. We asked my in laws to visit the venue and they said no. We asked them if the scooter would work on grass and they said yes. They refused to attend the rehearsal and were upset with the venue the day of. They were asking my husband to change venues shortly after the visit. This was two years ago and it is brought up again because they didn't get a say in our wedding. They also felt we didn't keep our promises but I nenes made them any